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[@callumrowley5759]

This... 1000% this... I think this needs to be taken into account by everyone who is within the plant community and it's something that needs to be said!

[@HisameArtwork]

it is amazingly toxic. the things I've seen, just wow, I left all the plant groups I was in.

[@CaptainNutsack]

The plant community/some groups are terrible and scary to be part of. A lot of genuine plant enthusiasts are scared to contribute to groups because of the high school mentality. Nasty snarks hiding behind plant sales xx

[@HisameArtwork]

@@CaptainNutsack meh, mainly I hate the scaming when they try and get your good plants and give you rotten trash then shame you for not doing what they want and admins are just ok with it. Often they'll even kick ppl that refuse to be scammed and keep the trashy ppl.

[@StKezziah]

I think unfortunately it something that takes place in almost all communities and its so sad =(

[@mattmalkie]

I’m so sorry about the hate you’ve been receiving, we really appreciate you speaking the truth and talking out about those who try to spread hate in the community.

[@sunshinesmile94]

Am really enjoying the switch-up of location. Keeps it fresh!

[@mustachadon]

Facebook seems especially poisonous. I have a club of about 250 people and its perfect. Everyone is local and knows each other so there is real life accountability. The anonymity of big facebook breeds hate and discontent.

[@greygirl3168]

One of the reasons why I left FB. I get my plant fix here.

[@Arador76]

Yes, I'm with a group local to me and it's awesome. We give/get advise, have a laugh at our own stupidity and generally enjoy people plants when they wanna show them off. There's just over 1,400 people on the page and I don't think I've ever seen any nastiness towards anyone.... :)

[@AlongfortheThrill]

That's exactly it. If only more people got busted in the mouth for the shit they say online, that'd cut back a good bit on nasty people lol

[@amurphy8278]

Proof that Kaylee Ellen is magic: Wears a white shirt to repot... at the end of the hour the shirt is still white... LOL HOW?!

[@angelmansyndrom]

Shes not working with soil. No soil, no stains.

[@jake6681]

@@angelmansyndrom shhhhhh don’t ruin the magic

[@caitlinj8754]

I'm a pastor, and even some of the clergy fb groups are dumpster fires. It drives me nuts. I'm glad you're naming the meanness of social media. I'm thankful for the work you do, and for always putting out such good content. You're wonderful. 💚

[@ebrunner101]

I’m in a plant group with the lady who bought the syngnium albo that was painted. That was such crap. Everyone in the group was furious right along with her. Who does that?!! I 100% agree that the culture needs to change!

[@teonialino2773]

Ebrunner101 ugh I remember that lady I felt so bad for her. For the seller of the painted syngonium she’ll find her Karma one day.

[@megansmith-uu9si]

It was the syngonium maria with the white paint right?

[@monsteramaven3429]

Chloe here! (One of the admins of Plant Queens) Thank you so much for sharing our group! We are so glad you love our community. 🪴 We work hard to have a fun inclusive and kind space for y’all 💗

[@chloesimard9454]

I will join your group because i’m in need of positive plant content ❤️👸🏼

[@Folker49]

Just joined cause of this video hahaha

[@nadiyaajaffer2815]

Hi! Theres 2 groups on fb that you're admin on (plant queens and plant queens BST) which one is for the uk? ☺🌿

[@user-xs1pt4ce1g]

I love Plant Queens. Very inclusive and positive group

[@user-cx3gf6ur7n]

I stan Kaylee in terms of everything, honestly. Her mindset: super hard working. Her attitude: Realistic and she's really kind. Her smile: adorable. She addresses the important matters that affect the people she care about (including herself of course.) And Kaylee, if you're reading this, sending loads of love ♡. Keep up the good work! XOXO

[@ginabacola8611]

Reddit can be a great place for the plant community. It is smaller and seems very positive and mostly about posting pictures.

[@annegreen3560]

She's obviously never taken a look at the Reddit plant community, it's one of the most wholesome places on the internet

[@captured3834]

I love the houseplant subreddit. So supportive and interesting, I check it out every day.

[@kelseycain3469]

Said a very similar thing. Reddit is the best place for pl ant lovers to just love plants together and support each other. 💖

[@audreya4075]

Yes!! Especially r/plantclinic when I was new to plants I posted probably once a week and never made me feel stupid and genuinely offered me great advice

[@mrsbeard5225]

Yup it’s so wholesome! And people are really considerate and kind when they disagree on a topic or method or pest treatment etc. Instead of throwing shade, the community makes suggestions and are open to hear constructive feedback. It’s changed how I interact with people online.

[@marytandra]

Yesssssss I love these saucy-tell-it-how-it-is repots bebe

[@ayleighkay]

“They’re bleeding... it’s their time...” 👀🤣😭🙈

[@brandykratz561]

When she said that my son's head shot up like what, and said even plants have their time of the month??? Mom does that mean your jungle is going to be like you??? 😭😭😭😭 I'm dying right now.

[@kayla3751]

*Kaylee on the wholesale topic*: “I don’t wanna sound like a dick here...” *Me, an Economics nerd:* “Do it. DO IT. TELL EM WHY THAT DONT MAKE SENSE, SIS. TELL EM WHY THAT’S A RIDICULOUS REQUEST”

[@crzyplantppls]

I was laughing so hard at this portion, because I was also like, "DO IT, THEY NEED TO HEAR IT!"

[@jake6681]

Same like DO IT KAYLEE, COME FOR THEM!

[@thegorgmorg]

So ready for this new wave of toxic plant keepers to lose interests in the hobby. Then maybe it can get back to plant enthusiast just trading/selling to grow each others collections the way it was a few years ago. Try not to let the hate get to you, you're a female entrepreneur absolutely killing it. I'm sure you're inspiring more women to get interested in STEM, which is always a good thing.

[@katetamsyn]

Yes, this last year has been mad for the plant community. I’ve loved houseplants for years and this last 12 months has been so dramatic and expensive!

[@kayla3751]

Agreed, I’m SO tired of the flex culture impeding the community, but I still wish the best for the plant sellers who are genuinely passionate about the trade! Not trying to make a quick buck, just happy to make plants a huge part of their lives.

[@NunyaBitnas2119]

So much yes!!!

[@kelzbelz313]

The absolute balls required to rip off your logo then ask you to help them is astounding.

[@Bananacustardcostuming]

I’m not on any forms of social media (tried it, not my scene at all) so videos like this are so important. I’ve always had basic house plants, but my new home has a sunroom which is making it easier to grow tropicals! I’m sure I’m still making a million mistakes and I’m learning, and trying!

[@melanielpeixoto]

We need a self watering review, how to etc video. Would love to see the types of pots you use with the pon substrate

[@TimosGarden]

8 min in and i allredy have to like the video because of the simple statement: "Don't attack people online, period." nothing to add to that!

[@Tinyburritosnail]

“ I didn’t mean this video to be ranty “ Literally every repot video : Ranty 😂 I looove you being ranty 😂❤️

[@ItsWhateverality]

Just got to the part about the plants group: the youtuber Betsy Begonia has a discord group and everyone there is WONDERFUL! They do not tolerate people putting others down and it really is a lovely community! She puts the link in her video descriptions

[@rachaelnugent]

Was just coming to say that Betsy's discord is a place of goodness 💚

[@rabeak.1449]

thank you very much! :)

[@betsybegonia]

😭 I'm so glad you guys like the Discord. Everyone is welcome. 🤗💚

[@ruehilljewellery925]

@@betsybegonia The one YT channel I'd happily watch again and again. Didn't realise you had a discord group? Is this on FB. Sorry for the ignorance. Will go and discover.

[@lovd888]

@@ruehilljewellery925 discord is an app to have discussions with other people where you can break off into individual channels, or whatever the moderators set it to. it’s a good place to meet like minded people and interact

[@mayagarcia-hector2732]

Watching this later, but popping in now to say that I’ve said this about you on Facebook before: you are a talented and successful and beautiful human being, people are gonna be assholes for literally no other reason than they’re assholes. But you’re hustling and doing ur thing and that’s what’s important

[@laurenmiller9231]

Thank you for being so honest! Also- 'not a very exciting repot'... then proceeds to repot/prop like my whole wishlist hahaha

[@Alizardlovesyou]

i so appreciate your authenticity, courage, and badass personality

[@reyhosein2533]

Kaylee, you can't please everyone, as you would have realized, there's nooooo shortage of jealous fuda muckers and pathetic whiny ppl with nothing better to do, its almost like their deciding what to be offended by next.....keep up the good work deary.

[@laurabodie6794]

Honestly, I am happy to hear Kaylee's been treating herself with a few new bags for all her hard work! She totally deserves it!

[@plantsperiod4462]

It shocks me how many people have gotten into plants lately and I’m kinda just waiting for the hype to die down so I can go back to my normal collecting. The sudden influx of interest has made buying rare or even uncommon plants insanely expensive. I’ve been into plants since a young age, originally outdoor plants since about 6 and I moved to indoor tropicals around 10. Every birthday I would go to local nurseries and Walmart garden centers to find new plants instead of normal gifts. It saddens me to see people get tens or hundreds of plants only to lose interest or do it solely for the attention. I had to drag some dude who said he couldn’t understand why people collected plants if the rare ones would eventually become common. Like bruh that’s the point of plants you’re supposed to grow them and share with others. I’m just gonna trade on Reddit in the meantime :3

[@repulsethemonkey1396]

I dont wanna be like "NO!! MINE!!! GET YOUR OWN HOBBY!" but can some of these people drop off so that prices can stay reasonable? They keep getting more expensive. Either that or they're quickly sold out : / i dont want to sound selfish but its irritating and i know some fellow plant enthusiasts will agree with me on this.

[@NS-pf7jr]

You kinda described me... if only I've been so lucky too go to plant shops at a young age. But yea, for me it's a feeling of "Oh, now you think plants are cool.." I was the nerdy weird kid with the interest in plants and now all of a sudden my love for plants are cool..?! Luckily I've made a career out of it but all that knowledge is sometimes a curse when you see people online doing something wrong and then be so sure about it.. thank god for the garden association I'm part of, there it's me and the older ladies who just genuinely love plants.

[@kelzbelz313]

Keeping your personal life off the channel is a wise choice in my opinion. Parasocial relationships are unhealthy for everybody involved Also, be as liberal as you want with that block button.

[@NakiLovesCinnamon]

Me when you’re saying “what if I’ve got a girlfriend?!” : YES GIRL! so done with this heteronormative world 🌈🌈🌈🌈 And totally respecting your choice of not sharing your private life. You do you 💙

[@LeMAD22]

"YES GIRL! so done with this heteronormative world 🌈🌈🌈🌈" This is kind of a shitty comment honestly. The world isn't heteronormative, it's simply that being hetero is the norm. And before you say it, I don't mean by that that being LGBQT is abnormal. People assume Kaylee is hetero because she most probably is.

[@NakiLovesCinnamon]

@@LeMAD22 well just because most people are heterosexual it doesn’t mean that she is. And frankly, us LGBT+ people are so tired of people assuming we are heterosexual. Stop assuming people’s sexuality. Just ask if they have a partner, this makes us feel included. For me people asking me if I have a boyfriend puts me in a position of either having to come out or lie. I cannot just say yes as if they ask “do you have a partner”.

[@lisareisch1600]

@@LeMAD22 Saying that some marker is the norm based on a probability-distribution doesn't deny the heteronormative-statement. based on the fact that people think it is okay to just assume that everybody falls into the category of the majority (whatever that majority refers to) is what enables people to feel marginalized and deviant from this norm. Being done with the heteronormative norm can just simply mean being done with people not doing the extra-work to respect and include minorities in their first-assumption-pattern thinking

[@rosvokisu]

@@LeMAD22 "being hetero is the norm" is literally the definition of heteronormativity. Whay you don't seem to understand is that heteronormativity is incredibly toxic to gay people in so many ways. Technically yes, more people are straight than gay, but you still shouldn't think that it's ok to just act like everyone is straight until proven otherwise, because it makes us invisible. It's incredibly hurtful to say that, because it also implies that we don't matter and heteronormative thinking is ok just because straight people are the majority. That is othering. Stop othering us.

[@mathilda6763]

@@LeMAD22 you're treating a word that basically means "being hetero is considered the norm" like a swear word...it's not. Please try not to be offended, this is just stating a fact and that it can have an negative impact on minorities. Just as it /can/ have a negative impact on left-handed people to be raised and taught by people that don't accept anything else but right-handed children. There's loads of aspects from looks to hobbies to relationship preferences that can make people different and this normativity can be hurtful if it is forced on people with social sanctions, less opportunities or physical harm. Of course being not average in some way or there existing a norm doesn't mean that everyone experiences the "I am not like them" in the same deepness. A norm can be soft and inviting like "I expect everyone to speak German until they tell me they don't an we can try to work shit out in another language that we both speak" (because the majority does speak atleast a little German here ) or hard as beton like "that person should leave the country if they haven't learned how to speak my language in a few months". It's not an insult that being non-average has an impact, it's a fact. It doesn't have to be a huge life-scarring thing but you sure /notice/ if you're part of a minority. Overall it's nice to be acknowledged as a pretty normal person even if you're part of a minority group. I mean...people could just mind their own business and try to not assume at all, because what other people do in their bedroom shouldn't concern them as long as it safe, sane and consenting but apparently other people's relationship/sexual preference is still a matter of public concern? Which is the point. If a person says you "I don't want to talk with you about certain aspects of my private life" (may it be their relationship status, sexual preferences or medical history ) and people still keep asking, assuming and speculating, that's really intrusive and disrespectful. People shouldn't do that. We should respect their wish for privacy and stay out of their intimate business. Edit for typos.

[@jamiek4421]

Thanks for being so authentic ! 💚

[@emilyrobinson3729]

So many people opening plant shops and 'rare plant shops' - I don't think they will last very long

[@kentuckyroads6053]

Why ?

[@mrsbeard5225]

@@kentuckyroads6053 a flooded market can drive plants to become common rather than rare maybe?

[@bkrbkrl]

There will be an end to the plant craze and it is coming soon. Just like the plant craze in the 70's, it will die and the only ones left behind will be the real plant lovers who will get today's "high end" plants for pennies on the current craze's dollars. Real plant lovers will always love and own plants. At the end of this there will always be a market for the ultra rare plants, though, unless the high end collectors have driven them all into extinction by then.

[@minicat3640]

I can't handle social media, especially for something as deeply personal as my plant collection. I join local plant societies/clubs in person, I find people are much more civil face to face. 🙂

[@alokasiablackmagic3444]

I’ve barely watched your videos but I’m surprised you gain so much hate. As a new person to your channel, maybe, but I don’t see anything wrong in you. You do what you love, you speak out bravely, you look good, so I think other people are just being envy Good luck to you and your plantshop!

[@AllThingsHouseplants]

I needed a long Kaylee Ellen video🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻 thank the lorddddd

[@Imxgen]

for the france, netherlands, germany shipping - you could do a google forms and close responses after a certain length of time?

[@suzyqilplants]

G'day from Down Under. I rarely comment on anything, anywhere, but I've been meaning to address the whole troll thing to you Kaylee each time you call it out. I'm proud of you for doing so and it's refreshing to hear from someone with very similar expectations of peeps behaviour as I have. I'm mid 40's and somehow been stuck in some form of customer service all of my working life. I've also been on the net since it first started so have seen it's evolution. Arse holes are not unique to the internet, they are everywhere, but they are far from the majority. They are just the squeaky wheel that gets the attention by being so appallingly behaved. Most decent people have lives and feel no need to be trying to gain attention, so their presence isn't as obvious. I've learnt so much about peeps bad behaviour over the years, and they still never fail to astonish me, but I can and do handle it much better now. I have so much to advise on this topic, but as I said I'm not usually a commenter, I've already ranted enough. I will say though, that I have learnt that these O2 wasters, really don't matter. They are so unimportant and have much less impact than you may think. The people that are important to you and your business are not them and won't be affected by them. It's very obvious Kaylee, who you are as a person and what you do, and you have nothing to worry about. Stay true and you will continue to have great success. Cheers

[@tatyananazarko3365]

I agree, plants are not a cheap hobby if taken seriously. You wouldn’t go to a car dealership and price shame the Ferrari’s because you have a Fiat budget. Btw I love your honesty, it’s refreshing!

[@bonnieharris8855]

You are a breath of fresh air, Kaylee. I am so glad I found you on youtube. Thanks.

[@aimeewildstone4602]

Much love to you and always I appreciate your honest conversation! I left Facebook because I was tired of all the negativity. I have been enjoying Reddit a lot more - there are lots of good plant threads there.

[@beautybreakdown5346]

Ooh I’m looking forward to the upcoming video about the journey of a plant from grower to home. That’s gonna be super interesting.

[@lynndifer4163]

You put up with so much and I appreciate you being honest about it! The only way to change is to talk about it openly.

[@LisaMarieKaspar]

Idk why but your "Glad you could make it" cheers me up every time. It's so sweet

[@sarahschireman3838]

Yes! it's horrible how fast people jump to assumptions and then attack others online. makes it really hard for people to open up and share online for fear of others bullying. so sorry you had to deal with that, but thank you for standing up and facing it head on! appreciate you 💜💜💜

[@ambernicolewolfe]

You tell em girl! I feel like I’m joining a new plant group every day just to see the vibe and most of them quickly take a turn for the worst. So exhausting!! We have a happy little plant group called GingerSprout Plant Fam and it’s my pride and joy 💕 We’re located in the US and I’m a small business in Louisiana with a smaller FB group (only about 2k currently) but we really do pride ourselves on being KIND and WELCOMING. It can be so intimidating for someone new to plants to join these toxic groups and feel attacked for not knowing everything. So, we aim to make EVERYONE feel welcome and get excited to help out and share the love of plants. Kindness matters above everything else. Such a simple, yet apparently very complicated, concept🤦🏼‍♀️ Share positivity and plants, not hate and herpes OKAY?!🤪👩🏻‍🦰🪴

[@orlanodulio3705]

You are one of the most legit youtubers I know. Keep on going we love your honesty :)

[@malika6218]

Love your honesty, it’s so refreshing to listen to someone who doesn’t try to people please 🙏🏼 I live in Germany close to Berlin and would absolutely love to get one of the packages, not only to hopefully have a new plant, but also to help you expand your business, I would love to order from your shop in the future!

[@Kieranrice25]

I love your repots they make me smile as I'm listening to what your saying and the next minute you have potted four plants 🪴☺

[@Lela-plants]

I’m a newer subscriber and watching these older videos in random order. I love seeing the progress of the shop and the evolution of Kaylee Ellen. She’s matured over the last few years and become, not calmer, but more comfortable I think. (Not to mention she’s halved the makeup. Lol) Really enjoying the advice and the chats.

[@lisascott947]

Yes! I live in the US and can't wait to buy from you😍💋💚💚

[@theresegutman6931]

Kaylee you do not deserve this kind of hate. It is ridiculous. I love your channel and you are a strong, beautiful person. it is so sad people have to be this way.

[@lisa8a8e]

recently found your videos and I am hooked. I love your no nonsense stance (with the cyber bullying) and I love how "real" you are. this feels like a safe space😇😘

[@lisascott947]

I admire your keeping your private life private 💚You always cheer me up!

[@dominicgarrido9018]

Oh my gosh your face when you said “it’s not good right?... not good at all.” I’m crying I loved that reaction so much

[@janicechongcy]

You are being sincere in sharing what is really going on, a big thumbs up for that! Some do need to wake up from what they are doing in the community. Hope everything goes well for you~ Cheering for you!!

[@brigitteperkins262]

YASSSS. Your videos make my week! Also those people have so many more things to worry about, why waste the time out of their day trying to bring you down!? So not worth it

[@samanthapayne4090]

I do hand cut custom 3d wood signs. I've heard a time or two I charge to much. If someone says you charge to much just tell them, your budget does not determine my prices. If it's out of your budget, look elsewhere. 🤷‍♀️

[@lauriebethea3309]

People are gonna hate on you. You are honest and down to earth. You have others looking forward to hearing what you have to say. Plain and simple, you are successful at what you do, because you love what you do. So keep it up! Love your vids!!!!!

[@user-xg4tx2jn8v]

You’re fantastic and I can’t believe people hate on you. Oh well... their loss. Don’t be ashamed for being yourself bc nothing was given to you... you worked hard and you deserve all the success! 🤩

[@beautywithdani8622]

Awww yay I’m in the Plant Queens group and it definitely is a safe and uplifting space! 💕

[@janequeenii2493]

Kaylee i love your behind the scenes plant shop topics!!

[@issypuddings2644]

It’s on Facebook and run by my friend Lacie - Unicorn Plants UK (Buy/Sell/Trade/Chat). She left other groups due to their exclusivity. This group is inclusive, she’s made it a safe place for sexual assault survivors (can you believe there are plant groups that aren’t safe for them??) and it’s just so positive and kind ❤️

[@InYourLostEyes]

just wanted to say your videos always brighten up my day ☺️

[@mdascoota4293]

Some people expect everything to be for either free or practically nothing and they dont realize that you are a shop and need to make a living, its not a charity. Keep on doing what and how you do it, you are great 👍👍😘

[@SheilaLalaram]

It's definately not just you, so many subject I recognize... The wholesale questions, the price shaming, the tea groups. It takes so much negative energy... Thanks for speaking out!

[@BongSnay007]

Love everyone in this planet. Be safe and healthy!!

[@PlantFriendDownTheStreet]

Anyone who knows what fur coats cost (I.e. thousands of dollars) should know that these days almost no one except the ultra rich are wearing real fur anymore. To assume that someone who is not known to be particularly wealthy is wearing real fur just to harass them is ridiculous. Vintage fur is also becoming a popular way to ethically source fur products and there are some climates where it is literally so cold that real fur and other animal products like eider down are the only things that keep you warm. What if it had been real fur and it was a family heirloom or something? People need to mind their own business. Plus, the other thing that no one talks about is that natural materials like real fur products last far longer than synthetic ones, I.e. why people still inherit hundred plus year old mink stoles and coats and pass them down generation over generation. How many synthetic fiber coats ended up in landfills during that time? I understand people are coming from a place of wanting to be compassionate towards animal suffering and I 100% do not support inhumane fur farming practices, but taking that compassion and using it as an excuse to harass someone who is in all likelihood not wearing real fur is just an excuse to be nasty and it’s ridiculous and I’m so sorry that happened to you, Kaylee.

[@sabrinadeep7154]

you can buy them second hand pretty cheap actually. I think they are horrific cause I have seen the fur industry with my own eyes and yet I have also seen people trade the fur of animals they killed or found for butchering with the first nations people. They are wearing fur and no one cares. Its only if you are affluent that its a problem. The world we live in is very strange!!!!!

[@DieuwertjeSara]

Thats not true. There's many types of cheap fur and many coats with fur lined hoods for example have real fur eventhough most people think they don't. You can buy real cheap ish coats with real fur without knowing. Now those pimp like fur coats that basically look like you're wearing 20 foxes, yes those cost a fortune. Besides that, by wearing faux fur you still popularize wearing fur and this expands the demand for fur, real and fake. Not saying you deserve big amount of anonymous hate for stuff like that, but to people who are very against the fur market this is not "not a big deal" so the anger or offence, while not neccesarily justified, is expected and understandable. It's all based on your norms and values if you find fur a big deal or not

[@andriusplindinas3092]

I own plant shop and i can sooooooo relate to what you said! Because I often cope with theese things to. Don't let bad people ruin your feelings, it's not worthy.

[@cindyvan635]

I did Invisilign for 6 1/2 mos. worked out great, teeth straight. Good luck with yours!🤗❤🍃❤🌱

[@carrietran9951]

I absolutely agree that so many of the Facebook groups are full of toxic behaviour. One that isn’t is Variegated Monstera Lovers - UK. And I’m not just saying that because I’m admin! We are inclusive, supportive and generally don’t stand for bad behaviour and definitely do not allow bullying.

[@HelloJell-OO]

Question. How do you inform someone that they're purchasing an overpriced plant unknowingly without it coming across as price shaming? I'm not for the shaming but I have seen many times when new plant people are overly excited and get plant happy and sometimes purchase a plant (when it's apparent they might not have the knowledge of the general market price for that plant) and end up buying a plant inflated 2.5x. and you want to let them know from an honest place that they are possibly being ripped off? Hope you know what I mean.

[@vietdam2864]

I tend to message people directly, if I can be bothered, when I see things like that. My view is still generally that how others spend their money is up to them, but of course you can't see someone running towards a cliff and not at least giving them the knowledge that they are, so they can make their mind up. Generally though, I think it's more productive to provide people with information beforehand, and to raise community knowledgeability is a better approach than confronting sellers directly. Of course you can do both, but an educated and well informed community won't need you to fight their battles.

[@aniaariadna]

I think you don't because what if they really love the plant they bought and don't really mind the price? Not everything has to be the optimal price. This has not happened to me, but I have seen people fall in love with a specific plant and buy it, even if they could get a cheaper price for maybe a smaller/less high quality plant. Ultimately, it's up to people how they spend their money and which plants they want to get.

[@chloehater8463]

You don't say anything. Depending on region, maybe the buyer got an amazing deal so you're potentially shaming them too and that's just... not cool

[@MissAdra1]

Thank you for trying to make the internet a better place. Love your videos and can’t wait for my fridaydose. Just started a year ago buying plants and I love my living room now filled with green plants. Btw I found your channel through my Norwegian plant group on Facebook and it is a great one 🥰

[@mattdeberry1095]

I really admire how you stand up for yourself and what you think is right! Most people would just take the “criticism “ or ignore it, but you’re absolutely correct that this behavior is not okay!

[@HotMessCarnivore42]

The amount of people in this world with the biggest sense of self entitlement makes me crazy! I'm so glad you don't feel bad telling us how it is. Some of us need our awareness brought up.

[@artandmanga]

Girl!!! Stop being sorry! We LOVEEEEE your rants! Thank you for being real! This is very important, I have left a LOTTTT of plant groups on fb due to nasty behavior and tbh your prices are VERYYYY reasonable. You set the cost because you're the only one that dedicated YOUR TIME and EFFORT to the plant and your plants look HEALTHY. I think last time I checked a four leaf unrooted cutting of monstera albo ran for about $2,500 in USA. Sooo hun... you do you!!! There will always be hate just because you're a successful, smart and beautiful woman that runs a badass business! Please don't stop, you're a role model to young women!

[@GreyGirl999]

An hour long video?? Girl thank you!!! love your outfit today black n white looks dope af👌

[@colinattakai3024]

I always love what you have to bring to the table. I also totally agree with you about people bad mouthing and such. It gets so annoying and getting quite old. Love your videos and your plants, I think your doing great! Bear hugs!

[@janequeenii2493]

Repots and questions with you is the best! More please!💚💐🎉👏🏽

[@simonwoodhouse]

I’m so sorry people hate on you so much, Kaylee. You’re such an awesome person and deserve all your success - keep doing what you’re doing! Love the content, always 😄

[@Jocrooms]

Can we get Kaylee a scoop for soil please? Come on girl, go spend a buck on a scoop before the next designer bag. 🤣 Love you and your videos. Keep telling it like it is!!!

[@aaronqjm265]

It honestly breaks my heart that you have been getting so much hate lately keep your head up queen there are better days ahead

[@jessicaturner9685]

It’s ridiculous how giddy I get for your videos! I love how honest and straight forward you are. The Philodendron Dark Lord is my #1 wishlist plant right now 🤤.

[@MyBookishEmpire]

Kaylee, Your ranty videos are some of my favorites on youtube! I love them because you can tell how much you care for the community you are in, we (collectively) do not deserve that after the hell fire some have put you through. Pricing: anyone can set their own, I agree. If you dont like the price, keep scrolling. Community vitriol: Why are people so mean? I do not understand it. We are literally all here to grow houseplants and learn about their care, or for relaxation. YOU, and everyone else do not deserve the scathing comments. Thank you for being you, just thank you.

[@wildegenius1]

Very impressed that you can talk for one hour nonstop. :D

[@ruehilljewellery925]

I hope you're her dentist?

[@kevinmorataya1869]

@@ruehilljewellery925 lol smh 😂

[@thefibercircus6313]

Love the video. I saw that "albo" syngonium. If I had gotten it all I could have done was laughed at the attempt to make it an albo with paint. It's so sad that prople are getting so scamy and crappy to others.

[@franciscovicente5211]

I legit love how you have a lot more luxuries than most, yet you can still talk about it not sounding like you’re bragging. I.E. when you talked about your bags, but very naturally you touched on how you are new to designer bags. PS, that belt is totally a fit for you! You rock that really well!

[@zarinahsales769]

Yes Kaylee go tell em ! I love how you can head on answer people who spread much hate

[@CRAZYR95]

Giiirl. The painted plant scammer got me too! She sent me an empty box and I was DRAGGED through not only the group I was in (which admin blocked me immediately) but also in a bunch of groups I wasn’t even in. I experienced the full toxicity of the plant community during that time and it honestly made me not want to take part in any more plant groups anymore. I’m still blocked from even that group from the admin and they never apologized to me because they were dragging me also. So I’m totally on your side. I appreciate you calling them out. The drama needs to stop.

[@lwayne9281]

I hate gate keeping but that insta post was infuriating. I hope that all those people were vegan. And to add if any of those people are reading, you have know idea what people are thinking when they make decisions. None. It might have been second hand. Some one deciding to get a fur coat might give up meat for a year to offset their own feelings about it. If someone wants to own a leather or fur anything, it is their personal freedom to do so. And if you think there aren't negative impacts caused around the world by your fashion choices, then you are mistaken. If you would like to learn more you can check out the fashion transparency index. This is put together by a group of "fashion activists" that are trying to grow the conversation about sustainability and employee welfare around the world in the fashion industry.

[@ariel5236]

I don’t see how people can hate on you I just can’t. Like people need to get a grip. You’re literally the sweetest and most genuine planttuber/shop owner I’ve come across. Keep doing you Kaylee ✨🌈 also love this filming set up ☺️!

[@SamGreenslyfox]

I loved this locale switch up. Thank you as always for the quality video xo 💛🌿

[@avalonzukowski7571]

Keep being strong and standing your ground. I love your page/youtube/facebook/Instagram. You are amazing!

[@RiverDarling]

I remember the painted syngonium! What had happened is the seller had sent the buyer two photographs. The zoomed in one of the leaf details was a genuine albo, the larger, establishing photograph of the plant was actually of the painted one.

[@MsSimplyV]

When I was in an office we had a phrase of telephone tough guy! In person, a whole different story. Unfortunately people online feel safe at home being an ass online.

[@desrtangl]

Thank you for addressing price shaming! It drives me crazy! People can ask whatever price they want for a plant. If one doesn't like the price, THEN KEEP SCROLLING!!!

[@nodesandfronds2284]

I agree, the drama and hate is NEVER okay. Sorry for the crap you have to deal with. You do you. ♡ My favorite FB group is a little local one that my sis and I run. Just nothing but planty people helping each other out and fun trades! Yay for no drama!

[@lisascott947]

Super excited for the upcoming informative video about phytos etc!

[@rewdesignz]

Thank you so much for addressing this. I have also been price shamed in facebook plant groups (even though there are rules against that). When someone takes the time to make accusations it does feel like a personal attack, especially when they could just pass if they don't like the price. It's especially bewildering when I know of sellers who have prices 3 times as high and they are not being questioned.

[@blb0708]

I think your transparency and honesty is a breath of fresh air!!

[@sketchuphub]

I felt cringe for the person who attacked you about the faux fur coat. Such an impulsive, over-reaction which did not require idiotic behaviour of that nature. I think we should all start outing these people - they shouldn't have their identity censored - why afford them this courtesy when they're not demonstrating basic acts of civility and consideration in the first place?!

[@ChallonAndrews]

I'm wondering if Kaylee has ever or will ever sell the classic " the rare plant shop" logo tshirts? I absolutely adore them and want to show my support for her ❤

[@coolbeans3099]

The dislikes are from the people that attacked kaylee Ellen 😂 those people are awful

[@cassandravogan1372]

They're telling on themselves