EXCLUSIVE PART TWO: "So Sorry, Mrs. Jackson" | Da'Naia Jackson | Marriage, Infidelity, & Word Curse

"A cheerful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones." Proverbs 17:22
Healing is a beautiful journey activated by the first step, processed through self-reflection, and curated by accountability. Da'Naia's witty humor makes the egregious offenses inflicted upon her palatable. In Part 2, she deep dives into the trauma she experienced in her 5 years of marriage, gives context behind her viral "Helmet of Salvation" video, and the infamous "Curse" video. This episode is titled, "So Sorry, Mrs. Jackson."
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[@DearFutureWifey]

Wanna show DA'NAIA JACKSON love? Let's blow her mind! CashApp $DaNaiaJackson

[@ravenabeamon6879]

This is awesome! Thank you for all you do.

[@AnasaRobin]

Gonna support❤

[@BrownSugarNCurls]

@@ladylonda6803 If you don’t wish to give that’s cool. But you have no idea what her finances look like.

[@coffeewsugarcream2109]

@@BrownSugarNCurls exactly 💯

[@jones2277]

she needs more money?

[@DrEziaku]

Moral of the story; don’t mock a pain you haven’t endured.

[@iemevrywoman1358]

Love this!

[@africanloveletter1988]

Amen

[@CourtneeG]

Is that what you received? I think the moral of the story is we make choices whether good or bad to our future depends on the types of choices we make. Every woman that has gone through this including myself, chose. Choose your growth over emotions

[@FleurRebelle]

Everyone take away from it what they need

[@healingwithzuristarr]

Factssss

[@Luenysgo]

Derrick really kept this woman from finding her husband! I hope that when she heals she gets to experience real love, because lord knows she deserves to know what love is. Edit: Damn y’all really blaming the victim? That’s what we doing now? Someone said “he didn’t keep her from anything, she kept herself from finding love because she threatened to leave and take the baby with her, so he had to ‘step up’ ” So to get this straight you are saying that: Him stopping her from leaving and getting her back with promises of everything she wanted from him, wasn’t him actively getting in her way?

[@fitp74]

That’s so sad. He was never meant for her. She deserved a better man.

[@rachelm.3173]

THIS!

[@missj5564]

He used her for his brand and because he thought she was safe.

[@mrssamuel01]

I hope so too. But no when we dont seek God in who we choose to join too. we get a counterfeit and miss what God had for us. To begin with. He was the counterfeit so was she to his life.

[@QueenMFowler]

I'm not prophesying, but I definitely saw a twinkle in Laterras' eye for her.😊

[@malakeshiasabbath172]

I give this woman all her flowers 💐 for just being so raw and real. She is definitely not alone

[@L4A1D1Y]

This woman WENT THROUGH IT! AND she is STILL HERE! 💯👏🏾

[@mizbsuga]

A lot of people are saying she’s not healed yet. Of course she isn’t. Healing is not linear. It has stages. Peaks and valleys. Good days and bad days. It’s a journey. Starting is the best first step. I wish her the best💜

[@sweetsoul1266]

Facts

[@3DSuccess]

Beautifully stated. It is definitely progressive. She definitely speaks with a level of depth that shows she has definitely begun her healing journey!

[@NetivaHeard]

Thank you! Healing from sexual abuse alone takes years, let alone having a manipulatijg, gas lighting husband who sees your low self esteem/image/worth and feeds off of it

[@elishacannon6613]

She's on course. She appears to be healed from the initial shock! It sounds like she doing the work to start unpacking the other trama that's keep her in the marriage

[@tylynn256]

So true

[@keshasjoyjourney]

I'm in tears... her ex was giving the "tools of success" to women around the world. While tearing his wife down at the same time.

[@christopherreed3019]

PSYCHOPATH...dude is THE DEVIL....

[@hershey307]

That part!

[@QueenMFowler]

Yes, so sad. It's like he r'd her a 2nd time....emotionally.

[@sc3770]

YES, AND HE MISSUSED IT QUEEN. HE DIDNT EVEN GIVE A RAT'S TAIL ABOUT HIS KIDS NOR WHAT THEY WERE GOING THROUGH. SHE DELT WITH DEPRESSTION, HURT DECEPTTION JUST BLANTEN DISREGAURD TO NO ONE EXCEPT HIMSELF. WOW ONLY A POWER GREATER THAN SELF COULD RESTORE HER BACK TO SANITY. THANK YOU FOR YOUR COMMIT AS WELL. GROWING THROUGH A MASSIVE MOMENT IN TIME IS SO COURAGIOUS ON HER PART. IM GIVING HER OR ANY WOMAN OR MAN A STANDING OVATION OF JUST OVER COMING ALL OF IT. JOB WELL DONE QUEENS AND KINGS

[@icemanx5085]

He was lying to yall. KS was telling you the truth about this kind of man and yall hated him.

[@fleekfitcaribbeanhip-hopda3197]

PLEASE UNDERSTAND THIS Ladies👉🏽 A Man wanting to MARRY you 💍 means Nothing…. A Man wanting to be a HUSBAND to you is what Matters!…. Stop 🛑 worrying about being “Chose” and start paying attention to WHY he’s choosing you, and make certain the why isn’t self-serving and superficial and benefiting mainly him!

[@_Renee2]

Amen

[@starronyoutube]

Amen! ❤

[@doivs1979]

Amen 🙏🏽 🙌🏾

[@allisoncomrie1330]

100%

[@AngelTrinity]

This woman is pretty, smart, funny and she's putting her business out here for us to learn and heal. We're not supposed to stand in judgement we need to hear and apply what she's saying. This was so powerful.❤

[@ChicStrands]

Can we all gather together to give this Woman the warmest hugs!🥹🥹🥹🥹 God got your back queen! Trust!!!!!!!!!!!!!💛

[@bettycarmella1127]

Amen❤️❤️

[@izzyaghedo8123]

Amen! By the Grace of God allow her to healed by the Holy spirit

[@raas7479]

Amen🙏🏾❤️

[@lashane1009]

Da’Naia’s story is more common than some may want to admit. I appreciate her acknowledgement of being a participant in this relationship. Self awareness and healing is important work to do prior to selecting a long term partner so that you attract a better relationship.

[@felicema1936]

Exactly ❤

[@MsPrissyShamire]

Amen 🙏🏾

[@qlg8574]

Yes, so true!! I definitely have no problem identifying with Da-naia know we have had similar experiences.

[@3DSuccess]

Yes, a lot more common than most admit

[@crimsonskyy1]

And equally less common bc most aren’t being criticized by 4m+ people. Glad she is speaking and healing

[@AmeriLoca]

This man lost a really good woman. She supported his dreams and was the groundwork for his empire. Not just in work but in the home. Da’naia is a special woman. Her beauty exudes from the inside out. She is someone I would definitely want in my circle of friends. She is hilarious and appears to be a genuinely nice person. God bless you and your children. Focus on you. This platform she has spoken on could be her new purpose in life to help and heal women that have been through like experiences. I feel she is very important and needed in our society. Thank you for being you.

[@married2dsouth]

It's going to be Da'Naia Jackson, and we going to ge like, Derrick who? Oh yeah. That cheating ass man, she ended up healing and helping others from.

[@smellmybush]

And for that I hope she takes him to the cleaners

[@kbeautician]

He did what dust unicorn wizards do.

[@vacationmeplease]

Da'naia personality is so beautiful.

[@KarlaBedminister]

@@smellmybush She has a similar story to daína, an artist and creative in England who recently began sharing her own story of serial cheating and forgiveness.

[@ep41390]

The fact that she’s the actual catch and probably always has been of the two of them lol. I pray she’s blessed triple times over for what she’s experienced. ❤

[@ZeeKeeisme]

Right. Her spirit is beautiful. To God be the glory!!

[@angelicagabrieli7169]

Amen and Amen!

[@godsdaughter9771]

He lost a real GEM behind the spirit of lust. I cant wait to see the blessings God is about to pore down on her. ❤

[@sarastevenson9592]

This!!!!

[@sharlonlewis7279]

Amen!!! Her story was so familiar… and I honestly came out on the other side with God’s blessing pouring down on me… I pray the same for her!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@f.k.a1010]

not really. they weren't compatible and both of them have major issues they need to resolve before being in a relationship.

[@kmk42howard1]

lol I’m sorry for every joke I made about this lady 😂 she’s hilarious and a real one And took ACCOUNTABILITY for every part she had a hand in

[@ReadyorNot811]

​@@f.k.a1010 exactly

[@lisakambouris8304]

It took Derrick asking for and filing for a divorce to get her free of him. Sometimes God will remove us from situations that we're not strong enough to remove ourselves from. I wish her and her children all the healing, all the blessings and all the love.

[@samuisun6684]

she would have kept her kids in that mess forever, they were both wrong. For sure she was being a freak for this deviant man.

[@cherieshepherd3491]

He definitely did her a favor and lost he lost his favor

[@msts3325]

​@samuisun66 , she wasn't a freak for him...she lost herself in trying to be a wife to him.

[@brooklyndecember]

Yall will twist religion to rationalize anything.

[@deemunson2919]

​@Tasha Sallie yeah, by being a freak for him.

[@thall3348]

This woman has a LIFETIME movie❤

[@Trish590]

Her testimony left me speechless. This woman has so much strength, grace and intellect. If I went through half of what she went through I would have ended up on snapped. Praying for her continued growth, success and prosperity.

[@MsEMccray]

Sis, what keeps you from Snapped is when God shows you your children ❤

[@spitfirestake54]

Me too, sis!

[@shaliboyd3417]

Him asking for a divorce is the best thing he could have done for you. I know it may not seem like it right now. But sometimes rejection is the best protection ❤ #teamdenaia God got you!!

[@TheIslandBelle]

Yep, because she may have never gathered the strength to walk away from that situation.

[@megamoneyk]

The love bombing stopped when I said I want a real commitment. He knew i would not tolefaye cheating. If he married me I would have gone crazy. He would not change. I thought it was just one woman. It was many many. It's hard to give up the fight when you put so much into it. However, God kept telling me I desrve better. He really had my mind. Manipulative as heck. I was so confused. I still pray tonot get ensnared again. They However, they never really leave.

[@brooklyndecember]

Based on this interview... she seems exhausting! He's a cad.

[@virtuouswoman03]

So true I learned that rejection it’s a win and for the betterment sometimes

[@zakila2cute]

Speak that truth!

[@yervue9426]

I apologize for ever thinking this woman was mad… she is so relatable and likable. I hope she continues to grow and glow.

[@hotfriedgriyoandpeeklees1522]

I think she is mad

[@BriaBarrows]

I think she was off in that period

[@lynniebunting9035]

To be fair she was probably mad at some point but I mean do you blame her? Her husband is a piece of shit who used influence and power to make a mockery of their union and covenant. 😩he broke this poor lady spirit and unfortunately this is what happens when you idol worship (putting him first) as opposed to The most high 🤌🏾

[@bellaapple2166]

​@@hotfriedgriyoandpeeklees1522 Yes well a lot of trauma will cause someone to go mad.

[@Boahemaa]

She's better now but she still has some healing to do.

[@divinely_designed_living]

I’m sure he never thought she’d come out and speak her truth. So happy for her! 🎉

[@chocolatemint9225]

I think a lot of the laughing is that she is realizing how ridiculous the situation was and how we justify the craziness to where it makes sense to us. I think we can all relate to thinking stupid thoughts in our younger years and hopefully we’ve outgrown some things

[@jusjus7203]

That part! Thank you Lord for turning lessons into blessings ❤

[@iTsSisi_]

Can we acknowledge how witty and fun she seems!! I love her personality, how she talks, how she analyses things, she seems spontaneous, warm and good company. I’m so glad she’s out of there

[@adeola08]

This!! She is so easy to listen to

[@jerzeygirl1972]

I second that... yes! He didn't deserve her heart, and her spirit

[@clove8220]

@@adeola08 Truly 💜💜💜💜💜

[@ChooseU4ever]

She really is.. I wasn't expecting that. I love her.

[@gracegeorge7285]

She’s a smart woman! ❤

[@tyiingram9878]

To every black women reading this: I love you, I see you, I honor you and cover you. I send healing energy to mead your broken hearts and peace of mind. I shower you with all my love light energy. This Brother loves you with everything in me ❤❤️❤️

[@urfav.taylor121]

This comment should have waaaaayyy more likes. Thank you!❤🙏🏾

[@gianelogan9841]

Thank you

[@ernstpierre7021]

i see what u doing my boy😂😂😂 u aint shit aint they gon fal for it so go on playa

[@dreamezzey]

🙏

[@crystaldiamond3256]

🙏🙏🙏

[@raventhissel]

I love that she didn’t make it about him, she spoke about herself.

[@vlbrown5789]

She has personality and quick wit. I'm sorry she went through this, but telling such a tragic personal story through humor is a gift. I'm glad she's on the HEALING side of her story.

[@carlabowers1648]

She just inspired me to have a very uncomfortable but honest conversation! I’m so grateful for her transparency.

[@anniec7449]

❤❤❤

[@sunnylamine]

❣️❣️ I hope you realize all of the Power you demonstrated in this statement. #ultimateflex

[@InfiniteLoveLaToya_]

Amen!!! She just blessed & liberated a whole bunch of women in this season.

[@newlife624]

😢 my past... thank u for sharing

[@carlabowers1648]

Yes 🙌 … it’s time to speak 🗣️ with confidence, and removing fear from my most important conversations. Thriving in clarity from this day forward

[@clioessang]

On behalf of all the WOMEN that ridiculed you , all the men that looked at you crazy , and everyone who generally judged you , sneered at you and laughed at you while you were “going through “ , I beg your forgiveness . The lord will continually uphold you with His right hand of salvation as you walk through the different stages of healing that He”ll take you through . Keep walking sis .

[@crespeakslife]

❤❤❤

[@jwil1899]

❤❤❤

[@lemoners7753]

❤❤❤❤❤

[@Melanated483]

I understand people should not have judged her but it was ALL misdirected anger and projection from her when she was spewing curses online at strangers…. As a Christian, God has been telling her to LEAVE him prior to even getting Married… She keeps calling on God, but the DEMON WAS HER HUSBAND. BUT she has a LONG WAY TO BE FULLY HEALED. There’s A LOT OF DOWN LOW in the CLOSET Men in the Black Church ⛪️ and she’ll SOON be a victim of a Pastor (Passa) Man in the Suit as his beard or being USED for her Essence and Glory and the cycle continues because she is NOT HEALED. She is TOO MALE CENTERED & MALE IDENTIFIED for constant validation. She’s ALSO jealous of her own daughters in which she adultifies her own daughter referencing her skin tone preference of husband’s mistress; and KEEP DIRECTING Biblical Cursed and Hexes on strangers online, and keeps BLAMING her husband’s Mistresses instead of her own Husband (Derrick Jaxn) who was the DEMON in her story. 🤷🏾‍♀️ This woman is psychologically dangerous and still WANTS HER DERRICK JAXN and still CENTERING MALE VALIDATION over her own Self Love and Healing. Practice Self Love & Self Preservation OUTSIDE of Men… and MEN WILL RESPECT ✊🏿 YOU MORE…. She’s keeps blaming demons on her Daughters…. It’s a hot mess and it’s psychological too, but I’m no clinician so what do I know. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@ashleysmith8569]

Bcuz I can admit I was one of them. Now I see she is me and I am her. I pray for her heart to heal and the love she deserves finds her

[@Shawnmico1]

This was such an abusive relationship on so many levels! Physically (not wanting his wife) emotionally, mentally I’ve heard of some cruel men but this is beyond me. So good to see her coming into herself.

[@kenarose5984]

And I wouldn’t be surprised if there was some actual physical abuse.

[@obaqueen6705]

I am going through my storm now, and in this moment her story is helping me on my journey to healing and recovering.

[@chinadoll7951]

I hope and pray you find your way out. I know it’s hard!

[@unbotheredinsomemanyways8248]

Hey, I’m in da same boat w/ u.

[@ladyjayderam]

🙏🏾

[@jacifrankie9893]

Blessings and healing to you

[@muzimajoy5617]

You've got this sis

[@CharisMaggieTV]

I feel like Derrick not only tried to keep her a secret cuz he wanted to continue his relations but also cuz sis is charismatic and could have stolen his spotlight cuz I couldn’t get through any of his videos but I sat and listen to her speak not cuz of the details she’s giving but she has a positive energy. And sis funny!

[@nadiamcn5796]

I agree 💯. Da'naia you are are Prov 31 embodied. He had honor because of you but he is a fool also based on proverbs.

[@powerfulwoman5619]

So true

[@jocelyngipson197]

🎯

[@kennethrevels6385]

Funny thing is, if he would of embraced it, he would have made more of a real impact instead of scamming people.

[@cb4664]

Poise, intelligence, humor, wisdom, the Holy Spirit? Here for it all!

[@MissAki1]

Black women made this guy famous and rich. I hope they support her the way they've supported him. I've been following her on IG ever since she went viral. It's been a treat. May she be blessed and may God give her joy for all the pain she has endured. May her enemies scatter!

[@mizz2ts86]

Same sis! I was always sad with her/for her and grew to love her on her platform. She has blessed my soul on numerous occasions. I’m soooo happy God showed up and showed out in her life. My heart is literally smiling for her ❤️🙌🏽😍🙏🏾

[@JustbeingCB]

What's her IG?

[@elementbluevip4770]

The thirsty women who are still supporting him will listen to this and still keep supporting him while blaming her for why he kept cheating on her. It's a shame.

[@kahlia5365]

@Element Blue VIP Yes it's sad. I stopped following him right before the cheating scandal, but after I unsubscribed from other male relationship gurus cause the trust was gone after finding out about him. He was so convincing I was looking at myself, wondering how I didn't see it

[@elementbluevip4770]

@@kahlia5365 after watching a few of his videos a few years before this scandal, I stopped because even though what he was saying sounded good, something in me just knew he was pandering. Something about him just didn't sit well with me. But remember, everyone has issues in their relationships, so NO ONE is a relationship expert. Just watch those videos for entertainment purposes only while working on becoming the best version of yourself. Work on making yourself and God proud of you.

[@skywatchersdreams]

Thing I like about her is that she is humble and holds her self accountable for her parts in the problem.

[@nunyabusiness3516]

She owned everything

[@jeralinsunflower7300]

@@nunyabusiness3516same. ❤️

[@carolinagirlinafloridaworl5844]

When she said, "They had her even though I carried her." Whew!!! That hurt on a deeper level😢 I'm so grateful for her healing journey. She has overcome so much. Keep moving forward, Queen. 💚

[@ShantrellYoung]

The gag is, I think SHE was the one meant to have an audience to inspire others. NOT her Husband. Derrick needs to turn in his badge so she can have it LOL

[@evolvewithmonettellc]

That part! ❤

[@elanecak.6151]

‼️

[@JMikelle27]

She became stronger in her religion/ her walk with God, bc that man was breaking her. I have found a new respect for her. Her vulnerability speaks volumes. She's not holding nothing back. 👏🏾👏🏾

[@All12rounds]

Exactly! She’s a giant for this courage 💎

[@snooty4180]

And most of all, she is being accountable for her role which imo makes her a bright light with helping to heal others living subconsciously.

[@ladyc3095]

She married a cheater and thought he was going to change. Both of’em need help

[@ItsMissChas5]

Her discernment grew exponentially too! ❤

[@nadine8764]

She became stronger in her relationship with God, it's not religion, it's faith ❤

[@shaquellchandler3514]

I KNOW THIS IS ABOUT DA’NAIA BUT CAN I JUST SAY WHAT AN AMAZING MAN HE IS FOR COVERING THIS WOMAN ‼️ BECAUSE HE KNEW THE TROLLS WOULD TRY TO ATTACK HER! Congratulations future Wifey I believe this man is going to Cover you because of his heart ❤️

[@gregorymorris4693]

" I dont wanna intimate with you for 2 months so u can heal"....AKA i need to let the antibiotics kick in 😂😂😂😂

[@TiffanyNicholeCatley]

It's sis taking personal accountability throughout this interview even though she was operating out of brokenness and being traumatized repeatedly for YEARS! My GOD! I pray for protection and continued deliverance. 🙏🏾

[@Skwigal]

That's TRUE healing! And I love that for her🎉

[@SholzTV]

right! Learning so much from her.

[@gogoldiego]

Yeeesssssss

[@lanisehunter]

Her experience taught me to never judge what another woman is going through. I see her completely different than I did before and I'm sorry for my judgment. I could be her my daughters can be her any one of us could be her.

[@r.p832]

I wept so much😢 knowing I was one of them now who had made a mockery of her bonnet situation. Not knowing this woman was going through the storm, a storm I my self had been through.

[@lanisehunter]

@@r.p832 I felt so bad. Knowing she was going thru all that and I'm sitting around laughing and making jokes. She might not have heard me but God did and karma has everybody's address. I been thru some things myself I know how embarrassed I was and everybody wasn't watching it still hurt. When u know better u do better.

[@cb4664]

Same. I just prayed for forgiveness. We all should. I should have known better. Never again.

[@BeautyNBrains86]

​@@r.p832 At least we as humans can always learn & grow. That woman was truly holding on by a thread that day when she had on the bonnet. You just never know what ppl are going through. I remember when ppl were laughing at Chadwick's appearance & had no idea he had cancer. Jesus. 🙏🏾

[@evettecastello4567]

Agreed

[@emnstuff]

Infidelity destroys you. When I found out my boyfriend had been going out of his way to click Instagram links and look at naked pictures of women, I went out of my way to look those things up to see what I was missing. It's a horribly unhealthy thing to do and it only tortures you more, and your self esteem drops flat to the floor.

[@canwejustloveeachother2550]

Sending you love❤❤❤

[@doivs1979]

🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@tinasad3]

It’s so interesting how prominent JESUS and the Bible is in the black community yet when someone who’s struggling clings to it and vocalizes it, that same community calls her crazy. Highlights the hypocrisy.

[@TiannaUncommon]

💯

[@Nitra813]

It’s very interesting because the Bible speaks on this very thing.

[@AkilahsWorld]

Yup

[@parishers6351]

Did you see the black blogs that posted her at her worst and got dragged her for her looks by their followers ? Her mother was the spiritual leader behind her breaking free. Prayer works. So it’s safe to say God was at work.

[@ajourneytoessence2166]

Girl yesssss you have just said a mouthful! Remember however that even the Bible says “Not all those saying to me Lord Lord will enter into the kingdom “

[@laporshaa6682]

Dear black women, If you take anything away from this (In the words of Cynthia G), remember to have standards, boundaries and expectations! That is all.

[@kmariamv]

THIS

[@Daddyboy948]

Bed wench mamma all man do this

[@Daddyboy948]

All black men be careful not all black womkkk are friends

[@miwawilliams1339]

Also... work on you *first*

[@keleciasimpson774]

CoSigned✊

[@solaceloveme]

I cried several times watching this because i went through something sooooo similar. I have felt how she felt, i have sat and cried, and i have even experienced the physical abuse aspect of it!!! I have been single for 4 years now. I am so content!! I am HAPPY! I laugh at him STILL coming for me, but QUEEN, i just wanna say it gets better! You're fabulous! You're doing exactly what it takes, don't give up!!!!

[@starbright2683]

Reading your comment enlightened some things for me. Thank you.💚

[@solaceloveme]

@@starbright2683 you're welcome🤍

[@MsEMccray]

Same sis, I'm sorry 😢😢😢

[@solaceloveme]

@MsEMccray Thank yooou! 💜💜

[@kristiehenson3]

When he said that you have to redefine words when dealing with people like this - I felt that.

[@Babziboo]

Let's be clear, Derrick preyed on this woman. He saw her shy and awkwardly demeanor and he pounced. He love bombed her. Then he devalued her and triangulated her with other women. He shelved her and then finally discarded her for good when he was exposed. He is a predator and an awful human being.

[@oatmealbrownie09]

Yup

[@karimahreign]

And there’s the summation!!! Facts!!!

[@LifeIsNotorious]

Boom

[@trishlawrence7412]

exactly, so when the interviewer asked her if he was honest about wanting to be with other women would she have stayed.. I believe so.. because she was under Derrick's spell..

[@dataodokpa5431]

Okay, his snickering is slowly getting difficult to enjoy this. At first, it was cool cause she’s a humorous individual, but when it got to the serious parts…🙄

[@sundressjones4426]

He did her a favor by telling her he wanted a divorce because she would have never left him. I’m glad he released her so that she can move on and truly begin to heal. They were both really young and she has been through soooo much. I wish her all the best and love and light 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@Den3girl]

That's really the interesting part; even after all he did, she was willing to stay. I don't think she realises even now, the level of healing she still needs. What she was willing to continue to endure is just absolutely crazy and the level of trauma that she still holds and channeled thru humour in this interview is just tragic.

[@beewest5704]

@@Den3girl True ppl are talking about how she has healed while I get the idea that if Derrick tells her I'm sorry I want you back" she will be back in a hot second & start this all over again.

[@Eman14128]

​@@Den3girlher being in a rotation before they were married and seeing videos of him having relations with other woman was really , it shows what one will accept when still operating in trauma.

[@sapphire3362]

I didn’t realize how smart and funny she is! She is really a strong woman trying to keep her marriage and family together with whatever she has inside! When I saw her with the bonnet I thought she was just his puppet! I definitely wishing her healing and success ❤

[@casaundraosu]

I absolutely adore her. Her energy, personality, humor, transparency… everything. She is glowing with confidence, healing, and wisdom. I can’t wait to see her flourish in her freedom.

[@sasthyme8857]

The abortions the miscarriages. The childhood abuse, the financial abuse the emotional abuse, the cheating, the lies, the spiritual attacks, the brain washing, the trauma, the calls to the mental health facility, the manipulation, the children traumatized, sleep deprivation, sleeping for days not eating for days, the drinking of alcohol for weeks on end. I was a bonnet weilding woman standing by my man when everyone called me crazy, some turned their backs on me, I turned my back on myself and was oblivious. There was a time I could have literally walked down the street naked talking to myself for the things I was going through. When I say this woman speaks for so many, it's incredibly sad while being incredibly powerful. I could relate with too much of her story and yet I was able to judge her. I thought I was doing better I thought I was healed, but I am not. This interview has solidified how much healing I need. How thankful am I, apart from the above words I can't describe how this interview is going to change my life. May the Almighty continue bless this woman, she is so many of us and has come forward to speak like I have never heard a woman speak so candidly about so much. There is no doubt in The power of The Creator when she speaks. A true Disciple. ⬆️⬆️⬆️

[@TACo-281]

That's powerful!! I'm so glad she's getting this opportunity to free others through her story. God bless you.

[@lf3554]

God bless you! Women are soooooo resilient!

[@gaboratanelwemaphane4503]

To see this story and think this just me to an extent Jesus I so glad

[@itsme_333]

Those are very powerful words and I feel it all. I too am changed by this interview

[@sasthyme8857]

@@itsme_333 ⬆️⬆️⬆️💖

[@maxwell_proper]

This guy had the nerve…no the audacity…to talk down to men destroying a woman’s confidence, sanity, health and heart. Ladies and gentlemen, this individual she married , peddled garbage to the very women like the woman he married. The internal battle isn’t over so keep praying for her.

[@deleshiadavis4326]

Nothing he said was untrue! Him being the type of man he talked about doesn’t negate that it’s true. Who better to counsel someone about cheating than someone who walks it. I don’t like him at all and he represents everything toxic and damaging! I’m just happy that she was able to speak her truth and is showing us how to heal by her healing. 👏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽👏🏽👏🏽💪🏽

[@blackpeopleas1healingtrauma]

​@@izealliaeldridge1901 he right about some men tho everything else he's wrong but facts he knows because he's a man so it's Coming from a man perspective I use to watch him I have my own mind to me he was to charming and to good to be true I felt it in my intuition

[@jasminespalace6947]

P

[@ToriUptown]

@@deleshiadavis4326 no. lol a man doing the things he’s telling women to not let a man do to the. shouldn’t be telling women anything. he has a horrible character and sense of morality.

[@thisandthat1767]

He is sick!

[@twylajohnson2893]

True woman of God, we love you! You are beautiful and none of those women compare to you. Stay strong black queen

[@samanthakirk3793]

I literally felt like I understood her whole person and went through the pain she did. I love her openness and she has such a beautiful soul. So sorry Da’naia he put you through this. I truly enjoyed hearing your side

[@IyeshaB]

She is poised, articulate, beautiful and funny! Loved this whole interview ❤

[@tobiDS.]

I was just about to type something like this! The story is so sad but she got me laughing here

[@barbiegirlmyaalexander3459]

She really is ❤

[@phoenixherbert]

The further away from him she is the less crazier she appears.

[@maggiespokenword5669]

So funny! Would have never thought this funny

[@jkfashiontips]

We surely come together to say We're so Sorry Mrs Jackson, We're sorry Sis🙏

[@ruthfrancois8972]

She definitely didn't deserve that. 100 women? With that beautiful sexy godly woman at home. Like, what was he on? smh 😕

[@marydabaddestwilliams5962]

💯💯💯💯💯💯🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰yes we are

[@marydabaddestwilliams5962]

​@@ruthfrancois8972 he a 🤡 and karma will fix him soon enough

[@sheberry8597]

Yall sorry. I was praying for Sis because every woman could relate to her to a certain degree, although most seemed to just judge and make fun of her. Loving the full accountability from Da'Naia in the role she played in it all❤

[@msvirtue]

This comment for the win!

[@mmduooo3947]

It’s something very POWERFUL between these two!!!!! Lord !!! This podcast was so touching !

[@keepitcutekiwi]

The portion where she discusses both videos?! OMG so much respect for her. The way she was able to share what was going on with her in the background while being torn apart online/in the media is amazing. That helmet of salvation and the Psalm verse make more sense now. I adore how she’s able to use humor in order to talk about this tragic time in her life (I do the same). She’s funny, pretty, smart, resilient, and soft. I’d definitely support her KZbin channel, podcast, or whatever platform she chooses. I pray for her and her children and hope God blesses her with so much joy in the future 🤍

[@kidoftheking1406]

My apologies to this Queen. I am one of the women that judged her and mocked her even though my own backyard wasn't clean 😢 I too went through demoralizing things with my ex husband and I stayed. I am so happy she did this interview

[@valentineverna1080]

I was too. God please forgive me

[@joamacnalie]

That takes courage to say! ❤️

[@byrongrimsley500]

No need to apologize it's just the true version of you she's no Queen and neither are you you're just here for entertainment but now you found a kinship in her pain probably because it happened to you I swear you can't make this stuff up misery loves company

[@JOANNASTEELE-bf9eb]

@@byrongrimsley500 I pray you reap what you have just sowed. you giving it as a seem may you get a forest. We will talk after that.

[@MorganRimming]

​@@byrongrimsley500Bro wtf are you on?😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@monabrown101]

This Woman's comeback is gonna crush the head of the enemy and raise up women from all walks of life, all over the world, I tell u❤❤❤❤❤ -Woman from London, UK

[@confidentalways7526]

💯

[@therealrenaissancewoman]

I stand with you in agreement!!!!

[@aysmith761]

YES, YES, YES!

[@me-o-she]

She is putting in the work and will surpass him in every way.

[@sasthyme8857]

Trust me💯. I'm sat in the remnants of my south london flat all packed up ready to move on to bigger and better things, finally, but it's taken a good while, almost 4 years of constant resilience and hardship. What shook me about her experience the most is that when she was going through her stuff publicly 2019 2020 I was going through something very similar. I don't understand what took me to call her out as an idiot for taking him back or a lost soul, without any grace. I realise it was the distain I had for myself, the ignorance and a lack of compassion I had all round because in that time I was using the same toxicity I had been taught to create false strength, a false strength to set me apart from any weak woman who couldn't break free. I was better than her I would never do that but alas I done it all and then some. We women really need to stick together and help one another. A global sisterhood is in need of reinforcement. I think she moved the bar for us all. I will like and share this video until my thumb is tired. You speak the truth in her experience touching us all 💯⬆️💖

[@monabee5044]

Laterras, i can’t thank you enough for giving Da’Naia a safe space to share her story. You can tell she’s been waiting to tell her story in the right sitting. I pray her bad days are behind her and that her cup is always full. Her testimony is helping and healing someone right now. This woman is dropping some spiritual nuggets but some are gonna miss it. Soul ties are real and can be destructive. I have dealt with it.

[@bettycalixtro8536]

Unfollowing Derrick Jackson, I was going and still going through something similar and I used to listen to Derrick all the time to not loose my sanity. Knowing he was putting her through the ringer while giving tips and advice to other women to avoid men like him..like God why….DaNaia you got me backing you up, I pray God continues to use you and make you a star, I also always say I don’t hope bad unto people, but these narcissistic men need to learn!!!

[@purposedpeoplepraying]

Her testimony stands true with the saying, “If you don’t deal with your issues they will deal with you.”

[@RG-xv5ji]

for real !!!!!

[@seo5028]

FACTS!!!!

[@solochica81]

That’s a whole truth

[@luciansunset1]

Ent that the truth

[@snooty4180]

The best thing Derrick did was to ask for a divorce and stood on it. This helped Da’Naia. It was also a gift, because he KNEW he could start the cycle all over again. And nothing would change.

[@jussjess2829]

Facts !! Cause she would have never left

[@belleame4671]

The best thing....

[@onlyonekiney]

God has a sense of humor, Mr. Derrick will have a lot of explaining to do in his life! He gets nowhere without it.

[@goldenlifelove7251]

Yep! He gave her what she needed & that's to be far away from him.

[@beewest5704]

Unfortunately I would not be surprised me if she went back to him. Jeez.

[@msphil4life]

As a Black woman, therapist, and mother thriving after a marriage to a man with similar personality disorder "traits," I can appreciate that this young lady is able to get to know herself. These relationships are no joke, especially if you are not very clear on who you are and understand your value. I'm so grateful that she is taking what she experienced and using it for promising things. I'm also very thankful that she encouraged therapy in addition to her spiritual beliefs and how in conjunction they were beneficial for her. Honestly I found myself in part I of the series saying that she saw all the red flags, but the therapist part of me acknowledged it that she was vulnerable and the type of man that "encountered" her back then understood this, without having to fully know the exact traumatic experience(s). The trickery of it all is very real. I'm confident that she will continue her journey of healing, growing, and reaching other individuals. To the interviewer-BRAVO!!! You allowed her to tell her story, you asked pertinent questions and clarified things. Thank you for sharing!!!💕💕

[@acoveredmiracle]

Yassss

[@TMicca]

Thank you for your testimony! Some men are master manipulators and liars. Only God can deliver them.

[@trenab]

This woman is going to blow past Mr. Jaxon in her world-wide ministry to really and truly help women. Not the fake help her ex-hushand offered. Come through Ms. Jackson. 🎉

[@klanders6144]

Indeed!!! He set the stage for her!!!!

[@LaneJane23]

Amen

[@ezmima1175]

God is about to cannonball her career and it will be built on His truth! Can’t get no better than that!

[@ladyt4ever83]

Amen

[@melodyindigo550]

My God! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@meekmeek1041]

She was very transparent. She is a beautiful person that was judged by so many (including me). I’m so glad she told her story. This woman is so strong . Much love, respect, and blessings to her.

[@chrissyw7208]

Whew!! Cover your daughter, Lord! She's your woman story of Job and in her reaping season!

[@allthingshome6953]

It hurts me that this man took her down this road. I'm grateful that she has won. She has won herself. God bless her for sharing this.

[@catmo59]

Can you imagine how broken she was to appear on camera with him looking like a homeless woman? The fact that he didnt bother to ask her to get camera ready shows that he wanted the world to see her at her worst

[@NajSinghs]

Wow. Whew. 💔💯 This right here...smh.

[@beautyfydotcom]

Exactly!!! He didn’t care.

[@lindaadams444]

Good observation.

[@isobelndoro]

Yes

[@sincerelyme5923]

Don’t forget, she said she was feeling ill, pregnant, grieving a family member’s death, and just gotten off the road. She shouldn’t have been on camera at that time.

[@colettejanine2023]

I love her personality so much and I'm sorry that I prejudged her. She's smart, funny, articulate, relatable and loves God. I sincerely pray that God gives her triple for her trouble and uses her for his glory.

[@CerseiLannister999]

Yes. If you got enough sense to understand, she kinda funny..

[@melinesimeon9083]

This! ❤

[@rachellelove7999]

Yes, I did too🙏🏾❤️

[@seattlestunna]

Same. I love her personality 🎉❤

[@oatmealbrownie09]

Yes. She has an awesome speaking voice

[@SuperBlessed365]

Derrick opened doors to the devil through his infidelity, lies. Hence the reason why the devil had the legal right to distress his family. I can’t believe he still is “talking” and millions of people are listening. The devil is a liar! More grace/ peace Da’naia. Continue to heal! It takes time but God gives beauty for ashes. You are blessed!

[@tamicacharles6354]

Right ? Like how isn’t he cancelled? I first hand know how chronic stress can actually make you sick so I feel for her .

[@keyallison592]

Omg!! She told my whole story! I completely lost myself in this man trying to keep him happy and pleased. I never knew what narcissistic, sociopath was, I was blind and immature even at the age I was when it happened. I did things I was not proud of in the name of “love.” He taunted the marriage thing in my face. I wanted to be with him so I did what he wanted because I wanted to be married. It never happened. When I finally walked away he married someone else 3 months later. Thank you God that he did not give me what I thought I wanted. Thank you for healing…..I thank you Da’Naia for you openness! Sis I have so much respect for you ❤

[@mickey10jb80]

People can criticize his technique all they want but his style of interviewing helped her to open up. She didnt want to sit there feeling like she was being judged or grilled. There is nothing wrong with laughter especially when its at nobody else's expense. For us Blacks laughter has always brought comfort. I think he did a great job

[@DearFutureWifey]

Thank you

[@VirtuosoSoul925]

I thought the same thing. Her delivery was light and she used laughter to drive discourse. This interview was amazing. Thank you both for engaging in this discussion. I hope it was equally cathartic and added to her continued healing.

[@kayjay3948]

Yes, he made her feel comfortable and not like she was being judged.

[@theadvocate3006]

Laugh to keep from crying 😢 or cutting someone's d**k off. I'm just saying.

[@mitziki3320]

Yessssss ma’am! He interviewed excellently……. And she did a great job and I’m glad she can laugh and joke and be sarcastic. She owned her truth and expressed her feelings! To God Be The Glory🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 Thank Jesus for protecting her SOUL AND MIND…… Hallelujah

[@lethileths]

I also want to say she needs to give us a few books, give us a podcast, give us a press tour SHE NEEDS TO TURN HER PAIN INTO HER GAIN. Girl get you a bag!

[@Giftis2sing]

Yesss!!! 👏🏾👏🏾 I was just thinking 💭 she needs to write ✍🏽 a book 📕…..matter fact several books 📚. This was a lot!!!

[@heyalainanicole]

YES. I can't wait for God to flip this for her gain. Excited for her platform

[@beautiesws837]

Please read the comment I just posted on here I just said the same thing

[@elbonedelone4234]

She definitely has the knowledge through experience (her pain and her running his business)! I would support just because of the glow up.

[@apricot4u2eat]

I think she has a lot more healing to go through before she is ready to do that. This was definitely the first step. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@Calangela85]

How he needed a condo when all the videos I ever saw of him had him sitting in a car??🤔🤔🤔 I'm so glad she's done dealing with that 🤡! Thank God for delivering her from that foolery.

[@zellaqueen]

This is why we need to teach our kids self-esteem. &boundaries

[@ChronicleSpeaks]

The trauma this man has caused for Da’naia is tremendous. The fact that her daughters complexion caused issues for her giving the fact that her husband preferred darker women… Derrick is going to get his karma! He manipulated her for years. I feel so bad she’s gone through all of this.

[@coffeewsugarcream2109]

There are so many women who have and currently are going through this. De'Naia sharing her story is truly helping and ministering to people. I wish her many blessings. She will continue to be in my prayers 🙏🏽

[@lethileths]

Let me tell you, when she said that part I was SHOOK! Man the damage that man caused to her and his ENTIRE FAMILY!

[@prettylovelyhappy]

This hit me! Because my ex used to always tell me how he didn’t like light-skinned women like… then why are you dealing with me?! Leave me alone.

[@Heyitschy03]

@@prettylovelyhappy… sound like my ex.

[@yonnithebeauty8022]

She just gained a supporter 🤍 the transparency, the accountability, and her story. She's graceful, educated, religious, and articulate and this man tried to tear her downnnn. Im here for the journey! You're helping a lot of women Da'Naia

[@PiscesH]

Yes agreed I can’t understand why any woman after her would want him. Look at how he treated his wife just terrible. He tried to break her down bad😢.

[@diashavlogshomehemodialysis]

Wow!!! This interview helped me understand Da’Naia Jackson more. I thought she was just crazy but now she seems normal and under so much pain. I even like her personality. I pray she continues to heal from all the trauma in her life. I am glad she divorced Derek. Now she can live a full and happy life. May GOD bless her😍

[@Naluca1988]

Everyone who said negative things about this woman owes her an apology. Our sister was going through so much. I pray that God restores her and blesses her with a happy ,peaceful and contented life. ❤

[@CourtneyA.]

No one owes her an apology. She tried to curse everyone who gave her constructive criticism and YAH let it backfire on her in the end. This lady was enabling her husband to cheat on her repeatedly just so she could keep calling herself Mrs. Derrick Jackson. If he hadn't initiated a divorce, she would still be tolerating his behavior. And now she has the gall to charge people 5k for a course dealing with cheating. I'm sorry, just because some of you women have low self-esteem and choose to put up with these dusty no-good men, doesn't mean the rest of us can relate. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@nunyabusiness3516]

Yeah.. no one owes her an apology for being able to see the truth when she couldn't. All people did was try to help her see the truth. I'm so glad God finally saved her from herself because she wasn't going to leave this man if he didn't leave first. Derrick Jaxn was TRASH. She's beautiful but extremely naive. We all live and learn, but people were only trying to get her to see Derrick Jaxn for the trash ass clown that he really was.

[@purposetalkswithgiftedley6570]

I don’t think they “owe” her but they will get back what they’ve put out. Adults WILL learn how to carry themselves as such and treat ppl how they want to be treated. Life just works that way 💯

[@chrystallalor]

​@@CourtneyA.4r

[@shariceornah]

I tried to tell everyone that. From the moment I first heard of this woman I knew she was in pain and been praying for her to win. I said she would make it out and that she was gorgeous and now she is radiating it.

[@leslymutua7334]

I'm loving how her Mom waited for her to "get to that point"... It's so tempting to jump in and try to fix your child, but it takes so much strength to wait and trust God with them ❤️

[@lf3554]

Right the come to Jesus momentbi call it!

[@TACo-281]

I'm so glad that she got to the point where she knew she needed to get out and save herself, children. Her family was right there waiting on her!! She's blessed!

[@kandicephillips6183]

I know this is completely unrelated but I love her dry humor 😂 she is really funny!

[@kimberlymay9497]

And so cute/classy with it 😅😍

[@meenameena-dd2zy]

I couldn't agree with you more. She is a natural comedian. SOME TIMES YOU HAVE TO LAUGH TO KEEP FROM CRYING.

[@mif4111]

Me too

[@nadine8764]

She's soo graceful ❤️

[@IamKristineJones]

I’m in tears! I know that Barrett and that outfit meant pain. I couldn’t verbalize it but I saw myself in you. No way I could judge, I looked at you secretly seeing my own pain! Thank God you got out… I did too!!! Princess wear your crown because you truly earned it! Til we meet! Be blessed-you ARE a blessing! Thank you Lateras for this one!!!

[@carmelleellis7368]

Sis you’re speaking for millions!! Wish I had your courage😢. Blessings on Blessings to you🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@---mb6xq]

I think the ultimate betrayal was her ex husband having her on video to stand up for him and he didn’t even have the decency to cover her by waiting until she had time to process things and make her self presentable. He was so concerned with his reputation that he didn’t even consider how this was her first time being introduced to millions of people and added to her embarrassment. Absolutely DEMONIC

[@malikasampson7673]

He only thought of himself.

[@cbtube1677]

He got kicks out of embrassing her.

[@---mb6xq]

You know what, both of yall make valid points smdh. He was probably laughing and glad that people were tearing her down because it took the heat off of him smh

[@redbone8844]

He was getting his Narcissistic supply

[@WhichTheChickenOrTheEgg]

🙏🏾 Def alot of demonic activity involved in their war

[@soullikemine]

I see comments saying she was laughing to much. Can you imagine how many tears she has cried since 19 dealing with that fool. Yes girl. The joy of the Lord is your strength. You free. No more tears. Laugh and laugh loud. Cause you survived. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@thechristiandiariespodcast]

She is finally FREE ❤❤❤

[@ColeTV2023]

I only saw a bunch of comments saying Latteras was laughing too much...

[@LadyLibra-kp8ox]

I have needed a helmet of salvation on many occa….on a regular basis. It is only by the grace of God that I am still here today. He CLEARLY has some plans for my life cuz if it were up to me….!!!!!!

[@youngblisslife4308]

When I was maybe 18-21 (don't remember), Amber Rose made a comment, "all men cheat, smart ones just don't get caught". I was talking to my grandma about it and she said, "if your grandfather even cheated, no woman was dumb enough to knock on my door about it". I was SHOOK because I always looked at my grandparents as the pedestal of perfection back then. For her to even consider the thought of him cheating was the blow to my heart. A decade later, they're approaching 60 years of marriage and lawddd it's different seeing their marriage as an adult but one thing I will give them...they're friends first and foremost and I never hear or seen disrespect. (Besides my granddaddy buying a boat without telling her and hiding it at a friend's house but that's a different story 😂). The level of disrespect Da'Naia had experience is unfathomable to me. To watch someone you love or like have sex with someone else is enough to make me do bodily harm to someone 👀🥴

[@yardleymellon]

#Facts!

[@blight6340]

This woman deserves SO MANY apologies... that's why I didn't put my mouth on her... I pray your soul heals love... be encouraged love, God be with you 🙏🏾

[@nyleac4389]

I never opened my mouth about her but boy was I kiki’ing and liking posts. This is definitely a lesson to me on the reality of these situations and what someone in distress looks like despite the circus framing on social media. I hope ppl are as vocal with apologies to her and upliftment as they were in dragging her and tearing her down

[@brahmabkitty03]

I took up for her

[@bettycarmella1127]

I prayed for her💔 I love seeing how the Lord is restoring her🙌🏽

[@misguidedpearls7456]

When u been through something and you've not become miserable Often you just watch n wait.. You know there's many sides n transitions.. Most people that had alot to say enjoy misery or got a closet full of stuff.. Sadly that will not change

[@belindalindsey607]

I was concerned about the prayer she sent out.

[@SonjaUnapologetic]

Derrick wanted her to beg him not to leave after he sent the text asking for a divorce. When she responded with “Okay, if that’s what you want,” that angered him. Then he did a video insinuating that she was being manipulative. 🤦🏾‍♀️ I don’t think he really wanted a divorce. He wanted the upper hand to treat her like trash in hopes she would just take it, out of fear of him leaving.

[@meganharwell1446]

I agree with you

[@steib294]

Totally narc behaviour. The cut of off the source randomly and then they sit and ponder waiting for you to cry, begging, ending up lost in yourself, it's like they crave that energy from their victims to use as a supply to fuel their ego..and that's how they keep getting stronger and the victim weaker. Same with snakes you cut off the head so to speak, cut the tail it only turn around and bite you! Hopefully she gets full custody of their children and moves closer to her family to help raise the children..... Mr 304 to busy playing in the streets with the hoes.....Soo embarrassing for their kids! 😢 I'm Soo happy I never accepted my baby daddy to engage me......I fell pregnant fast after meeting him and just knew in my heart to take my time know this man....anyways, 10 years later been raising my son by myself and he obviously moved to other side of the country to be with his new gf.......after the birth of their first son....he started acting up..and she would find Tinder app on his phone and he literally asked and begged me on his knees that he wanted to have sex with me..when he came to visit his son.....and I declined!!! What a douche bag! Only thinks about his cock....what about the years I spent alone raising our son .... homelessness...jobless..carless...... I wasn't going to give him a piece of my body!! And Ive always been codial with hif gf and the kids..we all video each other all the time...I've never acted out to her..not told her anything! She may think she won the prize but I know who exactly he is. She even told him one time that she wishes she was a lesbian 🤣🤣 And during their engagement party.....gathering...the two families and community were fighting each other...huge argument..cussing each other out.......I'm just like.....ohh thank God....God rejection is his protection!!! 🙏 The only male I'm really putting my energy in 100% is my son. Finally I'm in a better place then I was 8 years ago...and I did it all on my own....The degree..the car I always wanted..the house, new friends....and a man I've always wanted and prayed for in my teens and 20s .....30s... 🙏😊

[@reakelly410]

His identity is built on her weakness for him. The other women existed because she existed.

[@mariedavis8622]

Derrick is despicable

[@oatmealbrownie09]

Agreed

[@latasha85]

I love this. She’s funny, intelligent, entertaining and sweet. This is a far cry from what many thought she was.

[@psb12121]

Dear Future Wifey I am new to your channel and I love all the compassion and grace you allowed for her. I have no idea when you started your channel but you are going to have a huge following if you continue in the way you guided and supported this special lady during her trials. Many others would have tried to manipulate and further traumatize her but you were so caring and compassionate. I thank you for providing a space to tell her story. I love that she was able to walk away from the chaos in her life! Sending the best to both of you.

[@SpiritandProofPodcast]

Da’Naia is a great storyteller… I pictured the whole thing from Part 1.. Wow, ONLY by the grace of God did she not completely lose her MIND !! 🙏🏽🙌🏽

[@jocelyngipson197]

Yes, she is an amazing, very charismatic storyteller.....Through God's Grace she is healed and in her right mind 🙌🏾

[@takingcarellc5737]

It is her accountability and self awareness that shows she means business about her healing. She will come forth as pure gold. My prayers to her and her children that God continues to protect, provide and cover them.

[@rosaliemarshall526]

❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@lisaeleanor8559]

I never thought she was crazy, this right here... I have so much respect for her.

[@forevernishiboo9196]

Why ppl asking why the Host is laughing! This girl is telling her story so comical! Her sense of humor is awesome! I was cracking up too!!! 😂 Sis, May God restore the years that the locust have stolen and give you beauty for ashes! 🙌🏽❤ 🫂

[@turningpageswithmel]

I cried when she said “I wanted him to choose me” , I know that feeling all too well. 😢

[@marywilliams3520]

Melissamohan God chooses you!

[@ariellotusflowervlog4727]

Yesssss. I felt that deep

[@aleciagrant1226]

Yesss. That touched me deeply too. Now she gets to choose her and God will send her a man that chooses her and only her

[@megamoneyk]

We all want to be chosen it's just not all of us will sacgice so much. Wanting be loved is not a crime. We are meant to be loved.

[@sashamarieMFT]

I am exausted after hearing this story. I am also 44 years old and cannot imagine living the last half of my life dealing with a man like that. Thank God for wisdom and protection.

[@Shamara418]

I felt the same way and it seems she is still exhausted as well. I pray that God will give a ResT for her soul because she is the True Lover of all of our souls.

[@nicholaprofitt]

For a minute, I thought it was just me that felt drained...... imagine how sis felt 🤦

[@tinamathews7139]

I totally agree

[@tiawint]

I’m 43 and said the exact same think…I refuse to live the 2nd quarter dealing with any disrupter of my peace.

[@sashamarieMFT]

@@nicholaprofitt exactly... coming home to that. Battling that in her mind. Nah... but I do realize I have been one decision away from dating a man like that. That is why I said praise God for wisdom and let me throw in discernment!!

[@misskaykay1856]

These two would be good together! I love their banter and connection is definitely real. God is good man. So happy for her ❤

[@Recoverywithtamye]

Her laugh is chilling. God heal her and protect her beautiful heart. 🙏🏽💐