Deconstructing The Sexual Revolution with Matt Fradd

[@JMisSC08]

Dennis Prager’s statement regarding pornography as an outlet to avoid adultery is a morally dangerous cop out for those looking for a reason to not have to strive to quit the disgusting habit. “At least I’m not cheating on her/him” is a horrible excuse to escape the guilt and evil. Consuming pornography is moral and spiritual adultery. Matthew 5:28 makes this incontrovertible.

[@francescaderimini2931]

Prager is not Christian! Even Billy Graham stated Pornography as an Evil!

[@rebamoon4965]

These men or women, but especially men, who keep ogling porn suddenly discover they will not have the ability to cheat or satisfy their wives. Porn is a literal brain "turn off" for sexual function. Choose porn or healthy sexual function, but you can't have it both ways. Porn isolates and destroys relationships. It's a horribly shameful addiction, which is difficult to overcome. The end of the road is descending into child porn to get more of a dopamine release. At that point, one is a criminal.

[@ayvin_the_dev5650]

Agree 100! How horrible.

[@cathithomas2888]

Matthew? 😳

[@chrisjenkins9978]

Don’t be a fool, you can’t legislate biology.

[@polaramas.867]

Best of both Matt and Lila. As Matt might say “Good on ya”! Blessings upon both of you from a 66 year old mama of 6, granny of 12. May the Holy Family be with both of yours.🙏🏻♥️

[@sarahalderman3126]

Yup. This has always been apparent to me. Probably because I was molested and raped as a small child through 12 at which point I was then groomed by a forty something year old man, using porn of course. Yes the pornification and perversion of sex in our society and culture has certainly caused a LOT of pain for us all.❤

[@simonslater9024]

Please watch the warning or illumination of conscience by Christine Watkins. Then Following Padre Pio who show’s the true beauty of Catholicism which is everyone’s true home! If a person wilfully rejects the holy Catholic Church they are damned. God bless. Always ask your guardian angel to help you and to communicate with your family’s guardian angel’s. It was padre Pio who introduced me to my guardian angel and to angel’s in general. Praise Jesus and Mary always!!! I too was a victim of horrendous abuse mental emotional psychological - though not direct sexual abuse. I’m so sorry to hear how you were diabolically treated

[@sarahalderman3126]

@@simonslater9024 yeah one of the men who abused me was also a priest, so yeah thanks anyway. I LOVE my Faith but the "church" is evil.

[@ShaelynnFockler08]

@@sarahalderman3126oh it 100% is my aunt was apart of cult but they acted like it was a good “Christian” church

[@ethandollarhide7943]

So you think people should be forced into only having Heterosexual Reproductive Married sex? Wouldn't that qualify as r*pe too?

[@ThomasCYallouris]

I hope you are okay 🙂

[@nicoletaylor109]

I’m going into family science and this topic is powerful that our society needs to understand!! And I find it sad how people don’t see the sacredness of sexuality

[@natemarx4999]

Lila bringing us another gem.

[@hereforthecomments258]

And more lack of accountability for women!😂

[@Elida-Eph613]

I love this. This is a very good conversation that I feel people need to consider if we want our broken society to be repaired ❤

[@shannonmaria22]

Two of my favorite Catholic content creators! ❤

[@kathleenking47]

This only seemed, since the early 1960s

[@cpcrn7036]

As a pregnancy center nurse, there are many clients who come and get their pregnancies confirmed and then they say that she and her partner plan to get married, ''when they are ready'', and ''when they have enough money.'' I don't whitewash it for them, but I say the same thing. I would have never gotten married nor tried to have children if I waited until I was, ''ready''. ''Ready'' is so many things to so many people if they can even define it at all! Some people's ''ready'' is being determined by outside sources, such as parents and friends. Some are well-meaning, some are not. That's why God's Word takes the guesswork out of it.

[@carlamaria826]

Ha ha! I love it. I was married at 18....before I was ready and I had 5 children I couldn't afford! The best thing that ever happened to me. 🙏🏻💕😊

[@Susie2346]

Also sexual arousal is a learned behavior. If your sexual initiation is pornography your whole sexual experience is warped.

[@user-lt1jd1ye3v]

Thank you so much for mentioning this Susie. I wish more people would talk about this.

[@soulextract640]

Thank you for speaking the truth

[@nicholasnelson6876]

no it's not. It's biological and evolved. It comes innate and prepackaged in humans. Proven via evolutionary psychology

[@garrysonmcafee8530]

Arousal is natural. How in the world do you think it's learned? That's asinine of an opinion to hold 😂

[@tinaroney9383]

Very good! Thanks for your honesty...so right about preverting the marriage bed..results in in the break down of the couple & the family!

[@wolfofthewest8019]

St. Augustine believed in something akin to recapitulation theory, which posited that a developing embryo began as a fish and developed into mammal and then a human. This is why he was ambivalent on abortion in the early stages, because he mistakenly believed that early in its development the fetus was literally not human. The Church's position on abortion changed to the point of conception as science advanced and we gained a better understanding of the reproductive processes.

[@72marshflower15]

And before all that, a puddle of goo..

[@virginiahydo3452]

Matt and Lila, I appreciate both of your podcasts. Matt seeing you as a guest on this show is so inspiring.

[@lizzieurb]

An excellent man! Always happy to hear Matt’s perspective, his example is outstanding for every person striving to live well.

[@ElizabethS519]

Sex in the context of marriage is not just for procreation. God intended it to be also an act of love that brings deeper intimacy into the relationship.

[@traddydad1997]

Every Christian knows this, but many people, including Catholics convince themselves that the procreative goal of sex takes away from the bonding effect. They try to limit procreation through NFP among other contraceptive methods. This way of thinking is contrary to Catholic Doctrine and shows a blatant doubt or mistrust in God's providence.

[@sagarah8217]

Nope. It’s supposed to be for reproduction.

[@ramonmuniz4950]

i have a question im 26 years old and a virgin what's your advice?

[@ramonmuniz4950]

what's your advice to me?

[@m.935]

​@@sagarah8217Catholic Church is clear on that is for purpose of love as well as procreation. To be more correct, God intended procreation in a marriage union to be a result of love. Read Theology of the body. Or if it is too heavy (some people find it hard to read), there is theology of the body institute, and there are videos by Christopher West here on KZbin or books to read that are made more easy to understand for those of us without Ctaholic theology degree.

[@DanXcel]

What an amazing interview! Thank you for discussing this serious matter the world needs more of this.

[@rbellamy804]

Mr. Pints himself, awesome! This is going to be a good one!

[@JennyJean.]

This is an excellent listen ❤ Thank you both for addressing this issue.

[@Prisoner_844]

That’s a beautiful way of putting it. It’s an inversion of what is good for the strong to abuse the weak.

[@whendis.roberts9903]

Porn destroys lives amd relationships. It destroyed my 10 year relationship to my now ex.

[@franciscorojas8294]

Sounds like you need to take some responsibility corn dosent destroy anything it’s two consenting adults doing the deed on screen for a certain audience who want to see it or pay for it I’m so tired of hearing that excuse from conservatives especially conservative women oh yes tell me Karen how did Mia khalifa or any big adult star ruin your marriage in any way shape or form by her doing corn with another consenting adult seems to me like a personal problem if you found it man watching it seems to me he’s the one with the problem it’s called free will freedom to choose maybe choose better ??

[@fermageehamilton1402]

@@franciscorojas8294why so angry? So my husband watches porn, he watches it because he gets turned on by it. He watches it because he love it, he watches it become it’s the only way he can get an erection. I actually had no clue of his porn use, even when he wasn’t able to keep his erection. He would get upset and I comforted him letting him know it’s ok. Then it clicked. Porn most definitely destroys marriages and relationships. I’m still by his side and working to keep my marriage but as a hot blooded woman who’s still young and yet to bear children (which I want) I too crave intimacy, but I can only be intimate with a man I love, but I don’t know how much longer I can stay, it’s now approaching year 4 since we have been intimate in 10yrs of marriage. So yes, choosing better is smarter but it isn’t always that simple.

[@ayvin_the_dev5650]

Sounds like you’re guilty yourself. If a women was getting off to porn- many men would be very upset as well. It’s a sin and everyone knows it- temptation in the worst way. Pretty much up there will wanting to hurt/kill people. People like you ruin it for other who want a one on one relationship. Who want trust and honesty. How sad. I feel sorry for you. God bless.

[@ayvin_the_dev5650]

Oh and let’s not forget- respect for each other. If it bothers your spouse: mate. Then That freedom is gone- because love and respect should be a top priority in any relationship.

[@hereforthecomments258]

When did you stop having sex with him?

[@GiovannaAguilar]

Thank you for elevating the Catholic faith with your content.

[@Fearlessly91]

As an American, “Bloke and Sheila” is so charming to me. So is “tom-ahh-toe.”

[@izzy319th]

One of the best conversations I’ve heard in a while!

[@belaad]

God's laws are woven into the very materia of our souls. Going against HIM is suicide, the very reason for depression, a spiritual death, that leads to the physical self termination

[@kathleenking47]

I aldo noticed, when they started opening stores on Sundays nationwide, that Inflation skyrocketed If stores were open on sundays They had limited hours

[@TheBuddyLama]

Bunk. Two of thee worst ideas ever spawned from the mind of Man are government and religion. Both are diseases, and are made exponentially worse when combined.

[@Jamesrs7]

Matts monologue near the end was great.

[@SlammyG384]

Also love what he said at the end! My mom would even say something very similar… “If you wait until the “right time”…. Then you’ll never do anything”

[@ugandancatholicguy]

Beautiful interview. One for the ages. Bid fan of Matt's. Well done and God bless both your work.

[@Elliottcharlesking]

The thought precipitates the behavior... start with the awareness of negative thinking and how it leads to a bad feeling and thus addictive behaviors

[@Elliottcharlesking]

so return to the power of thought and you'll get a nice feeling ❤ then addictive energies will subside

[@DanielParedes-m2r]

little over 10 mins in, VERY WISE stuff!

[@robinpesek3657]

The more you know the less you think you know. Knowledge illuminates, to ourselves, how little we really know.

[@davyrantucci]

That’s a great person to have on with what he has overcome ❤

[@Baileylewis679]

29:14 it’s really great to hear him appreciating his wife for breastfeeding, I’ve seen so many different couples have the men who can’t look at their wife the same just because they breastfed THEIR child it’s wild

[@user-lt1jd1ye3v]

How do u know such monstrous men??

[@lettersandwordsandstuffs]

Women are just as vile...even more in some cases...also according to the bible you women are only worth 2/3rds of a man...in some cases less it seems 😮...good ole bible huh

[@awsambdaman]

Are the men saying they’re turned off now or they can’t view her the same in way that they have more respect for her? Not trying to be vulgar, but once my wife starts breastfeeding I don’t know if I’ll be able to put my mouth on her breasts the way I can now. Like I don’t want to do the same thing my son was just doing 10 minutes ago ya know

[@JuliaShalomJordan]

Amazing episode.❤

[@kap849]

I think i just found the male version of me 😂. I've been saying we need to use ugly words for ugly behaviour for a long time now but even mature Christians around me are taken aback when I ask people why they are fornicating - it's "living together". Also, I used to love friends (sometimes I still laugh at the humour) but as i have matured as a Christian, the show has just seemed stupid to me as a Christian. I fail to see the point of sitting through hours of a show that treats fornication (again, ugly words for ugly behaviour) as very normal - even glorifying it! I've really enjoyed this conversation.

[@Elida-Eph613]

It's true. When God is forgotten the creature becomes unintelligible and we're witnessing it around us.

[@TheLilRussia]

@PintsWithAquinas Adam Curry is the Podfather. And he recently became a Christian. You should bring him to your show.

[@pattyrodriguez5085]

Thank you for the truth 🙏 ❤😊

[@sagarah8217]

“Sex” is just a buzz word advertisers use to sell weak minds a product.

[@frankclave-mq9qy]

Excellent. Thank you!

[@georger6624]

Women don’t vote in facts women don’t vote on what you say. It’s how you say it they care about. It’s how you say it they care about that’s crazy.

[@NMemone]

Really enjoyed seeing Matt on the other side of an interview!

[@brandiallard6524]

What about the pornographic advertising that is today? Is there any activism currently that is working to stop it? That includes sports illustrated swimsuit competition and many over air sexist commercials? I have even seen a real uptick in the KZbin shorts that are overtly sexual but still allowed to be seen because the model is clothed or the words are flashed so fast one can’t read them

[@veshaw.]

Wow this brother turned out to be a good person despite his upbringing

[@Theextremepessimist]

Lila is a very attractive woman. Husband is a lucky guy.

[@wms72]

Brain architecture is use dependent. Meaning, whatever you do, your brain grows nerve structures to facilitate doing that thing. So, watching porn strengthens the porn user's propensity to watch more porn. "Practice makes perfect."

[@Angelica6-i1t]

Great show. Good information!

[@truthreigns369]

Thank you! This is a topic that is so needed. And great approach. We are living in a post Christian society.

[@scottDayNDY]

that’s a beautiful Statement Matt!

[@JohnHenrysaysHi]

Already liked! Thanks for having Matt on, Lila. Hope your maternity leave has been well! Been asking for the intercession of Saint Mary Magdalene patron saint of sexual temptation, people ridiculed for piety, women, penitent sinners, converts, and contemplative life; St. Agatha martyr of purity; St. Valentine patron saint of love, young people, and marriage; St. Mary of Egypt a sex addict turned saint; martyr St. Charles Lwanga; and St. Augustine of Hippo Doctor of Grace to our Lord Jesus for help with purity and chastity for us all! I believe Jesus is the one mediator, and everything flows through Him. He is the center of all things, and in Him, all things came to be. There is instrumental causality that God loves to use amongst His created universe. The power of intercessory prayer, and the power of the intercession of the saints is about that. Hebrew 12:1-2 Therefore, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us rid ourselves of every burden and sin that clings to us and persevere in running the race that lies before us while keeping our eyes fixed on Jesus, the leader and perfecter of faith. For the sake of the joy that lay before him he endured the cross, despising its shame, and has taken his seat at the right of the throne of God. James 5:16-17 Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The fervent prayer of a righteous person is very powerful. Elijah was a human being like us; yet he prayed earnestly that it might not rain, and for three years and six months it did not rain upon the land. Then he prayed again, and the sky gave rain and the earth produced its fruit. Jesus Christ is the mediator, and our Blessed Mother Mary leads us to Him. She prays for us on our way to Him. Mother Mary, the first Christian with her choice to say "yes" to my one and only God's will, I believe she is the number 1 model for sainthood for both men and women. She did God's will perfectly in every respect from the moment of her conception, listening to every single one of His commands. Her choice to say "yes" Luke 1:38 Mary said, “Behold, I am the handmaid of the Lord. May it be done to me according to your word.” Then the angel departed from her. to God's will ushered in salvation for the world, and she did so knowing the sacrifices and sufferings that would result from her decision, but, humbly, accepted the privilege of containing the God of the Universe her womb, and then becoming Jesus' most intimate friend, companion, and greatest consolation while on Earth. She was the devil's ultimate humiliation! I believe God is the King of the universe, having all power of the universe, but God chose Our Lady, a humble lowly woman the privilege of crushing the head of the devil. She is not God. She is a saint, but being that she is with Jesus in Heaven, I ask for her intercession to our Lord (and for sake of brevity, I'll say I "pray to Mary"), similar to how I'd ask you to pray for me, but I trust she is a saint in Heaven so I believe it is helpful to ask for her help, especially being so close to her Son. There is only one God. He is the source of all good. He is Goodness. He is Love! I believe every single individual no matter our past or present story, which is informed by our personality, which is shaped by our faith, upbringing, tastes, culture, intelligence, finances, health, choices, traumas from the moment we were conceived, our life is a precious gift. The human person, having both body and spiritual and immortal soul, is only created for his or her sake, meaning he or she is not utility property. We were made in the image and likeness of God, who I believe to be Goodness, who is Love, which, imo, means each individual is made good, and is made to love and be loved. Psalm 139:13-16 You formed my inmost being; you knit me in my mother’s womb. I praise you, because I am wonderfully made; wonderful are your works! My very self you know. My bones are not hidden from you, When I was being made in secret, fashioned in the depths of the earth. Your eyes saw me unformed; in your book all are written down; my days were shaped, before one came to be. If anyone reads this, please know, no matter who you are or what you've done you are so loved and you have as much dignity as anyone. We don't know what anyone else is dealing with, so please don't be so concerned with the comparison game! We can all fall from grace, and God loves us far more than we love ourselves so He's always calling to us because He wants us to be happy with Him in Heaven forever if we choose to! God never abandoned me despite my sinning, and my continue falling. He will never abandon you! I'm praying for everyone here. Please pray for me! “If we have no peace, it is because we have forgotten that we belong to each other.” -Saint Mother Teresa of Calcutta We're all broken sinners who all struggle with pride, lust, wrath, greed, envy, sloth, gluttony, and we can be made good adopted sons and daughters of God through Baptism. John 13:34-35 I give you a new commandment: love one another. As I have loved you, so you also should love one another. This is how all will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.” "If we turn away from evil out of fear of punishment, we are in the position of slaves. If we pursue the enticement of wages, . . . we resemble mercenaries. Finally if we obey for the sake of the good itself and out of love for him who commands . . . we are in the position of children." -St. Basil the Great I believe God transforms our hearts so rather than be indifferent/use/manipulate/dominate each other, we have the ability by the power of the Holy Spirit because what Jesus has done to actually truly love another. 1 Peter Chapter 3:8-12 Finally, all of you, be of one mind, sympathetic, loving toward one another, compassionate, humble. Do not return evil for evil, or insult for insult; but, on the contrary, a blessing, because to this you were called, that you might inherit a blessing. Matthew 5:44-45 But I say to you, love your enemies, and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your heavenly Father, for he makes his sun rise on the bad and the good, and causes rain to fall on the just and the unjust. "Would you like to see God glorified by you? Then rejoice in your brother's progress and you will immediately give glory to God. Because his servant could conquer envy by rejoicing in the merits of others, God will be praised." -St. John Chrysostom John 17: 20-21 '“I pray not only for them, but also for those who will believe in me through their word, so that they may all be one, as you, Father, are in me and I in you, that they also may be in us, that the world may believe that you sent me." Hope you and yours have a light-filled peaceful week, Lila! Praying for your newest baby!

[@matthewashman1406]

That was alot of words😮

[@JohnHenrysaysHi]

@@matthewashman1406 Hope you have a good week!

[@Sunflare-vq2uy]

Thank you sir.

[@nathanholbrook1693]

Get the ad for this video out of my suggestions.

[@autumnmay7674]

Love this ❤

[@user-qn7ui7sb1q]

My problem is women specifically in marriage withhold sex. They use it as a privilege or as manipulation. Men need sex just like women need stability and love.

[@frqubit]

As a man, you do not need sex.

[@m.935]

Men tend to interpret women's unwilligness as witholding. Such perception doesn't serve you, as it creates more distance, polarity and tension AND doesn't solve the problem. Women's brains are literally, bilogically different. We are wired for nurturing babies and our emotional wellbeing cannot be separate from our bodies and sexuality. Women that can separate sex from emotions, are not connected to their emotional side are not emotionally equipped to be good mothers. Those who are potentiallygood mothers as they are emotionally in heathy contact with their emotional needs, the way they feel with their husband on moment to moment, day to day and general basis, greatly affects their sexuality. If women does not feel emotionally safe. cherished valued, she cannot open herself sexually. Many wives sadly even ignore that and hurt themselves in the process, and their husbands can sense it that they do not enjoy. So if a wife avoids sex, that should be alarm for her husband that something is not right in their relationship emotionally wise, and not take it as manipulation. It truly is not (unless said woman is generally manipulative person on other levels as well).

[@Demonoicgamer666]

You’re not owed sex by virtue of being a human

[@phoenix2749]

I like Matt but I really disagree with him on his stance on marriage. I think a couple ahould be fully ready and prepared before getting married and I think they should only have as many children as they can afford. That's how you end up with wellfare queens and broken families. I'm saying this as a 30 year old married man with 2 kids. Marriage is difficult and having children is even more difficult. I do agree that people should get married young though, because it allows for the couple to learn, grow, and adapt with each other because they're not set in their ways yet.

[@TuxBurrito]

Or maybe people are just tired of being hurt along with realizing it doesn't help anything.

[@central_scrutinizr]

There sure are a lot of weird, borderline illiterate comments in this comment section

[@thecommentors9973]

How would you get around the is ought problem? You cannot say that because some functions of sex are procreation and unity, therefore you ought act in accordance with that.

[@reinedire7872]

I'm not sure I follow. Why not? If a pen is for writing, one ought not use it to strike a nail into a piece of wood. No?

[@thecommentors9973]

@@reinedire7872 that doesn't follow. Another example I would give is this, if you were in a zombie apocalypse and were being cornered by one in an alley and the only thing nearby was a shovel, would it be immoral to use the shovel to defend yourself? After all, this would be going against what a shovel is for.

[@illvminatvs3194]

They can't. Catholic anthropology has never sufficiently satisfied the Is-Ought Problem, not the least by Aquinas, not the least by Feser, or any relevant theologian

[@BgdsssghhjKjhcdasfhko]

@thecommentors9973, yes you can. Sexual intercourse is literally the process by which YOU came into the world.

[@BgdsssghhjKjhcdasfhko]

​@@thecommentors9973......bro, a shovel has many functions. Sexual reproduction results in life through the function of a couple's genetalia......

[@twopintsofmilk]

I've never liked "crap on a stick" so much. God bless the pair of ye ❤

[@giullmodeltoro6248]

I am a licensed minister, reformed christian and world religions scholar. I know them all. From the Bahagad Vida. To the sumarian texts, the babalonians, all the way to the newest lies of Jacob Smith or L Ron Hubbard. I agree. Natural law governs all. Infact it governs the entire universe. But I have not misrepresenting the bible. Examine deuteronamy 22. 28k If a man comes upon a young woman, a virgin who is not betrothed, seizes her and lies with her, and they are discovered, 29the man who lay with her shall give the young woman's father fifty silver shekels and she will be his wife, because he has violated her. He may not divorce her as long as he lives.

[@giullmodeltoro6248]

Hey but check out the fine print. It's only illegal if you get caught, "discovered". If you can tap her and no one catches you it's all good. Lol

[@rafeeqturner1458]

He os correct about the beauty in motherhood, sadly most women in the west don't want to be wives nor are they qualified for such an honorable position (to become mothers in the first place)

[@Starski43]

Some very good points here…but it is never wise to remove God’s authority on the matter to make a secular world moral. Evil is evil because it is against God, God’s Word (the Bible) and God’s character as revealed in the Bible. There will be many moral people in hell who refused to admit that they are also sinful and therefore have not genuinely called upon the Lord Jesus in repentance for forgiveness. Until a person’s sins are washed away by the blood of Jesus, they will not have the Holy Spirit within them to begin a relationship with God ( as God has within the Trinity) which relationship He wishes to share with us (see the prayer of Jesus in John 17)

[@DonBailey-od1de]

There is only one way , GODS way.

[@JackThomasthesecond]

Nope :)

[@thecommentors9973]

Actually there are multiple ways.

[@DonBailey-od1de]

@@thecommentors9973 Your like a barn , do the math .

[@RainbowDevourer]

But which god?

[@DonBailey-od1de]

@@RainbowDevourer If you don't know that answer , I am sorry for you or anyone that thinks like you.

[@thisis_chavez]

Let's all pray 12 Hail Mary for the propagation of the Devotion to the Holy Face of Jesus and the Holy Rosary

[@Because223]

I put all my energy into helping others in any way I possibly can I’m catholic too I’d rather help others than think about something so selfish like sex

[@MarikaCPTNASM]

That’s my beloved husband Always helping others ❤️ We have pretty Much a non Sexual marriage despite my frustrations. and only one child which was a mistake/surprise but all amazing now. I wish God made us less sexual However that’s Satans work. Amen

[@miguelatkinson]

@Because o my gosh loving imitate devotion towards another person eww evil..

[@miguelatkinson]

​@@MarikaCPTNASMWow that just sad

[@MarikaCPTNASM]

@@miguelatkinson right?

[@johnmccormick3147]

Good Luck!

[@DrSimonFokt]

It's so sad that we've been so negative about sex for so long.

[@Nah_Bohdi]

Idk what youre talking about, sex has been front amd center for 30 years in my face, music videos, commercials....YOU SEEM TO NOT HAVE EYES OR EARS.

[@Mrs.Deanna_Ember]

I feel it's important for couples to have a healthy sex life, it's just a shame that the porn industry ruined it for so many, or bad experiences at an early age,..

[@carolejackson8357]

What about the tend among Christian singles, especially men, to engage in physical intimacy without any commit. And often without respecting the woman as a person. So damaging.....

[@user-lt1jd1ye3v]

Thanks for mentioning this very sage topic Carole. Sexual deviancy is rampant among men nowadays and the lack of control modern men display over their own sexuality is heartbreaking, especially as a 28 year old looking for marriage. I genuinely feel like I cannot trust any of these men to not pressure me to have sex during the dating phase, as well as stay faithful to me throughout our entire marriage and not watch pornography on me or cheat. It’s disheartening. I wish people had advice for people like me.

[@GodSoLoved.Yeshua]

@user-lt1jd1ye3v My advice, don't put your faith in man, it's an automatic letdown. Men sin and you sin too. Extend grace. Who won't fail you? Jesus, 👑 if He has a husband for you, he won't be perfect, he'll be perfect for you. He will challenge you and technically force you to see what is in your own heart. 🖤

[@RoseRose-ow5zy]

I love the show friends !

[@Demonoicgamer666]

BDSM is pretty hot. Not all porn is consensual but the porn that is consensual should be legal. Is a marriage couple want to flex on what they have all power to them. Unless they are raping, stealing or killing I don’t think it’s your place to say you shouldn’t be happy Matt frad and telling you and me what we can and can’t do with our bodies.

[@scottDayNDY]

dry interesting insights& views from Matt Fried.

[@frqubit]

Sex simply isn't a necessary thing in any circumstance and should never be encouraged. If you want kids then of course you must, but it isn't something we should encourage as a good thing or a common, casual thing.

[@LiveActionFilms]

Too negative a view of sex! See Lie #4 in this video: kzbin.info/www/bejne/jYCZk3epncaVf9k&lc=Ugx2zxZy-g4EhRn_rd94AaABAg

[@frqubit]

@@LiveActionFilms You misunderstand, I'm not going to burst into people's bedrooms and demand they stop. It definitely is not ever necessary though and you'll be just fine without it. Personally I find it quite gross and off-putting but if a married couple wanted to do so to have kids they are definitely free to.

[@eamonnmcmanus4785]

Good video

[@shamilleramsay9196]

How do you control your sexual urges as a single person who is fellowing Jesus but keep falling in this area

[@lovelyloaa]

Confession, constant prayer, rosary, going to mass and staying away from the ocassion of that sin. Out of sight, out of mind, I mean you can't just do it on your own, you need help from above. You can also have an accountability partner...Ora et Labora

[@marijo287]

5:30 Google banned him after fliying him to a campus.

[@simonslater9024]

to Sarah alderman it’s not the holy Catholic Church that’s evil but evil men and some priest’s who are and will go to HELL if they don’t repent. I know forgiveness is very hard to do I’ve been working on it for decade’s and don’t feel any closer to forgiving a certain monster but i persevere in prayer. I ask my guardian angel to help you with your and will God’s grace and Mary’s intercession that we both can forgive those monster’s. I tried to leave this comment via reply but got stopped by KZbin and google which continuously happens. God bless

[@williamwenrich3288]

I would say that they want the extinction of humanity.

[@celestialmorpho]

13:40 Natural Law. 47:38 Marry early. Have many kids.

[@JackThomasthesecond]

Yuck

[@thecommentors9973]

Dumb and dumber

[@thecommentors9973]

Dumb and dumber

[@NancyBorth]

@@JackThomastheseconddouble yuck……….these people are from the Stone Age…….why don’t they ever mention the priest problem. Oh yeh, that’s right cuz there was only about 100 bad priest worldwide. Hypocrites personified.

[@celestialmorpho]

@@JackThomasthesecond to you

[@ABOUMAMA.]

29:05 and that's why when you fall in love you leave and hate it

[@randybaumery-cp7tf]

Sex is irrelevant to my life at this point anyhow.

[@Because223]

I see things like this all the time I’ll be honest I don’t care about sex I don’t even get in the mindset to think about it sex complicates everything so why do it my mother and brother live in Kilgore Ohio about 30 minutes from you

[@vladvalentinov]

Imagine green color, created by God, and, therefore, beautiful to look at, is prohibited by society to pay attention to, and deemed to cause sin of lust, unless looked upon during sex with the spouse. The ban would only create an unhealthy attraction towards green color, and its exclusive association with sex, even though the color has nothing to do with sex but is a part of nature. That is what society did to the naked human appearance. When God made male and female, in the Garden they were naked and not ashamed of God. God called His creation “very good”. Adam and Eve, after sinning, had no issue staying naked with each other (they were married after all), but not with God. They made clothing to cover up from Him. God pointed out that only death can cover their sin, so He did so by sacrificing the animal. As Christians, we have our shame paid for by the ultimate sacrifice of Jesus. But even before our condition has been reconciled, humans had no issue with nakedness; neither did God. The Bible and secular history mention nakedness as a normal condition. Being without clothing used to be shameful, as it indicated lowest social status, but other than that, people were working in nude, doing sport, sleeping, and even prophesying per God’s request. What changed, and what did it lead to? Certain forces made nakedness a taboo, and have associated it with sex. Just like with a forbidden fruit, nudity became a highly desirable and valuable commodity, to a point of shameful obsession hardly anyone, even devout Christian men, can get over. What if the naked human form was a normal state (weather permitting)? That would demystify nudity, decouple sex from it, release those in chains of porn from lust, guilt, and shame, porn-proof your children, crystal-clearly showcase two genders, make you more comfortable and less restrained, and even make your marriage stronger by removing a variable no one has control over anyway - perfect body. You can start living closer to Eden by doing the following unclothed (DO NOT associate these activities with sex; relax, think of doing life, not love ;o) Sleep, study Bible, do house chores, work from home, exercise, anything else. Spend time outdoors if privacy is adequate. If you are married, do none of it until your spouse understands and lets you; don’t push it!!! If your children are under 5, it would benefit them to be spectators, and most likely they wouldn’t mind being unclothed as well. If your children are older, things may get awkward, and you may have missed the opportunity unless you are very strategic in your approach. Teens won’t commit to changing their lifestyle at this point, and will not appreciate seeing you nude, but you need to explain to them what you do when they aren’t nearby, and why you do it. Being naked socially is immensely beneficial for you, your marriage, your children, and society, but doing so might be tricky. Start by attending Korean spa; they are usually done in nude, and separated by gender. Nude beaches are often full of perverts, but going there at sunset or especially at sunrise is safe. Naturist resort or a club is what I personally recommend. It must be a family friendly one. AANR provides a map to find the closest to you. Read their rules to know what to expect. Being a Christian Naturist shouldn’t be a life changing event; it only means the things you used to do in bondage you now do as free. Resources to consider: Christian Body by Aaron Frost, Surprised Into Freedom by Philip Oak, and ReNude.Life

[@mwal.1234]

“None of you shall approach to any that is near of kin to him, to uncover their nakedness: I am the Lord.” ‭‭(Leviticus‬ ‭18:6‬ ‭KJV)

[@vladvalentinov]

"Uncover nakedness" means having sexual intercourse. For example, compare Leviticus18:8 to Deuteronomy 27:20.

[@steviemicks7281]

😂😂😂😂😂the idea that the Catholic Church is against “killing innocent ppl” is down right LAUGHABLE! Ever hear of the Spanish Inquisition?? Or maybe the crusades?🤷🏼‍♂️I mean cmon. Lmao.

[@dsha2006]

Matt, don't give sound bites. It starts creeping into the realm of going beyond what the Church teaches.

[@scottDayNDY]

I like the natural law view, but how to resent that to our children, so that they can navigate the “ natural evolution of each genders hormones

[@stetonwalters574]

Passport bro ✊️✊️✊️

[@johnchacko1425]

i like his british accent

[@KennethAkin-me9je]

They honestly should have banned sex in the 70s because mostly everyone in the world was financially unstable and they should have kept the ban active it should have been a worldwide ban.

[@jeebusk]

the intro doesn’t match the content

[@harper7509]

Give it back or go to jail with the rest of the Epstein network

[@lauraborenstein9916]

Well, sounds like she made you man. She let you explore excess until you set your own boundaries.

[@autumnmay7674]

Love Lila ❤❤❤

[@georger6624]

Women should never got to vote 100 years ago. It would be better for them now because women vote by motion emotion

[@masterpoe4942]

Sex is... highly overrated honestly. Being able to take a shit is demonstrably more important than having sex...

[@ManoverSuperman]

That sounds like serious cope

[@MamaA2020]

YESSSS

[@NancyBorth]

Double yesssssssssssss

[@markbirmingham6011]

Comment for traction

[@brycepardoe658]

I don't agree with the Christians on everything but I got to agree with them on pornography. I don't know about all porn but at least certain kinds especially the animated child kind Matt discussed on his show with that guy is bad for your soul. I saw the cover of one such manga & although not explicit I could feel the spiritual forces whirling. You got to be careful! Brain scans & stuff aside you don't want to invite dark forces into your life.

[@scottDayNDY]

i’m surprised Matt saidthtto his girlfriend. Iknew, back inthe 0s when abortion became an issue. that I,as a man had responsibilities should “We” become pregnant., sure,her body but we both old ave said no or chose more wisely my personal belief was that I would e financially responsible for any child that might be created. the child, especially at birth isetirelyinnocent of itsirth or context that it was created in, as a man, it was my responsibllity to provide, both sustenance and Direction

[@petersmithyy4556]

Why are there faces blurred with a filter? Dumb

[@SCD-Irish2024]

I thought I knew everything too when I was Matt’s age , but the older we get, the more we learn how little we know.