Decora Fashion is STILL ALIVE 🌈 Advice & Debunking Myths About Decora w/ Kamilah & Prince

[@rc_bunny]

i wear decora to school and the teachers stand waiting to see my outfit every day... it's embarrassing and overwhelming

[@thewizardddoll]

Well i think that is super cute! Like imagine getting a compliment every day, i would be so happy

[@Zampirezz]

I have a uniform but as a emo person I still get those awkward/feared confrontations of walking into a room. My advice is to just ignore it, ask the teachers to back off a bit or just make a fun conversation to make it seem like that doesn’t effect you.

[@crystalwhisp]

To the replies, guys please keep in mind that just because YOU would like the attention doesn't mean OP has to as well, don't invalidate their feelings and make this about you by saying things like, "I would like that" or stuff along the lines of "You should enjoy it because I would". To Op, I think you should tell your teachers that they are making you feel overwhelmed and embarrassed and how they can alleviate that feeling for you. If they really do care about you they would understand and do their best to stop making you feel that way.

[@-i-eat-drywall-]

Lol my home room teach would kill me for doing that

[@TxcaBxbbles]

I have a uniform bc my school’s British but I wish I could wear decora

[@13TheFurry]

oh man, this brings me so much comfort, especially the section where you were talking about being perceived as childlike. For me it has nothing to do with trying to look like a child, it's embracing my entire self and all of my interests & being powerful while also being cute! Hard decora especially is such a good aesthetic, I grew up wearing all black and band shirts so bringing it back around to that hardcore don't-fuck-with-me vibe makes me so happy!

[@andreajones2700]

EXACTLY......

[@alexandriahunt6058]

This makes me feel better ✨😊✨ I LOVE being colorful and wearing fun accessories, but I got sensory issues, so I can't wear, like, 20 hair clips and 15 bracelets, so I thought I couldn't do decora 😞 I'm gonna strive for casual decora in my day-to-day life ❤

[@DieAlteistwiederda]

I've started wearing decora when I was about 18 or so and I still do wear it for events now at 30. I always enjoyed Gothic fashion but also always liked colors so I just do all of that whenever I feel like it. Decora and all of those rainbows and stuff are just really good for my mental health and it also tends to make other people very happy. It makes me happy looking into my closet and seing these very distinct sides and I mix them too and I've gotten some other people to dress in decora too and they had just as much fun as me because it's just really hard to not be happy if you are a walking rainbow.

[@kiddo4266]

Waiting for the day i can move out and dress however i want without worrying about my parent’s opinions. For sure at the top of my bucket list

[@gooeater1544]

One thing I find interesting is how kid core is kind of.. completely misunderstood even by people who claim to wear/like it. For example, a HUGE part of kid core is "I'm not a child. Having 'childish' interests as an adult is okay and we need to normalize that" -- plus in the beginning it wasn't even about fashion at all, mainly toys and personal things (similar to nostalgiacore used to be super personal to each person) and didn't always include bright colours. Honestly for a long time the aesthetic was about toys, TV shows, arcadesx and /sometimes/ clothes and hair, but it got taken up in a few aesthetic booms that happened in recent years and basically was stripped of any of the aesthetics true... aesthetic? Meaning? I'm not sure what word to use honestly. If we're talking about Actual kidcore vs decora, they really aren't similar at all, besides toys being common in both. Also kidcore lifestyle isn't really a thing, I didn't know people thought it was 😭

[@ariuscatharsis]

oh you guys all seem so nice and fun to be around !! i love this series !

[@jennifer__e]

oh man decora is such an odd jfashion for me, not cuz of the style itself but i remember the early 2010s and harajuku fashion being super popular in the west. specifically the crazy fits nicki minaj and katy perry would wear (mostly nicki). i didnt know it was a harajuku thing, or rather that it was a… wearable thing? i just thought it was kinda like high fashion, being all unwearable and impractical but still super fun to look at. decora fashion is probably what i knew harajuku fashion to be at the time. i was around 12? when all that was going down. i miss that era of celeb culture tbh, and now im old enough to have my own money and collect my own things, and live out my barely realized harajuku barbie dreams lolol. im mostly a fairy kei gal but learning about the styles that peaked around the same period is always great. solarsherbet for example, i adore their fairy coords a lot, and im p sure they combined decora and fairy into this rlly cool fairy decora type style? im trying to look more into older fairy/decora/jfashion influences and styles and influences, so hearing abt the 90s and 00s was super great too. i was not a cognitive human being in those periods (not even a human in the 90s) so a lot of that information is almost like… lost knowledge to me H also omg!! wearing jfashion to cons before properly wearing it out is me rn, except ive still not been to a convention yet ;-; ill get a chance someday. thanks for another great video!! are there any more episodes planned? i would suggest something but im drawing a blank LOL

[@cluelesshh]

so, this is how i found out decora. once i was scrolling through tiktok, then i came across one of your videos. and the style, i hated it at the moment. i left TT and went to youtube aand THEN i came across one if your videos! i just quitted and took a nap. 1 month later. i started to become rainbow, and stopped being goth and started to like you. i started to collect rainbow 🌈 stuff, and decora stuff, and finally a year later i’m decora.

[@ShatteredRippleBooks]

I really want to wear decora fashion so I'm starting to experiment with wearing bright colours. I have anxiety so I may never be confident enough to wear as many accessories as you guys. I wore a colourful outfit and some Kandi necklaces on Monday. A lady in McDonald's looked at my outfit and smiled so I smiled back and she came over to chat which was nerve wracking (social anxiety wise) but also nice.

[@mmortalworm]

ahh i love hearing everything you all have to say !! esp about social media, all of you are so insightful 🌈🌈🌈

[@ju1iaonline]

the part where you talked about your ages was surprisingly uplifting and cheered me up to know im watching people in my same age group, i also keep assuming everyone is younger (especially in the fashion sphere)

[@thewizardddoll]

This is so wholesome, i love this

[@zeked96]

11 hours as of now 😌

[@Nopeno736]

Hi cybr.grl! I Also love decora fashion! Right now I have just created a decora outfit. I have just started wearing decora fashion and I create most of my bracelets and necklaces. Im blonde and in the first days it was really hard to find stuff that match whit my hair colour. You are such an inspiration to me and I love ur channel so much! Also I’m eleven years old so sometimes it’s hard to have the money to buy accessories. Thank god I have a mother that loves clothes so she always pays for clothes I want !!!! Luv ya cybr.grl

[@zay485]

That's so cool that you make your own decora accessories! Decora is so much fun welcome to the community! :)

[@shannonsthemepark]

Keep it up! I also am a young Decora kid, so I support you 100%° and remember 2 have fun!

[@Nopeno736]

@@zay485 thanks!

[@Nopeno736]

@@shannonsthemepark thanks as well

[@pixbug7528]

This was such a good video! Thank you cyber

[@RegstarRogstar]

man everytime you move you make crunchy noises. all the accessories are like built in asmr machine. amazing

[@ultrahappyalarm6958]

Huzzah and long live DECORA!!

[@diablalyssa]

not even 5 mins into the vid & i'm already SO excited, i LOVE prince & kamilah !!

[@xxNekoOfDarknessxx]

Ahhh I loved this so much!!! 🥰🌈 Decora has really evolved a lot over the years and I definitely agree that a lot of us are really creative and crafty with the fashion when putting together fits! 🌈💖 Also I loved how you all had an animal theme going with your fits, with Kamilah’s and Princes wolf/bear ears and Kristina’s froggy hat! Was that planned or just a coincidence? 😍💖

[@makeupmermaid22]

Yay so glad you got to work with harddecora!

[@freckledskyart]

I am definitely a fan of Decora but I don’t wear it myself. From an outsiders perspective I would describe it as wearing a whole collection of things that make you happy at the same time. Some people use display cases while you display your treasures on your body

[@lynniewood]

I've been interested in decora for a while but I've never actually tried wearing it before, but I'm hoping to go all rainbow decora to my local pride event this year :) Also, its so awesome to see other nonbinary people who love decora!

[@chaoticfaelle]

I love your videos so much but it's kinda hard for me to understand it all without subtitles because I'm not really fluent in english. I hope long videos like this could get subtitles one day but I know it could be long to do lol ! Anyway this video was super cool as usual, thank you for all the hard work you do, love from Paris ❤

[@SMTS584]

You are so unique and beautiful,never stop being yourself 🙌

[@Peregrina]

Oh man. I need to get into my dekora inspired style. I miss it. I kinda get inspired to decorate my empty adhd medicine bottles in a dekora and/or manhera style.

[@alliexcx5576]

your style is so unique! I love it keep being you

[@andreajones2700]

i am more pastel but started with decora now i am pastel with elements of decora and vice-vesa, like what you said about diy/randomness....i smiled because that is what i do.....i have been making my own hairbows and accessories with stickers and paper and randomness

[@st4r_eats_molten_plastic]

I am the physical embodiment of excitement

[@DecoraFangirl-gx4ww]

Same frfr

[@chuchu00444]

I was waiting for this one, very informative 🌈💓 btw what do you think about making a video about jirai kei? ^_^

[@Candy_marie_rotten]

This outfit is STUNNING and as are you gorgeous ❤️

[@0danshi0]

I was obsessed with Prince in 2015, but I still haven't had the opportunity/budget/balls to try out any kind of j-fashion :') Hopefully someday...

[@auroreboreale69]

I've known and loved decora style since high school, however I have frizzy hair and I only saw refs of decora people having straight/wavy hair (just like scene style, it was basically based on the straightness of the hair, or at least in the 2000's), which is suitable for hairclips...I always refused to straighten my hair and wearing a wig on everyday basis was not practical...even clipping hairclips on the front of my hair to flatten it and create a kind of bang looked weird because all the rest was not flat...and when I had my braids the hairpins wouldn't hold v well and on my natural hair, most accessories are hidden inside :( so I tried to create accessories adapted to my type of hair, "cheating" creating a big one that would be visible and making long accessories that would fall on the sides of my hair but I didn't really feel legitimate because no representation of decora peopel w my type of hair existed :( but when I found out hadeko style it was a relief, I was like, wow it's so suitable and practical for me! :D I love this style and I'm happy that a japanese style falls as close as my everyday style ! style trying to try to innovate w my type of hair in decora style though ! :p

[@juliette9700]

13 hours 😭😭

[@wakipanda715]

Im like love this style, and everything about it. But were i live it will be weird seen me like this, and i was going crazy becouse im 32 and know seen you are almost my age, i wanna cry. This is beautiful.

[@justinaperez7698]

🌸2 HOURS LEFT :D🌸

[@andreajones2700]

you are truly inspiring

[@Itz_minty]

39 mins left!!! :0

[@emmakara8907]

Your voice is identical to valkyrae's, I was bamboozled for a second lol. Great video btw!

[@viveanmerritt7025]

I joined the discord server and it seems really interesting! But I'm not able to write in any of the servers and when I tried pressing on the feature to complete the steps I haven't done but it isn't working

[@fairycloudz315]

Same! I hope someone can help us with this

[@jennifer__e]

on the topic of posting, i relate. i take pics when i can cuz i love documenting this stuff. worst case my mom can have the pics cuz she emphasizes taking pics, smth i never liked doing before getting into jfashion. i dont post anywhere except fairy kei discord and tumblr, and both is cuz i dont feel v percieved in either location, which is v nice. its great when a post does well, ive had a couple on tumblr get a handful of notes, but its not my focus. besides, i alr started getting affected by those notes, so im good w limiting my posts to those places for now.

[@sleepydeaths]

your channel makes me feel safe :D

[@crystalpayne533]

People want to talk to you because yr the epitome of happiness. It’s candyraver Shit like when us rave kids use to dress like that n the 90s. I’m finding out it’s ok to dress like this no matter what age.

[@raywt]

33 minutes!! :D

[@djohnston1977]

This is anything but boring I LOVE it!

[@AnActualChangeling]

The thing about decora and childcore sound like mori and cottagecore

[@Everskiesstarskk]

I love decora❤❤❤

[@Mckawaiiswag]

I am a Decora girl

[@fairycloudz315]

I joined the discord channel they posted but it won't let me comment😢

[@sidewalkchxlk]

I love you! You’re so cuuuute

[@gerard.ways.husband]

OMG ME AND KAMILAH ARE BIRTHDAY TWINS

[@catchthatnat]

Did you delete your Instagram? :(

[@cybrgrl]

no, instagram deactivated my instagram again this morning after they just reactivated it last week :(

[@zkme2734]

Why did prince delete his videos 😞

[@natalylafresaowowo]

😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@scotland6878]

uh hi um I made fan art and I wanna mail it to u but I dunno where you live so I don’t know

[@karstellart8719]

Hi cbr.grl. Would you ever consider doing a mori kei related content, or do you already have any content about it?