Decorate To Create a Peaceful Cozy Home In 2022

DO'S & DON'TS!!! - Create a Peaceful Cozy Home In 2022 - How Are Style Affects Our Moods! Come join me and let's have fun talking about furniture, decorating style, art, drapes, and more! I talk about how to fix the most common mistakes while telling you some real-life stories about decorating styles I have encountered with my friends.
I also share with you what I think true decorating is. What it means to us and how it can be so important to our well-being. I show you some footage of me at the thrift store and of course, there is Desi being cute as ever!!!
I hope everybody has a wonderful weekend.
I am praying for my brothers and sisters in Ukraine and praying for their safety.
Down below, if you have time, leave a comment and let everybody know how you are doing.
All our love to you always, Susan & Desi
Decorating 101 - How Are Style Affects Our Moods
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“If you wait until you have enough money to decorate and make your home your own, it will never happen. If you wait until you can afford to buy everything new, you are missing the point. It is the old, the new, the hand-me-down, the collected, the worn but loved things in your home that make it your own.” -Stacy Risenmay, Not Just a Housewife
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[@barbaracossentino2313]

I had an elderly aunt that was the wisest person I ever knew. She had a lovely home furnished with beautiful pieces and tasteful art objects. She would always say “ create the world you want to live in. You have to do it yourself because no one else can make you happy “. I know she was talking about more than furniture but it certainly is a good place to start.

[@carylc7891]

Your aunt sounds awesome. Hope you don't mind if I borrow her motto; it really resonates with me!

[@lynnsalberg5647]

Wise woman !

[@MyLifeWendy]

I had an Aunt Mary that sounds just like your Aunt. :)

[@carola3046]

Love that! It should be on a sweatshirt, pillow, etc.

[@takecontrolbeauty6402]

What a sweet wise Aunt ❤️

[@oliviaburton9489]

When I went through my divorce during midlife I ended up in a one bedroom apartment with my dog too. I had nothing. My dog and I slept on the floor with a pillow and blanket. I gradually picked up things I needed from garage sales and second hand shops. It’s was a few months before you could tell someone was living there. A difficult time, but we got through it!

[@elizabethann8228]

🙏🕊

[@lindafrazier8092]

💗

[@emerald5820]

👍

[@erinloo8921]

​@@lindafrazier8092

[@sondrasmith2691]

So happy for you, Olivia!

[@susanwilliams1575]

Susan you always give me hope that no matter what, I am going to be ok. Everything about you is lovely! We most certainly do not land where we had intended, but it works out. I live in a 150 years old Greek Revival home. When we moved here, we were coming from a very small house that I had bought during a divorce . That little house was decorated in bright yellow , purple, and tangerine. It was to make my girls and I happy. We were leaving a beautiful, Victorian home as a result of the failed marriage. I was so angry at him and the decor that I left everything except what belonged to the girls. We went modern! The girls had purple hanging beads over their bedroom and closet doors. It was fun and crazy! I remarried four years later and my husband moved into my little house. We stayed in it for several years and then we moved to this big, old house. I did not have the money to completely furnish the house, so I went to the Salvation Army for drapes and dressers. Anyways, I fell in love with the Salvation Army. It’s too fun. When I get tired of something, I re-donate it and replace it with another found treasure.

[@angelawacky2716]

I had similar circumstances. After my divorce, I left all my contemporary furniture behind - donated most. I bought an old tudor/craftsman style French cottage and decorated it with bold colors and thrifted antiques, totally opposite of what I had before. My daughter wanted her room painted pumpkin orange and that's what she got! I remarried 5 years after buying that house and we stayed there until 5 months ago. My hubby and I just relocated to a small stone cottage in the country and I'm having fun making this 'ours'.

[@annbright1556]

Susan,love your story. I think your idea of buying used furniture and taking it back when you tire of it for different furniture is a awesome idea. You have me thinking 🤔!🌺

[@Esther-1914]

When I divorced my first husband, I got the furniture. It fit nicely into my new apartment. Luckily I had two love seats, so it worked in my small living room. I had a cozy seating arrangement. I visited the thrift stores and filled in the spaces with things I loved. I learned to honor my self. I gained confidence and comfort as the time went by. Getting a divorce was painful, but me and my new apartment healed any loss I felt. In the end I gained more than I lost as I set myself free from a very unhappy situation. I created a new and better life for myself.

[@Linzi1947]

I’m getting ready to do that!!! Living MY own life for a change!!!! Sad, but honestly looking for some peace !!!!!0

[@Esther-1914]

@@Linzi1947 Good work, Linda! It might be scary at first, but you'll adapt and discover a new sense of freedom! Your soul will guide you, sista.💗

[@katelynmyers5431]

I am 32 and I just love your sweet spirit and the way you carry yourself. What a treat to see your vids daily.

[@LiveFree123]

This was such a fun video to watch. I too had to rebuild my life at 63. I was determined to make my tiny apartment my happy place and I did it with the simplest of things. I love thrift stores too. Four years later now and I bought a small condo after saving every penny I could from working to put down a sizable down payment. I absolutely love walking in the door of my new home. I bought a plaque made with tiles that greets me that reads “Welcome Home”. It makes me smile and so do you.❤️

[@jgator6694]

I am single with a dog and bought a condo, too. It feels good to own it on your own, doesn’t it? My happy place. 🙂

[@LiveFree123]

@@jgator6694 good for you!

[@sunnytime1472]

Susan your home is beautiful! I have also been on a journey of healing...in 2011 I divorced and left everything behind for a new start and a new life. Not long after that I found you, and no matter what struggles I endured I watched you every week and I didn't feel alone. I realized there were other women in my age group starting over. Now I rent a house and I have a good time decorating and adding things I enjoy. I'm truly grateful for what I have now and for what I have built for myself. I provide myself with a good life so thankyou for your influence and heartfelt encouragement!

[@faithandveggies]

Loved this so much! When I started redecorating my parent's home I was sure I'd tear much of it out and "modernize" it all. I ended up leaving the cornflower blue corian countertops, light oak cabinets and even the square tile backsplash with the teapot drawings on scattered tiles that my dad had installed (in the 90s), in the kitchen and I"m so grateful. They remind me of happy times in the home over the years and my kitchen is such a warm and inviting place that is one-of-a-kind. I did end up putting in new touches around the home (paint, flooring, door handles, sink faucets, light switch covers) but kept much of the feel, including a china cabinet, grandfather clock and some beautiful wood furniture that had been passed down or that my father made. I am very grateful to be surrounded by things I love each day even if it isn't the most trendy. It feels like living in a beautiful Bed & Breakfast and it feels like home.

[@rhondaalan8436]

I have an 80 year old Lane chest that I inherited from my mother that is quite an eyesore, so I covered it with a patchwork blanket and put my doll collection to sit on top, it is filled with my mothers albums and pictures so it is priceless to me no matter what anyone thinks.

[@vickiehaines3688]

What makes "you" happy is the true art of decorating.

[@nikkid3235]

I am surprised to hear that after waiting so long for your current apartment to become available, you're now looking for a house. I once decorated my home in a pastel southwestern style. Not because I liked it (I hated it) but because it was the popular décor at the time. Lesson learned, decorate for yourself and not to buy in to a current fad.

[@deborahpellerito6117]

I did that too

[@reesepeacock]

After my divorce, I bought an Ikea sofa. Wow, I can change it up with slipcovers and I paid very little for it. I used to sleep on it when I didn't have a bed yet (several months) It still looks good 14 years later in my perfect tiny home with dog and cat, Indian print table cloth and goodwill lamps. I really enjoy watching how far you have come, Susan. Me too! I always say the "F" word now. I'm free.

[@texasmimi5566]

I like your choice of Username. Good one!

[@yolandamarshall872]

Now that I'm having health problems, I have learned that material things are not that important. I loved decorating my home for all seasons and holidays, but I can't do it as much anymore. I'm blessed that I have a loving husband and two sons that are here for me. I love watching your videos! Your home is so beautiful! TFS

[@TheDriftwoodlover]

That’s one reason I am reducing what I have - as I age and eventually I’ll I won’t be able to maintain. Better to get ready in stages as I go.

[@junehawks4666]

You can light up any room. Such a joy to see and hear. Keep it up. Love your goodwill finds.

[@blairsvillager]

Thanks for being the best part of my weekend! Lovely video! As a retired decorator, my best advice to friends who are in a downward spiral or funk, or just suffering from the blues, has always been: Move the furniture around! You'll see the things you love again that you haven't noticed for a while, and you'll have a new environment to help you step forward into the next chapter of your life. And it's cheaper than a therapist!!!!!

[@kaylabryson1932]

I remember your beginning days. I just love you Little Poet. “Decorating is part of your soul.” I am a retired professional interior designer and Feng shui practitioner. I love your videos!!! So fun, and touching, and inspiring. You are very gifted 💜

[@LittlePoet]

OH my goodness...you are so kind...how sweet you are! Merry Christmas!!!

[@victoriah.2083]

The worst decor mistake anyone could make is: NOT HAVING YOU & DESI-BOO IN THE ROOM! LOL. But-- seriously I love viewing yr apartment vicariously. Your style is superb. It is creative, artistic, inviting, warm and approachable. JUST LIKE YOU! A HOUSE?? OOOooooo! I think you need to write a decorating book: Lil Poet Lifestyle. With photos... And yr style development over the years. I would keep it FOREVERMORE. Or in Desi's vernacular...FURREVER MORE. Luv ya, Susan.🌈🌞 If anyone agrees PLS give me a like.

[@LittlePoet]

Desi-Boo!!!! I love that little guy and I am goign to get him a fenced in yard if its the last thing i ever do!!!!

[@sheilaenglish3293]

“Desi-Boo” 😄

[@oliviaholland6970]

At the current time I love what I call the English Cottage look. It's a warm cozy and charming mixture of antiques and thrift store finds with soft, peaceful colors that reflect nature. I tend to change up throw pillows, flowers and surface decor as the seasons change. I want everyone who enters to feel comfortable and welcome. Still, I have a feeling that young 30+ newlyweds might enter and comment, "This looks just like my grandma's house"!

[@njungeberg6]

People used to come into my home and say it looked like an antique shoppe...I took it as a compliment! I love antique shoppes!

[@kanamichelle7404]

Thank you for this, Susan. We are about to move from 5 acres and a large 2 story home to a manufactured home in an adult park. It is going to require having to decide what I really really love, and part with other things that I also love, but won’t have room for. I have decades worth of things I have collected. I grew up VERY poor, so I guess I spent my adult years treating myself to all of the things I could never have before. Now, I have to go the other way again. This is going to be HARD! But, in a way, I will be glad to pare down my life into a more manageable quantity. And I also don’t want my kids to hate me when I pass away and THEY have to deal with all of my stuff. My style is somewhat Granny Chic and a little Boho, early hippy. I think because my daughters grew up in my semi-maximalist house, they are both minimalists. Funny. BTW I totally skipped the gray wall fad. I prefer a creamy white that shows off the pretty art, plants and trinkets.

[@cherylthepearl4085]

Good luck Kana. It will be hard to have closer neighbors after having property but can also look at the positives. More social events and new friends to meet. I have 4 wooded acres with neighbors here and there. One day I will also need to make a move but really dread the Jones being too close to each other. Enjoy.

[@kanamichelle7404]

@@cherylthepearl4085 Thank you❤️

[@BR-kk9qu]

Hi Kana! Im very excited for you. I think a smaller space will require less "work and cleaning" and allow you to enjoy other things! The people I know that have made this transition live such active, full, and interesting lives. I agree with you on not wanting to leave your "stuff" for your children to go through! Anyway, I am very happy for you! Enjoy your new home! ~Belinda

[@jimkuntz8423]

HI always chuckle when people say they worry about their kids doing stuff when they die. BTW i am he wife, choose an attorney to do it if you feel so bad to leave your kids with stuff. Enjoy what you have and please don’t worry when your dead

[@jacobg8612]

@@cherylthepearl4085 we lived out for years alone and I never cared for it..my husband worked third shift and I was always scared staying alone( no kids then) no friends or family close..I live in town now and love it!!!💗,Jacobs Mom

[@cherylthepearl4085]

Prayers for Ukraine. Peace for our world and our own country. The great USA. 🇺🇸 🙏❤️. Thanks for sharing Susan. Enjoyed as always. Squeeze Desi with luv.

[@cheriealver7924]

The rules are there are no rules. {{Smiles}} A house is a home and it's filled with love. And love is all there is. ❤

[@georgiaoblak8165]

I absolutely love your apt and how cozy you decorate. I decorate primitive and it's comforting to me. But I feel comfortable with all your lovely pieces. You really have a knack for putting things together. Be safe and know you are loved and you make others feel loved

[@sandym.430]

Susan, I truly understand what you are saying. After my husband died last March, I sold our large home and moved to Hawaii to be nearer to our daughter. I donated most of my furniture, but kept the furniture we had picked out together years ago. The decorating style here has a more tropical theme. My furniture is traditional. However, it is what I love, and has great memories, When I get my house built here, it will look and feel like home to me. And amazingly the amount of furniture I shipped will just furnish my smaller home.

[@adnerysfranchi-alfaro7680]

I love watching your channel because you give me hope. I’m a apple decorator fanatic. I had my kitchen with all type of apples, including the door knobs. I had to sell my house and I did it because of too many unfortunate events after my divorce. My kids tell me I should sell everything and start a new chapter. I haven’t been able to find a place because the rents in Miami, Florida are extremely expensive. I have everything in storage but the fact that I may not be able to find a place where I can see my apples again just makes me very depressed and I cry constantly. I feel I don’t have the strength to continue.

[@debishell952]

The costs of renting, or buying a home right now are out of range for ordinary people right now. I know it took me 2 years to find a place in North Carolina. Don't give up! It sounds like you have good support from your children. Keep looking and asking friends to keep their eyes and ears open. Talk to a realtor, because they know what properties are coming available before anyone else. In the meantime, brainstorm about other places you could live that would be less expensive than the Miami area. Also, in today's economy, people are living in tiny houses, 5th wheels, trailers, etc... Look at it as a necessary step in your life journey. It can be permanent, or temporary, but remember you are in control of your life and you are stronger than you can even imagine you are or ever could be! Hang in there!

[@adnerysfranchi-alfaro7680]

Thank you for those supporting words.

[@ionegrimm1203]

Don’t give up. Keep looking forward. There is a tomorrow ❤️

[@Linzi1947]

@@debishell952 do not give up! Find the smallest really “nice” place you can safely live in….. and don’t fill it with junk… just what makes YOU happy to walk i every day!!! I’m having to leave a house we built, simple but lovely….. not one time did I ever leave that I didn’t walk it and sigh “aah I’m home” ! Being divorced now …. But gonna do the same with newer smaller home just for me!!!!!

[@EAdams-mf2wi]

Buy what you love and you'll never go wrong!

[@suzanne296]

I'm doing good Praying for our brothers and sisters in Ukraine. Seeing the fight they have to stay safe. So anything material is not a priority.

[@kaylabryson1932]

2024 healing, happiness and prosperity for all of us . Beautiful song, beautiful show tonight ! Whoops … trying to comment on new video !! But it’s going on this one !!

[@judithmaddox4186]

You and desi are so cute. He is the perfect pal. Love hearing you talk about your project, so cheerful and uplifting for people. Your style is fun and encouraging and gives us ideas and vision.

[@janjbowman]

Your on my prayer list I want you to have that little home of your own . God still does miracles .

[@bereatha1]

I had never purchased anything from a thrift store until last week. I had been longing to have a really expensive Jewelry Armoire for decades but I just couldn't justify spending $1,000 for it. I looked on Facebook Marketplace and there was a lady who was selling hers for $55. My son, who lives the next town over only lived 10 minutes from the Seller and I had him to pick it up for me. It needs a little polishing but I got my expensive Jewelry Armoire for only $55. At 72 years old, I now realize the value in thrifting and I can't wait to score my next thrifted treasure. Thank you for sharing all of your thrifted goodies.

[@erinloo8921]

Thank you so much Susan. Another lovely video..cheering me up

[@eleanorirving2475]

I just love listening to you sweet lady. Your kind disposition is so calming. You are the friend I wish I had in real life. So thankful for you and Desi. 🤗❤

[@cindyq52700]

My grandmother took me on her treasure hunts in thrift stores as a child so I love looking for treasures in the second hand stores!

[@kathleenfisher7387]

I don't even look at decor articles anymore. They all look like hotel rooms. Low end to high end. I would say minimalists. I love your home. It is so homey and beautiful.

[@cbdeco969]

❤Learned So Very Much From Your Video Thank You And darling Puppy !!

[@courtneycox8297]

I like clean surfaces and full walls. Functional yet beautiful.

[@vickierosebrough2652]

Not bad at life , just learning life changes , ups and downs , being your best friend .

[@ncsprung1847]

I just walked in the door, and now I have to make my husband’s dinner, but I see that you have your video up and I am looking forward to seeing it as soon as he is fed. I see that it’s longer than last week’s and I’m excited about that. I like when your videos are longer.

[@victoriah.2083]

Me so too. Make it an hour!!😍

[@monapacheco7580]

It's the first thing I look at how long is the video and throughout watching it I'll push the little button to see how much longer I got♡♡

[@ncsprung1847]

@@victoriah.2083 YES!

[@ncsprung1847]

@@monapacheco7580 I do the exact same thing

[@CVenza]

The difference is you are living in the now and expressions of your love are everywhere in the house. Women long ago used to save up and buy a favorite piece, wrap it up and put it away in a hope chest for their future home. Sometimes that never happened for them as life took them into another direction. We need to live life now, be happy now, reach with love as many as we can.

[@debrandw246]

Thank you for a great video. Give our little Dezzie a hug. My home needs a change. I have already started.

[@trudymorris9981]

When I was young, poor, and had a small apartment, I used a free cable spool for a coffee table. Hey, it looked terrible, but it served the purpose. I like the coastal decor now. Desi you look wonderful buddy.

[@lindaraha4723]

I am so happy about what you said about decorating in the color gray. We had an apartment and everything was gray, kitchen cupboards, floors, tile. I was so tired of it. When I bought my new home last year, I told the decorating department that I wanted nothing gray. I feel so much better with my light colors. Decorate to make you happy. Very good video.

[@maryellenvogt2419]

I like to take pictures with my phone of parks I visit. Then I print them and get a frame from goodwill and hang them for art around my condo. Great conversation starters. And they bring me joy.

[@trudybrazil8313]

I made all the decorating mistakes imaginable. I see something I absolutely love and I buy it even though I don't always have a place for it.

[@juliefizpatrick513]

Hi Susan:). Since I’m basically starting over at 71 you have me inspired to do things totally different:)👍😊🤗🌹

[@kentuckylady7344]

What a beautiful story, thank you for sharing. I left a marriage with nothing too, only I had 2 children to raise. I didn't have a job. My furniture was old and second hand (mostly given to me by relatives). But I agree with you, when I decorated my first home with my second hand furniture for my children and me I loved it. I loved our little family. It IS all about love.

[@trishabee2229]

Well I think you are pretty good at life! Showing us all how to move past our pain and into peace

[@alicescofield3066]

I used to know a very nice man (with a sense of humor) who collected art on velvet. It made him, and us, smile!

[@Purify123]

I've never got into the grey color trend. I love white & off-white but it's with lots of different textures (mother of pearl lamps, white glass, big round modern white lacquer dining table, a cozy & casual rattan loveseat.) It makes me feel cozy, modern & elevated😊

[@jeannebyesb4079]

The first video I ever watched of yours was called "Decorating my one bedroom apartment". I found it by accident but clicked on because I am downsizing from a 3 bedroom house to an apt. and wanted some ideas. I loved that video and the way your apartment reflected your personality so much that I became an instant subscriber and fan ever since!

[@edithzapata1883]

Oh yes, I shares with my sister and not only that your beautiful English and happiness of yours, that big smile. ! Congrats...

[@theteal123]

I moved into my brand new townhome a year and half ago. I wanted all new furniture. It was covid so I bought online from restoration hardware. Disaster, It was too massive for my small room, I returned it all and got stickley walnut grove mid century and it fit perfect. My friend saw it last week and said it looked like a park ave home. I love the way it turned out.

[@marileeknudsen]

I think years ago I bought things thinking they were classic and would last. I did not think disposable or minimal which tends to be “in” now, especially with young people. I love the idea of simpler but warm and inviting. I did not grow up with the idea of repurposing or thrift. I love the self expression of it now. I love growing into these ideas. You have helped me to free me up. Thank you!

[@candydonnelly7543]

I feel like I have been through every decorating style, looking back it just makes me smile. I am moving again and donating furniture pieces that I have had a long history with, but I have moved on emotionally and now it is time for some else to enjoy and get pleasure using them. My secret is only take the pieces you Love. Don’t worry when you are shopping at thrift stores, antique stores, TJMaxx if you fall in love with pieces that are from a different Decorating Style, it will work because you will put your own spin on it! Great video, everyone should be surrounded by beauty every morning to start your day with happiness. ❤️👍❤️👍❤️👍❤️

[@donnariley8639]

Dear Susan, I hope you’ve had a good week! You look beautiful as always. Love what you had on the colors look great on you! Guess what? My grandson got his first ever part time job and it’s at Goodwill!!! I was happy for him and me too lol! Thank you for this lovely video of great ideas!!! Take care of yourself and looking forward to seeing you and Desi again soon! Love always, Donna 💕

[@jaxjax4813]

Little Poet your pure honesty brings tears to my eyes, and inspiration to my heart. Maybe there is still hope... Your home is beautiful and reflects who you are. Thank you for being you. A genuine pearl...

[@LittlePoet]

Oh thank you Jax for being so sweet!!!

[@jaxjax4813]

@@LittlePoet I'm in So. Haven. Maybe we can meet for coffee in the spring/ summer. Listen to some great music, (Ricky Lee Jones) a women after my own heart.❤️ My heart beats for the beach, art, poetry, music, ballet, all the finer things in life... Our paths are so similar. You are one of my best friends, that I have never met in person. LOL Thank God for KZbin!

[@tammygarrett9261]

I like simple decorating. I don't like to dust.☺

[@deeannaadams1379]

Susan and Desi, You are right about furniture holding memories. It is hard to let go of things that I have had for many years, but I am continuing to downsize. I never follow trends, just decorate with what I like. Love thrifting and second hand stores. I hope you find the perfect house for you and Desi, so he can run and play in his own yard. It will be fun watching you decorate a house. Have a great week.

[@tammygarrett9261]

I love light grays, whites and creams. It's very relaxing here. Calm. I do have splashes of red.

[@marjoriebouse2645]

I love my home. It’s a little of everything. But it has changed over the years. I love your things. And, I love that I don’t need to envy them. I hope that we can always make our homes a piece of our souls. That’s so important. Goodnight

[@angelasepi657]

Im happy you and Desi have each other and you have made your apartment a home. Good wishes.

[@LittlePoet]

Thank you so much 😊

[@joycealdrich]

Susan, your vid reflect life, in all its versatility, and energy!!! Thank you! 😍

[@mindbodyfitness99]

I’m goin’ to Salvation Army and I’m gonna search for pieces of my soul and what makes me feel gooooood❤️🙆‍♀️

[@lyndaparker2969]

My goal is to live to the max and be happy...40 years of blending memories and Goodwill finds makes me happy and thankful for all the people and my treasures in my life. I might be interested in a Elvis in velvet...lol

[@sharonproctor4079]

I kept two antique chairs one my moms and one my grandmothers. The heart shaped back chair from my Grandmothers bedroom where I sat talking to her the last two years when she was sick at my Moms house. I love those chairs they represent my family history. They are all passed on but every time I look at them with new pillows in them now my heart 💞 smiles.

[@angelinadrobina5037]

You are NOT bad at life !!! Don’t ever let us hear you say that again young lady 💪💪💗

[@LittlePoet]

Hello, my dear friend Angelina! I debated whether I should keep what I said in the video...there are 2 things I said here I think I better address this week. I don't think I was bad at life but I think I did make terrible mistakes in my first 50 years on earth! I did learn chess as a child...I learned life a few years ago...but you are right. I should weigh my words when filming..but you know me!!! Love you my friend! Happy new week!!! xxoo We have such good talks here don't we!!! I love it!!!

[@roxy4158]

I'm in a center of a storm this week. Clearing out closet and dresser from my husband. Still in original packaging and tagged designer labels 24 suits, 150 golf shirts, 175 dress shirts etc etc My husband died 2019. Closets filled with memories dancing with Jim in his silk /wool suits but bottom line it's only "stuff " Still missing my almost 60 years with Jim. Blessings to you susan!!! You are an extraordinary awesome lady!!!!

[@deeannaadams1379]

I can relate. My husband died 2020. Still have his favorite shirts, only 5 or 6 and his cowboy boots. So very hard to sort out his things. My husband's name was Jim, also. We had 42 years. Miss him daily. Where does the time go?

[@kimkelly9046]

May God bless you 🙏

[@roxy4158]

@@deeannaadams1379 My gosh cowboy boots!! Never part with those! I'm not sure about my husbands things, maybe his favorite baseball cap and my daughter asked for his tuxedo. The tuxedo that he wore for the father daughter dance at the weddings of all of his 3 daughters weddings ❤ . We have 3 knock out gorgeous daughters and 6 grandchildren. Memories is all we have Dee Anna the other "stuff " is just stuff. I don't know where the time goes but time is not a healer. Every song makes me cry. Could be county, jazz or opera every song crushes my heart. How do you cope with the emptiness? Nothing seems to light the darkness for me. The room is filled with laughter and conversations at a social event and i smile but feel empty. Lovely that you share your heart maybe slip into those boots and have a walk in the stillness with nature. Be well find joy ❤

[@roxy4158]

@@kimkelly9046 One day at a time is all we can do. Sometimes its 1 hour at a time. No one can drown in tears every day or my house would be flooded. It's wonderful to find our Little Poet with her understanding and compassion and encouragement. The other beautiful lady is Sandra Hart "Life after 60 with Susan " And beautiful she is indeed, just celebrated a 80 something birthday!! A lovely lady with immeasurable courage and strength. We are all stronger then we give ourselves credit for and we all have our forgivable weaknesses but raise up again with help from our friends and sometimes from strangers. ❤

[@deeannaadams1379]

@@roxy4158 Our hearts are hurting and will be for sometime or maybe for the rest of our lives. It's hard to see the rest of my life alone. I know what you mean about social events--I am only half way in attendance. My husband's death has forever changed me. Hold on. It's a bumpy ride!! Take care of yourself.

[@roxy4158]

Susan you didn't leave ANYTHING important!!!! You had EVERYTHING!!! You had your beautiful compassionate heart and your spirit and your amazing soul that you share with the world. LOVE ❤

[@LittlePoet]

Oh Roxy, you make you cry....again! :)

[@roxy4158]

No more thrift stores for me. I've been "clean " from my addiction for months now. I only go there to donate now. Going minimalist. Have you looked onto Capsule Clothing?? Interesting. You are so full of laughter and joy today so wonderful Susan 💖

[@LittlePoet]

Thank you Roxy so much....that touches my heart...I was happy filming.

[@grettalemabouchou6779]

I live like a Queen. Yard sales and tag sales🦋🌺🦋🌺🦋🌺🦋🌺🦋🌺🦋

[@Willowgrey31]

Beautiful everything! Cutest pupper too.

[@edithsmom6140]

I'm 64, no children. About 5 years ago I realized I must pare down furnishings and belongings as I get older cuz after I pass, my sweet nephew, a man's man, will get a dumpster and curse me with every furry orange sofa pillow, every Hobby Lobby decorative dish and every Williams-Sonoma must have gadget he has to toss. 😃

[@annlagrande5963]

Hi Susan and Desi: What a fun video this week. I love decorating too. I have a dear friend who says she's so intimidated by decorating her home and asked how I do it. My answer is to decorate with whatever makes you smile!! My home is my place of comfort....Thank you Susan for all of your helpful suggestions and sharing your lovely home with all of us.

[@KAdams-dr4pc]

In my opinion...creating a cozy home is about soft lights, candles, soft blankets, clean bedsheets, quiet moments, good food, and hot chocolate (in the cold months) freshly made lemonade (in the hot months) and talks of the soul. Not ever raising your voice, but talking to each other with respect. I've been with my husband since 1977. The secret to a beautiful life .... is not being afraid of telling that special one how much you love and respect them. Kindness is the key. Once you establish the respect and genuine love and kindness, happiness follows throughout your entire life. That is how to make a happy, cozy home with the one you love. ❤ And ... finally .... never never ever take them for granted. NEVER.

[@starscratchers]

I just wanted to thank you for your talks.

[@cvonsutphen]

*New Subscriber* . Laura Rae sent me. I absolutely loved this video, it was very nostalgic for me. I purchased a 1300 sq. ft. ranch style home built in 1965 eight years ago. I downsized from a 4 bedroom 2.5 bath Colonial that was too much maintenance for myself. I knew from the moment I walked in the front door, this was my home. I'm an avid thrifter and after a few go-rounds with tweaking my style, I have come to a perfect balance for me. I enjoy a casual cottage style with a bit of rustic and traditional. I'm not trendy and enjoy an earthy neutral color palette that shift easily with the seasons. For me, using a coordinating color scene in my semi-open floor plan has made a huge difference. I tend to work in a ratio of the "pop of color" du jour. I would challenge anyone who knows me to say this home is not a total reflection of my 55 years on earth. I've spent a lot of time curating my space, not a lot of money. Your decorating advice was spot on, absolutely agree on the conversational seating, one of biggest pet-peeves.

[@carmenmorcate6696]

I hope you had a wonderful week. Boy you were talking to me today. I remember my first decorating venture the colors were brown and orange I had a dark dark brown couch orange drapes but they were the in colors that was in 19 73 after my husband and I and divorce. And I was starting over at 23 years old I could conquer the world. Then I met my second husband we dated for eight years. Helped him through law school. He walks out with someone else that he only knew a month he story about it now but it makes no difference. To make my very long story short I’m going to be 72 years old I find myself alone I sold my home which I raise my four daughters by myself worked very hard to maintain it and I wish I knew how to send you pictures of it it was spectacular. Now I find myself in a very small apt with my two little dogs. When I was younger I struggled to keep the big house I worked 23 jobs so that my kids would not have to leave the school system but now I find myself alone my kids have their big houses. Of which I am so happy for them. However I’m lonely they think my apartment is full of a lot of junk I’ve had to downsize can’t afford much because of my age Social Security doesn’t pay for a lot, so I have to work full-time. Never thought going through the last phase of my life that it would come to this. But I understand what you mean about wanting to surround yourself with things that you like or love right now I have a secondhand couch and coffee table which I think are beautiful I bought the cheapest furniture I could afford and put them together, found out that you can buy furniture and put it together for a lot cheaper than if it was already put together. But it seems that all I do is work and sleep, all I wanna do is sleep. I love the way you’ve decorated your apartment I love your colors I love everything about it. I am a crafter so I do craft a lot of things and end up giving them away but I don’t have the room to store anything this apartment only has two closets that’s it and they’re full to the brim. But today you spoke to my heart and yes I know about the pain when someone that you love very much walks out. It’s a physical pain. I don’t understand how that happens but it is a physical. I so look forward to your KZbin channel every week I know I’ll get out of this funk one way or another I have never been a quitter and I’m not going to start at 72 thank you so much Susan you are very much appreciated.

[@carmenmorcate6696]

I worked 2 to 3 jobs

[@hollytaylor3242]

I lived in a tiny house (800 sq feet) and the worst mistake I ever made was to put a dark floor in my kitchen. So any spilled flour, sugar, salt, etc always showed.. I spent waaay too much time trying to make sure that floor looked perfect.

[@TheDriftwoodlover]

White floors are bad too. I inherited one in the bathroom of the house I bought

[@sondrasmith2691]

Dark kitchen floor would be murder in a kitchen

[@janjbowman]

I like a set of drapes to face inward and a set that faces outward also so that people from outside can enjoy them also

[@suletu1]

You made me smile🥰😇☀️joy is contagious🎉😊❤thank you for sharing!

[@maryellenlibonati3210]

Thrifting is also how I solved a lot of pain resulting from still a bad marriage. I never had money for me, the 3 kids came 1st. And I would do it all over again. There’s always a way. A thrift store item can make me smile the same as one that is not. I miss Cooper. Remembering is so hard. Your an inspiration. Your a better person. Your a friend I love. Mary Ellen🥰🌷❤️🙏🍾

[@stacyskoog1510]

I wait for your videos - and truly loved this one. Loved your tip about hanging drapes higher to elongate the window. You spoke of so many truths- decorating to make you happy reallly stands out, and moving forward. Love to that cutie pie Desi!♥️

[@LittlePoet]

Thank you, Stacy!!!

[@kathybates1751]

I have been waiting to. Ha. With all that is going on in world it is so nice to escape. Appreciate you Little Poet!

[@marydahlheimer3477]

I couldn't stop laughing. Everything was so true. Thank you for this

[@lindavernon8051]

I decorate with other people’s stuff that THEY spent too much money on. ie: Thrift store finds! And it is sooo satisfying.

[@pamelalangvardt8743]

You’ve got me into frequent goodwill. Love it

[@joycealdrich]

I'm so thrilled, because we have the same faded blue pattern rug on our floors.

[@georgiaoblak8165]

You look so beautiful in that color. And I agree about that adorable teapot

[@mike1968442]

Seeing that snow, ugh! I hate that in the worse way hate the cold.

[@donnaduran5022]

Thank you Susan for this video I moved from a home where I had everything I needed to my husband being killed in bike accident I spent a year in the hospital 8 months of it in a coma came out of the hospital went to a rehab facility to see if I might be able to walk again I had to learn how to read and write I am a paraplegic paralyzed from the waist down. I lost everything we owned while I was in the hospital and rehab. They never found the driver of the truck that hit us so there was only our insurance for the bills.I bought a bed and a chair it was very rough and depressing but slowly I started getting things and decorating my 1 room apt I rented. I am going to be moving near my daughter now that she is living back in the US. so things will be much easier. God bless! 💗😊🙏🏻

[@rockinrobin3467]

One of my most cherished items is a maple rocking chair in my living room. Gifted to me by my parents on my 14th birthday. I was so disappointed. I was 14 for crying out loud ….I wanted a new outfit or some records. I got a darn chair ! I have moved this chair from Missouri to Florida. It’s been in my childhood home, first apartment, trailer, and several houses. It’s not my style, doesn’t fit in my decor (or any decor), takes up too much floor space, it has scratched up floors, walls, and smashed lots of carpet. I used to feel that it was a lesson for me. “You can’t always get what you want”. It gave me negative vibes. I am 60 years old now. My parents are gone. I just moved into my forever home. This chair has outlasted any old outfit or record that was so important to me at age 14. It has so much history. It’s part of me. I will never part with that darn chair.

[@jennyhayes2883]

Susan..I just wish I lived near you! Just love your personality!! Love decor!! Tfs xo

[@ladyw605]

Love IS the most important part of EVERYTHING…even when people disagree love can hold them together if they let it…!!!

[@LittlePoet]

YES!!! I agree with you lovely lady!!!

[@Cynthiab59]

Love your channel. Trying to come to terms with aging. At 62 I'm noticing more n more signs...ughhh. You bring authenticity to life's journey. All are different, but you offer topics that show that we aren't so different. Always feel good after your funny, but helpful scenarios!!!

[@jeanholmes7976]

You are young!! Don’t worry about numbers-I’m 76 years😇

[@tamathagilbert5816]

Graceful Greetings Susan:)! Such a positive, upbeat, and fun video:)! Love the way you decorate:)! You can see your joyful heart in it:)! I really enjoy decorating and creating a welcoming place thru color, plants, cozy furniture, diverse art, books, magazines... Etc:). A slice of peace, kindness, music, and home:). I have fun with it and try new styles, but no matter the changes, it's always cozy and welcoming, and decorated with love:). I love this video:)! Makes my heart smile:)! Have a great weekend:) 🌹🙏🎀

[@lindauribe6872]

You are doing great ☺️I am one that says I love the way you decorate 😊 all the time.

[@ginahaynes5596]

Love your Beautiful music & videos! Almost as much as I Love Desi! Have a Blessed Week Susan.

[@LittlePoet]

I just love you Gina...:)

[@corazonestoesta7595]

Thank you for sharing your ideas. God bless you and your loved ones

[@suesmith6342]

Love you, the bubbly person you are and the heartfelt words you send to us each week. You've made a difference to me and to those of us who watch you and Desi. Not one video goes by without feeling your love. Thank you dear one.

[@LittlePoet]

Wow, thank you Sue...I love you being here beyond words!!!

[@MaryKayAbblett]

I did buy a big sofa in blue and new blue Leather like covers for loungers and blue drapes and I love it all. We recline and watch movies all the time. Both of us retired!

[@hippiegirl5167]

If I was single I would decorate my home really nice . My husband don’t care what it looks like . Hodge podge is ok with him. Our 2 couches are really old and they have rips in the arms and the bottom of one has collapsed. Oh well I think I need to be thankful for what I have and I do . I love your decor ❤