Why I Have To Move - Living Alone at 68

[@marilynmcleod1196]

Thank you for this video. It helped me IMMENSELY with my dilemma of whether I should move or not.. to be closer to my only surviving son (lost my youngest son 13 years ago). I lost my husband a little over a year ago, and "they" (who are "they" anyway?) say don't make any rash decisions the first year after the death of a loved one. I've respected that.. and now it has been a year and 4 months, and I so want to move closer to my son who now lives 5 yours away from me. I know that doesn't seem far, but it IS far when I can't be there to be a part of his life, his everyday activites, holidays, celebrations, etc. I so miss that and need that.. and at an older age (75) feel I don't have many years left to experience his life. How can I NOT move??? Seeing your video really cinched it for me.

[@LittlePoet]

Oh dear Marilyn....I am crying! yes...GO!!! I am so happy for you! My son is only 1 hour from me but it seems like 1000 miles because I am not there for the bdays and celebration of life....I am so sorry for your loss of your husband....and you did wait...now perhaps it's time to pack those bags....you can spend the next 20 years or more building a new life!!! Love always, Susan & Dez PS: Keep us posted!!! when you love something....it's not enough....xxoo

[@marilynmcleod1196]

@@LittlePoet thank you Susan! You have inspired me! And that quote "it's not enough to love something, but you need to take care of it" really hit home for me. Loving from a distance just doesn't fill the soul.

[@vintagebeliever5023]

Yes, go! Love with no regrets. Good luck 💝

[@JJ33438]

Marilyn if you can afford to go.....go! Life is too short not to share in the day to day happenings and to share as much of your time as they allow. In the end......that's what important! so do it! It will help you with the grief process as well.

[@katbar6066]

GO- Don't put it off. Five hours is a long distance so if you can move closer don't think about doing it- Go ahead and do it!!!!

[@sandrag.mcalister3308]

Good grief Susan, it's your life, your choice, stay or go. The memories that you're going to make with your grandson are going to be priceless, and yes when he goes to college, he will remember your name! Have a great evening! 💕

[@redsandrock8073]

This is not the place to get financial info from someone named Cynthia N Carter. Do not send money!

[@chrisfry436]

@@joellekassulkev47 SCAMMMMER, DONT GIVE THEM INFO!!

[@chrisfry436]

@@TinaRanieriA SHAME ON YOU FOR SCAMMING IN THE COMMENTS!!!

[@pheralyndove6611]

Sandra thanks for posting this. I share your exact sentiments.

[@lindafrazier8092]

Please 🙏 follow your ❤️... your heart ❤️ knows the way.

[@janice7467]

To those who say “don’t you understand Susan, your grandchildren will only be around a few years” That is EXACTLY why I spend as much time with my grandchildren as I can now. They will grow up so fast and I cherish every moment.

[@cocofreebird7337]

I agree! I gave up a well-paying job seven years ago to help care for my youngest grand daughter and these have been the very BEST 7 years of my life! She and her big sister are the JOY of my life! Every moment of every day I get to spend with them is special and wondrous! I am so blessed to live close to them and my other two sons. The older I get the more precious family is to me. Jobs, things in general, all take a backseat to time spent with my family enjoying special moments. You are a wise and beautiful woman, Susan, and your love and time invested in Wyatt will be his guiding light!❤

[@lauramcgowan3740]

yes !!! I had a baby at 40 I may not see grandchildren , but I know my son .. I have a disabled adult child are my life .. I also care what happens to their father .. I am near by them

[@patriciacorpe6228]

so very true.

[@ValerieinSC]

@Coco Freebird I did the same thing and it has been such a joy! Valerie in SC

[@theirishprincess7110]

That is so true! My granddaughters have grown up so quickly! My goodness, one day they are little and the next day, one is a Freshman in highschool and the other is in 5th grade!

[@MimiG2182]

Go For It! Be a light for Wyatt. Be the best watcher/listener/guide/friend/mentor that he will ever have. It will make both of you happy.

[@pambrunelle8772]

Susan I don"t usually comment but I want to encourage you to follow your heart. At the beginning of the pandemic I decided to retire and take care of my 7mo old grandson who had been in daycare. I turned down the offer of moving to Charleston with a man who I thought at the time was my dream partner ( Something inside said no to that and I am so glad I listened !). Over the last 5yrs I have nurtured a relationship with this precious little one and I can not tell you how grateful I will always be for this connection and experience. We can always move but how many chances do we get at precious innocent loving relationship ? Yes !!! Take care of them !

[@fridperon3670]

Desi have fun in your new Home

[@tamathagilbert5816]

Much respect to you Susan, on choosing family, choosing art, choosing that next awesome chapter of your life:) 🌼🌼🌼🎀🎀

[@elenidavis4983]

Susan, when you said, "I have to go!", it was the most profound statement I've heard on your channel. 👏 You go, girl!

[@LittlePoet]

Oh my....you made me cry....why am I so emotional over a simple feeling? I just love you Elen.....xxoo thank you..xo Susan

[@diannstarratt5496]

You will never regret investing your life in others. I can’t wait to see throw lovely you decorate your new home ! Exciting

[@chilloften]

You provoke lots of emotion, always heartfelt & beauty-FULL.

[@LittlePoet]

Thank you so much for being here...!

[@xopi2521]

Oh, and you have a great eye. Fantastic decor and you look beautiful and elegant in your thrift finds. My clothes also mostly come from thrift stores.

[@sandrakiel3091]

Being a mentor, a supporter, an encourager, a cheerleader...that is sharing your heart, soul, and talent! How blessed that you can do this for and with your grandson. And I really have to say that I disagree...he will remember your name and the time you gave him! Best wishes!!!

[@stephaniefields4743]

I am 57, divorced with no children. I’ve struggled with the idea of moving to be closer to my mother( who is very independent and healthy).. the quote you stated really hit home. I am finally happy with a great support system.. if I moved, I would loose myself and be absolutely no good to anyone. My life belongs to no one. I’m finally happy with my life.. FINALLY and I need to let go of the guilt. My mom refuses to move here( I am only a hour and a half away from her).. and, one day she may have to be close to me but I need to be happy. I need to realize I would be no good back home. I was miserable there and had a horrible divorce and marriage. I walked away after 55 years in the same area. It was time to start over and I did all by myself. And I’m so happy here. Thank you for the lovely video.

[@leebay6093]

Good on you Stephanie, you must be a very strong, independent lady, I commend you ❤

[@LB-eh5fz]

HONEY DO WHAT YOU NEED TO DO FOR YOU,,,I NEVER KNEW ANYONE WITHOUT CHILDREN ,MY GRANDMOTHER HAD 21 CHILDREN YES 21 CHILDREN,,,KENTUCKY,,NO BIRTH CONTROL BACK THEN ,,I NEVER HAD A FRIEND ,I HAD SO MANY AUNTS UNCLES COUSINS ,,I LOVED IT ,,IM NOW 71 AS FAMILY PASS IT IS DEVASTATING ME ,,,BUT I LOVED MY LIFE ,,,SO DO WHAT MAKES YOU LOVE YOUR LIFE ♥️

[@stephaniefields4743]

@@smillailyas3974 I never abandoned my mother. I am still here for her whenever she needs me! I just moved out of the city where she lived. How dare you judge me or make such assumptions! I love her and would NEVER not be there when she needs me! You have made many assumptions about me and my character. You have no idea what kind of person I am. You have also made many assumptions about what it is to be an American. I can ASSURE YOU that this country give more in charity and assistance to other countries than ANY other nation, including the one you live in. Please know that we are good people here who are just trying to live a happy, meaningful existence, just like you. We should not be judged by the propaganda you read or see. We are not materialistic, as you say. We are not all living in a mansion with loads of money and things surrounding us.. Most of us live day to day, paycheck to paycheck. Most are just trying to feed their children and get by and be happy. We pray. Most of us believe in a higher power and we live by those standards.We don’t want war. We want peace in the world . Please don’t judge a whole nation so harshly when you don’t know us, in reality. Thank you. Peace be with you.

[@BlondeFairy]

I'm happy that you are following you heart. You are listening. :)

[@simplybeautifulcakesllc]

Maryann here from Oregon....and I am a cake artist...no one can tell me to stop doing my cakes. I will be known for my cakes. Also I am a Grandma of 11 grandkids....go and be with your kids.....I can't ever get enough of my kids. I am blessed my kids live fairly close by. You will be so happy to be with them. Your life will feel complete. I love you....

[@rosemaryburford7607]

Susan, I am so happy that you are going to be living close to your grandson and son. You will be such a wonderful influence in your grandson’s life. I live in Florida and my 3 yr. Old granddaughter lives in Houston. It’s so painful not being able to see my granddaughter and daughter whenever I like. I try to fly to Houston every 2-3 months to see them but it’s just not enough. So, you and Desi pack up and move to where your grandson is and enjoy every minute with him. Love to you and Desi ❤

[@622barmacost]

It’s an adventure worth taking to be a part of your family and little grandson. The best is yet to come!!

[@suepederson5916]

Get going!! I did 4 years ago and someone is looking for my help weekly. My favorite request is “ can you get her at the bus stop”. That sweet little face spotting me waiting for her is priceless 💕

[@thomsonsmith95]

Hello Sue How are you doing today?

[@jessicamccain1000]

My Five year old granddaughter said I was her best friend this week. That's the sweetest thing I've heard in months and I'll hold it in my heart forever.

[@myaandgrammy2184]

I could not live without seeing my Granddaughter everyday. ❤❤

[@Elizabeth-arb22]

I listened to you with tears in my eyes. I'm cheering you on, as you plan the move to be close to your family! I hope you take us with you, but if you no longer can work it in, I will never forget you, Susan (and Desi)! You are kind, inspiring, passionate about life, as well as having so many other good qualities one would want in a friend (yes, even a virtual friend). Wyatt will not forget you. Your wish to support him and provide encouragement is precious. I was fortunate to have two grandmothers whom I will never forget. 💗

[@nitahiltner3348]

I am sure she will still do her vlogs, she will have a new home to decorate and I am sure she won't be with her grandkids every day. She will also have her own life.

[@junecarterhall8226]

I was trying to think of the right words to support Susan, but you said it all for me. Go Susan; live your life.😘😘

[@Elizabeth-arb22]

@@junecarterhall8226 Aw, thanks for your kind words.

[@debbiebrister4108]

Elizabeth I totally agree with your statement.

[@selkiegal406]

My grandmother was my favourite person growing up. I loved introducing her to friends throughout my life whenever she came from the UK for her yearly visit and always wished she was closer. Named my daughter after her. Your impact on Wyatt’s life is going to last his whole life! Best wishes to you on the next phase of your journey! ❤

[@annied3132]

It's one thing to visit but a total different thing to live with them. Best of luck.

[@jennyhayes2883]

​@@annied3132 Susan is not going to Live with her Son, she is going to get her own home.

[@jackieknight5804]

Me too, and i never forgot about her she was a wonderful role model and i will miss her for the rest of my liife.

[@franim4368]

Susan- I can't believe how much I look forward to your videos. It feels like a Saturday visit with a dear friend. You couldn't look more beautiful in the jacket you found on your thrift store adventure. Everything you found- the art, jewelry, the glass piece are so stunning. Most of all, your thoughts and words are so energizing. I love how you see the potential in living life to its fullest at this stage of the game, when people are often winding down instead of winding up. You are still winding up, still glamourous and alive and that is wonderful and encouraging. Moving closer to your family will enable you and them to continue growing as a family unit- to be there for one another. You have so many gifts to share with your grandchildren while still being the adventurous, thoughtful and creative woman you are. Wishing you and Desi many blessings.

[@LoveforpC4ever]

I couldn’t agree more‼️‼️

[@dianaschoen4485]

Ditto!

[@deborahanneohara9386]

Is she not doing KZbin anymore when she moves??

[@truthprevails7085]

You covered it! She’s the best.❤️💐

[@bridgettstephens5582]

With the exception of when my grandmother (85) fell ill (a short stay in hospital and passed) I literally saw her everyday of my life. I can't imagine any grandchild not having grandma around everyday; every child deserves grandma's love, support, wisdom, and the story telling of her life's history.

[@stephanieharries7746]

I just stumbled along this video exploring KZbin and I was like wow this looks interesting it is and I just like to say that I like Devin he's really calm chill and or Desi rather and also I can see where your grandson gets his interest in filming

[@kathyearp1358]

Susan, as long as we get to share your joy and hear at least once in a while from our "Little Poet", you go be there for that precious little person. A grandchild growing up is a once in a lifetime experience. He needs you and you need him. My grandchildren are all in their teens. 19 - 17 - 16 - 16 - 13. I will never regret the time I have been privileged to be with them. And just maybe have contributed just a little in their lives.

[@thomsonsmith95]

Hello Kathy How are you doing today?

[@lisapardini3594]

My most beloved childhood memories are of the time I spent with both of my grandmothers. The time you spend with your grandson will be turned into moments he remembers for the rest of his life. What a gift you are giving him.

[@christinepaige2575]

My goodness...your grandson will be so enriched by knowing you! "Not remember your first name??!". Puhleeze -- he will _absolutely_ remember Grandma's beautiful smile, her kindness and encouragement, her welcoming embrace and her unconditional love. You, in all your uniqueness, will always live in his heart. I'm so glad you went for it.

[@AlexScott-yb2ej]

Hello Christine how are you doing?

[@gemcatgirl]

I enjoy your soulful musings. Thank you!

[@junephillips8762]

I promise he will always remember your name and the love you gave him

[@beverlycrabtree9889]

Being around my grandparents in my younger years are some of the best memories I have. I’m great full for the time I had with them. And I tell my grandchildren how wonderful they were. ❤

[@isabelpapagno1433]

Your grandson is the most blessed to have you encouraging his artistic expression. Wishing I had someone like you when I was young. Your heart puts tears in my eyes.

[@ruthdennisKnits]

Great Saturday with you. Nurturing our grandchildren is a love within itself

[@indyblondy1340]

Children need their grandparents living close to them. They DO remember their names when they grow up. Always follow your heart to be happy.

[@vickiecopeland7131]

You have some great thrift stores. I love thrifting! I bought a $125.00 spring raincoat for $6.00! It had never been worn. Fun! Fun! You found some great buys! I love the vase. Make sure they want you closer and not just for a babysitter. I have seen that happen. I enjoy going to my grandchildren's activities & picking them up from school. Then they grow up & you are stuck in a place without familiar faces & friends. DO YOU! It is YOUR decision.

[@lisakurts863]

I quit my teaching position and moved to another state to be with my grandchildren and have never, ever had one minute of regret. (I'm single...why not?) Follow your heart!

[@vintagebeliever5023]

When my 3 year old grandson said, "you are my good friend"... I knew our time together was special to him 💝

[@LittlePoet]

yes!!!!

[@michellebilodeau3882]

That is so precious!

[@blazefairchild465]

I am 65 & disabled, my grandmother taught me to knit & crochet by age 8 & passed away when I was 9. She was a former English teacher who took up shopkeeping after being widowed with. 4 small boys. The things my grandma taught me to value a good education and to be a working mother ,enabled me to have a fantastic life. Now I am long retired yet still able to knit,crochet and do art work which I never would have attempted with out having learned these skills at a young age from the most important educator in my life. I have stayed close to my grandchildren since birth, it is the most important thing in my life after raising my children is being in the babies lives .

[@oliviakahlo1]

What a lucky grand baby to have such a supportive, nurturing creative grandma. I can’t wait to see what films he makes!❤

[@judyfischer105]

Oh my…I so agree! I’m 70 and moved from SoCal to Denver to be with my 2 year old grandson! Best move I ever made! ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@winnysneece694]

Beautiful and Elegant. Thank you for sharing.

[@mkyred]

I think you are making a wonderful choice. I lost my sweet husband last February and moved home to Ohio from Texas. I wanted to spend every minute I could with my Mama. It has been a huge Adventure but I'm so grateful to be here with her!

[@BR-kk9qu]

Susan! Go, go, go! This is the perfect time to start a fresh, new adventure. I believe your grandchildren will bring you such joy...sure they grow up, but that's okay! I am so excited about your new home, your new activities, new creations, and new friends! Thanks for agreeing to take us with you! ~ Belinda 🌺🌺🌺

[@barbarabraue4087]

Your little Wyatt holding the camera brought tears to my eyes, the joy of knowing you will be a constant in his life. You will be going on another great adventure in your life and I promise you will not regret it. I have 3 grandchildren that live 10 minutes away from me and they bring me so much joy.

[@Mi-ml2jv]

Follow your heart and believe in yourself! Your life will be more beautiful than you even imagine! ❤

[@janinedevilliers510]

Hi, how lovely and creative you are. I came across your channel in my feed tonight and watched. I love vintage treasure hunting so much, that is what caught my attention. You have such a lovely home. What I want to say too, is that my Grandmother and Grandfather were the 2 most important people in my life. My life would never have been the same without them. I love them so much. I think I got some of my good qualities from them. 😊 No person is perfect. But growing up, they were my rock. I will never forget my grandparents ever. I carry them deep in my heart, in my dna, and in my soul. I love them and I am so grateful to have been blessed with them in my life. I am in my 50's now. I lost my Grandmother in 2020. Not from Covid. She lived to the age of 95. I know that I will see them again on the otherside. I just wanted to validate your descision to be with your grandson, grandchildren and family. Time flies by past so fast. Be with the people you love. They are going to be so blessed with you as a part of their lives. The most important thing in life is love. I wish you so much happiness, joy, and love in your life in your new venture. Your little Desi is so precious. Sending a big virtual friendship hug from Germany. 💐💖🤗💗

[@enjoystraveling]

Not all grandchildren forget their grandparents. When they go off to college, I kept in touch with my grandmother, even when she was over 100 years old.

[@gloriac55]

This is such an excellent video. Thank You! I'm a 62-year-old grandma. My grandson was inspired by my career as a photographer. I started giving him cameras when he became a teenager. He's a junior at the University of Kentucky and has been studying photography on campus. He started his own photography business in 2020. I had no idea that I'd inspired him. It brought me to tears to know that my grandson saw me in a light I didn't even see myself in. I thought that I was just an photographer. I was wrong. I'm so happy that you are moving close to the grandkids. I can't wait to see your new journey. Blessings.

[@figeepoet]

What a beautiful story Gloria 🤗 and well done you, being an inspiration just for being your authentic self 🤗💞

[@annacris1005]

Oh, Susan please go! You have a once in a life time chance to give Wyatt your heart and share your knowledge and enthusiasm! He is so happy holding that camera- you will leave your hand print on his heart and he will carry you with him long after your gone- please run…run fast!

[@kathleenkacyrat9425]

Thank you Susan for reminding me that I don’t owe anyone my life. This was so incredibly timely as I have been healing…. I literally had my first reiki session to help me with my journey….. You moved me to tears for you and for reminding me…. I feel you are doing the right thing and family is everything. I wish you the very best and so much peace going forward.❤❤❤❤K

[@LittlePoet]

YOu made me cry!!! It amazes me to know how much I still learn every day about life....even at my age...and I love learning all this with you!

[@kathleenkacyrat9425]

@@LittlePoet Yes, I’m still learning/ evolving and certainly at our age(I’m four months older than you) we don’t owe anyone our life. You are following your heart and usually that is the way to go.🤩

[@pamrauhuff2375]

Oh Susan my grandparents invested in me and my first thoughts are sayings they said and I am in my 60's. I made the decision to move to be near my grandchildren five years ago. I sold a big beautiful home to live in a little apartment on their property, I am not sorry. YES your best videos are ahead of you with Wyatt, you need to start packing tonight! You have a wonderful life of family ahead. Being with my grandchildren is the best life and I would not trade it for anything or anybody! This is your best year to buy a little house and spend time with your grandson, he will never forget you!

[@lindafisher8441]

I just hope that wherever you are going, you still have a place of your own to decorate and feel secure in. I have always been near my grand children and now they are grown and I don’t see them very often, but I would never trade the time I did get to spend with them. Take us a long on your new journey. I wish you well.

[@jolandadewolf2486]

I watch you for the 1st time from the Netherlands.I can imagine that's hard to leave your city, but you go to family and that's what count. You can build a life overthere. You can thrift, you can decorate, you can film and you can enjoy your grandchild.

[@LittlePoet]

Hi Jolanda!!! welcome! You are right...I will make a new life...a good life!

[@TS-hz5jb]

I also wanted to move away, far away. I just couldn't not be around my grandbabies. I feel so much joy when I'm around them. Don't miss this opportunity. Wyatt needs you, spend as much time with him as possible. You'll never regret it.

[@kathyhicks810]

If I could be with my granddaughters I would move mountains! You go girl and we will be with you💖

[@momLNC]

Susan, what a beautiful video this week, I just wanted to say that I think its wonderful that you are feeling the universe telling you to have a new adventure in life and be near your Grandchildren. You always speak so fondly of your Grandfather and he obviously was a very big part of your life. I feel that Grandparents are very important to children and I think you will be a great asset to their lives, you are a beautiful soul and I wish you and Desi all the best, Go for it, Enjoy life's new calling!

[@xiomaras95]

Your grandchildren will always remember you. I’m 75 and I remember one of my grannies even though she died when I was twelve. I have loving memories of both my beautiful grandmothers. Being close to your grandchildren is important for you so enjoy taking the step. We all have our priorities so go for your move without any trepidation. God bless you on your wonderful new adventure. Oh yes, here’s hoping you take along on your journey!

[@karengardner9413]

You will never regret spending time with your grandchildren! My husband died in April 2021 and I retired the month afterward. Since then, I spend every Monday with my 2 year old granddaughter who lives 20 minutes away. We go to the library, to an indoor playground, to lunch, nap together, then I take her to ballet class. Her mom says it’s her favorite day of the week! My other two grandchildren currently live 12 hours away and they are jealous of the time I get to spend with my little Leona. Fortunately, they are moving closer (5 hours away) in July. I can’t wait to spend more time with them! Love your videos and your decorating style! God Bless!

[@susandurandstone4278]

Your life can only be enhanced by moving near your grandchildren! Life is short, things change, spend as much time with the people you love ❤

[@jeannechappell4341]

Life is just starting for us... you don't know how much I needed to hear that. You 're so encouraging and you're positivity is infectious. Go spend time with your grandchildren and let them know their grandma loves them with all her heart. They will remember how loved and special you made them feel for the rest of their lives.

[@LittlePoet]

A new life Is just starting for us!!! It's scary and wonderful!!!! Thank you for your big heart! I am so lucky you are here!!! xo Susan & Dez

[@deniseganey6890]

Something to keep in mind is how lovely , safe and large your Apt is. Getting a Two bedroom for 🕜 person may not be possible.

[@donnamclaughlin9215]

@@LittlePoet All the best and much happiness to you in your new home. I love your open heart and you help many with your words!

[@trishdaniel6196]

Thank you for another wonder Saturday night. I feel so broken until I see you. You give me the courage to want to continue. Thank you for all the inspiration.

[@sannes7647]

Susan, my husband and I sold our home 16 years ago to move where are children and grandchildren are and we have never regretted that move. I lost my husband in 2020 but I am still happy with the decision to move here. My grandchildren are the light of my life and I’m enjoying a full life here with new friends made and family. You need to do what’s right for you, not what others tell you. It’s your life after all.😊

[@debrtx]

Bon voyage! Enjoy and live all you can with those you love while you can. A few months ago I suffered a "minor" stroke,, still recovering. Today was the first time in several months I was able to go outside for a short walk and enjoy the outdoors. A location doesn't determine our lives. My grandmother was not long with me, but her short time with me made a huge impact.

[@theresebannon7488]

I am an artist, too! I recently heard that artists are upstream in the river of life because we tell the stories that change people, or something like that :) Anyway, my favorite color is purple, and I've come to love the color orange in the last year...it's also the color of healing ... and listening!

[@carolthrasher]

I have a 5 yr old grandson who lives about 25 min from me. I get to spend time with him every wkend. It is the high light of my wk. Girl, you move wherever you have to move. We need to be with these little ones as much as we can. You are making the right decision. I will be praying for you and Desi as you pack up for a new chapter in your life.

[@minniebonsall]

Speaking as a thrifter, wow that store has some amazing stuff !

[@LittlePoet]

Hi Minnie! I can't quite describe it...but this week was magic....it's not one thing or one object...it was just magic...as soon as I touched that old wardrobe trunk and opened that drawer...I felt like I was walking on clouds and I had such sudden clarity of mind and heart.....xxoo My love to you and everybody here tonight!!! xxooo Sues & Desi

[@debrandw246]

You look just exquisite in your beautiful clothes. I love your jacket. It is Not over the tip with you. You look just fabulous in the jacket. You are just a beautiful lady inside and out. I feel so happy after your videos.

[@karenpohoriles6934]

You have been wanting to have your own home for a very long time. It’s good your going to be around your family. Also you have your own interests too.

[@susanward8610]

Hi Susan! I am going through the same thing, packing my home of 23 years in IL and moving out west to be close to my kids and grandkids. My husband and I are 70, we want to spend the rest of our lives near our family. It’s very emotional leaving what we’ve known and leaving our siblings, nieces and nephews. I am leaving my best friend (my 80 yr old sister). I feel like this is the right thing for us and I believe it’s the right thing for you. You are delightful and will bring your bright light with you where ever you go. 😘

[@emilyhope7468]

I wish I lived near the thrift shops you visit. You made some really nice purchases and the pricing is unbelievably good!! I'm so glad you feel comfortable telling your audience all about your feelings. A lot of us are probably going through similar phases. Never second guess what your heart and gut are telling you. Change always takes time for adjustment. I feel anxious for you, but I'm a ball of anxiety most days. My mom, who recently passed, talked so much about her grandfather and grandmother. They raised her as she had a mom who wasn't capable. Sadly they both passed when she was 10 and she went into a foster home before being adopted by the grinch and wicked witch of the East. Don't let your little grandson miss out on all the stories and memories he will share about his grandmother! I wish you were moving south. You and I like a lot of the same things it seems. I will continue to enjoy your weekly gathering on KZbin , with Desi. Know you are doing what's right for you and forge ahead!!!

[@jackiechapman3183]

Susan if I could use only word for how I feel about you it would be Admiration. You are stronger than you may realize. You love and care deeply, it shows in all you share with us. You and Wyatt are going to make such wonderful happy memories together and I'm so happy for you that you are . I hope you know when you make your move we are all going to be there looking over your shoulder to share this new adventure with you. Do not worry Susan , we will follow you and applaud you for pursuing your dream of bring closer to your family ❤. Oh and by the way you looked lovely in your new jackets 😊

[@virginiavargas1649]

Go, enjoy your grandson! Your life will be full; because I am with my little grandson, Wyatt... my handsome singer & dancer. He fills my heart with so much laughter and love every day!💙🧸😊

[@CarrieAKouri]

Awe...your grandchildren will have such fond memories of this time together. XO

[@gretchenhejazi9463]

My daughter and family are moving back near my husband and me. They have given us three young grandchildren. I wholeheartedly understand your move and feelings about moving. Even though we are not the ones moving, the pure joy of being around my grandchildren and watching and learning from them, is priceless. Yes, we do learn from both the very young and old. I’ve learned how to appreciate every milestone I’ve had the pleasure of witnessing, to love and respect each child for themself, and make memories that perhaps only they will remember bits and pieces of, but collectively, they may reminisce among themselves. That’s love at the very root of life.

[@KimberlyLetsGo]

That's so exciting that they are moving to be close to you!! What a treat for the 3 kiddos and for you and your husband!!!

[@sandraperry8769]

Hi Susan! I am looking forward to going along with you on this beautiful journey. There is no wrong with being close to loved ones and sharing precious moments with them. I am so excited to be with you finding a little home and making it yours and watching you tell us on Saturday nights what you and your grandkids did all week together. This is going to be such A Blessings ❤

[@donnareed9415]

You have so much to share and teach to others. We love you wherever you live and are so blessed that you include us. I know there is much joy coming to you and look forward to traveling with you in the journey. Blessings 🙏!!!

[@joybird5495]

Yes yes yes! Go and share your loveliness and your love and your care with family and those who come into your circle of light and they will share their’s with you.

[@next50years100]

In 2019 on Mother's Day my son asked me to move closer to him...he was going to be a Dad. My husband & I left our oasis by the beach 3 hours away and 5 months before my 1st granddaughter was born, I was here! BEST decision ever ❤️🤗! Now I have two beautiful granddaughters that I get to see at least 2 days a week and be a part of their lives. The best words I've ever heard are " I love you Grandma!" You are making the right choice Susan. So happy for you! ❤️

[@joycecochran4575]

So excited Susan that you get to move close to your family. Especially your darling little grandson. Being a grandmother is the greatest role in life that I have played. Now they are grown and have children of their own. You guessed it….being a Great Grandmother is even better. Precious time. Don’t waste it. Love you.

[@Lck1972]

I am 73 and I still remember my Grandmother with so much love. The reason is because I spent so much time with her as a child and even as a teenager. She was the first person I wanted to see on breaks from college! You will never regret being close to your grandchildren. I adore mine.

[@LEFEMMEBELLE]

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[@michellebilodeau3882]

So true!

[@lorib.8605]

I love that you are going to move and be closer to your family! I love that you share your life with us and I look forward to every video! Thank you for your kindness and love you share every week with us! Hugs to you and Desi! xoxoxoxo

[@elaineelliott3138]

A grandson is worthy of making the move to be near . Just now that they grow up quick ( have a back up plan ) you are a beautiful woman , there is a special man in your future . You are a valued asset for the right gentleman dear lady !

[@juliawhite9977]

I adore my two granddaughters , 6 years old and 8 months. They bring me so much joy and I have to be near them. Go to your son and grandson, run to them and enjoy every moment. Those jackets are devine and light you up!

[@sinsandroses]

Grandkids are amazing! I moved to be with my grandson. He’s 5. I lost my grandma when I was 9 but have never forgotten her and am now 64. You go be that awesome person in Wyatt’s life. I know when he grows up he’ll not forget the love, support and adventure the two of you will share❤️

[@tlew9429]

I’m not a widow but when we both retired we moved closer to our only two grandchildren. It was a very hard choice but we are glad we did. The relationship we are building enriches our lives. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@vzeimen]

My husband always asks "Are we living?" meaning are we doing what we want, are we spending our time in meaningful ways? I think you are doing just that. Moving toward something is always better than moving away from something and that's what you are doing. You never know, in 5 years, you might be moving toward something different. Congratulations on your journey to new places and things.

[@LittlePoet]

Your husband is a wise man! Thank you so much for being here!

[@taharris3964]

Oh Susan you must go I'm 73 just welcomed my 9th Great Grandchild the pleasure I get from them all makes me so happy, you grandson with get so much knowledge from you , I had so many plans to go on cruises ect but ill health has stopped all that but the pleasure I get from being near my family makes up for that X

[@louonUT]

Oh my gosh -yes you have to go ! There is no question about it ! Especially because they ask 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

[@forestfields]

Oh Susan, you are a wonder. This video was beautiful for so many reasons, not the least of which was the way your camera moved around the room and then lingered on your lovely table with the beautiful music playing in the background. And as for your move, go with your heart! You are a beautiful, intelligent, accomplished woman, and you will make new friends, find new places to explore, and new endeavours to pursue. And you will have the added blessing of being with your family.

[@MizJilly]

Girl, this was a complete movie! I'm crying. Thank you for creating so generously.

[@LittlePoet]

oh how you touch my heart!!!!

[@hilkkahirvonen4831]

Go Susan to your grandson you’ll never regret it! I almost Brough up my youngest grandson by looking after him from a very early age , while my daughter worked, he & I are the closest we can get , he actually adores me how wonderful is that? He’ll be 18 this year ❤

[@sharonstrickland6421]

I'm 74 and I can tell you right now! My Granny was the most influential person in my life. She was my protector, my teacher of home things, my giver of a sense of true fairness. Go, go, go! Live this beautiful life!

[@bradbrauns5240]

May God bless you for putting others over yourself, you are giving them a beautiful gift no one else can, Grandma's love .

[@margaret-ellenadams5536]

I’m very happy for you! Another adventure to be enjoyed 🎉 xoxo

[@daniellem5175]

Love equals quality time spent! I think it's wonderful you want to be closer to your son and grandson! You will not regret that time! And if children grow up in a loving and supportive household, they always come back home to visit, no matter how old they are. Your Wyatt will not forget you!!♥

[@lisa8990]

Susan, you have to do what makes you happy. I'm happy for you and your grandson will be so happy to have such a wonderful grandmother around. The one thing I would say is, don't lose yourself, continue doing all the things you love. I am happy for you, and hope you and Desi continue doing videos even when you move. Find a Beautiful home for you both. You deserve happiness. God bless you.

[@fridperon3670]

Family is key. At some point we will be alone .You wont .You will be surrounded by love and memories for a long life.Well lived

[@carriealchorn6718]

Dear Susan I sold my house gave up a great job and moved north to be with my 2 grandkids. They are now 9 & 11 and busy with sports. I don't regret 1 minute of it. Being with my Grandkids and my daughter I would not trade for the world. You will find so much joy with your grandson. Much Lovve from 🇨🇦 Canada

[@joeneves2842]

You go girl! I would move across the world to be with my grandchildren 😊

[@gloryshouse5198]

Me too they are my world and my life and I love them so much. i have so much inside of me that I want to pour in them in a natural way of living way not traditional I want to be like the Jesus they hear about the one who will never leave them and always love them and guide them. Jesus loves the little children so much.

[@andreakennedy3623]

You are doing the right thing. No matter how much time you are given with your children and grandchildren, you will be giving them a chance to enjoy you and get to know you better! Your heart is FOR them, and that will translate in everything you do and say when you are with them. God be with you and Desi, and YES, to giving Desi more air time! Ha! I have never felt this way about an animal online before, but he has stolen my heart. Those eyes, the way they move when you are talking, like he knows he is loving you well by supporting you , even though he might rather be lounging on your ottoman or tossing one of his stuffies in the air instead of sitting still for the camera! Sooo precious!

[@BlueJean751]

Susan, you go girl! The time you spend with your kids and thier families 👪 builds beautiful memories. Our time on this Earth is short... Create your legacy while there's breath in you. As always, I enjoy your videos.

[@elizabethgillespie-gray1214]

I heard once Susan, that the vibrations of orange sends out healing, also yellow will lift us out of depression. These were shared to us by a very sweet elderly lady. Its not my experience but it certainly was hers. We always knew when she was depressed because she would be dressed from head to toe in yellow

[@AlexScott-yb2ej]

Hello Elizabeth how are you doing

[@maryloubartoli9190]

You are such a breath of fresh air Susan...have to follow your heart...❤

[@LittlePoet]

thank you my sweet friend...xxoo Susan & Dez

[@kimperes5987]

I'm so happy and excited for your next chapter, Susan!! Your grandchildren will be so blessed and happy to have you there!! You are so full of love and life; it's the perfect time for this leap of faith! My cup runneth over. 🙏🙋🐕😇💝💙💖

[@A.L.I.S.O.N]

I'm not sure why anyone would want to discourage you from moving closer to family unless they fear your videos will change or stop. When will you be moving? I am sure you will feel all the more fulfilled. I love your chats. I wish I too had a camera though I'm not sure what I would do with anything I might capture, lol. Enjoy the time you have with your family and know that we are all still here ready to enjoy connecting with you.😊♥️😊

[@julieschnorenberg5370]

It is so true, Susan! We, as artists have to keep pursuing the beauty of our craft, even if we are surrounded with naysayers. Pursue your dreams and inspire your grandson. How wonderful. Much love.❤️

[@maryriseling209]

You look stunning in your new clothes I adore the jacket with black fur ! And the Amethyst glass wear im so happy you found it just gorgeous, I love you and your videos you inspire me 😁🌹you have a beautiful home❤️

[@malindawoodring881]

Thank you for this beautiful video! Your Grandchildren WILL always remember your name and all of the fun time you spend with them! Start packalackin! You have a new chapter to begin!