Destiny BLACKPILLS His Audience, Triggers EVERYONE (leftists, redpillers, friends...)

Destiny explains some of the biggest problems w/ dating, redpill advice and angers a lot of people including his friend in DMs, chat and redpillers...
Date: 22 Dec, 2022
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00:00:00 Teasers / Intro
00:01:09 If someone invites you over at night...
00:05:00 Destiny is nuking a friend in DMs
00:06:24 Why courting is a game people play
00:14:17 Important message to protect yourselves
00:26:28 If you can't get ANYONE to like you then...
00:31:42 Nice guy vs The Nice Guys (simp)
00:36:06 Destiny tunes in to Sneako's stream w/ Myron
00:41:51 Ahrelevant's trauma take
01:08:56 Do women only care about money and looks?
#destiny

[@TheEccentricPoet]

To the chatters who baited him into one of his best rants, thank you for your service. That was a thing of beauty 🤣

[@dickjohnson8983]

"baited"

[@Blueline3691]

I fucking love when Destiny goes full schizo, the fucking CHERRY Coca-Cola line 💀

[@bozidarugljesic2907]

BRUH im not even sure that was a bait there are so manny stupid People outhere, to me it does sounds like a bait because i cant belivie someone could posible ask these questions and be serious about it but its posible those were real People whit real opinnions

[@Blueline3691]

Schizstiny and Incelstiny 1:09:16 are my current favourite characters

[@aferny762]

@@bozidarugljesic2907 there definitely is a level of baiting. I'm guilty of this with other twitch streamers, a debater like destiny is being thrown bait comment every minute lmao

[@johnsmiff8328]

The idea that you can be promiscuous and manipulative in your 20s and then turn around and just land in a successful long term marriage is delusional. A good marriage is a serious commitment that requires you to practice effective communication skills and boundaries. You set yourself up for long term failure if you take the strategy that redpillers describe, and you miss out on high quality relationship sex. What a hollow way to live

[@therealdonelaitis]

This is exactly what I was thinking. You can’t discount the really bad habits you’d pick up along the way in those debaucherous twenties that would really harm your chances of settling down in your thirties. Most people can’t just turn around and start living a completely different life at the drop of a dime.

[@jsik69x]

Agreed…. It’s good to go out and experience things, maybe be a man-whore for a little bit? It made me realize that it was something that made me feel empty and was simply instant gratification. It’s like eating a ton of McDonald’s when your starving; feels GREAT doing it, but you feel like total shit afterwards, and for a lot longer. So now I know that living like that will not give me the “validation of self” I thought it would. Plus I learned to come into my own and be charming to women confidently in the process. But damn, the manipulation aspect? It’s not easy to break that programming and it will definitely have a net negative effect on your life. Especially when you find someone that means the world to you. You should never consciously fuck someone over to get what you want…. It’s not good for your soul, for real

[@LipSyncLover]

@@therealdonelaitis its like a weird other side of the coin of purity culture. They expect you to repress any and all sexual inclinations and then flip a switch on the wedding night as if you haven't been creating neuropathways that scream "sex bad" in your brain for years. Its like both sets of advice have absolutely zero idea how the human psyche works. For fucks sake

[@team3gaming749]

I agree, however it depends on which red pill philosophy you follow. I agree with the strict self improvement philosophy and I see nothing wrong with that, however there are definitely toxic people and incels (I’m not using that word as an insult either) in that community who promote the kind of behavior you described.

[@MexicanfNinja]

Like coach used to say: " you play like your practice."

[@mikasasukasa4479]

His community is so good at trolling him lmao

[@in7446]

I have some bad news for you...

[@mynammachef]

@@in7446 What?

[@magicdragon9621]

@@ellusivegman I wish it was trolling so bad lol

[@killzone866]

@@ellusivegman let me believe they arent completely autistic lol.

[@maxim377]

TO BE FAIR, he does it to himself when he goes in so hard on everything screeching "UR JUS WRUNG" when anyone gives him pushback and he feels he's correct. Sometimes he's wrong but will keep fighting he isn't only to slowly soften his stance to the point it's marshmallow. "Didn't I say there was exceptions sometimes before"

[@Bai_Su_Zhen]

Imagine screaming to your chat "stop being antisocial loser" and telling them they should learn to make a selfie and swipe a lot on tinder. What a time to be alive dude.

[@dippysaurus3375]

TRUEEEEEE! going to places and meeting people, why that would never work......

[@ilyaterk110]

But that's true tho, if you are pretty social in general, you'll have an easier time on tinder

[@Daxank]

@@dippysaurus3375 But if you aren't the type of person that usually goes to places to meet people, how would you suddenly meet someone compatible with you by doing something you wouldn't actually do?

[@cookieshade197]

@@Daxank Perhaps you should strive to become that type of person? After all, if you're not successful, something about yourself needs to change

[@Daxank]

@@cookieshade197 That is quite the drastict change tho, it might even not be appropriate for you. This kind of general advice is fine but you have to understand that it's just that, a "general" advice. It will be fine for most people but for some folks that just won't work out because that isn't them and that advice won't be for them.

[@TophinatorStreams]

Chat knows what questions to ask to get rage-infused answers. He’s not too angry to answer, but he’s frustrated he feels he has to, to preserve sanity 😂

[@RottenHeretic]

I mean, his responses were pretty yikes.

[@ohyeahjt]

@@RottenHeretic which part

[@RottenHeretic]

@@ohyeahjt the ones about rape were hella weird

[@sticks7857]

Maybe I'm looking too much into it from a biased perspective but it looks a lot like they're trying to get him to see that the entire hook-up culture that exists in the west is a dumpsterfire and he just can't help but die on the hill of open relationships with loveless flings on the side are a good thing but a red piller going around pumping and dumping women is an atrocity. In reality they're all just as responsible for undermining peoples ability to find a suitable partner as each other. They're both burning the entire system to the ground so that they can feel the inside of more vaɡinas, yet they both think they're better than everyone else.

[@SnowThenDen]

@@RottenHeretic can you be more specific

[@ericvazquez2225]

"Stop watching these people that turn you into anti social losers" so fucking true

[@miggydoms]

@@NahomKibreab_ lel

[@ChiefDiorD]

Why am I awake

[@therealbaylee]

Because you woke up dummy

[@Rexi420]

why are you

[@n8m102]

Almost 4 am in west coast lmao

[@jamesrayner9980]

It’s almost midday

[@Issthi]

7am for me lol

[@WickedIndigo]

When he said “women are funny, and men will kill you” I couldn’t agree more. Exactly the the same thought process with my own life.

[@diegoseba12]

Jesus christ. If you've had a female friend for a while who you know is not interested in you (and you're also no interested in her) then that's fine. DESTINY IS TALKING ABOUT DATING, NOT ABOUT FRIENDS.

[@Treyvon.]

I might remember wrong but I think Destiny has said that men can't have female friends because men always want to fuck every single woman.

[@dante19890]

exactly. Two strangers dating is the premise here.

[@percentile5247]

@@dante19890 this is what people miss and somehow even he doesn't explain it properly.

[@Treyvon.]

@@dante19890 Ok ye in that case if someone invites you over to their place they either want to get down or you're gonna end up in a tub of acid.

[@dante19890]

@@Treyvon. if you' are not smashing u gonna end up in something worse than the acid pool. The friendzone

[@akselandor8975]

Yeah, I don't understand why is this such a difficult concept to understand. Inviting people over under certain circumstances is gonna create expectations. U can deal with it by explicitly or implicitly stating that you aren't gonna have sex, but this can make things very awkward. So the next best thing is to just assume "invite over = sex" as a rule and go from there. This will help to avoid many problems.

[@titusorelius9458]

The problem is that certain people, that I will not name, do not want to take responsibility for their actions no matter what. It will always be someone else's responsibility.

[@TonyCox1351]

@@titusorelius9458 you say that’s “the” problem like it’s the only problem, but there’s plenty of other problems, such as men repeatedly asking for sex after you’ve explicitly said no like we saw in this Rich OTK thing

[@nicholascarter9158]

Hanging out with friends becomes a lot harder unless everything is a group activity.

[@novac1990]

@@TonyCox1351 you know what you do when someone repeatedly asks for you to do something you don't want to do....... you leave. The same if a homeless man keeps asking you for money while your pumping gas and you have no change or don't want to give it........ you leave

[@yourgrammarisnotverygood1827]

@@nicholascarter9158 Or, you both know you're just friends so it's irrelevant to the discussion.

[@hellshakeyano7686]

I think the entire opposition to Destiny’s "don’t invite someone to your house who you aren’t willing to have sex with" take comes from teenagers who are used to hanging out at their friends’ family homes and young adults who haven’t grown out of that yet.

[@nendu4316]

Nah tbh, I think for me it's cos I'm gay. And I do this and we don't have sex. And if we want to we are super up front. so I try to look at this from the straight angle. Where y'all have zero ability to communicate like complete adults.

[@Fjaloeat1]

Actually true. I admit I was one of them.

[@neubaufahrzeug9339]

There nothing wrong with hanging out one on one with a homie when you both know you have no feeling for each other. Destiny's advice here works when you've only known the person for a short time but ignores long standing friendships where the expectations don't exist.

[@21nitsua]

@Nendu my gay friends really are up front like that. if only women could think like gay men the world would be such a great place.

[@thespartan2902]

@@nendu4316 I mean the communication problem is more on the female side of things. Most dudes would like to be truthful and upfront about their intentions, but most women don't like men being "blunt" on top of not wanting to look like a slut despite getting their back blown out every weekend. I unironically wish I was gay because I've seen firsthand that you have to deal with so much less bullshit when it comes to sex/relationships.

[@Observette]

I’m a woman and I totally agree with Destiny about his take on courting and inviting someone over. There’s no way I’d invite a guy over (or go to his house) unless I really liked him and was thinking about sleeping with him.

[@wallflower6942]

This is probably dependant on your culture. I'm a Dutch woman and here is it fairly normal to take friends of the opposite sex home. Going to someone's house doesnt mean you expect or want to sleep with them, you're just there to chill and banter. When it's someone you don't know well, like a tinder date or someone you just met, then obviously they want to f. I got the impression that in the US, hetero friends of the opposite sex chilling alone is not considered normal, but I might be wrong.

[@Tigo625]

@@wallflower6942 Also Western European, that's not true. Maybe it's your female perspective that has you clouded about men's intentions.

[@Bori.1776]

@@wallflower6942 Chill and banter I promise you they want it to lead to sex. It has nothing to do with cultured, your home is pretty much sacred and to invite someone of the opposite sex that you clearly have an interest in 9/10 is gonna be for sex (because why would you even entertain talking to them and bringing them to your house if not so)

[@theguy9067]

@@wallflower6942 you have phrased that in a deceptive way, probably knowingly. Yes it's normal to "bring friends" back to your house. But that is obviously not the scenario we are talking about. The scenario is, normally, where there are people of the opposite sex (with exceptions) decided to be alone together at one person house, or ROOM, they plan to sleep together. You can't tell me Europeans aren't human beings. Being someone who lives in England and been with Europeans and been to Europe, you're just purposely misleading. Learn to be more honest with yourself

[@wallflower6942]

@@Tigo625 Also, Im pretty sure what those guys intensions were because people here are fairly honest and direct about what they want. The only exception is random ass people. You dont bring random people that you just met to your house, then you probably want to f them lol. But for friends its really normal in my experience

[@jtt99]

I’m ngl I used to be naive to RIDICULOUS levels back when I was like 17-19, with three different women Like, I genuinely just thought they wanted me to come over to watch shows we’ve never watched and play games they’ve literally never played or showed any kind of interest in, even the one I was DATING

[@HAHAd2]

Ok

[@KrakeTube]

I was like this too. Girls would stop seeing me literally because they wanted some duck and I couldn't tell

[@jonbeingjon]

I unironically support the creation of a dating guide!

[@sticks7857]

I'm not sure what would be a worse dating guide, one made by a red piller or one made by a polygamist. Not bad in terms of actually getting laid mind you, just bad in terms of willfully deterioriting societal health so you can feel the inside of as many vaɡinas as possible before you die.

[@ll2323]

@@sticks7857 the irony of kody the polygamist from sister wives, is now back to monogamy. We just need to realize relationships on every level can be complicated.

[@sticks7857]

@@ll2323 We need to realize we were too fuckinɡ dumb to replace tried and true religious morals that have lasted thousands of years with untested social experiments and not end up destroying our own society out of hubris. It's a real tragedy that humanity has collectively become too smart to believe in a sky daddy before we became smart enough to realize we should still be upholding core religious standards ourselves without needing the threat of sky daddies punishment looming over our heads.

[@haruhirogrimgar6047]

Definitely would be nice. One of the problems I have is that the only person I can go to for advice that isn't some insane mysoginist or doesn't say anything beyond "just go hang out at random social events more and eventually a relationship will happen" is my sister. Having someone like Destiny detail out some more details on how to find a relationship would be nice for those who don't just want to be some insane red-piller r"ping women.

[@Shayanzass]

the dating manifesto

[@helaughs]

Destiny comparing redpill to pyramid schemes broke my brain 🤯🙌

[@hasanalarbash4057]

Pyramid schemes => Be successful by recruiting people => the people you recruit do the same thing => you have an unsustainable business model Redpill => Fuck as many women as possible early on and value them ONLY on sexuality => This causes young women to be incentivized to be promicuous => Settle for a good christian virgin once you're all grown up => unsustainable sexual culture That's how they're similar

[@TonyCox1351]

Those ahrelevant takes broke my brain. “Men will know how to be in healthy relationships when they hit their 30’s because they will just know” oh really is that why half my friend group is in toxic unhealthy relationships 😂😂

[@roymarshall_]

@@TonyCox1351 The harsh reality that we should already know. Some people grow a little bit, but for the most part, people have the same basic personalities at 30 that they had at 16. And often the same issues that cause consistent bad relationships.

[@FreiwilligFrei]

90% of the time he breaks my brain when he talks on intersexual relationships.

[@FreiwilligFrei]

Amazing how destiny just decides that most men don’t care about good sex. How does he know? He’s talking from an ivory tower unable to empathize with most men who haven’t his privileged position who gets him easy pussy. Most men don’t care about good sex because they are happy to get any sex at all;) To care and know about good sex you have to had sex with enough women to compare. He talks down on red pill game as if his game got him the pussy;) Without his fame he would be a gamer streaming nerd who sits all day in front of his pc not getting any pussy.

[@trondadon2527]

Both sides are absolutely stupid when it comes to dating. We’ve made it complicated for no reason

[@bastiantrs]

Na red pill is ok

[@plague_seeker9354]

@@bastiantrs Based Bastian

[@EatMoreCarbs256]

@@bastiantrs blackpill is the truth if you want to beat the game

[@meme6335]

Pretty much, my whole perspective is that it should be as simple as agreeing to meet in a public place to eat or do some activity so we can get to chatting and if you enjoyed my company good we’ll do it again, if not we’ll never meet again. All these other hoops I have to jump through and obstacles I have to avoid drive me fucking crazy especially if I’m having to go through them online, it’s a total waste of time and turns my heart and soul into coal lol

[@Andrew-hx9tz]

@@meme6335 This is not how many relationships happen though. Casual sex is a thing and it is more common than you think and it is frowned upon heavily. Even getting an STD or having had one is stigmatized as some sort of permanent deformity that you only have because you have low standards or didn't even care like you are a gross animal. This is because most people only have normal sex and normal lives. Men marry the first decent woman that lets them fuck and women marry the first decent man that doesn't consistently hurt them. The hoops are a vetting process. You should want them. All this relationship shit is deeper than do we like the company. I can get company from a dog. I can get pleasant conversation from most people. I have friends. I want sex, intimacy, and vulnerability. It is all litmus tests. How far can I push your boundaries without looking like I am pushing or being so forward that I knock the whole wall down?

[@Lachronix]

Tinder has become Of lite. I got 20 swipes but they were all promoting their IG which in turn promoted their OF, either where I live is screwed or no real women use tinder anymore. Meet people in real life. This is something that is humanizing and can bring you closer to making real lasting relationships.

[@ralphwilsin]

Where tho? When I go outside there are very rarely any single women. Sometimes I don’t even see any women at all!!!

[@Lachronix]

@@ralphwilsinI’m amusing your joking but in regards to all women being in relationships, which I also find to be true, just talk to them as bros and not potential sex partners. Also you’ll find alot of these “relationships” their in are actually fwb.

[@EatMoreCarbs256]

Nothing like the scent and touch of a real woman

[@OMAR-vk9pi]

Na that’s pretty much what tinder is like that or they’re just dry even if I get a few matches a day

[@thek2despot426]

@@Lachronix That... sounds a bit sus. If all these relationships are "revealed" to actually be fwb, that moreso just sounds to me like they just decided to start cheating and used that as the justification.

[@ergovisavis]

"Do you want to come back to my place?" and "Netflix and chill" are pretty much universally synonymous with getting laid. So much so they've become memes.

[@abzeromusic]

As someone who borders on autism I find it so incredibly difficult to close on situations where girls want to have sex with me. I just never seem to know what to say, when to act, and how to escalate things in a smooth manner. It's always like me and the girl are on different pages. This is also something that it's very hard to get good information on. The only people who ever even discuss it are pick up artists, and obviously there are issues with the approaches that pick up artist takes that I won't get into here.

[@SJNaka101]

Do you ever get to the making out stage? If you can get there, you're already like 99% of the way to sex *if* she's down. At that point, you just slowly increase the handsyness and your breath, and within 2 or 3 minutes you give em *the look* and say something like "room?" If she agrees, then it's on. If you're already in a bedroom, then it's already on and you start moving to take off articles of clothing within 2 or 3 minutes of making out. I'd hope it goes without saying, but of course, if consent is ever revoked then stop. I can't give you any advice to get to the making out stage without knowing you and whatever your hangups are, but I've known a couple guys that could literally get to kissing and not know how to close.

[@abzeromusic]

I also wish that I had learned destiny's rule when I was 17 would have avoided a lot of heartache

[@abzeromusic]

@@SJNaka101 no I would never make it to the making out stage. Once I got to the making out stage I closed the deal but that was not until I was 25 years old.

[@abzeromusic]

@@SJNaka101 my difficulty was mostly my straight up inability to read social cues and the fact that I was never as aggressive as I needed to be looking back. It's scary to be aggressive when you have fears of being a rapist or being inappropriate, but honestly that's what it took for me

[@rubi9098]

from a girl who has trouble reading cues as well; I enjoy when a guy is the move maker and I understand the fear of going too far. Unfortunately I know us girls are really subtle when it comes to what we want. In the most general sense, I would try to read if she feels comfortable and question why she came to see you or where this could lead. If she seems shut off or very drawn into herself you’ll know. It’s super super hard to initiate without the confusion of doing something that could possibly be wrong.

[@CuckMommy]

To train a man to be trashy and only focus on short term relationships is kamikaze because when that guy finally finds someone or wants to settle down they will not be equipped to do so. AKA a high divorce rate…

[@ataraxia7439]

Also something that feels ignored is like, if someone thought they were going to have sex but it turned out they were just misunderstanding, that’s not like the end of the world, you can just talk about how you communicate things after the fact.

[@ataraxia7439]

I think it would be really difficult to make a guide for dating that has wide spread applicability for people who struggle with it because the cultural norms and circumstances of each person’s situation can vary wildly in a ways that are really significant. My guess is if you start naming board categories like “straight person in 20-40s in US who wants to date and someday get married” you can be a lot more effective than just “hey here’s how anyone should court” even then things like your career path how you spend your time etc can all matter a lot. I don’t think I’d have ever met my partner or someone I could happy with through dating apps or trying to meet people in person (or at the very least it would have been really difficult) but I did meet her online through specific fandom places. In hindsight knowing what kind of person I am this just makes way more obvious sense that if I was ever going to meet someone it be like this and yet none of the dating advice I ever tried to find online was aware of it. Granted you can never make advice perfectly right for everyone who hears it but I think we could do a lot better than rn where there’s kind of a baseline assumption that everyone can find a partner by doing the same set of things right.

[@thepubquiz3198]

I think you make some good points, and I think he should start off with the category you stated, as an example, as that is probably the largest demographic in his audience,. And although there will always be outliers, and from what you have said, you appear to be one of them, but in general, I think it's better to meet people in person. And i'm curious, if you don't mind answering, what was it that you found difficult about meeting someone in person ?

[@FreiwilligFrei]

Womens nature is universal. The traits who survived the evolution kept humanity from extinction. So if you want a guide for a healthy society wich is based in functional families you can’t throw away everything that kept humanity alive. Feminism and woke culture in any other time would have wiped out our species.

[@ataraxia7439]

@@thepubquiz3198 Oh that's really reasonable. I have to humbly admit I really don't know if most people on average tend to find meeting people for relationships easier or harder than irl but I don't have any reason to doubt you. I'm not sure I can perfectly put a finger on what I found hard about meeting people in real life aside from the fact that I tried for a decent handful of years really hard without anything panning out but found my partner online in a way that was much more painless and easy. If I had to guess I think the hobbies I was interested in as well as the fact that my relationship is a little more queer than most people I know irl would be interested in are both contributing factors to why it was easier for me online that irl. I could just directly find communities online where people into the kind of things I'm into are and there's just a higher chance of finding a match there than the people I was trying to hit it off with irl.

[@thepubquiz3198]

@@ataraxia7439 Thanks for your reply, and it makes a lot of sense, I think both have their positives and negatives. I think a combination of the two may be optimal, it would be better if more of these online communities, had more IRL meet ups and IRL clubs etc. I think it would also help a lot if more traditionally male hobbies etc became a lot more open to women. I think a great idea may to be to try and start clubs etc, for younger age groups such as, 18-30 year olds, and these online forums could be a good way to attract people. Take the Art reddit page for example, it has 20 million members. That's about 1 in 400 people on earth. Chances are, that there are people in your area, who share that interest with you. In my experince, there are quite a few clubs around, for different hobbies, but most of the members are of an older age. Out of interest, what sort of hobbies etc did you meet people through online.

[@d_mercz6981]

Destiny spitting bars, I’m here for it

[@nothanks8354]

I love watching destiny rage 😂

[@nothanks8354]

He just calls Bull s-it to everyone so refreshing

[@UrMomsFavSnack]

And he calls it how everyone else is thinking it🤣

[@Blueline3691]

Not the Cherry Coca-Cola 💀

[@LoneWulf278]

@@Blueline3691 That part took me out. 😂

[@Rentaline99]

It’s refreshing hearing Destiny effectively communicate how I feel about the redpill/dating advice community. God what a relief that I’m not alone

[@dante19890]

Thats not really true tho. Redpill is essentially about self improvement for men so they can have more choice when it comes to dating by understanding female nature. Its just that it attracts a lot of incels cheering them on that doesnt really wanna improve and just find more reason to hate on women.

[@STARK0181]

@@dante19890 Red pill is about externalizing male loneliness and frustrations onto women by exposing "female nature" . Look at the most popular red pillers and how the find any excuse to dunk on "modern women" to help insecure men feel better about themselves. The red pill is a very reductive and narrow view of people and the world.

[@dante19890]

@@STARK0181 redpill is kinda the male version of modern day feminism. Redpill is certainly right about a lot of stuff regarding male and female dynamics but it's not a space u should stay in. Just absorb the info and get out

[@STARK0181]

@@dante19890 I wouldn't say that. There are similarities between the red pill and modern feminism, but there are also stark differences between them. The red pill takes certain grains of harsh and uncomfortable truths regarding male and female dynamics as premises, then it completely stretches them into outlandish and ridiculous conclusions. The red pill is backed by misinterpreted and misconstrued research and evidence as proof. I wouldn't recommend any man engaging in its lunacy at all.

[@dante19890]

@@STARK0181 u said it yourself the baseline is the uncomfortable truths , that's the stuff u should learn a about and ignore the other stuff. Just like the feminist core idea is very good it has been twisted and contorted into something else, just like the redpill

[@lances6602]

Should Destiny, who refuses to dress in anything other than sweatpants, be making fun of other men (who also live in an apartment, like Destiny). For things like laundry, and whatever 5 in 1 wash is? Destiny screams "I can't do laundry" with his every day sweats. The man has absolutely zero self awareness.

[@BZ-rr1wt]

Remember the time he pulled a giant bag of plastic plates because he didn't want to wash the dishes?

[@haruhirogrimgar6047]

@@BZ-rr1wt I also remember the styrofoam cups because he didn't like blender bottles (to be fair blender bottles are "ss, I would take the sh"ttiest Walmart water bottle or reuse disposable plastic water bottle over one of those.)

[@haruhirogrimgar6047]

I would assume Destiny dresses up when he goes on dates. A lot of people have comfort clothes they wear at home and then dress nicer when they go to out, and dress even nicer if they are planning to meet someone or some friendds. He streams most of the day just about every day, he doesn't feel the need to dress up for it at this point when he has such an established audience they have followed him through numerous scandals/"arcs"/platforms.

[@lances6602]

@haruhirogrimgar6047 I think you might be wishful thinking. He says he wears sweats out, all the time. Doesn't like adult clothes.

[@wtfimcrying]

destiny's apartment is actually put together though lol. he does dress kinda lazily but ive seen him wear shorts and whatnot outside before. I wouldnt be surprised if he doesnt do his dishes, and 5 in 1 body washes are shitty bodywashes that try and combine shampoo conditioner and bodywash into one product and it ends up fucking sucking for anything.

[@broorb4104]

never heard that analogy for courting before, very interesting

[@bob4peers]

Thank you Lord destiny for shaping my stance on women

[@Blueline3691]

🙏🙇‍♂️

[@Yo-sb9st]

Destiny is a woman so it’s the most credible advice

[@danhill3302]

This dude has given me a real bleak outlook on women, no joke. I started with the "I LOVE women" stuff ironically but now I feel myself meaning it. I never really thought about this kind of stuff before, been married for a long time but now I'm starting to see women as pretty toxic overall. I do feel a bit like I've crossed some sort of line in my mind with how I look at women directly because of this dude's content, maybe I should stop watching.

[@BZ-rr1wt]

@@danhill3302 I think is just because people are socialized to think that women are harmeless, while in reality they have their own way of doing harm.

[@lourj3883]

@@danhill3302 lol my guy, you're showing your ass. The problem is not destiny. The problem is you had an unrealistic view of women and when you found out they are just normal people, it broke your brain. Take some accountability for your shit and get better. Good luck

[@WalRUs1216]

This is already my favorite christmas gift :)

[@509drone2]

This is some of destiny's best work.

[@nicholascarter9158]

I'm wondering how much of his adult life Destiny has spent in small towns and rural areas, or in lesser cities as someone in the bottom quartile of income- there is literally nothing to fucking do unless you meet up at the damn library *except* hang out at people's houses. Having people come over becomes recontextualized as a platonic event.

[@maxwellsdemon10]

Hasn't he lived in a rural area as a broke guy in the start of his twenties? I mean, there are rural areas and there is RUAL areas, but if I remember correctly he was in Nebraska in small towns working shitty jobs, when he started streaming.

[@hmkhgx8068]

@@maxwellsdemon10 didn't he live in Omaha? That's not rural.

[@someguynamedl1904]

destiny’s dating advice and relationship advice is top tier. this man don’t miss

[@colenoir8586]

Destiny writing a dating guide might be the greatest form of comedy to come out of the internet in years.

[@dante19890]

he does have experience with a lot of women.

[@FreiwilligFrei]

@@dante19890 yes but based on what?! You have to be honest, let’s take away the status and money and see what’s left he can write a guide about;) He doesn’t need a guide anyway cause the true guide is in front of us. His actions speak louder than words. If he wants to write that guide he has to teach how to get rich and famous. That’s why he attacks the red pill because it exposes exactly that he has no game. It’s fair enough that his success with women comes from the work he put hin. That’s exactly what the red pill says…work on your status and value and the women will be a byproduct of it. He ignores totally the importance of his money and fame and make it seem that it’s game.

[@dante19890]

@@FreiwilligFrei Yeah thats true. He gets most of the women he fucks cuz he is an important person in his sphere. However it would be funny if he made a dating profile and tried to pick up unaware girls without his internet fame and post the convos.

[@dante19890]

@@natediaz1863 I agree with both of you but I still want to see the dating guide lol

[@percentile5247]

@@FreiwilligFrei explain his relationship before he started streaming

[@kalebb7170]

"Starting on January 1st, I'm doing the empathetic thing" - Destiny every single December

[@jesser.3702]

Wild to see how people are pivoting after the Twitch Politics crashed.

[@ate0844]

August, you’ve outdone yourself with this thumbnail

[@spennythespoo]

Cannot wait for Destiny’s dating guide manifesto

[@kgirl743]

Here is exactly where stars manager went wrong: Irrelevant is actually telling his audience there is no incentive to being a good guy, so manipulate as many girls as possible until you settle down to find a “good” girl. The problem with this is you are then creating multiple woman with life long trauma from your emotional abuse, and you expect you should be able to find a good woman? Nah F all that. If you create multiple women with trauma, you deserve to deal with that trauma you caused.

[@waynewayne8419]

What are you talking about? He just described what goes on in the world and you started wilding out. Use your ears and brains.

[@haruhirogrimgar6047]

@@waynewayne8419 He says men should hold themselves to a "higher standard" but gives no reason or motivation to. Especially the more desparate of his viewers are gonna act on the part of his rant where "success" comes from being absolute scum. If the world functions better when people are better then society has no hope or reason to exist. If everyone were to take the path of least resistance in the worldview he has laid out there would be nothing but suffering basically. Even if we just go by Destiny's worldview a stance like that makes no sense. Being nice and not f"cking people over are generally gonna take you farther in life and lead to a better one. Lies, especially the more elaborate they get and the more parties involved basically always implode at some point because they are impossible to keep up. If you treat people like sh"t then people will probably treat you like sh"t. If you scam people or do something that causes a lot of negative ripple effects someone will eventually try to put you behind bars or cancel you out of being able to make a living. And at the end of the day if you know you pressured and manipulated a ton of people into sex or buying into your scam you are gonna have that weigh heavy on your conscience. Taking toxic "shortcuts" is going to catch up to you eventually.

[@thetricksterpill]

Jeremy Meeks taught me more than I should have learned about the world. My favorite quote of his is "Anything is possible". He became a billionaire overnight! Hard work really pays off

[@chad3984]

Its not going to happen if you can get many womeb you won't pick women with trauma to settle with

[@Rakschas666]

Deserve is great but partners arent distributed on the basis of being deserving. You want the best chance to be successfull in approaching a woman (one who hasnt trauma from those kind of guys) you are genuinely attracted to beyond casual sex, you are in competition with all those men who have a plethora of practice and experience. Good luck.

[@ftwsam2246]

When someone invites you into their house, they are showing a sign of vulnerability, people don't like to bring friends to their apartments sometimes cause it's too small and you can tell a lot about a person when you see how they live.

[@mttgtz8118]

i have never laughed so hard before while listening to destiny. This is a W

[@timpeterson175]

Destiny consistently so hilarious ❤

[@vvdulw]

I think the critical main part the other side is missing, is that going to someone's place usually happens AFTER some other activity, either it be chatting or a date-like activity together, bar, dinner, movie, whatever the fuck

[@prodrigues_]

idk if it's "usually", booty calls/texts aren't a rarity these days. though i do see your point

[@Bori.1776]

Wether or not you go out has first has nothing to do with the fact that there’s no reason you would do so unless you’re gonna fuck like 99% of the time.

[@leot-j6312]

I was listening to this mid set at the gym and had to stop cuz I was laughing too much

[@chungusamongus69]

This is the destiny content i want to see

[@Hekinsieden]

Incentive to be a good person, you swerve to avoid a squirrel in your car and in your darkest moment when you need help the most that Squirrel shows up in a suit of armor.

[@downsjmmyjones101]

Netflix and chill means Netflix and chill to me. I'm firing up some sick movies and shows when we sit on that couch and we are actually watching them.

[@aWildNelby]

LETS GOOOOOOO That accent take is the best take I have EVER heard from Destiny.

[@BlueDirt_ProAggressive]

There is a reason most ppl date in their own office or field. Those long hours working together, the home partner not being there enough, etc. It leaves opening that ppl take adv of or they willingly walk through.

[@clovdrift]

Destinys been getting a lot funnier lately

[@LLwrldLL]

Yeah powder does that lol

[@kebabfoto]

I'm so triggered already

[@KevinScalf]

a long, long time ago, Steven used the term jenga board instead of ouija board. Today he doubled down it.

[@PapaAwiz]

Holy shit. I was not ready for it. And I thank god that I wasn't drinking anything atm. Destiny just casually dropping the term porker...and then seeing the chat spam the word over n over....I was fucking DEAD, lmao. Holy shit I was not ready for it.

[@VinnieGer]

Good way to start my Christmas Eve.

[@Zayindjejfj]

"Get r*ped" Merry Christmas everyone.

[@calvin2913]

Destiny relationship-take vids are like having to listen to him defend one of his food takes but he’s actually serious and angry.

[@crisci672]

This was the best thing to watch

[@Saint_Darius]

This video is, yet again, one of the reason Destiny is one of my favorite streamers

[@larsmichael6242]

That's some 2022 Shakespear shit: -"Either I'm autistic or the wast majority of guys are. I don't know, I can't tell. I don't know. I'm truly at a loss. I'm truly at a loss here."

[@seenitalready]

5:18 FINALLY NORMAL REASONING I was banned from reddit - Not for this but let’s just say.. it’s great for your mental health to get away from these types of ppl

[@TobiOnar]

Not gonna lie, I am definitely one of those kind of guys that would say "sorry, I don't drink coffee".

[@Oskar1000]

In scandinavia it's definitely different. I have been to women friends home and vice versa. We play music often, bake, watched the witcher, wrapped christmas gifts etc.

[@KRISTIANSMILJANIC]

Destiny syftar huvudsakligen på dating sammanhang

[@Starsky3022]

I can't believe I come back to watch a clip from Destiny and he has become even MORE based. Where's the limit at this point?

[@Observette]

Inside your Mum?

[@Pyryp2]

He becomes monogamous.

[@wilsonsanabia4259]

@@Pyryp2 Melina is thinking about it, but there's no way he'll do it any time soon

[@Pyryp2]

@@wilsonsanabia4259 I don't think he can.

[@tubblestop414]

Dont take dating advice from anyone. Destiny has terrible takes.

[@Undeadsweater]

I think the implications of inviting people over or going to their house depends largely on the context of your relationship. There are lots of opposite sex friends who are very platonic and hang out at home, doing activities like playing games, eating, talking, etc. This isn’t THAT abnormal. But if it’s someone you recently met on Tinder or something, then yeah, of course that’s likely the intent/implication of inviting them over/being invited over. It’s just context dependent.

[@sticks7857]

Yeah but destiny lives in an egalitarian hook-up culture where the only time the sexes need to meaningfully interact is when they're having no strings attached sex. Destiny like everyone else is simply a product of his environment.

[@Undeadsweater]

@@sticks7857 Yeah, a bit hyperbolic, but I suppose so. I guess he just should see that not everyone is like that. Lots of people, both men and women, aren’t constantly on the hunt for sex the way he and his social group are.

[@milesmobley9564]

No it isn’t because those people have already explicitly told each other they are just friends so that expectation isn’t there.

[@Undeadsweater]

@@milesmobley9564 I feel like not everyone has to explicitly state that they’re just friends. Friendships just happen naturally.

[@AnimosityIncarnate]

That's fairly abnormal IMO. Every chick that has ever done that with me has tried making moves, we had sex or she got mad at me for not making moves. If that's my experience, I'm more likely to agree with destiny. Every platonic female friend that never moved on to sex, we always hung out in public doing something. Never at a house. Because even if y'all don't want to, shit can happen, and it could ruin the relationship if people develop feelings. Good to just avoid the situation all together

[@boggledeggnoggler5472]

Destiny's "Naerruu" take is the funniest thing I've heard in a while

[@Mike-hp7lv]

When was the last time you picked a berry, that line fkn killed me, lmao

[@Exiodius]

No offense to destiny but in general never take advice on dating from autistic people in open relationships. This was a funny rant tho

[@lordpizza4391]

Probably a good call to not take advice on anything from someone like that.

[@rayman878]

Brave

[@finngeometry7570]

When Destiny says “if you can’t get at least *something* in the dating space it’s probably your fault,” I believe him. For some context, I’m a pretty introverted guy who mostly just reads books about biology and geography. A while ago I thought sex/relationships was pretty impossible for me, but then I met a girl at uni. We started talking irl and online like normal people and just naturally grew closer… and next thing you know we were dating. Didn’t last forever, but it was nice. Provided you’re a decent and respectful person, if I can do it, you can do it.

[@jjQlLlLq]

Yeah, that's the normal relationship. There's no shortage of relationships between average people, just look around and look at parents really. Glad you had a nice experience! I found my best friend through a random platonic DM on Discord from a mental support server. We greatly vibe with each other, supported each other through the deep mental abyss, now our self-esteem are astronomically better than 3 years ago and we're on our way to marriage. Even though we're nothing special on paper, just 2 average-looking people with quirks who like to talk for hours and have decent income. With deep mental flaws, even. While there are legit problems that exists, the Manosphere is really catastrophizing & missing the real problems imo. Really just be a decent & functioning person, meet & befriend more people you wanna hang around with, let the luck come and be ready to take the opportunity. Being a sexist Manospherer/Feminist would not help with the chances… 😂

[@christianbenavente2927]

This is my favorite rant I’ve ever seen. Bigs up’s to the ones under… his desk😂😂😂😂

[@wyattziel7438]

Time for the dating coach arc

[@lucidLion1]

god destiny you're hilarious. Keep up the great work.

[@whenthedustfallsaway]

“It’s not necessarily because they’re pretty, but because they’re pretty they get to practice (social skills) more.” Even if we assume looks doesn’t give an automatic head start (it does), you literally just contradicted yourself. In this scenario, looks are still the reason they get better chances.

[@jacobhof]

That comedy skit. "What the average redditor sees" lmfao. He got baited hard by that, "spreading his seed" comment though.

[@8infant]

Humans are so lost👽💀

[@jamesmason7761]

Bro everytine this dating shit comes up I'm baffled. Are people online truly this inept and maladapted?

[@electron6825]

fr 🤖

[@SuperSpectrom]

@@jamesmason7761 Yes. Most people don't have a parent or mentor to teach them these things.

[@williambontrager2349]

Parents don't teach this either honestly bc they don't know either. My dad, great dad btw, told me women are like driving a Manual transmission. He taught me how to drive a manual transmission by saying it's like a woman just figure it out...on the jersey turnpike in rush hour. I was really frustrated by the circular reasoning but 20 years later he was right...kinda lol

[@funicon3689]

@@SuperSpectrom steven is teaching us now

[@thomasjohn983]

The last fruit you ate was a cherry cocacola is bars. Actually taking souls. 41:30

[@pgmlivegameur]

I unironically hope we get a dating manifesto

[@JustinBieberFailz]

As a guy living in the UK; can confirm, what you said is accurate for here too.

[@matdl5472]

Idk why destiny does this to himself. The people commenting are obviously socially inept if they can't even concede on basic point and they deserve to be where they are. There is no helping them

[@mdikeee4817]

Nah this is like the one thing i disagree w him on. Destiny is weird in the sense that he doesn't invite his friends over to his house to hang out, like Dan had never even been in his house until quite recently. It's more normal to people to have their houses as hang out spots and plenty of my female friends have invited me over to hang out.

[@matdl5472]

​@@mdikeee4817 yeah sure i can see that, but the rest of the arguments were just unnecessary. Its like trying to argue with a flat earther

[@kylerBD]

@@mdikeee4817 I dont think he is against people inviting over friends who you arent attracted and who arent attracted to you. He specifically mentions people of the opposite gender. He says that because most people are straight. I don't think he would tell a woman to not invite her female friends over late at night because they might fuck you and vice versa for men with their male friends. But if you invite someone you are sexually attracted to or who might be sexually attracted to you the obvious implication there would be something sexual. Which seems obvious.

[@titusorelius9458]

What is the basic point? That the opposite sex can not go to each other's homes without sex being the goal?

[@kylerBD]

@@titusorelius9458 Yes, especially so for women. So many women talk about how scary men are and how afraid they are to date yet will invite a man over to their home. The single most sensitive location you could let a stranger know.

[@dancheng3014]

An example of a nice guy would be Destiny to Lauren Southern. And example of A Nice Guy would be Mike from Redacted to Bad Dummy. However, Destiny is a woman's name so...

[@KazmirRunik]

You can revoke consent, but I've had the opposite happen where a girl tells me no and then brings me home anyway. Either "no" means "no" or it doesn't, and that's not a game I'm going to continue playing with that person.

[@shontaylor1367]

Destiny been wild'in out since going ssgss

[@haydend3469]

As a guy who is in his late 20s and is attractive and successful now but wasn’t in his early 20s… Guys in their younger years should take advantage of their attractiveness to women and should continue to date women if they choose without settling because women don’t settle down or make compromises either

[@dippysaurus3375]

This was a good rant, I'm in support of the straight forward world lol. It's also insane how many people at my uni fall into the same pits of stupidity mentioned here, it effects everyone young and old-ish lol

[@bluetc1474]

Thank You, August 😊

[@IAmSplate]

14:53 dawgggg I typed that to Rely lol, can’t believe that made it into the Destiny vid

[@somerando8615]

The one big thing I'll say Destiny is way off base with is his baseline advice to men trying to attract women, "Just get a haircut, and clean up the pile of trash in the middle of your apartment. That's literally all you have to do!" This only works when you are an e-celeb, with a blue check, and half a million subscribers. His dating advice does not work for the average 20 year old working at Walmart who doesn't have the opportunity to invite Redacted 1 and Redacted 2 on stream because they're hungry for clout and literally refer to themselves as "orbiters".

[@haruhirogrimgar6047]

He has mentioend numerous times that he enjoys hooking up or going on dates with women that have no idea about his streamer sh"t.

[@Browdeh]

Just get some rizz

[@somerando8615]

@@Browdeh I need orbiters :(

[@WhoBlah21]

@@haruhirogrimgar6047 They may not know about his streaming career, but they know that he is living life above average from the way he moves. I'm willing to bet that what he puts on his bios and photos on these apps are glimpse of his above average lifestyle, he doesn't have to say that he's a famous streamer BUT because these apps are extremely competitive he's required to show off some of his worth. Also, whether you're going on dates or even hooking up people do bring up your career/jobs and hobbies to gage your lifestyle.

[@MattPryze]

@@haruhirogrimgar6047 He is also able to talk and move as someone with experience thanks in large part to his status giving him those opportunities more often. Props to him for it! But that doesn't make him an equivalent judge of the "average" male dating experience.

[@tzimisce1753]

That thing he mentioned sometime after the 1-hour mark, about "if I spoke with an unconfident voice, you wouldn't like me" - I call that "the witch hunt", because women look for the slightest detail to write you off, and won't "forgive" nor forget it. Rationally, if she was to do something unbecoming, like if she farts loudly, you make excuses, you minimize the problem, you try to help her out of the gaffe. But when it's the other way around then it works like one giant if-statement with a trillion conditions, and if a single one fails - she sees you as whatever she associates that failure with, and there's no way back into her "good graces" after that. Which definitely isn't the man's fault, I don't expect ethereal perfection neither from men nor women.

[@Hammers93_]

Probably the most based Destiny rant of 2022. Off topic, I hope you all have a lovely Christmas

[@Kr0g3rnazy]

You are so much funnier at 1.75% it takes your high energy to the next level rofl 🤣

[@krunkle5136]

Feminism should be about women meaningfully being responsible for themselves, being upfront, being stoic. Not infantilizing them, telling them they're not in control, treating them like mental midgets, etc.

[@Bai_Su_Zhen]

Nobody is looking just for love anymore. People are looking for profit in dating. That's the problem. We have become too materialistic and completely gave up our spiritual side. Now everybody is sad and depressed and lonely and full of hate and still people go on doing the same shit acting as if nothing's wrong.

[@dante19890]

Love is a human concept it never existed in nature to begin with even humans didnt know about it until we brainwashed ourselfs XD

[@WhoBlah21]

@@dante19890Ah yes the appeal to nature, go pick some berries and sleep in a cave if you feel that you’re not “brainwashed”

[@dante19890]

@@WhoBlah21 if you wanna live in a fairy tale and not the real world go ahead

[@WhoBlah21]

@@dante19890 Okay then, go live off the grid and pick some berries if you want to live in the "real world." lol

[@Bai_Su_Zhen]

@@dante19890 Glad you're here to prove my point.

[@CosmicD]

Destiny agreeing with Camille Paglia wasn't on my 2022 bingo card :P

[@TeddyOG]

I mostly agree with Destiny(as a certified non virgin) but I still believe in and have female friends and we don't bang. Now, it has gotten there, usually with alcohol so there is truth to it. But I've had plenty of healthy, non simp relationships with women, however- you have to have a common hobby like smoking weed, hiking, climbing, etc and it's doable. I've gotten amazing feminine insight over a smoke sesh that I couldn't have gotten from the boys. But, if you haven't had sex much or at all, these friendships may be really difficult. You have to be on even grounds. And like the Eccentric Poet said, salute to all the DGGrs constantly baiting Dman into more rageful rants and baiting him, it's great shit

[@Nigorano]

"There's a difference between a Nice Guy and a 'NiceGuy'" Yeah, except that difference isn't that there are millions of men out there being born as the one-dimensional cartoonish boogeymen that women like to portray everyone they reject as, the difference is physical appearance. Nice Guy can get positive feedback for his general attitude thanks to the Halo Effect and know that he's valued enough that he can hold his own and stave off desperation. 'NiceGuy' is the person who USED to have that same general attitude, but the reversed Halo Effect and Lookism ( As been proven by countless of studies ) have led to purely sneering responses from women, or perpetual friendzoning at best, and then he spiraled off either into the misguided 'Hail Mary' last ditch effort to capture women's attention by simping harder than anyone else and pleading on his knees, or to resent each rejection much more strongly because their universal continuation has a culminative effect, or both. 'NiceGuy' did not appear to disquiet women's otherwise perfect lives out of thin air. The 'NiceGuy' is a result of systemic hypergamy.

[@Nigorano]

@@scottyboy7835 Of course, that has been the defining distinction of human civilization which still holds true around the globe to this day - All the good guys get mad pussy, and all the bad men don't. And also why a vast majority of women claim to have been in abusive relationships, or to have dated an 'asshole', or to have had uncaring and selfish sexual partners. They're just *that* good at filtering out entitled and toxic men. They always know when the 'vibe' is off or can 'smell' the perfidy from a mile away.

[@Zayindjejfj]

@@scottyboy7835 I think that's my problem with the "the issue is you if you can't get a girl." Yes, obviously the issue is you and how you're approaching women. THAT DOESN'T MAKE YOU THIS HORRIBLE PERSON. You're just struggling with women on a social level, but you're not some ugly monster unworthy of life. It's okay to have a rough time learning things. And I just wish more people would realize that.

[@WhoBlah21]

HOLY FUCKING SHIT THIS! FUCKING THIS!! People like to pretend that the majority of men are these low-key Hollywood-tier sociopaths who switches up our behaviors on a whim.

[@jimmyd1338]

Holy fucking based

[@wtfimcrying]

lol the mental gymnatics are shocking. nice guys are not a result of hypergamy, they are a result of the emasculation of young boys and boys being taught to think from a young age that all that is required from a man is a good attitude. This is very present in media/entertainment and perpetuated by it. This started much before adolesence.

[@509drone2]

The ban hammer was strong in this one lol

[@Inst9727]

I'm unitonicaly hyped for the day, Destiny's courting manual drops

[@Alpine_Nightly]

This angry blue-haired guy is spitting straight facts.

[@nomercy4521]

I think there's more context than just being at someone's place late, imo. But I've grown up with a lot of women as friends. I did a lot of theater and band and have had a lot of platonic friends. Just like I'd hang out with my guy friends late shooting the shit, I'd do the same thing with girls.

[@hectorcumba5703]

Same here, grew up around a lot of female presence which led to healthy plutonic friendships with girls growing up and throughout college. I still fucked alot of them them though 😂 like you said context is important because you can tell the difference between "shooting the shit" or wanting to smash.

[@dante19890]

We are talking about 2 strangers dating here. Not your unattractive girlfriends who you have known half your life that you have no intention on banging.

[@gemguson]

they think you’re gay

[@nomercy4521]

@@gemguson nope

[@JEWFanMarshall]

Lmao singing in American killed me

[@maskedfiction]

I DONT KNOW WHAT WE'RE YELLING ABOUT...

[@ceka50]

Maybe what destiny is saying is true for most people but I've invited women over to just hang out. I'm pretty introverted and usually the friends I make are too so sometimes it's nice to just stay inside and just chill.

[@dante19890]

ye but u knew sex was a possibility right. The women certainly thought that.

[@armedhobo6398]

If girls are coming to your place after midnight to "chill" and there's no suspicion of anything sexual on either side then they might be under the impression thay you are a deeply closeted gay man.

[@xandernewton1095]

The Courting thing was actually beautifully explained