Destiny Bridge Burning

[@pjharper2643]

Feels like you could have kept this private

[@AbaNPreach]

It would eventually become public because Destiny would share that with a 19yo Egirl someday.... Jokes aside, If you publicly defend people when you think theyre right, you should show the same energy when you think theyre wrong. Connections with content creators doesnt come before my responsibilities to my audience.

[@boywithanearring]

dawg its EVERYWHERE. he had to say something otherwise people would automatically assume he's on board with steven

[@shamarirobinson6432]

You have to call people out when they do disgusting things. It's how you hold people accountable

[@Unethical.FandubsGames]

@pj I imagine that's what people have been telling Destiny for years. And you're insane.

[@Gchildwarrior]

@@pjharper2643 ....How about no? While some creators are extremely biased on this situation, Destiny deserves the pushback for his bs.

[@kevintrudel1127]

'Preach out here doing gay shit with his wife'. I'm dead

[@dionstewart7394]

It's just boys being boys.😂

[@isaacgonzalez5930]

Things you say bout your best friend

[@ramon6754]

If preach wasn't gay he would be doing shit with his boyzzz. Just saying

[@DomSum7]

Love their closeness🤣🤣🤣

[@davideaton6928]

That’s just love for your friend 😂😂😂 Givem shit

[@sneakers_guy5488]

"My sympathy is for when a tragedy happens, not the inevitable." That's a bar, damn.

[@shaezchannel]

I had to * pause * to write it down myself.

[@Ren_Shahanshah]

Super duper bar

[@markstrike-y1g]

🔥 🔥 🔥

[@LuvinLife84]

Indeed, that shit hit hard! That's tough!

[@dichonelawson5218]

Yeah, I caught it too, immediately after he said it 😂😂👍🏾👍🏾👌🏾👌🏾

[@AbaNPreach]

Back from our Africa vacation, expect 10+ video to drop in next few days but getting this one out the way.

[@DavidHing-q7e]

Bless up brotha from Guyana🇬🇾💪

[@nerncrypted]

Can we also expect a video about your experiences and places you visited during the vacation?

[@hiroshi7025]

Said it before, will say it again... We're so Aback to the Preaching.

[@JoshSmithJ19]

Get innnnn

[@JoshSmithJ19]

Need u to cover DJ akademiks stuff

[@curtisyue182]

Destiny is a good example of why Intelligence is a different stat from Wisdom. Hes the type of guy that can intellectually defend anything, but there is no moral dimension to his thinking, so anyone whose normal who sees him is appalled.

[@William-Tyndale]

His intelligence is often extremely overstated because average people struggle to keep up with him and this is part of what's created his unjustified ego

[@chrisc767]

He is by no means intelligent! He talks fast, spewing nonesense! Also he dropped out of music school😂

[@NurmaBP]

Just because you're arguing a lot, yelling a lot, yapping a lot, doesn't mean you're intelligent 😂 He has so many flaw arguments that rooting from his mind set. Y'all see where that mind set lead him into? His doom

[@user-mr6hc9hy2t]

Lol it is funny how unwilling people are to call someone they don't like intelligent. I think it's since we generally perceive intelligence as a positive trait, so we have a hard time dealing with the cognitive dissonance of "person who we don't like has good traits." Destiny is pretty clearly a smart guy. How smart? No idea, but he is at least above average intelligence. The key is that being smart doesn't make someone more correct. Smart people have a stronger sense of rationale, but rationale does not necessarily yield right answers. People like to think that we use rationale to arrive at right answers, and while we *can* use for it that, 95% of the time we use rationale to internally justify our opinions and actions. Which means smart people are often "better" at being wrong. As they will be able to use their strong sense of rationale to rationalize their own position, which can lead to stubbornness and close-mindedness. A dumb and a smart person have the same wrong opinion: but it is much easier to poke holes in the dumb person's rationale.

[@William-Tyndale]

@@user-mr6hc9hy2t I have no issue saying Destiny is above average intelligence. He's middle management smart. The problem is he's presented as being significantly above average and not slightly above average. "The key is being smart doesn't make someone more correct". That's mostly wrong. Being smart doesn't mean you must be right on any given topic, but it does mean you are better at problem solving and creative reasoning which will result in you being right more often than others. This is why IQ is a legitimate measure of intelligence as it is strongly associated with "being right" on any given test and is just as strongly associated with learning new things. If you don't reason to arrive at the truth, but reason to justify your own biases then you are being less intelligent than you would be if your aim was truth as reasoning toward truth is the defining factor of intelligence. Someone who constantly does everything they can to justify their biases over against trying to arrive at the truth is providing evidence that they aren't that smart.

[@mrx4780]

" *I completely disagree i don't think I'm self-destructive* " famous last words #chill guys notifications keep popping up with your arguments

[@messo3843]

💀💀💀

[@Mikehowarth1988]

I hate that creep he's such a worm.

[@Nazyr]

Yesss! Destiny is a master of saying shit so confidently that you actually believe him and you forget that the real world don’t give a fck about your delusions.

[@onepartyroule]

It’s not so much being self destructive as it is being an abuser.

[@aladdout9454]

well turns out he was destructing other people

[@Black-Moustache]

Noticed Aba finally called Preach his brother. All that time ago he was joking about them not even being friends and just business partners/colleagues.

[@ZachieChan7]

IKR! If Destiny is a friend, Preach MUST BE A BROTHER

[@josephg6567]

Facts shit made me do the parasocial smile😂

[@18JR78]

It’s called growth

[@essies4294]

It’s normal progression, y’all😂

[@islabee94]

​@@josephg6567me too 😊 I knew they were pretending. In the one video where they speak about friendship they also low-key admitted it towards the end. Wholesome stuff

[@Mj783980]

You literally warned him about this, there is an edit out there of the conversation you had with him about his lifestyle when you did the Brittany slap. You called it. He didn't listen

[@EbonyPope]

He also didn't listen to Aba not to be in an open relationship. He said afterwards that most relationships fail to deflect critcism. Destiny missed the point completely. Yes most relationships fail but if you are in an open relationship it's practically guaranteed that it fails. At least you have a chance in a normal relationship. He is coping.

[@JunkieMonkey321]

calling the future of his relationships is like calling friday on a thursday afternoon tbf. hes the typical "poly" person who uses/abuses people around him for sexual gratification. its degeneracy all the way down for those types

[@NameUnknownz]

He got severe gooner brain, what can ya do

[@pg_jem]

No he wasn't. He was warned that Destiny was messy about his sex life, but that edit has nothing about him sending images without consent.

[@Mr_megido]

@@EbonyPope the thing is the whole “most relationships fail” thing proves the point if you can’t handle a relationship where it’s just two people involved what make you think you handle a relationship with multiple people

[@MetroidTheorist]

Aba is what you could consider a real friend. Real friends call out your BS. This is why I like Aba and Preach. You two are rational and charitable.

[@mariasol1545]

For real, as a woman my former friends used to be like “oh my gaddd yess girl!” To everything. Even my when I was in the weong Its important to find friends that will keep it real with you and sometimes point out your flaws or you’ll never grow as a person

[@KiryuMythic]

He or Preach didn't call out Destiny when he was okay with the firefighter getting shot

[@AA-ed6ek]

@@mariasol1545 So true.

[@deethomasblack6487]

Yep, but you don't have to call out your friend on a huge platform. I respect loyalty, and can't respect this video.

[@AA-ed6ek]

@ Lol.

[@InfernoOmni]

IT IS A SICKNESS

[@NVBBX5810]

Yo, what's up omni

[@zippo5294]

And we don’t wantit 😂

[@GeorgeDroydFentReactorS8]

Already know this is gonna be on today or tomorrows video 😂

[@myles7453]

Aw shoot, Omni!

[@MarquizeMufasa1990]

OF THE HIGH ORDER

[@paro2210]

Sharing sex tapes you have with strangers, without the people in the video's consent is insane.

[@avivastudios2311]

He's never gonna be able to show his face to Piers Morgan again.

[@BlGDaddyRob]

Yeah, fucking a bunch of people and messy relationships and whatnot is what it is, but this is too much. You also see why he was so defensive about people calling the group his harem- because it was exactly correct he fucks everyone he interacts with. I'm waiting for erudite to break up with her husband when shit comes out lol.

[@fmac6441]

And problably a crime

[@pablowall]

Definitely awful but this type of thing and worse happens every day in the normal dating scene and it's totally blackpilling. Shit like cheating is Definitely worse, but this isn't a justification for the actions. I'm done with this dude until he makes amends to the victims and changes his behavior

[@PandaZelda]

Or probably the person he sent it to too wtf

[@chopath]

Destiny is almost 40 and still acts like an 18 yo

[@meepmeep3308]

Drop the one, I don't act like this!😂

[@roxy4325]

​@@meepmeep3308 Better yet, drop the 8

[@maxhatush5918]

Jelly?

[@bruhskifrfrnocapbussinmate]

goonclown footsoldiers will deflect and bait from the 26 pieces of revenge goorn that destiny sent to women (which leaked on KF cause destiny shared them using public google drive links) and now 5 women have came forward stating he has shared recordings of them non-consensually (pxie, chaiery, stasia, itsmalma and melina)

[@Unethical.FandubsGames]

@@maxhatush5918 You clearly are. Projection is a real thing.

[@The_Real_Lugo]

Destiny speaks with such confidence, then does shit like this and says his lifestyle is not destructive. What a clown

[@792bnz]

Nothing worse than when he speaks on dating relations between men and women, when he clearly has no clue what he's doing. The irony of him getting played by his girl for a weirdo says it all

[@Itzarzky]

to be absolutely fair, destiny has stated multiple times throughout his career that following his lifestyle is bad, and strongly not recommended to follow. His lifestyle is an extremely specific lifestyle that not many people can replicate, and it isn’t surprising destiny tells his audience not to do what he does.

[@BaronBoss-o9z]

A clown with a massive audience... granted it is dwindling

[@modelazim8000]

Preach said: this one's on you lol

[@MichelleHunt-zh6lt]

he straight up said nah lol this is your shit lmao

[@andyfranks8195]

Thats yo friend😂😂

[@pyrogaming5071]

legit xD

[@moonknight4053]

Hahaha

[@KissSlowlyLoveDeeply-pm2je]

wakanda forever

[@williamhardee8863]

I’m glad Aba’s not dying on the Destiny hill.

[@cheffanie1752]

But it gives me solace that he won't stop being his friend because he disagrees with his behavior

[@harrambou9468]

So many said he would; I’m like “nah he’s smarter than that” some people in this community just don’t get nuance…I thought if anybody, they would

[@armondtanz]

@@cheffanie1752 clout goblins stick together... Diddy had thousands of friends, same with Epstein.. If u getting clout of someone you'll ignore EVERY bad aspect about them for your own selfish gain.

[@casketthefriendlybed9699]

@@cheffanie1752 He might once he finds out Destiny goes after 10 year olds as well and brags about it

[@nsbdbsbsbdbzbz8555]

You have to be 20 IQ to die on this hill. You know like Myron. Hahahhahahahahhahahahahahhahahahahahahahahhahahahahshshshahaha

[@hilarycoyote]

I can tell Aba is genuinely disappointed. I'm sorry.

[@joaocustodio7705]

My bro, you didn't do it, dw

[@thunderbird2712]

Is Aba a parent now??

[@sufi8903]

He's not....he knows him

[@pandaketamine]

Sorry? Sorry??? This was the most expected shit from destiny, dude is a cuck

[@OrderedAffairs]

Why are you sorry?

[@TheJobberHunter]

Aba hit the nail om the head. Destiny didn't care about anyone involved. Not pxie, not erudite, not dan, not ven himself. His behavior on twitter after and on his return stream shows no serious self reflection or acceptance of accountability. He literally swept though the acknowledgement.

[@insertnamehere1792]

Legal reasons tho

[@Rexpimpwagen1232]

He cant say anything before the trial that would basicly mean addmitting guilt legaly.

[@watchonjar]

@@insertnamehere1792 thats also more uber flimsy bs, hes on record admiting to fault so the cat is out of the bag with pxie, and with the rest of the girls he constantly says enough to defend himself. What ever defense he might have in court has been dashed. Its just another example of destiny having no impulse control or foresight.

[@davidpinto-fernandez7132]

@@insertnamehere1792 1) "Pxie and this people behind her only wants money" 2) "If I go on a list as a sex offender, Ill take 20 streamers with me" ???, legal reasons''?? ahhh ?'

[@urbanchameleon]

@@Rexpimpwagen1232 ​​⁠ I don’t buy it. I think he/Dan are using it as a cop out because he’s admitted to the pxie stuff multiple times. The chaerie allegations are different. He’s not spoken to it & no messages have been leaked. Probably a good idea to keep his mouth closed on that one. Anyway, I think it’s clear he has an addiction. He’s denied it in discord tho. The first step is admitting…

[@dariusofkc]

Proud of y'all for going from "we're not friends, we're coworkers" to "Preach is my Brother". I know it's an old topic, but I really appreciate the growth, especially considering how many creators have fallen off in the time it took for that growth to occur. Keep going fellas.

[@youarebusteduser]

They are definitely friends.

[@DoubleYouDotTrump]

I feel like Preach only shows up because he knows it's important to Aba. A friendship to be jealous of

[@FireRayquaza24]

I’m not sure why they even said the “we aren’t friends” thing. Nobody bought it and they had to pretty much say “we were joking” cuz no one bought it and it obviously wasn’t true lol

[@2muchReality7ven]

I ignored it because it did not make sense. The dynamic wasn't ever just coworker level. 😂

[@Snailshroom]

Well they almost died in Haiti together so they been through it

[@kingabemcoil5654]

Destiny use to talk down the the alpha males dating 18-19 year olds but finds out he out here doing the same thing 😂

[@msr2566]

that's why I was so surprised. Being hedonistic, I did assume he would prob date mid 20 year olds because they r prob the ones who engage with it the most, but assumed he wouldn't wanna do mfs younger than me

[@kuroichan101]

To be fair, I don't think he dates them. I think he just uses them for sex. Which isn't that much better

[@Luke_2828]

Pot calling the kettle black😂😂

[@nikodevil2000]

People like that tend to be hypocrites. Same with the red pill guys, they preach one thing and do the opposite in their own lives. Some just hide it better than others.

[@JazzYachtrocker]

Epstiny is done

[@autastic1]

It's honestly wild that Destiny seems to think he can be a center for political discourse, and the Jerry Springer show at the same time.

[@bigdog91paper]

To be a little fair, the Jerry Springer style shit pretty much stopped once he got on meds for ADHD. It's been pretty much pure politics for a year or maybe a little more.

[@c.carrillo7813]

​@@bigdog91paperDont disrespect ADHD people like that.

[@keithremedy]

@@bigdog91papernot really bro lol Ive almost been Eskimo bros with Steven twice now and I don’t even live in the same state I’m in SoCal. One of the people I know also streams and it seems like it’s been pretty out in the open it just seems like dude decided to stop sharing all that stuff with his community and putting it on blast. Speaking from experience when it comes to women it’s not an easy thing to get over sex addiction and for me it wasn’t even that serious the only thing I had to stop doing was going out on the weekend were as destiny on the other hand legitimately is so horny its dangerous just a freaky mf. Any dude out here talking about using butt plugs just chillen all day and just going about your business like that and making the comment about how intense it was has got a problem a serious problem besides the drinking of 🥛

[@Jvffyjbcbbcxvn]

​@@bigdog91paper bro is on meth and vivans

[@eseflomein6591]

@@bigdog91paper Adderall got him locking in on everything but healthy relationships, lowkey relatable... 😬

[@LifeInGeneral-z6f]

Destiny's hedonism cost him his marriage, and now its going to cost him money and reputation. Destiny is TOO stubborn, and I think he needs to learn when to hold and when to fold.

[@punani_slayer4209]

I thought his wife was even worse than him

[@Ren_Shahanshah]

1,000 years from now some KZbin comment will say “my sympathy is for when a tragedy happens, not the inevitable” -Sun Tzu

[@pirateking31]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 trueeeeeee!

[@Th1nk1n6]

I thought line was from Son Zulu, but hey.

[@notreallyafamousartist695]

@@pirateking31yall gotta stop copying that destiny language it’s so cringe, be yourself

[@ghostrecon3834]

@@notreallyafamousartist695 who knew destiny owned the word true? who knew? 😂😭

[@dannydanumba]

Shit was profound tho ngl

[@rezaheidargholi631]

Why Is sexual deviance such a common thing with celebrities and online celebrities?😐

[@BoneTobewild-r7w]

Because they can probably. Most of them have access to options they would never even dream of without the fame so they go crazy with the power and opportunities thrown at them

[@nsbdbsbsbdbzbz8555]

Because only wierdos want to be famous. Normal people dont really want that

[@MlkBsm94]

Tells u more about why women keep falling for that over and over. And funny thing is the red pillers always talked about exploiting this vulnerability in women. Destiny is just red piller with a blue pill encasing.

[@Dimezprod]

It’s the same thing with regular people. 🤦🏾

[@Dayz671]

Probably because they have more access to it then the normal person does. If a normal person has the access, do you think they would have the control or fall to the lust?

[@yamaksy]

That is what true friendship looks like. You took the difficult path to confront your friend beforehand and you stayed true to your principles! Actions have consequences and now this page is closed.

[@fridayfree8669]

I don't like that Aba didn't drop Destiny after he called for the genocide of Palestinians (before engaging in genocide denial for months)

[@faith.W]

What clip are you refering to?;​@@fridayfree8669

[@sukaenacornelius9285]

I say this for my sister and mother. Both do adult stuff, content. Or hobby stuff. Swinger stuff. But Jesus Christ. Cant complain if you met a man at an orgy.

[@beatles42ohgg94]

yah, but this is also what probably has ruined aba and preaches content over the years. aba being friends with destiny is wild......its just ridiculous that these two would ruin their credibility by working with and being friends with destiny. destiny is a fool, and anybody connected or friends with him doesnt deserve fame or fortune. just makes aba and preech look like liberal shills.

[@mickeytwofingers911]

@@fridayfree8669 based. aint a genocide anyhow.

[@hjge1012]

Even if I agreed wit his lifestyle, I still wouldn't feel bad. He shared intimate material of girls with others, without the girls knowing. That is disgusting behavior. Full stop.

[@capo4270]

"It's not that hard to bag a teenager" Aba Atlas, January 2025

[@TrishaMoli]

Pause...

[@iFaFo_0]

It's not. If you are a full-grown man psychologically there's no real effort needed. The only reason not to do it is because of your morals.

[@JeromeProductions]

Grooming

[@thedarkpassenger84]

@@iFaFo_0Everybody knows that lol it just sounds sus out of context that why it’s funny. 😂

[@gamera5160]

"I can't believe you have a CAR and JOB and a HOUSE!??!?!!?? That's crazy!!!!"

[@ghostk-7926]

Unwritten rule: if you make Home videos keep them between you and the person(s) you made it with.

[@GeorgeDroydFentReactorS8]

Or hear me out... Dont make those videos at all. Nothing to leak if it was never there.

[@Jeremy-wp4yh]

Even that doesn't end well. Just don't make videos at all

[@ExiledGranite]

unwritten rule: dont make home videos unless its on a tape and you gotta play it in a vcr

[@Mary_Puppins]

@@GeorgeDroydFentReactorS8 I find it weird why people would ever want to record that shit, it's weird

[@johnathendean6019]

This is a written rule lmao. It's a law

[@PhreakPhantom]

The dude is a father...let that sink in

[@MG-po6jc]

OJ Simpson was a father. That's just an example but remember that a lot of men (good & bad) are fathers, so yeah it sunk in.

[@elcastro5000]

Barely a father. Lets be real. He probably doesn't see that kid often at all and thats probably a good thing.

[@KingKnowledge245]

​@@MG-po6jcAnd OJ was innocent

[@ozsheila55]

It sounded like he was excusing his behavior by saying "I don't have kids" but he just said I don't have 15 kids.?

[@jer-bear48]

Just because people consent to something bad for them does NOT make it acceptable…nor does it release you from the harm you caused! All it means is you are a slightly more cunning predator.

[@ChaseCarter2003]

One thing I have a problem with is with ABA getting involved with this guy, Destiny is not even a good influence on people, he doesn’t even give a good well functioned human look, because to me destiny is an extremist.

[@paul_elago]

He is weirdo, it’s so evident to anyone with a moral compass.

[@watermage25]

Exactly, didnt even know he was friends with this guy. One of the most intellectually dishonest people on the internet.

[@abdurrahmanqureshi3030]

@@paul_elago Expecting Aba the atheist with no morals to have a moral compass goes against his entire entitled douchy way of life

[@jmadera4534]

Preach went from not even a friend to brother. wow. nice

[@antvelasco9]

Did u not watch the video they made we're aba try to set it up so he can tell preach that he loves him like a brother without sounding gay

[@sajohnson09]

@@antvelasco9Lol to be fair, that video of Aba telling preach it was about to get real masculine in there probably took up more mindshare.

[@Playhard97]

I'm not friends with my brother. BUT THAT'S MY GOD-DAMN BROTHER.

[@leevkop8229]

​@@Playhard97exactly, you don't like your brother, but you do love them

[@nathanaeldean]

Facts, I remember him saying that they weren't even friends and it changed my whole perspective. Now they're brothers? I do not understand lol.

[@whooah]

The cutting back to Preach having a good time is legit so fucking funny

[@jacko9293]

He’s doing gay shit with his wife

[@bombvoyage5686]

Like Jontron he is the one who is winning

[@thwitness]

"My sympathy is for when a tragedy happens, not when the inevitable does." Thats a bar!!!

[@Rayce_Istanus]

I remember Destiny sayin something like: "Streamer world is full of pos snake mfers". Didn't know it also applied to him 🥶

[@Kbyte27]

I remember watching you in a stream nicely explaining to Destiny that his lifestyle isn't sustainable and Destiny rudely dismisses you by being "Destiny".

[@bbbbbbb51]

The immediate deflection & bringing up erroneous topics when Aba asked him if he doesn't think his hedonism bites him was so incredibly telling.

[@JackieBHiggins]

He thinks he knows it all that's why

[@martymcfly88mph35]

He's a starcraft player and a redditor, he knows everything

[@ninjaofphysics2953]

"Other people get hurt as well" is key to all of this. If you want yo fuck around and find out, go ahead, you do you. But when you put other people in the crossfire, that's when you become a bad person.

[@ImLehwz]

Agreed

[@MoshJunkie426]

Definitely. One thing to ruin your own life but it's a whole other thing to ruin others

[@followerofchrist3125]

Since when does Destiny care about anyone else? All the controversies Destiny is involved in could have been avoided if he was not a stupid degenerate.

[@Blu3dr3am001]

But that's always the nature of hedonism. It's foolishness to think anyone lives in a vacuum. Your actions will inevitably affect others

[@leehalloway8787]

​@@Blu3dr3am001I don't think hedonism in itself is so terrible. I do think that many people will begin to put pleasure over everything important (boundaries, personal well-being, the well-being of others). Many can also begin to see people as just something to pleasure themselves with. Destiny didn't care about those women which is why he shared their intimate images to randoms. I have seen people go through phases of hedonism where they were okay and didn't leave behind victims (in college or something). I don't think it ever works out in the long-term.

[@penncutlass]

“My sympathy is for when a tragedy happens not when then inevitable happens” is a bar. Thank you. Everyone wants to do the work after when preventing suffering is the wise choice of a good person.

[@MuscleboundKage]

That is tattoo worth it. 💯😂

[@mightyammagsoti3219]

Chilling in that water looks ALMOST as peaceful as having coconuts in Barbados

[@chaucerianfraud6767]

The polyamorous dude is dysfunctional? Say it isn't so. LMAO

[@Plight_]

I've never seen a poly person that wasn't strange

[@disclaimer4211]

this is why being poly never works out in the end. Ive told so many ppl of that and DESTINY is the PERFECT example of this.

[@Signaem]

Just watch the video.

[@mmgvii8076]

y'all say ts like y'all have experience in poly people when in reality most of you live in small conservative areas and make these judgements based on what you see on the internet.

[@Unethical.FandubsGames]

@@disclaimer4211 Not to go there but... how many monogamous marriages work out? I'm just saying. There are cultures where polygamy is the norm and there are polygamous relationships that last a lifetime. Do they always work? No. Do they work most of the time? Hell no. Most people who want a polygamous relationship are just perverted. Much the same way that the average teenager who wants a girlfriend wants one for the same reason.

[@Banished-rx4ol]

Aba did warn destiny a while back about his practices and at the end of the day aba doesn’t have to stay with a sinking ship. Aba is true to his morals

[@jcnot9712]

It’s funny that the people who were around Destiny when Aba warned him are no longer around. His wife divorced him, all the bpd girls are gone and even Erudite who stuck by him seems to be slipping away despite the fact that she’s out there playing defense attorney for him. He’s allergic to longterm friendships.

[@vision4860]

Cornballs like Fake and Fraud, and plenty other people in many circles seem to value loyalty to their agenda over all else. And as long as their allies follow their agenda, they'll win as many gold medals in mental gymnastics as they have to in order to defend those people (but of course as soon as an "ally" goes against their agenda, ties are cut). These people see this as integrity, when it's a lack of integrity, and a lack of morals. Being willing to admit when you're wrong. Being willing to stand by your morals even if you must step away from someone you once called friend. Having consistency and not bending your sense of right and wrong according to what's being done toward who and by whom. That's actual integrity and strength of character.

[@yeetpoo1475]

​@@jcnot9712he broke up with Melina, she didn't dump him

[@catstac2542]

​@@yeetpoo1475Good for her, although she's a lost soul too. Wonder why he did that, though? But my guess is gonna be that even she was fed up with his antics.

[@numbers9696]

@@jcnot9712there seems to be something deeply wrong with Destiny

[@CodElevator]

Steven(Destiny) doesn't carry himself to any higher standards because he got exposed to wealth before he ever fixed himself. So now, there's no other incentives for him to fix what's wrong until shit hits the fan. Money is just an amplifier of who you truly are, and a lot of social media personalities unfortunately fall under that same issue.

[@peripheralparadox4218]

Nah it’s not because of money, it’s his outlook either way. Dude has no moral compass.

[@princetriton1308]

He been a scumbag tho people look at him like a simp but he's really just a Grimey individual

[@TeddieYoutube]

@@peripheralparadox4218 thats kinda silly.. Im sure there are plenty of people that make shit mistakes and are fine. yea it was shitty of him to do. To say no moral compass is kinda fucking silly.

[@Matyunkin]

@@peripheralparadox4218 dude doesn't say Destiny is like that cause of money, but this situation is possible cause of money - "Money is just an amplifier of who you truly are". If Destiny would be poor, he probably couldn't got in this situation, or we would probably never knew about it.

[@nameless3200]

⁠​⁠@@peripheralparadox4218No offense but I don’t think you actually read his comment properly. He didn’t say he’s the way he is because of money, he said that he no longer has an incentive to improve because he already technically won at life. He never sorted himself out and now he truly has no reason to because he could lose it all and still be set for life. As he said, money doesn’t change who you are, it just amplifies your current traits.

[@aceyourhole9538]

Dude was always off virtue signalling is the biggest tell for a horrible person

[@paul_elago]

Yeah, he is unlikeable

[@qc6057]

Hedonism always spells your own destruction.

[@Rami_A]

I just learned a new word.

[@EchoObserver9]

Is this Hedonism? This is classic good old sending unconsensual sexual pics. No need to put any bigger word to it lol XD Also hedonism is about pleasure. You can have pleasure without doing Fed up shit to a 19 yo...

[@Castigar48]

Destruction? ​@@Rami_A

[@ChristopherGray00]

this doesn't really have anything to do with inherent hedonism, it's more about general recklessness in the pursuit of it, everyone is a hedonist whether they like to admit it or not, what determines the outcome is how much they moderate and control it, rather than having it control them.

[@itzibitzidi]

i love this. nicely said.

[@jasonosunkoya]

Honestly i had hoped that Aba being around destiny would rub off on him and make him more sensible about his gooning. Its a shame that its too late and the bridge burned. Honestly Aba was a good influence and Steven is losing out

[@blackmanwithcomputer]

The public bridge is burned, anyways.

[@Nikifuj908]

"Aba can fix him" (I unironically wish he could)

[@Wysaw]

Problem is Steven doesn't listen to Aba, he would always prefer to try to and prove him wrong, it is a shame.

[@CultofMaverickhunters]

This is just a sad case of someone telling you "not to touch the stove, it's hot" and Destiny took his pants down and sat on it. Destiny can't be helped but Aba tried

[@Blu3dr3am001]

Dr K can't even get through to him. He's done

[@charlizehendricks2113]

The thing I've noticed watching streams with Aba and Destiny was that, he(Destiny) was always like " Yeah, I do what I do and don't give a f*ck what ya'll think." But then at the same time, he still complains about how it backfires on him. That always made no sense to me. I'm at that age where I'm done investing my time in trying to help people out of situations where they actively are not trying to help themselves.

[@brainrich1358]

I agree. You can't help someone who doesn't want help.

[@bruhskifrfrnocapbussinmate]

goonclown footsoldiers will deflect and bait from the 26 pieces of revenge goorn that destiny sent to women (which leaked on KF cause destiny shared them using public google drive links) and now 5 women have came forward stating he has shared recordings of them non-consensually (pxie, chaiery, stasia, itsmalma and melina)

[@467076]

Didn't you hear him in the beginning? It doesn't compute in his head lol he even said it.

[@EnthuZee]

He spoke about freedom and self enrichment, but what is freedom without morals? Idk about Destiny, never watched the guy. He might be fun at parties who knows. But that lifestyle of doing whatever they want whenever, comes accross as extremely childish and a bit unhinged. And man, the rant before "it doesn't compute to me" doesn't help...

[@bruhskifrfrnocapbussinmate]

goonclown footsoldiers will deflect and bait from the 26 pieces of revenge videos that destiny sent to women (which leaked on KF cause destiny shared them using public google drive links) and now 5 women have came forward stating he has shared recordings of them non-consensually (pxie, chaiery, stasia, itsmalma and melina)

[@ricardoarciniega6618]

His blue hair makes me question him, he is in denial and drowning

[@kinleyhubert9518]

Criticism from a friend is more valid then that of an enemy. I appreciate that Aba is consistent with his morales on and off line.

[@BabyMaharaja0]

anyone who's a willing friend of Destiny is just as dysfunctional as him

[@chandansimms9167]

@@BabyMaharaja0you could of been friends with someone since childhood and even if their actions are counter too your own that doesn’t mean that your actions have too be similar to theirs:

[@EmaniXros]

“Preach Is my brother”, finally no longer just business partners👏🏾

[@kaladavis4834]

They were adamant about not being “friends” lol I love this for them now being brothers 😂😂😂😂

[@imthelawson2361]

Aba’s a goated friend for voicing his concerns and trying to help his friends get on the right track.

[@stevemcknelly5036]

Aba and Louis Rossmann are the only KZbinrs I've found who will speak the hard truth to their friends.

[@dannydanumba]

And he’s a wise man for recognizing a lost cause.

[@mortal465]

​@@stevemcknelly5036Louis Rossmann? The guy who tried to takedown a whole dang project because he felt it was toxic? Sure, kid.

[@daasnahk5058]

@@stevemcknelly5036 damn did louis mention anything about the destiny drama? I knew he was friends aswell

[@tonymontez2358]

Not the left leaning liberal destiny who’s always on his moral high ground smh 🤦🏾‍♂️ welp gotta watch those people who always on that moral high ground they be on bullshit too 😂😂

[@d3lusi0n_312]

Aba is an example of 'keep the same energy'...

[@chriscodling6573]

Not really, this is their first video on Destiny and he's been crashing out for a while

[@C1umsyJester]

@@chriscodling6573nah this is the first serious thing honestly. Made me see destiny differently

[@YngGreen]

@@C1umsyJester if this is the "first serious thing" I gotta be honest you have some really weird morals my guy

[@C1umsyJester]

@ would you care to give examples?

[@technicaldeathmetalhead]

​@@YngGreen or maybe they're not chronically online and just found out ..

[@Fluiddruid4k]

If “I told you so” was a video

[@syncretictakeout2328]

It is. MrGirl just made that one 2 days ago.

Its hard to trust people who can't control their impulses like that.

[@nsbdbsbsbdbzbz8555]

* Its hard to trust people on meth

[@Aaron-kj8dv]

The way he won't even hear Abas opinion and is super confident while stating very shallow facts about his life makes him sound like the super drunk guy at every party "I drive great when I'm drunk"

[@FangsOfKomodo]

@@Aaron-kj8dv the irony of him also giving marriage advice to red pillers for only then melina to divorce his ass was also ironic.

[@Snootz86]

So this dude picks up mentally ill/unstable 18/19 year olds when he's 36? what a creep It also shouldn't have taken this for you to NOPE out way before this tbh

[@anthonyl9126]

@@Snootz86 Who gives a fuck 😂

[@jonmunoz3113]

“My sympathy is for when a tragedy happens, not the inevitable…”. Bars.

[@bristow4784]

You stole this comment but I hope the likes help your peepee grow my brother in Christ 😂

[@kara5202]

Maybe I'm different but I feel sympathy for everyone no matter what they did. For Fresh and Fit and for murderers. People dont choose the brains and the situations they are born into. Those among other things shape what kind of people we become. We cant really choose to change our morals just like that for the most parts.

[@Dementia.Pugilistica]

I think sometimes the tragedy is that these things are inevitable. Like some people are tragic figures because they're otherwise smart or nice or loving or whatever, but they have some glaring character flaw that just will always be their lowest common denominator that they can't fix. I always try to have empathy too but it can certainly be frustrating to watch this happen to people who either do or should be able to get their act together ​@kara5202

[@victoriabenoit9483]

The 19 year old got "HACKED"

[@JackSparrow-d5g]

Wink wink

[@messo3843]

Yeah theres no proof that it was a hack at all. The guy who leaked it claims to be the girl's boyfriend who she gave access to the account. Destiny himself in private dms said the same thing--that it was likely the boyfriend.

[@lowserver2]

wink wink, no proof of any hacker tho 😹😹

[@bruhskifrfrnocapbussinmate]

destiny shared the material in a public google drive link lmao, destiny is lying big time

[@bruhskifrfrnocapbussinmate]

goonclown footsoldiers will deflect and bait from the 26 pieces of revenge goorn that destiny sent to women (which leaked on KF cause destiny shared them using public google drive links) and now 5 women have came forward stating he has shared recordings of them non-consensually (pxie, chaiery, stasia, itsmalma and melina)

[@somethingwithlettersandnum2584]

Real friendship is saying stuff you don't agree with out of concern for their wellbeing

[@polivepea]

Exactly

[@kellbagz563]

Yeah saying it online 😂

[@tnt6272]

​@@kellbagz563he said it in private too but now as their both public figures and friends saying nothing hurts aba reputation

[@nikolaivista920]

True that! Aba has always shown care for the people he works with. Aba did warn Sneako before he was demonetized and punched in the face! Aba also warned Destiny and he wouldn't listen to Aba. Here are the results for Destiny. This is why both Aba and Preach are cool. They provide positive feedback and show that they care for their younger associates/acquaintances.

[@GregoftheEarth]

This feels the same as all the rapper saying they left the Diddy’s parties before anything went down

[@genevievec.8002]

I like how Aba is handling this. Just real. Not saying he can never talk to him, or he hates him, just that he disagrees with some if his life choices and doesn't want to be associated with it on his channel. It just seems straightforward and real, rather than like a show, per se.

[@MindIsPw3r]

Aba perfectly explains why he is not betraying Destiny despite it might being perceived that way.

[@Crimsonblod334]

Yea says a lot about a person to keep a friend who shares porn of women who didnt even know they were recorded. Such a good friend smfh they a special kind of ish person.

[@majestic8274]

@@Crimsonblod334yeah idk about this one. It’s weird. Maybe it’s just me but I couldn’t stay friends with someone doing that kind of shit. I might come back around if they straight up apologized for it and took the steps to be a better person but cmon now. Old asf and doing stuff like this? Idk

[@813entertainment9]

​@MindIsPw3r your friends talk about you publicly like that?

[@bigdog91paper]

Maybe he feels he can still steer Destiny towards a better path by being one of the few not to entirely abandon him?

[@ethanarc]

Distinctly remember Aba telling him on stream that his hedonistic lifestyle was not sustainable.

[@chach1288]

Said “this is my friend” and then preceded to describe him as someone that could only make the worst possible friend.

[@rafefef]

Well Destiny is a bad friend, yes. But aba still considered him a friend

[@Dotfye]

Worst possible friend in connection to your values*

[@brandonchin7713]

It's not Destiny's fault that he has sexomnia where he breaks consent by trying to finger women in his sleep.

[@mariasol1545]

There’s different degrees of friendship. This is probably like a tier 4 or 5 friendship where you maybe see each other in person like two times a year lol

[@achilleuspetreas3828]

@@mariasol1545 Acquaintances sure, but not friends. Friends are rare and you hold dear. People use the word friend way too loosely

[@iz2333]

Destiny could solve his entire life by just listening to whatever Aba tells him

[@abdurrahmanqureshi3030]

Aba is a weirdo just like him, they were butt buddies for years they share like majority of the same views

[@raevj]

Destiny strikes me as a sociopath….none of this is surprising.

[@PityOnlyFools]

More of a sex-addict

[@commissarkitty3553]

Used to be a fan untill he fell down the extremist rabbit hole, his wife leaving him for a sucidal femboy was the beginning of his downward spiral. Hope he takes a break and takes better care of himself.

[@KodexKat]

Ah the classic “diagnosis of someone online I have never even talked to”

[@dream-egg]

He genuinely is, look up the "Destiny steals girlfriend from viewer" video. He's a sick dude. 🤢

[@Subgenrelol]

@@KodexKatyou don’t have to have a doctorate in psychology to tell that Chris Chan or the guy moaning outside the 7/11 is mentally ill. Same goes for Destiny.

[@ponternal]

Always found it hypocritical how Destiny criticized fresh and fit when he literally was living the exact same lifestyle they preach

[@AmorFati-n6q]

Remember ONE thing, and I HOPE this video has served as a lesson. When someone HARSHLY criticizes you, admonishes you, or picks on you, they're LITERALLY telling on themselves!! They're actually inadvertently showing you who THEY are.

[@Butjuice69]

His criticism was that that lifestyle was a one way arrangement. Not that neither was people should do it, but if one is able to sleep around the other person in the couple should have that option too if they want.

[@dripsensei_6639]

@@AmorFati-n6qThat’s not true

[@Loool_7656]

@@AmorFati-n6q Not always though.

[@FEEKAP]

Destiny fucked up here in this situation but that’s not true. If you’re open about your own lifestyle you can still criticize it. Plus destiny doesn’t agree with fresh & fits oppression of women so no he’s not living their exact lifestyle.

[@leonabug619]

I remember when I first saw Aba on a Destiny stream, someone in the comments said they wonder how long before Destiny burns bridges with Aba. I'm actually surprized Aba stuck around as long as he did. Well, Aba tried, but how does that song go? Don't save her, she don't wanna be saved!

[@chimpwimp9407]

I was just thinking of this when I saw the thumbnail. Destiny has pulled a lot of people away from the alt-right and into a left hemisphere. To see him pushing 40 and be so blatantly careless about other people's lives is just depressing.

[@RevivedTaritsuHanma]

​@@chimpwimp9407 maybe you will learn from this

[@killapollo4853]

​@@chimpwimp9407What it boils down to is this: Destiny likes free love/open relationships not because of safe, mutual fun or because it's liberating. He does it because he has little sexual discipline and he's immaturely selfish and that's not a good combo.

[@jennalavena]

how long did he stick around?

[@Jet-ij9zc]

​@chimpwimp9407 doubt destiny pulled a significant amount of people away from the alt right. Unless you're using a extremely loose definition of alt right. (As in everyone right of mao is alt right) Generally hedonism is on top of the list of what the alt right hates. They'd ignore him on that alone. (And before someone say "muh redpiller", people like fresh and fit don't appeal to the alt right, they appeal to angry teenagers. The alt right hates them for the degenerates they are. The only "redpill" people the alt right doesnt mind are the guys that go monk (so again, the exact oposite of hedonism))

[@MNM33522]

A lot of the manosphere podcast bros could never- to the point they defend the ‘friends’ who commit the most evil, heinous crimes- so kudos to this.

[@MashBro]

Usually the people that always say they don't care are the ones that would fall apart the second they stop to think about anything

[@Geralds2cents]

“I don’t care” always means you care

[@itsreallyhardtospell]

@@Geralds2centswell I care then, because that always means I don’t care.

[@LethalByChoice]

Yeah people need to stop saying that shit

[@sohkrazed]

I still remember your convo about hedonism with him and him completely in denial about it affecting him in anyway. You were right 100%

[@devonforsure260]

It comes full cycle

[@Slav_Stiibun]

It’s hard but I’m going through a similar situation of a friend destroying his life and I’ve tried helping him but I’m not gonna stop living my life anymore for him. I got kids and a wife to be there for. I can’t surround myself with folks who continue to choose to be undisciplined and immature.

[@sefatsilverlake3816]

Word my man. Empathy is an important trait but it has its limit. Company can change us for the worst too

[@ZChoate]

It kinda sounds like you're talking out of both sides of your mouth: On one hand you're saying, I won't support him, he's not my friend, what he did was horrible. On the other you're saying, "I'm not surprised, i have no sympathy. I knew he was into this shit and i tried to warn him." So are you not standing by him because what he did was terrible or are you not standing by him because he got caught?

[@oscarperez9783]

It seems like he’s trying to be a fence sitter which only makes aba look worse in my opinion. So he knew about the scope of destiny’s degeneracy and didn’t decide to stop associating with him way before all of this?

[@apocolypse11]

Jew talk

[@Alteori]

2:02 😂😂😂😂😂😂 goddammit I knew it was coming but I still lost it

[@jawarafrazer8530]

Yo. Subscribe

[@tyking33]

Hey its been a while are you going to do a series discussion of you issues with from

[@tyking33]

Also thank you for all your video's

[@CaptainCreature]

Alteori! Huge fan of yours! Nice to see that you are also an Aba and Preach fan 😁😁🙈. So coool

[@pondscvm]

Woah! Hi! I love your videos!

[@ThisDique]

Even in the communities that encourage sharing of explicit photos, consent is important. They always ask if the filming is OK, then they ask if you want your face blurred. So much for respect.

[@InjectMuzzle]

bro what type of shit are you into

[@pumelelabanca1442]

Thats basically on the same level as trusting a drug dealer? There are certain situations or lifestyles where trust should never be expected or the expectation of trust is an error.

[@leehalloway8787]

Exactly. He slept with women who had an OF. They probably would have been down to be recorded. I don't think Destiny cared about a recording of himself leaking. Why not just take videos with people who also don't mind a leak?

[@slimynaut]

consent is nonsense because people will consent to stuff that is bad for them all the time

[@dawnwilliams2048]

I didn’t know that him sharing personal videos with other women was a thing. My ex did that to me, and when I discovered it I was shocked and very confused and of course hurt. Like who does that?

[@Notoriouscj1]

🖐🏾

[@whitb62]

Sociopaths do…

[@Jakub680]

Bro your ex ain’t a good person. I don’t know if he just has a mask with you but yeah you done messed up getting with someone like that

[@japjeetmehton9921]

Don’t date these types of trashy men. But I expected someone like Destiny to be better since you know, he is progressive who should know better.

[@Manhwa-recapped]

If he records it it shall be shown

[@C_The_Guy]

Its almost as if the Saint and Sinner was right about Destiny along lol

[@oceangalaxy704]

I know we all have our differences, but I feel like him going after women who have depression, BPD, etc. should’ve been a RED FLAG to begin with. I feel like that shows some sort of narcissism or control within his relationships and I would’ve never been friends with him.

[@F.R.A.N.K.I.E]

Agreed.

[@ETSOE]

Bingo!

[@slakraze6288]

It’s predator behavior, he knows he can treat them badly and dismiss their complaints by calling them mentally ill. His audience gets involved and targets them too, every time. He operates a machine that protects him and harms his victims.

[@missp498]

People with these problems can think. They can't cry that they don't have responsibility.

[@woobilicious.]

I don't think he went after them specifically, the women who were sane either slept with him and left, or avoided the polyamory all together, You have to have a screw loose to sleep with someone and then want to go on a stream after, his current "steady" girl was never on stream, just look at the kind of women that go on the whatever podcast or fresh and fit, not many sane women would want to go through that humiliation.

[@g1sunstreaker584]

this sort of thing is why I love this channel. high entertainment value, but with a core of integrity behind it all. keep it up kings

[@mrt094]

Integrity? 😆

[@mementosxe]

"My sympathy is for when tragedy happens, not when the inevitable happens." BARS

[@ChronicDreamer1st]

Except Preach had zero sympathy for the firefighter who died protecting his family from the shooter

[@Bigtank9401]

9:23 So, that's why they not friends. Preach is family 🤝🏿

[@DanteKenchi]

the biggest problem is that these mentally ill influencers influence young kids in the wrong way, even indoctrinate them.

[@iancedilnik2677]

To be fair, destiny argues against his lifestyle for most people.

[@jonnybgoode7742]

​@@iancedilnik2677bruh shut up... He ony has because of his delusional belief in himself

[@David109-iw5ok]

Yet lots of times he glorifies his lifestyle a lot, Stop being a fanboy n look at his videos again " I think most people shouldnt live my lifestyle​ But I LOVE LIVING IT MYSELF" if you say dont live like that but you yourself decide to then That makes you an idiot and makes others think its ok @iancedilnik2677

[@opmad5593]

It doesn't matter what people say, but how they ARE! That's what *makes* an influencer... so, what if this douche said, "Don't be like me- Just watch how I do it!"?? It does nothing good for their minds- Not just him, but all of them are destroying their mental state IF their parents do not intervene!

[@Fine-c6s]

He also hooks up with a lot of fans in their teenage/early 20s who contact him on instragram. He says he prefers them but thats because they are naive and easy to manipulate. He goes on the ulta-offensive and smears them as psychotic after so much crazymaking.

[@princessap9635]

This person is a FATHER..his poor children

[@rebeccaspratling2865]

He doesn't even live in the same state as the child. He left. The child will be fine. 😂

[@MileenaUltra]

@rebeccaspratling2865 Unfortunately, the kid is in his discord (why? no one knows) and occasionally pops in on stream. Destiny doesn't care at all.

[@mondaysinsanity8193]

​@rebeccaspratling2865well other than being fatherless by someone who's litterally constantly on camera lmao

[@FigureEightDouble]

@rebeccaspratling2865 Imagine you're a teenage kid and your father is one of the most infamous degenerates on the internet. If it were me, that would mess me up.

[@firefly9838]

Nobody cares

[@Schrodingers_Kat]

Destiny out there Onision-ing his way out of relevance-

[@christhechilled]

Great comparison

[@boxxboyy3879]

@@Schrodingers_Kat gahhh damn, he really did

[@isaacfreeman1]

Didn't Onision go for actual children? 8-14? I get that people have the ick from the age gap, but both involved here are adults.

[@adrianime5838]

Onision groomed and almost enslaved women and underage girls. That's not even a close comparison to a horny dude who films his experiences with adults and handles the films in a terribly irresponsible manner.

[@KassixOMG]

We'll forget in a week

[@joshbotttelovesvids8503]

2:42 "Then, after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, gives birth to death."

[@TURBOMIKEIFY]

Damn, Akademiks and Destiny getting cancelled for sick shit.

[@capo4270]

For all his political takes, Destiny is moving like a politician lol

[@princeicykeybord]

@@capo4270😂😂😂

[@RavenWampus]

I really like this video, recently I have been having a sort of moral ambivalence or moral ambiguity, really causing a lot of internal stress on if I am living my life the way I want to live it. Watching Aba here really grounded me, he was honest in his feelings towards the situation, he isn't appearing as condescending, hes just a friend of Destiny and he is ashamed of his friends actions. And he explains beautifully what exactly he found wrong about his actions. As a younger person, struggling with understanding what is right or wrong and watching someone with a solid moral compass has made me feel a lot more grounded and has cleared up the cloud of confusion that I have been experiencing recently. Not to mention all the stuff about being mindful and responsible about how your actions not only affect the people involved but also affect the people in your vicinity. I appreciate you for this video Aba.

[@mattlol163]

😂😂😂 *Facts!!! Aba is VERY honest.* Remember when he admitted to loving have his prostate fingered n milked on video!!?!? *WILD!!!!* 😂😂😂😂😂

[@TheLamamilk0]

Love to hear it. I have conversations on this topic with my friends from time to time and I think most people would agree that if you live a lifestyle with no boundaries, you’re going to end up playing with fire. And essentially if someone thinks like Destiny does, it’s like playing with fire and not expecting to get burned. People need boundaries, otherwise you’ll just create chaos, live a life with no purpose or straight up just damage yourself and others.

[@unicornkitteh5332]

Sometimes it helps hearing someone else be able to articulate it and then things just kind of click. I've had a similar phase in my life in the last few years. Things I didn't really have an opinion on, I now have strong feelings and know exactly where I stand. But there are other things I am still working through in my head. It's part of growing up and maturing ☺️ totally normal if you don't have it all sorted yet. And it's ok to be ambiguous because it usually means you have more of an open mind to actually listen to both sides - rather than people who ignorantly take a side and have severe cognitive dissonance.

[@firefly9838]

Gayyyyy

[@RavenWampus]

​@@unicornkitteh5332Thank you for this comment, and you said it best. It really did click in my head, I'm still working through it however. And that process itself is uncomfortable but I know that what I am aiming for takes a lot of uncomfortable conversations with yourself and sometimes other people. But I know that the result of that is what I would like to aim for, to be a better person for myself, my friends, and my partner. What you said about being open minded, that also really made me realize a lot of things about myself, and explained alot of why I think certain ways. There's a lot of stuff I'll need to sort out. But you've been a great help. Thank you again, take care of your yourself

[@jameskeene9317]

The thing that bugs me the most out of this whole destiny situation is that you won’t be on his streams anymore. You were the only voice of reason out of anyone he brought on there and even if he might not agree the more you were on the more I saw him switch around with more of the things he would do online. I figured he would’ve done better by now after seeing you in person and seeing how his lifestyle is destructive. A lot of people on stream told him the same things you said, but when you said it you could see the look on his face how he took it differently than with the others. I was hoping he would’ve changed the more he was around you but I guess it is what it is at this point.

[@blackmanwithcomputer]

Well, if they still talk privately, then Destiny can still get the positive influence.

[@killapollo4853]

Destiny is an adult and Aba's not his father 😂 what made you think this one voice of reason was going to fix whatever another grown man had issues with? You can fix a lot of character flaws, but selfishness is one of the hardest ones to fix.

[@FangsOfKomodo]

the man is 40. its hard to change a pattern that he's probably done for 20 odd years. in the end, he's selfish. always has been. and clearly, takes advantage of vulnerable girls, or girls chasing clout. he's not a good dude, no matter how you agree with him politically.

[@jameskeene9317]

@@FangsOfKomodo you act like that’s some kind of definitive answer. Anyone can change anything. It just take the right circumstances. If being selfish is impossible to change then why would we expect drug addicts to go clean? In all reality you could make a drug addict give up selfishness over drugs any day of the week. The catalyst in all of this is the right circumstances. Destinys orbit was full of really weird and crazy people (men and women included), but aba was a constant of change and normality that he needs around him and that’s all that mattered. I guarantee you if this wouldn’t have happened and aba would’ve stuck for longer he would’ve been different over time. You can disagree all you want but watching the talks after lav and Mr girl between them two was a far better agreed upon and better form discussion than other orbiters telling him the exact same things. And I believe that destiny took a lot of what aba said to heart because aba practices what he preaches and that’s not what nearly all of destinys orbit could say about themselves.

[@yautjacetanu]

Destiny did actually start changing since taking his meds. But it's too little too late

[@john.jai.sullivan]

This the same guy that was running on with Norman Finkelstein. 😂

[@joetheschmoe1066]

"My sympathy is for when a tragedy happens, not the inevitable." Thats fax! And also kind of a bar ngl.

[@Jeffaniel]

On god that was crazy true

[@BoneTobewild-r7w]

Aba has no sympathy for Thanos

[@renren225]

Destiny has no understanding of risk to reward ratio.

[@sufi8903]

He doesn't care...

[@napoleondynamite6993]

true

[@publiusventidiusbassus1232]

Narcissist's don't have morals, even less so when morals get in between their fun.

[@richardparker2555]

I remember when his divorce happen he refused to admit it that the poly life style and ingoring the red flags from Mel destoyed the marriage. Instead he made video after video trying to blame everyone and everything else, yet the whole time he didn't look sad about the divorce. My favorite moment was when Brett Cooper made a video on it and he dismissed her because she was in her early 20s saying she was to young to understand real relationships. Yet he first hooked up with mel when she was 19. Hypocrite

[@davemccage7918]

Destiny isn’t attracted to mentally disabled girls, it’s simply a lack of opportunities. You’d have to be mentally ill to have sex with a guy that looks destiny.

[@wolfvonversweber1109]

"Red flags from Mel"? XD Dude managed to cheat in an open relationship, while distributing tapes like candy unconsentually. Steven IS the red flag.

[@iamyou3080]

@@wolfvonversweber1109Yup

[@Mel_dy-t1b]

not defending Destiny but Brett Cooper is a nazi; I don't think her opinion really matters

[@tgdelta2455]

Weird lie but okay, I'm a big Mel fan as much as I am of Destiny, so I've seen her talk about it on streams and debates. He's stated many times he's put his work above the marriage every time. They both wanted an open relationship from the start, not just Destiny. Why do you think Mel was happy to leave her "monogamous" relationship with her ex so quickly? she hates it. Destiny truly didn't care as much about the divorce as his haters think he does. His mentality of "if you want to leave a rich lifestyle for a poor one is no loss for me" has been valid throughout the relationship. They lasted 3 years which is as long as any normal relationship. Destiny was okay with having no relationship at all at the start of the relationship, this was during the Destiny cheating on Mel storyline. They got married to have less complicated VISAs, which turned out to still be as complicated.

[@skittlemenow]

The second Destiny shared those videos with anyone he leaked them to the public. That e-girl is a member of the public. It doesn't matter how this all became public he had already leaked those videos to a member of the public a nineteen year old e-girl.

[@thecrimsoncrasher2344]

This is why I'm still subscribed because you have to have real integrity to make this kind of video about your friends. On top of that you guys have even defended your enemies who honestly don't deserve it so mad respect to y'all for your integrity and always keeping the same energy.

[@TheFergo911]

Anyone who knows at least a good amount about destiny knew Aba isn't cut from the same cloth as Destiny. There is very few things the two of them could relate to. So I personally did not see them working on colabs for too long, the same goes for fresh&fit and a whole slew of creators.

[@islabee94]

It's so rare and so special and so valuable. This is how I always try to operate, aligned with my values so I admire this quality so much. Preach is the same. They're both real, genuinely decent people with integrity.

[@theclipper795]

Dude just throwing out because it’s something that destiny physically did … this guy a joke called this reprehensible but dint say that when destiny said he was glad that fire fighter got took out at a trump rally and laughed and ranted about it he dint have a problem with destiny doing that knowing that his family and friends could possibly hear what he said …. This guy ain’t no better then these fake I’m so virtuous influencers

[@TheFergo911]

@ yeah I am in agreement about that take from Aba. I didn't agree with Aba at all for not understanding how wired and off putting someone can be if right after their head gets blown off at a rally is made fun of in a very wired and dark manner. I mean Aba seemed to be cool with it. I personally am exhausted from the infinite fesh&fit reactions they do. I mean leave the topic and move on already.

[@avivastudios2311]

It's wonderful to see. Aba is the most respectable man on KZbin.

[@hilarycoyote]

18:50 Meanwhile, Preach living his best life! 😂

[@demgphix]

Bro has a great time, with no drama 🫡

[@jimbeau8882]

Preach proving he's the smart one by never associating with Steven

[@quinesyearichardson4945]

I knew it was something off when destiny debated Aba about the Drake situation. And destiny was defending Drake’s actions with young females.

[@elproject3343]

Truth brother. This is what a real friend is, tell what it is.

[@Buddy330]

Is anyone really surprised that Destiny is a creep??

[@alexandersmith1264]

It's more than being a creep, crimes have been committed, and if he recorded sexual activities without the other persons consent then he is a rapist

[@DahlinSilesile-rc4lk]

@@alexandersmith1264 you re not a rapist for secretly recording someone you're having sex with unknowingly fuck you're a pos but dang stop devaluing words

[@meyeneetuks4680]

@@alexandersmith1264i dont think u know what a rapist is

[@DerpyDerp254]

This comes to a surprise to nobody, Destiny has legit ALWAYS been unhinged.

[@bpo4736]

How he was describing Destiny, is how I felt when I was in the military. I joined for benefits+travel, not to babysit a bunch of grown ass adult. People get kicked out easily for doing stupid shit.

[@JeromeProductions]

Damn!

[@firefly9838]

You joined the military for benefits? Damn thats rough homie😂

[@ExecutionStyleInc]

You picked the shittiest reasons to join the military holy crap 😂😂😂

[@bpo4736]

@@firefly9838 how so? I didn’t have any student debt, got my masters. I was able to travel around the world.

[@bpo4736]

@@ExecutionStyleInc shittiest reason? Lol. It’s pretty much a business transaction. Am I suppose to fight for the country? The typical response? 😂.

[@JoonieJuice]

Wow Aba, this is a very mature response to all of this.

[@MrsSoapAndClay]

Perfectly said, no notes. Thanks for being a real one, Aba. Hope you had a good trip.

[@Allboys45]

As someone who watched Destiny on and off since 2017-2018 ish and found you and Preach through his streams, I completely agree with everything you said. He has serious issues he needs to work out within his personal life. The fact that he's memeing and making jokes throughout this is just incredibly disappointing and shows he has no remorse or desire to change his toxic ways in how he treats the women he engages in sexual relationships with. I hope the women he hurt and exploited get their justice and he, finally, is held accountable for his past actions.

[@Allboys45]

To the people defending him or downplaying his actions: how many former "orbiters" and associates is it going to take before you finally believe everything they've been telling you for years about Destiny? He's a selfish, toxic, and borderline psychopathic person that does not deserve your benefit of the doubt.

[@bruhskifrfrnocapbussinmate]

@@Allboys45 goonclown footsoldiers will deflect and bait from the 26 pieces of revenge goorn that destiny sent to women (which leaked on KF cause destiny shared them using public google drive links) and now 5 women have came forward stating he has shared recordings of them non-consensually (pxie, chaiery, stasia, itsmalma and melina)

[@missp498]

I would never normally say this but the women are dumb. They can't just say they are total victims. You should know to keep a way from some behaviours.

[@dudeorduuude5211]

He is a loser and always will be. His followers respect his debating skills. But I don't think Destiny believes in anything, but just likes the manipulating and dominating game over his debate opponents.

[@hippaul]

@@Allboys45It's gross how they all excuse it how he's totally changed and adderall magically cured his perversions and sex pest behavior. This mf is the DrDisrespect of the left in so many ways.

[@roylee8114]

The fact that he said if he goes down he gonna take 20 other people down with him means that there's a network of these deviants. Mourn your friendship and move on.

[@chrisgastelum3261]

They move in flocks

[@publiusventidiusbassus1232]

If he had any values or morals he'd do it out of sheer principle. Funny how the guy that tries to pass off all his nonsense arguments as morally justified, never justifies his actions based on morals but on convenience, spite or opportunity.