Did Rihanna Ghost Drake And The Psychology Behind Ghosting! | Asking For a Friend | Blavity

Elisabeth talks about Drake and Rihanna and lets us know that ghosting isn't a normal occurrence and discusses the trauma it can cause to people within the dating community!
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#Ghosting #Advice #AskingForAFriend

[@mobellescorner9702]

No she is telling the truth. Men never go away. That’s why I wouldn’t brag that a man came back, they never leave! And that goes for the wife, bm, girlfriend or mistress he will come back as long as he’s allowed to.

[@Blavity]

A WORD.

[@mobellescorner9702]

@@williamwade4980 I’ve been living 36 years, from my experience, it’s the truth! They will always pop back in if they can.

[@mobellescorner9702]

@@williamwade4980 I honestly don’t know what my man and his ex conversations are but he may still show interest behind my back. Just because he try’s to come back into their life does not mean he leaves his current relationship. You understand? That’s why I said it doesn’t matter if you’re the wife, bm, gf or side chick if you allow him into your life he’ll still be there. I’m speaking of each title as belonging to the same man. It does not mean he will end his other relationship but he’ll still try to talk to you…Look, I had my first love (when I was 15) sit up in church next to his fiancé and stare at me the whole time in front of her (when I was 30+). Is he about to leave his fiancé. I hope the fuck not but if I was remotely interested in him would he mess around with me on the side? Sure. That’s all I’m saying if that makes sense 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@salahsaleem518]

So all the bullshit women say about i can't have a family or raise a child because i can't depend on a man because he will leave is not true thank you

[@misguidedpearls7456]

Period

[@chunk556]

Bruh Drake said it out of his own lips, "she could have a Grammy, I'll still treat her like a nominee" he knew exactly what he did to get ghosted.

[@Blavity]

🧐

[@staceyambergelderbloem3403]

I like this woman so much, and she reads men everywhere without even trying to hurt them its just the honest truth that hurts but that trigger is just a sign to know what needs healing.

[@sincere91005]

Ghosting is a character flaw due to poor communication skills. Not personal.

[@soltaniism]

True

[@currentflow76]

I'm dealing with a woman that acts like a man ,communication skills suck just a matter of time befor the ghost appears

[@italyparis6975]

Agreed

[@sincere91005]

Being ghosted hurts the egotistical person, not the person that understands that nobody owes you anything. Respect other people's decisions, whether beneficial to you or not. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@stacyr4768]

It leaves you confused as to what happened. It also gives you trust issues because it’s a reminder of how unpredictable people can be .

[@smarti1144]

@@stacyr4768 yes. Instead of ghosting, at least tell them you are no longer interested in clear no uncertain terms. Why can't everyone give that?

[@stacyr4768]

@@smarti1144 It’s a cowards way out

[@mammajamma4397]

THIS!!

[@stacyr4768]

Heard ghosting is a form of control as well

[@catalinaparlay]

I’m commenting again to say this episode was designed specifically for me. You hit everything on the head. Abandonment issues definitely arises from being ghosted. It’s not a good feeling.

[@DrCareyYazeedTV]

Wait…Season 1 is over?! Damn, damn, damn😫 Will definitely be on the lookout for Season 2. Enjoyed every episode🌻

[@Blavity]

Glad you enjoyed!

[@heyheykaykay1]

@@Blavity will Elizabeth Oversen be coming back? We love her!

[@catalinaparlay]

I just discovered your new pen name Elisabeth and I’m sooo happy!! I really needed this episode precisely. I was just ghosted on by a guy 13 years old than me. I’m in my mid 20s. He was love bombing all in 3 days and went ghost on me. We never had sex thank god but I was going crazy for a week wondering why he ghosted me. I cried for a week straight. But this episode made me realized it was HIM, not me.

[@seanwhite6952]

Three days??!??? Gotdamn girl lol

[@submissiveproviderstboth9485]

3 days , Umm that was YOU TOO! YOU NEED THERAPY❤

[@niziaharrison1686]

I’m so glad that she’s changed she’s not doing those things she used to do back in the day and I really like this new person

[@Salutations26]

She evolved. We all should.

[@gunleejp]

I do believe Elisabeth is very intelligent I would love to get the chance to have a sophisticated discussion with her ☺️

[@LeoStellium113]

She has such good game.

[@lapx1]

Nothing good about it. It's deception and dishonesty.

[@kourtneymcmillan7896]

i would love for them to bring this podcast back

[@heyitssheaxo]

Yeah I was ghosted months ago and it hurts! Especially since we were hitting it off pretty hard. Just to disappear and ignore me like nothing!

[@sincere91005]

I was good while it lasted.

[@ChanelandWine]

Roster date

[@catalinaparlay]

Yessss this happened to me two weeks ago and it really triggered me. I needed this episode and your comment really brought it home for me. We got this!! It was them not us.

[@churchroadrecordsreviewsan231]

That happens when you go out of your league..dude was probably trying to fuck..I bet you got dudes In your dm that would do anything for the time of day 😂

[@imo.124]

You have to not get attached to people. I have learned that people come and go and that's ok. Be at peace they left for a reason and it has nothing to do with you.

[@offlier]

Been ghosting since 1988.

[@imo.124]

Lol i don't why this is funny

[@FatimaEvonn]

Love this series!!!

[@goddesssavannah258]

"IS it weird, or have we had enough??" I live

[@NotesofJaz]

Period

[@adoreyourlife2803]

When y’all coming back ?! This was on point

[@beebee01]

Last episode?!? This is such good content!

[@Vanessa-ex5cb]

what a beautiful, smart, wise woman, very experienced!!

[@katrynahmcpherson125]

Wear that name like a badge of honor these girls will never understand you are legendary

[@genesistaveras6086]

When is season 2 coming? We need more content!

[@NotesofJaz]

“I’m looking at the eyelashes!” too sis

[@miaa7097]

I need a friend like this woman lol

[@staceyambergelderbloem3403]

started off being deeper than i expected, like that

[@sparkmama157]

I have been ghosted and I just had a "ahah" moment when she said that we might deserve it karmically. I realized I ghosted someone before. I had completely forgot about that. It was in my 20's. I just didn't want him anymore. fast forward to almost 10 years, this guy I really liked left me and changed his number and deleted all his social media. The pain was excruciating. I guess what goes around comes around. I a rebuilding after the break-up. nobody amongst our common friends know where he is.

[@KahleiaELoria]

WOW SHE IS SOOOOOOO BEAUTIFUL OK LET ME LISTEN

[@asktheuniverse231]

Love her Bad❣️❣️

[@vickikendricks1605]

I love you and I'm proud of you ☺️

[@lizzgrey1965]

Is this episode before or after her and drakes date???

[@zsazsaflowers]

When will we get a new episode?

[@destinymena]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@deedeelove93forevermore85]

She was just using him to make Chris brown jealous because she loved Chris brown he was one of her first loves smh she wanted to hurt him like he did her with other females plus being beat up smh that’s why him and drake was beefing back in 2011 and had that big brawl fight at some club over drake messing with Rihanna. It was all a game to her when it came to drake she never had feelings for him the way drake did for her. Her heart was with Chris . And a true Rihanna fan would know that lol you can even tell by her body language in videos with him that she was just having fun and also just tryna get back at Chris from what he did to her .

[@irisphillips9128]

Under the table. ☠️☠️☠️

[@jamesg.5494]

Hi girl

[@vedasthegreatest]

If this the last of the season then when’s it coming back?

[@jeanettesdaughter]

Yup. If you put that thing on him, he be back! Just saying. But if you don’t want to deal with the man anymore what are you supposed to do🤷🏽‍♀️

[@misguidedpearls7456]

💙💙💙🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@taratoles5886]

Drake’s “Pipe Down”? Hmmmm is that talking about K.S.? Just curious to know.

[@royaljhonsons]

Dam I'm late to the show "subscribe"!

[@fabulousone492]

👏👏👏👏

[@samanthagreg7537]

So this is woman is not Karrine Steffens aka Supahead 😮…fooled me

[@HeLIEl]

I got ghosted cause I had a curve before the curve was popular i never had gotten a complaint from women before that

[@theoneandonlyK01]

@30:46 - @31:05 describes my ex.... ugh

[@juniorphilpotts7102]

superhead ❤️

[@biancamarchand399]

Elisabeth

[@janaymontgomery4260]

exactly...they always come back...lol

[@Godsgraceish]

Whose Elisabeth? Her name is Karrine Steffan

[@thebridge2477]

How can one person bear two names?

[@milkydaisy782]

It’s her real name

[@keeprisingtothetop708]

Thought you were Karrine Steffens and was about to click off! I would never support that board ever again.

[@legendary2553]

She is Karrine

[@linzinico]

who cares

[@marchie2]

Is that superheat?

[@Trini190]

Superhead correction!!!

[@marchie2]

Superheat should be her new name

[@irene8599]

@@Trini190 Superbread!!

[@crisdorcas4655]

Who does superhead be smashing

[@legendary2553]

She’s pregnant by chef kwame now

[@Mr.Witness]

Damn… i winder how the emptiness feels. When you look at a bunch of clowns ruining their lives because if your teachings. Then you make a failed podcast .

[@montaemo3]

What's her Instagram

[@brandonhaygood6824]

I feel like this is a hip hop creation