Did you know THIS is a form of gaslighting?

[@kuibeiguahua]

Nothing worse than a 1 on 1 time with my father

[@LittleLulubee]

They’re EVIL 😈😈😈

[@lunamoondrop]

it's creepy AF to see my dad switch between the two, real-time.

[@paran01d11]

Same

[@MarkAble8]

Yeah, putting on a show for the public is an act to garner attention. What narcissists are doing is they are ‘perception manipulating’ the minds of the people around them. And by devaluing you in private rooms and in the car, what they’re doing there is ‘isolating you’ from having a good time with other people. Every move a narcissist makes is about control - both control of you and the control of how others perceive them. Great vid Dani

[@IzabelaWaniek-i1x]

Those are the worst and most dangerous narcisists. Wolves in sheep’s clothing.

[@trying2survive602]

This is what kept me stuck for decades. Finally free!! I also realized tonight how all this affected me. I would be content when someone spoke negatively about someone who had been treating me poorly within the narcissist's family system. I was not only navigating his abuse but also the abuse of his entire immediate family. I see now how immature it was to gloat over someone else's downfall. I know now that it was part of me seeking external validation and to be seen. I am focusing on myself now, on my healing journey. Stay strong 💪🏻 ✨️ and sending blessings to you 🙏🏻 ❤️

[@killjoyredux8361]

Yeah that was her 100%. So so bizarre.

[@natscat4752]

This hits home yet again 💯 unfortunately. To the point that you cannot even equate the two versions of them as the same person in your head.

[@heaven-is-real]

split personality yes

[@davidm4566]

I believe this is a form of lovebombing. They once treated us like this, too. It's like they slowly turned the temperature up on us until it was scalding and then instantly turn it back to cool and refreshing for the other person. We might not even fully notice because the treatment was gradual, but we absolutely notice when they instantly go from treating us like garbage to treating them like gold.

[@lannybackes1053]

Omg! Spot on! The mask was always on outnin public or at church, around friends or family and as soon we were in the car on the way home, it was Jekyll and Hyde! Even our kids began to see it first hand and of course couldn't wrap their heads around it. Then in an attempt to console them for her harsh treatment of them, I'm left there trying to make excuses for her horrible behavior, trying to reassure them that their mom loved them when I wasn't sure she loved any of us. It was so freaking hard!! Divorce sucks. Splitting up a family sucks. It hurts. But I've learned that it doesn't hurt as bad as going on that roller coaster on a near daily basis.

[@trying2survive602]

Agreed 💯!! You are worth so much more than that. So glad you got out! All the best to you ✨️

[@lannybackes1053]

@trying2survive602 Thanks! Although I'm doing really well today, I still watch Danielle's videos for continual reinforcement and strength.

[@tnmantn8938]

My narcex used different voices and accents with different people outside the home😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫

[@GregMacDougall-m3n]

A special thank you from the bottom of my heart, you just gave me the wisdom-understanding to clear my mind from the confusion past Narcissist ruined my life with.

[@seameology]

Like when the nex spent a ton of money on Christmas presents for his family but didn't even get me one gift. Got it.

[@Arcturus549]

I have someone else trying to use false dichotomy manipulation on me. Not with any bad intention, it's just incredibly annoying.

[@janedoe5229]

Danielle, when you say, "This person", just change the word to my ex "Richard". He absolutely shined at church, and that was why I fell in love with him. We did not live together until we were married, because we were "good Christians". Once the knot (or rather noose) was tied, he treated me like crap at home. We were very active in a large church, and we were there doing something almost every day. I could not understand how he could be so loving and concerned at church, and then treat me like a worthless servant at home. I became very depressed. We would go to counseling together (at church) and he would shine, and I would sit there, sullen and afraid to speak my mind in front of him. CLEARLY *I* was "the problem". The advice they always gave us was that I needed to submit more, read the Bible more, come to church more. And everyone felt sorry for him for marrying such an unhappy wife. Now I am married to a good man, who was also a victim of narcissistic abuse. He totally understands what happened to me, because it happened to him too. He tells me he is so blessed to have such a good, loving, teammate in me. A bad husband brings out the worst in me, and a good husband brings out the best.

[@lannybackes1053]

Sorry you went through that and happy you found someone who is real, true, and loving towards you! My ex wife is absolutely amazing at wearing that same mask and it does make you question yourself, your sanity, your self worth, and you lose yourself. My ex would push me to the point of reactive abuse just so she could play the victim. It was sick and twisted!! Best wishes to you!!!

[@redroverrightover]

Many times when I'm finding myself drifting to excusing and looking for loopholes to make it work, all I need is to listen to Danielle's shorts. Pops me right back into place every time.

[@deb4610]

Thank you!! This has been my experience since childhood, starting with my parents and continuing into adult relationships. It is a serious mind f$*k.

[@jdf3434]

My narcissist told me after a disastrous social function, " I need to be relevant." She has gotten fewer and fewer invites through the years. She doesn't understand or care that her actions are inappropriate.

[@BeeElle-rt8qf]

Thank you

[@humanchee1]

Facts!

[@cory7730]

Exactly!!! I brought this up many times over 8 yrs on and off. She would tell me stories about who shew dated and what they did etc... she treated others better and she showed her family how i should be treated. But her 18 month old daughter (now 11) didn't follow suit. No children of my own that little girl was a big reason I kept coming back. But no more I'm done. ❤

[@palmamingozzi5736]

Yep

[@Truthteller1s]

I have seen you in every color. You look amazing in them all. Natural beauty.

[@NarcissistHex-nf9eq]

Very beautiful and straight to the point, pretty much summed up a communal narcissist, which is someone to definitely watch out for. Il vouch for her channel, and mine as well. { Im a self aware narcissist so I know my stuff, lol} .

[@alanyao]

I thought Jack Ma said something like this: you can/should date the government/officials, but do not marry them. This is probably the right attitude towards some narcissists. You can date them, but never marry them. Such that they will always be nice to you.

[@natscat4752]

Nah, avoid them like the plague.

[@alanyao]

​0:19 Have a look and think again? Can you really avoid them?

[@alanyao]

@@LittleLulubee If you have an opportunity to interview Elon Musk's ex-wife, bring my advice to the table. See if they will be shocked or not.

[@davidemm829]

Oh look it's the narc mother hitting on her son's girlfriend, common

[@PowerGurhl]

Yeah they are this awesome kind almost timid person at their hobby of choice …. Turn around come home and be a demon

[@d.h.fremont3027]

Just as?

[@Truthteller1s]

❤

[@cory7730]

Soooo pretty! God I want to meet you.

[@Maria-o8r4d]

wake again 300 o clock morning start Portugal 2022 im tired thanks but no help disgusting sexo around shame facebook instagram cant talk my family noise

[@theupgraded6558]

Sociopath

[@johnmaurer2035]

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