Ding! Level Up INFP + ESFJ Relationships 🎉✨

[@adutchdude]

Great timing I just got something going on with a esfj

[@GeekPsychology]

Fancy that synchronicity ^^

[@khadeejadja]

This video is great as usual. The country where I live now is an ESFJ federation country- multiracial, multireligion and each regions/states got different MBTI types. I believe that Fe as the hero function is the main factor in maintaining peace in the country with big diversity. Even expats like to stay here. A mature ESFJ, I can say so. To have mature ESFJ or any mature types in a relationship is a bless. And a mature xSFJ can be a good captain to a team.

[@GeekPsychology]

All types have their strengths and awesome aspects ^^ (especially when mature!)

[@idiotslife8508]

Bruh I'm an isfp and even I have problems with them although we have the highest compatibility of all the types. So a lot of factors play their role, not just mbti.

[@GeekPsychology]

That’s right!

[@hg3895]

I met who I highly expect was an ENFJ. He wouldn't tell me his age... turned out he was 20 years older than me. He also seemed fearful and scared to open up. Also very unsettled, unable to stay in a job but was a busybody. As an INFP I have learned if I dont feel safe or stable with someone, MBTI goes out of the window. This was still very hard to end and I could speak to him like I could with very few people.

[@AshleyChing-c3o]

Stability, tradition, physical comfort, do what you’ve done

[@julia.no.X]

Hey, thanks for posting, somehow it makes me understand myself better! If only I could be like that with my Fi, people pleasing just gets in the way too often...

[@m2pozad]

How would people pleasing actually exist in INFP, perhaps as an effort to fit in? Would timidity and desire to avoid confrontation look similar?

[@julia.no.X]

@m2pozad It's generally called being polite and if you knew me a bit more, you'd know I am anything but timid. What makes you such an expert on INFPs anyway? Perusing memes?

[@m2pozad]

@@julia.no.X No memes. Longing. The One That Got Away, but in fact could not possibly be, is INFP.

[@khadeejadja]

​@@julia.no.Xwow... He/She back again ???

[@julia.no.X]

@@khadeejadjayep

[@Miricakes]

I loved your healing analogy. Raiding in EQ2 as a healer (fury class) and even when grouping, the people were prioritized in my head. Key people was my first priority to keep up and then the "expendable" ones got Area/Group heals when there was time. I thought everyone did this, little did I know it was my INFP set up! :) I do seem to clash with ESFJs in my past. They don't like me. I probably disrupt their harmony and I don't show my Fe feelings off in an extroverted way. At least these days I know why they didn't like me. heh As for story time, obviously I totally agree with you. Why would they even come over if their kids were a bit ill and if they are your friends and you explained the situation in a nice way they would understand and respect it. These other personality types makes no sense. 😉🙂

[@GeekPsychology]

Thanks for commenting! I always played rogues… until I played a healer and was like “this… fits.”

[@periodic3]

lol I'm an INFP trying to get back with my ESFJ ex. The video captures a lot of conflicts we had. I have no idea how things will work out, but maybe it might, or maybe my ex will just refuse to get back together (again) because of her Si.

[@GeekPsychology]

Hoping for the best result - whatever that may be ^^

[@aura7153]

Can I ask how is the sex life with an ESFJ as for you an INFP😅 I guess it can be boring a little bit ?

[@jadidahmed8411]

@@aura7153 For me it has been great so far. We have amazing sex and she's very understanding, accommodating and also naughty, so that helps.

[@sornlooksorn5776]

Me n my ex. 😂 ThankU! I hv your content and appreciate ur work.👍🙏

[@GeekPsychology]

Thank you! I’m glad to hear that it made some sort of an impact on you.

[@nicoletteloveslearning]

“Grandma is an esfj, as all grandmas are - no their not” 😂

[@GeekPsychology]

😜

[@m2pozad]

Oh my! "Ne is like putting a cat and dog in a bag and shaking it up". Cringe overload! That should be worth about a year of therapy all on its own.

[@GeekPsychology]

You’ve never seen that Simpsons episode?