This man explains my rage, my bad temper, my moody and ominous presence until it brings me to tears. Not a single psychiatrist had done that ever before. Tim Fletcher is an eye opening reality check for me.
@aCarolinaGal7 ай бұрын
Yep. Much Love 🙏🏻💕
@livelife59476 жыл бұрын
You’ve got the best mental health videos I’ve ever seen. I’m binge watching all of them. Thank you
@Quinefan6 жыл бұрын
Live Life He's absolutely brilliant. Quite extraordinary. I absolutely believe what he says at the start of Complex Trauma 1 - that complex trauma is the missing piece that solves the mental health puzzle. I hope this will eventually mean revolutions in mental health care and the way people, especially children, are treated.
@KarenDUlrich3 жыл бұрын
Most important thought in this video: 16:25 to 17:06 "I have been around a lot of people who have been diagnosed with Dissociative Identity Disorder and there is a lot of stigma around it. If you know someone with DID, they have been made fun of and talked about as if they are totally looney, crazy, etc. What I want you to understand is this. It comes out of a brain trying to survive and to protect a child from very severe trauma. The only option available is a fracture of the personality."
@nishasankaran4 жыл бұрын
Takes a special kind of person to discuss all these topics with such compassion, all the while being informative. Thank you💖🙏
@bibbidi_bobbidi_bacons7 ай бұрын
Takes money.
@carollund-hopkins34866 жыл бұрын
Your lecture series' are PHENOMENAL ! so clear! I AM so grateful for this wisdom you share. as this area of mental/emotional health is very challenging to find support/counseling that truly understands CPTSD. to listen and recognize my own experience of dissociation is a milestone in my recovery.
@carolinetupling708910 ай бұрын
I keep adding "clips" of your various lectures to FB. Very impt info for ADDICTS that I haven't heard before (40 yrs nothing!) So...ty. I wish I could join your 9.99 month site, but I can't at this time,.just got resober!! Ty so much
@dianelamorticella60533 жыл бұрын
Tim Fletcher, THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH!!! I keep watching and listening to you and I feel so much better now!!! you have helped me shed a lot of weight!!!! I am sending you lots of love and prayers for protection in this crazy world, I hope you are safe and well!!!!
@pinargeneci253710 ай бұрын
I can feel the passion he has for making a difference for humanity in his voice. Thank you thank you thank you for all you are doing for humanity you beautiful soul. 🙏 ❤😊
@kimlec35923 жыл бұрын
This guy speaks truth.
@lumisis19439 ай бұрын
Fuck. I cried first time in 40 years. THANK YOU..
@kimlec35923 жыл бұрын
He says brain, but more accurately it's mind. Your mind is good at cutting off from painful feelings if the pain is bad enough.
@kaitlincox97147 ай бұрын
Numbing emotions because I'm punished if I show anything but happiness. Fun time. My parents taught me that I only stop getting hit once I can take the hits quietly. No crying. No moving. I can't explain what happens but I can go somewhere else. I feel like I'm not even real. my younger brother and I have wondered if we have D.i.d.
@bingoandtoto2 ай бұрын
yes, it is related to inner critic, as the vicious superego who has keep telling us " SHUT UP" inside of us. To be more specific, SHUT UP, EXCEPT WEHN I ALLOW YOU TO BE. totally slave who has been tortured to be tamed to fulfill others needs` and emotions, not mine.
@anneliebyrne25806 жыл бұрын
Again - thank you so much... the fact that you've been through process with others, and that it helped means a lot 🙏🏼 and.... Please - don't cut out The prayer... 😉❤️
@michellebogenschutz95443 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad I found you. You're a great support for my therapy. Reading material is hard for me. ✌️
@FirstnameLastname-cx6go3 жыл бұрын
He knows my life story.
@everhopeful39576 жыл бұрын
I've watched dozens of videos and this almost describes my ex partner to a T, he disconects by zero emotions self medicating with drugs and sex addiction pathological lying , this horrible illness has torn us apart robbed us of a happy future together , he acted out a fantasy of a happy future for us at the same time finding ways to be disconnected before and all the time we were together , he's left hating me for finding out the awful truths also I horribly spurt out my feelings and me hating him for what he's done to me unfortunalty endless promises to get help repeated relapses back to self medicating and sex addition I've now walked away from one of the characters I desperately loved his switching was to much .
@kimlec35923 жыл бұрын
Complex Trauma Coping Styles. Exactly.
@MsGabiele7 ай бұрын
Great contribution ❤
@davidnorman21345 жыл бұрын
My mother nearly murdered me when I was 8 years old and so much of this lecture really explains so much for me
@manishpandey20835 жыл бұрын
My family, especially father kept trying to kill me until I was 30, and now I see how close I had been to death all my life... I am sometimes amazed at how I survived all that. But thats the thing, as Tim Says - "We survived because the fire inside us, was greater than the fire outside us"..... My best wishes for you. Love.
@leavefollow16983 жыл бұрын
@@manishpandey2083 I would love to hear your story
@2021noname2 ай бұрын
You didn’t deserve that. I’m sorry that happened to you
@nunyabizness38902 жыл бұрын
This is very good, but he over-generalizes at 20:00, with the everyday part (also known as "apparently normal part" or ANP). Usually, no, the ANP is not passive. Usually, the ANP is quite responsible, capable, and positive. Also, to say that each part holds a specific emotion -- e.g., fear, anger, etc. -- is not quite true of all systems. For example, some parts in some systems carry out a particular ROLE or hold specific MEMORIES. Some are trauma holders, some are persecutory parts, some are gatekeepers. No two systems are alike.
@user-wi3yx3gy2o2 жыл бұрын
I had the same thought. “Hosts” or “ANPs”are sometimes a lot more high functioning than you might expect, more than a lot of other people with substance abuse disorder, BPD, or even ordinary CPSD sometimes. One person was a Department of Justice supervisor lawyer (before therapy) and one ran a think tank/NGO. On the other extreme, you have people who are in really bad shape, and totally out of control.
@teemadarif82436 ай бұрын
Thank you Tim . You just fully confirmed everything I knew to be true🙏🏽
@dianacrow75093 жыл бұрын
Excuse me...my 'freeze' became a locking of my lungs over time. Coping skills have evolved; have not experienced a panic attack, (w/out medication) in almost nine years. 10 hours after hypos each Geodon & Ativan required to stabilize lungs & heart. I was 'out', no clue. DBT helps, useful...coping skills. Tool box! Prayers... ~♡~
@Klonzo332 жыл бұрын
These are so hard to hear because they're so accurate. God help us all
@Paradigm-change7 ай бұрын
I've been listening to your series on shame lately and it's excellent, for me at least. However, I've been finding it's setting off my DID and I've been getting some painful issues from that-physically. I get switching headaches I guess is what it is. I'm on topamax because they get to be migraines so now I don't get the migraine but everything else. Its rough. I'm trying to focus on lowering the stress inside as I listen to the video and if I fee like its too much, stop it. I also started meditating more regularly. Because I normally just take valium for the stress. idk there is no easy way. I guess we just do what we can.🤷♀but the lectures are really fantastic.
@aCarolinaGal7 ай бұрын
They truly are a God send. I've been on my healing journey for only a short time (less than 2 years, maybe even less than one ... time sometimes slips for me), and I've realized that the baby steps sometimes go unnoticed until something major clicks for me, then I'm able to gauge how much positive change(s) I've actually experienced. It's definitely a process (Tim himself says 2-10 years), but I'm finally able to FEEL again. Baby steps ... literally, as we are learning to re-parent ourselves (Tim's re-parenting series in his playlists is awesome too!). Be kind (and compassionate) to your (inner child) self and know that YOU ARE WORTH IT. Much Love 🙏🏻💕
@Paradigm-change7 ай бұрын
@@aCarolinaGal 💜thank you
@honestandfair157210 ай бұрын
Thank you
@rachelorr94874 ай бұрын
I really need help with this what do I do.
@kyliereef76644 жыл бұрын
Great video. Taught me something Thankyou.
@jkthewonderguy5 жыл бұрын
The movie split is based on a real person named Billy Milligan who lived in Athens Ohio, home of Ohio University, where I went to school. The story of Milligan was much more interesting than the fictionalized version of his life. Check it out
@brandywilleford91572 ай бұрын
Split was a fictional move..100% D.I.D is not like that lol,whew thank God
@yourenough35 жыл бұрын
Thank you! 🤗❤
@catsaresocute6503 жыл бұрын
As to ADHD I understand the theisis and surface level seems resonable but assuming Warrens reserch on fathers is rights it's more of a thing of not being often enogh sit down and talked to, so it's more of a response to inaqeuquatly long and varried play/talking, what means it's more of a lack of brain formation. If on the other hand it would be dissociative, then I would He rediculesly happy, for one that showes that maybe every other point isn't real and fathers aren't necessery
@joeniati79036 ай бұрын
can this help with derealization?
@Granny-o4w Жыл бұрын
❤
@dianaboughner79775 жыл бұрын
💕💕thank you.
@JasonWilliams-ro8nm3 жыл бұрын
But if counseling is selected as a treatment option, make certain that the doctor isn’t part of the cult as they are interested in programming the alters to further serve the council
@kevinbissinger3 жыл бұрын
that sounds more like schizophrenia than DID
@antevenio83036 жыл бұрын
great info thanks (but this monotonous shouting voice- its tiresome (why shout?))
@Crazydoglady.6 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏❤
@davidnorman21343 жыл бұрын
Sounds exactly like my life
@greta-i4q5 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@adrianacerna54316 жыл бұрын
I love the videos I love the prayers in the end but I would say in Jesus name.
@zubileegluckgluck3 жыл бұрын
I hate the way religious people force their religious beliefs and rituals on traumatized people, arrogantly believing they're being helpful. Not all of us believe that talking to our eyelids has magical powers, and it's wrong to inject that into a mental health presentation.
@OnlyJesusMatters83 Жыл бұрын
Demonic spirits are 100% the cause of these disorders and in order to be free it takes time with Jesus Christ. Mark 16 says that if we believe we WILL cast out demons. This is the truth and I know it sounds insane but it is true.
@aCarolinaGal7 ай бұрын
I thought that's why his talks are separated into "part 1" and "part 2", so those who don't want "preaching" (Tim is a preacher, after all) can bail and others can stay 🤔🤷🏻♀️ I'm uncomfortable specifically with the praying at the end, but I know that's a me thing, not a Tim thing. The wisdom Tim shares for free is unmatched imho, and I've learned to take what resonates with me (and am grateful to the depths of my soul for it 💕) and leave the rest. Oddly, I've also noticed that much of what didn't resonate previously, has made perfect sense when I return to it later. "When the student is ready ..."? Much Love 💕
@fairygurl92699 ай бұрын
☮️
@ronricherson66852 ай бұрын
As someone with DID, I have to mention that your YELLING a message which (I assume) is intended to help has the opposite effect. I couldn't watch it, sorry.
@Jupperna3 жыл бұрын
His voice made me sooo nervous. I can hear the strain in it, he is talking so loud despite wearing a microphone... Otherwise, very good lecture, thank you
@honestandfair157210 ай бұрын
It’s called Passion
@honestandfair157210 ай бұрын
Social security disability for those who cannot handle life ❤ Go to gym better than a pill
@НаталияГорохова-з6у9 ай бұрын
A very good voice and lecture
@tonyaferguson48387 ай бұрын
I think it’s a sound production issue.
@dirtybomb327 ай бұрын
@@honestandfair1572I agree he’s passionate but his audio needs some mastering and most likely he needs a professional to help him with a setup so his audio will be crispy like your favorite artist’s songs
@felixoupopote3 жыл бұрын
This guy's YELLING is absolutely TRIGGERING ME! Dude. You have a lot to say, bit you're making me grind my teeth.
@bethocdunwitty66415 жыл бұрын
My son has absolutely no trauma whatsoever. He inherited ADHD from me and his dad.