DO ALL SURVIVORS THINK THE SAME | Reaction

[@liloudubois7849]

I used to think suicide was selfish until I went through having suicidal thoughts. I was living my life and hanging on for other people, because they wanted me to. The first thing people say when you open up is “think about your family and friends.” and you start to think... well what about me? What’s the purpose of living if i’m not living for myself?

[@musicexplosionx4575]

Lilou Dubois That’s exactly how I feel about it. Having suicidal thoughts and being told that it’s being faked or that it’s just something to get over quickly. That’s part of the reason I don’t open up often.

[@jadacarrington6008]

100 percent!!!!

[@noors7754]

i totally understand u. this is me. sometimes i feel like there is literally no reason for me to carry on w life, when i also feel like i’m useless to everyone at the same time. but it also causes me pain to think about the agony i would make my family feel. not many friends, but family. but i also don’t see another option, as i don’t want to live for others for the rest of my life 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@jasminevalencia9106]

Lilou Dubois That’s what I thought

[@Gford912]

True, and it’s hard to think in the mindset “think about your friends and family” when you think their lives would be better or indifferent if you weren’t around :/

[@paige4195]

My sister committed suicide 4 months ago in July at the age of 23, 3 days after my 21st birthday. I will never understand why she killed herself, but I guess she thought suicide was the only way out for her. My mum tried her hardest to get her help but she would constantly turn down the help because she thought she could ‘do it herself’, she was in a physically abusive relationship that she tried so hard to get out of, she become very isolated & alone. Although they end their pain they pass it on to their loved ones. I miss my sister terribly & will never get that image of her out of my head when I found her. If you are struggling, please seek help, talk to someone. Don’t suffer in silence.

[@Itskimwalkerr]

Paige I’m so sorry🥺🙏🏽keep your head up

[@tiffanyrena]

I’m sooooo sorry for your loss. You have my deepest sympathy 😢

[@chanellopezzzz]

Paige I’m so sorry for your loss. She’s looking over you all the time.💖💖

[@xoox6492]

A family member of mine killed themself in July too. Shit sucks, it's weird to know someone is going through the same thing as you. Your statement about passing their pain to their loved ones is so true. Somedays they're all you can think about. I'm sorry for your loss.

[@jaybetryin_7434]

If you really cared about her and noticed that you should’ve helped but you didn’t so don’t tell us the story of how you watched all this unfold

[@danielnehemiah6067]

People need to start realizing suicide isn’t something that’s selfish. It’s a FATAL SYMPTOM of DEPRESSION. a mental illness. People cannot control on a whim whether they develop suicidal tendencies when they are depressed. To say they’re being selfish is terrible in my opinion

[@NovaLena22]

I don't understand this mindset about suicide being selfish. I get that maybe your friends and family will be upset, but are you supposed to live your life for other people? Are your friends and family making big choices in their life with you in mind? Are they ignoring your pain? When was the last time a friend or a family member consulted you about a major life decision they were making for themselves? Everyone needs to own their own life and their own space. If someone is so deep in the well of misery and pain that death seems like the only option, it's not fair that they be judged for making a decision that YOU didn't want or one that YOU could not understand. THAT is selfish!

[@blehheh3096]

I understand what you are saying but if suicidal people actually TALKED about it and got help REAL help, it would help not fully but it would, and you are taking YOUR pain away but what about everybody else pain? what about the trauma they will have to deal with, the feeling of not being enough, going into depression, can have chances of getting a sort of PTSD, the dawn comes after darkness, there will be a better place if you TRY, and people say they try but they don't, they don't listen to others concern and then get angry when they stop asking, that is selfish, yes others are too, but you have to think about everything (also most times when families do big decisions they think about the future) (I'm still iffy on this subject but please correct me if i have any misinformation!)

[@NovaLena22]

@@blehheh3096 I can't correct you more than I already have with my first comment. Firstly because you are not only judging the people who commit suicide, but you are also trivializing their pain by insinuating that all they need is "help". Most people who commit suicide have tried desperately to reach out to the people around them long before they finally give up. You also seem to be more concerned about the pain that the family and friends will feel than you are with the pain that the suicidal person has been living with for who knows how long. People who commit suicide feel alone, lost, and unloved. That is just as traumatic, if not more, than the grief that will be left behind. Grief and loss are emotions that we will all suffer through eventually. But the hell of living everyday without hope and wanting your life to end is unimaginable. And that kind of agony is as real and as deep as any physical pain.

[@RykerDotJPG]

@@NovaLena22 thank you :'c

[@Gaming4545-x8p]

@@NovaLena22 most people that attempted suicide (me included) have the will to do so because they are alone with themselves mentally and emotionally. So I disagree, I think all you do need is ‘help’ because you can’t solve mental illness alone. Thinking ‘help’ is useless when you have searched for it usually involves going about it the wrong way. There’s always a way.

[@NovaLena22]

@@Gaming4545-x8p I think you misread my comment. I didn't say or imply that they didn't need help. I was pushing back against people who were trivializing the pain and agony of those who were suicidal with this flippant statement of 'well, why don't they just get some help??". People who who make glib remarks like that are not people who truly understand people in emotional or mental crisis.

[@honeymoonavenue5488]

it’s not selfish AT ALL, you can only understand it til you go through it.

[@christalony5711]

Right. And ion think any of them wanted to die. I think they wanted to stop the pain and that was the only easy way they knew how.

[@honeymoonavenue5488]

Christal Onyekwere yesss, also they thought it was better for their families, ppl need to shut up bc they haven’t gone through it so yeah

[@-Idontwannadie]

It’s only selfish if the family of victims loved them.

[@blehheh3096]

and only people who have lost people to suicide realize how selfish it is...

[@firesoftheasylum7890]

I've lost family and friends to suicide and yes, it hurts so fucking much. But, it's also agony being on the other side, hoping and wanting to die everyday. When you've been in that situation, you'll realize it's NOT selfish. Wanting someone to live, ignoring their suffering, trivializing what they're dealing with, just because you don't want to feel pain... that's selfish.

[@MariAnimates]

People always say it's selfish until they go through it

[@jazia6750]

"think about your family and friends" but what about me? how long will I have to live for other people when they are the reason I feel the pain I do, don't open up and go through everything alone because I think about them? suicide is the least selfish thing to do.

[@-Idontwannadie]

Autumn nicole hang in there a lil longer.

[@realitycheck1504]

αєѕтнєтιс̶ ιѕ ηιс̶є ThAtS easier said than done

[@Aloysius_OHare]

The first part of the clip where kids and people ‘romanticized’ and think it’s a ‘trend’ is honestly true and it’s disgusting they think that way. It should be stopped and shown that it’s a bad behavior. Sadly there’s no one to stop them from thinking that it is acceptable other than their parents but god knows they have little to no clue about it. I’ve seen many girls who claim to be depressed but they portray it as a trend, it really made me mad.

[@ienjoybreathing]

Why is her hair always on Fleek?! It’s sooo pretty!

[@vibez.no.cartel]

Not always she wears her natural hair out some times.

[@augustmoments]

yay you saw my request! thank you for reacting to this video. i still strongly recommend that you react to "do all disabled people think the same". its a lot more emotional and has a lot of good questions in it.

[@incubus8610]

I wish we could hear the sides of those who’ve committed suicide or were murdered or die before it could get better. Waiting can be such a painful and traumatic experience and not everyone has the chance to wait the whole ride. I feel many don’t think it getting better is worth the trauma for their specific situation. I’ve contemplated suicide a lot as a teenager which wasn’t too long ago, 3 or 4 years ago. The only reason I’m here now isn’t because of my family or friends, it’s because I want to be alive for myself, I want to be able to find happiness for myself and try to help those who have been in a similar place learn to live and push through for themselves. One thing I’ve strongly held onto, as selfish as it might sound, is if I’m not living for myself and my happiness then there is no point in living for others so I can be miserable while they’re just happy that I’m alive but suffering. This might sound repetitive but living for myself is what keeps me going through the struggle and when it gets better I can proudly say, “I forged this path to happiness for myself and I will continue to do so because I am my top priority. “

[@03bonnieandclyde]

Honestly the whole “it gets better” thing is iffy because I don’t think that all pain just goes away I feel like you just learn how to disguise it and eventually as time passes you find a way to tuck it deep down inside, so it will always be there just not surfaced.

[@DustyJones1997BGCL]

This is a hard subject to battle not everybody will understand a survivor have what they go through at one point I had suicidal thoughts but never attempted because I don't think it's worth it there's more to life to enjoy sometimes life is bad with sometimes you a Gotta think positive of the future.

[@lilianavelez2080]

I don't think that killing yourself is being selfish, because you don't owe your life to anyone, so if you want to take it away, you're in your right. Now, if other people feel bad about it, it has nothing to do with you.

[@deandraowens7936]

What we really want is a happy life but it seems so unattainable that death is the only option.

[@greenjasper2672]

I have suffered from anxiety since I was 7. It started when I went into 3rd grade. (I was one year younger because I tested to skip 2nd grade) My teacher always yelled and didn't understand gifted children and how sensitive they can be. I am not going to bring opinion into it. But, she would not understand when I needed help, yell, and repeat what she would say in a way that made me feel stupid. It was much worse than it sounds I will never be able to explain properly. But it was so bad that I couldn't eat one bite of my oatmeal in the morning. My mom thought it was normal first week of school jitters. But of course it continued. Believe it or not I still have trouble eating oatmeal to this day. It might sound a bit dramatic but I felt like there was nothing I could do, nothing my parents could do. When my mom attempted to talk to the principal he just said "she is nervous because shes not the top dog this year". That's when my mom cut it off. She pulled me out of school and I started to do 3rd grade online. She found an amazing school that had a waiting list. It was a while but I got into the school. I also decided that I wanted to be with kids closer to my age. So I went into 2nd grade. I still struggle with anxiety but I have learned to control it better thought there are still triggers for me. I went through many other rough challenges before that and have continued to work through the struggles that have come to me in the present. Good luck to anyone no matter what is happening to you. Whether everything is going great and you dont have any problems at all, are struggling with what life has thrown at you or anything in between. Good luck💚

[@bigs0fti381]

I didn't think watching this would be that bad for me but once they started talking about suicidal thoughts I started crying. I'm in the 11th grade and have survived 3 suicide attempts, I tried twice in 9th grade and once last year. I was going through a lot and with me being a lesbian a lot was going through my head. My stepdad is homophobic so when I was forced to come out by my little brother on my 14th birthday, he said that me having a girlfriend was why I was failing my classes and that I should just kill myself. My mom was crying because she felt like I had been lying to her for most of my life(Which I had been) and I just felt terrible and angry because why was she crying? Am I not the one that was just outed in front of my whole family? My older brother had found out I was gay a year before and fully supported me, he was the only one that kept me going. I told my mom about my depression in 10th grade, we were coming home from the store and she was talking about my grades and how bad they were, I just broke down and started crying. My mom didn't understand why and kept telling me it would be alright and I would pass. This was when I tried to kill myself. She pulled over and just sat there crying, she tried to get me to talk but I couldn't. What was there to talk about? I wanted to die, to stop having to go through all the stress my family put me through and all the judgment and pressure I had on me for so long. I eventually told my mom all the things I had been thinking about and she said she'd help me through it all. That was all a year ago, I'm not my best self but I'm in a much better place now with the help of my mom, she accepts me for who I am and that's all I care about. I'm still with my girlfriend and we're planning on moving in together when we graduate. I have a small group of friends now and we talk about our problems together and comfort each other. I'm turning 16 in a few days and I'm happy to say I'm glad I failed.

[@itscesarbtch3451]

This video made me feel very strong feelings and made me think of the deep dark depression I had and it’s sad but I made it

[@summanmuhammadiqbal07]

I cried watching whole video... because I'm going through with it... I'm wanna die right now even... I'm super religious sooo my religion say if you commit suicide you never gonna go into heaven this is only reason I'm not dead.. Otherwise i have died year ago.. i hateeeee myself, my life.. I'm super religious as i said, and my family is sooo loving and great, they care about me soo much... i have no financial problems.. i have a great life but I'm not happy and i wanna die every day I think about dying... i pray for it. Even my mother noticed that she said you are not happy... because I'm sick all the time not feeling healthy but doctors said I'm sick because of stress... and in my culture we do arrange marriages so people aren't wanna marry me because I'm little bit fat.. I'm 5 feet and 52kg so I'm not that fat but people want models here.. so this made me extremely low confident and i have so many complexes... it's disgusting.. I never talk to a guy like in that way... so I'm not kinda person whose gonna find someone... I'm shy and not confident... it's my culture boys do same too they do arrange marriage. And top of that i don't even wanna marry and have kids i wanna my alone peaceful life.. but it's not possible..

[@PurpleMonster616]

The disabled one is good though! Pretty please 🥺 lol

[@Mrgonzalez10]

White girl with the blue dress cute 👀 I liked her outfit

[@boogaoogagooba]

bitch go away, it's not the time for this

[@breezybabe0019]

U with ur horny self...Thats the only thing that u could take from this video? 😟

[@maya_jones3411]

Keep dreaming boi

[@Mrgonzalez10]

Chill 😂 it’s not even that serious and I didn’t even watch the whole video, I just realized it’s about suicide it’s not even like that lol

[@Mrgonzalez10]

Maya Jones keep dreaming ? Nah I don’t have to dream you don’t know me👍🏼

[@Two_Wheel_Therapy]

Not really hard to understand. Let's assume a KZbinr gives into their fans and does 30 min video reactions and Dee's standard of 15 videos per day. 15 vids x 30 in length she'd be watching 450 minutes of content which comes out to 7.5 hours. So after watching an average 9 - 5 workers shift worth of content, then having to edit the aforementioned reaction videos is a lot. These are just some of the little things these kids who want to be KZbinrs don't take into account they just want to be famous. Remember regardless how "easy" something seems to become proficient in anything takes hard work, consistency, dedication and sacrifice.

[@yyshot3981]

I feel bad I thought this was like survivor the ppl on the show I ain’t know it was this type of survivor 😳

[@_LazyInk_]

???i don't get the it will get better because my emotions are at one state which is neutral i dont really feel happy at all i feel empty my emotions never shift to a postive state

[@josiesbaby551]

When the girl said it’s okay to not be okay that is a show

[@analawon15]

The k drama

[@tinaamariee832]

Please react to some Jo Koy stand up video. My favorite is rice is rice

[@SilentKnightReactions]

React to do all people with HIV Think the same

[@analawon15]

I tried to commit suicide around 7 years but I was young and stupid so I tried for a really stupid but now I'm 11 and I have never wanted to commit in my life sometimes I just want to say can I get a depression test because I feel like I am still young and I'm being dramatic about having depression and committing suicide or do I actually have depression.

[@Valeria-mg4ty]

You’re not being dramatic. I care about you. Please seek help❤️❤️❤️

[@mentallygone6555]

Please react to Explaining my Depression To My Mother!

[@damanidorsey7255]

she just posted this

[@godpop]

The chick in the cyan dress?, I swear I've seen her somewhere

[@shadane1436]

Who raised these people? They were shown no love

[@rapspubg]

Third

[@Cam-wk6ty]

I don’t understand how white people can have suicidal thoughts... there lives are so perfect. Unlike us black people who are constantly oppressed. I have never had suicidal thoughts but I understand how anyone else besides white people

[@Cam-wk6ty]

@@ONFRAUDS ur just a depressed white girl

[@Shookbanglol]

Just cause they’re white doesn’t mean they’re perfect lol, and those family’s that portray the perfect picture usually are LYING

[@ryanmatico2694]

??? how ignorant

[@keyceandreas9254]

So many people get murdered for no reason at all or die from diseases they ain't ask for, it gets hard to sympathize with people who have/attempted suicide sometimes.

[@saleenaespinosa7926]

educate yourself on mental health then.

[@tiffanyrena]

You have to take another angle putting yourself in their shoes somewhat or be thankful you’ve never had to experience anything that made you feel like killing yourself but empathy always helps.

[@damanidorsey7255]

nobody can survive mental disorders

[@Existinginthecontext]

Some things are better left unsaid.... starting with this comment

[@SShwty]

Keyce Andreas this comment is the definition of Yikes. Please educate yourself on mental illness and why people have committed/attempted suicide.

[@kentuckyfingerlicking6380]

I also think suicide is selfish