Do men even want relationships anymore? There’s nothing in it for them. Too much to lose.

[@plasmaarmelund]

We’re not avoiding marriage. We’re avoiding divorce.

[@stranahanhigh8910]

.... and being financially annihilated.

[@onyxdemonic2566]

To be fair, many of us are avoiding marriage. When you get married women change, they got the part they wanted (the commitment) and then they start trying to control everything, withholding affection, etc. Women treat you better when you don't care about them and are only with them for sex. They put in lots of effort to treat you well when they are shooting for getting a relationship out of it. Don't do relationships at all. There is no benefit for men.

[@MrWaterbugdesign]

Avoid having kids in the US. Marriage and divorce can be managed. I was married/divorce 2x. I got out clean thanks to some luck and planning on my part. Would have been better to not get married, but at least there are options to protect yourself. Kids are another matter. You have no control at all short of a noose.

[@francoistombe]

False metoo and family legal system = mgtow. For self preservation. (And peace of mind).

[@user-rp5vx2pb9i]

And never to financially recover ever again. Marriage is over until the laws change. But that’s ok we’re equal now so women should have no trouble whatsoever taking care of themselves. Lol.

[@davidkelly132]

In marriage - - 1) She stays: You pay 2) She goes: You pay 3) She cheats: You pay 4) You go: You pay

[@yvesgysel9834]

Oh, bro, I had to laugh so hard with your smart summary. Yep, men always lose anyway, so too much of a risk.

[@BrendanMahoney-jk7nu]

I cant see why any man would marry in this day and age !!!

[@BrendanMahoney-jk7nu]

I can't see why anyone in this day & age would want to get married !!!!

[@JMan-Dawg]

I haven't seen it said better or more succinctly David.

[@jurassicthunder]

5) you're not married: you pay to govy for handouts to single moms.

[@jyeeeee]

Most women want to be a bride; not many want to be a wife

[@KellyJermoma]

They are just aroused to experience the wedding event. All that attention 😂

[@Changtent]

"Bingo" 100 %

[@dunamis333]

In these Last Days of the Church Age, it's so easy to find churches that will feed you lies as truths with regards to the marriage covenant. Only corrupt and perverted churches teach that it's perfectly fine to remarry after divorce, especially if you're not the one who cheated. Churches that make up the Bride of Christ do not teach this lie that originated in the pit of hell. They teach the Truth of the Lord Jesus Christ. "Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery against her. And if a woman divorces her husband and marries another, she commits adultery.” [Mark 10:11,12] When a man and a woman make a covenant before God to marry until death, it means exactly that. Only the death of one of them can dissolve the marriage covenant. The covenant they both make before God is inscribed on their very souls. If the man commits adultery against his wife or visa versa, the marriage covenant will be defiled but not dissolved. Men and women don't enter into a marriage covenant on the understanding that they'll dissolve it if one or both of them commit adultery. Christian Couples really need to pay more attention to the vows they're making before God on their wedding day Because the sin of adultery cannot break the marriage covenant, but can only defile it, the Lord told the married woman, who was caught in the act of adultery to: "...go and sin no more.” [John 8:11] In other words, the Lord told her to stop defiling her marriage covenant but instead to remain faithful to her own husband. The "fornication clause" many are using as an excuse to remarry only applied to betrothed wives in Jewish times! A betrothed couple waited for about a Year before they consummated their marriage. If within that Year the betrothed wife committed fornication, the betrothed husband could "divorce" her to marry someone else. This is what Joseph wanted to do when he thought Mary had committed fornication not adultery. "Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery..." [Matt.19:9] After a marriage has been consummated, if a spouse then commits adultery, a separation, not divorce, is permitted. If the spouse repents, however, a reconciliation must be sought. If he or she doesn't repent and goes off to marry someone else, the innocent spouse must remain unmarried and continue to pray for a reconciliation. This may or may not happen. "Now to the married I command, yet not I but the Lord: A wife is not to depart from her husband. But even if she does depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband. And a husband is not to divorce his wife." [1 Cor.7:10,11] "But if the unbelieving spouse separates himself, let him be separated. In circumstances like these, the brother or sister is not enslaved - God has called you to a life of peace." [1Cor.7:15] This is another verse many Christians use to support remarriages. They're reading into the text something that is not there. The brother or sister not being enslaved simply means that the brother or sister are no longer able to function in the capacity as a husband or a wife any longer, because their respective spouses have chosen to leave. For we get married to be enslaved, in a good sense, to our spouses! "And having been set free from sin, you became slaves of righteousness...present your members as slaves of righteousness for holiness...But now having been set free from sin, and having become slaves of God" [Rom.6:18,19,22] Being enslaved to our spouses means being a slave of righteousness for holiness. It means being a slave of God. You really have to twist the Scriptures to conclude that not being enslaved means you're free to remarry if your spouse leaves. This is confirmed to not be the case. For in the very next verse, Paul places the responsibility of saving the spouse who has left in the hands of the husband or wife, who are to remain unmarried. "For how do you know, O wife, whether you will save your husband? Or how do you know, O husband, whether you will save your wife?" [1 Cor.7:16] A husband or a wife cannot pray with a pure heart before God, for the salvation of a spouse who has left, if they're committing adultery, in an unlawful marriage, with someone else. What so many Christians don't realize is that the Lord Jesus Christ is using the marriage covenant to separate the wheat from the chaff in the Church before the Rapture. This is why it's so important for Christians to choose their spouses very, very carefully. Because, unlike the world, we have only one chance to get it right. And if we blow it, we may have to spend the rest of our lives alone in order to remain within God's perfect will.

[@behindthespotlight7983]

Do they even want to be brides anymore? Or do they just like the outfits ?

[@KellyJermoma]

@@behindthespotlight7983 they want to divorce you for money

[@Machi74005]

Being 100% invisible to women all my life has apparently been a blessing in disguise.

[@WinglessRain]

It's absolutely not, but it means when you do try your hand at the game, you'll go in without the same kind of cynicism many of us are plagued by.

[@raskult]

It absolutely is a blessing brother, you could’ve been caught up in child support, a divorce, anything, false allegations bro you coulda been hurt if you got with a woman you didn’t know had a man. Met a 6 foot 5 white cop stand up handsome dude, told me he’d been divorced 4 times. Look bro you’re chilling.

[@garyfrancis6193]

Me tooI. It was heart breaking many times but I now am glad I never married my of my girlfriends. I see what has happened over the last 50 years.

[@soup-nazi6824]

You've been dodging bullets all your life without even realising 😅

[@BetaBuxDelux]

It’s the blessing of peace. I hope you are able to enjoy it.

[@MaduroMan]

I found unconditional acceptance. I got a German Shepard.

[@FarfromEden]

The BEST breed of dog ever! I was raised by them ❤️

[@jdbroders64]

Staffies work for me. All the fuzzballs do.

[@mizofan]

Dogs are so wonderful.

[@jackdeniston6150]

Not even unconditional. Reasonable acceptance. How little, how trivial are the things men want. And women just can´t

[@clodismccuien8082]

I raised a baby raccoon that was more loyal than women I have dated😅

[@MrBKuv]

Women are energy vampires.

[@anthonyhuber-permanentlyre7808]

*Money Vampires.*

[@allynflinchbaugh4570]

The less polite term is parasite.

[@Quakeinc14]

If you let them be. You’re suppose to give them a purpose. She’s your helper. Give her a task and stop spoiling her.

[@byronallen2410]

Vampires are parasites. So....

[@ot23234]

@@Quakeinc14 How do you not let them? Once you are married, there is nothing you can threaten a woman with to make her comply.

[@Cayuse2009]

I tried traditional marriage twice, both times to women who proclaimed to be Christians. Both times they are the ones that filed for divorce. The first wife lasted 7 years, was diagnosed delusional paranoia and still got custody of my 2 sons. The second one was a 30 year marriage so she waited until I retired and took half of everything I earned. She was a Narcissits and couldn't hold a job with her conditioin. Until divorce laws change I would advise men to either get a prenup contract and never get government marriage contract or stay single.

[@andrewslagle1974]

PRE NUP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@allynflinchbaugh4570]

@@andrewslagle1974 Prenups can, and are, frequently tossed by judges. so NO PRE-NUPS. pointless.

[@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485]

Dang

[@Yut00bisSUS]

Marriage these days is a government contract tho. With nearly every divorce the state gets involved, and women are incentivized and rewarded to break that contract at men's expense.

[@crimestoppers1877]

Thirty Years. You need a participation trophy for that one! But you survived and avoided more whining, crying, complaining, nagging, gossiping! YES that is what you get when you are married. Women punish you with idiocy. The juice is not worth the squeeze.

[@SomeGuy-xf9bc]

When men have a midlife crisis, we buy that sweet car we always wanted since we were 18 and we are roundly shamed for it. When women have their midlife crisis, they completely blow up the family and destroy everything. They are met with cheers of "You go girl!".

[@bobbyscalchi4013]

Usually happens by 37/38 for most women. Most guys hit their MLC by 42/43

[@dougvuillemot8670]

No there were taken other sausage long before that. They collapse the family so you can't afford that new car.

[@AnthonyArgyros]

Yup. “You go girl. You do YOU, even if it means UNDOING someone else. It’s all about YOU.”

[@rushfan9thcmd]

Then they cheat.

[@marguskiis7711]

Bullshit. Most of midlife crisis men start to run after some chick and destroy their family.

[@albertinofernandes8842]

"Men are raised to know how to treat a woman but not what to expect from one; women are raised to know what to expect from a man but not how to treat one"

[@Maputi_na_Kalabaw]

That holds true in the west.

[@LuvKitKatt]

false

[@marguskiis7711]

​​@@Maputi_na_Kalabaw sorry, but men can not have the kids. That a fact if you did not know. Thats why they need women and had to know how to treat them.

[@Maputi_na_Kalabaw]

@@marguskiis7711 I'm just agreeing w the original comment and adding that most western women do not know how to treat men and here you are telling me men cannot bear children. What does that have to do with what I said? I'm not an idiot I know men can't have children because I have 4. 2 of which I raised alone for 6.5 years in the west. Thanks!

[@Maputi_na_Kalabaw]

@@marguskiis7711 sorry but I well aware that men cannot bear children and I fail to understand what that has to do with the original comment or me adding my opinion that many western women don't know how to treat a man. Please explain

[@gkdaniels1]

Women have been telling men for the last 70 years, they’re strong and independent. Many men are simply believing them

[@streetsarecold]

I recently met a woman who hates being strong and independent and wanted to date me, I said ''nah keep working, I love my independence''

[@liveandlearn4445]

FR. I'm rooting for their independence, and now they start complaining again 😂 there's only one thing we NEED each other for, and that's creating children. Nothing else. Men acted on it, and now I see videos everywhere about how feminism was misleading and stuff. What tf are they talking about? You got what you wanted. Men only want one thing, peace ✌️ Apparently that's too much to ask

[@dmark2639]

Men could see where feminism would lead long ago. It is women who are blind to it.

[@lucdevries8732]

If people tell you about their qualities it is likely they don't have them. If so, it isn't necessary mentioning them cause everyone already knows.

[@francoistombe]

Women don't realize that "independent" means single and alone.

[@carlzalesski2975]

Marriage is a trap for men today.if I divorced my current wife I would never remarry

[@alfasiger4178]

Its a trap

[@rodterrell304]

Agreed, peace is better than…..

[@trashcan9001]

@@rodterrell304 alwasys been a trap not just today

[@eldenking2098]

@@alfasiger4178 In marriage - - 1) She stays: You pay 2) She goes: You pay 3) She cheats: You pay 4) You go: You pay

[@johnyork6174]

Having a girl friend is no better then marriage anymore

[@prbmax]

Consider the Average man working an Average Job. He will build an Average house, buy an Average table. He would settle down with an Average woman and be happy with an Average life and Average family. All he sees is Average women that would break his Average table leg by leg, destroy his Average house and bring shame to him and his family. He then decides that he doesn't need much and an Average man can get by with very few things and adjust well while the Average woman can not.

[@ryanlorance6168]

Preach 💯

[@gladiammgtow4092]

Then other women will call him dusty.

[@jaynikk758]

​​@@gladiammgtow4092 Everybody has their own come-up at different period and pace brother, God's timing is different from ours Amen

[@laxfich_gecko]

that's exactly it

[@dmark2639]

Men are done caring about women who don't bring anything to the table.

[@georgeedward1226]

Like soldiers in combat, men do their best to avoid walking into a minefield.

[@Gocats1970]

Scouts out

[@user-rp5vx2pb9i]

Walk around and stay away from them.

[@marguskiis7711]

​@@user-rp5vx2pb9i yeah. Wank alone.

[@marguskiis7711]

Stay away, losers.

[@mr.t993]

Great analogy. High likelihood for both to lose their balls. I look at both with the same pity.

[@SilverFoX043]

Everything just sucks, all I want is to build a cabin and be left the heck alone.

[@jammyb90]

👍👍

[@bobbyscalchi4013]

Ditto. Working on it now. Womem leave me alone. Government leave me alone. Society. Leave me alone.

[@deadreckoning6288]

You and me both brother 👍

[@rodterrell304]

Here here, life in the woods is fantastic

[@Frank-pc2rs]

I'm with you totally man. I've had it with modern society and I checked out years ago. Best thing I ever did.

[@humlakullen]

Simple logic actually… A marriage is a legal contract. Never enter into a contract with someone who benefits more from breaking it.

[@romeofthewing9626]

It's no longer a Covenant/Sacrament to these women. So, I've told my son to go somewhere else, not this country.

[@wherezthebeef]

Open ended contract at that... she can turn into a demon and let herself go all to hell, and still take you to the cleaners in most states whenever she wants to cash$ in on a divorce. Non starter. Women destroyed the marriage social contract in the U.S., it's broken beyond all repair. But then again, so is the U.S.

[@sbentley1140]

As a Gen X'r I have walked away from women years ago. I want nothing to do with any of them. Their behaviour disgusts me. My life without women has been peaceful and I'm free to enjoy my life the way I want.

[@slave2tyranny]

I am the same way.

[@avlifesavers]

Same

[@kato76109]

I'm getting there

[@marguskiis7711]

Yeah, keep going! I enjoy the life with women, so more for me. You stay away, losers.

[@kato76109]

@@marguskiis7711 I can definitely tell you love women because you sound like one.

[@shilosheena]

Marriage worst decision a man can ever make.

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

absolutely!

[@user-jk5cp8uf2f]

WRONG. Being with a women in ANY sense is the worst decision you can ever make. If your dating your a wallet, Cohabitation laws are starting to be written look at oregon as an example you can't even live with them its considered "marriage" without even being married and this is spreading to many states all over. If your "just a friend" your a validation tool and emotional napkin for them to drain on. Just stay away till we find a cure.

[@LuvKitKatt]

but having sex all over the place with different women is ???

[@user-jk5cp8uf2f]

@@LuvKitKatt ya because that's what is happening. Tiny bit of research and you can see that its around 10% of girls that don't have s*x before even 30 years old yet at the last time it was recorded its nearly 35+% of men that are what you would call an "incel" meaning they would love a GF or s*x but have not had the opportunity. Your argument is whack at best. Those numbers prove women can go anywhere get it anywhere and they are choosing thee same men over and over again then turning around and complaining on social media that all men bad. If the top 20% of men have 80+% reaching at them... they exercise those options. There is a big difference because women can get s*x anytime they want. literally walk in a bar announce it and half thee bar will raise there hand. put a guy in that situation and he leaves in handcuff's. But keep living in la la land.

[@rushfan9thcmd]

​@Kaash2breezy ??? Women are in charge of who they have sex with. And, women are doing more sausage than a deli.

[@TimmyCramer]

Best decision of my life was to Not Get Married. I enjoy women but never take them serious. Timmy C Arizona

[@garyfrancis6193]

Seriously. This is an “ adverb” . Learn how to us them.

[@BetaBuxDelux]

Smart

[@P01234y]

@@garyfrancis6193 ‘us’ is a pronoun. Learn how to USE us. 😃

[@private-private]

Thats a great line! " I enjoy women but never take them seriously" It kind of sums me up. I dont know who that guy Timmy is but Ill look him up.

[@WFKO.]

@@garyfrancis6193 frack english hahaha

[@user-we7vk5zg7l]

I remember, my father and I used to work at the same place...as teachers, a colleague of ours asked my father "Why don't you leave your wife??". She was diagnosed with MS in 1983. My father answered "I promised, for better or worse". Now she is, of course, in a wheel chair, with dementia. My father has cancer in both his lungs. They are still together. But they are doing puzzles together. Listening to music....loving one another. Modern woman don't do this, I think that the men would.

[@katherinemoore3059]

My parents are still to gather as well.

[@richardscanlan3419]

that generation has well and truly passed by..

[@richardscanlan3419]

To further add, mum and dad together since 1973. Both my younger siblings married young.20 plus yrs later both still married with families ( 5 and 3 kids respectively.Key point in their cases is they married foreigners)

[@NightOwlModeler]

My parents are about to enter their 80th year, and 54 years of marriage. I've seen what it takes to make a marriage like that work for over 40 years. I've never found a woman who was unattached who had the qualities to marry. Two fairly serious girlfriends over the years, but both had major red flags. One lady at church was a testing to see what I had learned from the first GF. She ended up trying to corner me physically and push her self on me, when I made it clear I didn't want any relationship with her (she had tons of the same red-flags as 1st GF). Talked it over with her, and she was totally fine with the idea of trying to seduce/rape me. = RUN FAR AWAY. While I'm not completely refusing any future relationship to marriage, I'm not even really actively looking, as it's too dangerous out there. Thank you FFE for this video, I think you repeatedly hit the nail on the head. I've always been willing and accepting to be a provider, have a family, keep the Lord as the head of the marriage. But boy, there just aren't very many women out there that want the same thing. All are already screwed over, jaded, selfish, and most are down-right hostile towards men. My problem is that I've always been too kind, too accepting, and easy to take advantage of by these crazy women. So today, I just do what is right whether to a man or woman in the sight of the Lord, but I believe at this point we're in the end times, Jesus will be back for His Bride before I'll meet any woman who is marrying quality. After studying about the Galilean wedding, and this video's good points about a non-government wedding contract marriage, I know that's what I want. Not a western marriage to the state in place of God. So thanks FFE for the excellent study and discussion. - NOM

[@divinityofblackness6330]

I'd cry...but I don't have any tears left... I know that this will be my parents...but I just truly don't believe in my shots no matter how good of a catch I might become.

[@billbrock8740]

I was once married for 4 years. Divorced. No kids. At settlement, I was awarded the 3,000 square foot house (and everything in it) located in a DC suburb during the housing boom of 2005. Sold the house in a mere 5 days during the crazy feeding frenzy. Made a fortune in the sale and never looked back. Never married again. New house and two sports cars paid off. Happy life. Zero stress. Sound asleep within 20 seconds each night. Still single. Paradise. : )

[@rushfan9thcmd]

🏆🏆🏆🏆🎖️👍

[@Eclipsed_Phoenix]

What are the cars? Lol curious. Good on you though, glad to hear it.

[@billbrock8740]

@@Eclipsed_PhoenixHonda S2000 (with original factory hardtop) and Chevy Camaro.

[@Eclipsed_Phoenix]

@billbrock8740 😲 You must be loving that s2000. What a rarity... I've been looking at the new dark horse mustang. That 6 speed tremec is apparently very good.

[@cuatrojr1]

Your Winning Brother! God Speed! 💯👍

[@RomeoWhiskey692]

I tried marriage twice ,and walked away years ago . Now I have a nice little house in a pecan grove near a river . Green and growing things … wildlife and nature everywhere . Quiet contentment . Solitude and peace . My things in my place . I am my own man . My wives taught me a wonderful lesson when I was with them . Each in their own way in their time . With the physical and emotional withdrawal… the emptiness… the denial … I learned to live alone . I am truly grateful for their instruction . I am free .

[@user-ub8ph5nt3e]

It took you 2 goes? Once was enough for me

[@kbruff2010]

Amen.

[@LuvKitKatt]

at the end of the day women & men need each other. You don’t have to be married. That’s a personal choice! But don’t put all women down because of your experience.

[@user-ub8ph5nt3e]

@Kaash2breezy the way these tiktok crazies put all men down you mean? Calling us scrubs, creeps, dusties all on account of how pretty Bois and Epstein types treated them? You're new here, aren't you? I don't need a woman after 15 years of watching them doing their thing

[@user-rp5vx2pb9i]

Say that to these men who have lost everything to women. Trust me when I say this, they really don’t need them anymore.

[@stevenwatsham5973]

I had the most sweetest, beautiful wife that you could imagine. Then I became ill and she was gone.. But the one thing that I can never forget is the most cold blooded chilling voice that came out of her mouth that I had never heard in 14 years together.. I will NEVER get married again!

[@jacquesbourne9203]

marriage is the maximum of loneliness and the minimum of privacy.

[@georgesontag2192]

Women are known for dropping the sick husband off at the nursing home and never returning to even visit. Ask any long term nurse working at one. Women are not loving creatures men were told they were. KZbin is educationg men fast on female nature. It's not pretty.

[@carminecavaliere3908]

she sounded selfish to the core, the signs are there i find myself since i was 18 yrs old was to test them daily as iam a sigma male, alpha and beta males do not do that

[@theelder4797]

Yep, they can chameleon for YEARS, as long as the money keeps coming - any threat to that and she's back on tinder while you're trying to survive.

[@Diegoromero2006]

what was she saying with that voice? and what did her eyes look like? sorry for prying just curious

[@P01234y]

After a 22 year relationship that she destroyed and wouldn’t take responsibility for cheating, I won’t bother again. I’ll never get that time back. That’s the hardest things. All the opportunities that I let go because I was faithful.

[@eldenking2098]

In marriage - - 1) She stays: You pay 2) She goes: You pay 3) She cheats: You pay 4) You go: You pay When men have a midlife crisis, we buy that sweet car we always wanted since we were 18 and we are roundly shamed for it. When women have their midlife crisis, they completely blow up the family and destroy everything. They are met with cheers of "You go girl!".

[@P01234y]

@@eldenking2098 so true bro

[@BrianWaller-qe7gr]

Women take accountability? 🤣🤣

[@CeeTeeUSA]

I used to be a loving, giving nerd in High School. I got lucky I didn't meet the worst women in the world but I was raised to not trust thankfully and never married or had kids. Now in my 50s, I realize they only needed me to pay the bills. Today, I no longer date or want nothing from women. Even the idea of sex repulses me. Don't feel bad, I'm in my happiest place today. I felt most alone when I had a girlfriend..

[@BetaBuxDelux]

I’m almost 50 and can relate to your comment. 😊

[@shawnlavigne9069]

I'm 55, and I relate as well.

[@user-yd1hc2mr8t]

41 and learned that lesson 10 years ago. Despite being described as a "Chad" even I don't want anything to do with them.

[@user-ml5pi3tr8h]

different background story but I relate 100%. 45 year old.

[@JW-yk1of]

Can't relate to the idea of being repulsed by sex. That sounds like you have some issues you need to work through.

[@BlazeBuds]

Nope most men arent interested anymore! Every married man i know is miserable. Every single guy i know is happy. As someone who was divorced 5 years ago i couldnt be happier. Tried dating for a while, but most women are also overweight these days and nope

[@im1who84u]

Think of the old _Andy Griffith_ show. Almost everyone on that show was single and happy and the only married man was _Otis_ and he was always unhappy, complained about his wife, perpetually drunk, and would lock himself in jail just to get away from her.

[@jasondaniels640]

Beautiful women are even worse.

[@wherezthebeef]

The social contract is broken, it's a losing proposition for men. And it's women who broke the contract. They can enjoy their cats...

[@pastormatthew4362]

@@wherezthebeef 😺😸🐱😼😼😼😼😼😼😼😼

[@robertlopez8077]

Going through my divorce now. Looks like I'm not going to be completely ruined in court. Which is EXTREMELY rare in California. The peace of mind that's beginning to grow in me, no married man could ever have. I will NEVER degrade and compromise myself into marriage ever again. And I'm teaching my sons the same.

[@marguskiis7711]

You LOVE your money more than anything else, I see.

[@wherezthebeef]

YOu made two mistakes... 1) getting married. 2) getting married in crazy-ass, man-hating Califorinia. Live and learn, you'll be OK.

[@JosephChandler-vd1cs]

Hahaha you must be woman!​@marguskiis7711

[@Matt-ty6pq]

When they say " men don't want relationships " remember they are always talking about the top 20% , get your passport.

[@MikeS-7]

You are simply trading one evil for another. Granted, she will be superior in many ways. The trap is the same...

[@Matt-ty6pq]

@@MikeS-7 well overseas you play the hypergamy game on your favor, I'll say it is a must to get to know the culture and language first before getting into anything serious, that alone is something many are not willing to do.

[@JimJones-gd2jy]

Foreign Country ? She has all the power ! facts. Don’t believe the BS

[@MikeS-7]

@@Matt-ty6pq I was just pointing out that the dangers are the same even though the values of the women are different. In both cases, the women are after your money, lifestyle, and utility to them. The overwhelming majority will love you no more than they do dog sh*t on the bottom of their shoes. As proof... Take the utility away... Is she still with you? Take the lifestyle away... Is she still with you? Take the money away? Is she still with you? As these thing fade your usefulness fades and you will be discarded like trash. That was my point. I find many Asian women to be far more beautiful and appealing than American women and yet I know it is the same game.

[@bigglyguy8429]

@@JimJones-gd2jy She has all the power in the West, so what's the difference? I can tell you - she'll be sweet, funny, affectionate, cheeky, sexy, respectful, loyal and have a cute ass with no cellulite. Married 20 happy years this July :P Looking forward to the next 20 with her.

[@ttocselbag5054]

Sweet, kind, femininity. That’s all we ever really wanted. Too bad that woke, socialist modern society has destroyed that notion.

[@katie1987_]

Conservative Christian woman are everywhere (me included) so if you can’t find one i’d suggest taking a look at yourself instead of blaming women first. Maybe we’re hiding from you for a reason

[@MaxIgnoramus]

​@@katie1987_just go away

[@katie1987_]

@@MaxIgnoramus can’t handle looking at how you treat us vs how we treat you? I understand there’s a lot of shitty women but there’s plenty of goods ones still out there. If you can’t find ANY there’s most likely a problem with you

[@seankingwell3692]

@@katie1987_ you need to understand personal accountability first. You are part of the problem. You reject men that you don't like totally reject them, gay health problems you hate your own poor conservative Christians do it best. You make it so no one has a reason to improve themselves, you need to look in the mirror and stop using Christianity and men as a crutch.

[@dmark2639]

Those "Christian" women still want the Alpha Chad. They aren't looking for an average guy on their level any more than the next woman. Prove me wrong.

[@MzQTMcHotness]

I tried twice. I failed twice. I won’t try again. Being a good man has only ever gotten me burned. Never again.

[@RRSWarriors]

Is that you in your profile pic though? lol

[@MzQTMcHotness]

@@RRSWarriors Yes. That’s me.

[@polycarphunter2257]

marriage is like playing Russian roulette with an automatic.

[@user-zr7pm5yi1i]

Awesome

[@francoistombe]

Jumping out of an aircraft with a 50% chance your parachute won't work.

[@user-rp5vx2pb9i]

And 25% of marriages are sexless if not more.

[@tomstulc9143]

Saint polycarp huh,,,,, good one.. perhaps you can say like playing Russian roulette with an AK-47.

[@polycarphunter2257]

@@tomstulc9143 actually i had an uncle in the 1700s with that moniker. my aunt did a genealogy of our family and traced our family tree back to the eighteenth century. this is my way of embracing my heritage. do you know who your father was.

[@user-we7vk5zg7l]

I have given up on women....and I have had several long relaitonships. I have even been married. No woman in my house ever again. :)

[@JaySmith-pv2mw]

Same.

[@user-rp5vx2pb9i]

I won’t live with them anymore. No cohabitation. No marriage. No long term relationships.

[@thmphll]

I work in STEM with a team of guys all making over 6 figures, they have the means to afford a family, but, out of 10 guys only one is married and only two of us have children. Ages range from 23 to 52, I think the problem is with a 50% divorce rate we have seen over and over other guys get destroyed, every man has friends who have gone through it. Some of the stories are horrendous of guys in their prime getting taken out financially to the point of couch surfing for years even decades, while some of them did deserve it, most did not. I have multiple friends who's wives just left suit cases on the drive way and moved the new guy in the same day after changing the locks, seems in my state, that is good enough to remove the man from the home and the wife gets it... and almost everything inside. Marriage is for life for men, even if you get divorced you will still face the real chance of being forced to support someone until you or her are dead. The young guys only view western women as something you have fun with but never take seriously, its almost like they are predators. All of the guys come from two parent households and all of them say their moms keep telling them to not get married.

[@indranilbanik3424]

I work in STEM as well, though in academia the salaries are not as high. Living on temporary contracts for only a few years before moving far away meant that I never really considered relationships. But now I have come to the conclusion that even if I had a stable job with a permanent contract, I would still not want to have a girlfriend or wife. I just think the risks are too great. More importantly, I do not think there is a wider societal benefit. I take risks of some sort with my work, investigating controversial new ideas to solve mysteries in astrophysics, but the idea may not be right. Like in a relationship, it could end up not working after several years, as indeed happened to me a couple of years ago with a theory I had worked on for almost a decade. But there is a big difference. I was trying to do something for the benefit of all humanity, both now and in the future. It might not work, but at least I tried. And we did learn something useful. Whereas with a relationship, it might take a lot of effort over many years too, but it would not help anyone else. The wider societal returns from having a girl around my house are just not there unfortunately, especially these days when they are more likely to be a net emotional drain. I found that since a lot of men are MGTOW these days, one can just talk to other guys instead and accept that girls are not friends. I still work with them sometimes and that is all fine, but in terms of sharing my difficulties or worries with them, it is off the table. Especially as she can just leave if she is unhappy, and get financially rewarded for it. I was explaining to someone recently that women are not necessarily bad of course, but if given the biased divorce courts, every day is a choice between your companionship and your money. Now a woman could love you and the choice could be easy for her, but suppose this is only true 99.99% of the time. Then there would still be one day in a thirty year marriage in which she decides she has had enough and wants a divorce. One could say the same about men, but it is much harder for them to get out of a marriage. So I just think that I do not want to be in a situation where the girl is better off without me and possibly just looking for excuses to take my stuff. I am married to my work, it is much more rewarding than being married to a modern woman.

[@wherezthebeef]

Do not get married in the United States, the culture turns our females into demons.

[@txlyons2937]

Childfree bachelor, 43. My last relationship ended in 2018 when she suddenly disappeared. I have been dumped, ghosted, cheated on, stood up, and kicked to the curb too many times. I'm done. Never again. These days, I just focus on my work, my hobbies, and self-improvement, and I love my peace & quiet.

[@dmark2639]

Hypergamy and monkey-branching is REAL. Those women ghosted and left because they found something "better". Probably just a softer target than you. Count your blessings...you dodged many bullets.

[@marguskiis7711]

Your life is pointless. Waste of energy.

[@marguskiis7711]

You choose the women in your life. If you make the wrong choices then its your own fault.

[@TheGecko213]

@@marguskiis7711 And you are Jesus F Christ

[@stayfree6115]

You deserve peace and serenity. Enjoy you life, being through hell and coming out in the sunshine of a new dawn is a great start and you appreciate your blessings 10 fold.

[@TremelJackson]

A woman thinking she has to seduce me into a relationship is a huge red flag in my book

[@cryptojihadi265]

She's letting you know ALL she has to offer is sexuality and THAT will be taken away once she gets the ring.

[@coachp1389]

Divorce, child support, spouse support, family court. Who wants that sh!*

[@RexRoberts-hk3wj]

Men need women like a bicycle needs a fish

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

hahahaha love how you reversed that.

[@marguskiis7711]

Yes, because men can have children without women.

[@nexttimeism]

Whoa, great turn around on a stupid feminist rant from the 60's, 70's, 80's, 90's. However...it's true. Maybe the gals from the distant past (meh) but this new batch are more masculine than we are, less funny and thinking (oddly) that bc they work they are the new "rulers of the universe. The hubris and arrogance these women of all ages display is out of a mad magazine from the 60's. I say feed em, f em and forget em.

[@jimmyr204]

There's alot in it for us guys. Alot of drama, stress, and bills !!!

[@wherezthebeef]

And financial devestation once she decided to cash in on a divorce. You know it's the plan all along...

[@chrismifflin3862]

I was married 14 years and she left me for my best friend. You just cannot trust anybody. Now at 56 I can confidently say that I will never ever be crazy enough to get married, or for that matter even let a woman get close to me again. You just cannot trust people who are not able to be accountible for their actions.

[@penguinvic9892]

A sad story. Forgive me for asking but did your ex find happiness with your best friend (presumably now your ex best friend)? Generally when the first flush of excitement wears off, things start to go pear 🍐 shape in many, many instances.

[@chrismifflin3862]

@@penguinvic9892 I believe they are married. I have had no contact since.

[@OrdinaryJoe12]

He was never your best friend.

[@chrismifflin3862]

@@OrdinaryJoe12 He sure was not.

[@chrismifflin3862]

@@Andel-1995 It is really is a tough reality. But, the sooner you understand that the sooner you can protect yourself.

[@danielmccann4055]

After my little wife developed early onset dementia, I realized how much I miss just having someone to talk to: About a movie, the news, local events, whatever. And ya know what? when these People reach the end of their vacant lives many won't even realize what they gave up: a lover yes, but more than that a friend, an ally, a confidant. Someone you knew was in boat with you rowing just as hard in the same direction. Modernity is insanity in many ways.

[@shawnn7502]

Agreed. Comments sections like these, which are many, are heartbreaking. Man was not meant to be alone. Yes, the downside is terrible and punitive. But going through life with a true companion makes every hardship easier and every great moment more fulfilling. And there is no happiness like the smile or laughter of your own child. Don't take the easy route. Take the risk. You only live once.

[@jasondyrkacz8270]

Something women need to know about men: While men are more likely to take risks, there has to be a payoff that's worth the risk. Marriage is extremely high risk with negative payoff for men.

[@invsystems6826]

Well said.

[@Andromeda14167]

The moment woman started to actually want men to give something back and not only take. You realise what kind of investements relationships actually require. Men took emotional relationship work for granted for thousand years. You explain why woman like to have a 9 to 5 job more than dealing with relationships, in your own way. If you would be born in a different gender you would be a feminist.

[@endorphinrider62]

Only a fool would get married today.

[@markymarknj]

EXACTLY!

[@RandyChatter]

43 year old man here. I've never once woken up and said that my day would be better if I had a wife. I've had countless days where I'm thankful for the peace, quiet and freedom that comes with not having one. I could start a family one day, and have a relationship for the purpose of building a family, but would a wife make life more pleasurable? Overall, No, not really. the relationship would be more purpose driven than for the sake of pleasure. I'd be entering a relationship knowing that my quality of life will go down, in the name of raising kids.

[@MikeS-7]

Get a surrogate if you want to start a family. It's cheaper. And you get to keep your children.

[@ShatteredF1re7733]

Im 36. I 100% agree with your statement.

[@nerychristian]

I am also 43. And although I believe that most women are useless, I do occasionally come across a woman who is a decent person. It's rare though. No woman is perfect. No relationship is perfect. But ultimately you have to decide if you want to leave a legacy on this earth. Unfortunately, the only way to have children is through a woman. I guess a little stress or heartache is better than dying alone and childless.

[@MikeS-7]

@@nerychristian they are gems. Keep in mind, they will run you through the women's court system just like the others.

[@eldenking2098]

@Andel-1995 In marriage - - 1) She stays: You pay 2) She goes: You pay 3) She cheats: You pay 4) You go: You pay When men have a midlife crisis, we buy that sweet car we always wanted since we were 18 and we are roundly shamed for it. When women have their midlife crisis, they completely blow up the family and destroy everything. They are met with cheers of "You go girl!".

[@tomculbertson5569]

My wife of over 20yrs and having two kids stopped loving me after our 2nd kid. Eventually cheated on me and then wanted a divorce thinking the guy would want to have a real relationship with her. Of course that didn't happen. She came after me for everything in the divorce. Finally divorced and moving on the best I can I would never in a million yrs consider marriage again let alone a relationship with a westernized woman. I saw an Amish couple walking down the road today while driving by. I told my daughter sitting next to me that I wish I was Amish so that I'd have a good wife to take care of me. The only problem would be I'd have to grow a itchy long beard. Not gonna do it.

[@FarfromEden]

I’m so glad to said that to your daughter. Talking about the Amish is a great opening to talk to her about what a good wife is. Expectations of her, her responsibilities, the joy of serving her family, that life is about people- not things. ❤️

[@nickblack8350]

Hey my beards not itchy

[@ryanlorance6168]

Only itchy if you don’t know how to maintain it

[@nickblack8350]

@@ryanlorance6168 I shampoo it in the shower every day that's all

[@rickg882]

The way they trim the beard is so weird, from the sideburns and under the chin, crazy looking.

[@user-mr1ku5iz8l]

Wise Men learn from the mistakes of other Men. Single Men can observe how married Men are treated & disrespected by their wives, and single Men can observe how divorced Men are treated by family court & divorce court, and single Men see how divorced Men struggle after they've lost almost everything because of divorce. No fault divorce laws encourage divorce. Title IV-D means child support really only exists to keep women off welfare thus the court's incentive to grant the women custody. And let's not forget the Duluth model meaning presumption of innocence does not exist for the Man if a woman makes a claim of domestic violence. A Man can expect his wife's divorce attorney to instruct her to claim the husband abused her because it helps her gain an advantage during the process. Wedding vows are worthless so long as no fault divorce laws exist. Modern women are not June Cleaver and really don't add much value at all to a Man's life. Their feminist programming prevents them from doing that. If a Man wants a secure financial future he should avoid the marriage contract at all costs.

[@RichardRupert-qc4qj]

My ex stole a lot of money from me. Than she had me in court for so called domestic violence. I never layer a hand on her. She was in court acting like I scared her. It was unbelievable. She cheated on me for 3 years. I was married for 30 years.

[@JimJones-gd2jy]

@@RichardRupert-qc4qj - sorry sir 😢

[@yvesgysel9834]

​@@RichardRupert-qc4qjI am so sorry to hear this. Unfortunately I have heard similar stories of other men. Exactly like you describe it. On top of a divorce being falsley accused. Do "modern women" take classes on how to get the most out of a divorce while at the same time destroying a man completely. No wonder suicide rates are higher in the male population. I hope you recovered somewhat. I definitely would lose it completely in that case.

[@RichardRupert-qc4qj]

@@yvesgysel9834 one day at a time. Thanks

[@Wahinies]

This is usually why our dads are strapped for cash and constantly berated by an entitled person meanwhile our uncle is skiing in Norway and working maybe 30 hours a week happy as can be.

[@michaelanthony1797]

I walked away over 25 years ago, I don't know why it took so long to get to where it is now.

[@gregharn1]

It's the narrative pumped in our heads through all of our media. It took so much longer for men of multiple generations to really learn the truth in large numbers.

[@Frank-pc2rs]

It took so long because men are addicted to a smelly bacteria ridden hole.

[@Frank-pc2rs]

It took so long because guys are addicted to a smelly bacteria ridden crevice.

[@Frank-pc2rs]

It took so long because guys are unfortunately addicted to a smelly bacteria ridden box.

[@theelder4797]

Because 24/7 programming men with lies and no one admitting the problems. Internet allowed us to come together and compare notes.

[@bethanyboarder7751]

Women like that ruined the dating game for women like me, who would actually be loving and committed and agreeable. The good men withdraw from the game because women like myself are a needle in the haystack. I had to withdraw from the game because I know I'm never gonna find my future hubby. He's not out there, he's completely done with women and I couldn't even change his mind. Edit: Thank you all for the encouragement. I finally found love where I least expected it, my friend group. My boyfriend is a wonderful young man and makes me so happy. Again, thank you all! 😄

[@penguinvic9892]

Nice to hear from a woman like you. Good luck in your quest for a good man 👨.

[@bethanyboarder7751]

@@penguinvic9892 Thank you. I really need the consolation. It's even harder for people in college I think.

[@yvesgysel9834]

I know there are still good women out there, but honestly, a lot of good men have taken advantage of by not so good women. Me included. I interacted with modern women, and it's so disgusting the way they think about men. I admit there are asholes of men, too, with no values and morals, and you have no idea how many modern women are attracted to the asholes. To give you an example. Years ago, when I was still dating, I walked a young woman to her car in a parking lot to make sure she was safe. You know what she said, you are way too nice, my ex-boyfriend would never have done that. Another example: Actually, she was very enjoyable and kind during the date, so I paid for everything and we ended up 💋. Next morning, a text of her. I really enjoyed last night, and you are a great kisser. We should do that again. I replied back, "Yes, I enjoyed it too." You know what she texted back? In that case, I will not!!! I did not reply anymore. 2 weeks later, a text of her. Guess.... I have not heard from you anymore. Let's meet again, and I want my kiss. I just replied, "Do not bother, I am no longer interested." I promise you a couple of these experiences, and you are done dating. Eventually, I met a very good woman by walking and talking. I was totally done with relationships, but she kept pursuing me. Eventually, I agreed to have a drink, and I was looking for all the red flags and set up boundaries. I really took my time and moved very slowly to get to know her better. No kissing, but always leading. She must truly have liked me cause she respected my boundaries and also gave me time. Now I am glad she did. She's a really good person. Maybe you should try it as well.

[@kcb8130]

​@@bethanyboarder7751 find a man with good character and then you the woman approach him I'll guarantee you he'll be interested

[@ddjj8]

​​@@kcb8130I have to be honest with you just because you're approaching a good man and even if you're a good woman doesn't mean he's going to be interested. Men are not just putting off women in relationships men are also fighting against government oppression of our resources and our lives in general. Government has used women as a weapon just like Satan did in the Garden Of Eden. This is not something that's going to repair overnight in fact it's going to be another generation before men are actually even interested in relationships at all. Everyone is better off looking for the second coming of Christ instead of worrying about if I can get in my next relationship. The biggest problem with America is that it got away from the core beliefs God & Family. Women have allowed themselves to be used as a weapon against their own families therefore an over-correction was inevitable it just took decades for it to happen. The problem with how women think is that you don't understand that men are problem solvers and once men solve a problem they don't like to go back to the same issue because it just doesn't make sense to keep going back to the same problem. I am a GenXer in our generation is known for giving harsh truth and this is it. Take this information two heart it is not meant to be cruel even if it's going to feel like it is, but it is simply meant to give you an insight of what you are going to be experiencing in the future without using BS language to make you feel good because that is the last thing you women need these days. Tough but loving words for you ladies ❤❤✝️✝️🙏🙏

[@kennethumberger1049]

Being married twice from the age of 21 when my girlfriend got pregnant to 25, where I was married for 11 1/2 years in both cases, the first one was a young woman who worked nights, got the drugs, and had an affair. My second wife was a complete serial cheater using me as a Plan B as I tried to keep the family together towards the end she even got pregnant by her affair partner, so there she could baby trapping and leave me. The second marriage I had was to a woman that was raised in the church the pastor of the church, as I would have no problems with her and promised me that divorce and affairs wouldn’t be a problem, and yet she was the worst of a lot. I have been single since 1989, because I can’t trust or believe anything a woman says to me I’m much happier than being with any woman and I think the majority of men are headed that way

[@penguinvic9892]

Two sad stories for the one guy. So sorry for you 😢. I got an incredible lesson on female dishonesty when I accidentally became an overnight celebrity overseas. My hotel constantly and literally threw women into the street who falsely claimed to be my wife / girl friend / left something behind in my room / was the sister of my wife / that I was the father of their very un-European-looking baby, etc. This happened so much eventually the hotel didn’t bother even telling me. Apparently this sort of thing happens to pop stars all the time. I can tell you the novelty wears off very quickly !

[@nexttimeism]

We're there bro.

[@user-er8dl8cq2n]

I cant speak for other men, because some men do just want the fun stuff, but I have been actively pursuing a monogamous relationship my whole adult life. Now at 40 years old I have completely stopped trying just focusing on myself now. I feel bad for the young generation coming up they are screwed!

[@johnthedespicabledutchman7406]

"... I feel bad for the young generation coming up they are screwed!..." As a very fit and physically active retired Baby boomer, I sadly have to 100% agree with you, thank goodness I grew up in a different era which wasn't stuffed up by a particularly nasty gender-biased, gender movement.

[@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485]

42 was married for 11 years kept my vows it was mostly sexless the last 7. She started out pretty good but yeah it like most went downhill. Oh and I still did the dates, trips helped out at home and what did she do for me? Less and less. It’s pretty much a wrap right now. Tried to date some the last years but yeah I’m not that top 5 percent and if your not you will be treated as not very important. Welcome to the new world isn’t it great.

[@Luigi931]

Feminism killed relationships between men & women. We grew up watching Boomer and Gen X men get destroyed in court. Now in 2024, it's like no thanks, I can keep myself occupied, focus on my career, hit the gym, etc. Now everything is going well and I'm being encouraged to approach women and lose half of everything I have. Who's interested in that?

[@johnthedespicabledutchman7406]

@@Luigi931 Well said good sir, not one statement you have made can I disagree with and yes, as a very active gym member who works out every day, and networking with other young single men at my gym, I have noticed this trend within the last ten years that most of these good, decent hard-working men are purposely avoiding of having a serious relationship with a woman and are focusing on their careers, their sports, their hobbies.

[@535wer]

I know it’s really sad. Things need to change and this is not a Christian nation because if it was this would not be happening to men in court! This bullshit should have stopped years ago. It’s weird going to the gym now days, men don’t even acknowledge women anymore.

[@scottifly]

Yes, men are choosing not to participate in relationships with angry, swearing, loose, entitled women. We just wanted to be with someone reasonable and pleasant to be around. Instead, we got 70 to 80 percent of divorces initiated by women and a legal system that punishes and even destroys men in the divorce process. Leaving seems like a great option for most men now. It makes me sad but this is where society is. What can you do to help fix this situation?

[@allynflinchbaugh4570]

Convert to Islam, support Islamic immigration to the West, vote out the entire system, and impose sharia law like Saudi Arabia.

[@thmphll]

💯 And they are only interested in it with a man who already did all the hard work, the guy must have it all complete... once he does they all come out of the woodwork. They all harping on about what I man must have or bring to the table, which is what women used to team up with men to build. "Step up your game men and get these things, let me know when you are done... I am going to go have fun with all these guys over here until you do"

[@BetaBuxDelux]

@@thmphllYep, and once your making a good income and have investments you realize marriage isn’t worth the risk of losing half your retirement. I’m not super wealthy and a divorce would make the difference between a pretty nice retirement and going back to just getting by. Yeah, no thanks.

[@jdbroders64]

Men want peace, affection and appreciation from their women. That's all we ask. Something these young woke women don't understand who will be in their 50s with their cats and box wine wondering why they're lonely with no men or children in their lives.

[@dmark2639]

The only thing average men can do now is to walk away and let it all collapse. Our weak "leaders" have led us away from God, and right over the cliff by placing women's feelings ahead of strong nuclear family values.

[@bforce3824]

Gen X here. I can remember the good days, good relationships and what that felt like. Now I find myself divorced and more and more, I can see that what I knew as a relationship is damn near impossible these days. Until something changes, staying single is definitely the smarter move. I feel bad for my kids.

[@jdbroders64]

She divorced me after 15 years of marriage in 2008 and got more than half. She got the house with all of my stuff, the furniture etc., car, alimony, and a major part of my retirement. It took me over a decade to dig out of the financial black hole hell I went through. If I had a son of age right now that was thinking about getting married, I'd strongly advise him to not do it. Why? Because she can wave her fickle finger anytime and ruin him financially whenever she pleases and they know it. Divorce court delenda est. Don't do it guys. I'm recently retired, single and content and and have no desire to marry again ever. No incentives and all negatives when they can take half of your stuff just because.

[@MikeS-7]

I laugh at the 50% claim. It is more like 75% and often indentured servatude to boot.

[@user-jk5cp8uf2f]

I wish I had the number of how much go back into taxes for the government. I am sure thats a huge reason for it. Same reason I think men going their own way is "demonitized' as it hurts governmetn spending as the taxes for that revenue are starting to dwindle.

[@deadreckoning6288]

​@user-jk5cp8uf2f Spot on. With gov't it's always about how much money they can squeeze out of you. It cares nothing for people beyond that. $$

[@snidecommenter7117]

If there is any justice she spent it all and is now broke.

[@idid1866]

Mostly a survival thing...box becomes worthless!

[@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485]

It’s value is plummeting

[@jeffreyhavlik3562]

We are seeing all time lows in the stock of BOX.

[@bhewi1982]

@@jeffreyhavlik3562 Bear market

[@laststop3h]

I appreciate honesty from a woman on this issue. Men are walking away and for good reason.

[@Hokieredneck]

the kids are ALWAYS our kids. i hate when women say they are MY kids

[@seankingwell3692]

their kids their abortion......only to complain that the men are never around....wonder why.....

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

they ALWAYS say that. "MY" kids. I correct them everytime I hear it even to strangers who I hear say it. They look at me like I popped out of no where. lol

[@Yut00bisSUS]

Guys, sometimes they are right tho. A lot of women get impregnated by a bum and trick a financially stable guy into raising her children. I ran across some statistic that said 30-40% of babies are raised by men who are not the father. That is insane. If ya'll have children it might be a good idea to get dna tested.

[@ShatteredF1re7733]

I have been thinking about this lately. I wonder if women say "MY kids". Because they know, deep down, it is the ultimate insult to the fact that it is actually "YOUR kid". I can't help but think (because of women constantly saying "MY kids") that maybe the sperm is the soul (it literally moves on its own) and the egg is just a parking space for a soul to latch onto. It is almost like women have exposed reality through their nastiness. The other day, I heard a woman say. "I chose to carry that man's child." and it made me think, she knows it's his baby and she is responsible for looking after it. Which made me think about abortion, what if during an abortion the only life lost is a man's (soul) child. This would kind of explain why women have no problem with abortions, because women don't create souls like men do. So, she is not destroying one of her souls during an abortion. She is destroying a man's soul. This thought being so outlandish made me question if it is the truth. (So crazy it's probably true.) LOL, I AM A MAD THOUGHT SCIENTIST. Sometimes it’s just fun to see how deep rabbit holes go. Cheers to having kids. I am childless and apparently have way too much free time. It is way past my bed time. Thanks for being my guineapig.

[@Yut00bisSUS]

get your dna tests, gents, because it could be true.

[@PCC-rs6vz]

I'm what you would call a sigma male. I was married, she divorced me after a 19 month marriage. It took 17 years to repair the financial strife this created. I tried dating again 14 years ago. Then this woman was playing the market on the side. So I broke it off. Since then I have had zero fiscal interaction with any women. I have gone my own way, and have grown to a different level, where women, just don't meet my requirement. I'm extremely stable in my finances. At 51, I would be an idiot to get involved again. I'm not rubbing this under women's noses. I'm pointing out that a man does not actually need emotional ties, a woman due to them being created as emotional beings, to show compassion towards their offspring, do. Regards

[@mrmped1]

When they did a survey of single mothers vs single fathers, guess what they found out? Single fathers make better parents, are more nurturing and their kids perform better in the world.

[@davek5777]

One sigma male to another: I salute you. Peace and blessings.

[@PCC-rs6vz]

@@davek5777 To you as well, be safe. Regards

[@SartorialisticSavage65]

It was supposed to be a team effort to build something together but now women take short cuts, pay the ultimate price in the long run, share the same men and live a futile career feminist life.

[@seankingwell3692]

and the children suffer for it never learning family roles because its all about working and not relating.

[@Mikeycambovideos]

I lost 40lbs, got off my cholesterol meds, cured myself from depression with exercise & diet, moved to the Philippines & Cambodia from North America. Completely changed my outlook on love, dating, marriage, relationships, culture, politics, feminism, and family values. Get your passport, guys. Being in love here is amazing.

[@AZrakoon]

My mom did hospice. She told me some people couldn't die, because they are so worried that they're relationship with a family member isn't fixed. Once it's fixed, they leave the planet.

[@seankingwell3692]

bless your mother she is a wise woman

[@alfasiger4178]

I am a 39 year old virgin and was afraid of telling people I'm an incel. Now I'm not afraid because many men told me they wish they were like me. I can show off now. Can't miss what you never had.

[@txlyons2937]

Sex is delightful when you can get it, but you don't _need_ it like you need water and oxygen. Remember that. A lot of men never realize that, and it makes them desperate and miserable.

[@yvesgysel9834]

You missed absolutely nothing 💯. The intimacy can be great in the beginning, and then marriage happens. From that point on, the intimacy will get lesser and lesser, while your stress level will increase dramatically, having to deal with her not being happy, causing unnecessary drama... Then, children are involved and even more stressed to keep your family together. Cause what I have learned with most modern women. The degree of selfishness is unbelievable. It's all about how she feels and good luck to keep her happy. That's just impossible. Eventually, she can file for divorce very easily. The ex-husband pays alimony, child support, losing 50% of the assets and not having access to the children like he would want it. I think many former husbands can relate to that. I know guys totally destroyed from the bad consequences of a divorce. Living in their cars, losing everything what they worked for. Do not marry, stay single and search for your own purpose...

[@alfasiger4178]

@@yvesgysel9834thank you There seems to be a call for the destruction of men and masculinity. i cant help but see some kind of agenda

[@nerychristian]

Marriage is a beautiful thing. But it is only worth it if you can find an attractive woman who is a virgin. Otherwise, they will have too much emotional baggage, and she will always compare you to her previous boyfriends.

[@yvesgysel9834]

​@@nerychristianI agree it used to be. Marriage was the way to build a nuclear family. However everything changed. I have interacted a lot with modern women, hoping to understand them. Without being judgemental. When they are younger it's mostly about the fun and some have a very high body count. Not saying all, but for the most part. Starting being sexual active at 15, 16, 17... So searching for a virgin is pretty unrealistic. Now let's say you find yourself a virgin, indeed less baggage... Later on she might get influenced by other women to explore herself, especially if things are a bid down in the relationship. You get my point. In the past women would be shamed by other women if they would cheat, now it's encouraged. I wish it was different, but it's not.

[@MasticinaAkicta]

Modern marriage is like a handgrenade, and guess who holds the ring...

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

and willing to pull. A man would throw that granade away because he knows he is here for his family. The woman is there for HER and "her" kids plus house, child support, alimony, etc.

[@matalagrecia1325]

Put that on a shirt! Lol😂

[@Yut00bisSUS]

The juice ain't worth the squeeze.

[@trashcan9001]

i really love this phrase. it really tells you EVERYTHING you need to know as a man about this subject

[@joenemeth9606]

Have walked. Past tense. We are now gone.

[@ryanlorance6168]

💯💯 been gone

[@kieranoneill3102]

Governments should be stamped out of marriage and women should be held accountable for divorce and everything else that they do!

[@gene2256]

I don't know where women got the idea that men want a "challenge" in a woman when it comes to relationships. Those of us men who work hard at our careers already have a challenging life, we desire the opposite of a challenge when it comes to relationships. Men don't desire feminists, it's pretty simple...

[@dmark2639]

Because women DO NOT understand men AT ALL.

[@billwilson3665]

I've told my 21 year old son several times 'getting married is not something you have to do and if you want to, be very careful with American woman'.

[@fatherburning358]

I will walk soon. Kids are almost old enough. Theyre teens now. There will be no reward for either of us financially. I wont need assistance but she probably will. Wont be on me. She chose to give bare minimum and i chose to put up with it. Anyway clock is ticking.

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

as soon as they are past the age of child support, be OUT, my brother. These women are hella selfish because mose stop maturing at age 16. They resume at age 60 but are 16 going on 17. Be OUT. Fly over seas, get a decent chic and enjoy. Or stay here and just play the game with these ones, ugh. #Passport Have had my for 10 years.

[@nexttimeism]

Run Forrest run!!!!!!!

[@d00vinator]

I met my wife 41 years ago; we went through some real shit 11 years in, due mostly to her listening to a toxic, drama queen friend. She got meaner and meaner and finally I stormed out and left, for 10 weeks. She called me and made it clear that she had a true change of heart and respected me (to make a very long story short). She left the toxic friend behind and we've been doing OK (mostly; nothing's perfect) for 30 more years now.

[@MidnightPolaris800]

Yea and she got ran through for 10 weeks by Chad thunderstroke 😂

[@richardross7219]

There is no choice but, for self preservation. Most women seem to be very self centered and crazy. I was married to my other half for almost 39 years. She died from a tick bite. I've been mourning her loss for almost 7 years. I can not see getting involved with any women these days. When I lost my wife, I also lost most of the stress in my life. Women made their feminist beds now, they can live with it. It looks like we are all going to be having very tough financial times ahead. It could easily get worse than 95 years ago. Good Luck, Rick

[@P8860]

"When I lost my wife, I also lost most of the stress in my life" WOW! That is a profound statement. Thanks for keeping it real.

[@WinglessRain]

I had one going for about 7 years, but it went very bad. Broke my heart for half a decade, and when I was feeling ready to try again, I got sucked into big brother's web. 6 years later, I'm almost ready to get back out there and try again. I never cared about 'casual' things, or 'dating,' and my goal was always to find someone with a brain I could have children with. I'm giving it until I turn 40, so another 2 years, then I guess I'll settle for 'casual' things, while accepting that my bloodline dies with me. On the subject of marriage? Never.

[@eldenking2098]

In marriage - - 1) She stays: You pay 2) She goes: You pay 3) She cheats: You pay 4) You go: You pay When men have a midlife crisis, we buy that sweet car we always wanted since we were 18 and we are roundly shamed for it. When women have their midlife crisis, they completely blow up the family and destroy everything. They are met with cheers of "You go girl!".

[@cuatrojr1]

Don't worry about leaving a legacy behind... the Government has Made shure that can never happen... just be happy Brother.

[@WinglessRain]

@@cuatrojr1 I can't be happy if I don't have one. I've fought and defeated monsters you can't even begin to comprehend to get to where I am, and "the government" looks like a pet cat by comparison.

[@snidecommenter7117]

Slow learner?

[@properfpv7160]

I would have stayed with her for better of worse. Was married for 14 years. When I realized she wasn’t as committed as I was it was difficult to accept. She was in it for a good time and didn’t take her vows seriously. I was very kind to her and she was extremely mean to me. It was miserable but when she slept with my best friend I stopped loving her. All my feelings for her made a 180* and I don’t talk to her or associate with her anymore. She tried to come back after breaking up with Sancho. I told her kick rocks. She lost me 1 million percent. She didn’t care how I felt in the least. Turnabout is fair play. She can cry herself to sleep for the rest of her life. IDGAF. She hurt me to the core. It took me 2 years to get over it to the point where I could date again. Will never get married again. It was not good for me, net loss. Bad idea. Women are too fickle and heartless. I make it clear upfront with the women I date that I am not interested in marriage. Women are as loyal as their options. I’m under no delusions anymore.

[@deadreckoning6288]

"Women are as loyal as their options." Ain't that the truth! 💔

[@jorgealicea2088]

Very nice video and extremely accurate. It's great to see a woman finally have the understanding of what men are saying. What the almighty wants from humanity.

[@johnkeith2450]

Am 65 and never married, but not by choice. Looking back, I can see that so few women were worth getting married to. And today I am surrounded by overweight, tattooed, married multiple times, bitter women.

[@seankingwell3692]

those are not women they are jezebels.

[@nerychristian]

By biblical standards, it is true. Very few women are worth marrying. The sign of a worthy woman is her purity and modesty, and her ability to love and be submissive to her husband. Very few women will ever be that.

[@trashcan9001]

old guy here. i can say that the most amazing wife material women ive met in my life, they where also very smart and got out of the dating market before turning 25! it really sucks because if you want a family you have to secure a good woman EARLY and this means having your shit together as a man at least by 30. not so easy noawadys.

[@nerychristian]

@@trashcan9001 True. Most of my classmates and friends who married young are still married and have children. Those women who didn't marry, or waited until they were older, seem to have less happy lives. I'm 43 and single. Never married. Wish I had been able to marry at a young age. But like most guys, it took me many years to figure out my life and get a stable career going. Now it's difficult to find women in their 30s who are wife material. Most single women in their 30's are either whores, or they are just unattractive.

[@splhome]

U seem vulnerable and open. MUCH RESPECT!!! Keep up the great work.

[@charleshurstreinvention3959]

It is unfortunate. Yes. The MGTOWs do have a point---big ones. But they say "we are winning." No one is winning and society is losing. Soon we will lose our country as this is just one symptom of a systemic disease in our nation of insanity with no moral grounding. But yes--we have walked away. I refuse to marry at now 55. I have a ton of resources and am still in the same shape I was at 30 as a still practitioner in thai kickboxing. Not all women are bad. But most are now. That is a fact--most. And it really comes down to not wanting to swim in filthy water for the periodic finding of a small piece of clean land. The effort of figuring out who is ok in that small percentage---it just isn't worth the swim. Most of us don't have the energy for it any more. It's a shame but that's my nickel's worth.

[@Steve-iq2ux]

Well framed- excellent comment brother, best words I’ve read on any channel in weeks

[@jackdeniston6150]

Not all women are bad, but all available women are.

[@dmark2639]

Why fight for a dying nation that hates men and everything we have built for society?

[@MikeS-7]

Nobody wins. In the current environment the only way to "win" is not to play the game. It just means you retain your resources and autonomy - freedom.

[@garrett621]

You're right. Nobody wins in the long run.

[@jonf2009]

Married 15 years, once we had the large home she admitted wanting kids was a lie and then stopped cooking cleaning or taking care of her health. She passed last year and now looking at what is out there a wife is not a desire. I have more money, peace and lower stress without a wife. I am a highly eligible bachelor now by women's standards, but truthfully I cook better and keep my home cleaner alone.

[@dmark2639]

You lucked out in the game of life, bro!

[@jyeeeee]

Women: Share your emotions Men: While I'd like to be in a relationship or marriage, today there's too much legal risk, too many consequences, and few (if any) rewards for men to be married, so I'd prefer to live alone. Women: Eww that's toxic

[@plumbbobconstructionpants5599]

Yes we want relationships, just not with the women who are available.

[@Dan.50]

If I had to do my life over I wouldn't have even ever spoken to one. I would have avoided them at all costs, because the cost is your life.

[@robgrey6183]

In ancient Rome, the State had no part in marriage. Marriage was a contract between two people and their families. Worked for a long, long time.

[@albertoarmando6711]

I saw my uncle get ruined by divorce. A guy that had EVERYTHING figured out, lost everything because my former aunt woke up one day wanting to have a second adolescence. My uncle had to pay for her whim. Lost his house, got depressed... you know the story. Marrying and cohabitation should be avoided, plain and simple.

[@mckeeasdf]

Most men want kids that can't be taken away from them, whenever she wants to. That is no longer an option. So most of don't even try to start a family anymore.

[@jaynikk758]

The only woman I would ever wife nowadays is one that has traditional conservative values based on the Bible

[@disndat1000]

You are incorrect. There are ways, actually simple ones. Search for my other comment in this comment section.

[@katie1987_]

if you looked at the actual statistics men that don’t have their children in a divorce agreed on that, the men that fight for their kids get them most of the time.

[@williammickler3757]

@@katie1987_ The actual statistic is 10% of the time, but don't let a pesky thing as reality spoil your narrative!

[@katie1987_]

@@williammickler3757 because the rest don’t actually want their kids, hope this helps!

[@rickyfargason8859]

Being a part time artist I'm always observing culture. Ayn Rand once said "Art (including literature) is the barometer of a culture. It reflects the sum of a society's deepest philosophical values: not its professed notions and slogans, but its actual view of man and of existence." I'm also Gen X and remember growing up listening to music. I've noticed something missing in music today. Where are the love songs? Where have they gone? I don't recognize them today. Do we think such songs were cheesy and not reality? Or is there something else going on? I know creativity has taken a backseat to wokism making movies and TV almost impossible to watch. Hollywood feeds the masses remakes of movies of the past or superhero movies, which shows our need to have heroes to admire. Music and movie content tells us a lot about our current situation culturally. It influences and reflects what we value and what we don't value. My question. Do we value love anymore?

[@seankingwell3692]

BINGO!!! It all starts with schooling children which should really be called grooming children parents rely on it as a crutch to parenting, and it sets children up with really unrealistic expectations on life. Kids get the impression from family and society that its all about work and avoiding relationships because our slave culture views relationships as distractions. Putting kids in school is a form of child sacrifice. The promise of a good worker made out of your child is the sugar slaves are addicted to. Truth hurts lies kill. Government is the parent of parents, and children with no one to guide them that knows right from wrong. Society relies on competition not cooperation, it relies on hate instead of love. People are confused why they can't manifest things because they learn to force authenticity for others and never wield themselves. Its all submission, right into adulthood. That leaves adults very insecure, and insane.

[@dmark2639]

Love cannot truly exist in a selfish society.

[@txlyons2937]

No, our culture doesn't value love anymore. We value perversity, and we call that "love."

[@rickyfargason8859]

@@dmark2639 Very true. I miss those days.

[@nerychristian]

Today's love songs are Taylor Swift songs. Songs that talk bad about men.

[@TechT1999]

I lost my wife of 18 years in Nov 2023, She was an amazing woman and I miss her dearly. As a widow now I don't think I will ever remarry. Too many downsides for men these days.

[@mistertime6457]

42 Never married. No Kids. No regrets. I had some nice ladies when i was younger. But even then it was clear they could only ever love themselves. You are correct, government and institutions, and corporations are indeed socially engineering us and destroying the family unit is a component of the plan.

[@katie1987_]

that’s sad, there’s so many conservative Christian women out there. hopefully you’ll stop listening to the lies and be able to have a family one day

[@dmark2639]

​@@katie1987_"Conservative Christian" women initiate divorces at the same rate as non-christian women. No difference at all.

[@eldenking2098]

@@katie1987_ Not from my experience and hundreds of thousands of other men. Another false dogmatic label to hide behind to obscure their real purpose to use their sexuality to dominate and control men. Men should never legally marry a women or sign a contract. Love does not need a contract only a corrupted government ran federal or state court which has no place in a family anyway.

[@danpost4755]

After what my ex did to me, I will never trust a woman completely again. We were childhood friends and teenage sweethearts. But, I did not know the real "her." Just the show she put on. Total narcissistic nut job. Of most of the friends I know who remarried after their first marriage ended, the vast majority regret it. In every case, the woman was the one who was unfaithful, abusive, or both. Maybe women should treat their men better. Just a thought.

[@Harmonyoversegregation-gq1qd]

Well, she figured it out... men with higher reasoning want family. Sex is meaningless when the family component isn't there.

[@MarinesCores]

People thinks that marriage is a game to them. Its pointless to get marriage in this morden social society

[@Nomasis1982]

Yes, just not with westernized women that are more masculine than most men.

[@alexis-hunter]

Rather more toxic masculine than men could ever be.

[@logicaltoafault6310]

Men won't get married because women won't stay married. Marriage/women used to be an asset, a help mate, someone to run ideas past, someone to pick up the slack in areas where you're weak, someone to support you when times get rough. However the prevalence of divorce has turned marriage into a liability rather than an asset. Men use role models to find the routes to success. Yet we watch men we admire for being successful, rich, famous, influential, kind, religious, compassionate, dominant, alpha...and none of it insulates them from divorce. There is so much at stake (present and future earnings) and not even a good calculated route to success, the only winning move is not to play. I'll have relationships, but I'll never marry and subject myself to the family courts.

[@joenemeth9606]

A marriage license brings the state and turns the marriage into polygamy

[@cattywampusmcdoogle]

more specifically, it makes the marriage a POLYAMOROS marriage because in the fine print, the government is listed as a husband... one wife and two husbands = Polyamory

[@kevindavis4709]

I call that the sex license

[@paulweston285]

Im in Thailand and the women here are just gorgeous, traditional, unentitled, happy, & fantastic. I will never date a western woMAN ever again ... ever. Western courts just crucify men time & time again. Its just amazing how many western woMEN just have no idea that the ship has sailed and that men have walked away.

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

BINGO! My cousin has been in Japan now (on an Asian tour) and having the time of his life.

[@villanousvic323]

Marriage means exclusivity, what exclusivity is there when the majority of women have slept around... It's depressing, how can i lay with a woman when I'm brought to the thought of how another man has taken her in such a fashion, that's like signing up for mental torture

[@PassionateSpirit88]

True. But even worse is your child being born from the womb of a woman who has been with another person sexually

[@tylerrjohnson68]

It's a lot easier getting over being lonely than a broken heart and financial ruin.

[@trashcan9001]

great

[@SCOTT77100]

You hit the nail on the head, sad but true. Good men are walking away from chaos, headaches, nonsensical issues etc....Man is walking away from that and reverting back to the Garden and their forefather Adam when he was with G_D before woman. The good man has learned he does not want or need woman.

[@michaelholmes3331]

The only way to not lose a rigged game, is to not play the game. What women find hard to get their head around is how men have adapted to that reality by walking away. they didn't think we had the ability to control our biological drives for a better life as bachelors. we will be watching the outcome of this new reality with emotionally detached interest.

[@abel4776]

Yep, not play the game, did the same with the IRS. All voluntary.

[@coastcity7029]

Exactly Erin. If you're ride or die ☠️ that means you're there for that person no matter what. You're their rock. I'd imagine your approach to taking care of horses was very similar.

[@CataclysmDM]

Bruh, I've seen too many relationships fail cuz of cheating women, or abusive ladies. Having kids that turn out to not even be theirs. I've also seen a lot fail because of terrible men, don't get me wrong. And there are real ones out there, I've seen those too, but... it's like finding a diamond in a pile of garbage. And yeah, like you're saying, the scales are weighted too heavy right now... getting married to the wrong person is DANGEROUS for a man. Like, REALLY dangerous.

[@larrytolson4135]

Hey, baby doll. I hope you’re feeling well. I admire your resilience to put these videos out there in spite of all that you’re going through. Thank you!

[@LLK-LEAD-LOCOMOTIVE-KING]

Yes we are checking out, women might have beauty but, that beauty fades away with all the games and the fact that we as men know, they know what we know what they have done and, still continue to do like they don't care giving that up anytime soon. But they won't stop because of the benefits of them doing so taking advantage would be missing, if they play right so, instead, they have to learn the hard way and, the only way they learn is by loss of a good man. That loss is also a double-edged sword, because we would love to have them but at the same time it's just too painful, just like when someone eats too much ice cream and then have a stomach ache afterwards. You're a very beautiful person Erin keep up the good work on the videos we're glad that you see what we go through, thanks for being there for us 💙😏💚

[@bobkonradi1027]

The comment is made... "women might have beauty."... Beauty is only skin deep, but Ugly goes clear to the bone.

[@penguinvic9892]

The question ALL guys must ask themselves is: Would I remotely be interested in this person if they were ugly? Or a 2 or 3 out of 10? If the answer is “No Way”, then what are you hanging around for?

[@user-qo1us9oc7g]

yes most woman are beautifull but after the deed she has to be beutifull inside too to be a keeper. Sadly most woman are crazy nowadays and never satisfied because they have it so easy and with so many options its impossible to keep one.

[@user-ml5pi3tr8h]

It's the beauty of the soul that matters. Best of luck finding that one!

[@cavaleirosemlicenca3894]

I only want one thing: peace and quiet. I don't want anyone trying to undermine my peace of mind, looking for problems and endless arguments. I realized that what I want is incompatible with family life with a modern woman, so I prefer to avoid them, and thus avoid problems.

[@DarkInception]

This. Me too. Modern women will rob you of your peace and soul. Stay single and happy bro.

[@hardasnails64]

It's all by design. You totally get it. A+ and gold star for you. Relationships and the family unit has been under attack for decades.