7 Feminine Secrets That Drive A Man Wild And Make Him Want To Pursue, Invest And Commit To You

Discover seven feminine secrets that drive a man wild and make him want to pursue, invest and commit to you in this video with Adrienne Everheart and Helena Hart.
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[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Get our Dating Unzipped Complete Collection here: everheartcoaching.com/complete-unzipped-collection/ Listen to my “Master Your Magnetism” podcast on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/show/2sQpQcwuijinXm5y8G06O3 …or on Apple Podcasts here (feel free to leave me a review!): podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214

[@MonicaSancio]

Love your offer, too! I want to get it as soon as possible 🤩💜☀️🙌🏼🥰❤️‍🔥

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, hope you enjoy it! ❤️

[@biankawilliams1544]

❤

[@zahararay5611]

I would pay big money to be a fly on the wall to watch both of you ladies interact with your men at home, out running errands, on a date. To watch how you talk to your men, your body language, facial expressions and how your men react to you. That would be incredible. I know that’s an outrageous ask, but still a girl can dream.

[@JulieMorales-z3w]

I think as soon as you focus on self you do become magnetic. When I walk into a room, all eyes are on me. Even women. Especially women. It's very interesting to be so self aware you can read others. It's incredible to have this gift.

[@renewyourmind1815]

I was recently at a baby shower that a client invited me to. I'm an equine farrier, and they have mini donkeys. They aren't trained to stand for trims, and the first few times I was there, my client held them, but we both struggled to get the job done. He had 3 men and himself ready to help the last time I was there. We flipped all 7 donkeys to keep them and myself safe so that I could trim them, and the men held them down to keep me safe. His brother - who I just met there the last time - was there helping, and he was really watching me as I trimmed them. He was also at the baby shower! I tried to make small talk with the women and show interest in their life, children, hobbies, but they acted like I was there to take their men. Oddly enough, it was the men who were walking up happy to talk to me, not the women, so I ended up stuck talking to all the men who were already married or dating someone. His brother got there an hour late, but boy, was I happy to see a friendly face. I had no idea if he was single, but he was so nice and he wasnt with anyone. I walked up and said, "Hey! You made it!" His eyes *lit up*! We spent the next 4 hours chatting. When my client walked out by us away from where the group was, I realized that we were the last people there on the property! Everyone else had left. He seemed very interested in me, but he had all night to ask me for my number and he didn't, so I said, "I better go, it's getting late. It was nice chatting with you!" Then I immediately went to my car and left. His face sunk when I said that, so I'm sure he knew his opportunity to ask me had closed on him. But there will be other times if he is serious. I kind of felt like Cinderella in cowboy boots 😂 I had such a great time talking to him. He's a successful business owner, and he said he really wants to settle down and have children someday. As we were chatting he discovered I like to fish, kayak, hike, and hunt. A drunk guy he knew wagged his eyebrows at him and said, "Well she sounds perfect for you man! When is the wedding!?" We both laughed it off but he was definitely interested! My face must have been bright red laughing when his friend said that 😂

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here! 💖

[@TheJosiejumper]

I still have zero luck with men I never get asked out people gravitate towards me but it never feels in a romantic sense x

[@JulieMorales-z3w]

@TheJosiejumper Shift your thinking and you will. If you keep making that statement. That will be your 3D

[@nadinerorden2715]

When you let go you become magnetic!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, we talked more about that in this episode: kzbin.info6U4mjbqLE_8?si=n15P2x9_6nQOPWHJ

[@Aqm917]

I'm not usually big on relationship coaches but it's refreshing to hear from women who are in successful marriages. Sharing good tips and advice. Thank you

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💕

[@AudreyLuerding]

My two favorite coaches ❤️❤️❤️

[@poisonivy1985]

Me too ❤

[@danilaroche1156]

Me too. These ladies changed my life. I became a man magnet! Now mind you, I'm over 50 and I have men all ages asking for dates. God bless them both!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m happy to hear that, thank you! 💗

[@jessicaroybal9625]

❤

[@Debasmitabhadra466]

Beautiful.. *soft feminine energy* Combination of familiarity and unfamiliarity Combination of safety and mystery❤

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad that resonated with you! 💞 This podcast episode I recorded with Adrienne on a similar topic should also be helpful - you can listen to it on Spotify here: spotify.link/yM3PAoJeXDb …or on Apple Podcasts here: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214?i=1000602533951

[@naturalbeauty9202]

I love these two. I follow them both. You ladies have helped me so much with being in my feminine energy. As a single mother of two, I often have to be in my masculine energy, so reawakening my feminine feels so amazing. Thank you both for what you do!!!. I have Adrienne's 500 ways..and am learning so much!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m happy to hear that! ❤️ I also have several episodes with Adrienne on my podcast on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/show/2sQpQcwuijinXm5y8G06O3 …and on Apple Podcasts here (feel free to leave me a review!): podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214

[@samtadat]

You both had contribute in a big way to my understanding of myself... eternally grateful to you🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, I’m so happy to hear that! ❤️ I also have several episodes with Adrienne on my podcast on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/show/2sQpQcwuijinXm5y8G06O3 …and on Apple Podcasts here (feel free to leave me a review!): podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214

[@AdrienneEverheart]

This is amazing! I loved being on your show.

[@rebeccasaltzburg5553]

You are the feminine energy dream team!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I love everything you shared in this video, Adrienne! 💖

[@uncorkthemic5587]

We dated for two months (no sex) but emotional intimacy yes. I walked away after I had over invested, and he had no desire to commit, since he had two issues to work out. I followed ABCs to get a man back and I made my life juicy. I went paddle boarding, rollerskating, and hiking all over the place. I quantum dated and enjoyed it very much. It was really really hard because my intuition says that this man is very important. 30 days later I sent the Hail Mary Pass, and he responded with really enjoyed our time still working two things out. Sent him a simple Happy Birthday two weeks later, he thanked me. Two weeks later on May 24th he reached out wanted coffee soon. I responded how good it was to hear from him, that I would reach out when I return from Hawaii (he did not know dates I was leaving June 18th and returning June 28th). The night before I left for Hawaii he text wanted to see me soon. I text I was leaving would reach out when I returned from Hawaii. While I was away, I waited until 7 days into my vacation to text I was having a fabulous time but that I had thought of him. He responded immediately and wanted pics. I sent pics of scenery, and he thanked me. He said he was eager to be intimate with me, so I said I felt the same, yet had he changed his mind and ready for commitment? He said he was working on things. Four days after I got home I text “I’m home 😉. He doesn’t follow me on Instagram, but because I sensed he did, when I make a post I will be mysterious and make my life juicy. Within one minute of receiving my text message he called me. He was at my front door within six minutes of that call. He told me in person he really wanted to see me and he wanted to tell me that he was finally working things out and would reach out to me in a couple of weeks. Listening to your video this morning I realized that I neglected to share with him how I was feeling in his presence, but I’ve learned from this and I will do better next time. After following the steps in ABC’s to get a man back, and listening to your advice, it’s working out almost exactly like the script. Within two months he was reaching out to get me back. I plan on living my life to the fullest till he reaches out again. Thank you ladies for helping me! I’m feeling grateful that I found you! M

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💗 Thanks for sharing your experience here. I also have several episodes with Adrienne on my podcast on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/show/2sQpQcwuijinXm5y8G06O3 …and on Apple Podcasts here: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214

[@uncorkthemic5587]

@@HelenaHartCoaching thank you!

[@benniececiliamattox7426]

I’m just now reading this and watching this podcast. I’m curious to know how your relationship is doing with this special man. I really enjoyed your story.

[@McJenn2016]

Almost two years being in a committed relationship, I received not only a fancy exotic flower (im a plant person who grows food from seed and are my babies), he gotten me a diamond necklace!!! As an introvert person he is who doesn’t like crowds much, he is very forward with his energy while I mind my own business. I’ve started watching Mathew Coast and you in 2019. I’ve made hiccups along the way, but found myself the most gentlest, calm, well controlled man I’ve ever experienced in my life. Thank you, Mathew Coast, Mrs Everheart, and Rori Ray for helping me get my natural instincts back!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m so happy to hear that! Thanks for sharing your experience here! 💞

[@positivevibes5797]

Adrienne is an angle.... she is a ray of hope for broken hearts

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Adrienne is awesome! 💖 I also have several episodes with her on my podcast on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/show/2sQpQcwuijinXm5y8G06O3 …and on Apple Podcasts here: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214

[@Rosejordy]

So much value, learned so much from these two! ❤

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, I’m happy to hear that! 💗 I also have several episodes with Adrienne on my podcast on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/show/2sQpQcwuijinXm5y8G06O3 …and on Apple Podcasts here: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214

[@butterflygoddess2436]

Oh my gosh… this duo is just amazing… you both are two of my most trusted and most admired coaches. 💗

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you so much, I’m happy to hear that! ❤️ I also have several episodes with Adrienne on my podcast on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/show/2sQpQcwuijinXm5y8G06O3 …and on Apple Podcasts here (feel free to leave me a review!): podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214

[@Mamilicious23]

I love these tips. Men will pursue because you're different.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad you enjoyed them! 💖 This video might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/rZXFlIGBecqci6c

[@shaimoonharris2248]

I have a long distance relation..so he told me he won't be able to talk much this weekend of which i said ok take and have a nice time with the farmily..lo and behold he is more in touch with me more than ever

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here! 💜 These videos might also be helpful if you’re long distance right now: kzbin.info_Rm3bi1DNT8?si=wlrMBPJD7xQbVCvW and kzbin.infob6yUgQCtrzE?si=v5YAlXzrKf_GxSRO.

[@Jackie-fc9nb]

Hi Helena, how can you help someone to handle a man who takes his time to act? By this i mean his conversation is limited . Most times driven by the woman his dating. If i keep quiet he chooses to keep quiet too& when i initiate a conversation he becomes so sweet in his conversation. This confuses me. Is it still called chasing ​him, since i got to be feminine?@HelenaHartCoaching

[@teenafrench7236]

Wow Helena, incredible throw back🎉

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you! 💞

[@anastasiasharidaali8217]

You two both coaches are so inspiring always.. your duo is amazing...❤

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you! 💗 I also have several episodes with Adrienne on my podcast on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/show/2sQpQcwuijinXm5y8G06O3 …and on Apple Podcasts here (feel free to leave me a review!): podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214

[@xyz-gx9oy]

Adrienne is so real and sweet.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Here’s a link to the latest video I recorded with Adrienne if anyone would like to check it out: kzbin.info/www/bejne/r5bWdGuJmNxsl5Isi=C2CSggIzfrBfMTjw

[@MiladeOliveiraGaia]

I love it when you ladies get together❤❤❤

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks Mila! 💞 I also have several episodes with Adrienne on my podcast on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/show/2sQpQcwuijinXm5y8G06O3 …and on Apple Podcasts here: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214

[@MiladeOliveiraGaia]

@@HelenaHartCoaching thanks for sharing those!!😄👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼💗

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 🩷

[@Ji_jee]

Great video. Thanks ladies❤

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m glad you enjoyed it! 💕

[@anewchapter1336]

Love you both!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

We love you, too! 💞

[@tianiemitchell5692]

So they love it when a woman is real and honest and about herself

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, absolutely! 💕

[@TephaRhi]

You have both helped me SO much… thank you for another great video 💞🌷🌸🌹💞

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m happy to hear that! ❤️ I also have several episodes with Adrienne on my podcast on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/show/2sQpQcwuijinXm5y8G06O3 …and on Apple Podcasts here (feel free to leave me a review!): podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214

[@passionatev6640]

Thank you soo much such a beautiful brilliant masterpiece advice.❤😇🙏

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💗 Here’s a link to the latest video I recorded with Adrienne if anyone would like to check it out: kzbin.info/www/bejne/r5bWdGuJmNxsl5Isi=shhN5KQqOf9SAjgZ

[@MonicaSancio]

Thank you so much for your invaluable advice, Helena & Adrienne! It always feels best to stay in my feminine, and I get “hit on” all the time… But it really seems like most men are waiting for us to take the initiative? And/or they really just want sex 😅… So yeah, to attract the right guy for a committed relationship, stay feminine like a blossoming flower 🌹❤?

[@zahararay5611]

I totally agree with them seeming like they are waiting for us to take the initiative, I can only guess it is because they are use to us women being in our masculine and urgently perusing them. They've gotten spoiled/trained, but the more of us women who reclaim femininity, the more men will fall back into their masculinity. Also like you said if we stay feminine the right guy will be happy to pursue us.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💜 This video might be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/rZXFlIGBecqci6c

[@zahararay5611]

Helena!!!! Always feels nice to get likes and links from you❤xo

[@JulieMorales-z3w]

You guys are awesome ❤

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you! 🩷 Here’s the latest video I recorded with Adrienne if anyone would like to check it out: kzbin.info/www/bejne/r5bWdGuJmNxsl5Isi=1vYr8Z4INlGTB5WH

[@queenconscious2989]

Amazing content, thank you!!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m glad you enjoyed it! ❤️

[@melindasadiki1445]

Does this work for an older woman and a younger man?

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

It depends on the details of your situation, but in general I’d say yes. These video might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/rZXFlIGBecqci6csi=yTrH3HxtCMuCfR_C and kzbin.infoq3cJftI6Um4?si=FBd0tb62Jim3MsLv.

[@oliveb6318]

We need to figure out a way to get all of these gem videos of you two translated with CCs to other languages like Spanish and Arabic!

[@tianiemitchell5692]

Men are open and honest about themselves

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing, Tianie! 💞

[@Chaepn77]

❤thanks ladies, helps a lot,I am in aasvuline energy right now, and recognizing it helps😊

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m glad it helped! 💗 I also have several episodes with Adrienne on my podcast on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/show/2sQpQcwuijinXm5y8G06O3 …and on Apple Podcasts here: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214

[@Mamilicious23]

Mirror his texts

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing! 💞

[@claudiakanyembo5949]

Thank you ladies for sharing

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💜 This podcast episode I recorded with Adrienne on a similar topic should also be helpful - you can listen to it on Spotify here: spotify.link/yM3PAoJeXDb …or on Apple Podcasts here: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214?i=1000602533951

[@giovannarusso2601]

You two are amazing💖 thank you so much

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re very welcome! ❤️

[@pronobiska]

Hello Helena! Thank you so much, your advice helped me so much on my path❤. I have a question, I'm doing my best to stay in my femenine energy in my relationship but I sometimes struggle cause I earn much more than my boyfriend (he earns really little and I have a very good salary so it makes a big difference) , which means I'm often paying for stuff we do together. We also live in an apartment that belongs to me (he's paying me a rent since my mortgage is really big). This creates conflict with decorating for example - I try my best to let him decide on things but since it's my flat and me paying for decoration, I then feel resentmentI wanted to ask how do you handle femenine /masculine energies in today's world that challenges them so often? Maybe you already did and could direct me to a video? Thank you❤

[@monicaaustin5594]

Stay feminine....have you asked him about his vision? Where does he want to lead you? Your rentment comes from doing and not being...the money is a form of control...can you trust his leadership?

[@Sarahnotsayruh]

Hmm I've never been in this situation, but could he help you with some projects around the house? I think a lot of men have "acts of service"as their love language. So let him do small things, like drive the two of you when you go somewhere or bigger things like building or fixing something depending on his skill set.

[@pronobiska]

@@Sarahnotsayruh thank you Sarah, these are excellent advices. I haven't thought about it but you're right about acts of service being many men love's language!

[@dh.maitrijit4462]

Thank you so much !

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! ❤️ Here’s the latest video I recorded with Adrienne if anyone would like to check it out: kzbin.info/www/bejne/r5bWdGuJmNxsl5Isi=xBCjk1Y6oLsCI81u

[@RosieyAlexus]

I need to learn this lol 😂

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

This video might also be helpful if you’d like to learn more: kzbin.info/www/bejne/rZXFlIGBecqci6csi=lsOM8pWoOa0VZLvg

[@colleenmariebeautiful1897]

Love You Two Making Videos again, Sharing your Amazing Content Together... 💞 Thank You...🙏

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! ❤️ This is actually a clip from a livestream we did three years ago. The latest episodes we’ve done together are all on my podcast - you can listen to them on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/show/2sQpQcwuijinXm5y8G06O3 …or on Apple Podcasts here (feel free to leave me a review!): podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214

[@colleenmariebeautiful1897]

@@HelenaHartCoaching Will Do! Do you think you will do LIVE Videos again Together? I get so much out of LIVE Videos!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

The livestream I did last week was the last live video I’ll be doing for awhile as I’ve officially moved over to podcasts, but Adrienne and I go live together on my podcast pretty often. People can type their questions into the chat while we’re live, or call in and talk to us personally (and it’s 100% free). 💞

[@colleenmariebeautiful1897]

​@@HelenaHartCoaching❤️

[@ayotfreda5536]

I no longer cry, and yet I feel like crying and want to cry out all the pain.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here. ❤️ This episode on painful emotions and feminine energy might be helpful - it’s available on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/episode/7kaof9D1oRtWrGIhS8l4vg?si=D-KwerfqT_ioEL-p2bjc0g …and on Apple Podcasts here: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214?i=1000537909454

[@shas1998]

Hi great advice I have a question I am in menopause and not ovulating anymore and does a man still pursue you? Because of the analogy sperm swims to the egg what advice do you have for single menopausal women

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Absolutely! Most of my clients are over 60 and they’re all being pursued by quality men who treat them like gold. 💞

[@VictoriaGooch-zt8nr]

Wow they look alike

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you! Here’s a link to the latest video I recorded with Adrienne if anyone would like to check it out: kzbin.info/www/bejne/r5bWdGuJmNxsl5Isi=7iLPCH8PnusY7btw

[@akshayarumugam7542]

How does not taking action and being in feminine energy work when in a long distance relationship. When he waits for me to move to his country. So much masculine energy running around and trying to make it happen. How to remain in feminine energy then?

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

While I don’t know the details of your situation, these videos might be helpful if you’re long distance right now: kzbin.info_Rm3bi1DNT8?feature=share and kzbin.infob6yUgQCtrzE?feature=share.

[@Crudonna]

You’re wonderful girls❤❤❤❤

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you! 💗

[@TheJosiejumper]

Wow this is amazing thank you I soo needed to hear this ❤ nearly divorced and don’t no where to start xx

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! ❤️ This video might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/rZXFlIGBecqci6csi=QnoQ0qhMYoSqZvqS

[@funnygirlever]

It's been so hard to be feminine when he's careless and not sorry. I can hold it for a bit but I can take so much but so true. Cut it in half and say less. Let him worry about you beg you to see you more. Man hate nagging and upset women. Don't be mad. Let go faster and let him have the last word. Let him worry and show up to make it better. I'm trying and also it works when they do like you. Give them space and time. If they don't come for you their not that into you. Let go and move on.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your insights here! 💕

[@eliopearlman535]

What about if I stop chasing and he doesn’t even contact you in nearly 3 weeks but you notice he’s watching your story’s on social media

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

While I don’t know the details of your situation, this video might be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/n3e5iJ-OZ7Sfo6Msi=XjPXy9hpY813jz3f

[@tonnifaber2963]

My question is.. and, Helena had described in a statement in one of her videos with Tom (l can't remember which one).. but can you discuss or help frame a statement about what you want ultimately from the relationship ..ie: see yourself being married or wanting to be married without putting pressure on your man. We have been dating for nearly two years & he is always making plans to see me & discusses plans for the future together... like building a home together. He is kind & always makes me a priority, he shows me by doing vs not always being big on words. I know he is sincere. Anyhow, l don't know how to broach the subject of marriage.. l want to keep it open as something l want someday without putting pressure on him. Does that make sense? Please help😊 Thank you

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

These videos might be helpful for your situation: kzbin.info/www/bejne/nHbcep2GjpJojJo and kzbin.infonlTLBzqG_Tg?feature=share.

[@giulias.5104]

Sweetheart, if I was you, I would ask myself: do I want to be married soon? When is MY timeline for marriage? Two years is enough to get to know someone and see if we like them, one year is enough. Don't wait, ask him. If he has different ideas from what you desire for your life, as painful as it is, you have clarity about his intentions. Take care. ❤

[@costelloandlizzievolk2233]

A guy friend that I felt confused about reached out last minute to say he was in town for the evening and a day, and would like to say hi. But he was here with his girlfriend and I was working. I felt super confused anxious and triggered. We had agreed to be friends so I offered a couple options to meet only to have him say he was busy with his girlfriend so it would be ‘too hard to coordinate’ and ‘let’s do another time’. I was surprised and hurt so just said ‘oh ok’. I think he may have picked up on my anxiety but it all confused me, and I was left feeling hurt and mad. Do I say something to him about it?

[@Famous5821]

No as the feeling was all in "Your head". Sadly, he is only seeing you as a friend. Because he does not see you in same light, If you say something about how you felt, you will look "crazy". Having been hurt in a similar situation. Walk away now and save your self. Next time he calls say you are busy. And be very busy forever.

[@costelloandlizzievolk2233]

@@Famous5821 thanks, but my feelings were valid and not ‘all in my head’. It was crappy of him even as a friend to reach out last minute only to leave me hanging and then be unavailable, so I’m allowed to feel upset about it as it came across as playing games. But yes I will disengage and do what’s best for me. Thanks:)

[@artsbybware4790]

@@costelloandlizzievolk2233i agree with you. Your feelings are very valid and it was indeed crappy of him to plan on saying hi and them suddenly be unavailable. Definitely not “in your head at all”. I hate when people invalidate feelings and say that. Smh.

[@megmelissa8532]

Is this information in a book??

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

The link to Adrienne’s book is in the description of this video, and here’s a list of my e-books and programs: helenahartcoaching.com/ebooks/

[@Jess-wk5jo]

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[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Hi Jess, thanks for watching! 💕

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I think I drown the last couple men I dated, lol

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I would love something for those of us already in relationships on how to keep things going and nourish it @helenahart

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

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