Do Women Really Care About a Man’s HEIGHT? The Surprising Truth About Female Preferences

[@k.k8291]

Of course it matters. But not all women are equally focused on it.

[@XxIsolationistxX]

The problem I see more, as a shorter man, is that women see tall men as a "trophy" and as a means of demonstrating status among other women. Men over 6'0" are a rarity, and I feel undervalued competing in a market when, news flash, my mom is short and my own father doesn't even break 6'0". My mom is 4'10". Honestly getting sick of being told that I'm "cooked" and that I should just "kms" from immature people because of the circumstances of my own birth. Social media has truly broken society. I didn't ask to be born to a short mother. I didn't ask to be born period, but here I am. I am above being dishonest; there should be no room in our society for dishonesty, and I'm not going to start, because I don't need attention from women who see height as a dealbreaker.

[@MrsHHart]

Thank you for your comment!

[@Innerfulfillment1111]

You are very fortunate and you don’t realize it right now. The truth is that a very good women will overlook what the majority deem as physical imperfections. We are not here to conform to the ideal height. What truly matters is your heart how capable are you of loving the women who comes into your life. A good women will love you for your character not your height. I am only 5’6 my current partner is taller than me and one of my ex partners was much taller than me it has not been an issue. You are more than capable I am not a male model I’m simply an average looking guy.🙏🏽

[@theguynextdoor4978]

As a guy who's only 5'7, it would be a lie to say it doesn't matter. But it doesn't matter as much as we think. In social media, many of these heightist women are saying outrageous things to get attention. Height matters to a lot of women, but it's not over for most of us.

[@CommandoMaster]

Height (and overall physical attractiveness) is what gets your foot in the door with women. Women are not even gonna give u the time of day to "get to know u" if u don't meet their looks threshold first. So saying personality matters more is meaningless if the girl is not interested in getting to know ur personality cuz ur too short or ugly.

[@jameswhiteman7840]

With respect to 'don't make your muscles too big' at 9:41 , I actually think anyone who says this doesn't know enough about muscles. A 'toned' body is literally a physique competitive bodybuilder, which takes many years of dedication to pure muscle growth to achieve. Arnold Schwartzeneggar, one of the muscleiest men of all time, was incredibly popular with the ladies in his prime, despite a gap tooth and insane accent. The *real* perspective is-- more muscle is only attractive until the point you start gaining fat, and the advice should be to always gain muscle up until you're roughly an amateur bodybuilder but don't sacrifice leanness in the long term

[@MrsHHart]

Agree that you shouldn't sacrifice too much leanness but this also falls on a bell curve. Some women like skinny guys, some don't!

[@jameswhiteman7840]

@@MrsHHart Agree, my point is the most common female statement I hear is "a lean guy with some muscle", but from my experience when they show a picture of "some muscle" it's like Michael B. Jordan or Chris Hemsworth, which is actually a *ton* of muscle to achieve for a man. A 0.1% tier of muscle gains, combined with leanness. So the most useful advice for dudes I think is prioritize leanness, gain as much muscle as you can without steroids, and they will never ever actually get 'too much' muscle, like Hemsworth's body isn't even achievable naturally

[@Neoteny-j4z]

It works both ways. A lot of us like petite women. My dating history isn't huge, but I married the tallest girl I ever asked out. She's 5'2"

[@Armored_Saint]

As I beat my head against the wall. Running round in circles in vain. I'm feeling 3 foot tall. You don't understand. I'm fading away, yeah. ~ Ozzy (1981)

[@CommandoMaster]

I would discourage men from lying because u don't want to deal with the kind of women that only value superficial qualities like height. So it's also better not to lie, so u filter out those entitled, pretentious, and delusional type of women, and only match with women who are genuinely interested in getting to know u.

[@themanwithnoname9578]

Actions speak louder than words

[@schmiddy8433]

I'm an 8 or 9/10 for appearances but I'm 5'6 and I'm just gonna say it's devastatingly hard to get any matches because of it. I'm arrogant enough to go for a girl that's taller than me but unfortunately that has never turned out for me which sucks because of how many girls are exactly my type but don't even give me the time of day. Even many girls at or just under my height don't even give me a shot because why would they when there's a guy as good looking as me that's 5 inches taller. It seems like I only truly have a shot with the quiet/shy/awkward girls who don't put themselves out there as much because when I give them attention it's actually special to them.

[@danieldancer4065]

look at their actions. That'll tell you the answer

[@fffrfrw]

How tall is your man?

[@goochmooch1of1]

yeah like tf ??? she didnt even mention that in 12 mins of yapping ?? if shes not seeing anyone how tall where her exes?

[@CommandoMaster]

Probably taller than her (most likely 6ft+) like all women who talk like her

[@ZA56AA]

Mrs Hart : Short Men dont worry. Me : I dont anymore because its over. pc: It was over before it even begun.

[@goochmooch1of1]

it never even began

[@ZA56AA]

Also Mrs Hart : I am 1.78 cm tall. Me : I am 1.68 cm tall. Mrs Hart : You are nice but i am just not interesting i only see you as a friend. Mrs Hart's inner mind : My God , this dwarf has got the nerve to come and hit on me, where are all the good Men?

[@LonnyHaviland]

The average height in most American men is 5'9"

[@magdagarrag8968]

Yes they care

[@furkanbozdag8198]

Debatable

[@FMJP]

Another important point is the female pheromones coming from their head a taller man is able to tell if there is compatibility issue or not in this department. Whether humans have pheromones is still a topic of debate, but some studies suggest that humans may respond to chemical compounds that have pheromone-like properties. Go figure

[@RAntonio93]

So you don't think shorter animals can detect pheremones? Can you explain how your dog knows you are home considering they are not taller than you?

[@FMJP]

@@RAntonio93 I don't consider myself to be an expert. I just know it is part of the process for me. You know blind people develop their senses to read the environment to an incredible level, but if they could, I believe they would prefer to see it :)

[@mikaeltsimbidakis6980]

Whats A predator?