"Do You Know Who I Am?" Traffic Stop Incident | Martin Hyde Case Analysis

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[@meligarrett9197]

Martin Hyde would be very disappointed to know that I have never heard of him.

[@pamelaneibuhr6959]

Me either

[@EricK-tb2dn]

Martin "Do you know who I am?" America- "No but we do now"

[@camillecoccagna194]

😂😂😂😂

[@9sheri9]

@MEG this is literally one of my favorite comments ever 💕✌️

[@karenkitchen6780]

@@pamelaneibuhr6959 Me either!

[@jsmalls9575]

You should automatically get an extra ticket for asking “do you know who I am?”. It’s beyond obnoxious.

[@9sheri9]

👏😂 I *love* this, it can be called something fancy & proper like "Failure to provide identification prior to demanding recognition"

[@morticiaheisenberg9679]

Lmfao yessss!! Let's get this on the books. Lol

[@TiptonMama]

It really is obnoxious. And I love using that word. It literally sounds like what it means, obnoxious lol

[@mbgal7758]

If you have to ask that question you must not be that important

[@crystald8465]

@@mbgal7758 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@Onwrikbaar]

At one point the officer tells Hyde "Nobody is above the law." I think that is what infuriated Hyde the most: the denial, by a woman no less, of his firmly held belief that he is fully entitled to ignore speed limits and to text while driving. The officer was extremely cordial and professional, I hope she got a promotion.

[@MrsPatPape]

He was really ticked because it was woman officer! That was a big part of it (other than him being a giant AH)

[@olilumgbalu5653]

The police believe they are above the law.

[@steveludwig4200]

She fired...

[@victoriaknapp7475]

@@steveludwig4200 She wasn't fired.

[@georgemccaffery3260]

As somebody who has had personal encounters with Martin Hyde, I can assure everybody that he is indeed unbelievably arrogant and narcissistic.

[@lornarettig3215]

Urgh!! How tedious for you!

[@sisuguillam5109]

I am so sorry he thought fit to be a tit to you. What a wally.

[@traceyarnaud8433]

No need to tell us, this video speaks volumes about who he is!

[@tombiondi9969]

Yeah, he seems like a king size D****

[@bradford_shaun_murray]

8:43 great observation of reason

[@janmarchand7294]

I watched it yesterday and was immediately turned off by this guy and loved the professional way the Officer handled herself. The way you treat others is a pretty good way of letting people know your real self I've always thought.

[@pamelaneibuhr6959]

Same here

[@eriklarson9137]

What else do you need to know about a person other than how they treat others? Everything else is a lie.

[@9sheri9]

@Jan Marchand agreed 💯 the officer did an amazing job of keeping her cool, staying professional, and not cowering to his shenanigans

[@truffles2721]

@@PHlophe skip the racial nonsense.

[@pathemeleski]

She was amazing

[@YasssStitch]

When female officer said "I understand you're influential" - he snapped back "VERY!". What a disgusting person.

[@suebarnes8212]

That was so gross, I couldn't believe that! He should be embarrassed, what an entitled a$$!

[@Cazador60140]

We are all equal but some of us are more equal than others

[@steveludwig4200]

She fired...

[@fws2572]

​@@steveludwig4200 No. She is still working there and gladly so

[@joanlash8581]

I noticed his intimidating behavior was escalated when alone with the female officer. He bullied her. When the male officers arrived his use of intimidation de-escalated. He talked to them like they were all members of a boy's club and should show that female she was lesser. The male officers seemed to play into that, maybe in an effort appease or to de-escalate. He even walked to the side of the road which he refused to do when asked by the female officer. He also did not threaten the jobs of the male officers. This man clearly resents women with power and probably women in general. He feels he has the right to bully women to get his way and men should keep women in their place. Wonder if he is divorced? The female officer held her own and did her job with dignity. The driver has no dignity.

[@ramon3300]

I agree with a 1000% percent.

[@stlyns]

Martin went from bully to victim depending on his immediate audience.

[@sawneybean8011]

Yes, I agree, he even called her 'young lady' instead of officer!

[@sublimnalphish7232]

It's still a large part of the patriarchy. So many seem to think it's ok to raise a boy that way and then wonder why the world if fd up. Even woman allow this to continue. My mother did , all my female teacher did. And I've seen woman get so mad when ya say boys need to be raised to not abuse woman and how we all need to take a look at how we treat our boy over our girls. I've been chuffed at just for saying that by woman. Sad really, sad.

[@housecattt]

Divorced 4 sons

[@leeann4743]

I watched the original body cam interview, The officer was perfectly polite and appropriate--- doing her job. Mr. Hyde was rude, condescending, misogynistic, uncooperative and bigoted.

[@haydencooper_]

You forgot delusional 😄

[@TK-ge2gh]

It is why many should follow a right to remain silent even without being instructed to do so.

[@ruthgoldblum919]

Martin sees himself as a man of the people and as such he has always stood up to bullies. I think in this case, Martin Hyde initially perceived this particular cop as a "bully" and so he automatically went into fight mode. After the fact, Martin realized he misjudged the cop and so he apologized. What's the big deal?

[@haydencooper_]

@@ruthgoldblum919 are you serious? Any rational person would realise 1 minute into the interaction that she was a very fair, no attitude cop doing her job. He didn't seem to understand that one bit and absolutely launched a disgusting crusade against her, threatening that she'd lose her job and have to answer to higher powers. Really bullying and undermining behaviour that he couldn't seem to see was wrong at the time. That is what the big deal is. What's more is he was using his phone and speeding, he didn't even deny that. He showed a really horrible, mean spirited and almost cruel way of handling a situation that should've been a non event and all over within 5 minutes. He had time to calm down and see she wasn't a threat to him yet he even lied to the other cops and continued the illusion that he was some victim and that she will pay for how she treated him. It's defamatory. Luckily the video showed the world that he was just a scheming liar playing victim.

[@TK-ge2gh]

@@ruthgoldblum919 The cop was a bully because she asked for his license? Ok, got it!

[@MrChrisgilbert1977]

Makes me feel ashamed to be British. The only thing I can console myself with is that my brother knocked him out at a Millwall match in the 80s. He thought he was something back then also.

[@Holly-zp5fu]

Don't worry Chris we do not judge you Brits on the basis of one jackass. We Americans have a lot to answer for, we gave you Meghan Markle.

[@couchpotatoe3204]

Awesome! :)

[@barrysrobbins]

Brilliant!

[@mikalabaker6110]

Lol, go brother!!! Don't be embarrassed to be British, I too am British, English specifically, and Hydes horrible self is all his own.

[@Thebustermann]

He's not British. Not at heart. A true Brit acts with decorum and respect, and a slight emphasis on sarcasm. He's just a lowlife.

[@mamapetillo8675]

The traffic officer’s Sargent didn’t do her any favors by simply saying that he’ll “deal with it”. He should have at least stood up for her. He only coddled the asshat, while undercutting his own officer. It did nothing to challenge his egotistical treatment of her, and only left him feeling justified. BS.

[@josephmaschak8652]

I hope that was addressed at the station house. From both upper and lower levels.

[@pathemeleski]

Hear hear! He should have stood up for her at the incident AND back at the station.

[@barbarafaulder9087]

de-escalation. This nut will be laughed at behind his back at the station. Jerk. Cry baby. Malignant narcissist. Lol

[@goranbreskic4304]

He didn't exactly what happened and the police actually should try to calm situations to avoid it getting worse. They're supposed to prevent crime, not provoke it. No doubt, they have met people like this before.

[@ajbyname]

@@goranbreskic4304 Agreed

[@Jaws10214]

I watched this traffic stop the other day, and when he said he was a congressional candidate, I near spit out my coffee! I for one, am very thankful he, and his toxic behaviour, didnt get into congress.

[@mbgal7758]

Exactly. This is not the kind of person you want in a position of power. He already thinks he’s above the law just for running. Plus he mentions his son being a cop as if that too makes it acceptable to speed and text while driving.

[@ZombolicBand]

Im sure some wealthier narcissist took his place😎 he seems to be a maga-supporter after all

[@RShipwash]

I don't believe his election has happened yet, has it?

[@aw3286]

@@ZombolicBand Also people on the right found this appalling, so much so that he stepped down because he wouldn't have won. How is this a Maga thing?

[@aw3286]

@@ZombolicBand You do realise there are crooked politicians on both sides, and it's not actually only one sided?

[@oldcop18]

Any time I got the “Do you know who I am” thing on a traffic stop I usually ignored it. If the violator pushed it I’d tell them I would know as soon as I read the info on their license & ran a wanted check. The world is full of these immature, entitled jerks.

[@triciac1019]

That is great!

[@cynthiafortier2540]

I can't even imagine the crap that you saw from entitled narcs. Thank you for your service!!

[@georgemartin1436]

Yes, I know who you are...I have your ID...and you are the person to whom I am writing a citation to.

[@lukasg4807]

Do you know who I am? I'm a random person but I just wanted to say it for fun officer

[@philipareich9363]

@Old Cop ... That's exactly what I used to say when driver's asked me that question ... lol!

[@missnicthomas]

That threatening finger point when he asks the officer “are you really going to do this?” A real nasty piece of work.

[@lo3769]

After just getting pissed that she was pointing at him... classic "I am above you and you need to grovel" elite bs Dr G was mentioning

[@janejones9004]

Really fat finger too

[@marciageoffproven2162]

I noted the finger as well... and how when she pointed in the direction of the intersection he was speeding and texting, he threw a hissy fit. And - he so SO quick with the INSULTS - it was obvious he has thrown out insults so many times, he barely has to think about it... they just tumble out of this mouth. And the career decisions threat, and that he called somebody and asked her several times, do you want to know what he said about you? So many tactics he used to try to intimidate her were straight out of middle school.

[@murielross9288]

@@marciageoffproven2162 His behavior begs the question, how many cops gave him a verbal warning because of who he is and how many did he cower and what would his attitude be to a Black officer.

[@geoffproven9385]

@@murielross9288 friend has said - 2 types of people --- those who serve, and those who want to 'be served'... hyde seems to be of the belief that because of one, he is owed the other..

[@trace9657]

I waited tables in high school and in undergrad. This is the worst kind of customer. They want to be the only customer, they want to modify everything on the menu, and they want you to grovel to prove you know your place. I don't know if this guy assaulted his ex or not, but it is definitely plausible and he would have probably said something like, "why do you make me do this to you."

[@michaelpatrick7888]

bc they always deny what they do ,,npds

[@rainydayjane8257]

Insightful statement!! 👍👍

[@michaelpatrick7888]

@@rainydayjane8257 😁

[@michaelpatrick7888]

@@rainydayjane8257 sometimes people get nervous and act like him but i would never talk to a policman like this she was nice to him and he even got out of his car in some places would have been shot for that,,hes lucky he didnt go to jail

[@crowredeye8066]

The hairs on the back of my neck stood up when he said that. He's an abuser, for certain.

[@johne.schnapp775]

He acted like a jerk, and at first he didn't provide his registration! That was another lie!

[@samanthaworkman-fenn8754]

Registration was expired

[@user-cs1un6sp1wRennata]

"Elite people view abusing power as their job" Another great analysis Dr. Grande! 🖤

[@salliekim2727]

Putin!!!

[@Macdonnell1]

Yes! Just another case of a self-perpetuating, egocentric, A-Hole

[@yourlogicalnightmare1014]

This Todd looks far to much like serial killer Gary Ridgeway. I would not be surprised if Todd kills prostitutes on weekends

[@cosimavonliebenau8317]

Maybe it’s time we stopped referring to narcissistic sociopaths as ‘elites’.

[@196Stefan2]

yes, sounds familiar...

[@dreoneful]

That female officer was 100 percent nice and professional

[@kevingarver9752]

and he was an ass.

[@WalterModel45]

Too soft

[@paulrichards6894]

the sergeant and the other male cop didnt cover themselves with glory

[@jamesslipsager3889]

Hope she gets promoted

[@luttrell1973]

In the original video Hyde says he “couldn’t care less about the speed limit” that automatically shows his sense or entitlement. And questioning someone’s immigrant states when he himself is an immigrant is laughable.

[@barrysrobbins]

That'll be the racist in him...

[@morzh1978]

He is likely just as anti-Semitic as Latvians themselves are. Tries to infuriate this particular J€wess so that he later would have grounds for confronting her in court.

[@steveludwig4200]

She fired...

[@Purewood357]

He's English. Like the founding fathers.....

[@birdflipper]

The man literally has every negative personality trait in the DSM.

[@EricK-tb2dn]

The irony of ruining your own career after threatening someone else over their career.

[@9sheri9]

@Bird Flipper IKR he's a total nightmare 😂😂

[@tiffbeevachou108]

@@Warriorcock6969 it is far from perfect and definitely needs work, but narcissism is a personality disorder. It's like clockwork how people with narcissistic traits act.

[@BrickNewton]

I literally watched this yesterday and was telling my son over dinner! Couldn't watch to the end as I wanted to punch him through my computer! That officer was outstanding and amazingly professional.

[@andreaf5765]

Did you see that guys "apologize " video what a joke

[@RealmCenter40]

She’s Latvian, they make some pretty delicious vodka.

[@BrickNewton]

@@andreaf5765 No I didn't. I assumed it would be smart arsed and smarmy and not actually apologize. So not worth wasting my time on.

[@RacheyBoBachey]

I just saw it too... nearly every single video the Dr posts is something I recently read or saw... I'm convinced he's subscribed to the same channels and/or shares the same interests. Especially bc it's not even always current events. It could be some old timey stuff that randomly crossed my mind and then BAM! It shows up in the feed from the good Dr.

[@ZeldaZelda-RichesToRags]

@@andreaf5765 it's like he rolling eyeswhilesaying sarcastically ..."iiiiiii'mmm sowweeeeey!"

[@chriscase1392]

As a 20 year retired officer, I can truthfully say I was never "trained to dominate" anyone, any time. That being said, I quickly learned on the street that being a weak, hesitant, uncertain officer is a good way to get yourself hurt or killed, along with those working with you. A bit of unambiguous assertiveness, stern but fair, goes a long way to ensure that you go home at the end of the watch, and not to the hospital or morgue.

[@julieblair168]

Dr. Grande, Thank you for producing this video. I saw the tape of this man and the officer just the other day. He was an absolute nightmare, the officer was extremely professional. It really shows the importance of the body cam for police. This was a terrible experience for the officer, the kind that would make someone rethink their job. I’m so happy someone put him on the internet and that you have used your platform to expose him again.

[@KawaiiyukihanaSmiles]

Thank you for covering this story. I hope this politician NEVER holds a position of power in any field ever again. He is despicable.

[@lebovskievgeniew4748]

Maybe around 70 % of the politicians are like this stypid man

[@shamseshomali110]

Yuki Hana : Yes ..I agree with you . Power in the hands of weak people is a very dangerous weapon .

[@folksin42]

He wasn't even a politician. He was only trying to become one. LOL

[@shadowfax88]

Age of trump opened the floodgates.. this guy is a big man above the law

[@brimcilroy9002]

The sad thing is it his type of personality who enrol as cops an any other positions with power.

[@lorakrauss8185]

Interesting analysis Dr. I once read in the Reader’s Digest about a man who was having an issue with an airline clerk about his ticket, and he had asked her if she knew who he was. Without missing a beat, she got on the microphone and announced “Attention, I have a gentleman here who doesn’t know who he is etc...”. Priceless 🤗

[@kevinmach730]

The irony of this situation is that had he simply accepted the citations and quietly went on his way, this would have been something none of us would have heard about and he could have likely had he tickets "taken care of". But as Todd points out, this wasn't about the citations, it was about his ego.

[@AWMMars]

His belligerence was further exposed when he said 'speeding tickets, I can do those everyday, speeding is not a problem'..........

[@analea6531]

@@AWMMars right! I was shocked that he kind of casually admitted speeding on purpose and on a daily basis. Let one of us say that and we never seeing that license again

[@briand4754]

Total d-bag. That's the kind of people who run this country. No wonder we're in the shape we're in

[@quadmomforlife]

Exactly. He boasted about a 150,00.00 car and can't pay a 160.00 fine?

[@dm6187]

@@quadmomforlife right!

[@Justin-hn9uv]

I find it funny narcissists often ask "don't you know who I am?" The answer is almost certainly going to be "no" which will just further hurt their ego. This is why I think body cams are a good idea: it shows when cops are doing the wrong thing but it also catches out people who provoke cops and lie about the cops behaviour.

[@tinameyer7080]

Actually, I know someone who uses that phrase frequently and often. The result he ordinarily gets is that people immediately start catering to him- as if he might actually be a "somebody"... it WORKS- that's why he uses it. :)

[@Justin-hn9uv]

@@tinameyer7080 I guess if you apply it judiciously it might be useful.

[@cottontails9003]

The Duchess of Sussex asked our Governor General, and his wife, that in Australia, but she said "don't you f.....g know who I am ".

[@sisuguillam5109]

@Admin.....🔥🔥 reported for spam.

[@fulltimerver2355]

@@sisuguillam5109 Thanks, I was wondering

[@skyhawk_4526]

I was struck by your quote that "emotion and reason cannot be in control at the same time." That is a great observation, and one that I will remember.

[@saratonnan]

The police officer handled this situation impeccably. Personally, I would have been tempted to say "I have no idea who you are. Should I" ?

[@susankeith326]

I would say; " Doesn't matter who you are, nor do I care. "

[@cottontails9003]

Susan, love the comment.

[@crib4046]

I would have replied: "Yes, you are the guy that went 17 miles over the speed limit. Now give me your documents."

[@gregoryt1139]

Yes, and that's the thing that chaps my *Hyde*: This guy gets impeccable treatment, while other members of our society would have gotten arrested, a beat down, and tased -- in that order. Who's to say this well-mannered officer didn't unleash her frustration of the next driver who didn't know her boss. What if George Floyd was the next guy after Martin Hyde?

[@tr7b410]

The correct response;you don't know who you are,?we have places for people with memory issues.

[@RodneyMunch8767]

In all due respect Dr Grande, I disagree with your views of this case. I have carefully studied the traffic stop in question, and in my educated opinion, I can confidently diagnose Martin Hyde as a MASSIVE PRICK!

[@mred9361]

I TOTALLY AGREE!!!!!!!!!!

[@1houndgal]

Hyde is a narcisstic bully.

[@mtthwpnn]

Got to admit, you had me going there in the first half.

[@collette4347]

Ngl you had me in the first half

[@nealdutta4069]

Yeah....not only that when he got out of his car his fly was open. He should be ashamed....lol.

[@Guelo6891]

In the moment they say “…do you know who I am?”, its a big red flag. You know that person does not have the maturity to be in a position of power.

[@jcarne1015]

I’m very happy to hear he dropped out of the Congressional race! I was absolutely disgusted by his behavior. And thank you for your analysis.

[@baigalmaatsolmonbaatar7421]

That’s a great news!

[@pamelaneibuhr6959]

Happy to hear that

[@karenandersen9385]

He wasn't leading in the poling even before this came out. But wow, this is a new kind of Florida man.

[@Toranaboy634]

I dunno, he'd fit right in with the GOP in Washington DC :)

[@zamev]

Except he hasn't 😕

[@aldostefanini1392]

DR GRANDE HE'S OUR MAN... IF HE CAN'T SPECULATE WHAT COULD BE HAPPENING IN A SITUATION LIKE THIS NO ONE CAN

[@crib4046]

haha love this

[@aldostefanini1392]

@Admin.....🔥🔥 Is this you DR GRANDE OR SOME NIGERIAN SCAMMER? I don't think he would use poor sentence structure like this.

[@afroliciouspresents3603]

@@aldostefanini1392 If you need to ask, it's not Dr. Grande

[@FLOSSYTREADWELL]

His registration was out of date. His answer to that was 'so what! I can sort it out in 2 minutes' So we don't need insurance road tax until we're stopped... then we can arrange them on mobile phone in 2 minutes & all while driving. 🤔

[@pafarmgirl9519]

He’s a Rude Buffoon. Sounds like no one ever taught him manners or told him, “No”. I admire the Officer for her professionalism. Thank you for this one, very insightful.

[@murielross9288]

Good word, professionalism not strong willed

[@steveludwig4200]

She fired...

[@Prancer0210]

Great analysis, Dr Grande. These self entitled people seriously bug me. I knew a police officer who gave the mayor of the town a ticket once. She started with that attitude and the officer said he didn't care WHO she was; she was breaking the law and should know better. And the police chief and City manager stood with the officer. It was great to see that.

[@truffles2721]

The driver was wrong. The officer was very professional.

[@eriklarson9137]

Amazing what cameras are FORCING "leaders" to do isn't it? Just like in this case.

[@TheKomentor]

Dr Grande's analyses are great, but I wish he would get rid of the "Today's question is, 'Can I analyse...'" thing he does at the beginning of every video. I don't think anyone is asking these questions. The doctor himself is picking the topics from the most trending KZbin videos like every other KZbinr does. It is dishonest to give the impression that people are asking the doctor his professional opinion on these sensational cases.

[@yannick245]

@@TheKomentor I don't like the whole *"doctor"* thing, because it gives you the impression that he's a psychiatrist/psychologist, as he started with analyzing serial killers and other "mental cases". He has no credentials in these fields. Instead he got his PhD _(made in two years)_ in _"Counselor Education and Supervision"_ from Regent University a private Christian university _(founded by Pat Robertson)._

[@TS-rd7oy]

@@TheKomentor I like that he does that. It gives consistency to his videos. It's kind of like how the TV series 'Law and Order' was. A predicttable (in a good way) into and format. Please don't change it Dr Grande.

[@suzannes5888]

Hyde was also called out (and caught on video) for being his racist self when he berated a young Puerto Rican boy... he withdrew from a previous election after this event - this isn't his first rodeo. As this video shows, he's a repeat offender. He needs to go away. (He should go back to Oxford.) What a horrible human being! 🙄

[@deltanovember1672]

Oxford? No chance was he a student at The University of Oxford.

[@pebblebeach7995]

Please don't send him back to the UK! We don't want him back!!

[@yasuke9317]

You saw that shirt he had on right? 1:01

[@suzannes5888]

@@deltanovember1672Idk - and he wasn't worth wasting my time to research it - but according to Dr Grande, that's what Hyde claims (2:48)... He is a known liar though. 🙄 If he did go there, he clearly missed quite a few classes.

[@TiptonMama]

@@suzannes5888 I think if he did go there, it was likely to mow the grass, it take out the trash and clean the restrooms.

[@danielfinney6071]

I was a police officer, in different locales, for over 30 years. This kind of behavior toward cops by those who consider themselves the 'upper crust' is by no means unusual, but it was it's worst for the 20 years I was a cop in Hawaii, where the wealthy mainlander transplants treated not just the cops, but the local people who have called it home for generations like second-class citizens.

[@williamrwiley3988]

100 % on point on every issue analyzed. Thanks for sharing!

[@mary4011]

People suck.

[@roswell266]

I visited with my fiancé her family lived out there one of those yes wealthy people and no I didn't hook up with her because of money she chased me for two years she was an elementary teacher I was a maintenance man there she didn't have some big fancy house but her family holy crap !doctors lawyers, CEO, movie stars, politician s, lunch with Clinton's,bushes Martha's vineyard , anyway, I was engaged to her I got tired how they treated people it snapped when we were in Hawaii , little did she know when I was 20 I dated an islander she was a hula dancer, and yes I'm white , I met her when I went out there surfing with friends ,we only separated because of religious belief, but when I let my fiancé know how I felt well we have money ,WTF, I responded I left her, man and I'm 50 yes old when this happened not some kid, money fine whatever but you don't need to treat people that way, and now I get it from her family I'm white trash, bla bla bla, but get this went back to Hawaii, at 55yrs old ended up in E.R locals beat the hell out of me get off our island, so as one person commented people SUCK,

[@barneyronnie]

@@roswell266 Darling, you must be HOT STUFF!

[@roswell266]

@@barneyronnie i honestly dont act like that , but whatever she saw sex, looks what ever , but barneyronnie are you single ?

[@nomdeplume9483]

A critical element of the stop wasn't even mentioned, and that is at about 12:15 in the traffic stop video, Martin wants to know if his "friend" the sargeant can turn off the body cam. That's worse than "Do you know who I am?" It's shady behavior to want the camera turned off for his impending conversation with his "friend".

[@gayleandreah]

Oh my goodness, Mr. Hyde. I've watched this a few times in the last few days. He's so blatantly lying. Each telling of the story makes the honest cop sound even worse. So utterly entitled. And keeps pushing for 'special treatment' while 'not' demanding special treatment. Really hope this is the end of his 'life in politics'. So he's probably out of a job, and the cop will possibly get a better job by showing how conscientious she is.

[@jdxx59]

Yes his lying was so foolish, as it was all on the officers body cam. He’s a bully.

[@baneverything5580]

How do we know Mr Hyde wasn`t sexually assaulted by this police woman and is being threatened?

[@BariumCobaltNitrog3n]

I loved how the Supervisor kept telling Mr. Hyde that everything was, and is being recorded and we WILL sort this out. He says it several times and you can see the effect goes from reassuring to threatening but in the same placating tone.

[@jackspring7709]

I know that type from living in London, England - and they are always either dodgy businessmen or low level gangsters.

[@sisuguillam5109]

@@baneverything5580 go away, edgelord.

[@marcjohn9404]

"I support the police... Unless they're stopping me from being reckless" What's amazing is that he seems to get off easily and repeats his behaviors and ultimately the police department not holding him accountable could cost someone their life. That's what makes me so frustrated about how law enforcement works.

[@polarbearsrus6980]

Right, reminds me of something I once heard that's kind of disgusting but always stayed with me because it's kind of funny and true, " why does a dog lick his b_lls? BECAUSE HE CAN!!! As long as we pamper these losers, they will continue with the behavior. Why wouldn't they?

[@yarrayarra3731]

This is how society works

[@jimrodarmel8512]

He didn't get off easily and he was held accountable. That's why he got 3 citations to pay and later apologized and admitted he had been in the wrong. Apparently he recognizes his inappropriate behavior when he stops to think about it, but can't seem to control himself while under the influence of his adrenaline.

[@polarbearsrus6980]

@@jimrodarmel8512 It's not adrenaline, it's ego. He recognizes his behavior when he's caught.

[@tankthearc9875]

perfect example of privilege , he is not elite or rich at all.

[@JD-wx3pk]

He thinks because of his status that she should bow down to him. He's extremely selfish because he thinks it's all about him. He's obviously insecure about something too. You're assessment was great to listen too, very insightful and educational.

[@LibraInSeattle]

Today’s question is “Do you know who I am?” Apparently a legend in his own mind.

[@matthew6695]

@Admin.....🔥🔥 shut up

[@fulltimerver2355]

@Admin.....🔥🔥 You have been reported for scamming

[@fulltimerver2355]

@@matthew6695 that guy is a scammer and has been reported, don't respond to him

[@zacharysherry2910]

That would have made the introduction SO funny 🤣

[@AJane77]

Another aspect that you didn’t touch on which I think played a part is the fact that this officer is female. Certainly not feeding into any victim mentality but I believe that played a major part in this narcissist’s power play.

[@lo3769]

Yeah, he calls her "girly" and tells the male cop that "she was disrespectful, and now we need to make sure she is punished" with a smirk. Absolute swine

[@deborahc4111]

Yes, it was quite obvious how Hyde's attitude changed towards the male officers. I find that Dr. Grande rarely talks about misogyny when it happens, maybe it is harder to spot for men since they are so used to it

[@TC-wo9gi]

You are so right

[@Celisar1]

He said to a COP “I don’t want to listen to you, young lady”!

[@Celisar1]

@@deborahc4111 I am afraid you are absolutely right. Before social media (incl. YT) was a thing I had no idea how bad and terribly widespread sexism and misogyny is even among young (and western) men. It came as an absolute shock to me.

[@dandunlap8638]

He expects much more respect than he’s willing to earn.

[@Mykids-yq1kl]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this. I watched the full video of this traffic stop and was appalled and frankly, sickened by the behavior exhibited toward this officer. I commend this officer for having the guts to do her job correctly... The EASY and "safe" thing to do would've been to drop it and walk away. But her commitment to her oath AND to the public was her priority, even in the face of intimidation and outright lies. In my opinion, your thoughts are absolutely 100% spot on. I don't think any analysis could have pegged this guy any more perfectly than you did. I had such a feeling of unresolved anger and injustice after viewing the body cam footage. But your video and analysis totally helped me to feel avenged on behalf of this brave young cop. THANK YOU!!

[@mary4011]

Hell yeah. I support her..She showed extreme control when dealing with this jerk.

[@Kori123]

This put my heart at ease a little... after watching the cop camera I was hoping and praying that his behaviour has consequences

[@nightwood4379]

Evening Dr. G., Just walked in to discover a most timely post. Your steady reasoning made for an enjoyable calm down. Thank you.

[@kimariokiji]

Excellent analysis Dr. Grande. I am surprised the term narcissist didn’t come up. I can just imagine what he’d be like under the influence of alcohol.

[@arieraaphorst1998]

It did

[@ELECTRICMOTOCROSSMACHINE]

Could you imagine this guy holding a seat of power? Dark times for sure.

[@malcolmmckinlay2143]

I see him wearing a trump teshirt thats about right

[@ELECTRICMOTOCROSSMACHINE]

@@malcolmmckinlay2143 You must be a communist.

[@la381]

Can you imagine CENTURIES IN WORLD HISTORY WHERE WOMEN ARE ABUSED LIKE THIS, AND THERE were no body cameras???!!!! We don't have to imagine it. Just honor the truth of how men as a collective have abused women and still do.

[@ELECTRICMOTOCROSSMACHINE]

@@la381 Sounds like you are putting all men in your pile. What ever happened to judging each person by their actions. You know, the individual.

[@starstuff5371]

Don't need to imagine it, as we have plenty of them in power. 🙁

[@rejaneoliveira5019]

This was the politest way to talk about a situation that is so impolite. I wonder if people like this can ever change, it does appear to be quite exhausting to act in this manner on a daily basis. Great analysis as usual, thank you Dr. Grande.❤️ On another note- your cactuses are growing beautifully. I remember how small they were when you first got them.🙂

[@LDiamondz]

When he said, "Do you know who I am?" She should have said, "Do YOU know your zipper is down, sir?" Because it was, during the entire 16 minute video of the incident. 🤣 It just made him look more like a moron. So funny. I have no idea how I noticed it, but, I did. 🤭

[@GeoffKippsBolton]

If I was in that position and someone said, "Do you know who I am?", I would probably say, "I have no idea, nor do I care." and give them every citation i could think of.

[@gstree]

I was in a queue at an airport when someone was shouting "Do you know who I am" to the hard working lady at the desk. The lady got up and addressed us all saying "does anyone know who this is" ? "as they appear to have forgotten their name". It had the queue in stitches of laughter and the person just walked away !

[@sunnydelight5255]

@@gstreeLol awesome

[@cliffp.8396]

I appreciate your logical breakdown of this narcissistic behavior. Doing this proves objectively the narcissist is in fact inferior and pathologically insecure.

[@annal7364]

Ohhh Dr. G, you correcting this guy’s grammar was SO satisfying! I love when people stoop to a level at which I feel justified in doing that. 😊

[@karenandersen9385]

But Dr g was wrong in reporting that Hyde asked if it was her imigrant status that made her behave this way. He asked if it was her state-us. Just like an imigrant

[@fulltimerver2355]

@Admin.....🔥🔥 This guy is a scammer

[@zurdoremi]

"do you know who I am" is code for "I feel I am above the law".

[@lnc-to4ku]

Loved your whole take on the Martin Hyde case, and everyone who thinks the way he does! "Elite people view abusing power as their job." How obnoxious! Such a great video, Dr. Grande! Loved all the points you made addressing these people who truly believe they're above what the rest of us "should be subject to. ♡♡

[@valeriehicks8023]

Martin Hyde isn't even elite. He just thinks he is. One doesn't usually look at bad behavior as an 'elite' qualification.

[@brummieinbristol522]

if someone asks you "do you know who I am?" just look sympathetic and ask out loud to anyone present if they know the person as they seem to be a little confused and don't know who they are. then ask the person who is supposed to be looking after them. stay calm and watch the meltdown. eventually they realise that you can not be flustered and will slink away

[@BrickNewton]

I was about to say the same thing, but not as good or detailed!

[@NotChefCook]

YUP . It's a beautiful thing .

[@EricK-tb2dn]

Or "OMG you're the guy from the Viagra commercials, can I get your autograph........ On these tickets."

[@pamelaneibuhr6959]

🤣 perfect

[@joannem3568]

I had someone say that to me , once. It was funny, I laughed and said NO, who are you? 🤣🤣

[@johnprew7820]

Brilliantly comforting to hear that Martin Hyde didn't get away with his antisocial behaviour.

[@hiranhernandez3698]

I love it when you drop gems like this one. I hope this guy sees this on KZbin and takes corrective action for his ego.

[@malcolmmckinlay2143]

To far gone

[@cummings37128]

Doctor Grand- As a Deputy Sheriff, I had this experience with a few people who asked this question- my response was always "not at this moment sir but I will as soon as NCIC gets back to me". That usually turned the heat down. Great video sir.

[@Gemmalady]

Loved the brief smirk on your face when quoting Martin, ‘l am not that petty.’ Oh the irony of that quote. Giggling into my coffee

[@barryallen1070]

He’s the type of guy to justify cop shootings by saying things like “well he wouldn’t comply” and then go ahead and not comply himself because he knows nothing will happen to him.

[@tankthearc9875]

then he will say privilege doesnt exist, lol these ppl are really something

[@peonyflowers23]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 exactly!

[@ngalahansel6066]

Exactly my thouughts

[@hithere8140]

As a conservative myself, I was appalled and ashamed. I was sad for the residents he would be representing and am glad to see he dropped out. Its frustrating when individuals represent a group so poorly.

[@JointFive]

I thought this is exactly what conservatives (in power or otherwise) represent to the fullest, but I look in the mirror everyday

[@malcolmmckinlay2143]

He is behaving like the current british PM

[@gykg3202]

I could not vote for him either.

[@5jjt]

@@JointFive Evil hides behind Left vs Right, and Conservative vs Liberal. Good on you for seeking the truth in an intellectually honest manner. If only more would do that too.

[@ca6360]

He needs DBT therapy... he has borderline tendancies at the very least. We all could benefit from mastering skills practiced - Personal Responsibility Acceptance Emotional Regulation Distress Tolerance Interpersonal Skills Mindfullness These are skills we must work on ourselves daily and our children must gain these also to be effective adults and self realize their fullest potential and have great relationships.

[@myrahurd5862]

For 25 years I was married to someone with antisocial and borderline personality disorder. I saw his words and body language and I immediately saw him as my husband. Every WORD you said in your analysis I agreed with because I recognize this man’s demons and noticed the confirmative behaviors. It was those spirits of behaviors that caused my lupus; because during my divorce I was healed of lupus. I also earned a Master’s in psychology 4 years after the divorce and know you don’t NEED a Master’s to recognize those words and behavior because after 25 years of observing the demons in action as with me, I just KNEW what your analysis would be. That’s why I subscribed for your channel.

[@matthewlawrenson7508]

As the great Peter Cook said, when a high court judge attempted to gain entry to the Establishment club. 'Do you know who I am?' ...Mr Cook commented. FOR GOODNESS SAKE HELP THIS MAN HE DOESN'T KNOW WHO HE IS!

[@malcolmmckinlay2143]

Brilliant

[@9sheri9]

Excellent food for thought in this analysis, Dr G. Here are 2 of my favorite quotes from this one: 11:43 "If a person cannot control their behavior when disagreeing, their ability to reason should be questioned. Emotions and reason cannot both be in control at the same time." 12:36 "Sometimes it pays to look inward to find the answers about the causes of behavior."

[@katherineschriever2892]

Dr Grande is an explorer shedding light on a very dark and mysterious jungle: the human mind. Always delivers fascinating and educational talks. His insights are also entertaining. He gives us a post graduate course in sociopathology which can be very helpful in understanding others and ourselves.

[@geko9214]

i listen to dr grande talk about killers and tragedies while falling asleep

[@alice_rabbit8345]

Me too! Only the ones I’ve already watched though

[@barbarajacobs8897]

On behalf of UK, please accept our apologies.

[@nubianprincess2771]

Ms. Jacob's We accept. Pompous asses come in every color of the rainbow 🌈

[@amdidextrous]

And our sympathies that you now have him...

[@davedaniels8211]

Please keep him

[@erica6488]

No worries mate

[@pattic8473]

If Hyde's not a narcissist then no one is.

[@oxcart4172]

I've always wanted someone to say that to me. I'd take great pleasure in blurting out.'Excuse me, does anyone know who this is? They appear to have forgotten!'

[@alisonmercer5946]

Happened to me a long time ago now. and I had no idea who it the feck they were or why I should have known and said so and the way their face went was hilarious. They said well I'm..... ..... and I said yeah so what Miss..... ..... and I'm Alison Mercer. In Hindsight it was hilarious because They were psycho bully with a reputation and I truly had no idea. Honestly, If I had known what I learned about them after I would not have gotten in the situation at all. I would have been afraid for my life, known it wasn't worth my life and not even exchanged words. They were definitely used to people sucking up them . But the look on their face, lmao, I'll not forget it. They were shocked and it was worth it since I made it out alive

[@oxcart4172]

@alison mercer If they have to ask, then they're not famous enough, imho! Glad u for through it OK!!

[@FredVanAllenRealtor]

FUNNY!!!

[@helensieben3182]

You could also say “ I’m sorry your mother never told you”

[@globes179]

I experienced this once when I was waiting tables in a restaurant. Except in my case it was the mother of the person whom I "should have known." I think it must have been a rapper or musician of some kind, but he himself was just curling up while his mother was saying "do you know who he is," while I just looked at him and was like, "no, I don't think we've ever met." It was a person with this behavior in a group of people who reacted with embarrassment for her behavior. It was interesting.

[@anasnow7302]

😂😂 I loved your reply!!

[@madamecaboose5431]

“No, I don’t think we’ve ever met.” Your reply is so polite yet so savage and I love it!

[@sisuguillam5109]

Well done!

[@RobKimmerly-b4x]

Your analysis is excellent . I sure hope Martin’s citations did not get taken away . I hope he was held accountable . He should have been arrested for being a lying nuisance !!!!!

[@thomasdoubting]

"How long have you been a police officer, hu?" Seven more years than you being a congressman... 🙄

[@rustyrobinson8027]

He's a legend in his own mind

[@HuneyVideo]

Thanks for the update! The officer did her job well.

[@skreemqueen756]

Anytime someone says, “ do you know who I am ?!” Nothing good typically follows 😂

[@genehollon1472]

NO !!!!!! I wonder if Y O U even know WHO YOU ARE !!!!!! SIT DOWN and listen, It may take a very LOOOONG TIME to tell you WHO YOU ARE !!!!!!!

[@thebluehotel426]

Thank you for shedding light on the "Do you know who I am?" people. Excellent analysis.

[@amberkaymodernart7093]

His speaking in 3rd person was the Cherry on the top. His arrogance is overwhelming. The officer maintained a perfect presence.

[@beck645]

What a spectacularly perfect analysis. You have done your industry proud today. Never have I heard such a beautifully created analysis about a person as you did. Tipping my hat to you sir.

[@viveviveka2651]

This same thing happened in an airport, at the ticket counter. The airline worker got on the intercom and announced to the crowd that they had someone here who didn't know who he was. Can anyone help us out?

[@anasnow7302]

😂😂😂

[@MsBob575]

Excellent analysis, very thorough, it answered so many questions about this type of behaviour. Ty!! ... And for some fun: A student kept writing his exam after the professor said the time is up. When the student handed in the exam the prof said he won't be marking it. The student asked "Do you know who I am?" The prof replied "no." So the student placed his paper between all the others in the pile and said "good"

[@gertrudebuck366]

I Agree ☝🏽 and your analysis was very informative. Thank you

[@benswanepoel]

"Not as a way to serve, but rather as a way to be honored" - That's it all summed up beautifully!

[@AWMMars]

I must ask, why does Political Immunity give rights for murder with impunity?

[@la381]

Evidence of NARCISSISTIC PERSONALITY DISORDER!!!

[@joijuaire-darfler4614]

They don't want to be "honored"; they want to be feared, adored and envied.

[@ednaalvarez3485]

The officer should get an award for standing up to this man, It is her boss Police Chief was a friend of this man that came to the area of the problem the Chief should be investigated for not defending his police officer doing her job for protecting the public.

[@ladygreenlife]

Officer Julia Baskin saved lives! Thank you for being such a professional!

[@QueenOfTheNorth65]

When her sergeant got there, Hyde told her to “stop talking, young lady.” 😡

[@josephmaschak8652]

Right there, the sergeant should have taken control and demanded respect for his officer. He blew it.

[@truffles2721]

The driver also immediately wanted to talk to the male officer with the camera turned off. The officer refused to turn his body camera off.

[@danhoustin4621]

I would have arrested him just for shots and giggles

[@RainManFights]

I had a police Sergeant tell us so often "Reasonable people can agree to disagree reasonably" this has stayed with me for 20+ years, I respected and looked up to him so very much.

[@stanh24]

Dr Todd, I like your analysis. Subscribed!

[@karekarenz7683]

Your observation regarding his behaviour being "exhausting" is spot on. I really was totally exhausted just watching his performance. It was headache material, and one wonders why someone would put themselves through that, let alone the poor Officer.

[@TallulahBelle3276]

I am curious to know if the officer suffered any backlash for this incident. Was he able to mess with her job like he threatened? Is it exhausting for people like him? Or does it feed and therefore fuel him? To a normal person it would be exhausting but to someone with narcissistic tendencies it’s food. They find it invigorating to fight with others.

[@ItIsJustJudy]

I read that no action was taken against the officer.

[@reesedaniel1629]

There should have been an action taken to the officer, a medal and a raise!!!

[@carrielange2692]

that's what I've always wondered too. Like, I can't imagine all the energy it takes to be so mad ALL the fucking time. Like, always right on the front battle line with your weapon drawn. I get mentally exhausted just watching people like this in actions for a few minutes.

[@EliasVoorhees]

@@ItIsJustJudy retaliation wont be immediate. It also will be for “other” reasons. Keep an eye on it. Happens like this in law enforcement all the time. Especially FL.

[@justaskin8523]

@@EliasVoorhees Except that in this case, Hoopoe-Doo-Hothead dropped out of his congressional race. So at least for now, he is not among the "elite". The cops should be cautious with this guy, and always make sure their cameras are on when interacting with Mr. Hothead.

[@debbiegrasse3920]

Very informative. I took away a lot from your analysis. Thank you.

[@irhonda31]

Excellent analysis!

[@cottontails9003]

Good afternoon, Dr Grande. Thank you for the hard work, researching, for the great content you upload daily, it never fails to make my day. Thank you again, you are the best.

[@factenter6787]

Martin KAREN Hyde: Do you know who I am? Me: Smatter, do you have amnesia?

[@johola]

Whenever someone asks "do you know who I am?", they are usually nobody.

[@emilyhollis4231]

Excellent analysis as always, Dr Grande. An incredible look deep into this situation.

[@georgemartin1436]

"I am Doctor Todd Grande, and I'm not saying that I have committed any traffic offenses, I am only speculating about possible traffic offenses that may have occurred or been committed by a person like me"

[@ginkellum178]

Do you know who I am ...yes, you're a bully Martin Hyde!.. he was like a little child that was told not to stand in the road because it was dangerous but he thought he was "special" and who would dare hit him! I've known a lot of folks like that in my 70 years... He was basically saying "you're gonna be sorry when your boss gets here because he'll be on my side"...unfortunately some bosses don't have enough backbone to stand up to bullies even though they know their employee is correct. It's kind of like your mother saying "wait til your father gets home - you're gonna be sorry!" And calling her an immigrant!!! When did England become part of the US??? I know all the continents were one a long time ago but didn't know they have migrated back together LOL

[@tantelila7464]

Whenever someone says to me "Do you know who I am?" I answer: "Oh, I'm so sorry that I can't help you. Does it happen to you often that you forget your name?"

[@scooterinc7733]

😆

[@jamesfrench7299]

Cheeky hound!

[@penjim2013]

Hello Dr Todd, Having only just discovered you, I'm now hooked on catching up with your previous videos. I haven't yet worked out a pattern as to whether they're weekly, biweekly or whatever....but I'll get there! For this particular video, I can only apologise for the fact that Martin Hyde along with being obnoxious, is British....fortunately we're not all like him! 😊 Penny from Christchurch. 🇬🇧

[@83hanzy1]

He’s divorced, wow what a shocker ! However, I do believe his ex wife that he threatened her.

[@yarrayarra3731]

💯 If this is happening with a police officer out in public, rest assured the behaviour behind closed doors would be Hell