Do You Like me? Do I? | Leah Pearlman | TEDxBoulder

[@01Devanshii01]

This video is a perfect example of why one should not judge a video on the basis of the number of likes it has!

[@rackkwall]

Facts

[@cabolynn]

Nice talk and it's so refreshing to listen to a young lady who is living her life from her Spirit and not what society expects . My favorite sweatshirt says, "I Am Not A Label."

[@Issath37]

literally cried on the enough point...

[@rackkwall]

So powerful and exactly what I needed to hear.

[@cretusjoseph6468]

I'm in love with this talk. Will b glad to meet this brilliant lady.., she talked of the things that live inside my mind. The idea is very worth

[@squeesplort]

Perfect timing in my life for this insightful, humorous, inspiring talk

[@raunakchaturvedi9518]

Whatever she dreamt of, she accomplished only to realise that all the dreams were based on the approval of other person and that something is missing. Then she followed her heart. Beautifully shared❤️ claps👏👏

[@bitchucrazy2116]

This woman invented the like button, this is an amazing accomplishment!

[@Meekismwisdom]

"The listening". Love that.

[@nipunweerakoon_97]

It is actually hard trust the validation that comes within. But it's most important validation of all ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@JayWilliams310876]

Wonderfully insightful, courageous talk. I needed to hear this. Thank you.

[@seanhemm6884]

Leah, it is good to hear your authentic share

[@i_mmm_u]

A gem 💎

[@quesarahsera25]

A+ now stands for alignment, yay!

[@lenasartandjazz]

i needed to hear that right now - thank you so much! :)))

[@seekingthelost7]

Thank you, Leah !

[@vineetpaul747]

Thank you 🙏

[@aubreywells3976]

Best ted talk I’ve ever listened to. Thank you

[@bethanyfleming5175]

Right on time!!!!

[@angelbau10]

This Ted Talk deserves more views. A lot can relate to her.

[@HowTosWithSaniya]

This Ted Talk is precious and deserves more views ❤️❤️

[@osamansr5281]

thank you

[@TheBatboy26]

I think this is definitely the best Ted Talk ever.

[@Sandyficslick]

So glad i found this. Really needed to hear this. Thank you

[@irenegaltung9304]

excellent!! thanks so much!! :) you look like such a kind, nice person!! :) and you made me smile, laugh :).

[@malek_benzerga]

What a NICE Ted talk!

[@wendellhanes1]

That was excellent I also went to Brown University

[@JudValeski]

great conveyance. I've had a similar arc for sure. I do wonder whether or not she's obtained financial independence though. in exploring this stuff myself, I've found I wound up with a lot more room for art once I found financial independence (I'm not proud of that, just saying that's been my experience). when you can decouple your headspace/daily-activity from earning money, life shifts. if you don't have that luxury, the equation feels more complicated. bravo regardless. much better presented than anything I would have cobbled together.

[@sueheilbronner]

Jud, I appreciate your creating room for art. I think a LOT of people who get more financial independence either (a) create a new bigger goal for what that phrase means that keeps them locked into something they don't love; or (b) have a really hard time transitioning from something that gave them "meaning" into something that gives them meaning. From over here, your path strikes as something to be proud of;).

[@spiritofblue6610]

oh my gosh, awesome!!!

[@joecool10424]

Thank you. :)

[@patraaurum369]

Great, Leah.

[@DailyDivineGuidance]

Thank you.

[@amanda89793]

Needed this! Thank you.

[@selflovecycle]

LOVE!

[@AndrewHyde]

An absolutely amazing talk.

[@manalikadam8478]

Amazing 😍

[@elhadjdiallo633]

Thanks and may allah continue to bless you and guide you in to the right path ...

[@CS-os7ks]

Super

[@EmB61491]

That was INCREDIBLE!!!!!

[@unzahid]

powerful.

[@richardmasters2045]

The most dangerous and destructive thing that a person can do is think they know, or can manipulate what other people thinks about them.

[@ujalasinha3332]

WOW

[@dheerajsharma-vl5yh]

This ted talk needs validation

[@John-vi2st]

People who like a challenge create something new then humans corrupt it like social media...

[@cosmodoc]

to be able to do what you do, first of all you need to live in the first world. Secondly, you need a strong educational and financial foundation. This unfortunately does not apply to over 90% of people in the world. Lucky you!

[@maddyG7414]

Wow it’s almost as if a person’s life experience and subsequent advice won’t resonate with every person on the planet. Go figure. 🤔

[@Sunshine-yk2eg]

This talk reminds me of the hipster era of 2012-14 . This talk is like a string of bumper sticker quotes (like 8:12) while trying to hype yourself and telling everyone about your several grand accomplishments (even a single one of which is a pipe dream for the average person btw) while also rejecting the praise and saying you dont see them as accomplishments .

[@gabrielortega6861]

true

[@RS-io8rp]

You need pure adventure.

[@samuelsilman6522]

It's funny how she talks about social validation as a thing she doesn't need anymore, yet she is basically sharing it with a few hundred people, which obviously shows that she is still dependant on social validation.

[@mmmarvel]

Not sure if she's still in it for the validation, could just be an interesting talk by someone who did something different and interesting ... like 'inventing' the like button.

[@jeffreychow8853]

shimmy jimmy To share does not imply a specific motivation for sharing. There are many reasons beyond validation. Every movie, every book, every speech and every form of mass communication is not solely created simply for the approval of others. Some are shared for the sake of sharing. But in this case, I believe she is sharing her story in hopes it might connect with another as it did with me. Thanks Leah!

[@ellen4078]

the energy behind her action is different. the first one is dependency. The second one is the joy of sharing and she enjoy doing the drawing thing. it is a different experience for her from her perspective. peace

[@scarletxoxo6757]

is this whole speech not a huge validation trip?

[@bushman143]

Absolutely, that’s what I was thinking. There is an irony.

[@andrewcorum9008]

Like

[@akj7]

Nice talk. My remarks: 1. She can be taken as a case study for many women. You can do anything if you work hard. ... Looking at feminists. 2. Women are mosty not tech oriented. I refused to believe this myself, but it is true. 3. She has beautiful legs.

[@Wawiwowuwe]

And all this to get a standing ovation..... hahahahaha

[@MikeSmith-rd9fi]

hahaha, she's just doing it for the likes on the video

[@OrunitaVivi]

She has a brain, yeah, but she also has damn good thighs.

[@StannisHarlock]

9:24 There ya go.

[@jean-charlesfidinde8131]

Thiccc

[@stanleyg796]

literally cried on the enough point...