Do You Love Yourself? Why Self Love Isn't Selfish, It's necessary [Self Love]

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@Think-see]

Boundries and Trusting the process have become my key word/ phrase for 2019.

[@ajheramartin6836]

Too many people are concerned with what someone else will think if you don’t do something. The most powerful thing that you can do is to get delivered from people. It will change your life. It’s a necessity and part of self-care. Now I’m not saying go ham on folks but respect yourself enough to block out the noise and take care of you first. #Facts

[@ajheramartin6836]

Stephan Speaks... you seem very humble. The fact that you took the time to respond to some of your followers, given the number of followers you have at this point, speaks volumes.

[@MosesEmmet]

Giving your BEST to everyone but yourself... that is a real tragedy.

[@beverlyacheampong2343]

I have been there for all my life.. But now I see better. Do better and feel better

[@taytayshaniqua.8686]

Yes, this was me in my teen years. I remember how much I would dread going to work (everybody does and I still do but then compared to now it was much worse) because I allowed my coworkers and even customers to dictate my actions. Then when I got home I would be so exhausted. I would cry sometimes and not know why. Practicing self love even though I’m a beginner has really improved every aspect of the quality I am receiving for my life. It is a hard process for me right now because everyone in my family thinks I come off as selfish but hopefully I can be a vessel to lead them to cater for themselves too.

[@Eng1ande]

Not in a relationship so I’m just going to kick it into high gear & focus all my energy on God, me, my fam/friends. 🙏🏾 If someone comes along that I truly feel connected to, then cool. ❤️ But I’d rather pull back before I get caught up in the fantasy/idea of something. 🙈💭

[@WIGAHOLIC14]

Very necessary treat yourself how you want others to treat you

[@sweetcase9630]

GOING THROUGH THAT PHASE MYSELF WITH FAMILY, NOT BECAUSE WE'RE BLOOD IT GIVES YOU A LICENSE TO CONSTANTLY DISREGARD, DISRESPECT, DEGRADE ME WITH YOUR #TOXIC #DEADLY #BITTER WORDS. THANKS AGAIN I REALLY NEEDED TO HEAR THIS. 👑👑👑👑

[@sweetcase9630]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks YOU HAVE NO IDEA. MAY GOD CONTINUE TO GUIDE AND BLESS YOU.

[@mizztiffany4154]

I know things don't change over night but I'm learning,rt now iam in a healing stage

[@drusillacole3270]

Loving Yourself is never selfish💖

[@bantuerverh607]

We have two different types of self-love one of them is selfish but the biblical one is not. The book of Proverbs says to live by the wisdom means you love yourself. Which is the word right? Another scripture tell us to put others need before I own. Facts truth.

[@kendallmurray7689]

Every one should take time out every week to do something to increase their self-love. It doesn’t have to be big...it could be as simple as a bubble bath. I tell my older kids to watch the 5 year old for 30 minutes. Don’t let him knock on the door and handle whatever he does...because I am not here...then I lock myself in my bathroom with music and candles to just relax.

[@queenofswords1111]

I had to learn this the hard way....complete burnout and almost shut down. As always, great point!

[@deesnuts90210]

Same here... getting things together right now

[@queenofswords1111]

What's really sad is that I was raised (grandmother, mother, aunts and indirectly by all male family members) that I was to always look out for others before self. I watched it cost my maternal relatives their physical and mental health. I learned the truth late but not too late to let history repeat itself in me.

[@taytayshaniqua.8686]

@@queenofswords1111 amen my brother! I also stayed with a relative and I got so burnout. The funny thing is that during that period you breakdown without knowing why. Unfortunately for me I always told myself I was just acting weird, when in reality I had every right to breakdown even though I didn’t understand

[@thedavisdimension]

The most basic step that almost everyone misses...and kills many relationships. Well Said

[@abigalestoll]

💯 agree, loving and taking good care of ourselves is a priority, it's not selfish. If we don't be good to ourselves, who on earth will take care of our bodies for us?

[@fusha39]

I definitely agree... It caused me to feel emotionally and mentally drained by jumping from person to person. I've been single for a year... I'm working on loving myself So I can be in position to receive the man that God has for me

[@jeremiah2wavyyy]

I'm 17(male) & I'm literally absorbing and implementing everything you say from interviews and etc and let Me just say.....I connect with your advice and feel it every time

[@annettesolomon1347]

This is something I tell people time and time again and fail to take my own advice, my man said these very words to me a couple of days ago and to come on KZbin and hear the very same words ,I will most definitely take heed.

[@lwhite474]

Soo true especially to random people right on time!!!

[@tblaze7brown788]

Speak Wise Man! 🙌🏽🗣👂🏽🧐 We Betta Recognize Our Worth..., & Establish Boundaries! ✅🙌🏽

[@patriciasmith7539]

I'm getting to know me by pouring into myself so I'll know how to pour into others effectively. I'm loving this path

[@lakieshatucker99]

So true you can alter and lose yourself so glad I realized that 😍

[@temekahatcher6910]

Amen. Value and Self Love..Loving Myself!!💝

[@justcurious3253]

Thank you. Started with my mother practically bullying me to serve her first.

[@taytayshaniqua.8686]

My dad tells me to shut up when I start speaking personal fax, my parents both said I was possessed by demons. It’s funny but I hope it isn’t true

[@g-max2810]

🌸YES 🍇 this is what happened to me when my husband was murder I lost myself.

[@JjBianca]

I'm sending prayers and positive energy to you dear stranger🖤

[@Ms.Jamieh297]

Wow....SMH😥☝😔❤🙏💪 Peace, Love, Prayers & Positive Thoughts out to You & Your Love Ones, Sis!!!!

[@LevelsOfStyleWithSandra]

Absolutely needed to hear this! TFS 💖

[@aliajohnson470]

Thank you, amazing word to renew my mind. Blessings.

[@christiharlow3647]

SelfCare and SelfLove all 2019! The promise I made to myself!

[@josalynhouston444]

Amen! I receive that, In Jesus mighty name. Thank you! my brother. - God bless! & Shalom

[@khaiahmann9192]

Yess self love is key.

[@ryvysong]

❤This is so true. Thank you.

[@ryvysong]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks Thank you.❤

[@romilycyri2043]

Glory 🙏🙏🙏🙏! God bless! Someone just spoke to my heart😭😭😭😭

[@ellemichaels934]

Thanks Stephan. I always enjoy your videos. Short and to the point works for me. And yes I prioritize me. If I'm not good then not much is at least from my POV.

[@missj5564]

Thanks for the reminder.

[@tisaligon-roman6353]

I agree 100%✨

[@brianikarhodes161]

thank u thank u thank u I really really needed to hear that this morning

[@sherealldavis7189]

my current situation feeling lost

[@TheSweetdst]

Boundaries all 2019 ❤️

[@faviolafikir2181]

Say thattttt👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@madeinaotearoanz]

Amen 🙏🏾

[@cialajones1106]

Exactlyyyyy 👏🙌

[@deanj8870]

Exactly👑🙏🏾📖

[@JaneyImaaniEmotionalAwareness]

What prevents you from loving yourself? Was just curious about this question! Would love to hear your thoughts?

[@WIGAHOLIC14]

People and society make you feel guilty and make it seem like caring about yourself first is wrong.

[@taytayshaniqua.8686]

Some people will go to the point of telling you that you’re possessed, unfortunately my case.

[@Marie-vz2qp]

Correct bro.

[@Forrsierra]

Thank you!

[@kayajackson50]

Thanks for that reminder. You are so amazing!

[@QueenUglyDuckling]

FACTS 💯💯💯💯💯

[@annetteresto7587]

PREACH IT, BRO, AMEN HALLELUJAH 🤗😃😄🙂☺😊😁😀👏🤲👐🙌🙇‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙆‍♀️👩PRAISE HIM 🤗 YES LORD 🤗

[@Hello.D.11.11]

Love it, beautiful🤩🤗

[@deesnuts90210]

WOW I needed to hear this today 🙏🏾

[@beautifulsunshine2402]

So true...!!! Much💖🕯🙏

[@tarashajohnson1526]

It's necessary.

[@tonyaturner8555]

I receive this

[@chanelwest3641]

Love it!!!

[@alicea561]

PROVERBS 18:2 "A FOOL HATH NO DELIGHT IN UNDERSTANDING, BUT THAT HIS HEART MAY DISCOVER ITSELF." A fool is not interested in learning. He just is interested in his own thoughts. Today, in our society, the favorite statement is "I need to get off and find myself". This is foolish talk. In finding yourself, you are pleasing your own flesh. If this is a married person doing this, they usually find more than themselves. This type of activity breaks up families. We must somehow get our eyes off of ourselves and stop trying to please self. Only a fool pleases self. A wise person is interested in pleasing God. Go off and seek God. STAY WITH GOD!!!

[@clarenacelia9168]

🙏🙏🙏🙏 tisssss the season. Of self love

[@Cindy_Love_2025]

💯💯💯

[@janisewashington2661]

What do you do if it comes from family?

[@Maria-pu8wc]

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[@libralady0220]

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[@GiesRugz]

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[@firesign4297]

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[@heinianassy5005]

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