Does “body count“ matter?

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alex.datepsych

alex.datepsych

Күн бұрын

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@bobdjo5664
@bobdjo5664 Жыл бұрын
In Theory it matters, in practise it doesnt. The reason is that many men cannot tell either way how high the body count of their partner is, because the women can simply lie if it is high. It matters in theory because the partner count correlates with divorce risk, depression in women and risk of STDs. In practise it does not because the majority of men do not have many options and if they have same they mainly go for the better looking, not for the more pure women.
@chadcadsonvii5258
@chadcadsonvii5258 Жыл бұрын
Hence the high divorce rate!
@Me-eb3wv
@Me-eb3wv 6 ай бұрын
You ain’t wrong. I see men complain about female hypergamy , but then they go and simp for the prettiest 20year olds bikini “models” social media has to offer 😂
@eightywight
@eightywight 2 ай бұрын
The hymen is a sign built into a woman as to whether or not she has ever been with a man.
@Peter_Parker69
@Peter_Parker69 Жыл бұрын
There's also a 1+ higher count for all women within 10km radius of the Fox himself!
@tgheretford
@tgheretford Жыл бұрын
There is one body count that does matter regarding men outside of devoted religion - zero. There's a reason why the term "virgin" carries a social stigma with men that it generally doesn't with women. Think of the insults used against men, they tend to focus on private solo acts by a man or question his ability to attract women. A man not having recent pre-selection experience also carries a social stigma too (it's why divorced middle aged men have better outcomes in dating and relationships compared to long term single middle aged men, ask the many lonely forty-something male vloggers on this platform). And it's something people can tell without needing to ask you. And you can't learn experience or gain a degree in pre-selection either. In terms of defining "the wall", I would define that as the concept of aging making someone single less desirable as a partner as opposed to body count and promiscuity. In modern discourse, that tends to evolve around men's preferences for women. While you can't deny physical aging and fertility decline toward menopause, men also have "the wall" or a ticking clock, in terms of pre-selection and experience. It's why I say in discourse that women have a biological clock, men have an experience clock. If a woman does not have a child by her forties, she will struggle with medical risks or even have run out of time. If a man is long term single by his forties, he will struggle to find a partner and statistically never marry and become a father (again, I refer to the vlogger anecdotes earlier).
@heartrocket
@heartrocket Жыл бұрын
This is a solid video that all men swirling the red pill plughole need to see. Really appreciate the effort you put into making these videos.
@alwaysright3943
@alwaysright3943 10 ай бұрын
Body count still matters to men with an ounce of self-respect who are pursuing something serious, so cope.
@Ilda0511
@Ilda0511 4 ай бұрын
@@alwaysright3943mdrrr tkt c’est pareil pour les femmes
@Eric-yb9is
@Eric-yb9is Жыл бұрын
Great content. Thank you. This channel is going to be huge once more people are exposed to it.
@sardonic_smile_8752
@sardonic_smile_8752 Жыл бұрын
All men care about a woman’s bodycount, no exceptions. The difference between successful men and a dude who works at starbucks, is that the former can allow himself to tell the truth, the latter has no choice but to tolerate her past. Especially if she has been with bleq guys. There, I said it.
@joaoantunes4548
@joaoantunes4548 Жыл бұрын
I sure ain't taking no slut for a gf whatsoever, but this comment summarizes exactly what's wrong with the incelish and red pill communities. A dude spends 40 minutes presenting a mountain of research on why a lot of people don't give THAT much of a fuck about past partners, and some dude like you just shows up and just says "That's bullshit because i say so", and half a dozen of idiots applaud and the discussion ends lol Can't make this shit up
@albertwesker8883
@albertwesker8883 Жыл бұрын
​​@@joaoantunes4548acts. Majority of normie men don't even think about body count, only red pillers and inkwells. Jeff Bezos is about to marry a single mom with 2 kids from different guys. KZbin is the only place where body count is an issue
@SHAKA-NEU-LU
@SHAKA-NEU-LU Жыл бұрын
You can’t run behind black guys. 😂
@sardonic_smile_8752
@sardonic_smile_8752 Жыл бұрын
@@SHAKA-NEU-LU Amazing, the novelty, of female attraction to thugs. To low level men who's only claim to relevance, that females defend and laud them for, is the size of their penis. They have no Military Service, Education, career ot business prospects, savings, investments, property, values to speak of; not even proper command of the English language. Yet, we are inundated with commercials, social movements, government programs, up to and including shaming tactics to demand we treat them as equals in society despite their blatant racism and hatred for everyone and everything that is Not "Black Culture". Females that go with Bleq guys are basically rebelling against their parents and trying to seem edgy and trendy. Avoid them at all costs.
@sardonic_smile_8752
@sardonic_smile_8752 Жыл бұрын
Casual sex with genetically Superior men is an important mating strategy for women and if you do not understand that, that only means you are NOT one of those men.
@AzzAra09
@AzzAra09 Жыл бұрын
Hi Alex, would be interesting a future video about a very recent study, Hypergamy Revisited: Marriage in England, 1837-2021. Would be really interesting to have your opinion about it.
@tootingcarmoon532
@tootingcarmoon532 Жыл бұрын
I have a higher body count, around 30. Ideally, I would've preferred to have one partner to spend my life with, but life had different plans for me. I did go off the rails a bit, I know, but I would still prefer a virgin. I can turn a blind eye to a girl who has a body count of maximum 5, but my ideal number would still be 0.
@tootingcarmoon532
@tootingcarmoon532 Жыл бұрын
@@kc6810 not gonna broadcast it, but if my girl asks about it, I will be honest. It’s only fair towards her. If she wants to leave because of it, that’s on me.
@Ilda0511
@Ilda0511 4 ай бұрын
@@tootingcarmoon532si tu dit 30 elle va partir ou elle te prendra pas au serieux et si elle reste avc toi sans te prendre au serieux elle va te tromper dans le meilleur des cas. Bah si ta eu 30 meuf mais que tu demande un bodycount de 5 t’es dans la merde
@KhaziJKG
@KhaziJKG Жыл бұрын
Hell yea man. It's not so much about body count but how traumatized she is from previous relationship. The question you should be asking is can people love after love? Can you love someone new as you loved before.
@SHAKA-NEU-LU
@SHAKA-NEU-LU Жыл бұрын
Love isn’t real
@tgheretford
@tgheretford Жыл бұрын
Anecdotal examples, but I know of at least a couple of older women in real life who are long term single but out of the dating pool because no-one can compare to the positive aspects of their ex (while playing dissonance with their negative aspects that led them to be their ex).
@KhaziJKG
@KhaziJKG Жыл бұрын
@@SHAKA-NEU-LU harder to find today but is still out there. No blackpills
@SHAKA-NEU-LU
@SHAKA-NEU-LU Жыл бұрын
@@KhaziJKG the questions you asked were black pill. Love is a feeling, I deal in reality of understanding.
@the1stmetalhead
@the1stmetalhead Жыл бұрын
​@@KhaziJKG clearly you can love people after love. Since many people partners die due to misc reasons but they still find love and get married.
@emZee1994
@emZee1994 Жыл бұрын
Is there any data on how often do people lie to their partners about body count, by how much, and what factors influence this decision? For example, are women more likely to lie to a partner they want a long term relationship with? If so, by how much? Etc
@braveheartproduction2323
@braveheartproduction2323 Жыл бұрын
Hey bro, nice to see that you’re doing your best to be more active here on KZbin. The fact that women on average don’t prefer virgins doesn’t surprise me really. But what I did find interesting is that women don’t find promiscuous men as suitable long term partners. But when you really think about it, it makes sense from an evolutionary standpoint. If you were a women in hunter gatherer times. You would want to make sure that the man who you’re reproducing with won’t just pump and dump you. Leaving you both alone and pregnant in middle of the wild would be an almost guaranteed death sentence for both you and your baby. And finally, I have two quick personal questions for you if you don’t mind me asking. 1. What part of Europe are you from? You obviously have an accent and if I had to guess, you’re European. But I can’t distinguish where exactly you’re from. And 2. I follow you on Twitter, and I read the comments under one of your posts, that you have a girlfriend. First of, congratulations. I hope that everything works out between the both of you. But does she know about this channel and what you do? And if so, what does she think about it?
@Alisha0413
@Alisha0413 Жыл бұрын
Interesting data Alex! I hope the "no hymen, no diamond" crew watch this as it might be of interest to them😅
@jayrobitaille2402
@jayrobitaille2402 Жыл бұрын
I am not quite in the no hymen no diamond extreme, but I do have an appreciation for class regardless of how popular class is in the year of the clown 2023. I dated a few girls and did not even ask their sexual history and they still ended up telling me that they had fuck buddies. Western women are slags. The fact that guys like me are so disappointed is still a good thing, because you can never disappoint people who expect nothing of you. The ultimate hatred does not involve passion it is when you completely give up on expectations and become indifferent/ no longer care so much anymore.
@RaffieFaffie
@RaffieFaffie 17 күн бұрын
That's me and yeah it was interesting I liked it
@lesgibson969
@lesgibson969 Жыл бұрын
when it comes to serious relationship, if she is 18-25 and has more than 5 bodies then she is automatically disqualified P.S. i'm 25 and my body count is 7
@tailethman2276
@tailethman2276 Жыл бұрын
Judging by the comments people are struggling the wrap their heads around this one. Always amuses me how the cohort built on "facts, evidence and logic" simply deny this studies without basis simply because it doesnt say what they want. Even after your video demonstating(to my hreat suprise) that people are actually honest in these studies in your prior vid, people will still cling onto their narratives no matter what. Thanks for the great vid, wasnt that suprising, kind of funny how "low value men" care more about it eince according to red pill its the only way for women to get "high value men". Interesting.
@lordofgingers
@lordofgingers Жыл бұрын
I would say the men not asking it’s more because they don’t feel comfortable asking. While you do have the no hymen no diamond people, I think most men are okay with the situation if they are personally more experienced than the girl. They understand their role is to lead and if she outstrips him in experience, he might conclude “what’s the point? I can’t lead on this.” Personally, I feel the conversation needs to come up. If you get a basic history lesson from one another and it matches up to their behavior then you’re in a good place.
@StefIsCold
@StefIsCold 7 ай бұрын
8:25 great data
@chadcadsonvii5258
@chadcadsonvii5258 Жыл бұрын
Are you referencing studies using questionaires? Bro! Do you still believe that women tell the truth?
@michaelcueva530
@michaelcueva530 Жыл бұрын
have you ever considered talking to in particular centrist left streamers like notsoerudite about this (also she's talked to William Costello)? Because she seems to really have arguments pertaining to how looking for low body count LT partners doesn't map well to LT relationship success well, at least it's what she claims based on the studies she has cited, where body count is correlated but not necessarily a predictor of success in LT relationships. Would be interesting to hear a discussion between you two, since I love the fruitful content you always put out.
@user-pv2dp4dq8b
@user-pv2dp4dq8b Ай бұрын
I'm only about 6 minutes in but... if all you used was surveys to ask questions then you've done 0 science in terms of finding out if body count actually matters in terms of woman's ability to bond or have a committed relationship. It's a biological question, not something a survey can answer. You're also drawing conclusions that are not suggested by the data. If you ask a man "how many partners did you have?" then you say "the data suggests that these men had X amount of partners" ...no, it doesn't. The data simply states how those men answered the question. We have no idea how many partners they actually had. You seem to be a victim of your own irrational bias, like most men, that a high body count reduces a woman's value (or increases risk) in terms of a committed relationship and fidelity.
@StefIsCold
@StefIsCold 7 ай бұрын
9:10 🤔🤔
@peterau1720
@peterau1720 Жыл бұрын
Is it special when she gets a teddy bear and flowers the first time, or the 9th time? Alpha imprint and pair bonding. If possible be both.
@ndndndnnduwjqams
@ndndndnnduwjqams Жыл бұрын
16:40
@alwaysright3943
@alwaysright3943 10 ай бұрын
Very disappointing video. Women's self reports are the furthest thing from reliable.
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