Read my ebook & 2 Day Video class : bit.ly/500waysbook Get my answer cards: diamondgirl.me/cards Discover my ABCs program 👉🏼bit.ly/ABCGetHimBack Much love and great chatting with you all! Adrienne ❤️
@MsActor20092 жыл бұрын
From what I’ve learned here, Feminine Energy is being honest and waiting to see how things unfold without any expectation.
@AdrienneEverheart2 жыл бұрын
You got it! I know you have FEMM Tools for Dating, but for others, here's the link ( bit.ly/femmtools ) AND -- Add in with that honesty to not over-share or lean forward. You can always ask: why am I about to say or do this/that? What am I hoping will happen?"
@MsActor20092 жыл бұрын
🙌 Yes, over sharing with anyone too soon sucks out all the mystery. People need to get to know you little by little.
@sasi52732 жыл бұрын
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@ievaomer2 жыл бұрын
Since I consciously choose feminity men are so masculine and gentlemen around me and I set with no less than that and they soon get it. Magic.
@beckylilly47493 ай бұрын
Breaking the cycle of dysfunctional relationships. No longer obsessing or over investing. Thank you, Adrienne! ❤
@AdrienneEverheart3 ай бұрын
Way to go! ❤️🥰
@casperinsight35242 жыл бұрын
Don't talk on the phone with him all nite...Lean back into your Femme I wanna be a wife one day 💥 a man has to miss you, He has to miss your presence in his life, miss your time & energy Limit yourself, set boundaries that help you meet your goals
@ievaomer2 жыл бұрын
For sure, missing and then meeting with open soft heart is so important.
@xoxia77582 жыл бұрын
But that’s not to say to never do it.
@casperinsight35242 жыл бұрын
Its so hard shifting from Masculine energy to receiving energy. Especially when you're busy taking action day to day, being a solo parent, although kids don't like being told what to do either, lo!
@AdrienneEverheart2 жыл бұрын
Practice just noticing how you feel when around a man and if you are focused on a result or letting the energy of sexual Polarity to happen. ❤
@KS-md3uj2 жыл бұрын
It feels like we have to be perfect, but they get to lash out and be rude without consequences. It feels unfair....
@xposetruth56812 жыл бұрын
Exactly. There is nothing wrong with calling people out. You teach people how to treat you.
@hardcandyland2 жыл бұрын
No. Adrienne clearly states clearly throughout the video to keep your boundaries and limits. It's not necessary to be bitter and caustic about it. If the man isn't getting the gift of missing you, that's not on him.
@casperinsight35242 жыл бұрын
Feel an impulse is femine energy Acting on impulse is masculine ...taking action for a certain outcome in mind. Open your heart, feel your feelings 500 ways to talk to a man Peeling back the onion layers to get to your core feeling sounds helpful Sharing your feelings sounds vulnerable, especially if you have a history of being an over giver or under giver. I like what you said about finding balance. I like when you explain How To lean back or lean forward and why. Thank you Adrienne You can't solve an emotional problem with logic 💥 huh, who knew?
@violetbloomberg44532 жыл бұрын
I prefer to talk on the phone over texting. I agree its definitely way better to connect that way before you meet.
@AdrienneEverheart2 жыл бұрын
Yes! Learn more 👉🏼 I suggest Femm Tools for Dating bit.ly/femmtools
@strwb83612 жыл бұрын
Clemson, SC girl here!! So glad I found you a couple of days ago! I've been applying and practicing my feminine energy in a lot of different areas of my life. As a mama, its really helped with my relationship with my pre-teen daughter as well as the wonderful high quality man I've been dating since January! Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge 🙏.
@AdrienneEverheart2 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy things are going well for you! Keep us posted!!
@taghazoutmoon503111 ай бұрын
Warmth is how you rebuild. Accept no matter what happened. When he comes back to connect, be a source of love and warmth. 5:30 it feels so good to hear from you, I really missed you.
@Beoneinchrist2 жыл бұрын
I have followed you for 2 years. I have all your programs. I am becoming a different person watching you. Couple weeks ago I was strong enough to walk away from my sweet husband but he didn’t care about my feelings and treated me really bad. I just wanted to tell you Thank you!!!! Thank You for showing me I deserve much better.
@pipermcpickles52832 жыл бұрын
Good for you, that takes a lot of strength and bravery! Good luck on your journey. ☺️💖
@Beoneinchrist2 жыл бұрын
@@pipermcpickles5283 it’s definitely not easy, we had 2 little kids together too.
@pipermcpickles52832 жыл бұрын
Oh dear, that's so incredibly tough! I wish you comfort and success with everything, and I know you'll rise even happier in the end. *Hugs* 🤗
@AdrienneEverheart2 жыл бұрын
I hope it all works out. Sending you love. Read my blog on Why Walking Away Works (Space & Commitment at ANY Age) diamondgirl.me/walk
@Beoneinchrist2 жыл бұрын
@@AdrienneEverheart Thank you!! I’ll read it for sure! Your 100 men tool really works!!! Every time I do it my husband will call me!! It’s so crazy.
@bettycarmella11272 жыл бұрын
Perfect timing!! Adrienne I work as a massage therapist in Cary, NC❤ shout out to a sista Carolina girl!!🤗🦋💛
@nancywilcox36652 жыл бұрын
Yes, big difference in phone voice. how many times things get misunderstood in text even with girlfriends, because you don't hear the tone in the voice.
@AS-ru7kf2 жыл бұрын
This is so good exactly what I needed to hear! When rebuilding it can be difficult and yes men test us to see if we will go back to our old ways. That is what I’m experiencing but not sure if he is pulling back bc he fell for the old me three years ago as opposed to me now he’s saying his feeling have changed. So then I’m thinking maybe he’s more in his feminine and since we both are it’s clashing.
@maryosteen93682 жыл бұрын
hello friend when I was reading your comment I understand how you feel right now I know of a man who helped me last month If you need help
Femme tools for dating sounds good to navigate how to effectively communicate initially, but what if your in relationship and trying to cultivate ongoing effective communication ? How to meet your man in the middle ? Looking forward to your response 💙 Thank You
@divineserendipity11962 жыл бұрын
Love it! Amazing advice 🙏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@Anja92ful2 жыл бұрын
This video was perfect, Adrienne, thank you! ♥️ You look beautiful! Hope you are doing well with your health
@carolinabu741211 ай бұрын
Thank you for this. I needed it. Confused here
@AdrienneEverheart11 ай бұрын
You're so welcome!
@citrineforme2 жыл бұрын
Being raised by a narcissist father (and borderline mother) it is so hard to not be in my masculine energy because I was trained at such a young age to fix their problems. Ugh.
@AdrienneEverheart2 жыл бұрын
Hugs to you ❤️❤️ When you get inspired to want to help, ask: how can you help yourself in the very same way you want to help them?
@serenitygilles70647 ай бұрын
Same and I can't express feelings and scared of rejection
@FeliciaJasso2 жыл бұрын
Love your videos! I noticed I stay more in my feminine energy when I regularly watch your content. I have all your programs and the ABC’s worked to get my ex back back in September, but I realized we wanted different things. Anyway, I was recently involved with a new guy which things came to an end with and I’m doing the ABC’s with him. I’m in the no contact phase right now and his bday is coming up. Would texting happy bday be an exception? Haha I probably shouldn’t even do that, right?
@maryosteen93682 жыл бұрын
hello friend when I was reading your comment I understand how you feel right now I know of a man who helped me last month If you need help
This is really very insightful and helpful. Hard to hear but very good advice. Thank you so much
@lax24692 жыл бұрын
Thanks as always
@nimasoraya11932 жыл бұрын
Oh wow! The card you picked says exactly what I channeled for myself some while, ago! This cannot be a just a coincidence. I see it as a sign. Thank you! And I am a warm and soft person with inner strength and power 😊♥️♥️✨
@AdrienneEverheart2 жыл бұрын
Love to you!! 👉🏼👉🏼 Https://diamondgirl.me/cards
@AdrienneEverheart2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for participating today!!
@elizanathaniel502 жыл бұрын
Thanks, love! You are the sweetest!!
@AdrienneEverheart2 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome!
@sasdon82 жыл бұрын
Diamond Girl is one of my favorite songs. I feel that song when I’m out in the world to remind myself I’m a @Diamond Girl just like Adriane says 😎😎
@casperinsight35242 жыл бұрын
TY 4 clarifying the repercussions of our FEM words and behaviours, the distinction of nice girl syndrome and how to balance between assertive, aggressive and passive behaviours ~ Much Appreciated 😎😘
@casperinsight35242 жыл бұрын
You can't solve an emotional problem logically 💥 you gotta feel it to heal it
@casperinsight35242 жыл бұрын
You gotta let a masculine man figure it out on his own and then praise him with feeling stmts 💥FEM energy is leaning back and letting him be the man while you praise him as his reward 💥
@casperinsight35242 жыл бұрын
It would FEEL so great to enjoy another FAB vixeo and keep this conversation going 😎😘 Cheers
@AdrienneEverheart2 жыл бұрын
This is everything I preach. You’ve studied well!!🥰
@casperinsight35242 жыл бұрын
@@AdrienneEverheart Adopting your beliefs in hopes of internalizing them is step 1 but applying them in real life is more challenging. How to switch from silent logic to verbalisig feeling statements doesn't come easily, its actually harder to practise than one would think ...tongue in cheek. What everyday scripting might you suggest so that we can get the hang of it? It seems so foreign to do but logical in theory...I find effective communication or ManSpeak harder than it sounds.
@durgaambikap72572 жыл бұрын
Maam a vedio about how to deal with musculine women being a feminine women
@AdrienneEverheart2 жыл бұрын
Great topic. I think it’s best to let them lead if they want to.
@durgaambikap72572 жыл бұрын
But it's their jealousy, contempt and anger that disturbs the lot. As a feminine women I often get attacks from suck musculine women. But at the end of the I'm the one who always overpowers them without much effort thanks to my femininity....
@fy95262 жыл бұрын
What does leaning back too much look like?
@AdrienneEverheart2 жыл бұрын
Avoidance. Shutting down. Being up In your head. Thinking about what to do or say instead of being present.
@user-pk5pl7ox1e2 жыл бұрын
@@AdrienneEverheart please explain further. I'm finding it difficult to know what I should be doing after not having response for few wks. He keeps a tabs on my status on social media but no response to text. Please advise
@Swiss_Girl Жыл бұрын
@@user-pk5pl7ox1eany updates?❤
@ashleyoverholt4492 жыл бұрын
My Boyfriend Mark, has been the one, who has been changing his mind. So many times, and always saying things, like is my girlfriend going to cheat on me, or is she going to leave me. for some else. And I keep on telling him, that I would never leave him. And I don't know how to make him stop saying this like this. If you have any thing helpful regarding this, it would be great.
@oogiioyu46322 жыл бұрын
You are great ❤🥰 thank you for myself to having you 😜🙏
@nancywilcox36652 жыл бұрын
Ok, you mentioned about "giving", I just got 500 ways, and you talk about it there too. I'm curious, when do you give presents to a man, his birthday, Christmas, Valentines is for us to receive?
@RusticRose31172 жыл бұрын
Can you go on audible?
@aandm77722 жыл бұрын
Can this apply just to casual dating?
@tanjao.43122 жыл бұрын
Great advice :)
@AdrienneEverheart2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@heyonope76822 жыл бұрын
Ive accepted we are Co-parenting. We talk to much for him to miss me, of coarse I want him to pursue me and marriage . Im trying to think of feeling statements and boundrys so he can miss me, soooo hard 🤔
@tchaney37772 жыл бұрын
Another way to create space is to be active on things you love or try something new. Mention them. He is guaranteed to wonder about the men out there engaging with you-don’t mention that though. Talk about the activities.
@cianajames552 жыл бұрын
After watching this video, I realized I have leaned back from a guy that was pursuing me and another female at the same time. I was afraid to say how I have felt at first, but opened the door for him to call me but he hasn't. I try to let it go but I am always thinking about him...ugh help!
@AdrienneEverheart2 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you see that warmth is always an option, but needs to be balanced with not pursing a man with an outcome in mind. Femm Tools for Dating is a $27 program that would really benefit you. bit.ly/femmtools
@casperinsight35242 жыл бұрын
It sounds like your programs are designed to rebuild ourselves and not necessarily rebuild with a man. I'm interested in how to effectively communicate in FEM energy moving forward . I wish your programs titles reflected the material in a Feminine empowering way focusing on us and not the man. Unconditional positive regard sounds good. It feels good to hear from you, I've really missed you sounds good. Keeping warm boundaries in place, so men dont take advantage of how much you'll bend to meet their needs, how much you'll LEAN forward. I've got plenty of friends....I want to be a wife one day
@neeluphukan75322 жыл бұрын
1st one to comment ❤️
@elss71072 жыл бұрын
Hi Adriene. What about if he comes back texting and i was warm, i even sent him a pic of us… he was happy and said “one day we can go out, lets talk later” but he desappear again… should i be warm again? He quick dating me cause he said we wasnt ready for a relationship. And now he came back last month, i only want forget him, even when he was so gentleman with me before.
@AdrienneEverheart2 жыл бұрын
This is difficult but in "500 Ways" and Femm Tools for Dating I cover that when he continues to return via text you can say: Feels good to hear from you, but I feel confused. I've accepted we can't date, yet you continue to message me, is there something I should know? This will help: bit.ly/femmtools
@elss71072 жыл бұрын
He hasnt text again in 2 months, sometimes i forget him but then i think it felt son real, i found my husband! This is the guy😂 It is very confused to me this behavior, i think good marriage wouldn’t start like this even when we learn all of techniques to speak to them.
@vidushripatel9799 ай бұрын
Adrienne mu guy was extremely Gaga over he and always persued me And after went a bit slow and I behaved too rash and masquline with him and punished him after thay been soft and now he is detached and ghosted me . Can I fix this????????? Or its end of road for us
@AdrienneEverheart9 ай бұрын
I don’t appreciate that he can’t work this matter out. Long term this won’t work. You need someone who can problem solve. You can apologize once and say what you’d do differently- if he doesn’t come around after 2-3 week boldly, boldly move on.
@vidushripatel9799 ай бұрын
Actually he. Fears that I wanted to take revenge on my ex
@vidushripatel9799 ай бұрын
Rejected him in bed
@sweetvonbettie12 жыл бұрын
My energy is low..so any positive words would be great! Just got told he needs to be alone right now. And im ok with it but ugh is hard. He said. Hey beautiful .i am ok .. just been so busy. Think i should be alone for now. Thats why i been so quiet. Told him : Hey im glad u ok. I appreciate you for communicating that and i hear you. Yes i notice the distance. You are a rad guy haha, i hope we can reconnect when you ready. Have a beautiful day. I just hope he comes back , 😒 Did i do this right? Did i respond warm n caring?
@makenziedeniss7542 жыл бұрын
Don't expect an outcame.... Let him figure it out
@sweetvonbettie12 жыл бұрын
@@makenziedeniss754 i know just hard! Thank you
@sweetvonbettie12 жыл бұрын
@@makenziedeniss754 gota keep on living my life..n accept he wont come back sigh
@makenziedeniss7542 жыл бұрын
My dear, we all went through the emotional rollerkoster and learned the hard way... men are like cats, they will came to you, when they want to..... If you loose him, you Might get him back..... They always came back!
@sweetvonbettie12 жыл бұрын
@@makenziedeniss754 you are right! Thank you🥰 i feel much better today. C'est la vie!
@heyonope76822 жыл бұрын
He has to miss me ** Thank you Holy Spirit for helping me stay in love. Thank you Lord for protection from Jezebel and Delilah spirits, in Jesus name Amen.