Does How You Choose to Dress AFFECT How Men See You? W/Loyce [4K]

[@stayslickwithkit]

Shoutout to Loyce for bringing the realness 🔥

[@loycenagawa8638]

Thank you for having me 😊

[@Akintunde17]

At least she was honest

[@skidmarks-ov3hn]

Oooh long episode. Can't wait to enjoy this on my wind down tonight

[@stayslickwithkit]

🔥

[@pfowen5903]

Bro had to be real and check her at the last bit tbh. Valid point. I think her reasoning is more emotional as opposed to logical and thats why they clashed at 1:29:03

[@DJWenlowe]

This was a right up there with some of your best ones. I think she thought you were judging her, which, having seen many of your episodes, you really don't do. It's not your style, you keep it real but like it to be conciliatory. I think she still feels bad about what she did. Any chance, you could pop the podcast onto places like Podbean and other platforms Kit ?

[@stayslickwithkit]

Thanks, glad you like the episode. Yeah I'm not here to judge but will always be 💯 about things. I wasn't judging her and thinks she needs to forgive herself fully, people make mistakes that's life. So episodes will be on spotify and apple podcasts 1 or 2 days after its released on KZbin 👍🏾

[@loycenagawa8638]

I appreciate this ❤

[@chituru8574]

Nice episode as always. But it did come across like you were judging her, which made her become defensive especially telling her she was wrong about thinking telling him she wasn’t attracted to him was easier and might’ve saved the situation. I think I can understand how she would’ve wanted to spare his feelings and not make him feel outright rejected. But then when she had this other fire blazing, she just had to speak up. Might not make logical sense, but that’s emotional reasoning, I think. Kit, your point is totally logical. But then humans be ‘humanizing’ all the time. lol. She might’ve mentally checked out of the marriage by then as well. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@stayslickwithkit]

I hear that, for me maybe the other conversation would have been easier, definitely wasn't trying to judge because it can be difficult to be so open Appreciate the feedback 🔥

[@chituru8574]

@@stayslickwithkit Kit replied my comment! Yay! My day is made. 😅

[@D_Str0ng1]

What's funny is whenever a woman encounters a man who continues his single behavior after being in a relationship... he's immature and he should be more serious about the relationship... should we call the clubbing girls immature when the want to go out with their girls?! While men and woman are not equal, the logic applies. Woman are social creatures that take their cues from society first and foremost. Dressing sexy may make her feel good and so therefore she's doing it for herself, but the feeling she feels is based on the feedback loop of society of people who see her and what society defines as sexy and how well she measures up to that standard, which still requires feedback. If no one ever sees her, does she still feel sexy? Why does she feel compelled to share how she looks with others when she feels sexy? She takes a bunch of photos and shows others or shares it to social media or goes outside. It may not be explicitly for male attention, but male attention is a part of it. The last part of this comes later in the convo when she shares that a man will marry the good girl and then cheat on her with the stripper... does this mean that a woman will continue to dress sexy in a relationship out of insecurity sometimes? Because she doesn't want the strippers to gain the upper hand? She'd rather be the woman who a man leaves his woman for than the woman who gets left? Qtna... I've always noticed women changing their behaviors and appearance naturally and unprompted when they're in a relationship in order to protect the relationship. So a man thinks a woman doesn't value him or the relationship when she doesn't do this.

[@depthgod7672]

Bro is super real!

[@stayslickwithkit]

Always about open honesty

[@ProjectPiperCustoms]

Thumbnail is misspelt

[@stayslickwithkit]

Thanks will get editor on that ha