Does Your Man Like You

[@CupTheCakeMasta]

Shera saved me from myself. No longer Barbara the builder

[@LilFairy]

Congratulations 🎉

[@iaf4454]

You go girl!! Now there is no limits to your success

[@DrinahHack]

🎉

[@goddessdasha777]

“They mad if you a Witch , they mad if you a Nun, They mad when you’re giving it up they’ll be mad when you give them None Do watchu want“❤😊

[@stilljocelyn_]

A man that loves you will never allow you to do any of the things Shera said. A man that loves you never will let you stress about anything.

[@IVvOOvVI]

That’s true. The men at work stress you out because they don’t give an f about you.

[@60wwediva]

​@@IVvOOvVI in my experience men at work be creeping and looking for pussy. Even the married ones

[@peacejoylove8542]

Went out with a friend last night and let him talk. And boy, did he give some interesting information from between the lines. Ladies, stop going all out for these men. The ones that don't deserve your efforts sit back and conserve their own energy and take advantage of you. And the real providers, like my friend, will lose the thrill of the conquest as the dynamics become blurred and go somewhere else where they feel needed and able to impress you with the fruits of their labor. If you feel like you're doing too much, you most likely are.

[@iaf4454]

❤❤❤❤

[@jasmineetienne3361]

" some men only tolerate women" Useful reminder

[@moongirlswanderlust]

I’m studying and living abroad thanks to my dad. Man I’m dating provides for everything while I save my money. Happily enjoying my early 20s

[@onthelolo2389]

Not to be rude or nosey but is your man wealthy or just generous? Trying to find a man like this and idk if I should be looking for the millionaires or just middle class men who can afford to take care of me while I better myself 😂

[@moongirlswanderlust]

@@onthelolo2389 he’s not super rich but he has enough to take me on dates, trips, pay bills, etc… go for generosity! But if you find a millionaire that’s even better 😂

[@ruthalvarenga1251]

I wish I had this mind set in my 20’s I just turned 30 and I am finally learning rewiring my my mind and my conditioning.

[@KaitlynLoveXo]

Go girl

[@natashadickson4819]

​@onthelolo2389 You asked if you should be "looking for a millionaire"...there's a different energy that you can use, it's more like attracting a millionaire 🌷rather than looking for one. 👀. That starts with a woman looking her absolute best in the parts of town where a millionaire can see her and approach her. And having the grace and charm to blend in at his level of society. Healthy weight, speaking properly, table manners, looking classy or regal vs looking regular or simply too provocative.

[@JadeHeartLove]

Facts. They Provide Fully and they don't expect you to "cook and clean"

[@nochoiice]

That part too

[@CS-pl1re]

What if he pays for everything says he dont like your physics but whants to walk around with you and take you on trips and help you financially? 🤔

[@Симона-ъ8и]

@@CS-pl1re I would still stay in my best shape, wear clothes that improve how my physique looks like and get money

[@user-of9bx1uk3u]

Thank you! ❤

[@phi-losiphy2038]

​@@CS-pl1reI'm not sure why he thinks he's entitled to say that, put him in his place, get boundaries and get a new man!

[@IranisevicPaddie]

Heavy in not letting you work pregnant once my belly started showing he told me to quit he did not like seeing me wake up at 5am to go to work now I’m just relaxing at home 🥰

[@JJenkins-j9k]

This video is about to make me break up with my boyfriend lol

[@calliem2024]

Do it! Lol

[@stephanienoel1181]

I know I just did 2 days ago 😂😂

[@Kcali_love]

Sprinkle Sprinkle ✨😂

[@saqueradry3629]

Me too

[@econempresses]

Girl if I were to see these sooner I would of broken up years ago

[@mondeliyungu5711]

Just dumped òne dusty last month and i feel light

[@baTaTiyya]

Congrats 🎉🎉

[@iaf4454]

Of course dear, it feels better!! Welcome to the dusty free era!!!

[@arislu1]

It’s a beautiful feeling

[@aloversdiaryxo]

put a 70 year in his place today, transferred $10,000 to my name and have been leaving him on read ever since he disrespected me thinking I would chase. I sent him back to the streets where to pick me women he is used too. Some men will start off nice but ladies know your worth, no matter how much money they have. A man that LIKES YOU WONT PURPOSELY TRY AND HURT YOU.

[@SunQueen-d7l]

🎉this is everything 🙌 well said 👏

[@user-pd4qj8pb6z]

Great stream, Shera. I’m not dating right now. Being picky. You can avoid a lot of dusties by saying you’re taken(and focusing on quality men). Giving free sex makes you more accessible. Drains you and makes you feel used. I agree with you; if he is stingy with his wallet, be stingy with your kitty. I’m 24, but it’s like the older I get; the less I romanticize about men. Block, ignore, and nothing more. That leaves time for me to focus on myself(beauty, weight, etc).

[@co-creatingwithcoachkristi4151]

You are beautiful, brilliant and hilarious! The level of honesty and facts! Shera, you are saving the young women and me like only you can. And I’m loving it! The more I listen, the more I learn. I’m 41 and I was a Barbara the builder and a pickmeisha always! No more! Sprinkle sprinkle.

[@cocoace7587]

Ladies be careful getting rid of the dust . Dust gets unhinged if they don't have a place to stay or can't use your car &/or money anymore. 😢

[@lacymcduff7428]

That's scary accurate

[@robotnitchka]

The thing about men knowing if you're a pickme immediately is true. I've been told by more men than I can count now whom I've only spoken to 2 or 3 times that I'm too high maintenance for them... It filters out the dusties immediately at least. The ones who are willing to provide will chase harder.

[@j1nnienchrist]

I still don’t know what high maintenance means 😭 and one guy called me it before like?!

[@robotnitchka]

@@j1nnienchrist High maintenance is when you expect to be taken care of. I am not about to waste my time and brainpower on cooking, cleaning and admin. I can still do it, but I'm not going to. That's what men and servants are for.

[@thevivirose]

The only time I clock in is when I see Shera posted 🫡

[@eternalabundance39]

Smart

[@Steph_1215]

Let me tell you a secret: men don't care about your feelings!❤❤❤❤😂😂😂😂

[@basicinfo2022]

1:09:00

[@a_la_drinah]

Ok!!!

[@aloversdiaryxo]

i disagree. They only care when you add value to them and their ego

[@jessicahitchens6926]

Yes like a trophy.

[@iaf4454]

We already know this. Trophies need to be won!! There are different stages to win 😅😅😅 competition starts at 1, 2, 3 hahaha😅😅😅

[@ashleyisachild]

The first 6 minutes are one of the all time greatest rants, EVERY woman needs to hear this!!!

[@user-bc9fh3jv3b]

this is so true because i have a very heavily pregnant colleague who is VISIBLY tired at work constantly, and shes a very sweet soul, thought to myself if i was her husband i would never let her do this (im a girl)

[@jessicahitchens6926]

She is a fool. I would have told her straight out. Sweet and simple..

[@iaf4454]

In my neighbourhood I saw a girl who is pregnant and her boyfriend (the father of the baby) doesnt work but she does. Imagine that poor lady, with all the pain you have after giving birth going to work from 9 till 5, and he does nothing!!... It is terrible

[@cocoace7587]

​@@iaf4454 Yep , it's horrible. But , it happens a lot 😢.

[@ConservativeBaddieTV]

Thank you for this video. So many women are just so happy to say that they’re in a relationship, that they don’t even realize they’re men doesn’t even like/want them. Just sad & silly

[@Mrs.704]

This true and if he doesn’t mind that you’re exhausted after work, he really doesn’t care.

[@LightOurDirection]

Ended w my dusty at 25 it’s time to catch up on lost time babyyyy😂

[@MsAlexis]

😂😂😂😂

[@db4449]

Lord..... I thought I was the only one.... He LIED about himself since I was 17..... leaving him in the trash at 25 now and I wish I knew who he really was at the start, "I am not the Barbara you're looking for"

[@chayo4537]

Ok dustettes. 😂

[@JJenkins-j9k]

@@chayo4537why are here and not out making money? we don’t care about what you have to say

[@calliem2024]

I left him when I was 23. I’ll be 25 this December. I’m still trying to get back on my feet & financially stable. I lost everything 😔

[@MsAlexis]

That Part! Trust this a real issue I wish Men would keep it moving when they dont like you😂

[@db4449]

But they want to try to stick around 🤔🤢

[@JadeHeartLove]

It's crazy. They are just narcissistic and want to manipulate and play a bunch of people off each other, Triangulate compete with eachother etc 🙄

[@lookup912]

They all do...if they don't get ANY

[@IVvOOvVI]

It’s OK to feel hard, but never forget that their rejection is your protection!

[@OptimisticSeven]

that's to like right

[@J_Elle30]

If you choose to date a pretty/handsome man, make sure you have STRONG main character/unbothered energy and be prepared to get what you can out the union. Be the main character always and it should be easier to navigate.

[@ThePinkPantha21]

Why do ladies even want a pretty guy? Seems tiresome 😂

[@iaf4454]

​​​@@ThePinkPantha21 i just dont know, it is suppose you are the pretty one... a man is not pretty or handsome if he is not a provider or a man who takes action... Some ladies want harsh lives... why would you do that??

[@PinkIslandJewel]

Wrong channel boo lol she teaches us to date the ugly rich ones

[@obsidianbeauty76]

Shera!! I obviously cannot listen to you while driving. I was listening to you earlier and when you said that dusty used his bible pages to roll up some weed, I almost had a wreck!! I was not ready for that and I was laughing so mf'ng hard the people at the stoplight was looking at me...I'll never listen to you while driving again!!😅😅

[@IVvOOvVI]

😅😅

[@j1nnienchrist]

Using your bible pages is so insane to me 😭 🤣🤣

[@skaylany330]

I know she’s speaking facts cuz this episode is triggering dusty PTSD 😅

[@kiramedley9797]

Right😢😢 super triggered

[@ekata.dracomancis]

Omg girl same.

[@lizbethcafe]

You have a pet, a dusty pet 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 This is brutal

[@Simone-zb7tu]

Shera !!!!! You are wise beyond your years. She is for the WOMAN. Single or Married.

[@dinay8179]

Pink is your color !

[@itsmekayb327]

She actually saves many women . Especially who accept the reality and aren’t delulu 😊

[@tarahbruno3793]

She told no lies! 85% of women know they are the only ones in a relationship but still stay for the gram

[@PearlsCrystals]

Shera is the smartest woman on the planet, I’m convinced ❤ I finally started leveling up once I focused only on you and not you+ other KZbinrs who are clearly in it for the money

[@aprilmonique7639]

The Fairy Godmother 💖✨️

[@daniellehedger3644]

maybe it's the pisces in me as well but i can relate so much to shera on her perspective on a lot of things including why i don't like to deal w ppl that much

[@nnedwards3260]

Pisces gang.

[@Naptural_RX]

Pisces ♓

[@kymmiehush]

Whew…the first 3 mins. Shera is going in!! Thank you for the message!

[@Girlypop-ue9eo]

You are glowing !!!

[@nolwaziqueenethnhleko581]

Wish I knew Shera years ago. Been doing it all wrong all this time. Better late than never right 😊

[@Luckimee]

The subscriber count is GROWING ❤❤❤

[@DetroitMuscle]

Because the single women number is growing 😂

[@nataliabusko1432]

@@DetroitMuscledusty, go to work 😂😂😂

[@Roseberrylove]

Dusty pet 😂😂😂

[@nicoleowens2392]

Girl this comment made me cackle 😂

[@Ceilingkatwatchesus]

I niggled 🤭🤭

[@SolacePoetry__]

😂😂

[@rensii-e8b]

@@nicoleowens2392Same. Driving and I had to chuckle 😅

[@nicoleowens2392]

@@rensii-e8b I wish we could call them this universally 😂

[@cecejones4296]

You were spitting pure factssss from the very beginning of this video🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@JJenkins-j9k]

Thank you for this message, Shera!!

[@kristinekatesalvador2160]

Shera you are glowing!! This is one if my favorite looks on you!! That lipstick color and eye look suits you so well 😍😍😍😍

[@indiaryan6318]

Ima tryna watch this and the devil done walked in. I’ll be back

[@225ladyful]

😂😂😂😂

[@TheeShortAndSweet]

😂😂😂😂

[@moengele7560]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@debbiemanning3910]

In Shera we trust💪🏾💕

[@Lisatheecreator]

Shera, I naturally give a lot of compliments so I did not know that I was giving off Pickmeisha vibes and I wasn’t even cognizant of it. Thank you for informing me now going forward I’m dust free

[@LexiRae7]

Shera, you are resplendent. Thank you for all you do.

[@juditfelvinc1114]

Shera is the Best of best🎉

[@aminatambaye-kw9rp]

Shera, i met an woman victim pickmesha i really thought i had saw pickmesha before but this one terrified me she a extreme victim pickmesha 😭

[@nathanielelzie8898]

9:40 straight facts I feel sorry for the average woman

[@israelikamatheson8193]

Ms Shera, what is your opinion on men who provide everything but constantly resent you for it

[@rosewatersweettea]

Secretly gay

[@quilabill]

@@rosewatersweetteathe gasp I let out

[@Kberry_]

She’ll say who cares 😂get your money

[@IVvOOvVI]

@@Kberry_ get your money, but be careful because they might get angry and do something bad

[@ohsheinvests]

Wheww this is a dangerous type of man! Men that do but complain/throw it in your face later is a narcissist. They only do nice things for leverage. It’s also a form of devaluation. Stay away from those type of men!

[@innai.1366]

Funny but since i started to watch these videos men started to send me money. I didn’t consciously change my behavior, I didn’t even talked to some of them for a while…

[@iaf4454]

Me too, all men are providers... well the majority. There are others who cant do that bc they had bad relantionships with their fathers. Always look up those men with strong bond with his father. They are more masculine and can provide and protect ❤❤❤

[@lookup912]

All men shld get oscars. Esp 1s convincd by their own performance🤣 Dear Ladies, take an acting class. But instead of oscars, get 💰 assets multiple commercial properties, multiple index ins policies, & multiple turn-key bus, sincerely, genX.💕

[@hollymartinez3507]

Looking bomb as ever💗

[@KEnterprise-ni6ri]

42 wish I had this information in my 20s

[@DrinahHack]

One of my faves

[@TeresaRice-oq6kt]

I actually screamed at " on the verge of ugly " 😂😂😂

[@RavenUntamed]

Reality fucking hurts

[@nessaearthangel]

Hello Ms Shera, looking goooooodt!😍🤩

[@mariantzela.g9528]

Sprinkle Sprinkle ❤❤

[@bubblesgumm16]

I’m happy I’m watching your videos now 💖💖💖💖

[@kg8085]

“Yo dusty pet” 😂😂 glad I sent mine back to the shelter 😂.

[@Naptural_RX]

Preach 🙌🏾 Shera, right out the gate!

[@berri6015]

You were in your bag with this one !!

[@kristinolan7240]

How do you get more beautiful each year ? ❤🎉❤🎉

[@kitchenkonjure]

No job💎

[@thf_]

Facts

[@iaf4454]

Sleeping, eating properly, going to the gym, meditate, using better make up, wearing better clothes ❤❤❤

[@MsTwilightSpeaks]

Not Ozempic 😂 9:15

[@Lan-n6z]

I like this topic

[@Hazel007]

Always FACTS ❤

[@TimelessTIsMe]

Aww man I missed it

[@amarimonet.]

same!! im so upsettt

[@a_la_drinah]

Same 😢

[@TimelessTIsMe]

We gotta look out more for the evening lives lol I’m still looking for them in the morning

[@rosewatersweettea]

Turn on your notifications babes

[@TimelessTIsMe]

@@rosewatersweetteaoh man! I keep forgetting subscribe is not the same as the notifications. I’ll do that! ❤️❤️❤️

[@skinbyloniaslooks1052]

58:00😂😂it’s crazy I’m seeing this now when I actually got up & moved outta state fr😭😭

[@samanthaloraine632]

This is true. My own experience 😢

[@MsTwilightSpeaks]

Hmmm great question 0:17

[@iiammyalashay919]

But then these bums ask for everything they provided back or take it

[@Posh_ajana]

Men are so mad it’s hilarious

[@rosegreen8441]

Dusty pet! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 6:45

[@sharonstrickland8905]

Exactly ❤

[@akpenguin1859]

Does this apply to friends as well? 🧐

[@miawilliams8787]

Cheap friends hold you back.

[@ItsACTION386]

Yes

[@rosewatersweettea]

Yes! Broke friends can’t go where you go and tend to be lazy.

[@akpenguin1859]

@@rosewatersweettea not true about them being lazy

[@CrystalClear400]

Talk about this 4B movement

[@sadelorraine8437]

She doesn’t talk about anything that doesn’t involve women getting paid and getting assets.

[@krazyantvlogskrazyantkooky9710]

He can provide just not for you. He got you as his mule 🥺

[@miawilliams8787]

❤ SPRINKLE SPRINKLERE

[@crestfire8008]

What do males bring to the table?

[@samanthaso1236]

They should be the whole table!!!

[@sadelorraine8437]

The table lol

[@LuxuryLina]

How can I be more needy… I’m coming off too independent.. but waiting on gone have a eviction notice on the door

[@LilFairy]

Ask him to open the peanut butter jar 😂 it’s small but it’s a start

[@MsTwilightSpeaks]

Book of JOB 😂 24:05

[@sarahcooper29]

Fact!

[@Abcabc-k4l]

He doesn’t even Like himself if He’s a dusty

[@cryinsquirrel]

Pushing P, providers and protectors xd

[@MsTwilightSpeaks]

23:32 Never in a church 🙄

[@milkchan202]

i wish shera's format was more like - let me solely talk about the topic at hand for 30 minutes or so and THEN do q&a. there's maybe 5 minutes of the original topic before it derails into just answering the same dumb questions. been watching her videos less and less...

[@baTaTiyya]

Cuz someone people don't listen the first time around lolll

[@csimmzy]

Most viewers are watching her for the first or maybe 3rd time. Ofc they'll ask the same questions.

[@co-creatingwithcoachkristi4151]

Go out when the RICH are out!

[@chayo4537]

I bet you liked the comment above yours 😂 lol and why are you sleeping with low level men

[@IVvOOvVI]

Unfortunately, rich people only want to be around other rich people or their own family. they like to keep the money in the family. I’m sure one of you work for a rich guy who is still single and find out he is very stingy guy only hangs out or associate with his close family members and relatives.

[@skamgodt964]

Justice for the one lady with the 29 year OLDER man whose superchat got misread/misinterpreted twice by Shera🥺😭😭

[@lyanna0330]

A vape and no job PLEASE 😂😂😂❤

[@deannajohnson1684]

Not a pet😂😂😂

[@CS-pl1re]

What if he pays for everything says he dont like your physics but whants to walk around with you and take you on trips and help you financially? 🤔

[@skaylany330]

Btw I dunno if that’s you in the picture but you look way to hot and yummy for all that dusty nonsense 😭😭😍😍

[@ehlsci]

He’s trying to bring down your self esteem.

[@GoddessLaurel]

Or he needs a beard.. either way enjoy his money and have options in the mix

[@CS-pl1re]

@@GoddessLaurel i dont know he is always mean when drunk hè told me i was his best choise, and that at some point and age he needed to see his options and i was the best option. I dont know how to feel about this 😅

[@Valentino2vaild]

​@@CS-pl1rethe question is how do you feel about YOURSELF

[@The.angel.diaries]

Book of JOB 😂😂😂

[@Girlypop-ue9eo]

Goddessss

[@Lanainvestor]

smart and cute!

[@T.a.s.h.o.n.n.a]

Hi Shera 🌝

[@ladydeath16]

Pet 💀

[@db4449]

She said what she said, no lies were told 😭😭😭😂

[@eastcoastguy7914]

💁🏽‍♂️💁🏽‍♂️💁🏽‍♂️💁🏽‍♂️💁🏽‍♂️What is meant for you ...will find you 💁🏽‍♂️💁🏽‍♂️💁🏽‍♂️💁🏽‍♂️💁🏽‍♂️💁🏽‍♂️💁🏽‍♂️

[@1Blkmadonna]

Lmao u r hilarious

[@nochoiice]

What if the woman struggling bc she wants more than he can give 😭 like he’s game to cover and pay everything, doesn’t even require u to cook and clean, but doesn’t want to struggle to make more and is ok with what he makes and it’s fair income She just wants more yk a pool instead of just a nice yard, investments instead of a emergency fund, a Mercedes’ instead of a Lexus etc etc

[@Tionaintown876]

You have 2 options: 1. Consider how easy or hard finding something better might be for you. If it will be difficult, stop comparing and settle with the man you have 2. If you think it will be easy to move on to someone else, go and find them! Guys are out there.

[@ThePinkPantha21]

He probably is only like that cause he knows you work. My husband was basic early on. I stopped working and I have more than ever. The house with the pool, the Mercedes etc. I doubt he would have bothered had i not quit working. That's a risk I took though cause I know he likes to please me. He is supposed to want better I just don't believe real men are ok with "ok".

[@DonutHolesVapes]

As long as im liked more

[@mrsallexx]

23:50😂😂