Dr Shefali at THE HUMAN GATHERING

Shefali Tsabary, Ph.D., is a clinical psychologist with a private practice in New York. She is the author of is the award-winning, The Conscious Parent. Prefaced by HH The Dalai Lama, this book revolutionizes the parenting paradigm. Check more details at: drshefali.com/

[@chewkarin8285]

I never get tired listening to her. She's my all time favourite speaker

[@Sunshowers902]

She is so good that I had to pause in between to digest the information. Wow

[@MusicMostlyIndian]

She is relaying the age-old wisdom of India. Read Ramana Maharshi - "Who am I?". Read Nisargadatta - "I am That". Read about Advaita Vedanta. She is articulate and is able to share the wisdom of the sages/ages in a very modern way. Wonderful!

[@MusicMostlyIndian]

@faith umuk Yes - when we are more aware of our own strengths and the wisdom our own traditions bring, then we are able to deflect superficial (and sometimes popular) and unhealthy ways of thinking and living.

[@thetaooftravel7913]

she is certainly doing so and in such a contemporary way, jai ho!

[@joyfullyenjoy]

@faith umuk white people?? What has it got to do with white people..

[@joyfullyenjoy]

@faith umuk the very fact you use youtube is technology grow up this has nothing to do with the west. You have a force without you.. that the breath of the almighty..

[@charubala6307]

She is an indian

[@GPNetwork100]

Dr. Tsabary is one of a kind. While being a professional she is also living in her humanist of NOW and total Presence. She is special. Listen to her each and everyday. You will gain by accident as the seeds falling from the tree. Love her!!!!!

[@maureenceglia8571]

I loved what she said about not reading any books, looking at youtube, she does breathing meditation. (I'm constantly reading self help books and looking at youtube videos) I'm going to take her suggestion and for 5 minutes every hour I will listen to my breath and let it transform my life. Of course I loved this whole video. 😁

[@kirsyssanchez9550]

This truly just confirmed why I’ve felt and act the way I do. My entire life of feeling I didn’t belong in this world because I don’t agree with its customs and I just want to be me for whoever I want to be at that moment! This is just so inspirational and what great way of waking up to this deep breath of fresh air! Thank you!!!

[@joshuhwah94]

The Buddha said if you see a Buddha outside kill the Buddha! Hahah I love this woman so much. Her wisdom and honesty is mind shattering. I have done the quickest and largest amount of healing since following her words. Ironically I’ve found, a lot of what she says, I have thought to myself at one time. The truth really is in you all along 💖

[@Sunshowers902]

Amazing human being 😍 I am in awe. She has no pride and is so real

[@youlaki16]

You are a “breath” of fresh air! Thank you! 🙏🏻

[@saemafahmi5283]

This is a full package. Always refereshing to hear you talk. Thankyou

[@OKae88]

This is the future of parenting, changing the global consciousness, one parent and child at a time. The time for global awakening here!

[@LudmilaLimaVideos]

32 minutes of wisdom! It´s so good to hear Dr. Shefali. Thanks for all these remembering!

[@tutis50]

Wow! If you could apply just 10% of your wisdom... love your teachings!! Thank you!! Please keep changing the world!!

[@zayhenriquez472]

Dr Shefali you are really a true inspiration. I’m so blessed and got to you and you are teaching me so much. Thank you 🙏🏻

[@bonnie7237]

The most realistic, honest and truthful approach I have ever heard in my 61 years of life. Excellent! Supports the quantum approach to a resolution of dilemmas life has manufactured for us and we unknowingly became a part of.

[@brendac5724]

So hard not to judge, as you watch Dr Shefali speak, as she is so beautiful, eloquent, charming and smart. Wondeful messages, tho, breathe and go within. The rest is noise.

[@geraldinepalaj1221]

Realizing that I've been trying unsuccessfully (fortunately) to get my chilfren stick on the form when they were desperatingly trying to show (teach) me to get out of it. And my point of view was "how come my own children can go against me". And I was loosing all my energy in fighting them, asking myself what did I do to deserve this? when they were giving me a gift each day. Thanks to them 🙏. With all my gratitude ❤️

[@krainey]

Shefali and her words are a gift to our generation ❤

[@user-bk9mq8pr3f]

Amazing! I admire her

[@kayajackson50]

I’m so glad I discovered you today! Thank you for your beautiful message ❤️

[@valerycroes7424]

OMG i love Dr Shefali soo much, Thank you for sharing your wisdom, Namaste

[@jenna7060]

I love you Shefali .. and I didn’t mention docteur . ❤️😘

[@Wake-technology]

Here are the timestamps you can click on the numbers to start playing from that point: Dr. Shefali Tsabary, a clinical psychologist can revolutionise your life 00:47 Q:How are you going to 'fix' the world? A: Parental Evolution. 01:58 Ultimate level of Consciousness - untethered from all identities - achievable only through Meditation 03:36 Can you just wake up to the reality that you are creating every moment yourself. 04:19 Try to be non-judgemental - we can not be non-judgemental even for an hour 05:03 Advancement, Technology, Robotics and AI - "We can do all that when the basic innerself can sit with the self and is healed" 05:53 "We are humanity that is suffering because we do not know that we are divine.......so let us go inward before we go outward" 06:30 Mechanisation is devolution not evolution. Evolution is human connection. 07:37 The Self Help Industry perpetuates dependency on an external source. 13:26 Try sitting with yourself in silence for 35 minutes. Guided Vipaasana Meditation 13:51 Guided Vipaasana Meditation till 16:56 Q & A Session 17:52 It is NOT something you say - it is how you live your life. 22:47 When one is truly connected with the self, there is no agenda. When you are truly connected your field opens up because you are without judgement. 23:13 Being transactional blocks connection. Connecting is not a doing state it is a being state. 25:16 How do I live in this muck understanding it is all an illusion? This is the power of Meditation - it teaches you to detach - does not mean dis-associate. 26:23 Here, but not of it, part of it but not in it. This is the beautiful duality. 28:37 Refer Matrix the movie! 30:07 Importance of breath - Budha - 1. Breath is the most elegant pathway to the present moment. 2. Breath is constantly impermanent - teaches you life is in the now and it is impermanent. 3. Breath is the only thing we have with us all the time as a mediator between inner world and outer world of 'form'. 31:54 When you breath and meditate, you see how your thoughts influence your breath and your breath influences your thought - and you realise I am creating my 'cause and effect'

[@kylegilbert4794]

I'm simply seeking the easiest way to move through this "dance/drama" that is the spiritual detoxification process, and simply enjoy my life by traveling to beautiful places on earth, and continuing to teach AND learn God/source energy/PURE JOY AND TRUTH more and more. Going with the flow of LIFE, with a balanced mentality. Thank you sooooo very much for teaching and learning with me.... God bless y'all!!!!

[@ABDULKHAN-tg6wu]

Awesome ...Wisdom so precious from Dr.Shefali..Much power to you doctor

[@DarylMedia]

I love these talk especially when it’s Dr Shefali Tsabary

[@Ourloveheals]

She is an inspiration!!!!

[@mahebg]

Wonderful and wonderful! I love her, this is the best refresh I hear in the last few years of teachings

[@mindmomentum-emotionalwell6343]

Thank you for your wisdom and inspiration - as always!

[@fatboyannie]

Shefali is still relevant 5 years later. Will never get tired with her no bullshit approach.

[@sarahwood-qj6by]

Your brilliant.. You are definitely changing the world

[@monikashealingyoga4853]

It’s always such a pleasure to listen to you. The resonance is spot on always, so much validation and heart expansion. ❤️

[@AnneWalter]

OMG! SPEECHLESS.........❤️

[@melissasue3328]

Love her! Amazing wisdom every.single.time!

[@blisswkc3344]

Thank y’all so much dearest 🌹 Y’all such an inspiration 🥰 Be Blissful Eternally 🙏😇🌈

[@priyankasara8805]

27:30 Interviewer: wowow, let's not get too crazy 27:31Shefali: true , committed and in integrity with the message through the wise mind, declares the message. No reactivity , no stand up, no bigotry, no display of dejection that wisdom is not seen for what it is . True respect for your being Shefali Thank you, I learnt a lesson. respect. 🙏

[@irinamim]

28:06 interviewer: maybe a litte 28:06 dr Shefali: the same 🙏

[@m4ri5a8]

Just WOW. Thank you

[@eb6901]

wow wow wow, thank you for sharing!

[@monikashealingyoga4853]

The teacher is always ready. It’s the student that needs to appear. ❤️🙏

[@SC-vb2ui]

Dr.Shefali ,LoVe 💚You Beyond 🙏🏼 I would absolutely appreciate to listen you meditation.🙏🏼

[@MakenaMirero]

Absolutely feeling this message is all i can say. Thank you Shefali

[@matiyanko1493]

Thank you for going online 🙏🏻

[@tone4684]

Universe blesses us, Thankyou

[@thetaooftravel7913]

I LOVE THIS WOMAN!

[@OKae88]

Underrated, often misunderstood, but 100% true. Open consciousness

[@pkpillai5635]

Thank you so much ❤🙏🙏🙏

[@vivienrhodes4248]

Be accountable for who you are and grow more and it's on going

[@sonnyvaldez3019]

I love your truth!!

[@lauraezeanishealthyliving9644]

I'm learning like crazy .... I've been following you for quite a while ... I'm on my pathway of liberation.... still few things to work on but that's the beauty of it ... thank you

[@arthurb8924]

Wonderful!

[@moliephoenix]

Love this 💛

[@Illuminous56]

She should teach the last higher GE class in college...Before we go ahead and start messing up life and have Children of our own. 😤

[@Freetobeme8181]

Yes!! I would even say way before college because kids are having kids really young like 15/16 😳

[@jyotiashokgoyal]

Love Dr Shefali🙌

[@lateeshahinton5842]

Thank you for that!

[@silvestrerasuk1]

💥🔥🔥💥 WOW AND THANKYOU! sharing this now

[@isagymluver3214]

Amázing! I love how much she’s bringing conscious awareness. Everyone we meet teaches us what we need

[@Matstothemats]

bloody god damn brilliant! xx

[@triptirathore9027]

It’s indeed great , should get more views

[@antoinettecurran7683]

Fabulous 🙏 speaking the truth💖

[@shaunalarabell5262]

This lady. ♥️

[@heatherxlotus]

Fantastic teaching on the breath! Life changing 🙏🏼

[@nicksilver_music]

we appreciate you drshefali

[@rajnichhocker3508]

She is wonderful

[@sherrysteffen7765]

The Super Sunshine's is so great ...Thank you Jesus...

[@ophidiaparaclete]

Friends-Obligations Family-liabilities Society-debt

[@evolvedconstructs7612]

I love you from many lives

[@LibbyClarkeStudio]

I am glad the audience is so responsive but the overt come-ons and fawning of Dr. Shefali is hard to watch. I think these fellows were really touched and were reaching back but I have a hard time with the way they expressed it. I think I may be attached to some ideas myself if I am taking the lessons from the video to heart. This was an amazing video to watch.

[@iBRiDGE380]

When a societys biggest concern is "what would we be doing if we werent suffering and arguing this way?"

[@tonydoyle2941]

Beautiful as well

[@bhikkudhammasambhava1203]

Dr.Shefali, You know the secret.

[@nitinmahendru92]

Awesome Thoughts🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@gorn4ever620]

Great talk, would love to meet her.

[@paramshah6376]

Love ❤️❤️

[@iBRiDGE380]

Lovely, the mechanics of "the breath is now". That breathing happens in exactly the actual moment. And anything in the mind that is not exactly in that breath and now, is outside the now. "My bills" No, the now. Breathe. "My child" No, the now. The breath. To keep pulling mind from all the outside the now. With practice, the now expands. From the breath of the self to the collective breath. The world becomes less of a burden and more of an actual exploration.

[@akimlew8280]

At first hearing, it seems provocative- The World is evolving quite fast in Modern Sciences since the last Century- it is at Infancy level in Neurology. All that HB learns is from Others, starting from his Parents,the first Educators. As HB learns as early as in the womb of his Mother and absorbs All as a Sponge, seeping and absorbing everything (food for his Body, Mind, Spirit) that is being fed and exposed (good and bad) during his Childhood. HB may have ,or will surely have to decide over his choices after his learning, acquiring Knowledge, developing his Consciousness.

[@evrildindial8841]

Simply beautiful.

[@kristinal.1495]

Amazing 😊😍🥰❤️ Thank you for saying about donations, bcs i felt that is correct way, how can u put price on something and decide the worthiness Thank you 🙏 ❤️

[@anig5540]

I love you human ❤

[@janetpasciak6419]

If only the people who are really running this state that we are in now, could hear this, really hear this. We all would be in a better way. Stop trying to rule the world 🌎

[@ophidiaparaclete]

Pure science is humanity and LAW(LandAirWater) LAW is encoded into the mind soul and heart of humanity as freedom sound reason and liberty in, by, through participation. Giving ONE a reverence for all creation.

[@ophidiaparaclete]

Principle based rather than AGENDA driven

[@liz2776]

I have a question, what about coaching? At 11:05 she talks about dependency on psychotherapists. That we should be able to "move on" from psychotherapy instead of looking at it at something that we need or the rest of our lives. But, in your opinion, is life coaching the same? Or should we be in life coaching forever? Do we need that as part of our long term personal development?

[@GPNetwork100]

Coaching is opening the self up to being the profile residing inside each of us that we keep hidden for no legitimate reason. A good Coach helps with bringing that person out versus TELLING or providing direction when the direction already exists.

[@ameetarao8992]

Liz , if I understand her ..... she talks about detachment to every form in this world and focus on our inside that has no form. That is where wisdom lies. Focusing on your inhale and exhale of air in silence. Hearing her one more time may help too. Then Coaching is not required.

[@ophidiaparaclete]

Elect are witnesses in the preservation of freedom, divine human will to self-govern. Appointed the guardians of liberty, divine human domain of sovereign SAFETY.

[@whiteangel7777777]

32:58 she does a meditation

[@ophidiaparaclete]

The three temptations in the wilderness are: 1- Titles 2- Names 3- Status (Quo)

[@mslingling2410]

AWSOME

[@iBRiDGE380]

Its not just the exploration of space and robotics and tech. We don't have the capacity to meet that AI with the emotional depth of a new born. Like giving keys to a formula 1 race car to a child in utero. The "self" is us all at once. The space that contains us all. The energy beyond all labels and identities. "But who am I if I'm not christian?" Try just not judging anyone else until you notice you nearly never judge any other at all if ever. Then see what happens after a few years studying that. And don't worry about who you'll be. If you're removing judgment of others, a huge door opens.

[@ophidiaparaclete]

Form is legal personality superimposed over our true character and nature, self-governing sovereign self rule. Mind soul heart.

[@lifeoftolta]

Dr. There is something similar in you & Aishwarya rai.🤔 (May be the beauty of soul that shines from within)

[@iBRiDGE380]

The physical realm are the artifacts of yesterdays consciousness. To remain attached and detached is to see it like photos in a photo album of loved ones. Those loved ones aren't those photos anymore. They aren't the 2 year old. They're an entirely different reality. Life and its artifacts are very similar. The feelings in this realm require much practice to understand. You can't jump to knowing. She has the knowing. But it took years of deep self study. People get high on feeling good and generally tend to just watch people like her rather than be prepared for the work. So many addicts. So few practicioners. Because it is.work. And if yer doing it right it fucking sucks in the beginning. It can even catch ya by surprise after practicing for decades. Sure, the recoveries are more swift, but the physical realm is in a forever state of decay. The collective self of consciousness is eternal. To be eternal and witness the decay of the physical plain like aging in the human body. The whole as my personal piece is within my form. The artifact from another generation. And as I watch it age and decay over 100 years, my within is eternal. The brain has stored memories like a photo album, and I can make them real to me. But they won't be real to others as they are to me. No one can see that part of me. And yet, within, everything is stored neatly. The physical plain is like a museum I get to visit. Yes. Even when its a new swanky restaurant. Its already in a state of decay. And so I love it while its around. Its likely to be impermanent. Most things are.

[@nextlevelpowerinc813]

her knowledge and the way to explain that data Is fucking amazing. Powerful

[@maureenceglia8571]

It seems the levels of consciousness, which I think there are seven, mirror the mansions in heaven that Teresa of Avila speaks of. The Kingdom of Heaven is here right now inside of us. It's called Consciousness.

[@joyfullyenjoy]

Yes and christian parenting teaches this.. nothing new.

[@luluavila7082]

I'm so horrible I didn't understand her 😪 I feel depressed already I can't take charge in my family anymore 😞

[@holarc]

she has opened a lot of wisdom i believe. yet wasn't completely with her when she said in response to her daughter "i want to be irrelevant, i should be irrelevant, because my ego should never subsume yours." the thing is, the "i" is not the ego, our true nature is wisdom nature. her daughter wasn't speaking to that, to her wisdom and true nature. but perhaps dr shefali relates to her daughter in an egocentric way? interesting that she used the word 'subsumed', because our true nature subsumes any belief in an ego. would like to hear her speak with tibetan buddhists, especially of the dzogchen tradition. (wonder why she wishes to wear high-heeled boots?)

[@gretanavarauskaite2904]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@nehap17]

Thank you Shefali. My son is 3.5 years old. Could you suggest one of your books that I can refer to ?

[@auk8174]

Does anybody knows her zodiac sign pleaseee? :D

[@nehap17]

🙏❤

[@Farfalla626]

💖💖

[@statesticsandanalyses6348]

You are too Beautiful. . . ..

[@charubala6307]

❤️

[@dellabrook]

Where in the world can I locate a wife like this.