“Am I demented?” Full interaction

[@patriciajordanwoods2003]

At 91 my mom was still driving and had her faculties! She helped her elderly friends quite a lot! She passed at 107

[@patpeters6331]

As was my mom. We're the lucky ones.

[@monicavidal850]

God bless her 🙏💕

[@margaretnob4159]

Lucky you! That’s what I’m hoping for to live a long life.

[@Miriam-ui5pw]

You and she were truly blessed!

[@hannakinn]

My mom is almost 91, she still drives, she's fiercely independent, lives alone. She still cooks, gardens, uses a wheelbarrow. She dresses to the 9s, dyes her own hair. She keeps up with the news and current events and affairs. She can discuss AI. This morning she wanted to know what a meme was, lol. She's pretty amazing. She's still a pretty woman too. I hope she makes it to 107. She has kidney disease and diabetes though. I hate to think about her no longer being here but also have to be realistic and that's sad.

[@ceezee9179]

Dan, i love how you know how to help his anxiety. Anxiety is an awful feeling. ❤

[@rayslife4k]

I try my best

[@denisesebine1499]

Hi love how you cope with your dad my dad developed dementia after having a fall at Christmas last year went in to hospital after call was in 7 weeks that when we started to notice a bit of a change in him and the dementia got bad he ended up having to go to in a nursing home hardest decision of my life told us 4weeks later he was at end of life care it got worse and he didn't know anybody not even us his own kids he pass away on August 2nd 2023 with a chest infection he couldn't fight offer was to week he was 90 years old we are now planning his funeral so watching you I really relate to keep on doing the good work with him takes for the videos 😭x

[@patpeters6331]

@@denisesebine1499 Sorry for your loss. 😪🙏

[@denisesebine1499]

Thank you so much don't know how much that means to me x

[@dimitrakatsoulis8247]

I am so sorry for your loss. May he RIP😢

[@turtlebarnessr0248]

My wife started with early onset dementia at age 55 passing at 62. We gave her keys that didn’t fit anything but she did stop looking for them. She said I should take her car to the mechanic because it wouldn’t start. So many things we had to improvise but we managed to keep her safe and in her own home until the end. Thanks for sharing your journey with your dad.🇺🇸🚒🐄

[@karinlinakrauchi65]

😢❤❤

[@robinluich6626]

I WAS ABOUT TO SAY,JUST GIVE DADA NICE SET OF KEYS.

[@acertainslantoflight]

They tried that with the keys but it didn’t work for Ed lol

[@janna7312]

God Bless 🙏

[@julz7753]

so sorry for your loss. so glad you could make her happy in the end. you are blessed

[@mjs6834]

The change in demeanor when Dad noticed his grandson warmed my heart. He really loves his family.

[@futurereflections4097]

That’s something these videos made me think about. It has to be painful to rediscover painful moments like death, and divorce, but it also must be kind of nice to rediscover the good things, like family and good memories.

[@franscineperson7588]

Quit trying to explain you should just go with the flow he's just speaking his mind not as big of a problem as you're making it to be if he calls an apple a orange that's what it is problem solved

[@DG20556]

I just recently found your youtube channel. I am a retired RN, most of my career was working with those with dementia (skilled nursing, assisted living, memory care, and adult day care.) I just wanted to tell you how impressed I was with your family and the care your provide to your dad. It is a difficult situation, and everyone's journey with this disease is different. He seems very well cared for, and happy. You provide such vaulable information to other families who are on this journey. You have my 100% support in what you are doing.

[@wandabrown4725]

Look, give Dad a set of non-working keys, wallet, and a cell phone😂😂😂

[@wandabrown4725]

I had to hide the bananas 🍌 from my mother... she loved them and loved to eat them😂❤😂❤

[@tubester4567]

@@wandabrown4725 I think they tried the fake keys, he said the keys were fake and not his.

[@mopelolaadegoke3092]

Me too. Very impressive that his son is understanding and taking good care of his dad. I appreciate him. Many Americans have to see how children should take care of their aging parents. These parents sacrificed and did good jobs of caring for their children. In my culture, children are expected to take care of their aged parents unconditionally. This is the only way children can pay back. Not sending their parents to nursing home, forget their existence, and waiting for them to die. Thank you for sharing the videos. Many Americans and people from other cultures can learn from these videos.

[@myrajolindemann3951]

Yes been there done that....and I would do it all again. I received more love from my aunt than I could have ever shown her. In her condition she talk me about unconditional love. She showed me with her smile everything I entered a room where she was sitting. I miss her everyday. Thank you for living a life for others to see.❤

[@philly09westside]

My heart goes out to Dan and their family. Taking care of an elderly relative with dementia is hard work I've been there.

[@sarahjane8949]

Fully agree 🙏🏻💯🤗

[@vanessalowe3819]

Yes it is a process, a journey. Teapa Snow is a pro and helps tremendously. God Bless this family for their care of Dad.

[@margaret3063]

As an RN, I know how hard it is to care for a person with memory loss. It’s a labor of love and I commend his family.

[@angelamary9493]

My husband had it and Parkinson's disease ..it's upsetting to see your loved ones deteriating ..my husband at times didn't know me .he sadly passed away 2022 ..

[@angelaheras5466]

It is difficult and worse when other siblings do not help, but not in this case.

[@Leslie19661]

My husband is 63 , he has the beginning stages of dementia/Alzheimer’s. He asks the same questions at least 10 times a day. He does out of the normal things all the time (daily). We just celebrated our 30 year anniversary last week. I can’t imagine my life without him. I’m learning patience. It’s definitely not easy because you don’t know what tomorrow brings. I don’t let him drive because he gets lost. We liv in the same town for 30+ years and he doesn’t remember how to get anywhere anymore. I’m glad to see your dad is so well taken care of. God Bless

[@BurritoMassacre]

My mother is 64, she’s healthy still working but retiring in the next two years. She called me last weekend saying how she was worried about being abandoned in her old age. In my culture we care for our seniors at home, I told her she had nothing to worry about that I would take care of it. Thank you Dan for being a great example.

[@somesshbahuguna9620]

Grandpa is so polite and caring even though he has memory loss issues. Good values are engrained in him.❤

[@edukabs]

Dan and his Dad are treasures to this world. I wish these videos would get to every young person here in Kenya.

[@francismuiruri9064]

Wanaonanga but hawajali wengi wao.

[@Mosh-p5f]

We do care for our grandparent's and the elderly its our tradition that's why we don't have many nursing homes in kenya.

[@edukabs]

@@Mosh-p5f Stop being petty

[@francismuiruri9064]

@@Mosh-p5f i know many cases of neglect

[@AJBM1323]

Kenya is trending because of this - kzbin.info/www/bejne/aouYi5WPmZt5oac

[@johncrowe6489]

I always admire that you tell him exactly what he needs to hear over and over again. It’s obvious that Dad worries about the things most men would worry about… their keys, their wallets, where there next meal is coming from, and you always remind him that he has nothing to worry about.

[@elviecabelin3113]

As a senior, I appreciate how you show care to your Dad, Dan. God bless you. Please continue and I know blessings will flow.

[@Damage_Inc]

I hope you're doing okay too Dan. It shows how much you pour your heart out for your dad. You're one of the good ones.

[@misterm901]

You’re an awesome son!!! My dad turns 94 on Friday. He’s survived prostate cancer and is still very coherent. I’ll do anything for him just as you do with your father! God bless you and your family!

[@garyhost1830]

You sound like an awesome son yourself mate

[@misterm901]

@@garyhost1830 Thanks for the kind words!

[@hadijatunuhu6239]

He appear to be surprised that he has a Grandchild. In my part of the World (AFRICA), at 90+ years, by now he might be having:- 1). Children @ 20+ 2). Grandchildren @ 40+ 3). Great-Grandchildren @ 60+ and 4). Great-Great-Grandchildren @ 80+ years old. That makes a 5 generation. I am happy for him. He is so blessed for having loving and caring children. May the children (Generations) too be granted with such luck.

[@susanperez991]

I love you Dan I wish all the Blessings you deserve for taking care of your Dad .

[@silencz1]

What a great thing to honour your father by ensuring he is taken care of kudos to you good sir!!

[@user-gx5iq9sn9m]

Dan has such a way to calm him down and make him feel better❤I'm glad this sweet man has some great kids that love him

[@nancyholland1877]

It's do great watching Dan calm down Grandpa, and turning his attention on different subjects. I also like how calm and sweet Mark is when he makes an appearance. U also had to say Dan, Danielle, and Mark, you also help me in many ways. I'm a more optimistic person from following you! My parents both passed with some mental difficulty, and I up and moved 1000 miles to be their first them in their final years. I could of made some pretty cool videos, also at times heartbreaking 💔 love, your fan Nancy Holland

[@Skywalker29]

Respect to Dan and Danielle. When I worked with residents at an extended care facility I repeated all day when I went home I repeated to my kids, family and friends consistently until I went back to school for another career. Hats off to y’all it takes patience and a compassionate heart. Y’all are such beautiful people

[@kandydewey1286]

Mark too! He's been wonderful as well! 😊

[@kathleenevers7016]

the “reaping” and elevating your voice for them to hear. 😀…. I say to my kids why am I talking so loud, then I remember I was at work for 10 + hrs….. 😀 😊

[@user-lc8cs1xg2l]

Just feed the man.

[@mariadavis5740]

Dan you and your brother's take Excellent care of your Dad. My Mom has Dementia and I'm her caregiver! This is Great to see and very encouraging to seeing thank you for sharing ❤

[@kassygendron3022]

I can never get over how thankful and grateful he always is!!!! ❤ Absolutley beautiful!!!

[@tyardovdabulldht2340]

I just wanna hug Grandpa. He makes my day!🙏🏿💜

[@janetm.7872]

Your Dad is a strong man who was born in 1932 and came through the Great Depression and all the things that happen up to Covid! You are such a good son - your dad did a great job raising you ! My dad is 91 with dementia and it is an honor to take care of him but so sad. Dad wants his oatmeal and teaspoon of olive oil everyday- he says that will help him find his keys! Thanks for sharing and I admire your patience with your wonderful Dad!

[@Mz.Scarlett]

Aww just found your channel….I’m a retired nurse who worked in an Alzheimer’s “rest home” we had patients that were in various stages…it’s good to see how you redirected your father when he was looking for his keys and getting agitated. I’m also glad to see you have him living with family. So often families don’t want to be bothered and put their loved ones in places like I worked and trust me they progress much faster than they would in being in a loving environment! I know sometimes it can be frustrating answering the same things over and over but you will never know how much you extended his life, providing a loving home and relationship!

[@Christine-777]

You're wonderful, Dan! Love your family. ❤

[@ursulamcclary7464]

Precious dad!!It takes so much love and patience and you certainly have that.I am praying for you❣️🙏

[@annettemccall3175]

As much as I love these videos and your love for dad my heart breaks. ❤❤

[@goldylocksac6586]

Mine too

[@quinny6920]

I adore your dad so much! As I said again and again I also thank you all so much for being so kind and patient with him. Most of the time I smile and laugh , but some days I shed a tear here and there. When he gets so upset and swears he is right I can see the sadness or concern in his eyes. Here’s hoping you all have a wonderful week! ❤

[@jimmiepatrum]

Same here. Both my mother and my mother-in-law had dementia. Such a cruel disease, but at this stage, this family is managing as well as can be expected. Diane

[@patriciahall1245]

Jehovah's blessings and thanks for taking care of your dad

[@tangajames6349]

Dad will be asking those same questions tomorrow! He's a joy to see! Keep taking care of dad Dan! 💕❤

[@GENgn48]

Love him so much. Not my family course. But your videos are so family oriented. Watch y’all when tired. Feeling sad. Always cheers me up witnessing all your love & patience! 🥰😍

[@lallavillamil2221]

I'm amaze on how patient you are interacting with grandpa Ed, bless your golden heart sir @Dan❤

[@donnataylor980]

😢😢 it's so sad. But Dan always brings his dad back❤❤❤ God bless this family❤😊❤

[@asuncionbassas2148]

What a cruel illness and your patience is admirable, you are a wonderful son and God will look after you and your family. Dan you are an example and an inspiration for all to follow

[@olbricky6824]

Love you Grandpa Dr Salinger. You are a great man. Dan, you handle everything with such grace and tact. If your Dad could fully understand all aspects of your life together he would be extremely proud of you..and he is proud of you!

[@pamela-gw7xo]

Awwww...Bless his heart!❤😢 Dan, you are such a good son! You are all loved by many! ❤

[@arcticwanderer2109]

I am in tears thinking about my dad who is also going through dementia. Once a top engineer and a successful businessman, now struggles to wear his socks.😢. cruel disease.

[@UrbanMatts]

keep your head up 😞 seeing your parents get older sucks

[@rizzq8118]

That's not disease though, in Africa, it's called "Old Age" and surely, it will come. You don't expect someone of 90+, to still behave like a younger person. We are talking of 365 days × 90years or more. Oh! Good Lord, it's not easy to attain old ages. May Lord makes it easy for us.

[@arcticwanderer2109]

@@rizzq8118 My dad is 70, diagnosed at 69, so not young but not super old.

[@brostom77]

Dan is an amazing son. I love how patient he is.

[@TheEnergyv]

Dan your amazing. Your patience is to be commended. I love your precious father Ed. Give Ed a big hug from me please and tell Ed you love him.

[@kevinkozak7229]

You do an amazing job with your dad. Absolutely amazing ! Your wife is also amazing with him. God bless you all

[@lorisheheen2198]

On the other side of the confusion, frustration and agitation is a wonderful man full of Love, kindness and compassion for his children and family. Dementia causes this constant battle. God Bless him.🙏❤

[@carolspencer9396]

I have much respect for you. So many people are forced to put their aging parents into nursing homes and assisted living. You are a wonderful son.The patients you take with him say a lot about your care providing character.

[@user-fu9pk6eh5d]

My heart broke when he asked if he was demented😢 The whole world loves your family and he and y'all are so good to him God Bless y'all ❤🙏🙏🙏♥️🌎☮️

[@john-brady]

Dan, we all love Dad but God knows where you get the patience to have this same conversation thousands of times. Kudos to you brother - you folks are doing the Lord’s work (and I say that as a thoroughgoing atheist)…

[@nancygraham839]

Dan, you do such a good job in guiding and directing your Dad. He goes from being agitated and confused to kicking back and watching TV. Hang in there.

[@sts42ss]

These videos make my day. Love how you care for your father and explain things to help him remember.🥰

[@Sandra-lw9xu]

I just came across your channel, and watched some of your videos. I think you are such a warm, and caring person. The way you are taking care of your dad is just precious. My father-in-law has dementia. My grandma also had it. I think your videos are very helpful to others. God bless you, and your adorable dad💕

[@TheHelado36]

His laughter is so contagious and sweet! Even in his frustration he still manages to be a gentleman and gift us such a great time !

[@sahilapte7031]

He has brought up all his children with kindness and empathy but his 2 sons are a true example of great sons.❤

[@shivendrasharma9205]

❤ love to see your Dad, It's a great example that you are setting for the society. God bless you and your family. My regards and best wishes.

[@dawnvancs6413]

Dan, you and your whole family are awesome. So thankful for how you take such loving care of your Dad. 🥰 What a great example for all of us on how to care for our aging loved ones.

[@denisepearson6572]

❤❤❤ Dad is a trooper even thru the tough days and he feels better once he realizes his family is all around him 🙏🏽

[@jennyjenny4501]

Dementia is such a cruel disease! We used to have this conversation with my dad every day. He was forever looking for his keys and worried about his checkbook.

[@lynnette4189]

😊 so much love to you all! My dad has dementia and Parkinson's and it is tough but watching you all just makes me feel like we are not alone and in this together. God bless

[@julietyeates7922]

Mark you are so kind, patient and loving to your sweet dad. You're amazing .

[@rourou95822]

Dan, you do a great job keeping grandpa's morale up. It keeps him calm and keeps his anxiety down. You both are great men, like father like son. You both radiate kindness n compassion and who could better understand than a man to man!!! Kudos! Great video. It shows how responsible grandpa was and how independent. Kudos to you for not letting him affirm that hes not demeted, he has memory loss, thats it. Affirmations are important.

[@NYDaughter1972]

You are such an amazing son, Dan. It can't be easy going through this hour after hour, day after day, but you do it, and you do it well with so much love.

[@sharoncrawford7192]

No it's not easy. His poor dad seems like he needs a nerve pill.

[@reggiefromnz6088]

I have binge-watched most of your videos now and it takes me back to my own dad who passed away from dementia. My last memory, sadly he didn't recognise me. Did his wife, even gave her a kiss and couldn't stop smiling. Turned, looked at me and was like, who are you? P.S. - I really like how you take care of your dad. It just goes to show how much you love him.

[@kathygildea2025]

I love this natural passage of time that is lived so beautifully by your family, Dan🤗

[@eslavicky4432]

Dan, bless your heart ❤ you do a fantastic job clearing up Grandpa’s confusion and concerns. It's clear you set his mind at ease- like a switch, from scratching his head and frowning to laughing and smiling 🥰 XOXO

[@martinharris7197]

It's an eye opening view for anyone not familiar with the effects of dementia. My prayers are with you and your family

[@Karenanneseven]

Dan…you’re an incredible man just like your Dad ❤. We love watching your circle of life ⭕️

[@hardikarm]

You are so caring and your patience is incredible Dan. Thank you for being a great caring son

[@anne-katrinlehmann9716]

Dan, you are a role model for human compassion.

[@justlyfaith3454]

We love you grandpa ❤❤❤ I don’t care how many times you ask , it doesn’t bother none of us or your kids. We will always remind you grandpa. Every day and every min. You are loved across this entire globe!! I’m at tears at how much I love you and never met you. You have touched us all!! ❤❤❤❤❤ thank you so much for sharing him with us Dan. Our favorite podiatrist.

[@Pippa-pw3qw]

I just love this guy ❤️ He's remembering his busy days as a Doctor...Godspeed...🙏

[@barbarafarinell2075]

What kind of Dr was he

[@Pippa-pw3qw]

@@barbarafarinell2075 - Podiatrist 👞👞👠👠🥿🥿👡👡👢👢🥾🥾

[@arianaz6723]

God bless you Dan as you take care of your father with love and caring. You are amazing !

[@sarahjane8949]

Oh Dan this must be draining for you at times 🙏🏻 God bless you 🤗

[@Nurturing2]

Dan, you are WONDERFUL❣️ This warms my heart!!! You handled this PERFECTLY!!! I realize you and Danielle don’t need validation. But as a human being, I want to thank you with all that I am for sharing these beautiful demonstrations of compassion, empathy, and unconditional love. Your father is NOT demented. He is pure love consciousness. If the world was full of Ed Salingers, we would be healed. Thank you for shining your light!!! Sending love & light to your family and this community. ❤️💫❤️

[@janetfendley8917]

Dan, you have come so far in dealing with your dad. I love when you are so patient with him and talk in a soothing tone to him. I know it must be so frustrating for both of you but I admire you so much for taking such good care of your sweet Dad.

[@struckbylightningteresap1396]

I love how much patience you have with your Father Dan. It’s a beautiful thing to watch. Your a good Son, God bless you and your Family. 🙏

[@kimfredrick6813]

You are so good with your dad when he gets so frustrated hands upbyou Dan ive been showing a friend of mine whos just started on her journey with her dad amd its really helped watching from the 🇬🇧

[@timpowell3255]

Dan , you are the kindest most gentle man when it comes to dealing with you Dad, as does Daniel and the rest of the family. Y'all are leading by example! Bless Y'all's wonderful family ✌️❤️🙏

[@JohnMac2023A.D.]

This something I can relate to very much! My Dad has dementia, and the constant repeating of one subject often comes with a profound fear that suddenly flash across his face, it Heart breaking, I just lost my Mother who had schizophrenia, I like the fact you are caring for them as he needs familiar faces around as much as possible, I cared for them for 30 years. Care home's in UK are Woeful, most anyway.. May The Lord Bless and Sustain You All. Much Love peace of Christ Jesus to you and your father and your family 🙏🏻✝️❤️

[@VanessaBoult]

It shows that Dad had a great influence on all his children..... the reward is evident..... 💙 love and blessings to you all..... 🙏🏻🙌🏻💫

[@lisahopper4304]

I think of my dad every time I watch one of your videos. My grandma, my father and everyone of his eight brothers and sisters suffered from Alzheimer’s. My Aunt Donna is the only one left. My dad would have been 99 this year and I miss him so much. At 58, I’m also starting to show some short time memory loss which frightens me. My love to all of you and thank you for taking care of your dad and having patience. It’s tough. ❤️🙏🏻

[@Sheesh-zw9ij]

Love when you showed him his grandson, ❤️. He seemed soothed.

[@angeliquedomini7259]

Your patience Sir. Dan. telling over and over the same answer to your Dad who worries because he does not remember. You are a very special Son Thank you. All my respect to you and family who cares for your Dad. BRAVO!

[@maritzamuniz2028]

Dan, I appreciate your patience with grandpa. You have helped me a lot with having patience with my 88 yrs old mom. I enjoy all of your typing with grandpa and I love how you have cared for him. God bless you boys and your wife too.

[@launacobb7617]

We still only see what we see

[@BIGGLOUPR]

Our Family had Our 91 Grama and Her Daughter which was at the time was 71/72 years old so We completely understand how Dan,Danielle and Mark go through and it's difficult for them and those helping them cuz Family takes care of they're Elders just this Family is currently doing🎯🎯🎯🎯 God Bless this Family.....Grampz and Family🙏💯💪

[@joanb8489]

I love your dad. You have a wonderful way of reassuring him that all is well. It was wonderful that you offered him a sandwich even though dinner was near. He seems to have a good appetite. You are an extremely kind and thoughtful man. All of you bring me joy even though I’m truly sorry that your dad has memory loss. My joy comes from the love and respect you all have for each other.

[@vickycorona1457]

Me encanta como tratas a tu papi, ellos necesitan mucho amor y paciencia. Dios te bendiga como hijo.

[@beckiepatrick6900]

Dan I have a caregiver so I feel like I know my stuff….and Sir you are an excellent caregiver. Your father is lucky to have you. I know you feel blessed to have him too. That’s why it works. I’m really happy for you, but I also know how hard it can be. So much respect to you. ❤

[@tonivertucci2604]

Dan you handled the situation like a pro and a loving son. I’m sure dad is proud of the man that you’ve become.

[@user-ud2sh8ku6w]

Poor grandpa he's so confused. I really feel so sorry for him. He thinks he's got something wrong with his head. He would be correct but it's not the way he thinks. He's very smart and he's always gonna be a doctor with all the knowledge that comes with it. Dan you and Mark are doing such a great job with your dad. I love how you can get him to calm down almost immediately. Grandpa I love you so much. You are the best father and best friend you're kids have ever had. Grandpa might forget a lot but he never ever forgets how to love his kids to the moon and back!!! 🥰🌹💕👍

[@jhamadhu2809]

Your calmness is winning hearts

[@brendaturner5015]

I love your compassion and how you take time with you pops and sharing him with me and us . Thank you

[@Libra705]

Thank you for these videos , your dad has a remarkable way of being even with dementia ! I have taken care of many people with dementia and I can’t get enough ❤ adore them all

[@bryantaylor776]

Dan, As my family has experienced dementia, your videos have helped me understand the disease more and how to deal with it with grace as you have. Thank you for your videos.

[@Astoria1972]

Dan you are the most patient son and it is obvious how much love and admiration you have for your dad. God bless you and your family for looking after your aging parent so well. I know it can’t be easy.

[@ck1660]

Thank you for sharing your journey and your dad with us! He’s so precious and makes me smile🩵

[@ivyd5485]

Thank you for showing the reality of caring for elderly parent. You make this look much easier than it is Dan. Your vids have helped me alot. I use to feel exasperated because I didn’t understand that the mom who raised and cared for me was in a way slowly disappearing. Exasperated and alarmed when she continues to ask the same question I just answered less than 2 mins ago. Seeing how you cope with your dad has helped me realized that it’s normal and ok that sometimes I feel a bit shocked, overwhelmed and sad but to take time to realize what’s happening accept it and then I’m able to help my mom during these times. Thank you Dan and Danielle. Oh I’ve also learned to laugh a lot more about the absurdity of it all.😅

[@ramonaolivares1038]

I love this message. People are so quick to criticize and give opinions on how it should be done. These are short videos. Imagine what this family goes through daily. We go through this with My mother in law who has advanced Alzheimer’s. It is not easy! God bless you Dan and to your wife.

[@MaryKnight-yk5mh]

Hang in. Blessings for you

[@lindahilton9482]

I've already been thru it with my mom. I know it's not easy and you get tied down and the years just go by by so quickly.

[@stevenrogers8939]

Thank you Dan for taking care grandpa. You are not only doing it for him but also for me personally because it makes me happy

[@Beckitt49]

This Guy is awesome!! His Dad raised a Great Man. Blessings to you❤

[@Aubreythetyler2569]

I love the way that you take care of your dad and explain things to him patiently. As a healthcare worker this made my heart smile

[@mariasuhao]

I’m working as a caregiver and I really feel it everyday… thanks GOD for your patience with your dad.

[@heatherofthemountains]

That was both heart jerking and encouraging. Thank you for your transparency during such a challenging time and I pray that more people will be more knowledgeable about dementia than before thanks to your dedication and humility. Shalom family 💙

[@trudyramgren8817]

You aren't demented dear Ed. When we get older, our body goes through changes that aren't comfortable. You look great and and are very intelligent. You have a wonderful family who helps you. What an adorable soul you are. Hugs!

[@jayneshort2732]

The detailed care is above and beyond and politeness amazing. Great family, love watching big rhank you lits of live to you all. Xxxx

[@stephisteti]

God Bless Grandpa and your whole family, Dan. I live not too far from you guys in EG, and in 2019 helped my own mom take in my 89yr old grandfather with severe memory loss. It was incredibly emotionally draining on us, yet one of the most rewarding experiences of my life. We had the same routine and route as you do with your dad, same conversations about keys and checkbooks, and whose house is it, and how old am I, and where is my family who’d passed, grandpa thought I was his mom, etc. As my granddad’s memory loss progressed and he became less mobile (more prone to falls, etc), we gradually reduced his activity and basically anticipated all his needs so he didn’t put himself in harms way…snacks were delivered to his room, we hung out more in his space, etc. Like I said, it was rewarding, but excrutiatingly draining on us. But we were happy to do it. My grandad passed in 2021 at 92, and I now watch your family’s videos and they make me laugh and cry and smile. I watch hundreds of the same videos I made of my grandpa and the similarities are uncanny! As exhausting and draining as it all was, there are days were I just wish my grandpa was in his room again and we could listen to music and I’d read him books or his Bible, and then we’d head to Dos Coyotes and later walk around CVS to tire him out. You and your family will be greatly rewarded for your service to your father. Anyway….hello from EG!

[@bettywolter8120]

DAN YOU AWESOME WITH HANDING GRAMPA. GRANDPA IS always thankful God Bless you all & Thank you for allowing us on this journey 🤗❤❤❤❤

[@ingeborgswieten3710]

Well done! Same here.. we called it the memory loss illness and that it didnt matter cos we were here and we loved him so we can look after you when you cant make head nor tail of nothing anymore.. sonetimes it worked and sometimes we had to stay awake in shifts of 3 days.. its perfect what you do, superb! But your dad is the same.. he dont buy everything you say 🤭👌💚

[@sandydever9967]

I love how he laughs knowing he must be so frustrated I tear up but then he make me laugh.. all those memories.. thanks for sharing your dad with us!❤️