eBay Buyer Says I Endangered Her LIFE, Threatened Lawyers & Says I'm A Scammer?!

[@adyamski]

Total bunny boiler

[@picking4profit]

i would block her for sure, she sounds unhinged. People can be really odd!.

[@TomsToys95]

Very unhinged indeed 😂

[@an1_uk]

I'm sure her narcissism helped her previous relationship greatly.

[@TomsToys95]

Spot on 😅

[@Sasahara-Lafiel]

@@TomsToys95 Crazy attracts crazy. :)

[@lukedavison983]

Sorry to hear that mate. Chin up 👍🏻

[@TomsToys95]

Thank you mate! The refund isn't the issue but the messages were pretty.. interesting to say the least!😅

[@mathieubroersma]

Sounds like she's ready for the loony bin. 🙄

[@neilvincent3935]

This is far too much hassle for the sake of £7.99. I wouldn't even reply to any emails as there is obviously something wrong with her.

[@PieceMeals]

She's unhinged, but what is scary is that Ebay often sides with buyers who leave neutrals and negatives for no reason or spite. The only reason she probably had to pay is because item no longer needed or whatever it is, is seen as solely buyer's remorse. I bet she'll choose another reason the next time she pulls this stunt.

[@thebeast9869]

Sounds like the average woke person just block them you turning £1 profit in 1hr wage 🤣🤣🤣

[@MattysFlips]

Most of the times it’s just not worth the time and effort, but if you’re bored and have a free night… 😂

[@TomsToys95]

@@MattysFlips it was funny in the end, since returning, I've relisted and I send an offer out last night and she messaged saying stop sending me offers on these ugly coasters 😭

[@MattysFlips]

@ wow, that’s amazing 😂

[@mcjordi]

Wow she needs help.....

[@elizabethlovelock9613]

I had someone like this recently, not a woman, I actually blocked them in the end, you really don’t need this.

[@TomsToys95]

@@elizabethlovelock9613 thank you, sorry that happened to you, hope it didn't cause too much stress, sometimes its frustrating when all you want to do is be nice and provide a good service. I know I shouldn't have engaged as much, but sometimes you have to defend yourself against unhinged buyers! ⚔️ Thanks for the comment 😁

[@silvermv6]

Should have wrote..you sound such a lovely person..im sure your ex being after you has nothing to do with YOUR ATTITUDE

[@TomsToys95]

Definitely had to bite my tongue and I tried to stay professional 😅

[@emmatonge2436]

Oh Lordy Lord, seems slightly unhinged…

[@TomsToys95]

Yeah just a bit! 😅 I've had some strange buyers and people attempting to get a refund or claiming it's not arrived etc but this one was too much 😂

[@wtf106]

a gigantic waste of time. I would have blocked the madwoman immediately. And blocked guests on my blocklist can't contact me. That helps a lot with crazy people.

[@TomsToys95]

@@wtf106 I appreciate that, I just think after the first few messages she got under my skin a little and just had to keep going until it got to much and I left her to it

[@wtf106]

@@TomsToys95 you feed the beast with attention. but over time you get a feel for which buyer has the potential to become a PITA anyway.

[@garynorris17]

I once was told that the buyer did not like the dvd film I sold them? Not the condition or item, but the film itself. I had to politely explain I wasn't the director or none of the actors in it 😂

[@TomsToys95]

@@garynorris17 sounds familiar I had neutral feedback becuase someone said the game sucked 😂

[@garynorris17]

Ebay is almost anti sellers now weirdly. I gave someone a full refund, allowed them to keep the items and still got neutral feedback 😅😅​@TomsToys95

[@iancooper2599]

Ohh dear You let yourself get drawn in, when she threatened you with a neg you should of Blocked her and if she leaves you a neg then report it.

[@TomsToys95]

Take it as experience I guess but once she was rude and mentioned the men comment I just had to make sure she didn't get the £3.25! If she was nice and explained why the return I'd probably have just refunded and let her keep it

[@captaincolumbo7860]

Let her spend the money on a lawer if she can find one to take on such a ridiculous case. This woman has obvious issues. Just dont reply anymore.

[@TomsToys95]

I stopped replying when I did and haven't messaged since 😅 I'm unsure if she was trolling but I'm leaning more to just unhinged

[@RazzleResells]

Never feed the troll. This lady is clearly unhinged. At the end of the day you did nothing wrong. But at least you get a video from it

[@sowlufc2011]

This is why I no longer shop from men. That's a random statement. I'd imagine it would be extremely difficult to never purchase anything that would benefit a man. Amazon is out the window straight away . This all seems a massive over-kill for a purchase under £10.

[@TomsToys95]

@@sowlufc2011 I honestly would have refunded if she said there was an issue but she selected return without a reason under change of mind 😅

[@MultiVoiceofreason]

Baby reindeer 🦌!!

[@TomsToys95]

@@MultiVoiceofreason same vibes 😅

[@Gillian-xl7wb]

Sounds like someone with too much time on their hands, and wants to argue a doppy point with someone!🙄🤨

[@TomsToys95]

@@Gillian-xl7wb until they threatened negative feedback, I was just covering myself but yeah not worth the aggro

[@Gillian-xl7wb]

@TomsToys95 MMMM,exactly dude 😁

[@gecila1]

I gave up with ebay... scalpers/resellers and parasites charter. I used to just use it as a way to get rid of things from the garage etc. for a few quid, not for any sort serious sort of profit - no more. Hated selling games/my old 80's toys the most, especially the last 10 years. Dealing with entitled, clammy handed man/girl children all the time. Bleurgh. All goes to the charity shop now. Making it my job does not appeal to me lol.

[@Gillian-xl7wb]

Careful with Charity shops. Some like to throw donations in t bin, out back!!!🤨

[@JonAtLarge]

She needs to go and get her tablets checked

[@nikuritsu]

Sorry to hear about this experience mate. Seems like quite the character and doesnt understand the online concept of postage. People are such chancers and how easily things escalate! She is simply damn right rude and as a business seller you have every right to ask why someone is returning a product. For her to then bring gender into the equation and start making ridiculous remarks, it's a full lost cause 😅

[@TomsToys95]

@@nikuritsu after that message out of principal and curiosity I needed to dig deeper! Possibly too deep 😂

[@nikuritsu]

​@@TomsToys95I would have done the same 😅

[@simonbutler377]

dont engage, when she said none of your business, that is when you should have left it at that, they are paying for the return postage so you dont lose out. The issue you have is you prodded them and get a reaction back. Trust me, you dont want to got ibti a war with a loser customer who uses their other customers to leave negative feedback and mess up your stars which costs you massively. Just smile, thank you sir/madam and always communicate to them how you'd want an employee of yours to communicate.

[@hossywoof]

As Max-eq says, she isn't well in the head. I've had this with various buyers over the years and unless it's an expensive item, I just tell them to keep it and I'll refund in full and move on. There are plenty of oddballs out there, she being one of them. The last case I had where someone bought a brand new item, then opened a SNAD due to it not being compatible with their camera, I was fuming as it appeared I was at fault despite item and specifics being correct and being as clear and obvious as possible what the item actually is (like your item). After speaking with eBay, they closed the case in my favour having seen the item was correct and the customer was wrong, albeit they gave him a full refund too, so Ebay took the hit. All the past pal.

[@piratedan2748]

Lad, you need to let go of 100% feedback. Think of all the time and energy you’re wasting on this person. I used to care about 100% and then in 2 days I got 2 negative feedbacks and that was great. Now I’m unfazed by it and actually find it funny. I’m currently on 96.6%, sales still flying out, customers still happy. If this happens to me I just ignore them and am very blunt with them. I’d they continue to send crazy messages, I take a screenshot and send to my mate and we both have a laugh. DO NOT cower to buyers like this. They deserve nothing.

[@ITZZZJOHNYYYYY]

I made it to 1800 orders with 100% feedback in a day two scammers or competition dropped me two negative reviews, I felt the same as you, losing the 100% was a relief to much energy went into protecting it

[@scarfo]

@@ITZZZJOHNYYYYY The competitors one is inevitable eventually. You just have to get on with life because unless you're below like 95% or something you're fine.

[@Rancyide]

ebay is full of nutters i sell on there and i get anxiety now when i get messaged on there. if she negs you just contact ebay they will remove it and block that headcase from buying life's to short to deal with that.

[@Max-eq7pc]

She seems mentally crazy. I would have partially refunded, taking out postage costs and blocked them straight away.

[@terrystube3371]

honest mate , ebay will always back the buyer over the seller , I have had over £1000 in refunds in the last month , lots of scummy customers out there , all I can say is this is minimum money to refund back , try a grand in a month .

[@pashpashfifa8639]

I've had abuse from someone because the parcel was delivered on a day she weren't at home she didn't stop sending me abuse it was funny at first but then got abit boring so I ended up blocking her

[@TomsToys95]

@@pashpashfifa8639 yeah I stopped replying when she started spouting random bs.. it was kinda funny/interesting to carry it on because of the ridiculous things she was saying but it got too much 😂

[@pashpashfifa8639]

@TomsToys95 there's just some people you will never please no matter what you do best button on eBay is the block button 😂

[@firestarter123456]

Honestly mate, you can't reason with an idiot - I would have stopped engaging after her first message and just block - it's not worth the time, stress and hassle over a cheap item.

[@JamesHodgson-s1h]

I really don't know how you manage to keep your head over £4.50 some people.. good luck 🎉

[@bullet-catcherhohoho250]

Don't use ebay, that much anymore - sold a set of speakers, really heavy - postage was £55 pounds. Buyer did not want them and asked to return, said happy to have them returned, but they wanted me to pay for the return postage, said no. They then put they were not as described, went to ebay and they agreed with me that they were as described, BUT said to me that even though they were as described, if i did not pay the buyer £55 pounds to have them returned to me they they will let the buyer keep the speakers and have a full refund? That's ebay for you.

[@YrCleddyf]

Customers are brainlets its the sad reality of selling anything. Doesn't matter if its on Ebay or working retail they are the same lol

[@a-khanation5279]

I don't know why , But am thinking this person is under age 25 who doesn't know the eBay system . I assume she shops from . Amazon . Etsy. D pop . Vinted. Tiktok . Shpock. Now i want to know is she an older person or a young person

[@budgetcollectables2810]

Daily reminder: Ebay sellers have your name, Address and contact information you really don't want to piss the wrong seller off.

[@TomsToys95]

Exploding glitter bomb comes to mind! 👀

[@firestarter123456]

She's probably still upset at trump winning

[@monkeycrow84]

Sound like a completely unhinged person. Would of just ignored any messages and issued the refund once i got the item back. Ive learned unless theres an issue with the item dont engage. Id report and block. Ive had people beg me for huge discounts on items because they are depressed and would love it because they cant afford it. Got kids so dont have alot of money etc. Id message back, save your money, look after your kids, this is a want not a need. Now i just ignore. Not worth the headache

[@TomsToys95]

Luckily I've not encountered many guilt trippers yet but heard it happens quite often!

[@a-khanation5279]

Do Mental Hospital still exist

[@herethereandeverywhere-h3m]

Completely your own fault bro. You should have left it alone a lot earlier than you did for the sake of £7.79, and now you’re just making a video, to make money might I add, to trying to defend your unnecessary actions.

[@TomsToys95]

@@herethereandeverywhere-h3m You have absolutely no right to comment on how much i choose to value something (that was a joke) On a real note, I have put about 500 hours into KZbin in the last year making and editing videos and I haven't made a single dime, I don't get paid a penny from KZbin. I have a right to defend myself though I'd someone is being stubborn in my DMs, it made a funny-ish video but I certainly haven't been paid 😂

[@herethereandeverywhere-h3m]

@@TomsToys95 You get paid for individuals watching your KZbin videos, yes?? I'm pretty sure you do. Anyways, as I put above, for the sake of £7.79, you should have just left it alone. If it ends up with you getting negative feedback it is your own fault.

[@TomsToys95]

@herethereandeverywhere-h3m At 1,000 subs, until then you get sweet nothing 💀

[@herethereandeverywhere-h3m]

@@TomsToys95 Fairs. I can see your on 852 as I type this message. I've just subscribed, so you can now make it 853. Just another 147 to go.

[@herethereandeverywhere-h3m]

@@TomsToys95 Fairplay. I've subscribed; I thought you were well over 1000 to be honest already. If you're putting that amount of time and/or effort into your videos you should be getting paid something. Only 145 to go.

[@step9624]

Why would you even bother messaging them when they opened the return? There was zero need to, over a £4.50 item, should of just refunded it and called it a loss, its not worth the inevitable negative feedback, all that back and fourth with a blatant mentally ill buyer over an item you weren’t even making money on in the first place, there’s no way I would of continued to message after they sent those first replies

[@TomsToys95]

It's more the principal, she opened a return as Change of Mind and as a business it auto accepts, I was confused why it took 3 weeks, and wanted to see if I could help/find out what the issue was. I was messaging so I could refund her (if there was an issue), as I didn't want the item back! Once she was rude it became personal.

[@TomsToys95]

Also feedback extortion is not allowed on eBay and as she threatened negative feedback they would have removed it anyway