edwin bodney: when a boy tells you he loves you

[@beckyleanne7369]

I’ve never fallen in love. I fell in love with the thought of being in love.

[@jesseissnazzy4268]

Me too sister

[@emilywebster3480]

same

[@kaytamurray]

Or the thought of someone loving me

[@ushamgr4588]

Becky Leanne same

[@victoria.christine7998]

Girl,I’m in tears 😭

[@keaira1266]

I didnt fall in love with him. I fell in love with the lies he told.

[@allisonsdiaryjourney]

Keaira damn this hit harddd

[@bbbbbbruh4224]

ooooof this hit heart, well said i gotta say.

[@keaira1266]

Iamaivilo 💗

[@dishaarora9589]

same here

[@ruffaaaaa]

those beautiful lies 😔

[@Leah-gb6vg]

People don't understand that the guy who wrote this, and who performed this, was writing about one specific person. He was angry, and after you get hurt so many times you start to believe all guys are like this. This is his poem. If you can't understand it from multiple perspectives don't listen.

[@gmwfandoms]

oml thank you for this explanation, its literally better than mine.

[@nataleemattei]

Leah Catherine in complete agreement

[@Kruemmel97]

this.

[@galaxyweirdo7104]

I know that feeling... All to well

[@stellajuila248]

i hate how there is always that one boy who you will always love..no matter how bad they hurt you

[@saanya.d]

I didn't fall in love with him, I fell in love with the version of him I created in my head

[@tvds8350]

Same

[@TheMamzellemanon]

“He’s just a silly sad boy, remember?” Ugh. Those words hit me like a train.

[@_bxby.birb_2262]

For anyone whos going through this kind of relationship, I'm sorry.

[@user-bv4pv8yx5v]

Birb same, I feel bad for people who are suffering from this relashoushid.

[@sofiajohnson3443]

This is me last year

[@sofiajohnson3443]

It was the worst thing

[@ashleyhernandez2532]

This happened to me 6 months ago

[@_bxby.birb_2262]

Vanessa Ruiz I know, I went through the same thing, it sucks. But once you hit rock bottom there is no other way to go then up, and even if you have to claw your way up with no one there for you then do it. Fight as hard as you can to get back up and show him what he lost. I know you can make it through this. All of you. You guys are probably the real strong people

[@lovesickzim3763]

When a *man* tells you he loves you. When a man tells you he loves you, he will be sitting right next to you, looking into your beautiful eyes of wonder with a smile on his charming face. He hold your hand in his and whisper the words on his butterfly silk lips into your mind of imagination and temptation. He will call you evey morning to wish you well and to be happy that magnificent day. He will love you and cherish you. When he asks if you loved him too, he will be standing right at your door with flowers in hand. He will smile at you as the words fell into your lap like a leaf in the light breeze, realizing you did. You realize that he meant every word of it. Because he is a man, remember? A happy, happy man.

[@MulinaTheAngelWolf]

Oh I want to read this one

[@ana.williams]

“he never meant a single word of any of it.” I felt that.

[@miyokaida]

No boy ever said 'I love you' to me but I clicked and so you are. *We no need no boy, we need a damn MAN.*

[@sharmane_2289]

“I love you” is a very strong thing to say, don’t say it unless you mean it, save someone the heartbreak, please

[@yulisam.o.7488]

Couldn't have said it better

[@boo_7803]

I’m glad that I’m not the only one here that this literally just popped up on my recs

[@sarahroberts8088]

notice the word "boy" is used instead of the word "man". that is because a man would never do that no matter what. a man will tell you he loves you and will give you every reason he knows of how and why he loves you. a boy will not do that. a boy will tell you he loves you and leave you because he either does not know better or does and doesn't strive to do better. please, fall in love with a man, and do not, please do not fall in love with a boy

[@tvds8350]

Yes

[@angeliquestahl9428]

I didn't fall in love with him, I fell in love with the thought of him.

[@sydney8933]

this was made 2 years ago and everyone is just now watching it. I love that for us

[@scotlandforever9796]

Exactly. "When a boy says I love you". It's completely different when a man says I love you

[@rowan4134]

to those offended there is a difference between a boy and a man.

[@zoegrace1328]

BRUH THIS IS THE BEST EXPLANATION TBH

[@rowan4134]

lol ty

[@donot2972]

Lee Dixon Oh mah gawd yes.

[@rowan4134]

as it was meant to be :)

[@kitten3987]

there's also a difference between a man and a gentleman

[@ceciliaventicinque4892]

What's sad.. is that you never know when someone really means it when they say, I love you.

[@mariaalzate4718]

WHY AM I CRYING IF I'VE NEVER BEEN HEARTBROKEN, MUCH LESS IN LOVE BEFORE?

[@DiamondsRexpensive]

It is probably the music.

[@annabellefrances5917]

This boy said “i love you” but then 2 days later those words were fading away he starting liking a new girl my heart was broken cause I thought he meant it and it just broke my heart and he thinks I’ll never forget about it and tries to be my friend now.

[@haileyhill1209]

i fell in love with his lies. and now i will never fall out of it.

[@myafernandez5311]

Same..

[@jenadyg5005]

Same

[@ryleymiller4285]

never let anyone take away your worth. you deserve somebody that’ll treat you right!

[@billrodgers8856]

a lot of people need to hear this rn ❤

[@youdontknowme2235]

There is a difference between a girl and woman, and a boy and a man. A woman and man will own up to their words, understand the responsibility of caring for another person, and when they make a mistake, own up to it. A boy and a girl on the other hand, will deny it all, and find it an endeavor to only gain from not give

[@samanthanichols2993]

When you truly love someone, this won’t happen I promise. I’m not saying it would be easy but true love never fades. You see no other person as attractive when you’re with the one you truly love. But it is only true love when they feel that same way. You will know when you feel it.

[@georginaarg6261]

What a beautiful day to be depressed

[@gabbymitchell5690]

Right

[@ashley..m5706]

Ikr🤗. Its so pleasant

[@melissahare6868]

0:8 don’t fuckin warn me or anything, I had both earphones in on full volume and it was like “ *WHEN a BoY tElLs YoU hE lOvEs YoU!....* ”

[@doy.2387]

When a man tells you he loves you... He means it.

[@yokebro1941]

But is it true? Or do you want it to be true? The first time they said it they may have pretend. They may have loved you latter on. But did he really love you the first time he told you?

[@disinshizuzokabutterfly6007]

I’m really scared that people hype up love too much and once I actually fall in love it won’t even be that great.

[@luisp449]

If its the right person then you'll laugh that u used to think this way.

[@disinshizuzokabutterfly6007]

Luis P I really hope so. Thanks for the encouragement.

[@kaylalerma207]

That's how life came to be..which is why the ones that truly fall in love are taken for granted...stupid people..

[@sarahtravis1835]

it feels great, like nobody can hurt you.

[@katyl7869]

Anonymous i used to think that until i met him

[@pearl1746]

If it was love, a genuine person would never treat you second. A girl who has never experienced anything and hearing the words "I love you" will make anyone vulnerable. Then to realize that everything was false will break any person. The video implies that we all have to realize that love has to be earned, not handed out freely. That no matter if he breaks your heart, he will just be a another memory of a "boy" that is still experiencing his own love, a person you used to know. That not to fall in love with a "boy" but a genuine person who means it.

[@mattie3470]

*he is just a silly, sad boy. remember?* Damn that hit home

[@elysemiller6404]

Yes it did

[@jazmincano720]

"He is just a boy remember. Hes just another silly,sad boy"...but I love him

[@raewinters8019]

I fell in love with the person I thought he was and said goodbye to he truly is. Two completely different people with the same face

[@girlboss4024]

I don’t even know why I clicked on this but this feels like church

[@binal8816]

Why?

[@naishaaswani2305]

I didn’t love him. I loved the illusion of him I made up and thought he was. Until he showed me who he really was.

[@sarahc7693]

he’s the one i want, but he’s not what i need.

[@castielnovak4585]

“When a boy tells you he loves you, he is saying he is ready to be inconsistent with you.” @ my precious relationship

[@gautam.m.m]

"He's just a boy, remember.? He's just another silly, SAD boy. Remember ?"

[@fatz9976]

the fact that this was recommended to me during these tough times i couldn’t get any sadder😩

[@jazmine4395]

it’s so sad when you love someone that doesn’t even know you exist . 😕

[@ravenwendling9228]

I fell in love with him at 16. Almost two years ago. I will never forget the night in March of 2019. He told me he loved me for the first time. I was his first love and he was mine. We loved each other no matter what. Not even the ocean between us could break us apart. But here we both are and the ocean broke us apart.

[@justynak3867]

I'm sorry. I can relate though, I fell in love and lost too. But the memories remain, the presence in my heart. Everything remains, im still here.

[@amandawind1006]

but why do we have the exact same story and time these things happened

[@zeavocado1542]

You know you're hurting when you're sat listening to this again...

[@MiViLiX]

How unfortunate for the person I loved to turn out to be just another sad silly boy who never meant anything he said.

[@tweehuh]

having your heart broken so many times the words “i love you” are sugar coated lies

[@mckinleymurphy7714]

Still waiting for that day that someone says it and means it

[@gmwfandoms]

it's okay girl me too

[@restorationryan2039]

My goodness who hurt this girl ???when I tell my girl I love her that’s what I feel plain and simple from the bottom of my heart there’s no underlying theme with secretive ideas and meanings

[@elsayounes5347]

Ryan Miles that means you're not a boy , you're a man 🌟💘

[@aries6684]

He told me he loved me he did things that made me believe he did, but then I found out he does that with every girl

[@abigailblack6570]

When a boy tells you he loves you he doesn’t know what he’s talking about. When a man tells you he loves you, you’ve found the one.

[@meiaheredia3085]

now thats smart , ive never seen it that way

[@ayeshabelle1227]

When you are 16 and thinking that the person that you placed your lips on , was only thinking of you . But atlas , he didn’t . He never did , he always compared you, and told you that she was better . Now he never said this. But you still felt his lips on yours. And you want it gone, all of it . His touch, his words, his memory, CAN I PLEASE STOP FEELING HIS TOUCH !! I’m over this .... I’m over feeling like that I was enough , or that I am someone’s first, and being lied to. I scrubbed my whole body, my lips , everything . And I can still feel it . I really want to stop, please . My head hurts, I want this feeling to stop .

[@chloefair7430]

“He means I am getting ready to be inconsistent with you now” ouchie

[@deeznuts926]

He repeatedly say he loves me. He shows it too. But it’s like hes flipping a switch. He turns it on and switches it back off.

[@FV-tg4sz]

He never told me he loves me. But I love him. And here’s my biggest heartbreak, loving a boy who loves another girl

[@karal8617]

All some people want to hear is those three words, but sometimes it’s not the words, it’s the actions and intentions that should make you feel safe.

[@evieknopwood1097]

I feel like through the use of boy instead of man it shows that he is too naive to genuinely love you. Meaning that yes not every guy is the same but if he is too naive he will be unable of loving you whole heartedly

[@katieiw4294]

He told me he loved me and that’s the first time someone other than my family had said that to me and I was shocked, happy and I told him I loved him back. And then I had to watch him leave for another girl.

[@ishitasarangal9367]

I have never heard a single boy confess feelings to me or compliment me expect once my school senior ( he's a great singer),heard me singing with my friends and told me I have a good voice. First and last time I heard something genuinely good about me from a guy, neither before that nor after that one time a guy has said anything nice to me

[@afnanabbas5851]

You will never stop loving someone. You'll just find someone you love even more.💕

[@kamden1036]

I hope I do.

[@brooklynndanielle7714]

“he never meant a single word of any of it. he is just a boy *remember?* “

[@kimtaetae2881]

i remember hearing this video in 6th grade after a break up and i was so sad that i believed everything in this video pero just a reminder to everyone to boys and girls ,, if someone loves you so much she/he will make the effort to make time for you ,, don’t stress over someone who isn’t gonna stress over you , your beautiful in every way ,, trust me

[@mirandafowler3071]

Yoselin Ruiz I’m almost in 7th grade and I haven’t had a boyfriend yet because when a boy told me he liked me he straight away broke me

[@ana-mari286]

6th?!?!?! Gurl you dont need a relationship

[@kimtaetae2881]

ana-mari i was in 6th 😭😭

[@kimtaetae2881]

Miranda Fowler honestly boys aren’t worth stressing about

[@ruffaaaaa]

He never loved me, and when I realized........I felt really stupid.

[@_bxby.birb_2262]

Lyffraun Flecora Dont feel stupid, you are probably an amazing girl and you dont need someone in your life who doesn't love you. You can get through this, I believe in you.

[@ruffaaaaa]

Birb aww thanks alot it really made me feel alot better, I always felt that he's just playing with my feelings and I don't know what to do.

[@_bxby.birb_2262]

Lyffraun Flecora Just leave. Its the easiest thing to do and if he does that then he isn't worth your time. You are worth more then that and you deserve so much better. You got this girl. I believe in you.

[@ruffaaaaa]

thank you very much I really mean it, I know I can get throught this, there are alot more people suffering from worse problems, I know the pain will go away someday

[@_bxby.birb_2262]

Lyffraun Flecora People may be suffering worse but these are your problems, you are going through this now and for now it feels horrible to you so it matters. The pain will go away some day but until then you'll have to fight. If no one else is here for you or rooting for you I am. I'm here for you. If you need to talk I'm always here. Try to have a good day. You can do this.

[@akranyum5846]

Fun fact . . . I did in fact tell her I loved her while on a business meeting, inside my car. And after that business meeting I got money. After I got money I got in a plane and I traveled 1300kms to be with her. And now I'm a 23 yo white atheist guy , married to the 22 yo Muslim woman that I love. We have a daughter.

[@najd9072]

muslims don't marry atheists fyi.. so you're lying

[@luciusknight8851]

@@najd9072 lol, only dumb people will deny their feelings because of imagined bearded oldman on the sky

[@najd9072]

@@luciusknight8851 i didn't ask for your opinion about my beliefs.

[@luciusknight8851]

@@najd9072 You're assuming that he's lying, but this just your guesses so you cant be sure 100%, so stfu bint.

[@thecomfytitan3813]

@@najd9072 bruh ok stfu. Just because you wouldnt marry an atheist doesnt mean she is like you

[@delilahb1234]

I don’t cry in front of ppl ever, so if I cry in front of you, I trust you, and I’m rly hurting and broken

[@Artbysayo]

I am feeling the same way right now. But we need to believe that it will get better for all of us, that's the only way we can heal. It will get better

[@tutainostuturuma6278]

True, happened to me some days ago.

[@kunaami]

Why am I watching this a boy had never told me he loved me and no boy ever will.

[@awwhe]

But.. I'll love you :(

[@rooshartkoorn]

when he told me he loved me, it made me feel so special and hopeful. maybe because i dont remember anyone else saying it to me. my family havent told me they loved me in years and neither did anyone else. it means so much to me because he felt like the only one who cared about me. I felt so special when i heard those 8 letters. but it turns out it was a lie, maybe not hearing it at all is better than knowing someone didn't mean it, and maybe thats why my family hasnt said it either. they dont wanna lie.

[@r0xx0r31]

Sometimes , people do love you but it's hard for them to express it , hard for them to say it. Don't worry , that was the first time you heard it and it didn't go as planned but it's okay , he just wasn't the right one for you. All you gotta do is wait , one day out of the blue sky someone will be infront of and tell you how much he loves you and he will mean it too cuz everyone has a soul mate somewhere around the world and one way or another they will find each other. All you have to do is wait and trust the fate and have faith too, cuz meeting someone is fate , knowing them is choice and falling for them is beyond control. I hope you're having a wonderful day , stay safe.

[@yesh1141]

“he never meant a single word of any of it” ; .

[@iazabelle]

Not only did I fall for the lies he told but I also fell for every little thing about him.

[@liezadorothy]

we can never really tell we love someone so much, not until it hurts so much to watch them walk away.

[@juliabearce3808]

This is why I trust actions, not words

[@lataviajefferson8130]

Sometimes you can't trust either of them though Tbh

[@trinity7538]

he told me he loved me. but why does he keep giving me reasons to think he doesn’t.

[@kendyrubio2287]

bc he doesn’t love you, not really. he might want you but that doesn’t mean he values you. he doesn’t want to be your man, he just wants you to be his woman. walk away and heal.

[@landrycoday]

There is a beautiful difference between when a boy tells you he loves you... and when a man does

[@chrispriceloyalboy9320]

That was awesome

[@wefish7759]

Not gonna lie ima dude and idk if there’s a different have an amazing night I hope either the boy or man for you finds you

[@JAKE-00]

One of the only rational point of views and I respect it thouroughly

[@insomiac_dreamer4608]

He never meant a word of it..... That really hit me.....harder than I expected

[@allimorgan5781]

I came to this video expecting to hear something different but I’m kinda glad I didn’t hear what I wanted to hear because it made me wake up and realize that sometimes this is true.

[@X2448X]

It’s crazy bc I say “I love you” when I mean it but if I grow distant it’s bc I grow scared, I hide my emotions to protect you from myself not to hurt you, and if she doesn’t show the same remorse naturally I lose feelings

[@anitaxv8997]

"he is just a silly sad boy..."

[@theworthyfangirl448]

Damn, y’all are some depressed ass kids you need a big ass hug and confidence.

[@natalierose9178]

TheWorthy FanGirl all the serious comments 😂 I wish I could hug you for making me laugh

[@elysemiller6404]

My ex finds his confidence in a pair of unprescribed glasses. Which like good for you?? But actual real confidence in yourself feels better and you should give it a try. I am wondering if I was his confidence for all that time

[@Anonymous-qp3kd]

“He is just a silly, sad boy, remember?” This hit me

[@rachelclarke5744]

I know not all boys are like this...there are some amazing boys out there but you have to look in the right areas

[@Rufynald]

Don't do bars or any place with booze. (Just saying.) :D

[@JAKE-00]

Men* aren’t like this

[@Su-zd1oq]

I am that sad silly boy, but i just can't help loving her

[@loveverythingbooks]

All people are hurting because they've been betrayed in love. For me it hurts cause no boy ever told me he loved me

[@asia2smoove400]

Title: when a boy tells u he loves u... Me: Can't relate

[@slytherin9439]

"He's just a boy, remember? He's just another silly, sad boy, remember?"

[@mo_7199]

True love is when you put someone else's happiness over your own. (No I'm not taking about abusive relationships because there is no love there.)

[@chloefair7430]

“it means he is getting ready to be inconsistent with you” i felt that

[@aryacruzen]

Literally just came on to KZbin after crying for an hour because "this" guy, told me to stop talking to him, after yesterday telling me he would be with me forever. I swear youtube has some way of knowing...

[@Versaces304]

When they fuck up and thats when they decide to admit their love for you lol

[@abheetsingh4470]

Some souls are like oceans you once fall for them and never stop falling.

[@alienneetnoot1108]

I had a long distance relationship with this boy i loved and it felt like true love for us. He suffered depression and problems and I was there to always make him happy. He would always tell me he loves me everyday. But then a month ago he suffered a serious crash which I never knew because he never came online to tell me because he lived to far and he was in the hospital. He then came back but was only online for a day. He lost everything. His house just everything. He then a few weeks back committed suicide... I wish he would’ve talked to me... I still text him everyday even though he is gone and tell him how my day was going. I miss him so much I remembered me saying to him that the first thing I do when I see him is that we were gonna have a movie night because we loved watching movies.. now he’s resting in heaven and I just miss him so fucking much I wish he would’ve spoke to me idk why he didn’t.. I lost the feeling of what love I after that. I just want him back that’s all I ask from god..

[@darkblue0505]

Alaska, watch also if u like a poetic video :) It's my sky at kzbin.info/www/bejne/aZ_Rf32Pfc5sjNU !

[@joshuavarghese2436]

Nothing I could comment can make up for your loss. I too am in a relationship, a long distance one and I too also suffer from depression and social anxiety. The reason that your boyfriend didn’t speak to you most likely was because he was ashamed and embarrassed and he most likely felt like a failure and he didn’t want you to see him that way. Depression warps the mind and makes us believe a different narrative that we know isn’t true but we still choose to believe. I’ve also tried to take my own life and my girlfriend knows this. It scares me a lot that one day I might choose to take my own life and never get to see her. Please I ask you for his sake and for yours, keep moving forward. As hard and as impossible as that may seem it’s all you can do for yourself and for him looking down upon you from heaven with a smile. Just try to smile back.

[@tinatina8047]

Im so sorry 💔😔

[@mattg.9551]

There’s a difference between a boy and a MAN

[@Dylann08]

Preech

[@violetasterie5884]

Yes!

[@kp64446]

I think the important word in this poem is "boy". If a BOY tell you he loves you, he doesn't know what love is. That silly sad boy isn't brown yet. Dont date boys. Date men.

[@gmwfandoms]

true 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@valeriehasman2582]

It sounded better with the poem, try reading it with man.

[@bente2090]

Why am I even watching this when this has never happened to me and probably never will.

[@alexisboatner7252]

he told me so many times i can still hear it and now he says the same 3 words to her but i still love him and i cant stop i love you, c

[@emmarascon6672]

"i love you" are just words and they don't mean anything if you don't want them to

[@parkerr4148]

For anyone who is hurting. It will get better he sucked but you can do better. You will become stronger never let him have power over you.Walk proudly don't let him know he effected you keep strong you will get better and find someone who will treat you right.He didn't deserve you and he was lucky he even got to be in your presence.Go rule the world girl you've got this.

[@Ofuresworld]

Why did this randomly come up in my recommended?

[@savanah9616]

same😂

[@missdizzy4732]

Idk

[@sofiajimena152]

i fell in love with the person i created in my head

[@mujerchiquitita9762]

When you have deep feelings for a guy, but turns out he is too dependent on your best friend so now all you have left to do is pretend like you dont care and try to fall out of these feelings....even though...it hurts a lot..

[@mikaylavanstaden1389]

I did this poem for my drama a few years back, it still resonates with me

[@saanya.d]

When a boy tells you he loves you He probably does. Not all boys are liars. You're lovable, sis❤️

[@draytonbryant1072]

There's such a difference between a boy and a man.

[@randomqueer5243]

PERIODT

[@trendylooper3255]

*I love my best friend. He’s told me he loves me too, we’ve had ups and downs but we’ve gotten through it. I honestly believe him when he says it. He is legit the first person I’ve ever been friends with that has made me the happiest and cry the hardest. I don’t know how, but I never want too lose him. And I hope it’s not easy for him too lose me if I am ever the person too end our relationship.*

[@thedarklordofall6056]

I had a best friend too, ended up dating him, I loved him so much and still do, he told me he loved me and I believed it... I was stupid. One day he didn’t talk to me for a few weeks which was unusual, we talked everyday. Then out of nowhere he ends our relationship and scars our friendship. I still don’t understand why or what happened. I talk to him here and there, I act like everything’s cool, but nothing hurts more than when a best friend abandons you. Be careful please

[@trendylooper3255]

TheDarkLordofAll *thank you so much. What’s crazy is I’ve had multiple people tell me to be careful. I’m a person that when they love someone it’s hard to register that someone decides your love isn’t enough.*

[@sharni9886]

my best friend told me he loves me last night. but I have a boyfriend and he knows this. and I'm really confused.

[@kooffeecupff]

Walk away from there where you can't find your worth.

[@kaysesnyder4411]

y’all i felt that in my chest