The Best Way To Make A Guy Regret Losing You And Reflect On Being An Idiot

[@eclecticd9953]

Good luck weaseling back in when he’s blocked, I’m off social media and I left the state. ✌️ ❤

[@angiedee2722]

Me too. All i have is KZbin now. Love not being on instagram. Even started reading books.

[@juliadevia95]

same😂

[@hellevelle2072]

Hhhhh me too!!

[@Coping_in_Copeland_Cope]

Haha you were like dueces I'm out. ✌️

[@nicholeb2746]

His loss😂

[@ChristineAristides]

My husband said he didn't love me the way he used to, he wanted to leave then found out he was seeing someone, we have been together for 19 years. We have kids as well. Within a month he moved in with her, they are in a relationship and he says she gets me and I was stupid and tried to get him. I went from contact to no contact to contact. Now today I've detached from him and had no contact again. I know my worth I know I'm one in a million.

[@cheekytitaable]

He’s such a dirtbag.. I’m sorry you went through all that..

[@uyentran851]

You are so strong ,I hope you get through this 😢

[@ChristineAristides]

I’m healing and growing each and every day I’m more confident in myself and I dress up with no where to go when he comes to collect the kids, I caught him checking me out both times when he either dropped them off with her in the car and the second time with just him. I’m sticking to my no contact as well.

[@socol76]

My story exactly the same, 19 years, kids, cheated then moved in with her, tried to get him back, he left again after one night, I went as close to no contact as possible unless a very rare email regarding the divorce after that and it’s been great the last 2.5 years. I’m 💯 over him but he’s not over me cuz he loves to send long ass emails which are angry and vindictive even though I don’t respond. It’s hilarious

[@Coping_in_Copeland_Cope]

This is exactly why I don't believe in marriage. This story is told over and over and over again. You think you know someone and they blindside you. I'm sorry that happened. One of these days when you're all dressed up, take yourself out to dinner, buy yourself your favorite flowers and give yourself a big ole hug. ❤

[@kellystargell8873]

Dealt with the on/ off foolishness for 5 years Had a bad fallout back at the end of June 2024. Currently in no contact and We’re both Blocked 😂 Ran into him 3 weeks ago and he literally tried to molest me. I was so shocked by his behavior as he’s not a man who’s into PDA. I told him about himself and resumed no contact. I’ve reached a point where my peace is non negotiable.

[@Coping_in_Copeland_Cope]

Peace is the goal not the man. ✌️✨🎊

[@elenag6431]

You are the only one who says true!!!!! Especially about “easy one”. Thank you for all your videos

[@theeladyj]

I felt like you were speaking directly to me like a big brother lmao. This is my current situation, I broke up with him on thanksgiving due to his behavior and lack of commitment but we do this over and over so he knows we may get back together. I usually make him buy for things to get back with me but it’s not enough. I know i need to really stop speaking to him.

[@earthtoangel652]

What if you weren’t with the person long enough to have any arguments or that much drama and history but they still left you for their ex when things were going great between you two? Would they even care enough to regret and come back?

[@あばらいかすか]

Probably not. If they went back to their ex, you were the rebound. You need to better than his ex for him to regret losing you.

[@earthtoangel652]

@ okay but what if his ex played him and just used him for a place to stay and now they’re broken up again?

[@あばらいかすか]

@earthtoangel652 I wouldn't bother.... if he comes back under this conditions it is because he ran out of options, not because he had a realization that he wants you. Don't waste your time on people that don't want what you want. Not worth it

[@Coping_in_Copeland_Cope]

No no noooo!!!! He's 100% attached to his ex. The more she hurt him and he forgave, the more attached. He will be attached for years to come and there's no amount of good you can do to change this. He should have taken a couple of years before he dated again to heal from her before he started dating you. ​@@earthtoangel652

[@nicholeb2746]

Yeah, he's a user. Kick rocks

[@flowertot786]

What if he broke up with you about insecurities about other guys would it not make it worse by going on apps? 🤔and if he broke up due to arguments will he be back after no contact?thanks!

[@Callieforniiaa]

Okay but I’ve left him several times, told him what I want and need too. He always comes back and does it again. Last time I even deleted him from everything and he popped back up texting me on thanksgiving and chasing me saying he misses me. I let him back in and now he’s ghosting while watching my snap stories again lol. He’s going back in the dog house and he’s gonna have to prove this time or I’m gone for good

[@あばらいかすか]

@Callieforniiaa This is what Elliot means. The dig house is not a hotel (temporary housing). Once you kick him out of the real house, he needs to stay on the street. You can't blame him anymore because you're the one reinforcing the behavior! Every time he comes back, you let him in. You're the fool. He's just playing the game.

[@diaryofseresha]

Your man seems similar to my june cancerian ex😂 he was a weak mafucka. Did exact same shit, would come back after every 2 to 3 weeks, take his ego boost n start doing his lame games, then i would throw his ass to the curb. He would block me again from everywhere then come back kissing my ass after 2 months, n back to same cycle. He kept doing that to me on/off whole 6 months till i had enough insulted tf outta him n blocked him from everywhere. The mf so stubborn he started msging me at my public fb page after 4 months😹😹😂😂🤣🤣 My advice to u: Let it flow till ur feelings all dry up for him n u block n cutoff from him for once n for all like i did. His loss

[@Coping_in_Copeland_Cope]

If that's the case you're not really "leaving" him. In his mind he knows you'll be back so there are never consequences aside from a little time spent apart. They don't care.

[@guitarsinger1231]

If this has happened several times then there shouldn’t be a next time. Seems like he wants his walking papers permanently 🤷‍♀️. If it were me then I would’ve signed on the dotted line.

[@whiteliner2253]

Sounds like you haven’t been drug by your hair on your face enough yet… That’s right… Keep going back!

[@diaryofseresha]

I remember when u made the word "orbitter" viral😂😂🤣 i never knew wth was even that u popularize it n i realized damn my ex was orbitter

[@ElliotScottDating]

Yes it was me :) no one giving credit tho ha

[@QueenJessica-z5j]

Great video, A month ago, my five-year relationship came to an end. I really can't stop thinking about the love of my life, who made the decision to leave me. I've done everything in my power to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I genuinely miss him and just can't stop thinking about him, even though I've tried my hardest to stop thinking about him. I'm not sure why I'm saying this here.

[@MarilynChen-j1k]

It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.

[@QueenJessica-z5j]

Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?

[@MarilynChen-j1k]

His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

[@MarilynChen-j1k]

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[@QueenJessica-z5j]

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[@luxeyjames5283]

I went quiet 5 months, he wanted me to chase him & always be the one to reach out & I am not going to do that shit - he recently started to follow my business page & views every story there & likes the posts of reels etc (sometimes likes) what’s it mean?

[@k.molloy5503]

I would say after this long with nothing but him viewing stories is a form of breadcrumbing and trying to see if you take the bait to contact him. Please do not contact him. I'm in over 46 days of nc with my ex fiance and he don't have my business pages but he has my personal fb page but I do not post anything on there at all lol. Stay NC because if all he is doing is viewing stories after all this time is because he trying to test the waters and see by him throwing his fish hook out if you will grab onto the bait.

[@Coping_in_Copeland_Cope]

It means you're too amazing and beautiful to put up with silly immature social media breadcrumbs. Slay your goals in life and let him drool from afar.

[@wart479]

But should I swipe him right on the app?

[@ElliotScottDating]

Heck no

[@tinkerbellUK]

No f%$king way! it makes you look desperate and available, like an option for him to pick up n put down

[@adeydZ]

News flash the guy you are talking to is on the App he needs to see you😅😅😅

[@feliciawoodbury770]

I am to done😂

[@snsnjjdk9258]

And men keep claiming they’re “simple” so what’s all these loopholes😅

[@darlinah8090]

❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@michellecremers361]

What if things didn't worked out between the two of you, (he wasn't over his ex and that broke my heart because I really liked him), and now he's going after another girl in our dance scene (our tribe)... What is the best thing I could do here? I would die to see them together.... and him giving her all the things I wanted with him (a home full of love & animals). I would fantasize what I would say to him, something like 'Oh, well I don't see her as competition. And if you hurt her, I'm going to be there for her. ' Would that work?

[@GraceOffiong-ql8cj]

I don't think you need to waste your time saying anything to him, he is not worth it. I was in the same situation 2 months ago, he was never available, always claiming to be busy every time. I tried to make sure the relationship worked, but he left me for someone else. The day I saw him with her, I didn't say a word to him till today, it's almost 3 months now, it was really hard, sometimes I had the urge to say something, but I feel it's better to leave him to his conscience, I knew I never did him wrong, but since he feels I'm not worth his love, it's fine. I know someone who will love and appreciate me, will find me. So just be strong, try to make yourself happy, you will be fine. It's not going to be easy but you will be fine eventually ❤.

[@Smokillo]

No wayyyy don’t say anything about that, don’t talk to him

[@michellecremers361]

@@Smokillo he did came up to me and we talked for a bit. The whole time he stood very close to me, our arms were touching. And after we danced, I saw that he was mirroring my movements.. (I grabbed my hair out of my face and into a ponytail, because I was hot).. But while talking he said he was going to dance with that girl, she was 'on his list'. Very, very upsetting comment. Before that he was behaving like he still liked me, so I dont know what to believe anymore. What should I do when I see him again somewhere? Get up and leave?

[@Smokillo]

@@michellecremers361 oh please girl please stop seeing and talking to this guy, he’s playing you like a fiddle. He likes to see you suffer. Bloch him.

[@Smokillo]

@@michellecremers361 no he's not serious, please stop talking to him!

[@darkestpriestess]

😊👏👏👏👏👏❤️