Emotional Intelligence: How Good Leaders Become Great -- UC Davis Executive Leadership Program

The UC Davis Executive Leadership Program is a transformative, interactive seminar series that will expand your ability to confidently guide and direct your organization. Gain practical techniques, effective strategies and essential personal insight to become a passionate, inspiring leader. In this video, instructor Mitchel Adler, Psy.D., CGP, discusses emotional intelligence and how good leaders use it to their advantage.
For more information about the 2016 UC Davis Executive Leadership Program, visit extension.ucdavis.edu/execprog

[@claragary]

Thanks. This gave me more ideas on my dissertation which is basically based on emotional and social intelligence in various types of school principles. Five stars!!!

[@viviaz7942]

Feeling glad that world has leaders like him!

[@G.Toro333]

Thank you for sharing Dr. Adler! I love how the description says "so leaders can use emotional intelligence to their advantage". Its precise, but also indirecly contradictive because of the mirror effect. A leader that uses EQ with his surrounding collegues makes everyone else comfortable to give room for vulnerability and individuality growth. It advantages the team, in turn makes it that much of a healthier, hard working enviorenement for the resulting, seeking leader. It's an eternal turning circle. We are in this all together.

[@kemalistdevrimturkaydnlanm168]

True, when I was working for a brutal management I was performing to my best and I was top of the performance leagues in the region, he respected me and awarded me, when I was working for a totally relaxed, respectful, understanding manager I performed way less productive, he respected me and rewarded me. Sad but it’s true for me being honest. The manager for compliance was strict as a military officer so for 22 years I worked with him I never made any mistakes when it came to compliance, conduct and paperwork performance. I knew if I made a mistake he was not going to be soft , he had zero tolerances for lousy behaviour so be always supported me and respected me in return.

[@sharishahale8307]

Instructor Mitchel Adler discussed emotional intelligence really well. I learned a lot things about emotional intelligence

[@wilmotmagopeni7742]

Great talk by UC Davis. There is so much we can achieve in changing ourselves for the better by just making time of self introspection and being more reflective on our thoughts and behaviors. How do I feel about this right now ? Why do I feel as such ? Could I feel differently about the same thing or experience ? If not why not ? That's my take away from this talk

[@TheDavidlloydjones]

Congratulations to the producers who put this talk up: no intro, no yards of persiflage. It just starts with the talk. well done. -dlj.

[@russ4u4love]

Y!

[@garymacmillan1]

David Lloyd-Jones yes you stated the apparent but sadly you will not be able to build a following because you are taking life and replying to it bye explianing like a lot of interneters in gobiltigook that does not respond or enlighten the causes you want to enritchen?

[@eduardovargas1139]

Gary Macmillan this is such a God mode response Well done

[@eduardovargas1139]

Gary Macmillan now the very comment you made stands foolish in the face of the very comment you made not very God like

[@TheDavidlloydjones]

@@garymacmillan1 Hunh?

[@aqeelaallawati4269]

Very beneficial absolutely true I’ve been through all these emotions and learned how to control it. Thank you so much that was helpful

[@totonerdepr]

Everyone is so interested in what hes talking about!! I can see it in theyr faces, good job.

[@carolinelatham-parker7313]

Thank you so much 4 years on this is truly relevant and inspiring

[@mmm4638]

Great talk, pure about the mechanism of perception process. Ultimately my perception has `filters` that convert certain life events into emotions I understand as negative feelings or anxiety. My mission statement is `love people for what they're not, its your self reflection in some ways, to love self is to love others and to love others is to love self (love as an unconditional acceptance regardless sex, race, age and standings...) p.s how could possibly someone dislike this, its academic (its not some peoples cup of tea) but its genuine and its very good.

[@Teeroye215]

I simply learned a lot about the video of how it didn't give specific instructions of how to be a leader , instead it gave the attributes and techniques of what makes a good leader. Very good, this video deserves a lot of publicity

[@gomentr3460]

To be a great leader comes with attributes and experiences. It also takes the indivula to be empathetic for others in order to know how to lead.

[@Yunona1984]

THANK YOU SO MUCH!!! I wish I'd have money to come for listening the entire course. So useful.

[@nataaliyakhan4837]

Well articulated, informative and presented in the best possible way. Surely gonna watch over and over again.

[@Bat_Boy]

I agree. I have watched many KZbin videos on emotional intelligence, authenticity, active listening, etc. And this video is a stand out. No “bumper sticker”, disposable pop-psychology on this one. An awesome breakdown, with useable points.

[@muthukr27]

Very interesting session on Emotional Intelligence, thanks for sharing in youtube

[@adedimejiadeyinka4746]

I believe we are all leaders in our own sphere and this topic can't be overemphasized more so that self-awareness is the core of EI. Our lives can be better collectively and we also can give more to our world when we are masters first of ourselves and then others.

[@catherineto]

Secrets of emotional intelligence: “Recognize” that I am angry right now. “Why” am I angry ? “How” to cope with my anger ? This is exactly what Dalai Lama suggested too in the book of “How to live a happy life”.

[@dkozz1]

Very helpful and informative. Our emotions happens faster than cognitively we are aware of it. Great work.

[@docj8417]

Enjoyed this, thank you, Dr. Adler.

[@maryadeolaonyewadume357]

Your posture, presentation skills indicate you are emotionally intelligent.

[@MC-ij9xc]

My quote "We Can Only Give What We Have" Good speech Thank you

[@mitcheladler]

M C that’s a great quote. Thanks for sharing!

[@syedzaidi3182]

Good Epeech Thank You

[@zannamsoro5180]

so great.I really enjoyed it

[@jorgdoku2280]

Great lecture! Thank you Mitchel!

[@riavarnom8210]

Love your explanations, thank you for being you.

[@georgebenichou9727]

I did not often heard of EI but now that I listened what it is I must say thst it is the full consciousness of every aspects of his " being " when he or she is fully manifesting itself in all its activities (physical emotional mental psychic even spiritual ) in other word we call that " real wisdom " because it describes what spiritual people mean . by the word wisdom and it corresponds to a state of consciousness close to illumination !! in spiritual circles .the first ingredient absolutely necessary to progress in this direction is to be honest to be true with your intimate relationship with yourself and consequently with others .there is no charisma without honesty !!

[@yulijiron8719]

UAAAUUU!!! I feel great! Thanks very much!

[@anamae9502]

Great Speaker. I'd pay to watch him live..🎤

[@255Samyak]

Insightful seminar! Much appreciated.

[@AbelPetClinicElkGrove]

So nice to see many of the wonderful people I met in this class. Dr Adler's presentations were among the highest rated by students in the program.

[@DionDifelice]

Concise, informative, and well communicated!! This is a great intro to Emotional Intelligence with some great takeaways! Thank you

[@LifeDesign09]

20:35... by now... you've completely got my attention.

[@jamesmoore6203]

We must gain striking structure amongst the nature of ourselves.. inwardly, we bubble to burst outwardly.. to grasp the attentive concept of honing personal attributes to enhance skills sets buried deep within to guide not only ourselves, yet those thereafter...

[@ICONIQPsychology]

Cool video! :) Emotional intelligence is so important for everyone, not just managers and leaders.

[@viktorkrokhmalov2277]

Bravo, thank you very much for your professionalism and the way you deliver it. You woke me up!

[@teppalbalu4260]

GOOD my dear yeshwanth it is wonderful , you have done and your style of speech and your body language really is very impressive. Nice too. TNBALU

[@h2energynow]

Great talk, learned a great deal. Thanks

[@insidemyownlittleworld]

this was so good 🙏🏾 wish i discovered this nine years ago.

[@leonardorocha1875]

awesome! helps a lot! thanks :)

[@alokbharti25]

very good session .Thanks lot

[@lovedichoreo1529]

We should know the difference between a thought and a feeling vs action

[@keitaaboubacarsidiki5627]

Great presentation, many thanks for inspiring me.

[@nelumpriyapremachandra2703]

great explanation about this Topic. I understood a lot of thing.

[@stevenpfeifferdc6119]

Great video to better yourself. Much appreciated.

[@victoriaavila0406]

This was so wonderful - thank you!

[@errolharding4409]

A brilliant video. Thank you.

[@ericmartinez2714]

Thank you!

[@lisachledergerber6790]

great job....

[@solomoniiroja6838]

Change for the better. Thank u.

[@markanthonygarrett6264]

Great! This video is so insightful I really enjoyed watching it. It has a lot of good ideas that we can learn. Thanks! :)

[@jenalyntinai2805]

Hi there Mark, I am so surprised I see you here, I never thought you would also watched videos like this where you made amazing inspirational videos as well, very creative and I'd like to see more of it so I'm so excited and I have to keep updated on your site.

[@joannetimney367]

Great thought provoking video!

[@CrashRebootL3]

very good talk, learned something

[@robertlee2170]

"Self-awareness is the foundation of emotional intelligence. " There is your #1 tool. #2 tool, journaling is one of the best tool of achieving self- awareness. It is lots of work no doubt. You mean I have to look into myself such as my own feeling😢. It takes commitment. It takes lots work. Once you see it & expiernce ofyour own self growth that will motivate to continue to work on yourself. It still takes on going motivation , self discipline to do this. 😊

[@lorenamares1427]

I hope to apply this to my teaching.

[@FrankRGreen-wq7vo]

I pray whoever reads this should become successful. keep fighting for success. the rich stay rich by spending like the poor and investing why the poor stay poor and be spending like the rich yet notbinvesting. Roar! Invest earn and be successful.

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[@MelissaEHill-un7sc]

You are right ma'am

[@franky.sullivan6618]

But I don't know why people remain poor due to ignorance..

[@jacobf.watson552]

people are really making a lot of money from it..

[@faridjafarov9175]

Thank you for sharing !

[@abdulqadeerahmadzai164]

It was realy interesting Thank you

[@megan-ms8kj]

emotional intelligence is very very useful and important

[@PreetiSinhalearniitude]

Nice talk! Very informative ..

[@LifeDesign09]

This is a great video...

[@gabz481]

Learnt a lot, clear explanations

[@deaddude6084]

will the email reply tell us "Good Job"?

[@jennifersertl3358]

Your competitive advantage is the accuracy of how you scan the macro and how you make decisions. Awareness is the only sustainable competitive advantage. #a3r

[@mdm...321]

Leaders don't tell what they want, unless they are position leaders. Hardly anything they get is of value. Leaders ask. If you are emotionally intelligent enough to understand the profound difference, you'll develop your leadership to build real followers round you.

[@DannyPluto.]

I can’t believe this is free, feelings like I’m stealing

[@jennys6087]

thank you! I want everyone to enjoy

[@jennys6087]

I have to say I've been numbed in life never angry to rage, no need to repeat history! #stopbecauseyouknowitsAcircle....#offdasugar

[@jennys6087]

I've been studying behavior habits for 40years of my Life

[@jennys6087]

challenged my comfort zone! #zenJen

[@21ikram]

Thanks for a good talk.

[@TheRonskins]

Very informative...Thanks for this!

[@jfb_ventures]

Such good content! I had to apply all of it to control my irritations triggered by the poor and erratic camera work. 🙂

[@christinanjoka5071]

This is fantastic and very informative presentation especially for me as a Trainer on Leadership in Kenya. Keep it up.

[@JaqWasonga]

+christina njoka where in kenya are you based?

[@zahedulhamid6332]

Great, really i followed your lecture , its g good

[@felicidadeneto4212]

I'm not directly partisipated at your speach but I do really love watched your video and really appreciated that. Thanks a lot for great acknowladgement share.

[@solf2000]

felicidade neto: What exactly are you saying, besides the spelling errors you allowed to jump on us?

[@evelynwhite8525]

Thanks to Ranjana Sharma, a classmate through Coursera, for pointing me to this talk. Really good.

[@UCDavisExtension]

I'm glad you enjoyed it, Evelyn (and thanks for sharing us, Ranjana!).

[@naonaonao962]

About judgements: mine are formed through past experiences. I know what to expect from the people who surround me, because I learned through the pain, joy, growth, etc., that I experienced when interacting with them. I created a pattern, a point of observation so that I can spare myself from going through the same bad experiences again. Is it self-defense? Of course. We need to learn not to give the other face to the same people when we know exactly what we'll get from them. Some say I'm wrong and have no emotional intelligence. But if emotional intelligence means interacting with assholes, I prefer not to have any.

[@FaithHope21]

So you said you form your judgements about people based on the bad past experiences you've had with them...what are some bad experiences you've had with someone that made you cut them off?

[@naonaonao962]

@@FaithHope21 Private.

[@michaelstafford5848]

Fantastic presentation

[@mdjamaluddin2079]

Thank you very much

[@Idkjustyet]

His daughter is very smart 😂❤ this is good 👏🏽 having this skill will allow u to spot a narcissist very quickly 💯

[@lifewithpurposetv4349]

Super powerful insights and masive Value in this🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤

[@kegalalelinnetikaneng5133]

Very interesting session, thanks for sharing

[@lovedichoreo1529]

21:43 Emotional intelligence defined

[@malkta0b]

So great

[@willieward7419]

Great informational video that created thought.

[@MohamedFathy-uk2hh]

Really amazing

[@viklatu7806]

There's 2 primary emotions, not 4, that build up all the emotions. Feeling good or bad. And we are all driven by pleasure and pain. This not to knock your teaching but something to think about. Good job by the way. Look up faster eft. Robert Smith has developed the art of changing your primary imprints. The art of changing your memories, in return reconstructing your life from inside out. Developing real emotional intelligence.

[@rizzamaeong]

will research this. thank you.

[@nizaradnan2897]

very helpful. Thank You

[@popcorn1069]

Anyone recommends books about emotional intelligence or leadership?

[@sachintomar3535]

The best part about comments is that "how we all born from different mothers have the same thinking process".

[@aozoraito2135]

fantastic. thanks :)

[@azizahaddou427]

Great job

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[@salenikola7881]

he is good !

[@jetn8654]

Aaaaaaay, its the Fonz!

[@Winnie_Ndimu]

Who else was waiting for him to say his email address for you to submit your assignment😁✋🏼✋🏼

[@chinonyenwobodo744]

Well educative

[@riavarnom8210]

Can I share your video with some heath managers I am working with please? If so, how do you want me to reference/cite you? Many thanks, Ria

[@mitcheladler]

Ria Varnom please do! My hope is that this gets shared with anyone who might benefit from it. You can cite it any way you’d like. It’s open to the public. My website is www.mitcheladler.com if folks want to know more about me. You can also add the link to UC Davis Extension as well if you’d like. Be well!

[@nelsonballecer4858]

now I know...high impact.

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[@franckolivekanga2070]

somebody can tells me how to get access to this kind of seminar in USA. I'll appreciate and be glad to attend.

[@rhonday.williams3960]

I have been doing these types of EI awareness workshops and we are rolling out a new EI Leadership program. Stay tuned and feel free to follow me on LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/dlla

[@franckolivekanga2070]

I’ll go to follow you

[@jameslewis5256]

When I get home from work. I go outside and just sit there for about 30 to 45 minutes, to detox from my job,so that I can be emotionally available for my family

[@kawola17]

This is a lecture for school people.

[@innergenica4910]

What people say about you says more about them emotional intelligence is a compete big words

[@lanyingliu4964]

Feeling good is the key. And a lot of ppl with high IQ just can't figure that out.