ENNEAGRAM Type 6 | Annoying Things Sixes Do in Romantic Relationships

[@AbbeyHowe]

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[@coconutcat1280]

“I want you to tell me your thoughts so I feel better about my thoughts” 😂 Yep, that’s me

[@amandamcwilliams8470]

Yep, so true haha!

[@kellyf2301]

Yes, she put it into words for me finally! Haha

[@nelsonmaam]

Did she read my personal journal or have a spy cam in my house??

[@juliesalcido4458]

Im a six and the one where we’re worried about the house burning down or something bad happened is sooo true even outside a relationship I used to sit in class and think about if a school shooter was to come in what would I do lol

[@AbbeyHowe]

It sucks we even have to worry about stuff like that...

[@juliesalcido4458]

@@AbbeyHowe yeah...

[@juliesalcido4458]

@@AbbeyHowe also love your vids 😍

[@coconutcat1280]

I’m a six, and sameeee lol

[@juliesalcido4458]

@@coconutcat1280 lol

[@LexaLite]

I'm 5 dating a 6 and I've just laughed through all of this especially the coffee bit. "I am never not thinking of you when you I run errands" my six has said stuff like this.

[@juls_krsslr7908]

This is very accurate. I'm glad you are able to see the humor in these things. As a 6 myself, it has really helped me to laugh at myself when I catch myself doing stereotypical 6 things. I've been in therapy for years and I've worked a lot on not projecting, not making negative interpretations, and believing that I can trust my gut and abilities on most things, but I still find myself doing these annoying things in new ways. If I can laugh at myself when I discover it, it's easier to stop and change my behavior.

[@sirbradfordofhousejones]

I’m married to a 6. And examples #6-#7 are VERY accurate. Like... very.

[@AbbeyHowe]

😂 amazing

[@JortsMcGee]

Yep. Newly realized 6 here. Spot on 😂 🤦🏻‍♂️

[@Mahogany_Wellness]

“You underestimate my love for thoughtfulness and caffeination” I feel seen 😂

[@raluca88798]

"tell me your thoughts so I feel better about my thoughts" 😂Wow, now I truly understand my boyfriend, thanks

[@danielleybelly411]

Your content is FANTASTIC, Abbey. I'm constantly looking for proof that I am not truly a 6 - but gosh some of this stuff, like it or not, is totally ME. Thank you for your humor - honestly laughter is the best, it's my favorite! and you are HILARIOUS 🤣

[@wiegraf9009]

To all the sixes out there, we appreciate your loyalty, even though we see it's motivated by fear. When you do find loving and secure environments you can live beyond the fear and become shining stars we all admire!

[@sirbradfordofhousejones]

I know this is obvious, but CLEARLY she should have gone with the basic cottage core dress.

[@AbbeyHowe]

CLEARLY 😂

[@digithuman]

"I just want you to tell me your thoughts so I feel better about my thoughts" accurate

[@ashleighprice3492]

Sooo me! Fearing fear itself is an everyday reality! I know I drive my husband crazy.

[@AbbeyHowe]

It's a hard fear to have, but something that can be worked through!!

[@MikeJ122o]

1:50 yes as an INTJ-A 6w7. Okay I agree with the whole video XD

[@MichelleMod1]

Omg when she brought out the journal… 😳 SO TRUE

[@emmalengel9146]

Subscribed within 50 sec. You have an amazing energy

[@hasamahikaru]

I FEEL SO CALLED OUT

[@the_real_littlepinkhousefly]

Dang, girl, you just totally nailed my life. Add in ADHD and OCD (actual, diagnosed OCD, not "oh, everybody's a little OCD" -- no, they are not), and you can imagine the fun times my husband has. (He won't even watch this, he says it sounds too depressing.) I wonder if more Sixes have OCD than other types ...?

[@AbbeyHowe]

I'm happy to hear you feel seen. I don't know about the OCD and Type 6s. There definitely isn't any data out there (that I've seen) about Enneagram Types and Mental Health. But regardless, I hope your husband does watch the video because I don't think it's depressing!!

[@the_real_littlepinkhousefly]

@@AbbeyHowe I'll try to get him to! I thought it was great!

[@auntbeast9640]

i'm a type 7 with a mom who's a type 6 and BOY is this accurate!

[@AbbeyHowe]

I'm glad it resonated!!

[@monabime]

I'm isfp 6w7 and i really do this OFTEN like being a nervous, awkward and easygoing storm it's painful cause I'm SO introverted and is a hard style to be

[@julieknight3534]

I love your humor in discussing the types!

[@lindawebster7877]

You are HILARIOUS!! I love this!!

[@DariusLong]

A cottage core basic moment, that made me laugh out loud

[@marishaten7399]

I was waiting for the type 6 wings video, but this gem came along first. Thank you so much, I understand my Type 6 sister so much better now! By the way, I switched from Type 5 to 8 to 9 and now have settled on 7. Is it possible to be an introverted 7? I read Riso, and found out that it doesn't specifically say 'extrovert' for 7. Will you consider making a video on introvert 7s?

[@AbbeyHowe]

It is absolutely possible to be an introverted 7! They often appear more extroverted in examples (like my videos!), but you will find introverts and extroverts in every single type!

[@AbbeyHowe]

Oh, and yes! I will put introversion and the enneagram in my Trello!

[@marishaten7399]

@@AbbeyHowe Aww thank you so much!!! ❤❤❤

[@denicabishop]

"Where's your wallet? I told the pastor I would buy $200 worth of donuts." And then "The pastor was caught stealing the tithes. I'm never going to another church ever again". I'm dying from laughter and freaking out at the accuracy!!! This is bananas how spot on this is for me. Like somebody had a freaking camera in my house! Wait... what if somebody had a camera in my house? Just kidding. Sort of😅

[@noopinionslikeswitzerland6966]

I’m a 9w1, but I sometimes have irrational 6 fears like “gee I hope that power line doesn’t fall on my car and fry me like deep fried chicken”

[@morxsine]

probably because 9s can disintegrate into 6 anxieties but idk lol

[@gerrygarcia6247]

Haha 😂 I feel deeply offended by underestimating my caffeination!! 😆 thank you! This video helps a lot to be aware when I’m an unhealthy 6. By the way, I saw your other video and I’m clear now that I’m a 6w7. Can you make a video about the enneagram tritype and how we move on it? 🙏🏼 thanks

[@lucaspit8]

I'm a 6... this video had me laughing at how accurate the reinactments were

[@meganbeach9932]

lmao. I have had that exact Starbucks arguement with my husband. Why would you only get one coffee when you know I'm at home, and I love coffee?!!

[@joshuaselesnick7614]

You NAILED my partner. Nailed her

[@heyitskatey]

The IRA thing had me laughing out loud for a good minute. So freakin funnyyyyyy.

[@elenaharris6021]

I know it's not great to assume someone's type... but every single one of these is TOTALLY my new boyfriend. Can't wait for him to take the test and get back to me (I want to be right... haha, I am such a type 1).

[@seven5900]

i love your channel ! i hope you continue to make content

[@AbbeyHowe]

Thank you! That's the plan!

[@Lia_Scott]

OMG #5 😂😂😂 💯💯💯💯💯💯 especially over following the rules thing. 😂 Oh man and #7 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@maunamars968]

I'm so like this sometimes except for the image part...but the last part is especially true.

[@luandthelion]

There are several people in my family this reminds me of!! So, can habits like that rub off on people regardless of type? And how do you know what’s “you” and what’s like a learned communication style from your family? Also, can being a counter subtype, like a sunny four, or shifting in levels of health change how you communicate?

[@grimkitten8254]

if ya dont laugh at yourself as a 6 your going to be one huge wreck with all that anxiety xD

[@BSingh-on4qr]

Perfect, 6 is the centre of my tritype

[@ambica.n3476]

U r soo much fun❤️..love ur vibe!haha

[@refuoecarolina7898]

#1 is sooo me. Now I understand why it's hard for me to forgive 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣my baby daddy hurt me countless times then he came back and wanted us to work things out and we couldn't because I have a long list of what he's done and nope I'm not experiencing it again in future, so I'm gonna run🤣👍🏿

[@kellyf2301]

Sending this to my husband... (I'm a 6)

[@sandyzuniga1]

Omg! I am a 6, and this was On Point!

[@KendrixTermina]

7:23 That is... my father, 1:1. Unfortunately for him & his holy ambitions, all the other family members were are night owls/late risers. There has got to be some church that is not at 6 in the morning... Now im not forgiving him if he was the last human on earth, but still, looking back he must've been pretty sad that no one was as enthusiastic about this as him.

[@Cuspofrevolution]

I always don't trust my own decisions lmao

[@ravindrabej2584]

No 6 is amazing

[@ravindrabej2584]

6 point

[@mya9042]

How accurate this is...lol

[@axielotl2645]

HI THIS VIDEO HURTS ❤️ I’m a 6 with BPD so like. All of this especially applies to me

[@lalathebarbieee]

I love your username btw!

[@joshuabaines6991]

There’s no video for 3, 7, or 8 of this series. Do they just not fall in love?

[@dkdndhjscdhsbdhsjjakqhw6244]

Noice, I'm a 6w7 inlove with a 6w5 😎

[@Vitaminb666]

Seems like I'm a very stable 6, because I do not relate to most of it but I see where such behavior can come from

[@morningglory.213]

as a 6w5 i feel like i also detach in an UNHEALTHY WAY if after constant need of validation, i dont get it

[@amritagitikam.7922]

I want to know abt ennegram 5 and 6 relationship. If you could make a video on this topic then it will be a grt help. ~ INTJ 5w6~4

[@julia.vasilkova]

I was typed as sx9w1 but this video is sooooo me! Oh my!!! 🙈🙉🙊

[@tellaphon6718]

People who forgive dont need to forget the lessons. People do change but not really quickly so i need to know whats coming lol.

[@medstudent1613]

8:08 Can

[@whenyousmileismiletoo5419]

what a hard person i am to love

[@jonathanskeens79]

you're exactly right! My wife is a saint!

[@honeymoney23]

Jesus!! You read me 🙈

[@pointerdogmarketing2197]

Would a 6w5 be a blend of the 6 video and 5 video?

[@tellaphon6718]

Except we who are good at mercy dont get the mercy inside of things.

[@medstudent1613]

9:19 Not have to

[@user-vj9qz3br6l]

It sounds like 6s are high maintenance and annoying 😢 - I am primarily a 6/2

[@wiegraf9009]

Very characteristic of a 6 to be disappointed about being a six.

[@Undisputedkingdom24]

Ellooooo👋🏻

[@AbbeyHowe]

Hi Jozabad!

[@Ana-h3w]

😂😂😂

[@sarahaharper]

I definitely came to have a good time but I’m feeling a little attacked right now

[@glendamcgee1779]

Whoever it is in skillshare who has green hair.....avoid.

[@danimationstudios9289]

….read to filth

[@AbbeyHowe]

😂

[@TheBoyOnTheBlueMoon]

This is all too real and I'm not sure how to take it