I’m an 8w9, and the bear description is 100% accurate. You do your thing, I’ll do mine. But you touch what’s “mine” or interfere with spaces that are “mine” or “home”, you see a very no bullshit, gtfo, snappy side of me. I’m also VERY different at work than at home. At work, you see the more outgoing, go getter, efficient side, but home is a place strictly for relaxing. Great video! Can’t wait to explore around you’re channel more!
@llawliet64843 жыл бұрын
Female INTP 8w9 here! I used to hate the facts that I am 'that person' but now I understand myself, I am trying to embrace the qualities that most people would shun.
@enneagramandcoaching3 жыл бұрын
Yes! Love this!!!
@evangelle824 жыл бұрын
Oh wow 8w9... when you described aggressive at work and peaceful at home. But in childhood I challenged everyone and fought with my family a lot (my dad is toxic). I always stood up to him and tried to defend myself and everyone else.
@littlezork4 жыл бұрын
ESTP-A and 8w7 here. (+ developed Ni ) If I feel it is a proper cause for it in defense of self or I am defending someone in my inner circle, I won't back down. Was considered "mouthy" as a child and often tested boundaries.
@jared60542 жыл бұрын
Same. ESTP 8w7 virtually no 9.
@satsuitez4 жыл бұрын
ENFP 8w7 here.. yeah
@brandimcwhorter90502 жыл бұрын
I'm an 8w9, INFJ-A female and really connected to how you described the 8w9 at work vs at home! Felt spot on.
@gingerballin2 жыл бұрын
if you took 16p test I suggest you retype. the -a and -t isn't real
@intuitiveeatingmama4 жыл бұрын
This was short and sweet, but also really informative!
@enneagramandcoaching4 жыл бұрын
Thanks!!! ❤️
@molliebella6182 жыл бұрын
i love a 8w7. we hd a lot of issues at first but now that i understand his thinking, i have learned so much patience and ive also learned some strength from him and hes learned how to be emotion and vulnerable and trusting with me and i love it and hes very protective
@robinstingley39534 жыл бұрын
I’m a 9w1 married to an 8w9. I love my “bear”; he really likes to take care of me. He can be a lot to deal with sometimes, but he puts up with me, too!
@enneagramandcoaching4 жыл бұрын
Awwww!!!!
@flookie62834 жыл бұрын
INFJ 8w7. This psychology stuff is pretty cool
@enneagramandcoaching4 жыл бұрын
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@MoonChild133 жыл бұрын
I'm a woman 8w9 and INFJ, my husband is 8w7 and ENTJ
@marykatherinerosson2133 жыл бұрын
8w9 here and this is accurate! Finding out that 8w9 especially for females is super rare!
@sherriinnis14624 жыл бұрын
Wow your eyes are SOOOO pretty!
@enneagramandcoaching4 жыл бұрын
Thank you! ❤️
@casey_amk4 жыл бұрын
Amazing! I am an ENFJ 8w7 but can show the 9 wing when healthy.
@enneagramandcoaching4 жыл бұрын
Sweet! Thanks for sharing!
@DaveSoltura3 жыл бұрын
Same here! ENFJ 8w7. Nice to e-meet you!
@Dreamlless4 жыл бұрын
I’m an ISTJ 8w9. Thanks for the information. 😊
@enneagramandcoaching4 жыл бұрын
You’re so welcome!
@vic76903 жыл бұрын
Me too :)
@thomaschainey32304 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the great video. I am a 8 wing 7 and also a INFP - A (assertive) male and I am not you usual 8 or INFP as I have heard that my combination is the rarest match up for a type 8. Being a introvert 8 wing 7 and a INFP-A I can surprise people as I am very laid back and easy going but when people mix up my kindness for weakness the challenger side of me will assert myself very unpredictably and seemingly out of no where and can be shockingly discombobulating to the person it is directed at. As I have gotten older I have understood better how humility is not weakness but strength and mercy is the better part of valor. Hope you and your viewers are being smart and safe during this unusual time of pandemic.
@enneagramandcoaching4 жыл бұрын
Wow, that is rare for an 8. You have great self awareness. Thanks for sharing!
@stopprocrastinating28244 жыл бұрын
Omg Sameeee Im INTP A, 8w7 but female
@thomaschainey32304 жыл бұрын
@@stopprocrastinating2824 that must also be very rare combo. My sister is intp and that is one of the rarest for female and then to be a 8 on top of that. Your combo is unique as a very smart and strong way to be. Thanks for sharing.
@thomaschainey32304 жыл бұрын
My sister is INTP.
@stopprocrastinating28244 жыл бұрын
@@thomaschainey3230 Thanks
@taylorfisher39444 жыл бұрын
I am a fairly odd bird I think. I am a 8w9 and INTP-A male It's funny because I was a fairly undeveloped when I was a child but in my late teens I really started to grow. I was fairly quite at school but had a temper and hated to listen to authority but the teachers usually liked me, probably because I was quite. But when I started working and college I always seemed to be put into leadership positions without seeking them out. I am a executive chef now and leading just seems natural but I am not a micromanager at all. I like to teach people to believe in themselves and to become strong and independent but I will always protect the people in my inner circle.
@enneagramandcoaching4 жыл бұрын
Love this. Thank you fro sharing. Sound like you have great self awareness!
@_egavas2 жыл бұрын
fellow type 8, INTP 🤝
@taiweannoona12042 жыл бұрын
I'm an 8w9 Female INTP. You're not alone😉💪🏼
@samuelanson4 жыл бұрын
Great video! I have 8w7 preference and have learnt how to use my 9 wing for patience. Also exploring growth in the Enneagram 2. MBTI ENTJ
@enneagramandcoaching4 жыл бұрын
Love this!
@corebelle2 жыл бұрын
Same! I’m 8w7 and ENTJ
@jeanninehale17963 жыл бұрын
I have really been wanting to make sense out of the wings and you explained it perfectly. Thank you. I am without a doubt an 8w7.
@enneagramandcoaching3 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome Jeannine!! Glad it helped you!!!
@ladyboss45912 жыл бұрын
I am an ESTJ-T enneagram 8W9 female. I took the MBTI and Enneagram test. thanks appreciate this. n
@raquelserrano24033 жыл бұрын
I am an ENFJ 8w9. I believe I have a lot of patience (9) but I am unmovable when I am in my Challenger mode, just without the emotional reaction. Since childhood when I was handling a lot of stress of injustice I would feel like my heart turns into a stone and there is no much emotion left, just tentative argumentation and willingness. I am a very emotional type as you know, but in crucial moments my head gets clear and this challenger nature comes out, decent but fearless. Is an unusual combination I have heard. People normally perceive me in two drastic ways: As a wholeheartedly giving clueless naive person Or as an intimidating righteous reckless individual. Some people are intimidating “just by my presence” they say, until they get to know me and see how I am not scared of being vulnerable Some people think I am too vulnerable to ever stand up and are completely shocked when they see me do so. I love harmony, I respect rules, I follow authority, I understand other’s perspective, to the point where it becomes my hobbies to get other’s universe. But when something is unfair, false, painful and illogical. You will see that “good obedient well behaved girl” stand up, and suddenly I don’t care about authority, I don’t care about rules, someone has to stand up for what’s right. it can look very rebellious. All my life has been: -You are too young to talk like that -You are a child, accept your position and act like a child -Do you think you are greater than us? -Who do you think you are? The struggle, my Fe wants everyone to understand that I am not purposely rebellious for the sake of contradiction. I want my parents to know that since childhood I question how they do things because I am not someone who just follows around, I need to make sure that what I believe is right. I knew I had to be obedient as a kid, and a was. But whenever I could spot something wrong in what I was asked to believe or do, I would completely hesitate and start questioning them and this would drive them crazy. It was so extremely hard when I deeply wished to give them the obedience that would make them happy, but also deeply wanted to fight for what is right regardless of who they were. This contradiction inside of me is often pretty strong. It started with my parents and then with teachers, systems, religious leaders. I was not afraid of confrontation when something was wrong. But I tell you, there is nothing sadder than being deeply sacrificed and giving, basically a perfectionist people pleaser (enfj) while having this challenger fire inside that makes people judge you completely wrong. I understand my nature can be drastic, normally people get only one part, leaving out the other which is also deeply felt by me. I respect authority, rules, and harmony when I CHOOSE to. Because I chose to. But I am definitely not scared of authority and conflict, if I have to face the storm to do the right thing, I’ll do it without hesitation.
@wrdprfct4 жыл бұрын
8w7 and ENFP :)
@8randi4 жыл бұрын
I'm an 8w7 with absolutely no 9 chill in me lol. ENTP.
@enneagramandcoaching4 жыл бұрын
😂
@mometizewithamber36914 жыл бұрын
Wow same and same!
@mystuff85794 жыл бұрын
Are you the triplet to my twin daughters??? They are also ENTP. Their 9 is so low! Zero chill. How are your parents? Did they make it?😂😂😂
@8randi4 жыл бұрын
@@mystuff8579 they both passed away by the time I was 26 🤷🏼♀️ if that tells ya anything. Sorry about your kiddos! Lol I'm sure you have your hands FULL
@jam-hy5qm4 жыл бұрын
SAMEEE but like sometimes idc enough to explode so ig that can be considered as chill
@mrbullmrbull2 жыл бұрын
8w9 is the best leader you can have
@philosopherlogic4 жыл бұрын
5w4 INTJ, my girlfriend is a 8w7 ENTP. INTJ-ENTPs are ideal matches so I'm lucky haha. Congrats to all the ENTJ-INTP comments below, also ideal match. It's hard to be in a gold pair relationship but totally worth it.
@elvillivle3 жыл бұрын
Wow, congratulations.
@molliebella6182 жыл бұрын
im also a 4w5 and my boyfriend is 8w7! super similar. im an esfp and he is an intj
@nothisispatrick57663 жыл бұрын
ENTJ 8w7 and I see a little bit of 9 but I lean more towards 7
@enneagramandcoaching3 жыл бұрын
Makes sense :)
@inkerikavantera3 жыл бұрын
I am 8w7 but 3 has also started to appear in my recent results. I have started my career so it totally makes sense!
@lulo20494 жыл бұрын
ENTJ 8w7 you describe precisely
@NewlyAwakened4 жыл бұрын
Female 8w9 ENTJ. Married to a 7. I actually am fairly balanced with my wings as I can have times where I just become so spontaneous, enthusiastic, etc and that works well with my 7 husband but deep down I know I lean to more of a 9 wing because I'm EXACTLY like you said about work life vs home life. Especially when I'm feeling down I just want to be quiet and veg out. I'm very laissez faire for the most part and just want to do my own thing.
@tidypeaches2 жыл бұрын
Love it. You are great. :)
@enneagramandcoaching2 жыл бұрын
Thanks! 😃❤️
@TreasureSeasons3 жыл бұрын
I'm 8W9, yes all that resonates. I'm in a relationship with 8W7. All resonates.
@enneagramandcoaching3 жыл бұрын
Wow! An 8 with an 8! Love that!
@amymcgrann29683 жыл бұрын
I've been enjoying your videos so much. I'm also a 9w8 married to an 8w9. It's funny because we are so much alike and also sooo different, too. Thanks for sharing!
@enneagramandcoaching3 жыл бұрын
That is awesome!
@shadow_reading_-3 жыл бұрын
I'm 8W9 ENTJ. Before i told my friends i am ENTJ, my online friends think i am Intj/Intp, my real world friend think i'm ENTP!
@aliceyue17544 жыл бұрын
Lol nice job keeping it short, im an ENTP and I get bored of those super long vids. Thx!
@enneagramandcoaching4 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed!
@margaretjudice89444 жыл бұрын
Great information!
@enneagramandcoaching4 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@sage3334 жыл бұрын
ISTP 8w9. I think I was more w7 when I was younger. I bet I was a 'lot of fun' to be around with back then :D
@aydenkelly_3 жыл бұрын
cool! we have the same mbti and enneagram. i bet we were quite fun to be around too, lol.
@inwaitfordeath41153 жыл бұрын
I am also an ISTP, but i am 8w7. I was looking for more ISTP'S, as i have seen that is not a common match with type 8
@smashley.plans14 жыл бұрын
I am a 4 wing 5, married to an 8...not really 100% sure which wing is more him, but definitely noticing our 4 year old daughter is an 8 wing 7! I'm definitely thinking our almost 6 year old son, is a 7 wing 6.
@ikaafiqah20004 жыл бұрын
My bf is a 4, its hard to understand them - an 8 ✌️
@zzzcocopepe2 жыл бұрын
im an INFP 8w7. but idk if I took the enneagram test properly. Im really bad at taking personality tests because.... I understand psychology and I never know how transparent the test is being. I always test as INFJ actually but when I look at behaviors of the types, I fit in much better as an INFP.
@cougarmoorhead-douglas19722 жыл бұрын
I am married to a 8. His wing is more a 9. He is more aggressive at work or working but passive at home, plus he hate conflicts in the home but is okay with them at work.
@enneagramandcoaching2 жыл бұрын
Wow! We are married to similar people 😅
@nataliegrant54564 жыл бұрын
My husband is an 8 with a 7 wing, and I am a 6 with a 5 wing.
@AlanaL34 жыл бұрын
8w9 here...married to a 7w6 ❤️❤️❤️ 15 years next month!
@enneagramandcoaching4 жыл бұрын
That’s awesome!!!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼❤️
@EmyN3 жыл бұрын
8w7 ENFJ 🔥
@enneagramandcoaching3 жыл бұрын
🔥🔥🔥
@drpepperchicken5384 жыл бұрын
Thank you for making this! I’m shocked that this has 77 views! Great videos , keep it up. 👍🏻 I think I might be 8w7. But I might be a mixture of both
@enneagramandcoaching4 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!!
@elisapiva33094 жыл бұрын
gotta love being a 8w7 INFJ lmao
@bowtiesarecool10112 жыл бұрын
I'm in INFP 4w5 but am researching enneagram for my book characters. I think my antagonist is an 8 so I'm really trying to understand this foreign type lol. After this vid I think she has the 9 wing. Thanku!!
@shaymaeel-jaouahiry62783 жыл бұрын
i am an INTJ 8w9 i am very self composed and calm ig.
@enneagramandcoaching3 жыл бұрын
My husband is the same!
@lena-yk7hv4 жыл бұрын
I'm ENTJ 8w9 and my boyfriend is INTP 5w4
@enneagramandcoaching4 жыл бұрын
❤️
@philosopherlogic4 жыл бұрын
Congrats on the gold pair. ENTJ-INTP are ideal matches. So hard to get a gold pairing now a days.
@joemilan24854 жыл бұрын
Istp 8w7🔥
@kellyanderson57212 жыл бұрын
im a 8 w 7 but when I am not undergoing an intense amount of stress im a 8 w 9 (which is basically never... well actually it is just very rare) . but I really do relate to maverick.. I have been told by so many people im so insensitive and have 0 regard for others feelings. I am often called selfish because of it. My aloofness to emotion as well as dislike of emotion due to my fear of it clouding much needed decisions that need to be made cognitively. I definitely have the tendency to be very extroverted. My mother always said I have the capability to convince rock that it is a turtle... then 5 min later we would look over and see that rock suddenly turned to a turtle crawling the eff away. I know I definitely have a tendency to overindulge... I am not a recovering drug addict for no reason and I read somewhere 8w7 are most likely of all types to commit crimes of passion. I definitely understand why... because I have developed lots of patience over time. but the second I lose it, it is game over to whomever I lost it toward. I have no qualms going full on black out rage if I deem it necessary. which brings me to my final point, I read 8 w 7 and 8s in general have a tendency to sometimes come up with unorthodox ways to solving problems that may or may not be frowned upon by society norms. however, if 8s deem it the best solution, we will often push the unorthodox solution to happen/go in effect. and I relate to this because on job applications on the personality tests you sometimes have to take, it will sometimes ask "its ok to sometimes break the law if it gets the job done more effectively." I always answer unsure even those I want to put strongly agree because more than likely I won't be opposed if it is in fact the most effective solution... it honestly really depends on the law being broken. obviously I am not going to condone murder....
@michalthebarbiedoll3 жыл бұрын
Entj and 8w7
@enneagramandcoaching3 жыл бұрын
Woot! Woot!
@tan_ishka4 жыл бұрын
I took mbti personality test before enneagram test and my mbti is ENFJ but when I took enneagram test I came out to be an 8! I mean, I could relate to ENTJ but I never thought I'd be an 8 but I found 8w9, I'm more social and calmer and all, basically an ENFJ but i still feel a little confused.
@autumnjacord3 жыл бұрын
ESTJ and 8w7
@enneagramandcoaching3 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏
@Banana_nana84 жыл бұрын
I am ESTP-A 8W9.
@rachelrose85153 ай бұрын
God help us all
@melanieorr50834 жыл бұрын
I’ve been getting 8w7 and my boyfriend got 3w2 but I’ve also gotten 3w2 ahhhh it’s confusing because I thought he was more chill of a personality... hmmm
@袖時雨桜花-h5y3 жыл бұрын
I'm getting confused recently because I thought I was either an 4w5/5w4 but now I'm wondering if I'm actually an unhealthy sp/sx 8w9... I'm been thinking all of the aspects that may be my Enneagram 8 part too much and for days and hours that now I'm feeling a bit sick. **help**
@drewh5094 жыл бұрын
Good info, but the frequency of that "popping" sound when graphics appear drove me nuts!
@enneagramandcoaching4 жыл бұрын
Sorry about that! It was a mouse click sound I think. Clearly I was trying to be too fancy LOL
@GY99444 жыл бұрын
ENTP 8w7 here...
@marcellacassab43313 жыл бұрын
I'm fairly certain one of my characters is an 8, however I'm wavering on which wing she leans on. She's not one to fly off the handle, but she's a very stern, firm stiff upper-lip type mom with a quiet dignity to her, which makes me think she a wing 9. However she's not patient or accommodating overall. Though she has her redeeming moments. She has high standards her kids must live up to. She fears if she doesn't mold her kids into societies ideal for success they'll fail in life and she will have failed as their mother. Which type does that sound like to you?
@cath0ou3 жыл бұрын
i'm a 9w1 and my boyfriend a 8 :)
@jessicaparker66083 жыл бұрын
Hi, I would like to make a suggestion please. While I enjoy your videos so much, there are many times it’s hard to clearly hear what you’re saying because there is a lot of echoing going on. Maybe you could look into getting soundproof acoustic foam or something. Thanks for the videos and all the hard work that you put into them.
@enneagramandcoaching3 жыл бұрын
Hi Jessica! Thanks for the advice. I have totally struggled with the audio for sure. I’ll look into the acoustic foam and see if it would work for me. Thanks!
@kevinfukthezetamale42983 жыл бұрын
My Draconic Taurus Moon + Scorpio Mars=ISTJ 8w9
@delisaseals97073 жыл бұрын
Hello, I am an 8! I am married to a 3! So we are reaching a as class about Enneagram! Any advice?
@enneagramandcoaching3 жыл бұрын
That's awesome! Just keep learning about each other and celebrate what makes you both different. Dive into Instinctual Variants (Subtypes) knowing that you both might have different first instincts can help a marriage out so much!
@hydranonymmous4 жыл бұрын
I identify myself as an ENTP-T(with a high Fe, still trying to grip that Si). Maybe I'm an 8, but it's a little hard for me to know my enneagram wing. My friends view me more as an 8w9, but i think 8w7 fits well too. I could be a 7 too, who knows. I'm even start doubting if I'm an ENTP or not, ajdsndeijoifjd-
@dtcruz89533 жыл бұрын
Same here, I'm a intp 8 but i can't decide between 7 and 9, maybe cause we have Ne LOL
@hydranonymmous3 жыл бұрын
@@dtcruz8953 Relateable
@JasonChanoutsos3 жыл бұрын
Just realised I may be the only enfp 8w7 ever
@TTS20174 жыл бұрын
I am an 8w7 married to a 9
@MiraculusOnly4 жыл бұрын
I think this is the best match for us lol
@ChimmyQ4 жыл бұрын
I’m confused as to what type I am. Everyone is telling me I am an 8 wing 7 which I partially see, but I don’t see myself as aggressive or anal on things. What would this change me to? 😭
@enneagramandcoaching4 жыл бұрын
It’s ok that you don’t resonate with those parts of an 8. It only matters that your core desires, fears and weaknesses align. It also might have to do with what subtype you are-social, self preservation, sexual...those play a big part. I’ll be doing a video on these things soon! Hope this helps.
@ChimmyQ4 жыл бұрын
Hillary McCaskey thank you! Looking forward to seeing it
@WickedSapphira3 жыл бұрын
I'm a 9w1 and my husband is a 8w7, so I guess that we fit the stereotype. Lol Also, I'm an INFP and he is an ISTJ.
@enneagramandcoaching3 жыл бұрын
Oh wow! That’s awesome!
@WickedSapphira3 жыл бұрын
@@enneagramandcoaching Thank you! Awesome series on the enneagram, by the way! I just discovered your channel today.
@enneagramandcoaching3 жыл бұрын
@@WickedSapphira welcome!!!! ❤️ I always love hearing about your journey!
@vynvine32762 жыл бұрын
entp 8w7 here :3
@warrioribnwail4 жыл бұрын
8w7 & ENFJ
@biancaklinger4 жыл бұрын
Same here :D
@warrioribnwail4 жыл бұрын
@@biancaklinger Yes! Thought i was only one.
@biancaklinger4 жыл бұрын
@@warrioribnwail now we are at least two 😉
@casey_amk4 жыл бұрын
Make that three! I thought I was mistyped.
@capital809611 ай бұрын
I think your description of a 8w9 is colored given your husband is a w9, painting them to be supportive. The control aspect you attributed to 8w7 has nothing to do with the 7 wing and everything to do with the core of an 8. Recall, a type 7 is going to be flighty, avoidant of negativity and positive seeking. So an 8w7 will have those same influences, being more upbeat, seeking positivety, etc. But you applied the control nature of the 8 to the 7 wing. Something to think about....
@MadisonBuratt3 жыл бұрын
Enfp 8w7!
@enneagramandcoaching3 жыл бұрын
Awesome! 🎉
@mikesandgren30044 жыл бұрын
We’re going over let’s wait (pause) Type 8. Is she aware that’s in her title of the video?
@enneagramandcoaching4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 Your not wrong!
@guezwhu8724 жыл бұрын
I took the enneagram test 3 times and everytime, I'd get an 8. But my wing (7) is only an 81%. Here's what I got: One: 77% Two: 87% Three: 94% Four: 93% Five: 72% Six: 71% Seven: 81% Eight: 98% Nine: 44% Why is three, four and two a greater match over either of my wings huhu D;
@enneagramandcoaching4 жыл бұрын
Depending on which test you took I think usually these test only help you find your dominant type. From there you look at the wings of that type. Plus we do have a little of all the types in us.
@ruggedlifejewelry4 жыл бұрын
why did i get 8 with very close 5 , is that my wing? Closely after the 5 i got a 4 and 7. I'm so confused.
@ryanjames80004 жыл бұрын
Estp 8w7. This is accurate asf
@enneagramandcoaching4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@danaschau4 жыл бұрын
I'm an 8 and my husband is a 9.
@sztrife14 жыл бұрын
isn't that too young to be married?
@nostalgic_thunder3 жыл бұрын
8w7 ENTJ
@enneagramandcoaching3 жыл бұрын
Love this combo!
@hannahrachel65393 жыл бұрын
I’m an 8w7 but an ENFJ Is that odd ??
@ABHISHEKSHARMA-zo3wl4 жыл бұрын
8w7 INTJ here.
@MayaFreedom252 жыл бұрын
8w7. I really wanted to be a type 7 when I was a teenager but my friends quickly told me... Nope you're an 8 😂 ENT/FJ
@MayaFreedom252 жыл бұрын
Also married to a 9w1. I think we are both SP variants
@lusy8333 жыл бұрын
8w7 ENTP
@bbjudyfit4 жыл бұрын
🙌🏾👏🏾
@enneagramandcoaching4 жыл бұрын
Guess what I’m currently editing??? The Enneagram type 8 married to a type 9 video! 🙌🏼
@thallysrc37663 жыл бұрын
im ENTJ 8w7, so i'll be a good dictator
@light1484 жыл бұрын
I really don’t know if I’m 8w9 or 9w8
@enneagramandcoaching4 жыл бұрын
I think the best place to start would to be to look at the stances...the 8 would be in the the aggressive stance and they are known for going after what they want. Instead of withdrawing or complying with the people around them, they move against others in order to achieve their needs and wants. The 9 is in the Withdrawn stance and they retreat into themselves or move away from people to achieve what they want or need. I have a stance video kzbin.info/www/bejne/hanFi2akqMehsLc that explains this even better. Once you know your main type 8 or 9 then look at the wings of your type. Hope this helps!
@light1484 жыл бұрын
Hillary McCaskey Thanks to the help of my friend who knows about enneagram, I realized i am 8w9 with a direction of integration towards 2w3 (he said it’s a healthy and positive direction) and after watching the characteristics of the 8w9 in your video and seeing the positive flowing chart I could relate to what he said, and thanks a lot for your help too! 🌞🙏🏽
@enneagramandcoaching4 жыл бұрын
光Light awesome! Makes total sense!
@light1484 жыл бұрын
Hillary McCaskey yes i am that type who doesn’t like obeying rules, i do it my own way, i find it more fulfilling to do so, i like originality!
@enneagramandcoaching4 жыл бұрын
光Light yep sounds like an 8w9! So great!
@Befrankwithme4 жыл бұрын
Ok I have both wings
@raulsanz71204 жыл бұрын
8w7... why? I think it is more fun; 8w9 is too quiet. ;-)
@enneagramandcoaching4 жыл бұрын
😂
@raihankameel3204 жыл бұрын
I'm 8w9 and I cannot shut up unless in formal settings or being around strangers & boring people.
@raulsanz71204 жыл бұрын
@@raihankameel320 I think 8w7 don't shut up even with strangers & boring people... Some times I think "I'm talking to myself". ;-)
@fayssal76553 жыл бұрын
another INTJ e8 (8,1,5) married to INFP e9
@madisonrudd65384 жыл бұрын
I'm an 8w9 married to a 6w7.
@enneagramandcoaching4 жыл бұрын
Awesome!
@Charlotteapaige4 жыл бұрын
I’ve always had a really hard time figuring out my type. A pattern has emerged though. I always get 3w4, 4w3, 7w8, 8w7. With 4w3 and 8w7 most common.. Are there an similarities between these?
@enneagramandcoaching4 жыл бұрын
I noticed 3, 7 & 8 showed up a lot...they are all in the assertive stance- I have a stances video that might help you. kzbin.info/www/bejne/hanFi2akqMehsLc Also, look at the fears of both. The 8w7 they fear being controlled by others and they dislike authority and prefer to work alone. The 4w3 deepest fear is that they have no significance in the world and they express this by frequently distinguishing themselves from the rest of the world. Hope this helps!
@Zhanbu5472 жыл бұрын
I'm 8w7
@giselarivera43802 жыл бұрын
I think Im an 8 with both wings
@nurtureulifecoaching322610 ай бұрын
8 w 7
@robferguson98013 жыл бұрын
I don't think differentiating between work and home behaviors is helpful. I can be a bear at home and passive at work. It depends on the person and on the job.
@ayevuh41113 жыл бұрын
ENTP WITH 8w7
@enneagramandcoaching3 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏
@nataliak.6594 жыл бұрын
Here to find some ENFJ with 8w9 😂
@ilcapitanoalexandr86984 жыл бұрын
_ESTP, 8w7._
@blablablaj4 жыл бұрын
i ve found this info to be very superficial and basically not telling at all. this video didnt help me whatsoever ~