Finally realised why very few people thought of me as an 8(unless they know me intimately, then they chuckle)! I'm an 8w9 and love observing the room before I expose myself and my strengths/weaknesses. Being female and raised in the East has definitely dampened the harshness and abrasiveness, but I have still been called stubborn or intense :) I have actually learnt how to be vulnerable and seen its usefulness in creating a safe space for others to figure out what they want. I am fiercely protective of this therapeutic space while the person I'm helping finds their own strength. However, iv realised there's a pool of anger that I havent allowed to surface until I'm totally overwhelmed and tired and then I can go on the attack very quickly. Currently learning how to nurture the child inside and to rely on the Ultimate Protector to be my strength rather than act like an orphan. Thank you so much for your insight and for you hard work. Saying a little prayer of gratitude for you tonight. God bless!
@YouveGotaType Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for the kind words and for sharing your personal experience! I'm sure others will resonate with what you shared. So glad the video helped pinpoint your wing.
@potchakz3 ай бұрын
"Even if they are full of shit" 🤣🤣🤣 I never felt so loved and called out at the same time.
@YouveGotaType3 ай бұрын
haha that's the ole enneagram feelin'
@YoungstersHustle10 ай бұрын
My experience was quite different. I was very lucky to have good parents that met my basic needs and some of my wants. However, as I got older the choices I made caused me to grow up quickly. I’ve always been focused on my individuality and self-sufficiency, providing for myself as soon as I could to not have to depend on the external world for my wants and needs.
@T-Math98Ай бұрын
Yep.- INTJ-RT ENNEAGRAM 8W7 SX/SO
@KobiRexPathway3 ай бұрын
Very inspiring even if they’re full of shit 😂😂 facts
@YouveGotaType3 ай бұрын
Lol
@lovegansaw9 ай бұрын
8 wings 5 INTJ here.
@VipulSingh-00033Ай бұрын
You don't like us for sure (8w7) .,. most of the impact full political leaders even Martin Luther King Jr were 8w7 ...
@RaffertyMBTI Жыл бұрын
I wonder if you're ENTJ...
@YouveGotaType Жыл бұрын
Nope :)
@RaffertyMBTI Жыл бұрын
THEN WHAT@@YouveGotaType
@YouveGotaType Жыл бұрын
WHY SO INTENSE@@RaffertyMBTI
@carpenter52kg5 ай бұрын
Nah ENTJs are too self involved. We only learn about other people if it suits our purpose, like if it's a partner, family member or a boss. This guy seems like an INFJ to me. Analytical, theoretical, detailed, natural teacher and he gets people.