Envious of Your Contentment

[@joannemcevoy4232]

Since no more narc as of March I can enjoy anything and everything I want. Do you hear that noise? Silence. There is no sound. Peace and quiet finally.

[@MsEm-xr8ns]

Oh The beautiful silence. Congratulations on your freedom x

[@LaPinturaBella]

Congratulations! Enjoy every sweet second, you deserve it.

[@micheleshively8557]

Since March of this year (22) total peace and quiet here. Mine of 20 years passed away. The cat, the dog and me. I'm looking for healing

[@berryh5299]

The happier I got, the nastier he became. He thrived on creating pain, destruction and chaos. The only time he was happy for any happiness I was feeling, was if HE thought he was the one who created it. Sick, sick, sick.

[@hgtudor-theultra]

Accurate description.

[@sparkelsdiamond2699]

Yes sic i hd massive happy was i blind no no Jst my time to be happy in life & wow this video explains a lot

[@sparkelsdiamond2699]

Even tho it was because of him I was happy

[@hazeleyes2381]

My narc husband to a tee! It was just so exhausting.

[@f.m.8742]

They’re emotional sadists on top of being narcissists. They love watching people struggle…I think HG said in a different video something about it’s like them holding your head under water and then they let you come back up for a second and then immediately push you back down. 😒 My nex better NEVER hope I see his ass in a pool. 😏 lol

[@narcfree1106]

Being narc free keeps us in our happy place morning, noon and night. 😘 Thanks HG!

[@jadeheart911]

This explains a whole lot !!!!!! The feeling of living in a state of fight or flight .......constant.

[@clauaome25]

I had so many unexplained headaches and that brain fog... Never again!!

[@entertainmenttv1657]

@@clauaome25 me too dear, I also had anxiety & high levels of low self esteem..I am so grateful I am extremely free.. Ahh breathe of fresh air

[@celestetheariesdorsey952]

@@dormanmom01 I understand so well that feeling

[@micheleshively8557]

So exhausting! It's not a wonder we aren't all in the Looney ward

[@Hawelufamily]

Oh I felt this from my ex. I would be so happy and content with my hobbies and the grandchildren, and reading my books. I could almost count on him starting a fight with me just to steal that happiness and contentment from me, always. It was hell. So glad I’m free of this.

[@clauaome25]

It feels so good!!

[@heathermixson1265]

Can relate here!! My n of 27 years actually thought I would enjoy a program on ancient aliens, as a "buddy at work" told him about it....."you're not going to be reading, are you? There's a program I want you to check out with me...." Really now? Let me guess, same buddy who told you to drink more water, gift bags for Christmas gifts, wanted to buy our daughter's focus for his son, blah blah...btw, what's your buddy's name again? Why haven't I met him? LAWDAMERCY

[@micheleshively8557]

Amen 💓 me too

[@rhondawatts2578]

He hated that I can completely tune out and go in my own little world, contented. He could snap me out for a bit but never stop it. I Know it burns his ass till this day, a lot about me does. I disengaged from him over four years ago.

[@boymom9238]

Wow this explains why on the rare occasion that my ex boyfriend and I had a “good” day, without fail he would call me after i left his place and start a fight over nothing. He hated to see me at peace

[@sunnyshonte5367]

I really needed this ..im so tired of the perpetual cycle of all of this

[@AlyxCoe]

So you need us more than we need you. I'll take that deal. Thanks again.

[@margaretsgirl]

It all clicked together for me today … a mystery that has bothered me for 10 years. I could not figure out why my ex-husband immediately lashed out when he saw a new apartment I had just moved into with our son. It was fresh and clean and safe and had beautiful views. He called it a “hovel.” The words punched me in the gut. I felt immediately diminished and small. This video now explains why he did that. I never saw it until now. Thank you, Mr. T.

[@kellyannthomas5727]

I understood that he envied my ease and contentment in the world, but I didn't know why. It's interesting to find your channel years after I made peace with the past.

[@allaroundme5429]

Maybe only self aware empaths can achieve this. H G Tudor so helpful for me working through this. I'm forever grateful. I'm tempted to sign up and pay for a chat with him just to say thanks! It all makes sense now

[@Jessicaunarex]

Today is the Middle Mid Ranger's 40th b-day. His city is on lockdown and gyms are closed for a month+. I hope he grows fatter each day.

[@30lacieful]

Wow mines was last week. He don’t care about gym. Lol

[@nikiabutler1791]

😆😂

[@chrysalis72]

Lol

[@lamar3448]

🤣🤣🤣

[@user-or1ye3iz6d]

🤣🤣🤣🙌

[@CorporateQueen]

So the weight loss, the change in fashion, the confidence, the new man's Ferrari.. it's all going to hurt? 😂

[@divinedachosenone348]

The start of my weight loss journey infuriated my narc to hate me more. Hated I was doing something good for myself.

[@marciamellow1211]

Yeah, I did all the above except I bought a MERCEDES... he is soooo envious SORRY!

[@91GT347]

What if you do this(make them envious).Then walk over smiling and sit close. Then when they ask what your doing. You say “I figured I would come give you some of that “love” fuel you apparently need to survive.” Then bust out laughing. Stand up and say “love you” sarcastically. Then walk away laughing ? Crushes a lesser midrange. What about an ultra ? In any case, if your mentally strong enough, and not many are. It only takes a few times before they say to themselves “Contact with this person hurts every time. Its an instant tank shot to my ego.” Then they will leave you alone. Just curious of a ultra immediate reaction. lol

[@falsehoodbasher7240]

@@91GT347 🤣😂

[@JLee-mr4wu]

Survivor singing if you’re happy and you know it flash a gleam with a smile

[@terriannblackwell6616]

Love, love, loove your comment!!! Builds up those with a heart & kills those who DON'T! 😂😁😊

[@Tomara632]

They hate to see others happy or at peace. That's why they want your home, partner, money and what ever else you may have.

[@XxSHADOWxXWARRIORxX]

These videos make everything you've been through very clear..

[@Sarahsemails09]

No contact for 6 weeks now…oh my goodness, the silence, peace and calm is deafening…I love it! He had to have the tv on, music on…or whatever…silence was never an option…he would often say to me…”you are an empty person”….but I would be smiling and happy…

The clarity this video gave me is transformative.💪🏾 Thank you so much H.G.🙏🏾💋

[@JJ-iq8mi]

This is probably why my narc-ex regularly accused me of being unsympathetic. Mind you, I did get bored of him playing victim all the time.

[@prunelle9051]

Exactly 🤣 no time for that. Come on. When your own child is more mature... What are you doing here Dude !

[@redsquirrel1086]

During what I now know was the devaluation phase my ex narc asked me several times about my academic and professional qualifications. I thought she admired me for them but it now seems that she resented me for them because she didn't have any herself. So all that time I thought she respected me she was actually seething with anger toward me. I find that sad and deeply disturbing.

[@stillhealing8811]

Ikr. Once you see it for what it really was it hurts because you once thought this person loved and cared about you and wanted the best for you only to discover that they were jealous of you and wished all things negative for you. 😥

[@rampitup12]

@@stillhealing8811 why sad though?

[@williamgeman8777]

@@rampitup12 Take a chill pill dude... there's no need for your question....seems like sadness is all you can grasp from his comment. Nothing personal though. It concerns me not but your immaturities too obvious. I'm not sorry.

[@williamgeman8777]

I feel you bro... Like I found out she's been in secret competition with me for 7years and just I decide not to supply her few months ago, she exibited her true nacism...she never about the issue at hand,always about the personality (me)... Explaining to her how our daughter should be treated,her response would be about me being dead man walking or if I can ever be more succesful than she is...things like that I was only trying to help test our daughter right... she's already depending on our 3years old girl for sympathy, blame taking or indirect attacks towards me, Knowing how much I hated it whenever she involves my daughter on her childish games.

[@izzy9132]

HG you just solved a tremendous mystery for me which I couldn't get to the core of for my entire life 69 years. I am suddenly ecstatic, joyful, comforted and relieved knowing this heavy burden is suddenly dissipating now that you put all the pieces of my life puzzle together with this single video. My NPD mother possibly unaware quickly destroyed any form of contentment I ever felt as I can recall as early as age 2.5. But more than that she went to great lengths to insure I would not have any opportunity to feel any contentment.Thank God I am crying a rarity for me because she beat that emotional need and ability out of me to shed a tear by age 8. She went to great lengths to insure I would be deprived of any contentment by keeping me imprisoned within the home following school and never allowing me to get tutoring for my inability to read no matter how much the schools insisted I needed it. That woman which I prefer to call her even made me take a different route to and from school to be assure I had no other girls or boys to talk with on my way. I had to come home with my high quality clothing looking perfect and not smelling of any body odor as she insisted I me stop playing with the kids during reccess. I never got anything I asked for at Christmas and birthdays. I now understand with this video because she had to deprive me of that contentment too. All I wanted were self soothing Items (contentment) quite inexpensive artistic or building toys as I could play with and be comforted by in my solitude for hours with them. No even crayon and paper. Rather I'd get much more expensive things that rarely appealed to me insuring no contentnent but also taking away the few things she gave me that I did enjoy like my one stuffed animal and later my Barbie doll never to be seen by me again. Day after day I was expected to sit on a particular motif on her antique Persian rug with nothing to play with but watch TV while she monitored my movement from one of two different rooms but never interacting with me unless she caught me laying down and falling asleep which she immediately corrected. I learned to remain expressionless too as I'd quickly be admonished just for giggling during a TV program. Everything she did everywhere where that included me was to deprivate nme of contentment not even allowing me to play at a birthday party and remain by her side. The rest of adult family members simply placated her. Even in adulthood she kept me enmeshed with her illnesses real, concocted or imagined. Still Eureka! I believe my greatest healing phase has just begun all thanks to you HG Tudor.

[@iaindcosta]

..my children's mother took away their lego and left the toys they didn't play with

[@iaindcosta]

my son's mother was infuriated by him talking to other children and laughing, I couldn't understand it then

[@30lacieful]

He used to get mad when I’m working out or losing weight. Or he’ll say wow you’re getting strong and brave. Unbelievable. I’m still in denial that he’s a narc

[@BlessYourHeart254]

Living well is indeed the best revenge.

[@annamariehewitt3173]

Envy implies conscious inferiority to the person you are envious of...This is very interesting...Thankyou

[@Jezebel066]

How many times he’s said to me that I just walk around like nothing is wrong Umm.. nothing IS wrong! I learned no matter what I do, it’s gonna be wrong. He will always end up angry. So.. I’m not gonna be miserable anymore. Then come the divorce papers!

[@LaPinturaBella]

Good job! Learned a looooong time ago the ONLY person I can control is myself. Narcs seem to have been absent the day that was taught.

[@forensicfaithinprofiling]

Omg he used to condemn me when I'd be happy after my prayer circles w friends. He even try yo talk me out of Jesus being good for me or even shame me for saying amen after I was done praying. If I have an achievement it was not a big deal. How on earth I allowed this for so long is mind boggling even to this day. But yout work helps me to understand why so many things didn't make sense. To have someone be upset bc ur happy never made sense to me until now. I should have known when I met him he seemed to pray w me before eating our food. I believe you call it that facade thing too. Thank you HG.

[@jane3681]

Yes sir! He picked up my purring cat and threw her across the room. I was shocked. “What are you doing? I shout?” “She has no right to be that content, he said.” Red flag? Should have been!

[@LaPinturaBella]

That is horrifying. I truly like animals more than I like 90% of the humans on this planet. If I ever saw anyone do that to any animal, narc or not, they are excommunicated from my life that instant. No ifs, ands or buts. No explanations will change my mind. Gone. Finito. Take your scummy arse somewhere else. This story infuriates me. Glad that disgusting waste of space is out of your life.

[@shredhed572]

I always heard they are jealous people

[@thisthathighlife]

they are !

[@shirleydaniels9310]

I exsposed my ex narc on all his platforms had him crying in a corner

[@terriannblackwell6616]

Good for you. And so happy for you also. Tear his butt UP! But Then, let go & move on. ANY attention, good or bad, is FUEL.. gives him energy. Poor fool! 😭😭😭😭😭

[@deanbaldwin4781]

Good on you Shirley , i outed mine after collecting evidence on her and all the other people she was involved with for 20 months, i blew her cover on Christmas day 2020 , made all her sources aware and sent her husband a 40 page evidence letter with photos , she absolutely lost her mind , it was epic :)

[@tireachan6178]

You created a situation of Narcissistic Mortification.

[@xSnowyOwlx]

Never look to too happy in front of a narc unless they are at distance. they will plot if they can to destroy your confidence. Lol they hate others happiness its truly sick and twisted 🙃 their damaged mindset x

[@iaindcosta]

..when you realise they are triggered by your contentment that gets you checking yourself instinctively to not express positive emotions- so unhealthy- GOSO is good advice- once you know you've gotta go

[@caroliner2029]

This is profoundly insightful, and full of ancient wisdom, HG. It's one of my favourites of yours. This is a running theme through the Bible, especially in the Psalms, and I think of your words here everytime I come across this subject as I'm reading and meditating. Keeping your cool is something that Jesus regularly encouraged people to do. Being self-controlled is being in a position of strength. The Narcissist's perspective is often described in the Bible, but I didn't fully grasp it until I read this article of yours on the subject.

[@vester7457]

Narcissism is the world's term for what the Bible calls insolent pride

[@iaindcosta]

this passage: As a mad man who casteth firebrands, arrows, and death, So is the man that deceiveth his neighbour, and saith, Am not I in sport? Where no wood is, there the fire goeth out: so where there is no talebearer, the strife ceaseth. As coals are to burning coals, and wood to fire; so is a contentious man to kindle strife. The words of a talebearer are as wounds, and they go down into the innermost parts of the belly. Burning lips and a wicked heart are like a potsherd covered with silver dross. He that hateth dissembleth with his lips, and layeth up deceit within him; When he speaketh fair, believe him not: for there are seven abominations in his heart. Whose hatred is covered by deceit, his wickedness shall be shewed before the whole congregation. Whoso diggeth a pit shall fall therein: and he that rolleth a stone, it will return upon him. A lying tongue hateth those that are afflicted by it; and a flattering mouth worketh ruin. Proverbs 26:18‭-‬28

[@ajeff6480]

@UCF4463TwYyyAaDKuh7rlETthank you for the scripture verses!

[@ceebee1704]

Yes, the narc tells you that you are "rubbing it in" if you dare mention any happy thing that has happened to you. They believe others are envious of them as well. The narc I knew had colleagues who did not approve of them, and the narc thinks it's because they are envious of their ability to attract the opposite sex.

[@artmeacademywiththesaltyse9537]

Love this one HG. I did 30 years with a flat-emotionally dark, middle level narc. She made everything a weapon and I went goso except for children. Love the green eye in this video. Looks like the eye of my new love, everything the narc could never be. Thank you.

[@pj9547]

Once again Hg brilliance in explaining you never ceases to amaze me, Every time my husband would see Me contented and at peace he would always make me pay for it ! He was only at peace until you see me walking on egg shells again

[@aleayh]

And as the narc continues with their discontentment, I continue with my contentment and happiness… never to engage the narc on any level of attempt. ✌🏽

[@savvydavvy3463]

Pure insanity. I choose peace & progress.

[@terriannblackwell6616]

Good for you. AGREE...100!

[@His.Heart.]

Yes, please

[@mysticme777]

I can still wound him by my content after i discarded him... But he tried to hoover me in unknown number despite me going on with my life with happiness & contentment... I'm so glad to achieve that ☺️

[@jamiestumps6146]

Very informative Video, it’s necessary, but sad to understand the insecurities of others! Thank you.

[@Peace-e8j]

So basically "misery loves company"

[@FayAlexGG]

Yes

[@nazasha5584]

Am so content with my self being...I came of that if I send photos one of coz is supposed to get a reply.He doesn't he thinks that I will question him and get mad.Pole sana East Africa in the house.Am divinely guided I can see THROUGH HIM .may God guide his thoughts,I dont expect any approvals from.anyone ,EXCEPT GOD HIMSELF HG. thanks your awesome

[@TheCm1546]

The narc would call me a drunk so I got sober got so happy and the abuse ramped up. The look on their face when they said “you’ve changed” was terror. I stopped arguing and would say “what’s the solution?” I forced the narc to leave and bc I was so together they told people they were “scared” of me. 😂

[@Angelm0m]

I hear “observing contentment” of desired fuel source is causing pain?! 💝 Seen that, felt that, caused that… Noticed that healthy people aren’t agitated by contentment or others

[@Paula-oo1ko]

Just when you think you've heard the BEST Content, HG come in like a BANG!! BRILLIANT!!

[@jeanetteterry9386]

So sad! For the resilient type of people who find joy, peace, and understanding in the most chaotic situations the narcissists will definitely flee. I am happy and joyful every day! I couldn't be controlled and manipulated by those games. I had to wear a smile and think positive thoughts inspite of the devaluation. I thought to my self is this reallly happening. Is he really upset over a donut! I eventually caught on to the game! I stopped seeking an explanation about his behavior. I realized this person had pure hatred towards me. As a result I learned to distance myself. It has been three years of no contact. When illogical thinking tries to make me think of him I remember all of the not so pleasant times it helps remind me of why I remain GOSO!

[@user-or1ye3iz6d]

What is GOSO?

[@f.m.8742]

GOSO is “Get out, stay out”

[@bluedogfish2]

I was sitting at my brother-in-laws pool in California. I had contentment flowing up and down my body and looked at her and I said you can’t feel what I’m feeling . When you know you know throw it in their face paybacks are a bit-h

[@ohue]

Be content if you want to breakdown a narcissist hence causing them to misbehave and you get leverage over them. Being able to file stuff(documenting) in court. Ps only do this when a court case has started. If not don't waste your time just run away. This is EXTREMELY precise. Thank you.

[@no.9961]

This certainly became apparent and very clear. Hated my headphones, books, gaming time etc ...

[@tamaradelaney2182]

Historic vulnerability.... Love it. That's the best thing I've heard in bit. Thanks HG. Xx

[@ophilliaophillia5918]

When ever there was peace in the house- some smiles- one of them would shatter the peace until everyone was afraid and miserable- ....... Over and over and over again.......

[@panfried7566]

having peace at home was something she loathed. peace=death. she cannot have it. she had to create chaos to feel "alive".

[@Plethorality]

If anyone else meets with success, i am so happy for them. Why not? Its hard, being human. Good on them!

[@vittoriacolona]

Thanks for the video. Explains my mothers and a slew of former bosses.

[@edgreen8140]

I have heard of envy by many midrangers. They also believe we envy them. If we have a beautiful house or nice car. They deserve it.

[@MissFunnyBunnyKC]

The last thing a narc wants to see is anyone around them moving along through life without throwing a monkey wrench into the whole thing, by abusing their power and close proximity to their victims. Narcs are happy when people around them are miserable, and vice versa.

[@allaroundme5429]

Thank you for your content, H G ❤️

[@flower_goddess1279]

Time to hit the gym and the salon people!

[@clairespace3371]

Wow. psychopath or narcissist looking back at past relationship. . This one did happen. Very confusing. Didn't know where to put this very strange behaviour.... 'what did I do?' I was just sitting with them watching television. Etc. Thanks for this!

[@marymcdermott9581]

Listening to you reminds me of unhappy times....of a disfunctional personality so unlike anything I had encountered in my life.....the hours spent wondering why he got such satisfaction out of hurting me so much ....I closed the book some time ago...I now observe his actions I expect them but I am removed from control......if he upsets the children they are adults and can look after themselves now.....he only damages himself in their eyes they are free to leave at any time......knowing myself developing my spiritual strengths he has lost any capacity to hurt me I am blessed with good health and the gift of loving my own company

[@erpthompsonqueen9130]

Thank you. Listening from Alaska.

[@fin1shingtouch1212]

I was always just happy my family was healthy and happy I was healthy and happy and the more I just enjoyed this contentment the more short or silent he would become! I’m free at last to just live and love the life I have been gifted.🙏♥️👩

[@surfshack2]

I definitly experienced this. I tried to soothe over the ensuing chaos but nothing i did was good enough. So i just said f*ck it, I gotta get the hell outta here.

[@sidneyssempala982]

Thank you HG once again. Now I understand why she looked so furious during our teacher parent conference when I was feeling so good and smiling even the teacher was smiling at me and turned my panflet pages for me in front of my ex. I felt her boiling even more.

[@iaindcosta]

"Look at you- so happy with that kitten- it's disgusting!" My ex to me, I thought it was just emotional abuse for the sake of it, now I know she really was disgusted.. Thanks HG

[@Luziemagick]

Loosing wait, being toned..oohh my “mother+sister“ told everybody i have an eating dissorder..in truth my thyrod gave me a hard time. And i don't ever drink calory- fulled alcohol or over eat..well..

[@moneypennyjane9]

Wow, that’s f**ked up.

[@mz.shinelite7779]

I always expose the Narc..AP reader/Psychology major ...tfs🤗

[@freespirit5234]

That explains why he used to get frustrated and angry at me. He would always try to put me down, why haven't you done this or that. I would reply, don't feel like it, but you can if you want. He would say that I never cared about his feelings lol 🤣🤣 It obviously pissed him off because I used to say it calmly and carry on with what I was doing lol. My attitude was, if your angry and moody, fix your situation, don't try to force me to make you happy lol.

[@micheleshively8557]

If someone twas talking to me about anything, and he wasn't the life of the conversation, he'd tell me to shut the fu-- up. So embarrassing. I would and just walk off with my head held as high as I could carry it. So glad it's all over

[@lulubell5291]

Always expected to read their minds.

[@666happygirl2]

HELLO HG, YOU ARE AWESOME I JUST ENJOY LISTENING TO YOU. NO MORE NARCISSIST IN MY LIFE, THAT LIFE IS NO MORE I MUST SAY I ENJOY MESSING WITH HIS HEAD BEFORE I LEFT HIM. HE LIVED IN A DIFFERENT STATE THEREFORE IT WASN'T DIFFICULT ONCE I LEARNED OF WHAT I WAS DEALING WITH. THANK YOU HG.

[@teen9789]

Thank HG you answered my question that I posted on your previous video I was content with whatever and nothing he did fazed me.

[@strrangerthings7049]

Yes content is the key, no contact means nothing, Once content cannot be shattered again so easily my friend, that's the cold dish that narcs will always have to swallow. No contact should only work in the case of violence, other than that content is the only viable solution available, The more content you practice the more viable you will be against all narcs.

[@PromehteuSlobodan]

The most time I was happy and with high positive energy she has tried to put me down. Sometimes wondering and asking how come that I'm so happy without any obvious reason and sometimes by ordering me to lower my energy. How can I be so happy when she is so whatever. I learned that it's more useful to hide than to share success with narcissist. I'm always happy when my intimate partner is happy or successful. But not the narcissist. Success of others is their failure. G.O.S.O Rulls! Thanks HG

[@seahorse251]

It's just insane!

[@rubytroy7756]

My contentment……..was violently hated by my Narc ……😢

[@allaroundme5429]

I never realised that even _contentment_ was being controlled. It's everything.

[@emmajones5034]

At around 3:30 you mention the mid-range narc realising that as we're happier and a hoover will therefore be unsuccessful, them slinking away to get fuel elsewhere. This is dead right. I am moving on and am a lot happier. I've booked 2 trips away next year. The N-ex knows this (online stalking on his part) and has gone to hoover elsewhere and rely upon his other sources. Good. I also have a greater N-ex. Now HE almost destroyed my life and I got away, thank God. I still get malign, anonymous messages sent to me but I just laugh. Sometimes I respond telling him how well my life is going and how grateful I am that he's not in my life and that there's nothing he can do to bring me down; other times I just ignore him - it depends on whether I feel like infuriating him more. It's a game. Going forward, I think I'll just ignore all of the malign messages and just keep on with my better life, knowing that this is killing him. Thanks, HG :)

[@linleycooper470]

The narc is never ever content, explains the barbs and put downs when I have shunned narc from my time and energy and showed contentment. Then my wanting my own place and to split property baby-ing and treading carefully that there was still a friendship even though felt I just got to back away and untangle myself from narcs webs to contain and control me at worst. I never knew how extreme the legal enforcement to untangle would get. Clueless to the utter dangers and lengths narc would go too and put me in. I call it the demolish stage, bury alive stage even.

[@edgreen8140]

DAmn you put out a lot of content in a short period of time. I enjoy your division of classes of narcissism.

[@Zarasha1]

This sounds so disgusting but this is how narcissist actually feel.

[@ladyala7597]

I respect you HG as a Narc as I’m benefiting from you n I’m not one of your supplies (well that’s a lie as the mere fact that I’m acknowledging you gives you an ounce of fuel), however listening to this truth video makes me want to puke on the Narc in my life. He messed with the wrong empath.

[@Smith-Machiner]

I fell for that illusion. Parasites

[@prosuper5090]

Insightful , thx.

[@ScorpioSting1111]

green eyed monster 👹

[@terriannblackwell6616]

Yes, Indeed!!! And, I smiled when I saw your comment. A compliment to Narcissists.

[@claudiaAnsu]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 I thought about it too... Green eye monster

[@falsehoodbasher7240]

*You don’t matter* ☺️😊 And *that* brings contentment

[@roslyncerro1263]

Mine was mad because I love Jesus more than him. He always picked a fight before he left for a "work"? trip, and again one when he returned. He hated it when he witnessed me engrossed in a book. He was very envious of my character, likeability, and class. Freedom rocks, and better late than never.😘

[@iaindcosta]

Loving God more than her kept me sane! Therefore she hated God.. saying things like "how can I follow a God that tells me to love/respect you?"

[@terrinbakker7901]

I feel like he's looking afterhis brother and me at the office... but I also know how cold and calculated he is .. very confusing

[@nikodimser8225]

Sometime we are all selfish pigs. I learned it from my own pain, sorry for past....

[@terrinbakker7901]

So, HG,,my boss said derogatively ' Te, you are still my family ' and instead of getting annoyed... I hugged him, he hates affection... he hugged me so nicely back and walked away

[@April_Patrice]

Green with envy!

[@claudiaAnsu]

Girl, you are on point. 🤣🤣🤣

[@frahn1702]

I moved house about a year after splitting from my exNarc. My daughter and I moved almost everything in carloads, and I paid a guy $400 to move the big stuff. Easy! My ex had told people “she won’t be able to do it without me!” Haha!

[@jeanpast7508]

HG, let's see if I understand what you are saying. If I am dealing with a Narcissist of Mid-Ranger or lower. If I continue to implement the no contact regime and keep denying the Narcissist hoovering then he will leave me along for good.

[@user-or1ye3iz6d]

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[@LaPinturaBella]

Eventually. They will at some point give up because they aren't getting any supply (positive or negative) from you. Stay strong, live your life for yourself, just ignore them, block their phone number, email and other social media access, and their flying monkeys. Become totally indifferent and they will eventually move onto "greener pastures." You've got this!

[@No-Name-f8p]

Don’t forget; they tried to steal your joy!

[@alannaconnolly7224]

She realized who she/he is, and the gamer changed.

[@hgtudor-theultra]

Indeed.

[@localtrottingfrance8260]

Hi HG Tudor, I just watched the video and have been a follower of your channel for a while. (likes included). What I did not understand: If you narcissists don't have some feelings that we empaths have, such as: joy, happiness/sadness, contentment etc., how is it possible to react enviously to this contentment? How is it then possible that you narcissists react enviously to this contentment or feel envious of this inner contentment...? I always thought that you can't miss what you don't have or never had.... Thank you for your explanation. Greetings from France

[@inhiscarealways8748]

This is funny! 🙂🙃🤣

[@loveinthrair1058]

I always have the feeling he tells me when he is happy with some intention to make me feel jealous ? I do not feel jealous but I feel very strange because I know he does feel jealous when I am happy or achieve something, am I the narcissist ?

[@allaroundme5429]

Tudor seems to know the difference between right amd wrong. Do other narcissists know the difference between right and wrong? Or is it because he is a narcissistic psychopath? Are those on the extreme end of narcissistic psychopathy (such as H G) the same as empaths, but without the feeling? Would this mean an extreme empath could act really narcissistic if pushed far enough? Would they them feel guilty?

[@His.Heart.]

Misery loves company

[@nickyxXxXxXx]

Can a narcissist ever feel content, I mean when not threw another person?

[@terriannblackwell6616]

NO! 3:30...Contentment is denied to them... at any time. Of course, you should listen to H.G. Tudor's statements again to fully understand. Be blessed. 🌻

[@terriannblackwell6616]

@Mary Carroll True. With that void, that emptiness, they can never truly feel content..no matter what & no matter how well they pretend to. And, after all they do to others...TEE HEE! 😊

[@aquastone5870]

I don't understand. If narcissist can't love or feel empathy why do they care if others do love and are content and happy with their lives? Besides, everyone knows that true happiness and contentment are a direct result of knowing and encountering and serving God Almighty.

[@jklxn]

on point.