ESFP, let's DO this! 👊

[@talkshh]

i’m an esfp and this was perfect 🥰🥰🥰 you get it

[@AudenimLock]

This is a great breakdown. I recently got typed by 5 typists as ESFP, from getting INFJ on tests for years and I knew nothing about this type so this is very helpful ty. I love being active and eating nutritious foods that fuel me to continue to be active 😅 didn’t realise how much I prioritise efficiency for being able to bounce around throughout my day. Something you said that I really don’t relate to is the “shallow leadership” thing 🤔 I don’t like leading, I’d prefer for everyone to just pull their weight without needing to be micro managed. That being said, I always end up in the leadership roles and I won’t waffle on about something I know nothing about. Being authentic is a huge thing for me. Another thing I didn’t relate to, name brands. I couldn’t care less about brand names. I LOVE tennis and yes, I always have snacks haha 😆. Yep, it’s been the “spending time with myself” phase of my life recently. 😊👌

[@trevorfrayne6418]

Awesome video. As an INTJ, I think my inner ESFP comes out on the weekends. Lol I believe my best friend is a ESFP so he helps.

[@chastitymcconnell3079]

Thank you so much! I'm so glad you lent your INTJ brain to understanding ESFPs! The ESFP contribution to the world part was especially perceptive and I'm so thankful you could see that in us!

[@Daviddaze]

Esfp loves to have fun @ work . Its like their motto in life. The personality book 'type talk' showed 4 quick questions to ask to find out type. When u understand ur traits(giftings), ur able to have less stress, less struggle in life.

[@yerintaem]

I'm an INTJ and I connect with your energy SO much! I hate how we are always stereotyped as very uptight and not fun-loving but people forget we really have an ESFP within us as our subconscious. People who meet me are always a little surprised when I say I'm an INTJ but I think and function just like one. I love ESFPs so much, I feel like they are who I feel inside and I see myself a lot in them too. Polar opposites but super similar!

[@messily1456]

This series is *fantastic,* Alexis! I'm an ENFP mom of 3. You have absolutely nailed my son here, even down to the saturated-colored name brand clothes. 🤩 He is indeed captivating. He tested (his idea, not mine) as an ENFJ, and I just knew it wasn't right. I'll be keeping it in mind for when/if he decides to bounce back to this. As for me and my Ne, I'm diving in. 🙃 I appreciate your words and thorough understanding here!

[@Researcher9868]

I really enjoyed this video. I'm an ESFP. I've seen in other videos from other KZbinrs I noticed that they always tell us to develop our Te and Ni more. So this was a different insight for sure since you are going more into the development of Fi.

[@firdowsify]

I’m an esfp and I always say I regularly require isolation otherwise I’ll get watered down and I won’t know what thoughts are my own and what thoughts are being influenced by external factors!

[@scarlettstoever8093]

My 4 year old is an ESFP and I’m an INFP. It’s a pretty hilarious dynamic out in public 😅 she will drag me into all kinds of social interactions I otherwise would not have

[@raisaislam3637]

I love this. This is the most I have ever related to a video that discusses personality types & attributes. Also, I love your perceptions - it didn't feel broadly generalized but rather weirdly accurate!

[@solo0link]

as an ESFP I am more in the modest look instead of a standout. Main focus is comfort and flexibility.

[@karinabrandenburg8425]

Thank you Alexis for your kindness to the ESFP type. I’ve longed to hear the things you are saying in a positive way. It’s been a long journey for me as I was stuck in a career that I got tired of - mainly because it wasn’t authentic to me. Fast forward and I can appreciate that ESFP’s need to spend time alone. We really are so unaware of that part of our personality that when it happens, wow! I’m grateful for you and everything you offer. The journey continues and with someone like you, you make it sweeter and less of a struggle! ❤

[@shawncaruthers4144]

Much respect! You nailed it! - ESFP

[@samhou92]

This video is helping me a lot! First time I took this quiz (over a decade ago at university), landed at ISFJ, but J and P were evenly split. A few months ago, learned J had absolutely shifted to P, and finally, after a strange spiritual journey, I’ve also shifted from I to E. So now I’m an ESFP for the first time, and it fits shockingly well (fortunately I’m one who loves working out and physical activity). Also I happen to like tennis and volleyball but no other sports haha. That said, I’ve been thinking more about my long-term goals lately (family!) and, for the first time, as ready to take steps toward that goal. Cheers 🙏

[@abdulrazaqrahmat777]

Happy to see your growth

[@stefaniegodfrey6155]

Well done friend!! Impressive description. You are an amazing communicator. I'm loving you 💕 dear God you are spot on with everything you're saying I'm halfway through the video and sitting here at my mouth wide open. Absolutely cannot lie around us. Body language to me is like my first language. You are so detailed and I feel so understood has so much respect for you or paying attention to me it feels like. Feeling seen and heard and noticed really are is very rare so to be validated makes me want to just snuggle and hug and kiss you and take you home and making my new best friend. I will settle with binge watching your channel how's that. Keep on being you you are such an asset to the world and we all appreciate you 💕

[@sirbradfordofhousejones]

Really nice video about us- I particularly agree with what happens when we let ourselves water down with overvaluing our Te. And the bright colors! So accurate. Edit: funny that I’m wearing a black shirt in my profile pic… but you should see my bright shoes! 😝

[@AlexisKingsley]

lol!

[@andressalaices5146]

This video is incredibly full of information and easy to understand. The best video about this type that I have found on the internet and it has clarified all my doubts. Thank you for your work and your time!!! Thanks you for the video as ESFP 😊

[@kennethcoffin9318]

Thank you very much for this video. You were spot on with everything. You helped me with a couple issues.

[@keng6262]

Question -- I'm ESFP & I'm a Christian. I wasn't raised in Church. I became a Christian at 21, in my 30's now. Here's the Question -- Are most Christians Intuitive & Introverted? Because... I feel like such an oddball at Church (Of every Church I've been to). It seems like 95% Intuitive to me. (At least the guys do). We're soooo different. Thanks!

[@briansmith4531]

I go to the world mission society Church of God I’m an esfp🤪😇

[@rishon1273]

I heard CS Joseph say that American churches are dominated by ISFJs(my type), but I think that he's referring to Baptist-type churches...Maybe you could try a different denomination? edit: I like Coastal Christian from New Jersey...He's on youtube, worth checking out.

[@jcivilis533]

I have the same problem but I was raised Christian. A lot of the northern european/american churches and protestant churches tend to be dominated by more "modest" ISFJ and ISTJ "culture" IMO. Maybe look at a more spiritually focused church like the eastern orthodox one or the catholic church. African churches also appeal to me a lot.

[@kareyonnadavidson6661]

@@rishon1273 every Christian is different we have more personalities

[@sweetbeep]

Huh? I don't think God would do that.

[@jennifermeier1631]

You nailed esfp! Thank you for all the insights.

[@maryravetta6622]

I like your work because it's detailed.

[@realitymuzic357]

This was an awesome video thanks so much for sharing. So much of it resonated. I feel i'll have to watch it again to absorb more of the information haha. Also just wanted to say I really appreciate your energy and the manner in which you deliver information. Cheers Alexis!

[@jessej4306]

thanks a lot for the detailed explanation!

[@grover721]

Great video Alexis. I really got a lot out of it. The part about the Se-Te loop was very convicting. Would love to talk to you more about this.

[@michellepackman1484]

One thing I’ve noticed about people with se and fi up top they get the ick about people really easily, so it seems like they pass opinions a lot without doing enough deep reflection.

[@tidypeaches]

Oh my god your assessments are so accurate!!

[@Mikmai93]

What would a chronically ill esfp who CANT use their body look like, though? Like since they were a child? Asking for a friend. (The friend is me) 👀

[@patriciapendlbury2603]

Very informative but it was too much information coming too fast. So I will read through the transcript and take notes! I'm an ESFP.

[@kennethcoffin9318]

You have gorgeous eyes as well!

[@sweetbeep]

13:45 The loop: excessive Se and Te.

[@michellepackman1484]

Ahhhh this makes so much sense.

[@VV-ik7sy]

Can an ESFP that’s gone through a lot of trauma possibly be very shy?

[@sweetbeep]

I can see how they can but extraverted by shy because I am ESTJ and I used to be shy because shy is different than introvert

[@sweetbeep]

8:45 how to make yourself more balanced and successful (increase better Fi..introverted feeling)

[@DW-gf7nd]

I am an ISTJ. My sister is an ESFP. We clash all the time. I hoped watching this video would help with improving our relationship. I don't see it happening. I think we are both 'stuck' in our 'loops' Any advice?

[@sweetbeep]

..i have a Similar situation. I am ESTJ and my sis is ESFP. Are there any helpful things you know with our situation lol?

[@elypelowski5670]

Also you can take the Socionics test and further determine your type.

[@evelyn1558]

Pleaseeeee do an INTJ one in this format :'(

[@AlexisKingsley]

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[@stefaniegodfrey6155]

Jordan Peterson has a personality test that is awesome

[@sweetbeep]

You mean for MB?

[@linelightdesigns]

Very good

[@KhanzVlogz007]

I am ESFP

[@caramelunicorn8023]

I think I'm ESFP but I don't really relate to Te that much. I wouldn't say I'm shallow, definitely don't boss people around. While I do sometimes ask people what they think about my appearance, I tend to do something I want to do instead. So maybe its just the approval seeking I relate to. But the rest I don't relate to at all.

[@shananwyll267]

As an ISFJ, give me my ESFP boyfriend PLEEAAASSSEEEEEEEEEE....

[@Oilofmercy]

If you marry an esfp grow with them and be prepared for diversity in life the status quo will make them bored. White picket fence four kids and a Labrador may not work.

[@getreadywithmemamma]

Hehe I’m an ESFP but I jump my demons and I’m only hitting my Se with one charge so functions SeFiFiNiNiTeTeSe and I’m double masculine so I’m totally weird. I’m like an INFP and an upside down INTJ haha. This was great good explanation from an INTJ, I’d expect nothing less.

[@Enigma96969]

👊🏻

[@وردةوردة-ص2ز]

🦋🌹🦋

[@jordanbatka033]

Type me dog

[@crimsonxxspawn8613]

🥸you have revealed waaaay too much of our kind. you should be stopped at all costs!! 😂 jk this is accurate af 👍