Great topic Mark. Not only do you not have anything in common with her family or friends, those same people have no interest in having anything in common with us. As long as the wife is providing for them, they will not extend themselves at all to try and converse. I stopped trying to, im tired of others coming into my house and not having the decency to at least give me a greeting. It happens every time. Where ever I out, i always acknowledge the people around me. I guess this issue is cultural I’m told? I hate it
@ma3stro681Ай бұрын
Bachelor life is be$t, especially 50+. You’ve created your own suffering, as every fool who gets married does …
@albathoughtsofficialАй бұрын
The issue might be that either you met the wrong woman/family, or you didn't spend enough time with them. I have found that Filipinos are not only friendly and warm, but also shy. You need to spend time with them and then slowly both sides get to know each other and feel more comfortable.
@philipcooper3330Ай бұрын
@@ma3stro681 the bachelors life maybe great for some, but wait until you get older and your health declines. Your in a foreign country, who’s going to take care of you or care for you when you need it? You like being alone, good for you. This is not the place to be alone.
@squidandchipsАй бұрын
@@philipcooper3330 alternatively your home-grown wife might bugger off with most of your resources and leave you alone anyway. Always a gamble.
@philipcooper3330Ай бұрын
@@squidandchips sure, anything is possible I guess
@knowone11111Ай бұрын
A wise man learns from his own mistakes but a wiser man learns from the mistakes of others.
@MichaelBrown-zp1sfАй бұрын
I always heard a smart man learns from his mistakes, but a wise man learns from the mistakes of others.
@OceanFrontVilla3Ай бұрын
A wise woman looks after herself and avoids men and especially will never become a single (aka poor) mother.
@luiscarloslАй бұрын
You have skills bro. 🧐
@DHcyclingАй бұрын
@@MichaelBrown-zp1sf Yup. Seen too many good guys get ruined by women via divorce. I decided to learn from them and stay away from marriage. I Have had many beautiful girlfriends throughout my life and only good memories with them. No need to buy when you can lease and release when the headache starts
@ironwillie7666Ай бұрын
@@OceanFrontVilla3 I too wish more women would leave men alone and stay out of men's spaces.
@tomfilippone6303Ай бұрын
58, was married 15 years to a woman who never worked, and I made her dream of becoming an RN come true by putting her through nursing school. She met a doctor… left me three days after she got her RN degree, and took me to the cleaners in divorce courts. that was 14 years ago. I am now financially comfortable after a lot of hard work and I will never never never never never get married again. I date, but I am honest that marriage is off the table …as well as cohabitation. Life is good.
@michaelsix9684Ай бұрын
omg, heard this story many times
@rangerwhite5165Ай бұрын
Yep, been there and it took years to financially recover. The stress was like nothing I've ever experienced. The weight literally fell off me.
@RoyGJones-bd7jwАй бұрын
Sounds like my story....never again will I fall for a lie called LOVE
@robertbush8327Ай бұрын
@tomfilippone6303 sounds almost carbon copy of what happened to me last year, 50k in debt for her RN degree and took off
@garyfrancis6193Ай бұрын
Education is expensive.
@Riror9845Ай бұрын
Dogs, really and truly, are a man's best friend.
@vicgallimore6756Ай бұрын
AND BETTER LOOKING.!!!
@stevedmytrusz8347Ай бұрын
Women can have the diamonds! 😂
@csherman4728 күн бұрын
And a woman’s best friend.
@MM-mc5wq28 күн бұрын
Yeah, some men also have sex with them 🤷
@davidroberts16825 күн бұрын
@@csherman47 god I feel sorry for that dog
@Quakeboy02Ай бұрын
From personal experience: If your wife starts hanging around with her single friends, your marriage is already over.
@wisemanwalkingdowntheroad4275Ай бұрын
Yeah huge red flag there!
@melkernerАй бұрын
Or her fat sexless friends. Same thing
@JacksonDiddlesАй бұрын
Or if they start volunteering around the church, like head Sunday School teacher, and have an affair with the married head pastor. It doesn't matter who they "hang around with", they will cheat with whoever they want and still expect to be "good" because it was with a married pastor. All of them cannot be trusted.
@lowellmiller6663Ай бұрын
Wow that's a story dude I'm sorry.
@Jeff-n3v3lАй бұрын
they don't even need to be single. they all judge other girl's men, and there it goes.
@michaelbfree2run883Ай бұрын
HATE TATTOOS ON WOMEN
@nickvincent3029Ай бұрын
I think a lot have them knowing that and do it for devilment. Jezebels.
@oldschoolliferhereАй бұрын
So do I!!!!! They're such a TURN OFF!! they only don't because she has them and well I need to have to also. All woman are just CTAZY!!!! Ohh and don't you live rhe new tread with the nose hook earing thigs that looks like what they would put in a cow??
@jeffreyisenberg830Ай бұрын
Ditto, tattoos and smoking. Would never date or hopefully come close to a woman who smokes. What a turnoff. Like kissing an ashtray.
@jimhanty8149Ай бұрын
The more Tattoos on a chick , represent the extent she hates herself… which she will bring to your relationship to share and make you crazy… Look around now days and think about that…
@davidbooher5559Ай бұрын
I can’t stand liberal feminist types. Would never date one even if she was a 10 out of 10 physically.
@tonioyendis4464Ай бұрын
Married folks often ask me why i am not married. I say to them; you're married, right? Then you should understand why i am not.
@eileenwatt828318 күн бұрын
I tell them I don't want their life. In private they would not marry that spouse again they so glorify.
@michaelrobertssr812413 күн бұрын
AMEN @@eileenwatt8283
@tinaoffice927413 күн бұрын
The best reply to such a question. Lovely humor.
@radman604712 күн бұрын
Ha,ha,ha,ha!
@andrewheffel3565Ай бұрын
I’m 71 and I’ve been married 32 years to a good woman who loves me and treats me well. We have two adult sons we are close to and proud of. We have our problems but we work them out. Listening to this reminds me how lucky I am.
@linmal2242Ай бұрын
Ditto for my situation in AUS
@dalenjurgens6751Ай бұрын
You came from the only good era in the century.
@unacceptablesheepdog7678Ай бұрын
Nice to hear. Only been married 14 years 2 kids .My parents have both been married and divorced like 3 times. Seems everyone else too. They are so bitter and resentful. So depressing.
@LarryThomas-mi4jcАй бұрын
My wife died for no reason, just died. Probably all those stab wounds had something to do with it. If I ever get out of prison I’ll invest in a brush chipper.
@allenhammer7923Ай бұрын
@@unacceptablesheepdog7678 Just wait
@twofarg0ne763Ай бұрын
I'm 75. I've been divorced for 20 years. My ex walked out and left me to raise the kids. They're grown now and living their own lives. I sold my business and retired to France 7 years ago. I participate in many social activities here like hiking, wine tastings, food fairs, museum tours, expat dinner parties at different restaurants, and I meet friends for drinks at sports bars to watch soccer or rugby. I play golf, go sailing, and travel around Europe. I'm very content living alone; it's quiet, peaceful, and I can do whatever I want, when I want to do it. Life without a woman is heaven; no honey-do lists, no drama, no crazy mood swings, and no spending sprees on worthless crap like 200 pair of shoes.
@jjberg83Ай бұрын
41 here. I've thought about retiring in France someday. Did you emigrate from the US? Was it difficult?
@MGTOWTheRationalMensClubАй бұрын
💯
@jamesbarbour8400Ай бұрын
Indeed - they all seem to have that Imelda Marcos gene in them !
@twofarg0ne763Ай бұрын
@@jamesbarbour8400 😆
@miggy9260Ай бұрын
You’re my hero. Congratulations!
@donnafowler2241Ай бұрын
I am a 71 year old female. My husband past 7 years ago , I miss him terribly. Tried dating a few years ago ,but truthfully I think most seniors now days are just happy with being by their self’s. I know I am , I do feel sorry for some of the men I have met who worked their whole life’s and lost most everything from divorce‘s . Have see The same thing happen to some women too , But seems to be more men. The dating world today is just weird to me . I would rather stay home with my fur baby and watch a good movie
@MrSamadolfoАй бұрын
take care of urself 😊
@aggierowe957427 күн бұрын
Have a good social network, and routine, plus fur babies you’ll be fine
@Patrick-d6t17 күн бұрын
Sooooo true,I feel same way as you do😊
@carmenmccauley5856 күн бұрын
Ditto
@BoddavАй бұрын
A friend once told me “Why get married and ruin a good relationship?”
@keithlowe9037Ай бұрын
Love it Marriage is not a word , it’s a sentence
@GaryH-pw9cmАй бұрын
I told the guys at work in 1995 I was getting married. They thought I was crazy. My supervisor told me to forget it and buy a Corvette instead you will be glad you did. But I did not listen. Looking back, I should have bought a Corvette. 😊
@Jeff-n3v3lАй бұрын
@@GaryH-pw9cm same lol
@StuJones-gn7teАй бұрын
Tom Arnold said this about him and Roseanne. That they ruined a great friendship by getting married.
@bobjames6622Ай бұрын
@@GaryH-pw9cm I have to disagree with you, Gary. Personally I would have bought a Lamborghini! LOL! But otherwise, spot on.
@whiteysrides8204Ай бұрын
I’m 67 single and all my jokes are funny ,every thing I say and do is right ,how I dress is right ,everything I eat is right ,and I do things when I want .
@stevemorris3544Ай бұрын
😂
@chrisfernon689Ай бұрын
😂
@timothyhayes2935Ай бұрын
68 here and I can only tell you great minds think alike.Single,debt free and loaded.
@simon_illyanАй бұрын
F*** it. No one will wake me up when I’m snoring, no one will curse me down when I’m farting.
@apoloestrada2908Ай бұрын
You are happy being single right now but I'm sure you have alimony to your ex-partner, giving child support and debt payment. That's what all farangs do in going to Thailand.
@dayetonlarson8477Ай бұрын
Excellent and very well addressed and encouraging. My wife of 54 years died in my arms on mother's day and devastated me. I struggle through loneliness every evening and can't imagine having anyone else taking her place - even dating let alone cohabitating. I'm 73 with no debts in my own home. Life is very good but its that lonely winter evening I'm not looking forward to. However your comments encouraged me greatly ~ Thanks!
@tyronemarcucci8395Ай бұрын
I can relate. My wife died in January, after 42 years of a great marriage.. Loved her so very much and still cry at night, Being alone takes time to adjust to, but I'm there.
@lydiahildale6616Ай бұрын
You are lucky you had a good marriage. I lived in NYC all my life with 33% of gay men, beautiful modals and actress, large amount of immigrants looking for citizenship, addicts, abusers, and men that are lazy. I realized I was going to be alone for the rest of my life. I was born in the wrong place at the wrong time. Where all the normal good men????
@PCAGA2298Ай бұрын
@dayetonlarson8477 I am so sorry for your loss. Blessings to you especially through the winter ❤
@PCAGA2298Ай бұрын
@@tyronemarcucci8395I am so sorry for your loss ❤
@JillGalloway-lg7wh16 күн бұрын
Go ballroom dance 💃 lessons meet all kinds of nice people who love music and dance. Great fun and then say thank you and go home
@MargaretGSmith-c1qАй бұрын
My brother was married to his wife for 27 yrs. They were separated and were looking to divorce. My sis n law was going to get the house, some of his pension, the better car and other expenses. Long story short, she died suddenly from a heart attack. He moved back in the house and swears he’ll never marry again.
@UglyDougАй бұрын
How did he "organise" the heart attack??
@bibibachmd9995Ай бұрын
Karma.
@happycamper848Ай бұрын
www.youtube.com/@MargaretGSmith-c1q Excellent !
@jongundrum1076Ай бұрын
Funny name for a needleprick.
@petercrofton2717Ай бұрын
Was she vaxxed? Probably.
@PaulWegerichАй бұрын
I’ve been divorced and living by myself for 16 years. I love it. I’ll never live with another female. I value my freedom. I value my money.
@davidgayle3711Ай бұрын
Women are the most ones in the highest credit card debt. They cannot understand the consequences of their actions. Men. Never date any woman that has debt. It's a red flag that she is a train wreck.
@MegaDavykАй бұрын
Been divorced 20 years and quite happy.
@GaryH-pw9cmАй бұрын
Divorced 17 years and very happy. The peace and quiet is priceless.
@johncarlson6472Ай бұрын
Same here. Divorced 30 years. Made a pact with myself to date a woman for 2 to 3 years before considering marriage. Every woman I dated since divorce didn't make the cut. Single, retired and doing just fine. Bought a pair of Oculus VR Goggles and have had amazing, fun, immersive virtual encounters with a myriad of hot women (of my choice). Highly recommend if one still has strong sex drive.
@mnkwaziАй бұрын
@@johncarlson6472 How is that different from just watching pron?
@peterson88keyz26 күн бұрын
They say if you fall off the horse, the best thing to do is get back on. But sometimes you just don’t feel like riding anymore.
@AustinKloudАй бұрын
I’m now 53 years old- when I turned 50, I retired from my first career and my wife of 20 years, divorced me. Said she no longer wanted to be a wife or a mother. We split the home and our 2 sons came with me. Now my sons are 19 and 17, they have only seen their mother once over the past 2 years. I will never, ever marry again. I can’t imagine trying to bring some nut job into my life and my son’s life. It isn’t fair to any of us.
@Janneman8389Ай бұрын
There are lots of fish in the sea. Catch and release only to stay sane. It cost a hell of a lot less than keeping a wife.
@Itwasme007Ай бұрын
Exactly same story as yours but I have Daughters same age as your kids. My ex didn't want to be a mother or a wife anymore and just left to lived thousands of miles away... to make a long story short she did called back eventually to let her back in and thanks GOD I was in the position to say NO. I never been the same man again after my divorce, I no longer have any interest in dating at all and it's been like this for like a decade now. I just lost interest in women at least here in the USA. I just keep working on my retirement goals to eventually scape from USA for greener better pastures elsewhere.
@jjsmnowАй бұрын
@@Itwasme007 So what do you do for sex?
@stormchaser419Ай бұрын
As a lifelong bachelor, I dont know how married men deal with all the nagging, emasculation and emotion based thinking.
@donovannewman8462Ай бұрын
Drinking and cheating......
@mikenuyen4441Ай бұрын
The natural instinct to care for and reproduce is very strong. I now recommend shack up, never "sign ze paper!" a lifetime of women difficult, 3 yrs without Bliss.
@timothyhayes2935Ай бұрын
They convey that they are fulfilled with their soul mate and best friend.Most are in daily desperation mode.Walking on egg shells and trying to read her mind are debilitating.
@MikeS-7Ай бұрын
I'll explain it to you... You have no choice. You become subjugated. You become both a labor and wage slave. When you try to escape, there is the women's court system, just waiting to fleece you and turn you into her indentured servant. Sounds lovely.
@sevenstarsofthedipper1047Ай бұрын
@@stormchaser419 I dealt with it there was so much more to marriage than “nagging, emasculation and emotional based thinking.” My wife died after 33 years of marriage. I was privileged enough to serve as her home hospice caregiver. That experience was not emasculating. It made me a much better man.
@delphi-moochymaker62Ай бұрын
62 Years old and single. It removes a lot of drama, cost, stress and arguments. I also get to make my own decisions without asking for permission. I also date when I want company. My money is mine. Marriage is grand, divorce is several hundred grand.
@franzjosefmueller-alban509Ай бұрын
The irony.. after spending 27 years of my life wanting to be happy trying to make my wife happy, I found happiness alone . 10 years divorced , life is good 👍
@jeronlewis9368Ай бұрын
👍
@norm1815Ай бұрын
Ditto 10 years this month
@kellymichael9567Ай бұрын
Have not met her... I am nearly 57. I just don't have much time to look. They are out there. Don't need heavy baggage from a new partner. I need a good friend first.
@john-o1g9pАй бұрын
your comment hit home. never married, but we were together 29 years. she was manic depressive and i spent the time on the roller coaster and the egg shells. always working to making her happy, and ''not upset her''. died in her sleep 6 years ago. never been calmer, never been happier. can't imagine EVER living with someone again...
@franzjosefmueller-alban509Ай бұрын
@@john-o1g9p Hi there , glad you are doing well , to be honest, all this yada yada about : in order to be happy , you must have a wife / partner and all this shit is absolutely bollocks … I wish , someone had told me to work on myself, get a grip of my life, carrer and then, find someone … also, I came to the realization that we ( men ) can’t make any woman happy .. it is simply not possible because we are not responsible for their happiness … took me half a life time to learn this.. all the best man. Have a great day
@3amaelАй бұрын
All I need is a cabin in the woods, friendship of dogs and fishing to be happy... with the nearest humans hundreds of miles away.
@Chuncy566Ай бұрын
That's great but in your plans remember our going to get.older and harder to get around, do for your self, so plan for that side also,and i wouldnt plan on a woman.to help you, that would be a great disapointment ,think realistic. good luck
@Alan59-n9dАй бұрын
☺👍👍
@rudiwiedemann8173Ай бұрын
Yeah, and when you break your leg when out hunting alone YOU WILL DIE ALONE RIGHT THERE.
@waynejpark560Ай бұрын
@@rudiwiedemann8173So what. Better than being a doormat .
@AllenHarris-u5oАй бұрын
@@rudiwiedemann8173lots of men disappear in Alaska, more than likely a bunch are grizzly Adam's types running away from society who die mumbling into a cell phone that's got a dead battery imploring somebody to get them cuz they broke their hip or something.
@sonder2164Ай бұрын
I was married to my husband for 21 years and now have been widowed for 12 years, I fully agree with this video. These talking points are alot of the same reasons why I chose to stay single. It goes both ways.
@timbinmanАй бұрын
My situation: VERY happily married for 48 years. Watched my wife die from cancer. I will never again watch someone I love die. I love my independence, and I can't imagine trying to grow a new relationship at my age. I have tons of friends - and a dog. I'm alone, but not lonely. Well said.
@joniangelsrreal6262Ай бұрын
A Classy gentleman… lucky wife
@mikedelay8373Ай бұрын
I can totally relate to you.i enjoyed being married, now I'm enjoying being single
@b-41subject57Ай бұрын
Bless you and your wife's heart. Im happy you got to experience a real loving marriage. Its truly rare and you are blessed.
@alainbasstard5782Ай бұрын
mate im in the same boat as you. watched my wife of 30yrs die in agonising pain with cancer. I will never find anyone like that again. So me and the dog are going to buy a boat and spend my days cruising the East Coast of Australia, playing my guitar & enjoying my last few years..
@bonniegreatorex72Ай бұрын
Sorry for your loss 🙏
@vm6418Ай бұрын
Hi Mark. I totally agree with you about tattoos it's a automatic turn off when I see a tattoo on a woman. Not cool in my mind tattoos on women it's a turn off.
@jimhanty8149Ай бұрын
@@vm6418 jimmy buffet said that Tatoos are a permanent expression of a temporary state of mind… That’s what chick always do…they live in the moment.. Bless you jimmy.. sail on wherever your at pal..
@Orlando_SteveАй бұрын
It's an indication of damage. Not just the damage on her skin, but it's a sign of emotional damage and probably previous promiscuity. How many of women in pr0n and OF have tatts? Probably 99%. Just say no to tatts!
@tonyp.bahama9368Ай бұрын
@jimhanty8149 this, permanent reminder of a temporary emotion is what we used to call trauma
@Orlando_SteveАй бұрын
I'm not sure why my comment got deleted. That's happening a lot these days. But tatts on a women are a sign of emotional damage and promiscuity.
@sculptureshard377Ай бұрын
I love the term, "Have you ever seen bumper stickers on a Ferrari?"
@happygolucky1184Ай бұрын
Married 20 years to the love of my life. She passed away 12 years ago and is irreplaceable. I've been single (no dating) ever since. 61, not lonely, enjoying a relaxed, drama-free life on my own terms. No desire to ever change that.
@comfortouchАй бұрын
It's nice to read a comment that isn't pure viterol towards women in general. You sound like a good man.
@55ablebofАй бұрын
A good story. @comfortouch
@jjsmnowАй бұрын
So what do you do for sex?
@TimmyCramerАй бұрын
Best decision of my life was not getting married!!
@ma3stro681Ай бұрын
Same, plus buying my remote country property where I’ve lived in relative peace alone for the past 20 years …
@marianmoses9604Ай бұрын
Damn straight. Don’t ever fuck that up by changing your mind. There are no unicorns - just beta simps who delude themselves into believing their boss is a unicorn.
@jps011724 күн бұрын
For most single people, it's not a decision. It's just the way they are.
@plutoplatters16 күн бұрын
How would you know ?
@alleneverhart4141Ай бұрын
Love the tattoo story as an allegory for relationships - $100 to get one, $3000 to remove ( and probably scarred for life!)
@tonyp.bahama9368Ай бұрын
Tattoos are scars, a permanent reminder of a temporary emotion, which we used to call trauma
@alleneverhart4141Ай бұрын
@@frankie2666 Interesting, CNN reported on this last May. There has only been one Swedish study that found a correlation between tattoos and lymphoma. Correlation is not causation. Repeat that to yourself 10x. This needs to be confirmed in follow-up studies in a broader population cohort before warnings are issued.
@CTeale1Ай бұрын
The greatest blessing of my life has been my 29 year marriage. No matter what the future holds I’m thankful to my creator for this.
@Janneman8389Ай бұрын
For 18 years of married life I was just as thankful and very happy. The 19th year was hell. The greatest blessing from my marriage is that two of my three children love me and care for me. I've been married since I was 21 and I have had my turn. I must say I enjoy being single much more now. God is good. ALL the time.
@joniangelsrreal6262Ай бұрын
Classy Gentleman…Lucky wife
@franktaylor7978Ай бұрын
Marriage is a bad deal for most men. I’ll never do it again. Happy that way
@amazinggrace313Ай бұрын
It’s a bad deal for women 🤷🏽♀️
@terence.jАй бұрын
@@amazinggrace313 that's your ego talking, you know dang on well women have the upper hand in marriage and divorce.
@miggy9260Ай бұрын
@@amazinggrace313Typical woman. Emotional ignorance on display.
@happycamper848Ай бұрын
@@amazinggrace313 Why is a woman like a tornado? She sucks and blows and takes your house ! 🙂
@ChadAV69Ай бұрын
@@amazinggrace313how?
@georgekibblin9924Ай бұрын
The NO-FAULT divorce law in the U.S is the problem. If there is PROVEN domestic violence, alcohol and/or drug addiction, infidelity, unwillingness to work, etc. I can see a cause for a divorce. All it takes is for a woman to say that she in no longer happy and no matter how good a man is, she can file for divorce. The man will lose everything if he was the breadwinner (working two jobs and busting hiss ass off for his family), and she will walk off with hundreds of thousands of dollars and live the high life, meanwhile the man will have to start from scratch at 50 years old. The courts don't care if the man ends up homeless or dead. NEVER AGAIN!!!
@macmcleod1188Ай бұрын
Yup. This is why men won't get married. Too much to lose. I can see the value of no fault divorce but the benefits to the woman should be restricted so there is less incentive for her to do this.
@JacksonDiddlesАй бұрын
@@macmcleod1188 If a woman want's a "no fault" divorce then she should lose all child custody, alimony and only the assets she came into the marriage with. All marital assets should stay with the person that was willing to stay...
@macmcleod1188Ай бұрын
@@JacksonDiddles nah . That's too far the other direction. We got here because abusive husbands were beating wives and many husbands were getting custody of the children in divorces. I'm looking for a return to something more fair. Not a reverse into the unfair circumstances that existed in the 1870s to the 1930s.
@FD12125Ай бұрын
So should she be kept prisoner?
@MegaDavykАй бұрын
But can you see the courts are a big part of the problem and it was done deliberately.
@FarleyMan151Ай бұрын
I dropped dating and relationships in 2013. This 70yo is not going back to the plantation. I'm happy alone, not lonely. I don't have a dog, but I do live in a beautiful place surrounded by woods and nature. Women don't get that men love solitude, peace and quiet. We don't want drama, drama, drama.
@RG-hf4etАй бұрын
I get that men like peace & quiet & solitude. That's why so many like fishing...lolol.😅😅😅
@Silviaf22Ай бұрын
Neither do women funnily enough
@lemostjoyousrenegadeАй бұрын
Some people don’t get that ALL truly DECENT and CONSCIENTIOUS people (male and female) do not like drama, hence the throwing of shade and revealing their bitterness, cynicism and apparent resentment towards people (and in the OP’s case, the women) they’ve never met. May they come to know peace and real contentment soon, which is much easier attained by seeing things as they are. Facing reality is so liberating, it puts things into proper perspective. Understanding = peace.
@ralphkassing6821Ай бұрын
Why would any man completely destroy his life by getting married.
@tabithan2978Ай бұрын
They want a hospice nurse 20 years younger to take care of them in their last years. 🤷🏼♀️
@ralphkassing6821Ай бұрын
@@tabithan2978 That’s what kids are for! lol
@tabithan2978Ай бұрын
@@ralphkassing6821 Believe me, unless you’re very rich, they won’t be there for you. They will treat you the way you treated your wife.
@ralphkassing6821Ай бұрын
@@tabithan2978 I don’t have a wife and never will again. People learn from experience and that’s definitely one thing I’ve learned for sure. And you are absolutely right in what you said.
@ralphkassing6821Ай бұрын
@@tabithan2978 lol. Probably right. You can rent one those though.
@allencoffland1685Ай бұрын
i noticed the video got picked up by alot of other mens' channels. I think you've finally made it, Mark.
@everymanhasastoryАй бұрын
Imitation is the highest form of flattery. Thank you for watching ☺️
@StevenFrantz-m4iАй бұрын
im 73 / my wife of 38 years left me , shes been gone 7 years now , igot a dog moved out house to a 2 bedroom moble home in a different city , life is good. i dont misse her
@da544917 күн бұрын
38 years is a long time. Maybe you were mean, or abusive!
@NicholsonNeisler-fz3gi7 күн бұрын
@@da5449she probably decided she could do better
@samcarson8161Ай бұрын
Age 66, marriage was TOO MUCH for me to cope with, I simply can't handle the 24/7 stress of cohabitation, and I admit that I don't need the stress of tiptoeing around the drama inherent in trying to appease any woman.
@comfortouchАй бұрын
You sound like an introvert. I bet a male roommate would drive you up a wall too. No disparagement, I'm an introvert (can only take people in small doses) too. I find myself being a live-in caregiver for an elderly parent, after almost 2 decades living alone... which is my version of a living hell. My parent isn't bad, I just have no alone-time to decompress.
@john-o1g9pАй бұрын
your life was my life. i hear you, loud and clear. ''the 24/7 of cohabitation'' says it all.
@cookiemonster2299Ай бұрын
Yeah I don't like anybody enough to want to see them everyday 😆❤️🇬🇧
@samcarson8161Ай бұрын
@@comfortouch I wouldn't self-identify as an introvert BUT you're dead right that I couldn't tolerate a roommate. I need my space. I need ALL the space. Especially now at 67 YO, I find that I really prize PEACE AND QUIET above almost everything. Needless to say, you get NONE while trying to cohabit with any woman.
@roadwarrior740127 күн бұрын
@@samcarson8161 kinda shocked how many experiences are so similar ..!
@JohnSmith-bp3mfАй бұрын
Dated 63 women. Went through 9 common-law wives. My advice guys, NOT worth it. Retired at 45 because I was smart enough to not marry any of them. All I look for now is PEACE. Good luck to us all!!
@fahey6797Ай бұрын
How do you keep track of the exact #. I dated less than half that # and it's difficult to remember them all
@steveos5112Ай бұрын
@@fahey6797he is full of sh1t.
@GrayslakegunnerАй бұрын
A Chadrone speaks. Lol 😂
@MGTOWTheRationalMensClubАй бұрын
thanks
@StuJones-gn7teАй бұрын
I don't know how many I dated. I think I slept with about 10. Can't remember them all. I didn't know all of their names though.
@almaconnor9171Ай бұрын
I’m glad to see a channel by and for men. I despise the treatment of men in general. I have a husband, a father, 6 brothers, sons in law, grandsons, nephews, and some good male friends and I do NOT hate any of them, I adore them. And I’m a woman. If women were treated 1/2 as badly as certain men, they’d be screaming in the streets. They get away with attacking them in any matter. So, really glad to see this. Most LEOs are men, and so are firefighters, soldiers, and the people who protect this failing country. They deserve SO much better. I apologize on behalf of the hateful women who should get down on their knees and thank God for our men, AND boys, for all they’ve DONE and continue to do in spite of the horrendous treatment they receive.
@almaconnor9171Ай бұрын
Most women with husbands treat them like a rug to wipe their feet on.
@seaotter72Ай бұрын
I'm 52 male was married 22 years and divorced 10 years now and I don't know any married man my age that's as free and happy as I am!
@Orlando_SteveАй бұрын
56 divorced here. I can't possibly see what another marriage would offer. I don't understand the guys with multiple marriages.
@marianmoses9604Ай бұрын
I agree. Married 1x here for 30 years. Never again. Once was enough. It wrecked my life. I’d have been WAY better off as a lifelong bachelor spinning plates and pursuing personal excellence.
@halfunkbass2966Ай бұрын
Same here... 😂
@GaryH-pw9cmАй бұрын
Once was enough for me. Never again.
@norm1815Ай бұрын
Same 57 here. married 26 divorced 10..NEVER AGAIN
@mplundrАй бұрын
I often see decent men dragging around fat disrespectful anchors and I just gasp.
@ma3stro681Ай бұрын
$imping ain’t easy … 😂🤡😵
@BrunoBerryhoneybuns1370Ай бұрын
@@ma3stro681that's not simping. that's some married guy who is resolved himself to the it's cheaper to keep her mentality.
@peterfitzpatrick7032Ай бұрын
@@BrunoBerryhoneybuns1370... and sadly, its probably true in many cases... 😢
@Orlando_SteveАй бұрын
@@ma3stro681 These women were probably fit, attractive and nice to be around before the marriage. But after the ring....
@marianmoses9604Ай бұрын
I used to be one of them. Mine started out with an 18-inch waist. 20 years later she ballooned into a land whale. Then one day I came to my senses. I lawyered-up, moved out, filed for divorce, and never looked back. In only 10 months I settled the divorce out of court. Paid to free myself and it was worth every penny. I just wish I’d done it 20 years sooner.
@GoldenTimelinesАй бұрын
I love your style and the way you present the information. So engaging!
@jeffreyisenberg830Ай бұрын
Had 51 great years with a Korean woman who passed this past April. Although I miss her dearly, I have just started to do some travelling to visit good friends I don't see often. The freedom to do what you want when you want is heaven. I will never have another serious relationship, especially with an American woman.
@Elizabeth-yg2mgАй бұрын
Girl?
@jeffreyisenberg830Ай бұрын
@@Elizabeth-yg2mg OK, get your point. I did the edit. Have a great day.
@kulentarian55Ай бұрын
51 years lol I don't know what it's even like to get past a minute of peace with a woman let alone 51 years , she was submissive to u most likely because u are white and tall , u can do and get away with more but it's still not a guarantee with Asian woman ,
@b-41subject57Ай бұрын
@@jeffreyisenberg830how did you two meet?
@jeffreyisenberg830Ай бұрын
@@b-41subject57 I was a preventive medicine specialist in the Army. While stationed in Korea, I performed sanitary inspections of places on bases that involved food. She worked at a snack bar on base and was not wearing her hair net, which was required, especially for women with long hair. Next inspection she smiled at me saying " I'm wearing my hair net." The rest is history.
@scottmorton5379Ай бұрын
60, retired, not rich but good enough. I can wake up at 2:00 am and take off for the beach anytime I want. Been single 24 years, most likely stay that way. Not even a super model worth the drama. No thanks.
@patrickgrippoАй бұрын
A supermodel is too often just a jump mare for the moguls of the entertainment world..Lesser women also want to be princesses while nagging husbands to distraction.meanwhile family life is absolutely necessary to keep the human race from extinction,and or total production of male children who are violent animals.soe things must straighten out .
@john-o1g9pАй бұрын
66 now. on my own for 6 years after 29 years. gave up on sex a long time ago. i look at pretty women i see, and have no same ''no drama '' convo in my head.
@jjsmnowАй бұрын
@@john-o1g9p How does one give up on sex?
@fjorddenierbear4832Ай бұрын
Great content and pacing. I know about these topics, but this is a very fresh take. Keep it up!
@69ApplekrateАй бұрын
a wise old man once said (about relationships)- " the screwing I was getting was not worth the screwing I was getting".... Of course, this applies to men of all ages
@keithlowe9037Ай бұрын
So much truth in what you said
@idunno6480Ай бұрын
Exactly how I feel. A work mentor I had long ago used to say this although a bit more crudely. Didn’t quite understand it til I got older. Man was he right.
@SuperGman314Ай бұрын
Most absolutely! 👍🏻
@bobbyjames4300Ай бұрын
Marriage is just stressful with these modern day women. Years ago everyone wanted to get married . Now it’s only the women. Peace .
@kengaroo5170Ай бұрын
Men take care of them, and they take care of themselves.
@marianmoses9604Ай бұрын
That’s because they want 2 things: (1) A slave. (2) All of the slave’s income and possessions.
@ranaldrasmussen39009 күн бұрын
Marriage is not a thing that works in this day and age. People are selfish and everything is disposable now. Women are too independent now for that institution.
@randylavoy6196Ай бұрын
Was married to a narcissistic wife for 9 yrs. ...divorced...took YEARS to recover...17 yrs. Later got remarried...she cheated on me ...got divorced AGAIN ..that was 20 years ago ....single now and content to be so .!! It's better to be alone ..than be married to the WRONG WOMAN ..!!
@SpiritusMundi4EVER28 күн бұрын
You're a SURVIVOR, brother. 🙏Sorry for the sh*t sandwich you had to eat, but I'm glad you picked up the pieces and are moving forward.
@ddixonmorris27 күн бұрын
Or wrong man. This is not about gender; it’s about character.
@da544917 күн бұрын
Maybe you were mean and abusive why women leave
@dfanman14 күн бұрын
@@ddixonmorris Yes it is about gender, traditional men are not compatible with modern women. There cannot ever be modern men society will not allow it.
@EvelinHolmesАй бұрын
My Idea of dating at an older age is having a cup of coffee and a conversation. Not sharing my money with a second partner nor do I want his money.
@stevenwistort9903Ай бұрын
Whatever floats your boat, being single, or married. Life is short.
@jrnumex9286Ай бұрын
problem is sinking boats not floating on a sunny day, no wind and life jackets
@rustyshackelford8769Ай бұрын
Every time a young woman says, "I just got married", I ask her, "When's the divorce?" You have to realize the divorce is planned before the marriage. Plan accordingly.
@jps011724 күн бұрын
Wow, that's even more cynical than me.
@karenlowes7802Ай бұрын
Most older women feel the same way!😊
@jreynolds218418 күн бұрын
nope ... simply thirsty af ... will say anything to feel better for a moment - btw why you here? drawn to the 'title' huh, smh
@michaelsix9684Ай бұрын
older you are the less likely you will find a solid compatible partner, you are now dealing with second or third tier prospects -- after 40 if you're single, stay there, don't ruin a good thing
@miggy9260Ай бұрын
Second & third tiers. 😂so true. That’s like the B team or B actors. These hags hit theirs walls. Men don’t.
@formula112967Ай бұрын
you should specify gender in your comment....after men get divorce-raped after a certain age, they are happy being alone....but when women get to a certain age, if they are still single, they start looking for their 'retirement plan', which is usually a man.
@1metukaАй бұрын
This is so helpful ! Thank you from UK.
@garyt7232Ай бұрын
If guys had a bad marriage(s), ungrateful kids, worked like a dog most of his life, being single means independence and freedom. All the best to you, Jen, and Rogan.
@SunrvesterАй бұрын
Agree with you and you live with no restrictions
@paulb5907Ай бұрын
A men to that 27 years carrying kids all I get is contempt fuck it all I'm done
@tmusa2002Ай бұрын
My mom said the same thing. Too vulnerable to divorce, five kids, alcoholic and ungrateful, and early on was abusive husband (loved my dad but a horrible husband). She widowed at 58 and began living her life. She could have remarried three times but no way. She lived modestly and loved her independence. RIP Mom.
@stevenphillips3466Ай бұрын
Women change thru out their lives . they become totally different at 40 than at 20 . Men pretty much stay the same thru their lives
@everymanhasastoryАй бұрын
That's an interesting point. However we men change too. I'm a different person than I was at 20 30 and 40
@MrSamadolfoАй бұрын
🙂 sure, i have four ex wives, they all changed, i saw them all grow up, again and again i went thru the process, i changed as well tho, i wouldnt have married any of them if i could do it all over again, f that
@michaelsix9684Ай бұрын
this is very true, and it's related to female hormonal changes due to aging
@ma3stro681Ай бұрын
My political views have completely changed in my late 50s …
@michaelsix9684Ай бұрын
men are not told about this, it's a real problem affecting marriages
@Newtonwilson-yw4kgАй бұрын
Challenges in relationships are a normal part of life, but there’s always a path forward. My marriage encountered major difficulties, but with proper guidance, my wife and I managed to resolve our issues and deepen our connection. If you’re willing to put in the work and collaborate, solutions are always within reach. Keep hope alive; there are answers out there.!!!
@oglaskubuotАй бұрын
I’m facing serious problems in my relationship and can’t stand the thought of losing her. I love and miss my partner greatly and am willing to do whatever it takes to have her back. Any advice or guidance you can provide would be deeply appreciated.
@Newtonwilson-yw4kgАй бұрын
Saying goodbye to someone you cherish is consistently difficult, yet in my case, I received support from a spiritual advisor who kept my marriage intact. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
@oglaskubuotАй бұрын
I'll promptly look her up online. Thank you. I'm optimistic that following this path will bring about positive outcomes for me too; I long for her deeply.
@Newtonwilson-yw4kgАй бұрын
You should... I promise you will not regret it
@stevescuba1978Ай бұрын
Bot
@ghostingwhileblackАй бұрын
I'm 35 but it is interesting listening to you and other 60+ men. I'm not 100% ready to quit dating but I haven't seen a offer worth the risk recently. Currently work a remote job, own two homes, and working on a third abroad, but going to do some traveling first. Life is good with just me and my dog.
@CobraR1993Ай бұрын
Stay single bro unless you marry your equal or a woman who is rich!
@gregoryforrest8970Ай бұрын
Smart guy stay sane life is short 😊
@jimsullivanyoutubeАй бұрын
My question is, why aren't ALL men staying single?!
@shawnbippley1407Ай бұрын
The choice for "most" men (Myself included), is either loneliness of misery. At 61, and after a recent Annulment, I think I'm ready to give Loneliness a ride. lol
@MightyMagАй бұрын
Well.... I found a diamond and I think it's dumb to throw her away.
@columbus7275Ай бұрын
@@MightyMag😂
@private-privateАй бұрын
Because some men are as thick as a 6 inch plank. You would have to be to get married today. Thick or deluded and yes, some men are happy but most are not.
@zarrothАй бұрын
@@MightyMag this entire universe is temporary...all of us, and everything around is, is throw away.
@patrickdangola2422Ай бұрын
Great video I’m 72 and this is spot on! Nice work!!!
@lv2keepfit493Ай бұрын
Mgtow is the way to go! It’s not a dislike of women , it’s about taking care of yourself financially, physically and mentally. It’s not worth it, get yourself a dog and find true loyalty and love.
@kw7796Ай бұрын
I need a dog
@Last_one_before_I_goАй бұрын
Correct about dogs. All dogs go to heaven.
@jimmyjay6497Ай бұрын
Like a woman 🤦🏽♂️
@mynosycatАй бұрын
... or a cat!
@paulballinger8754Ай бұрын
Well put 👏
@philippines2269Ай бұрын
Because you can pour your heart and soul into a woman for years. But she will not be loyal. You want true love and loyalty and someone who will be with you until the day you die, get a dog.
@penguinvic9892Ай бұрын
Australian magpies make incredibly loyal pets. I have one that watches me work while the shed door 🚪 is open. It does cute tricks like hop on my knee when I’m sitting down. Best of all it flies off home to its own tree 🌳 latter on. No licence fees, too.
@rickmartin8262Ай бұрын
Women are incapable of being loyal.
@gregoryforrest8970Ай бұрын
Dog as very loyal and don't judge you like a human in this case woman. I know I love dogs they always love to do what I love going for walks I get to met other dog walkers out there for casual chats.. and some times issues like this come up so nice to have a discussion about the gold diggers users and predators looking for a decent person to destroy.
@Bigdave22779Ай бұрын
Dogs only live ten or so years, probably won't be there when you die, just suck it up and be alone, a dog is a crutch
@janedarroch351623 күн бұрын
Love the Video and the shirt, good topic to discuss, and love your take on❤ everything 😊
@michaelsix9684Ай бұрын
today in divorce court, you might face a female judge, a female lawyer reps. your spouse, etc. the deck in court is stacked against you
@GaryUSMCVETАй бұрын
And the county child support department is full of hostile women.
@mick-berry5331Ай бұрын
I had a female judge and a female lawyer and 100% won against my cheating wife in divorce court.😅
@LoneWolf-qk9plАй бұрын
exactly what happened to Me..... I filed for the divorce and got Raped royally
@Orlando_SteveАй бұрын
@@mick-berry5331 Sometimes it could work out. After all, women hate each other even more than they hate men. 😆
@michaelsix9684Ай бұрын
@@mick-berry5331 we love it
@BigTexMSHАй бұрын
That's a red flag! If a woman says she won't marry you if she has to sign a prenup. Gentlemen... run!
@CunoWiederholdАй бұрын
True, but in liberal California, in divorce court, the judge has been given the discretion to overturn ANY pre-nuptial agreement if he/she feels it is weighted against her! Hmm Really? A pre-nuptial agreement is a “legally binding contract!” On what planet is it fair that it can be overturned??????😢
@gregoryforrest8970Ай бұрын
Gold digger
@formula112967Ай бұрын
@@CunoWiederhold a judge will O-N-L-Y overturn a pre-nup if it benefits the woman to do so.....a judge will N-E-V-E-R overturn a pre-nup if it benefits a man.
@comfortouchАй бұрын
@@CunoWiederhold Just file for divorce in a different state.
@Nick-z2oАй бұрын
Nah, you can't take what I don't have. 😂
@tonygriffith21644 күн бұрын
When you're an older man and single, living alone, you can put up your Christmas tree 3 months early! Happy Holidays!
@stephenvanwoert244723 сағат бұрын
And take it down 3 months later.
@driftwoodsmittyasia1286Ай бұрын
After 50 years of keeping my word I couldn't stay in a one sided relationship. So I retired from that. Still waiting for the settlement to finish but planned to get the short end of the stick. I will just adjust to having nothing but what I got in my suitcase. Guys .. it's really a gamble to be in a relationship. Best Regards, Smitty, Metro Cebu
@Al-mk4xlАй бұрын
I am 64, married twice, divorced twice, made the decision to not only won’t get married again, but I won’t date again, I enjoy my peace and freedom, and if I miss women’s company, I only need to view some ticktocks of women being women, and I loose any desire to engage one. This morning, I had a chat with AI worrying about being alone later in life and exploring Long term care cost, the AI actually recommended that by the time I need LTC, robots will be widely available and reasonably priced for me to have 24/7 care that most likely to be cheaper and better than in home care service. That was reassuring and enforced my plan to stay single for ever.
@GGarriganАй бұрын
All we need is sex bots and then we've had it made
@vidiot9000Ай бұрын
I’m 54. I’m on your course and not worried about it at all!
@whenpigsfly3271Ай бұрын
Q: What do you call a man who marries twice? A: A slow learner. (I'm speaking from experience )
@vidiot9000Ай бұрын
@@whenpigsfly3271 same. But I’m cured now. Finally.
@jeraldmatters2389Ай бұрын
I wouldn’t assume the future scenario depicted by AI. On the other hand, cannot really depend on wife and kids either.
@zeke549110 күн бұрын
It’s hard to run into another soul mate when you are old. I’m hoping it can happen
@Bikerman2022Ай бұрын
Married twice because I'm a slow learner. I'm currently 68 and living a great life of peace and satisfaction. Broke but travelling overseas when I want. I have my motorcycle and dancing for my thrills. When the itch arises I now rent rather than go higher purchase. Life is good...
@dfikarАй бұрын
I was married for 31 years and I've been single for the last 10 years. I am more happy and content than I have been in years. There's absolutely nothing that you can get from marriage that you can't have if you stay single. It just makes no sense, particularly given that family courts are very hostile to men.
@Janneman8389Ай бұрын
You can't have legitimate children if not ever married. With the rest I fully agree.
@gregoryforrest8970Ай бұрын
I have watched a lot of lawyer commercials on my local channels where I live and oh my , all geared around getting the women to completely shaft her husband and take this sucker to the cleaners $_$$$. . most women are gold diggers so if someone finds someone who isn't they are extremely rare. But TV commercial where lawyers use such platforms to scare the hell out of married men or married men in toxic relationships once they watch this commercials they are now completely petrified of that happening the wife see the commercial and decided to make the call. I can see thousands upon thousands every millions of men staying single across the world all the while watching these useless online dating sites where older good digger women looking for new sucker to shaft. Many women will be spending a lifetime alone and well they get what coming back around...
@deadreckoning6288Ай бұрын
@Janneman8389 Legitimate? Because the state says so? What a useless comment. We don't need government to tell us how to live.
@MichaelBrown-zp1sfАй бұрын
My Dad said he would never remarry because my mom got half, and he wasn't going to give another woman a chance to get the other half.
@kengaroo5170Ай бұрын
Getting older and looking for a woman to fall in love with is a joke. At best, you will find a woman who is not miserable. Who wants an old woman to look at and pay bills for. Marriage for a senior is an act of desperation.
@johnmitchell8925Ай бұрын
He'll yeah. I agree 👍
@bonniegreatorex72Ай бұрын
Wow, what about love?
@john-o1g9pАй бұрын
@@bonniegreatorex72 rent a movie? the reality of the day to day will break your heart. did it for 29 years, ''because you make a commitment''. i did not make a commitment to be miserable.. she was kind enuf to pass. 6 years on and happy on my own.
@jjsmnowАй бұрын
enjoy your success life I guess
@DigitallFleshАй бұрын
I don't know if 46 years old is old, but I've been single for six years, and I prefer it at this point in my life. Been divorced, had multiple bad relationships. It's far easier with some pets, some friends, and doing things I like to do when I want, without restrictions. Don't really want to lose half of my stuff ever again and starting over again. Already did that twice. No need to try it again.
@HarryJensen-kr4qzАй бұрын
I'm 71, don't wanna mess with it. Don't need HER medical problems, will have my own.
@OceanFrontVilla3Ай бұрын
Same. I'm a very healthy, active and independent woman so I will never live with let alone marry a guy who expects a nurse and a housekeeper. Get your education ladies, nurture your career, not a husband and children, that's a losing proposition.
@comfortouchАй бұрын
@@OceanFrontVilla3 Agree. I have elderly parents to care for, I don't need a grown-azz man acting like I'm his mommy on top of that.
@OceanFrontVilla3Ай бұрын
Exactly. My parents have passed, I'm retired and in great health plus financially independent. I enjoy, friends, travel, gardening, dining out, hiking etc etc. Don't need a man child to clean up after.
@rain-bender4712Ай бұрын
I'm in my late 50s. It's taken me a long time to work out my life but here's a condensed summary of what qualities certain things have brought me: Women: Stress, anxiety & depression smattered with a few short-lived periods of excitement & warmth. Dog: Love, loyalty, peace, happiness & fun. A few beers with my pals: Fun and relaxation. Hobbies: Relaxation, enthusiasm, contentment, personal development. I realised I had to discard one of these things. Can you guess which one I chose? Good luck everyone.
@amazinggrace313Ай бұрын
Sadly pets are better for men and women stress free living. Pets are a gift from God .
@kettlefeverАй бұрын
Well said
@benzonexАй бұрын
@amazinggrace313 You are not a man, baby. Stop trying. Nice haircut though...
@lpereira7866Ай бұрын
Very interesting video… I feel my ex husband got everything, because I was unwilling to continue fighting him. Although I know I was entitled to much more than I got, financially, which was much less than half, the price of peace and calm…. Is truly priceless!
@thebg8774Ай бұрын
I stopped dating 15 years ago ago after my last wife cheated on me and then divorced me and took 70% of everything I worked for for 35 years…thankfully no kids. It has taken me a decade to get back on my feet and it has been the happiest, most exciting time of my life… I truly wished I knew when I was young how wonderful life is without someone bitching and moaning about….. everything 😂. Best to you!
@GaryH-pw9cmАй бұрын
Yes the peace and quiet is priceless.
@foreverzeta6578Ай бұрын
It’s impossible for the partner to take 70%. These guys lie to scare people
@TheJHMAN1Ай бұрын
What he said!!
@SunrvesterАй бұрын
@@thebg8774 Live with no one pulling the strings and no restrictions.
@bp51326Ай бұрын
Here in Thailand, most guys I know are paying their wives $900 usd a month to cohabitate. GF experience is also $900 usd per month. I like my peace and quiet. I’ll rent thank you it’s cheaper
@MrSamadolfoАй бұрын
not cheap, you gotta go there with a good amount of cash i see
@marcK599.Ай бұрын
I’ve been married to a Thai woman for 20 years. I have a house there and will retire there soon with my Thai wife. I’m surprised that man can go to the LOS and not want a long term relationship.
@shabbos-goy9407Ай бұрын
@@marcK599. Because many women are Isaan buffalo sick merchants and will take you to the cleaners
@bp51326Ай бұрын
@@MrSamadolfo if you need constant companionship. I wish it was different.
@virgilvanarsdale7483Ай бұрын
I have never been there in Thailand it's really that expensive? I was under the understanding it was cheap lol
@mustangdaddy4125Ай бұрын
Great relatable topics! Same here with me being married for 14 years and divorced for 13 years. Was able to retire at 62 with great financial standings. I’m 64 now and life is good and date every now and then.😊No marriage for me! Subscribed 😊
@DeathSentryCoHАй бұрын
absolutely love your channel, subscribed!!! divorced, lost half..10 years passed, got remarried with a pre-nup but looks like this one is ending too. I just want to be on my own at this point, 62..just want to enjoy the remaining years.
@richardhowe5583Ай бұрын
You made me think about a song and I played it on KZbin and it made me so happy.. thank you my friend.. she got the gold mine and I got the shaft by Jerry Reed..lmao😅
@tedcormier1736Ай бұрын
I am 59, single and retired. A couple of years ago I had oceanfront Maui booked for Christmas. I was dating a woman (nothing serious) and told her she could join me and stay for free. She expected me to pay for her airfare as well. END of relationship. Most people, even women, said I was being overly generous by letting her stay for free....she must have thought I was a sucker.🤣
@testymann5045Ай бұрын
Women over 40 do not get free tickets.
@Paul-g4e5i16 күн бұрын
Well played sir. Would have loved to see her face when you ended it. It never ceases to amaze me how women think they can take smart men for a ride.
@jeromehaymaker5071Ай бұрын
Divorced 2x, still single 35 yrs later. My filters got heavy after that. Can't find a good one. I travel also. Now 68 retired. Ready for dollar crash/ reset.
@rebeccahale4673Ай бұрын
I've been a widow for 25 yrs. I loved my hubby very much but I love living alone now. My kitchen 2nds as an art/craft studio and nobody complains! I watch what I want. Lots of friends in a local garden club and other activities. 2 dogs. Country living that's paid for. I can be friends with some friend's husbands because they know the men won't be after me at my age... :)
@maxfastestАй бұрын
After 35 years of marriage. My wife lost the battle with cancer, i miss her still, but i dont miss the constant Drama. Nagging, complaining, never satified or happy. Always had to be a control freak. My peace and tranquility is my reward for tolerating it for so long.
@donniedotzler7387Ай бұрын
Never married, never will. Stopped dating 15 years ago. I'm alone, not lonely. Caring for pets is grotesque, to me. I don't hate people. It's just that life is so much better and peaceful without them.
@PROMOTIONALSHORTS5784Ай бұрын
I agree about pets. Why pander to a sh*T machine.
@brad8177Ай бұрын
I tend to agree. If I’m not happy with a human I’m not going to be any happier with a pet. Grotesque is a good word, I also like barbaric. A very small minority of pet owners are good pet owners, but most pets are hostages at best and live a shit life.
@mothershiplove6078Ай бұрын
@@PROMOTIONALSHORTS5784 Are we talking about women again? LOL
@mothershiplove6078Ай бұрын
@@brad8177 My heeler would change your mind. Guaranteed.
@jreynolds218418 күн бұрын
Keep you circle small - fan of critters but they require maintenance as well - think I'll stick with plastic plants and my freedom
@BlakesPipesАй бұрын
I am 51, twice divorced. Starting to save money now at 51. Renting a house at the beach and got back into motorcycling. Just got back from a weekend getaway to a tobacco pipe show with two great days of riding, yes it rained on the way home, but i was on two wheels. Life is good. We are better together then apart, but when she is not entertained and gets bored, they start to monkey branch to who is on her facebook page and guys at the office. I have gone down that dark tunnel and came out of it. Being single and free of drama with my future ahead with a smile on my face.😊
@ma3stro681Ай бұрын
*than apart
@PROMOTIONALSHORTS5784Ай бұрын
You're in a Mid life crisis. Wait till that male menopause hits Oh Boy 😢
@mothershiplove6078Ай бұрын
Me too. ^2 dirt bike racer, Harley fat boy on the street. Dog by my side. Life is better without a downer.
@BlakesPipesАй бұрын
@@mothershiplove6078 much better! Took a bit to come to that conclusion, but I am out on having live in companionship with a woman. I no long have downers. It is up to me to create life that brings joy to me. Glad to see another is at the same point of happiness.
@willielambert4323Ай бұрын
It was extremely informative reading the personal accounts of Older Men. Appreciative learning the variety of challenges and ways of coping identified.
@beverlyhunter9302Ай бұрын
As a woman I agree...I love my space to come and go when I please...I enjoy life, I'm an artist so that gives me purpose to stay engaged with the world outside. I have few friends but solid ones. I love to travel, and enjoy the cultural arts. I have my 2 cats that give me that unconditional love...so at 72 years, retired this is a contented state of life.
@laurahenry3562Ай бұрын
@@christianmarriott3696that’s why God made Eve ,he said it’s not good for man to be alone ,not the other way around,notice you couldn’t let a woman state her opinion about being happy alone ,you needed to use some sarcasm an try an degrade her ,why because you are not happy inside,most men are not ,they lie and say they are but your words show clearly you are not ,keep trying ,,read the bible,it will help you to accept your flaws 🙏
@pinkford2Ай бұрын
@@laurahenry3562When God said "Man" he meant mankind not a specific gender.
@miggy9260Ай бұрын
@@christianmarriott3696I’m shocked she doesn’t have 12 cats. 😂
@happycamper848Ай бұрын
@@laurahenry3562 Proverbs 31 woman....The curse God placed on Eve, right after satan was you will suffer in childbirth and you will live to take over your husband Genesis. God placed woman under man to be protected. She refused and destroyed mankind and the spirit of Eve and Jezebel carry's on destroying men.
@formula112967Ай бұрын
@@laurahenry3562 women hate when men know the truth about female nature....they hate it with all their being.
@SunrvesterАй бұрын
I just ended a relationship with a Filipina early this month after living with her and family for 3 months. I realized that I wasnt ready to share my space and relinquish my independence. Her kids were out of control where she screams at them and sometimes at me from morning till bedtime. I suddenly realized that Im not ready to start a ready made family with undisciplined and uncontrollable children. Six days, upon my return I sent her a message explaining my breaking up with her abd blocking the family on social media and my phone. Ill just spend my time travelling on my travel trailer exploring national parks and perhaps my goal to take a road trip to Alaska can take place finally. Im happy alone with my pooch and doing my favorite hobby fishing. Good luck to those men seeking relationships. Ill stay single for now until then. Thanks again Mark for a great video and forum.
@mike-ulove2travelАй бұрын
I almost had that same situation with my ex-Filipina girlfriend. Her kids were never a problem they were well mannered but I had a problem with her. It got to the point where I felt like I wasn’t needed and when a man feels like that the relationship is pretty much over.
@miguelfilo962Ай бұрын
Only date a woman with children if you want to destroy your life & pay for kids that hate you.
@GGarriganАй бұрын
You dodged a bullet
@ma3stro681Ай бұрын
Bachelor life is be$t. Peace and freedom trumps any pu$$y … 🎉
@formula112967Ай бұрын
Never ever, and I mean never, date a single mother....never!
@tomfilippone6303Ай бұрын
You are 💯 correct. In hindsight.. it was a blessing!!
@MikeS-7Ай бұрын
It's never just half... Women typically walk away with 2/3.
@everymanhasastoryАй бұрын
Ouch!
@MrSamadolfoАй бұрын
correct
@sg7392Ай бұрын
True when kids are involved
@markadler8968Ай бұрын
Lawyers have to take their 30%
@jimhanty8149Ай бұрын
@@MikeS-7 not if they don’t know what ya got or where it is..
@foolmeonce9133Ай бұрын
Im 55, divorced for 8 years now. I lost everything in my divorce, including my realtionship with my sons, for the most part. I have rebuilt my life pretty well, so far. I find that dating women who are around my are not worth the effort. Most are miserable, drink too much, and are on head meds. No, thank you.
@DouglasNicholson-ff6epАй бұрын
My wife went a whoring, and I lost my relationship with all three of my children and my grandchildren and my own siblings, family.. to her. Witchcrafts.. Jehu, a prophet, asked Jezebel's son "Is it peace yet" and Juhu answered. "What peace so long is the whor'dom of your mother and her "witchcrafts" are so many.
@DouglasNicholson-ff6epАй бұрын
I lost everything too, almost including my soul....but the following scriptures helped me "see the light" concerning sexually immoral women. She will hunt for your precious life She reduces HIM to a crust She is his ROTTENNESS to his bones. She is MORE bitter than death. She is odious, meaning she incites HIM to hatred. Her ways are changeable so that you cannot know them. Her heart is nets and snares and her hands as bands. Those who please the Lord shall ESCAPE (FROM) her. She eats and wipes her mouth, and says I have done no WICKEDNESS.
@formula112967Ай бұрын
They say 25% of women are on psychotic medication.....that leaves 75% of women untreated.
@michaelhorner6804Ай бұрын
I need to give a big round of thanks to all the older men sharing their stories to the younger generation. As you can see with so many stories, you have a clear pattern that does not end well for men. God bless everyone, stay safe,be patient in life and be proud of who you're. Don't change yourself for women. You're the prize 🙏
@brad8177Ай бұрын
The struggle IS real and we’re not all crazy. This much combined shared experience is a testament to the truth.
@mgtowmonger2729Ай бұрын
mgtow is freedom and the juice is not worth the squeeze! older men have taught younger men the meaning and philosophy of mgtow and the red pill!
@Cadillac61Ай бұрын
Here’s a quote from Enzo Ferrari “I am convinced that when a man tells a woman he loves her, he means he desires her, and the only true love is that of a father for his son “ something to think about.
@John_Wood_Ай бұрын
GREAT QUOTE
@yellowrat77Ай бұрын
Yes, I remember reading that around 1979, most likely in a Road and Track or a very early Cavallino. That philosphical seed resonated, challenging most of the Love narrative growing up. How refreshing a lesson of life from the pen of il Commendatore.
@formula112967Ай бұрын
Enzo also said 'Aerodynamics are for people who can't build engines'....and then went on to build the P3 330, which revolutionized aerodynamics in race car development. Enzo Ferrari is one of my lifelong heroes.
@brad8177Ай бұрын
I’ve wondered that for a few years now. What we call romantic love is mostly physical attraction which fades over time.
@sarahgaffey827728 күн бұрын
What, men don't love their daughters either? What on earth is wrong with you all, crazy sad world we live in. I know plenty of men who love their woman and their daughters, and women who love and are loyal to their men.
@epicriosonlinemoney3654Ай бұрын
Many Simp Walking ATM's in the Philippines. Single and FREE is the BEST‼
@ma3stro681Ай бұрын
Most of those guys are all Blue Pilled fool$ … 😂🤡😵
@virgilvanarsdale7483Ай бұрын
Thanks for the warning
@esoterexАй бұрын
Mgtow here. Advice to all real men. Got divorced 30 years ago, kept the house, and everything else, had custody of my son. Left my top job so I could look better after the boy. Started my own company which became an international success. Porsches in garage and Helicopter in the hangar. Made my son a top aviation professional. Had many offers over the years which I all politely declined. Even the mother of my sons then girlfriend hit on me. Said no thanks. Today at 75, still in top form, driving my Porsches and taking my Bell 430 for a spin whenever I can. A few years ago, at a company outing, hot day, took of my shirt, women said to me I should walk around the company shirtless more often. And the ex-wife lives in poverty. That is Karma for you.
@miggy9260Ай бұрын
There’s a reason gentlemen name their cars after women. Cars are more loyal. And, if maintained properly will never left you stranded.
@steveng8727Ай бұрын
Only 'REAL' men drive Lambo's & fly a Cessna Citation Longitude but to each his own.
@robertanna9964Ай бұрын
Same here- 10 post divorce and I own my own home outright. Cars both paid. Even my Porsche. And my bike. Zero debt at 60. Meanwhile, my ex just got evicted. I have absolutely no desire to even date let alone marry or cohabitate. When I look or talk to my ex wife, I realize she definitely would have killed me by now if we hadn’t split.
@LookatmyHandle35317 күн бұрын
I kept the house, I own 2cars, 1 truck, and recently purchased a Harley! I have a great 401k, Roth, bank accounts are FAT, great paying job, my oldest lives with me, my youngest wants to! I wish nothing bad on my ex, hope she does well. But it’s just not the case. It’s amazing how fast you can run when you remove anchors in your life
@InvestgoldUKАй бұрын
I am not single, but I will never get married. Getting married is paying new price for a used car, giving away a huge claim on your assets. Every woman I have ever met has a larger list of past notches (often giving away very easily compared to how hard I had to chase it) than I considered worthwhile.
@peteandtessTube15 күн бұрын
I have to say I really like your rap I mean the longer you talk the more topics you cover that are so similar to thoughts I’ve had and you’re very calm about it. You don’t seem to be very biased or have a strong attitude a simple open mind about how people feel, which is also good so I’m really enjoying your video. I think I’m gonna subscribe and like I said it’s really kind of a new adventure and once you get over that initial shock of losing your life partner you or I anyway have found that I’m kind of picking up speed. I’ve been doing a couple of volunteer things And going out with my friends doing the same activities. We always did hiking and biking in this kind of thing, but as I say with no strings attached, I say that with love and respect, but there’s a truth to it. I’m feeling good about myself and about my life. I am over 75. I don’t know if I’ll make it to 80 or 85 or 90 really don’t know the one thing I do want for myself is to be in reasonably good shape and I certainly wanna be able to take care of myself I think I was pretty good as a caretaker. I think that’s my nature. I don’t think I would be very good being taken care of and so I do want to avoid that if it all possible, but to you keep up the great work I think this is a very good in place to share our experiences as single people. I’ll say as suddenly single people.
@deep3805Ай бұрын
Dating when you’re an older guy is like shopping at Goodwill. Finding something stylish, fits well, and doesn’t have a weird odor is impossible.
@joewalsh4685Ай бұрын
And not moth eaten.
@formula112967Ай бұрын
@deep3805...I am stealing that if you don't mind!
@idunno6480Ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@svartvistАй бұрын
That's how dating in high school/college was for me. Latent Feminazies everywhere.
@jreynolds218418 күн бұрын
lmao - duly noted, thanks!
@skip2it426-Ай бұрын
Great topic Mark to each their own but for sure men have a lot of choices! Thank you for sharing 👌🏾!