Ex-MIL Hates I Divorced Her Toxic Son & Secretly Tried To Put Dye Hair InSide My Wedding Cake But...

[@gloriavaldez1560]

She needed a restraining order against her and have her arrested for defamatory antics

[@dixiecyrus8136]

Needs to call a lawyer and sue for defamation!!

[@nimisilverbird1239]

Nta. Sue Susan for defamation of character, slander, and emotional distress.

[@vickichavez9956]

What an evil mother she needed to sit in jail

[@BonjourTwice]

Enabling your child is bad. If they do something bad, you have to correct them like a dog.

[@nimisilverbird1239]

Nta. He trapped you in the house. He needed to be arrested and charged. Susan needs a beat down.

[@aryanblitzkrieg9771]

Talk about abusive. Get out of that marriage! He and his mother are two of a kind.

[@gretatagliavia4228]

I was in a marriage like that for years, I am 60 now and finally free, I finally got the courage to get out 7 years ago. I have 3 kids and am very close with them. They are nothing like him and rarely if ever speak with him. My kids are all well adjusted, happy adults with families of their own…thank God!!!!!!!!!!

[@notovny]

How is it that the Reception Venue spotted XMIL pouring something on the cake, called the cops ahead of time, but didn't at least warn the caterers or bridal party that someone had poured something on the cake?

[@trachelle35]

OP's ex-husband didn't wait until they got married to show his true character. The ex-husband showed OP his true colors the entire time they were dating, she just chose to ignore all of the flashing neon red flags.

[@kaykay8855]

When most behavior, especially abusive behavior, is normalized it’s hard not to see the forest for the trees

[@trachelle35]

@@kaykay8855 sad but true.

[@tracygardner6318]

She even tried to frame OP I’ll because OP had the spine to leave her horrible son. I can’t stand people like this they get my blood boiling..

[@SydtheSquid112]

This hits too close to home, though i was never married. He begged on his knees to keep me, and i had "learned helplessness". Its quite interesting how mothers enable their abusive sons . Glad OP got out of that.

[@beasty909]

all OP had to do to get her newest MIL to believe about the toxic marriage is get a copy of OPs medical records & show them the time HE made OP loose the baba /:

[@nimisilverbird1239]

Nta. Sue the ex mil

[@tracygardner6318]

If Opie was a drug addict, I think you could tell. I can’t believe they fell for that I would be hurt by that and I hope Joshua gave them a mouthful for that.

[@bautistalover]

That’s actually not true there are drug addicts that are doctors business men/women and looking at them you literally couldn’t tell. It just depends on what they are hooked on.

[@mortikarobinette5381]

I bet the workers at the nursing home were happy about that. They can be just as manipulative and nasty there.

[@gloriavaldez1560]

Yeah they can be abusive on her, not on poor innocent people, which my mom was abused by a rehab I reported those vile evil people

[@mortikarobinette5381]

@@gloriavaldez1560 never said that. Nobody deserves it period. I'm sorry to hear that happened to your mom. I hope the people who abused her at the very least got fired and lost their licenses. There shouldn't be a place for people like that in healthcare.

[@PrincessQ-fj9ly]

Poor OP........She was clearly blinded by love. If only it didn't take that abusive monster Alex beating her for her to realize that she deserved better. 😢 I wanted to slap that monster silly when I found out about the miscarriage. Still, it was good that OP finally got out of that toxic marriage. It's also lucky that she was able to find some new love. And I can definitely see where Alex got his selfish and abusive behavior from, his evil and wicked mother. That witch Susan and her wretched son Alex both got exactly what they deserved. For Alex, a life of loneliness and Susan, jail time and being dumped into a nursing home, though I personally think that she should've just been kicked out and left to fend for herself. As for Joshua and OP, Joshua is an absolute legend for loving and protecting OP and I'm so happy OP was able to find true love and happiness! ❤️💕❤️

[@kiryuandgodzillagirl]

I agree OP don't let others push your around

[@canadianmom9404]

Stretch marks from pregnancy also have to do with genetics this ex mother in law and husband deserve a dirt bath

[@emilypage31]

Totally at fault. Period. Full stop.

[@HawkTHSS2893]

okay eww hairdye in the cake?! thats sounds revolting! poor op :(

[@onepieceisking5493]

I agree, it's the egg donor's fault that she pushed it so far that she stayed in jail for six months and got put in a nursing home away from everyone else. She's definitely a vengeful narcissist.

[@tracygardner6318]

The stepfather seems to actually not give into Alex shit

[@theshadowminecrafter]

I almost got married to someone who destroyed my female relationship but the cheating having sex with other guys and that made me change my mind about it

[@PuppyKatt]

What would I have done different? I would have booted her out, and divorced her from the get-go, with no money or valuables, rather than enable her for decades. Too little, too late. And I would like to know why Alex was never charged with domestic violence, even when it was obvious.

[@perfectlyimperfect9129]

Her?! Op.was the victim here Alex and his crazy entitled mother are the terrible evil pos!!

[@bautistalover]

Because the cops and doctors can’t do shit if OP says I fell.

[@annem7806]

The bridal dress store betrayed you. Why didn't the cakeshop make her leave? ALL this & no hired security?

[@dixiecyrus8136]

That bridal shop would be sued!! Bridal confidentially is a must!!

[@dorothylloyd1804]

Thanks for the video Mr Reddito. Have a good evening

[@lynngilbert1406]

Sorry but the abusive ex husband gets away with it and thinks he is better then his mother? Seems sus to me, like I wouldn't have put it past him to have been in it with her and then abandon her after it crashed so epicly!!

[@centurycountess4949]

six months of jail hell followed by family abandonment and exile to an elderly home a perfect punishment for susan. I am only suprised the cake wasn't mashed onto her head. it would of been great that she had to spend six months in jail with a nasty dye job in the shape of mashed cake to forever remind her like a scar, a scar of her own stupidity.

[@c16621]

OP is the biggest doormat. One of those stereotypical “women” with no street sense or concept of abnormal psychology. Do women REALLY think that they will wakeup one day in their horrible marraiges and think the monster will just spontaneously be normal? All this became her fault as soon as she saw he couldn’t keep a friendship or stop his misogyny. He was abusive A.F. and she stayed like a fool. A life was lost because of HER.

[@kathrynbillinghurst188]

Stretch marks are the least of what you should worry about! You are a sweet person and nowhere near the A- hole! It’s Susan and her “brat man” son! She obviously hasn’t guided his upbringing carefully or responsibly! He literally’man-slaughtered’ his unborn child! He physically assaulted his wife! Why is he still walking around… he’s committed two felonies along with behaving immature and self-centred!! 🤬

[@twiceshy9773]

Lol it's almost scary how often wedding reception halls have to have security cameras now, like it's normal- IT SHOULDN'T BE NORMAL!!

[@trixmania]

And back in history, they stood on a certain side so they had easier access to a sword

[@annkupke4263]

You should see the Gypsey weddings. They have to find venues that will let them go to cause they are rambunctious. Also some families get drunk and cause drama.

[@aleksandarvil5718]

Alex's bio - "mother" / OP's EX - MIL = KAREN 💯🔥💩

[@SewFrancine6120]

Mothers who refuse to see their own children’s shortcomings cause more trouble long term that their child.

[@beasty909]

seriously? he murked her first & future baba & she refuses to report? i am NEVER going to fall in love!! My Heart is CLOSED to all!!!! /:

[@tracygardner6318]

Now who’s single, and a loser as he tried to call her and told her to

[@gloriavaldez1560]

Red flags a long time just with his crap about her being with him. Hell freaking no. He is entitled sob, glad she finally got away from h8m. Stupid mil thinking she go back to that pos son of hers. Sorry 2 years is too freaking much.

[@tracygardner6318]

Her son, ruin his own life

[@paperkay]

Ye, it's really hard to get divorced the first time, because you honestly believe that you are the only problem in a failing romance of a century. You try so hard to make everyone happy and proud and nothing you do is ever good enough. You feel smaller than dirt.

[@onepieceisking5493]

I see where the toxic ex husband gets it from his horrible mother. No surprise that she tried to "get back" at op for divorcing him as for ruining his life he did that to himself but no, she believes op is to blame. And shot herself in the foot by pushing it and now in a nursing home all by herself.

[@kiryuandgodzillagirl]

I agree listen to Steven Universe Steg "the master of you"

[@tracygardner6318]

A wedding is for the bride and groom not their parents, just make her happy he could marry his mother then

[@albertgongora6944]

Not going to lie the moment I found out this dude was losing friends I would have been out of that relationship a long time ago cuz I don't understand how that did not convince the original poster to leave right then there and is he even though she was blinded by love she should have seen the signs at least when it came to her wedding

[@Mrwillie95]

The reason why op ex mother-in-law didn’t want op to leave her son because Alex mom didn’t want to be stuck with her son

[@PuppyKatt]

Yeah, the very son that she created and moulded.

[@nilianstroy]

Mr Reddito, what's with the restrictions across the board?

[@NPRYRS]

🤦🏽🤦🏽‍♀️ everyone doesn't have street smarts to pinpoint abusive behaviors 💯❗‼️ his tantrums and apologizing are the #1 red flags for DV🤦🏽🤦🏽‍♀️

[@kiryuandgodzillagirl]

toxic people get what's coming to them karma has poetic justice

[@gloriavaldez1560]

Nope hell no, my mom told my dad you lay a hand on me, that will be last thing you ll do. My mom is from two great grandmas that left their husbands, one divorced and one separated for a time. This was in the 1920s not very common but they did it. Also for my dad, my mom's family would of beat the living out him but my mom's got a great punch 👊 😂. They are southerners and dont take crap.

[@jefferypowell9885]

Apple didn't fall far from the tree

[@cubajohnson7787]

What is it with people getting married under a year of dating

[@annem7806]

1) so you were blind to this all thru dating. How did he explain his mother's rudeness to you? Sadly blind for decades.

[@scotthultin7769]

First 👍's up thank you for sharing 😮

[@micahbailey7328]

My girlfriend was a drug addict who never listened to shit and it killed her 2 years ago

[@AlystraKriss]

I do not get how people “still love” their abusers after being treated as crap in a pigs blanket! They must have zero self esteem. The second you put up with it or make excuses for the scummy abusers things will escalate. RUN!

[@PrincessQ-fj9ly]

It could be lack of self esteem/self love. It could also be a classic of having rose colored glasses on or simply being blinded by love. It could also be fear of not wanting to be alone as their abusers and the flying monkeys/enablers would say. In any case, we as a society need to start teaching people the warning signs of a toxic relationship as early as possible. That way, these are less victims of domestic violence.

[@robertx8020]

It's easy to see this from the outside looking in Ppl being in such a relation (maen or women) have it harder

[@PuppyKatt]

Battered-spouse syndrome. It used to be battered-wife syndrome, but while running a shelter for many years, I saw almost as many men fall victim to evil women, too, and they almost always go back to the abuser.

[@perfectlyimperfect9129]

Believe me it's extremely hard to understand but it's the abuser who is supposed to love them and tells them everyday that they are nothing and nobody wants. Them and eventually you start to believe it ! It's extreme Manipulation of every single part of a person, Emotionally, Mentally and physically. And isolating the victim from everyone in their life that actually loves them and treats them like real people just makes it all Easier for the abuser to keep the victim down where they want them.

[@TehAnshiTunes]

For me it was a number of factors. Being BPD was one, as it prepositions me with a "fear of abandonment" making it difficult to leave. Add, these people are charmers. They abuse, apologize, swear theyll never do it again - rinse and repeat. Also: Mental/Emotional abuse tends to be so subtle by these people that by the time your brain kicks in, youve been together for years and probably have children involved. The problem is these people are so slick, oftentimes youre in WAY too deep before you see yourself up to your neck in bs. At least thats been my experience.

[@cynthiamcguire4587]

What country does anyone finish high school at 15?

[@trixmania]

My teen left highschool and moved to other learning this yr. He is 15. In tassie the highschools finish in yr 10. Maybe it's not in the us? There are other options in life.

[@cynthiamcguire4587]

@trixieandrews860 that's why I asked what country. Duh.

[@trixmania]

@@cynthiamcguire4587 and I replied, duh

[@cynthiamcguire4587]

@@trixmania condescendingly

[@PuppyKatt]

That can happen in any country. Children can skip a grade, if their able to excel.

[@meggriffin4802]

Words always hurt more

[@Neyfufu00]

He changed the passwords to the door so that you couldn't leave but you forgot that Windows exist right???

[@PuppyKatt]

Most windows are also hooked up to the alarm panel.

[@PlaneManHehehe]

Good narration except there's no X in the word especially

[@nadiahinson3515]

Why do these people waffle and not get to the point?

[@elizabethbrokenbourgh-walt1533]

Where does this Alex live????

[@erikamccall6741]

Why would you even tell her your getting married?!! Stupid! Second, as soon as you found the drugs you call the police! They could run it for finger prints and when they matched to her….. she could be arrested. You should have saved all the texts recorded all the calls and sued. There are so many ways you could’ve gone about this!

[@Swnsasy]

This is how you KNOW the MAJORITY of these stories are fake.. NOBODY puts so much detail that has nothing to do with the ACTUAL title of the story itself.. The point of OP'S story was about her NEW relationship yet that was only a few minutes of the story and the rest was about the ex in intriquet detail not necessary...

[@bautistalover]

Not only that nobody is as stupid as OP is. Who the hell has an ex mil pop up out of nowhere and doesn’t tell their new family. She let this woman stalk and harass her and said nothing allowing her the opportunity to try to poison her relationship with her MIL and SIL. She ignored the massive red flag when ex mil showed up to the bridal salon. She should’ve locked down all her stuff after that and hired security and called the cops. It’s like OP learned nothing from her relationship with Alex. This sounds like a fairytale.

[@Neyfufu00]

If I hear another person use that love is blinding and you just love your partner enough to not want to report them for abuse you either the grow up or stay being abused, stay in your abusive relationship because you deserve it simply because you don't know how to stand up for yourself and if you can't do that well you're a goner

[@JupitersTears]

I don't want a 12 year Olds option on abuse you don't understand its not love is blind its what victims tell themselves the abuser manipulates them and they think they have no choice

[@kaykay8855]

You clearly don’t know how abuse works. Abuse isn’t as blatant as you think, an abuser will put on a front for other people and show their real face to you.

[@Neyfufu00]

@@JupitersTears if you can't see how blinding that it is while they're doing it to you that's just pathetic

[@Neyfufu00]

@@kaykay8855 if they show their real face to you and not other people as a front you should already see that as a red flag if you don't and keep going that's also just pathetic

[@Neyfufu00]

@@JupitersTears also I'm not 12 mate I'm older than you think. I just know better then to think love is blinding. It's a terrible excuse for people use no matter who says it. And if you still think love is blinding you really are a child

[@paulrichardson635]

Op is not overly bright is she!?

[@bautistalover]

Nope she’s kinda dense.

[@paulrichardson635]

Muyhts mil ended up muyhting, not living! Hump!