Minimalist Family of 5 Living in a 1 Bedroom Apartment to Save Money

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In this video, we meet a family of 5 living a minimalist lifestyle in a 600 square foot, 1 bedroom apartment, in Ontario, Canada. Heather, Dominique and their 3 children moved from an 800 square foot suburban condo into this 600 square foot apartment to reduce their living expenses in order to pay for an early intervention therapy program for their eldest son who is autistic. The cost of the therapy program is over $5,000 CAD, per month. They’re able to save close to $2,000 each month by keeping their living expenses low, and they fundraise the rest of the money they need: www.gofundme.c...
The apartment has a kitchen and bathroom and one large living area that they use as a dining room, living room, and master bedroom for the parents. The single bedroom has a set of bunk beds, and one crib, as well as lots of floor space for toys like a trampoline.
The couple have gotten into the habit of regularly donating stuff they don’t need, doing the dishes and cleaning up frequently to keep the space clutter-free, and living without things after they break instead of replacing them (like their kettle for example).
The couple says they’re able to make this minimalist living situation work because they prioritize their son’s therapy and education over accumulating objects. At first, minimalism was meant to be a short-term living situation to pay for their son’s therapy for the first year, but they’re enjoying the simplicity and the savings that their lifestyle brings and they may continue after the year is up so that they can save more money for future expenses that might come up.
Thanks for watching!
Mat & Danielle
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@happyavocado4634
@happyavocado4634 8 жыл бұрын
The fact that you detach yourself to all your stuff for your son is priceless.
@polola9772
@polola9772 8 жыл бұрын
:)
@ahmadawan11
@ahmadawan11 7 жыл бұрын
here's a few ideas on how to de-clutter fast Give yourself five minutes every day to tidy up Give away one item each day Fill up one trash bag now! Make a list of what to do this week. Buy four sacks and sort everything into trash, give away, keep, or relocate. (Reference: Nilah Declutter Tips site )
@sharonkambale6211
@sharonkambale6211 7 жыл бұрын
Especially that we live in such a materialistic world.
@catherineleary9462
@catherineleary9462 6 жыл бұрын
Happy Avocado I agree. It's a beautiful thing to see.
@ronderulijkummar7453
@ronderulijkummar7453 4 жыл бұрын
That's the way it should always be. Kudos to this family!
@campingcarjoa
@campingcarjoa 8 жыл бұрын
Raising 3 children is challenging enough, but having one with special needs? They are a truly remarkable young couple that has their priorities straight.
@kimberlymason7080
@kimberlymason7080 7 жыл бұрын
CampingCarJoa But stop having kids!
@cindy8323
@cindy8323 7 жыл бұрын
kim mason that´s not your decision to make though! I hate if people get judged for the amount of kids they have! It´s only their bussiness and if they can handle more kids, mentally and financially, than where is the problem? (P.S.: Sorry for my bad english)
@livpointon3755
@livpointon3755 7 жыл бұрын
My mum has 6 kids
@buksiblingsfun8906
@buksiblingsfun8906 7 жыл бұрын
Love Beauty My great grandmum has 15
@buksiblingsfun8906
@buksiblingsfun8906 7 жыл бұрын
*had
@kristibeth6370
@kristibeth6370 8 жыл бұрын
I'm very happy to see minimalist views portrayed in regular housing and not just in the "tiny house" movement!!! So cool! Yes people around the world live in small spaces. Thanks for sharing . Loved it!!
@YasinKaya123
@YasinKaya123 2 жыл бұрын
Great comment. Thank you.
@ChristysChannelYall
@ChristysChannelYall 3 жыл бұрын
I have an 18 year old son with autism. He has received therapy his entire life and is so high functioning now. It is just amazing. It makes me happy to see you putting his needs first. You will never regret it!
@jenniferw1191
@jenniferw1191 8 жыл бұрын
I love that, 'appreciate it's beauty, but not possess it'.
@hph9590
@hph9590 8 жыл бұрын
+Jennifer Walker Yes, that perspective made me think for a moment.
@cooldesert30
@cooldesert30 8 жыл бұрын
That was a profound quote
@HolisticDetective
@HolisticDetective 8 жыл бұрын
Me too!!
@Goodygoodya
@Goodygoodya 8 жыл бұрын
wow, that is really great.
@MsEliteForever
@MsEliteForever 7 жыл бұрын
Jennifer Walker Slogan for the broke.
@KALYNSHangingOutWithKalyn
@KALYNSHangingOutWithKalyn 8 жыл бұрын
Who says you cannot live in a one bedroom, do what you have to do and you are right, people around the world live in small spaces and they live just fine. Quality of life and happiness is more important!
@ladonnad.steele2470
@ladonnad.steele2470 8 жыл бұрын
They are young and wise...this is beautiful! They love their family more than money. Those kids are so very blessed!!!
@marquisdehoto1638
@marquisdehoto1638 8 жыл бұрын
the only point is that you don't have our own private space. this can be a bit of a problem sometimes
@zoeredadams
@zoeredadams 8 жыл бұрын
+Jared Leto yeah Older children need their own space, I believe, and if having sex often is important in your marriage then that will suffer
@KALYNSHangingOutWithKalyn
@KALYNSHangingOutWithKalyn 8 жыл бұрын
Another good point. You can live tiny easier if you have some walls between you.
@motherintoronto
@motherintoronto 8 жыл бұрын
Not everyone's sex life is relegated to night time in bed. Personally, love shower sex.
@IrisMG
@IrisMG 8 жыл бұрын
My big brother, myself, and my mom lived in a one bedroom apartment until I was nearly 12. It's doable. You do what you need to do to survive.
@boricuababyhuey7576
@boricuababyhuey7576 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this! So many people who are quick to be negative forget this simple notion.
@clFer777
@clFer777 6 жыл бұрын
That's hard. But even harder go in when you don't have the need (I mean it's not obvious )
@holiday-td6hx
@holiday-td6hx 6 жыл бұрын
People think that they have to have the most expensive best living quarters. The idea of each child having a bedroom is in my opinion...ridiculous. My sister and I shared a room for several years prior to my parents builidng a new home. When my sister & I got married within 6 wks of each other, to make room for all the things we were either receiving as wedding gifts prior to our weddings, or purchasing things for our new homes as newlyweds, etc. we shared my younger sister's bedroom. It was great sleeping in the same room again, knowing full well that we would probably never get the chance to do that again after we were married. People today spend far too much money, then they have money troubles and wonder "how" it happened. It's okay to go to garage sales to look for furniture, clothing, etc. You don't have to have the "newest" thing, just because a friend who makes 3 times what you do has that newest gadget. Live within your means. This couple is awesome, absolutely awesome.
@lexicarolyn5938
@lexicarolyn5938 6 жыл бұрын
i live in a one bedroom apartment with my older brother, my mom, and I currently..
@lizzykerns8310
@lizzykerns8310 5 жыл бұрын
Bad thing is that it's not legal everywhere, I lost my son because of leaving this way.
@user-hi9cv1sc2i
@user-hi9cv1sc2i 5 жыл бұрын
I love this couples attitude. They're fantastic parents.
@komandantData
@komandantData 8 жыл бұрын
For the people shouting out "poverty", without getting all spiritual and alternative: having a huge college debt is poverty, having a mortgage over your home is a risk at least, credit card debt is poverty, and not having adequate social healthcare- that is real poverty, and this is how most Americans unfortunately live: being poor without even realizing it. So stop judging others before taking a good, honest look in the mirror.
@freegurl76
@freegurl76 8 жыл бұрын
Amen...debt up to our asses and acting like we're rich! I am considering living in a tiny home as a means to help pay off college debt. It makes no sense to live in a huge place and drive luxury vehicles when you can't really enjoy it bc you are always working!
@mumof4monkeysthomas359
@mumof4monkeysthomas359 7 жыл бұрын
komandantData- Ah, my favorite comment by far. There is hope for the world afterall☺
@mumof4monkeysthomas359
@mumof4monkeysthomas359 7 жыл бұрын
Realfeminist76 - So true!
@chicagogyrl7849
@chicagogyrl7849 6 жыл бұрын
Yes, I think they are strapped for cash. They have a go fund me begger page. Why not a 2 or 3 bedroom? I have no student loan debt, I have no mortgage, my house is paid for, no credit card debt, and I have great insurance through my city, so no, I am not "poor" by your standards, I am not in your "most Americans" class.
@Roajlara
@Roajlara 6 жыл бұрын
Isn't renting paying for somebody else's mortgage n making them rich?
@silpae
@silpae 8 жыл бұрын
Minimalism is so beautiful in many ways. It teaches you what's worth it and what's not. Also, I am glad that more people are seeing that this North American ideals of having lots of space is ridiculous. Sleeping in your living room is fine, it's a room. Having 3+ children sharing a room is fine, as long as they have a big enough and comfy enough bed. Beautiful family :)
@caseynichols3306
@caseynichols3306 8 жыл бұрын
We have been looking for a 3 bedroom house bc I just found out I was pregnant with my third and this video inspired me a lot that I don't NEED a three bedroom and it is possible to live in my current 2 bedroom. Maybe small. We just need to find a way to create storage
@mumof4monkeysthomas359
@mumof4monkeysthomas359 7 жыл бұрын
Casey Nichols- We live in a 675 sq ft , 2 bedroon apartment with 4 children (13,10,7,2). It's doable and worth it in the long term, I believe. We are very close as a family and my children are grounded. If you have questions feel free to ask. My e-mail is lifeontheshiras@gmail.com Best of luck!
@jaoshawilliams322
@jaoshawilliams322 6 жыл бұрын
@@mumof4monkeysthomas359 do all 4 kids sleep in 1 room
@WINWITHunWIN
@WINWITHunWIN 8 жыл бұрын
we're almost a family of five living in a 1 bedroom. we live in California, and because rent here is outrageous, we have learned to live together in a small space.
@reginagaytan-campos285
@reginagaytan-campos285 2 жыл бұрын
Do you have a video?
@desinoel4851
@desinoel4851 6 жыл бұрын
it always blows my mind on how a minority family does this and its called ghetto but as soon as some white people do it its called an alternative lifestyle.
@Joeyblondewolf2
@Joeyblondewolf2 5 жыл бұрын
It's small but their a very happy family :) and the kids look very loved ❤️
@ladyb4325
@ladyb4325 8 жыл бұрын
To be honest I clicked on this video just to say, wow, no way, they're crazy! but then by the end of the video I have a whole new appreciation for their family and the minimalist living.
@ExploringAlternatives
@ExploringAlternatives 8 жыл бұрын
Heather & Dominique are fundraising to keep their son in therapy: www.gofundme.com/therapyforjacob
@heatherwillis6391
@heatherwillis6391 8 жыл бұрын
+Herb Seed what does supposidly mean?
@XX-yj5dz
@XX-yj5dz 8 жыл бұрын
Heather and Dominique need to realise that we autistic people are happy as we are, thank you very much, and any therapy with the word 'intervention' in it is not a good idea
@zoeredadams
@zoeredadams 8 жыл бұрын
+Ellie Fuller you may be, but for some children it's very stressful and means they get kicked out of elementary school
@_innerpeacekeeper
@_innerpeacekeeper 7 жыл бұрын
excuse me, they are not freeloading bums! do you have any idea how much autism therapies cost? it's a real drain on family finances. if you're not going to help or wish them well, move along!
@ciderbu4425
@ciderbu4425 7 жыл бұрын
the nerve they have. wow
@WannaBFree
@WannaBFree 8 жыл бұрын
Awesome family! I think there is a wave in this country where people are either forced or a few by choice, realizing that we don't need much to live a fulfilled life. I am certainly one of those people. The more downsizing I do the more ridiculous my old lifestyle appears and the more freedom I have. Personally I think this is exactly what our country needed weather it be by choice or circumstance. We will be better for it in the long run.
@cario6554
@cario6554 4 жыл бұрын
Wow much respect for this family. They have their priorities straight. At first I was like no way they’re crazy, but they have more patience than I ever could. Y’all are doing great and have it together
@katielarsen2630
@katielarsen2630 7 жыл бұрын
We have 4 in our 1 bedroom, and 5 when my stepson is in town:) we keep saying we're going to move but it honestly still works really well. It feels more spacious than most 2-3 bedroom apartments I've seen
@AmorVitae93
@AmorVitae93 8 жыл бұрын
this is a great example of great parents putting there children's need before there own. once u have kids ur life revolves around them
@SimpleFull
@SimpleFull 8 жыл бұрын
I love this family! They are very wise and such a great example! Thank you for sharing their story!!!
@Matt.Jungfleisch
@Matt.Jungfleisch 8 жыл бұрын
These folks have adapted to their apartment. They make it work because they want and need it to. Kudos to them !!! 😀😀😀
@angelahicks1946
@angelahicks1946 8 жыл бұрын
Sooooo glad too see you as parents putting yr son and his needs ahead of things that don't matter .its nice to see there are still people that know how to be focused on not being selfish....
@anaidcastaneda2942
@anaidcastaneda2942 8 жыл бұрын
I also have a Family of 5 in a one bedroom duplex. its pretty small but weve learned how to adjust. and what they said it is soo true , you learn that u dont need to go and get the latest stuff or buy so many things. and Its made our life a bit easier without having to stress too much for not being able to pay the bills. Imglad i watched this. its really helpeful seeing that were not the only ones living like this.
@shieh.4743
@shieh.4743 7 жыл бұрын
Most of the world lives like this. Most families around the world don't have 1 room per person in their house and even in North American, two-three bedroom houses with 4 or more kids was totally normal until the 1970s.
@mindyschocolate
@mindyschocolate 5 жыл бұрын
Shie H. I have four siblings. We stayed in three bedroom homes with the seven of us until I was nearly 15. I’m astonished when I hear of a family of four living in a four or five bedroom home.
@lindylindybasicoceangirl
@lindylindybasicoceangirl 5 жыл бұрын
...wow...so refreshing to hear the logic of prioritizing a family’s needs by accepting a minimal lifestyle...simple can be less stress...loved this vid
@dawnfranklin7280
@dawnfranklin7280 8 жыл бұрын
how did you find a landlord willing to rent 1 bedroom to a family so large.
@christinb5766
@christinb5766 6 жыл бұрын
dawn franklin My thoughts exactly. It’s illegal where I live. 2 heartbeats to a room is the rule, no matter the age of the third heartbeat.
@76svetlana
@76svetlana 6 жыл бұрын
In most countries there is no such rule on maximum occupancy. People rent as per budget and requirement. I stayed in North America for 6 years. Even there, the rule did not apply in all cities. For ex: In Charlotte and Houston I could rent a 1BHK for family of 3 where as in New Jersey, Denver and Austin I had to rent a 2 bedroom apartment.
@toughntiny
@toughntiny 6 жыл бұрын
@Kayla Olshove sounds like intrusive America
@karmaluvv7620
@karmaluvv7620 6 жыл бұрын
Because she doesn't live where you do.
@D3ViiANT
@D3ViiANT 6 жыл бұрын
Christin Burns Heartbeat, specifically? Because that would mean that a pregnant couple sharing a room is illegal....
@markeziabennett334
@markeziabennett334 5 жыл бұрын
I loved this the minute it came on. Im currently pregnant& have a 4yo&a 2yo. And a one bedroom is what'll have to work for me and my babies. Very smart way to save. Thank you for this . it still helps in 2019
@Bellucci-zy6sl
@Bellucci-zy6sl 8 жыл бұрын
This is incredible! Anything is possible! What do humans need the most? Love, food and shelter. Simple.
@marilynwillett804
@marilynwillett804 6 жыл бұрын
Jesus and then it.
@gsgaming4403
@gsgaming4403 4 жыл бұрын
@@marilynwillett804 Amen, are you a Cristian
@linb9794
@linb9794 7 жыл бұрын
Growing up, my parents, two sisters, and I lived in a 2 bedroom, 1 bathroom apartment in my grandmother's house. My sisters and I shared the larger bedroom. There were 3 twin beds, 3 bureaus, and just enough room to crawl into bed. We had a 9 x 12 eat-in kitchen. I grew up with 3 dogs and a couple of indoor cats, and the dogs had a large fenced-in backyard to play in. No one complained about the lack of space; my family just made it work. I commend these parents for doing what they feel they need to do in order for their son to continue receiving the services he needs. They are showing their children that family comes first. Now THIS is the true meaning of love. As I see it, the kids will grow up just fine. My sisters and I did.
@MalinaCC
@MalinaCC 8 жыл бұрын
Love what Heather said about appreciating beauty instead of possessing it!
@AffiliatedBeauty
@AffiliatedBeauty 6 жыл бұрын
That’s a word, you won’t forget your loved ones by giving things away... become less attached to things. Letting go of the things isn’t letting go of the memories.
@johnbeecroft1037
@johnbeecroft1037 8 жыл бұрын
Beautiful film! We don't own objects, they own us. Thank you for the tour of your home.
@beckykent435
@beckykent435 6 жыл бұрын
We live in a very small 2 bed flat with a tiny kitchen and tiny bathroom with our 2 children that cannot share a room as one is a very active noisy sleeper. So our front room has become our 1 year olds bedroom after visiting my mum and having to do 4+ trips at bed time up n down the stairs worrying about them climbing up and falling I now appreciate our little home more each day and have come to realise that it is actually a better way of living.
@graceday7203
@graceday7203 8 жыл бұрын
Somehow we've gotten away from what is truly important in life. We had a tiny 2 bedroom house with one bathroom when I was little, but bigger seems to be better now and people are wanting McMansions. I applaud your decision and wish you the best.
@HolisticDetective
@HolisticDetective 8 жыл бұрын
100% agree. We had a 640sf, 1.5br house before we moved into this 850sf, 3br "monstrosity" which honestly isn't even that big by modern standards, but I hate it! So much wasted space. Fortunately we kept the old one, and the day the tenants move out, I'm moving back in...
@alifewithluna4134
@alifewithluna4134 8 жыл бұрын
My family of 3 is currently in the same situation; saving for a home but also paying for my sons therapy- I'm so happy people are doing the same thing and realizing it's not about what you have, but how you Savor and use what you do have and just be grateful for what is yours 🙂
@Etamar-yg4sy
@Etamar-yg4sy 8 жыл бұрын
Less clean up is my main motivation for being attracted to minimalist or small living. It brings the families so close and I believe that you learn to be more cognizant and respectful of other people spaces. Nice looking family. Good luck and God bless, cool running.
@melissamcgovern3736
@melissamcgovern3736 7 жыл бұрын
Found this vlog today. This is so inspiring. Myself and my son live in a one bed place and I always feel less because I can't afford to move. Your simplicity makes me happy
@marisua3018
@marisua3018 5 жыл бұрын
Less stuff = Less Stress & more time with family. Love this! We Americans can learn a lot from your video. 💗
@EllyKallan
@EllyKallan 7 жыл бұрын
such great parents!!!! I am so proud of you. you sacrifice for your children. well done! simplicity is the key to a better life.
@Fulltinyhouse
@Fulltinyhouse 6 жыл бұрын
We are a family of 5, living in our RV... Half that space, actually less. And our kids are bigger. It's definitely a new way of life, getting used to, but we have a different backyard every week and get to see this beautiful country. Best of luck on living tiny :) We love it!
@AmythefirstA
@AmythefirstA 6 жыл бұрын
They look pretty comfortable in their apartment. The parents can even sleep separately from the kids! Very clever to put their bed in the living room.
@uncagedlearning
@uncagedlearning 8 жыл бұрын
This is inspirational. To those who are repeatedly saying, "Wait till they become teenagers and it'll all go downhill", that's not necessarily true. It's all about how you RAISE your kids. More than likely, if they are homeschooled, have manners, and get used to being happy with just what they have, they won't grow up to be the spoiled, bratty, ungrateful public school teens that we see today. They will appreciate being with their families more than those who have their own rooms, with their headphones on all the time and their doors locked, blocking out family. I have seen a lot more families in this position, or even living in RVs full time, mostly because they chose to downsize have fullfilled, happier lifestyles than those with all the amenities in the world. Full time RVers have a ton of kids that range from ages 18 and below, and those teens are happy because the world is their 'room'. They're not confined to that one RV, anyway, so what's there to be unhappy about? It's all about how you raise your child and what values you instill in them, NOT how bedrooms you can afford. ;) #dropsmic
@mumof4monkeysthomas359
@mumof4monkeysthomas359 8 жыл бұрын
Your comment makes so much sense. We were told the same and our eldest is 12 and so far so good. He wants to share a space with his siblings and is more focused on being outdoors and school than his own space.
@uncagedlearning
@uncagedlearning 8 жыл бұрын
Mumof4monkeys Thomas That's awesome! That's what matters. Wholesome family time. We have 4 kiddos too and that's what we're instilling in them. We have a tiny place and although it can be burdensome, I'd rather not have them all in separate rooms all the time. My oldest is only 7. lol
@kyratompsett4409
@kyratompsett4409 7 жыл бұрын
My family is in a similar situation. My brothers share one room, (12 and 19), my mom has the small room with her stuff and mine and I have my hide a bed in the living room. 725 sq ft total. It's perfect because my mom is physically disabled, and my brother and I are each only three miles from our works. So, if mom is having issues or an emergency crops up, we can get home really quickly without having to fight traffic or hit the highways at all. We'd like to expand sometime in the near future so I can have a room, too, but I'm not in a big rush. I really love minimalism. It drives my mom insane when I get rid of things, but she's really coming around to the idea of not holding on to things we don't really need. I consider myself lucky that we don't have little kids living with us, as I can imagine it can get pretty chaotic. Kudos to this family for getting their priorities straight and doing what's best for them.
@kucibaba
@kucibaba 8 жыл бұрын
5 People in two rooms? That is a lot of space. In Poland many people live 6 or 7 in even smaller apartments.
@dagooglenet
@dagooglenet 8 жыл бұрын
+kucibaba2 Yeah, it was the same in Soviet Union most of the apartments was even smaller. Did not really care since we were playing outside most of the day. No computers, internet or any video game consoles. We were happy :)
@freegurl76
@freegurl76 8 жыл бұрын
+dagooglenet Thank you for saying this...when I was a kid back in the 70s we were taught to play outside and not remain indoors unless it was a meal time or bedtime. That's why Americans are so claustrophobic now and unhealthy. Most Americans want to live in huge homes to get away from each other and to play on electronic devices. That's why you hear us saying ignorant statements about 900 Sq feet being too small for a family and or you see them killing their parents. No family values or closeness!
@aarulf
@aarulf 8 жыл бұрын
I like having privacy. I hate having to be around people all the time. I just need some time to myself. Did you ever consider that there are people who need time away from people?
@freegurl76
@freegurl76 8 жыл бұрын
Alex Arulf I guess if you see your family as just "people." I guess I am not bothered with being around ppl since my career is centered around just that...people, I am from a really close knit family, and I have an 18 month old so you will get no privacy with that age. Sorry I don't understand wanting to be away from my family/kids bc I enjoy being with them. Some ppl are like you and do like to seclude themselves...That's not my personality.
@Ikwigsjoyful
@Ikwigsjoyful 8 жыл бұрын
+Alex Arulf I like having privacy too. I am a very traditional introvert; in order to be healthy and functional I need time without other people around (even my family, though I love them). But I live in an old house under renovation, so at any given point there may be only two or three small rooms available for living space. So you learn how to make that alone time for yourself. I'm a morning person, so I get up at 5am and have two blissful hours alone. I make time for hikes by myself. We all take turns when there are events that multiple people are going to, so that at least one member of the family gets to stay home and have the house to his or herself. There are plenty of ways to have time to yourself when you're living in a small space with other people!
@Julia-rq7uj
@Julia-rq7uj 6 жыл бұрын
i think it's really cozy actually, it's like a family really living together. I think I would enjoy environment like this if i was a little kid (younger than 9). I generally liked smaller spaces when i was small, and it really made me enjoy privacy when i got it.
@niebieskimotyl3308
@niebieskimotyl3308 8 жыл бұрын
This is nothing uncommon in Poland for families to live in such arrangements. A friend of mine was raised in 30 square meters (322 feet), one room with 3 siblings.
@narujan6217
@narujan6217 5 жыл бұрын
I grew up with eight siblings in a two bedroom house. We are all very close and I attribute this to how we grew up without much but with each other .
@starstruck522
@starstruck522 8 жыл бұрын
What a lovely family and home. The mom is very neat and organised.
@brih7693
@brih7693 6 жыл бұрын
this made me feel better. i can only afford a 1 bedroom apartment for my family of 4. i also have a special needs son with autism ... this video helped me look on the bright side of having a small space thanks
@marshalljimduncan
@marshalljimduncan 8 жыл бұрын
4:28 Love the view out the window!
@clFer777
@clFer777 6 жыл бұрын
Being a father of an autistic boy, with every single mentioned situation, this video it's very helpful.. and hopeful
@AC-pq1cd
@AC-pq1cd 8 жыл бұрын
It's true you really don't need much more than love, food, and shelter to survive. I sometimes watch KZbin videos and am shocked at the amount of things people have these days but probably do not use.
@geniemeadows5122
@geniemeadows5122 8 жыл бұрын
Yeah I hear you but we don't have a garden shed so we have all stuff inside everywhere ...people need a ladder, tools, (garden stuff to but we have a place outside for small things)......kitchen stuff, clothes dryer, laundry baskets, beds, storage of some sort, heaps of everyday things so often they do use those things if they own a home. I do love the uncluttered look though if humanly possible (doesn't seem so often in our case with a tiny place)! There are lots of things we do need inside that I reach for on a regular basis.
@Дияна-ы9х
@Дияна-ы9х 5 жыл бұрын
What a lovley family! They have but the right priorities in the right places!
@saotree4711
@saotree4711 8 жыл бұрын
Very inspiring :) I too lived in a small space with young children - two children having autism. We too fundraised :) we fundraised to travel from England to Mass, US to the Option Institute to do the Son-Rise programme. You may have heard of it? It was massively successful for both my sons who are now all grown up having been to college and now working. I admire you putting your kids first and living the way you do gives you so many blessings many of which you'll count in hindsight I'm sure. Wishing you and your beautiful family continued happy and meaningful times together. God bless you :)
@alextorres990
@alextorres990 6 жыл бұрын
We are a family of 4 in a 1 bedroom. We converted our huge walk in closet into a cute play room for the kids (It's 6 by 11 feet so it's basically another room). We co-sleep so we save a lot of space by not having 3 different beds, plus our kiddos are still small and love sleeping with mama and papa. All of our clothes fit into our hallway closet and it's really nice being so physically close to each other.
@suzzer123sham
@suzzer123sham 8 жыл бұрын
If you got a sofa bed instead of a sofa and bed in your living space you would again gain more space x
@suzzer123sham
@suzzer123sham 8 жыл бұрын
so you have a bed and sofa in one .
@veer49
@veer49 8 жыл бұрын
but you would have to make sure your kids are always very clean and don't eat anything on the sofa, cause you don't want to find food/crumbs in your bed. I think I'd prefer having a separate sofa and bed.
@jamesbriggs5740
@jamesbriggs5740 6 жыл бұрын
Sofa beds are not comfortable for long term use. I speak from experience. Kathy B.
@rissyriss4985
@rissyriss4985 2 жыл бұрын
I love this good for them!!! I live in Honolulu, HI where housing prices have always and continue to be out of control. I live in a 500SF townhouse one bedroom and one bathroom with my husband, a toddler and a new baby. You have to think of what’s important to you, a large space with a high mortgage or a smaller space and more financial freedom.
@omfug7148
@omfug7148 8 жыл бұрын
I grew up in a small 2 bedroom, one bath home with 7 people, LOL, it is doable.
@catherineleary9462
@catherineleary9462 6 жыл бұрын
omfug Exactly the same here 👋! I slept in my baby bed for a long time because there was no place else to go😊
@silvermoonluna5844
@silvermoonluna5844 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah but was it comfortable? Lol 😆
@_innerpeacekeeper
@_innerpeacekeeper 8 жыл бұрын
What a lovely family, my best wishes to them and their adorable kids.
@MzCrayKray
@MzCrayKray 8 жыл бұрын
Everyone keeps saying "Oh, but wait until they're older." This is what the family has to do to make things work in their life. If the children grow older they will have to live with it and make do. It looks to me that they are creating a loving and rewarding atmosphere for their family regardless of the space they have. They are going to have to find a way to be intimate as well which I'm sure is not a problem. Yall are worried about the wrong things. They downsized to save money and be closer to the things they need. I'm in a similar situation with my own small space except I'm a single mother. I would love a bigger space but for now we have to be happy and make do with what we have. And some people don't have a place at all so if we are still in this small space as my child gets older. Sorry kiddo. Such is life. It could be worse.
@Ikwigsjoyful
@Ikwigsjoyful 8 жыл бұрын
People are always seeming to forget that for generations of people, a family living in a one or two-room dwelling was the norm. Extra space is nice, but it's really more necessary for having stuff, than it is for having a healthy and happy family.
@MzCrayKray
@MzCrayKray 8 жыл бұрын
Ikwigsjoyful Exactly.
@averychampion6927
@averychampion6927 8 жыл бұрын
No it's not really necessary, but I feel like overall space and privacy is important in family relations. My parents didn't deprive me of my own space as a kid but they did fill it with their own junk and never let me decorate or really have my stuff in my room. (Mom's a hoarder) I felt cheated of a childhood as I got older, especially seeing other kids with rooms full of their own stuff, and I gauruntee you these ones will too.
@averychampion6927
@averychampion6927 8 жыл бұрын
I don't think you should have children if you can't give them their own space to grow up in. And if you're only doing it to make them grateful? Yeah, good luck. Kids aren't grateful. You chose them. They didn't choose you. They'll spend your money and break your heart and whine about everything. And doing this? I gauruntee you it'll just make them grateful to be out on their own far away from you for the most part.
@aliendruglord
@aliendruglord 8 жыл бұрын
IF the children grow older lol I sure hope they do!
@sharlaamysamuel
@sharlaamysamuel 6 жыл бұрын
What a lovely family. I can relate to this video as I live with my husband and two young children in a one bedroom flat. I have really learned the value of having less and creating space.
@Homeschooltogo
@Homeschooltogo 8 жыл бұрын
What an inspirational video and family! Thanks for sharing.
@ExploringAlternatives
@ExploringAlternatives 8 жыл бұрын
+Two moms and baby…maybe Thanks for watching, happy you enjoyed it :)
@ilubbov
@ilubbov 7 жыл бұрын
Great! Good for them! Lucky they found such convenient building and place Not that small, actually
@schlottlott
@schlottlott 8 жыл бұрын
Where I come from we have a health insurance that covers therapy and costs like nothing.. Glad to be german 😇 anyways, respect to the family for dealing with the situation as good as possible
@shantedewise7345
@shantedewise7345 3 ай бұрын
I live in a one bedroom with my daughter, my living room is like a studio for myself and my daughter has the bedroom! I have made it very comfortable and nice on a budget for us!!
@mpiazza000
@mpiazza000 7 жыл бұрын
in hong kong, family of 5 in 600ft is a luxury
@bleeridley3887
@bleeridley3887 8 жыл бұрын
I also live in a one bedroom with my 2 daughters and 2 grandbabies. It's ok. I lost my job and had to down size. my youngest child has breast tumors. So I admire you two. Keep up the good job. Prayer everyday and Read your Bible dally draw close to God and he will draw close to you.
@Britzim22
@Britzim22 8 жыл бұрын
basically just a normal life for people in the Netherlands oO
@tonysoprano6265
@tonysoprano6265 3 жыл бұрын
Love this! You gave me great perspective thinking of downsizing due to financial times and can’t afford home. It sucks but I know how much I can save and can provide more for my kids and save more so that we as a family will have a better future!
@giaalvarado2063
@giaalvarado2063 8 жыл бұрын
this is amazing. I'm so glad there are still people out there that aren't materialistic.
@avuncular300
@avuncular300 8 жыл бұрын
I was brought down to earth from high falutin' ideas about my life. The couple has a positive slant on life that I really envy. Good luck to their progress through life !
@littleblondemop
@littleblondemop 8 жыл бұрын
I have to say this was fun to watch. You keep the small place pretty nice. I'm not sure this arrangement would when the kids are older, but while they're small. Sounds like you take advantage of places that are around you and you're not at home all day all the time.
@jamjamb123
@jamjamb123 8 жыл бұрын
It can easily work when they are older
@nicolcacola
@nicolcacola 8 жыл бұрын
+priscilla L Lol well that's a definitely a matter of experience and opinion. My family lived this way until my kids were 12, 8 and 3..it got much harder as the kids got older because less room and less personal space for the older children. We moved to a bigger place, while less cost efficent, but we're all alot happier. So from my experience, it will be more difficult when the kids get older.
@jamjamb123
@jamjamb123 8 жыл бұрын
+Nikki H me and my brother always shared a tiny room. people need to remember if kids need space they can go outside and play. i have a 3 bedroom house and 90 percent of the time my kids camp out in each others rooms
@nicolcacola
@nicolcacola 8 жыл бұрын
priscilla L Yes it wouldn't have worked any other way lol. I have all girls and they do get along, but the extra space has given that extra peace in our house at least.
@freegurl76
@freegurl76 8 жыл бұрын
+Nikki H They don't get along! Extra space is needed when your kids fight like cats and dogs...and you are too cowardly as a parent to put your foot down when they argue. Tell the truth and shame the devil...😒
@ihavefelines2699
@ihavefelines2699 6 жыл бұрын
Very cozy! I’d love a family life like this! Those kids are going to be well rounded, loving and appreciative of the things they have type of adults . They will put more value on life than material items. 😊 Way to go! Especially as young parents . Very selfless ☺️
@LenusichkaLena16
@LenusichkaLena16 8 жыл бұрын
Most people in my country live like that, the only thing is that 1 bedroom appartment in our country is a small kitchen (no living room area at all, just like that white kitchen area in their apartment) and one semi-large room. That's it.
@bluesky5384
@bluesky5384 3 жыл бұрын
I know in my complex my lease prohibits that many people in their one bedroom units. That's great they're making it work and are able to!
@stapleboss
@stapleboss 8 жыл бұрын
I know people who live like this but they aren't minimalists, they're poor.
@katherinekier
@katherinekier 8 жыл бұрын
+J'avail Haltom I feel that wholeheartedly.
@msteach3082
@msteach3082 7 жыл бұрын
Yup!
@chicagogyrl7849
@chicagogyrl7849 6 жыл бұрын
They are strapped for cash. They have a go fund me begger page. Why not a 2 or 3 bedroom apartment? I love how poor people say "We are minimalist", to try to cover up the fact. Best comment!
@tansywoods8947
@tansywoods8947 6 жыл бұрын
stapleboss Also,they only talk about 1 of the children, although they have 3. Kinda feel bad for the other 2. Siblings of special needs children are usually overlooked.
@takchengsze4719
@takchengsze4719 5 жыл бұрын
I probably would only have one child if I were poor.
@haniahmed7534
@haniahmed7534 Ай бұрын
What a wise parents doing all of that for their child amazing 👍🏾
@squidthing
@squidthing 8 жыл бұрын
Poverty is called minimalism now? Interesting. Also, I guess the upside to this living situation is that as soon as the kids become teenagers they will be absolutely fed up with the utter lack of privacy and will join the work force early in order to save up and move out as soon as they hit 18. I can't imagine dealing with the stress of living with an AS sibling and not even having a quiet, private place to decompress.
@vivianp5962
@vivianp5962 8 жыл бұрын
you are right. this is way it goes. I know, my childhood & siblings went exactly like what you said. I was literally outta the house at 12 yr. old, sisters and brother , same. it's on paper, official documents we all split from the house hold. absolutely no privacy! I don't have roommates, nor is anyone allowed to come to my place. I'm 42, now. so being coup up, is not the idea child hood. bravo, to those who survived, though.
@jamjamb123
@jamjamb123 8 жыл бұрын
Sounds like typical spoiled american and canadian kids. If they dont like it then be my guest and get a job. And poverty eh ? They don't look poor at all. Do you ever stop and think she stoped working so she can be home with the boy because he has a mental condition. Smh
@vivianp5962
@vivianp5962 8 жыл бұрын
+priscilla L there's no such thing as mental conditions or mental illnesses. look it up, doctor's MD, etc. don't really accept the psychology department as real issues, they are kinda forced to use them, kinda like chiropractic's aren't really accepted either. science doesn't know how the Braun really works, there for it can't be measured (chemicals, nurons, hormons, parts/functions ,etc) they admit it. so, US doctor's don't really like the psychology department, they just tolerate counselors & the med's. look at the fine print the in the med bottle " the pharmaceutical THINK these med's can do x,y,z,etc) kinda scared. I've worked extensively in public/private schools, drug rehabs, & with psycho therapist. NO MENTAL ILLNESSES.
@geekygirl2596
@geekygirl2596 6 жыл бұрын
Lyanna Mormont 2016 they have a gym and pool downstairs. They probably aren't in poverty exactly. There rent is probably a fairly nice sum of money and they probably are trying to be frugal and save money because they aren't rich either. You can be poor and not be in poverty. I live on section 8 in MN and if I want to go to the gym... I can't. Walking to and from the groceries store (I'm usually too embarrassed and self consious to go to the food shelf) is my excersize. The pool? I have my choice if a very polluted lake that opened two years ago after being closed for 30 due to unsafe levels of a plethora of chemicals, algae, and other things resulting from runoff or the pool at the YMCA three miles away that regularly causes people to get sick and no one bothers to do anything about it. I walk to the groceries store because I enjoy it but I don't swim because I can't due to personal safety standards. If I could live like they do idk if I'd consider myself rich but I wouldn't be complaining about my situation either. That being said I'm not complaining now either. I could very easily be homeless right now.
@dragonflywings1234
@dragonflywings1234 6 ай бұрын
Hi how’s this family doing today? Such a precious family❤
@kiarataylor8380
@kiarataylor8380 8 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this video! My husband and I are in a similar situation with our 2 sons. This was really motivating to see that we are not alone :)
@ninadabro6633
@ninadabro6633 7 жыл бұрын
Small house with lots of love 😍😍😍 my parents decided to moved into a one bedroom unit so me and my brother shared a room.. now I'm married I do miss that family time with my parents and brother 🙂🙂🙂 kids never grow up way too fast we've learn to appreciate a little things in life..debts free is a plus and no student loans 💪🏻💪🏻
@vincentdeguard4726
@vincentdeguard4726 8 жыл бұрын
Sometimes having less means one has more...less "stuff" but more smiles.
@Cynnas
@Cynnas 7 жыл бұрын
My mother grew up in New York City during the 1940's-60's in a two bedroom apartment and her family of 8 (6 kids, 2 adults). My father did the same with his family of 7. It wasn't an issue as it was what everyone they knew did.
@jocelynelangis777
@jocelynelangis777 8 жыл бұрын
Here is a very interesting way of living, It it takes some guts but this is the solution not just for them. Love the music and the subject.
@linguinepast3743
@linguinepast3743 5 жыл бұрын
Smart couple. Good job guys. This works bc you are incredibly organized and your kids are still small. I really appreciate your way of thinking though. Really connected and intelligent.
@Lotus3six9
@Lotus3six9 8 жыл бұрын
Just do what makes you happy! We are free to choose the kind of lifestyle that we want. 😀
@bridgetthewench
@bridgetthewench 8 жыл бұрын
I'm frankly in awe because in my state, a family of 5 in a 1-bedroom isn't even legal, you're allowed to have no more than 2 people per bedroom, which is frankly ridiculous.
@Carrotless_
@Carrotless_ 8 жыл бұрын
what state do you live in ? that sounds crazy
@bridgetthewench
@bridgetthewench 8 жыл бұрын
Jasminn Navarroo Iowa.
@TexasbyStorm
@TexasbyStorm 6 жыл бұрын
bridgetthewench in Texas its that way, unless the 3rd person is less than 12 months old.
@TexasbyStorm
@TexasbyStorm 6 жыл бұрын
That's only in rentals and condos with home owner restrictions. In stand alone homes you can do what you want, as long as you own the home.
@agirlnamedhunter
@agirlnamedhunter 8 жыл бұрын
Good for them making the most out of the space they have. If it works for them that is all that matters. :)
@geniemeadows5122
@geniemeadows5122 8 жыл бұрын
Our sitting room and kitchen are combined and all I can fit in the sitting room are 2 couches and a coffee table that's it. This is a big place compared to our place and you are blessed to have built in cupboards we don't. A car is a big expense for many, so riding a bike is good. Access to a swimming pool = very cool. Our kitchen would be the same size. I would love that hall storage. If this is small in Canada (and for USA) heck big must mean enormous. (Well done to the dad for taking his son for walks).
@viktoriavestalin106
@viktoriavestalin106 8 жыл бұрын
People overseas really don't know what small is
@rjacobo5297
@rjacobo5297 7 жыл бұрын
Looks very comfy and cozy
@altozoprano7482
@altozoprano7482 8 жыл бұрын
oh , their home is way bigger than ours , maybe half of it ... we are family of 6 ... still we are living in the same home for over 30years , we managed so they will 😊😊😊
@Buttefliesandrainbows
@Buttefliesandrainbows 5 жыл бұрын
Useek-sik Adventures you’re a family of 6 living in less than two rooms?!
@sopheadutch6350
@sopheadutch6350 5 жыл бұрын
Omg, I love this couple! #goal! Keep going guys! You guys are an example & with Jacob, you guys are super parents👍
@cherylhenson2720
@cherylhenson2720 8 жыл бұрын
Great parents! A+ for you. I believe in you & your choice. Rewards are later when your son grows up. ;)
@patriciaking7892
@patriciaking7892 4 жыл бұрын
You guys and your home is so alive and adorable ❤️. Stay Blessed 💘.
@jennybanana2296
@jennybanana2296 8 жыл бұрын
Such an admirable, lovely family! Thanks for sharing!
@sharonkambale6211
@sharonkambale6211 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video it helps so much.
@wawalcdiva13
@wawalcdiva13 8 жыл бұрын
Some peoples comments on here Smh... This channel is called exploring alternatives... Maybe it's not the channel that's not alternative enough, maybe it's your thinking. Each and every person has the right to define their own environment of alternative living as it means to them... Broaden ur minds and hearts naysayers and trolls... Sry had 2 cents to put it in was bugging me... Rant done
@zilazilazila
@zilazilazila 7 жыл бұрын
ThriftyBossBabe While I somewhat agree with your comment, others are allowed to state their own opinions. Maybe you should explore alternative opinions instead of thinking you’re the only one who is open minded.
@TexasbyStorm
@TexasbyStorm 6 жыл бұрын
Jo Co isn't it ironic. Lol
@FentyNavi
@FentyNavi 7 жыл бұрын
We've fit 7-8 in a 2 bedroom for saving purposes too. Only tip is to have a small wardrobe because of low storage with that number of people
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