Farmer's Wife Found Welded in Anhydrous Ammonia Tank | Dee Ann Warner Case Analysis

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[@c.r.k.7162]

When dealing with a dangerous partner, you have no obligation to end the relationship in person at all. Just leave without warning. A professional can serve the divorce papers, no need to endanger yourself or others.

[@rozannaedwro934]

Great advice I am shocked more people don’t do this.

[@barbedwire_lace2160]

@c.r.k.7162, unfortunately, Dale and Dee shared a home, businesses, their office was on said property, and a 9 year old daughter. It isn't always easy to distance yourself. Dale was facing bankruptcy while Dee's businesses were lucrative. Part of the problem was that she was no longer willing to put money into his failures.

[@c.r.k.7162]

@@barbedwire_lace2160 the daughter is the only thing I see risking your life for 🤷🏼‍♀️. I would think an attorney could handle the rest, and you can't run a business from the grave anyway.

[@NalaRichenbach]

Same thing happened to Dorothy Stratton. She should have never gone over there.

[@ovin3912]

People are really underestimating their so-called husbands and wives. Many really don't know who they are dealing with and are in perpetual danger

[@traildoggy]

I hope my life never sinks to the point where the doctor feels the need to comment on my welding skills.

[@Smachfest]

Poor welding is a crime in and of it's self. Teflon Welding is inexcusable and has no defence.

[@MK-jc9ov]

😂😂😂

[@SalisburySnake]

The only thing that burns more than a hot spark down your collar is getting dissed by Dr. G.

[@BrittMFH]

😂

[@RichardGofourth]

Dr g😂😂😂😂😂

[@lusomarga]

"left the wedding ring to start a new life" - instant Chris Watts flashbacks

[@Hollypenopepper]

Oh give me a break. Chris Watts didn't divorce his wife to start a new life. He killed her. You missed that one. 😅

[@aaeston]

@@HollypenopepperChris “found” her wedding ring in their bedroom while cops were searching

[@mafinalmessagechangedaworl7131]

@@HollypenopepperChris when meeting with the other women was stated to have never worn his wedding ring when talking to the mistress

[@margaretr5701]

The tank, also brought Chris Watt vibes.

[@willywokeup9112]

Your right, he didnt have the balls to do that

[@lindalumae]

If you begin a relationship by being unfaithful, you will always wonder if it will end the same way.

[@SerendipityChild]

If you're in any relationship there is a risk of cheating

[@kruelunusual6242]

That’s why it’s best not to marry or cohabitate in the west….and certainly vet anyone your considering for anything serious..

[@SerendipityChild]

@@kruelunusual6242 "in the west"? Domestic violence isn't exclusive to the west

[@immar1075]

​@@kruelunusual6242"In the West"???? I hate to tell you this but cheaters are EVERYWHERE. They know no bounds.

[@dallynutkat3252]

True, but you probably don't wonder if you will be brutally murdered 😮

[@wigglebolt4079]

“She probably went to San Francisco or Jamaica”…why not throw in Istanbul while you’re at it lol

[@stephenmorton8017]

Maybe a new life in Cleveland?

[@Timefortracy]

lol then adds Mexico and Australia for good measure 🤣

[@dawicked2k8]

I think she went to Antarctica you know?

[@robertmurphy3014]

Constantinople

[@deescott8312]

😂

[@petercofrancesco9812]

The moral of the story, if your husband asks you to help him weld an Anhydrous Ammonia Tank... Run! 🙃

[@dumbbuckets2668]

Some of us just like ammonia.

[@testingmysoup5678]

Other moral of the story if you cheat with someone who's also cheating neither of you may be very bright and don't be surprised if one of both of you are bad people

[@Cazador60140]

Dale should take Welding 101

[@rosebelle3148]

@@testingmysoup5678. Yep.

[@ArleneElliott-ox3yg]

⁰​@@testingmysoup5678

[@PinkPudding-eo9wv]

When a woman feels that someone might be dangerous, she should always take that feeling seriously and avoid being alone with that person.

[@rodterrell304]

Or a man, not just a women. If ANYONE feels that way.

[@PinkPudding-eo9wv]

@@rodterrell304 Of course, a man too! Thank you. And even if scared people are told they, be it female or male, are paranoid, they should always trust their instincts.

[@BlairWilliams2181]

@@rodterrell304 Not really, more so with women. Besides, men will always be stronger and more dominant than women. This is more common problem with women.

[@robynholliday1150]

​@rodterrell304 femicide being a global issue, lends it to being a bigger issue for women

[@Artoconnell]

If Women made rational decisions about mating, Mankind would have gone extinct long ago.

[@wendyhenschel.]

I have been following this since she was reported missing. Dee had her own business and it was extremely successful. Dale had his own business and it was hard up for money. Bankruptcy hard up. the day after she was reported missing he and his right-hand man committed fraud and took all the funds from her business and transferred them to his business. When she went missing only her blow dryer was missing. License, passport, keys, cash, credit cards, car etc. all remained behind with her wedding ring. We all knew he killed her. He threatened and intimidated people who came forward to speak against him and his constant abuse against her. He was arrested for the fraud charges first.

[@marijo1951]

I'm in England and had never heard of this case before. Thank you for filling in some extra details, which make it even more surprising to me that the police didn't arrest him earlier.

[@barbedwire_lace2160]

​@marijo1951 The Interview Room channel has been there from the start. Chris has done many programs with Billy Little on Dee's case. Both are extremely smart but credit her family with pushing and never giving up to keeping her case open. By the way 🤔 I thought it was the curling iron Dale said she took. I feel so bad for the daughter they share. 😢

[@Amanda-if1wn]

Wow did he seduce her because she was a cash cow?

[@wendyhenschel.]

@@barbedwire_lace2160 yes, i have been following Chris since he was a regular on Profiling Evil with Mike

[@MissDarlaDeville]

So sad, rip

[@claremizusawa]

This is local to me and I'm glad to see it being covered here. There have been signs up everywhere. I actually only became aware of it because I saw a poster in someone's car that said, "WHERE IS SHE, DALE?" and looked into it. It kind of seemed like nothing really started moving until her family went to probate court to have her will executed/have her declared dead. Then they waited until Dale tried to sell something that they were awarded in the will and, boom, he was arrested like a month later.

[@cohenlabe1]

So what do the locals think?

[@dirtyjersey4672]

If Dale would have buried that tank he might have gotten away with it.

[@claremizusawa]

@@cohenlabe1Despite Dale’s lawyer (I assume) having him put up billboards that say, “Help Dale Find Dee”, (🙄) pretty much everyone has believed he did it this entire time lol. And, to be honest, the billboards were the most awkward thing. Even in the billboard picture, which was taken when Dee was alive… Dale somehow looks guilty as hell, just awkwardly staring into the middle distance. It’s worth googling to see the billboard because it’s bizarre.

[@cohenlabe1]

@@claremizusawa thank you, I appreciate the insight and I would Google it

[@MoreCoffeePlease.]

@@claremizusawa His pondering of where she may be, including with a man with more more than him, was an instant red flag for me. Your wife is missing and you’re contemptuous AF about her potential whereabouts? Thinking of her loved ones; these past years must have been unbearable.

[@adude9882]

I'm a simple person. I don't have any property or money and I'm getting old. I have a job right now. I was looking at those aerial photos of those magnificent houses, by the standards of my country, the UK, they are size of small palaces, farm complexes and what have you. Seems these people also had businesses in addition to the farms. The mechanism by which people acquire what seems to me fabulous wealth is a total mystery to me. I think I'll die never knowing, like a child. Then again I never murdered anyone for my own convenience or out of annoyance. It's a world of mystery to me.

[@Hatbox948]

That's why real American's ancestors left the UK and came to the USA. To prosper and have liberty. Some people don't appreciate it.

[@anneleeuwen2105]

​@Hatbox948 BS very few people left the UK for the USA

[@Hatbox948]

@@anneleeuwen2105 Oh brother.

[@azulgaia7782]

Both countries have a shrinking middle class. The 1% and investor classes own and run everything. Successful middle class live well, like this businesswoman did. Then there’s the majority of the middle class who won’t exist in 30 years. Our children will join the ranks of the needy, no savings, in debt and barely affording rent. A farmer doing well in either country these days is rare.

[@ADAPTATION7]

Success leaves traces.

[@kenn1936]

The most dangerous time in a relationship is when you tell the person you are leaving!!! Why do people still choose to do this alone!! pick up their belongings ALONE, meet the person they plan to leave, ALONE. Worst mistake ever.

[@brokenangel2224]

Sadly, Last mistake ever.

[@meliss9536]

You’ve probably never been there

[@Hap_Shaughessy]

Probably because people don't want to involve others in their problems especially relationship problems. Either because of embarrassment or not wanting to put your friends and family in the middle of a screaming match back and forth. I can only assume.

[@NokiaTablet-pl7vt]

lol. I helped my ex move. Most people split as friends.

[@GorgyPorgy65]

@@NokiaTablet-pl7vt Most people don't. Count yourself one of a rarity. The may not part as enemies but they most certainly do not split as friends. A good % are devastated.

[@masudashizue777]

If this is the result of a fight "that wasn't so bad," I would hate to see the result of a truly horrible fight.

[@need-to-know-]

Am I wrong for laughing myself silly at this comment?

[@byroni13]

😂

[@puretiger3959]

⁠​⁠@@need-to-know- Ummmm… yes !!

[@6Haunted-Days]

Buuut he said it was the worse fight of his life. Where you get that he said it was no big deal?

[@need-to-know-]

@@6Haunted-Days Did you not hear the part where he changed his story?

[@OfficialYouTubeModerator]

"He's dangerous, like those wife killers on Dateline dangerous." "Oh, so when are you going to tell him about the divorce?" "At midnight when we're home alone and no one's around." 😱😱😱💀💀☠️☠️☠️👻👻👻

[@raaaaaaarr]

Omg lmao... This comment and the scared to dead to grave to ghost emojis got me. The ghosties look so happy! See, all was not lost

[@johnglad5]

I was unfortunately laughing at the stream of emojii. They alone told a story.

[@kchilz32]

She probably said “ on a second thought, I could be famous and be apart of dateline”

[@bonnietoups2446]

Cheating is ALWAYS a red flag on the character of those doing it. Toxic way to start a relationship & often the way that relationship will end.

[@gazXspace]

Do we detect bitterness in that tone 🤔

[@Broken_robot1986]

They obviously didn't have a problem cheating, they both left their previous spouses, so that red flag wasn't too important to her. It's possible that a healthy marriage could have been formed. For me the bigger red flag is being wealthy.

[@bonnietoups2446]

@@gazXspace do we detect a cheater deflecting?🤣

[@bonnietoups2446]

@@Broken_robot1986 no, character is the deciding factor. If you’re an ethical person you’ll be honest whether you’re rich or poor.

It's a good way to get a quick divorce though. A cheating husband in my state of Arkansas only has to wait 30 to 45 days to get a divorce, but a faithful one has to wait 18 months. I know because I'm currently waiting 18 months.

[@Catherinzsl]

"... only speculating about what could be happening in a situation like this." I really, really hope there aren't a lot of situations like someone being welded in an anhydrous ammonia tank.

[@arkansastrey9694]

Ud be suprised

[@averychilco]

The money he would have saved on the divorce, he now has to pay for a murder trial. The lawyers are always going to win.

[@Not_sure5]

He should have wife do the analysis video. Dr. Grande presented by Mrs. Grande.

[@Duendito]

@@averychilco yeah, I was thinking, he’s either the jealous type, or a deadbeat.

[@Surannhealz]

With any luck this is how Joe Scarborough and Mika Brzezinski will end up. They already got the cheating on and divorcing their previous spouses part. And Joe does have experience with dead women.

[@lastpme]

His first wife had to be happy that their marriage ended in divorce vs murder.

[@jameshunt9208]

Did his first wife cheat?

[@chadm9715]

​​@@jameshunt9208If she had, would've that been a justified murder? Kind of an odd question.

[@Barefoot433]

@@chadm9715 Comprehension is important. He is not saying it would have been justified, only that it might have been the worse of the two outcomes had she cheated It is not odd, it is plausible. Reading Is Fundamental.

[@boomer1049]

​@@jameshunt9208He cheated on his first wife😂😂😂😂

[@jameshunt9208]

@@Barefoot433 Indeed

[@Oldbroad1]

Yeah, he gave her a massage… with his strong farmer hands right around her neck. just speculating.

[@intentionallyleftblank3016]

🎯💯‼️

[@melanieb2132]

A lie is often parallel with the truth. A good liar tells most of the truth, but throws in a lie effortlessly. Enuendo is apparent what "massage" meant.

[@Dan-xx5jq]

yes...he wasn't exactly lying and could beat the lie detection machine.

[@adriennebraxton-oq9iu]

Correct...... until fell asleep!

[@go_off_Sis]

💯☝🏽My suspicion exactly

[@computarman]

It's strange how she knew her husband could be unhinged and was afraid of him but she hit him with her announcement of divorce in person and alone.

[@marijo1951]

This is one of those classic mistakes that women often make. Of course it could be that she was so riled up with him that she blurted it out prematurely.

[@margaretr5701]

It's possible she didn't expect to be murdered for wanting a divorce. Most people don't.

[@reginayfavors]

Exactly. Move in silence.

[@user-nv1cb3cv3t]

Sounds like she made a horrible mistake

[@jenniferhejhal4101]

Well as he said she wanted more She had a good man and cheated that's where the tracking device comesin . Nothing good would ever come out of a cheating relationship. May she RIP .

[@janeyrevanescence12]

We came for the analysis. We stayed for the deadpan snarking.

[@Ann.Hedonia]

😂😂😂😂

[@Hbizz813]

He’s great at that 😅

[@tumslucks9781]

Not snarking! Just a humorous observation!

[@briandonovan5434]

In deadpan we trust

[@margaretr5701]

The latter is not my favourite part. Not sure when it started, possibly when his audience expanded.

[@2101case]

Notice how many of these cases start with we had an argument, I didn't touch her, but she suddenly left without warning.

[@edwardsanchez3708]

Everytime I had a argument with a lady friend I just got up and left to another lady usual without a word

[@misterdinkly]

And usually a history of cheating too

[@francinemiranda8409]

Thought the exact same thing. 😢

[@Leeski-337]

Horrific murder aside, that is one picturesque lookin' farm. Very nice.

[@naturalroyalflush]

Agreed. It’s picture perfect.

[@karenteten5946]

That was my 1st thought also.

[@justinejustice_league1857]

Its beautiful but it gives me Alex Murdaugh's Moselle Estate vibes. A lot money but too many shady dealings under the surface.

[@ADAPTATION7]

It's huge.

[@TheGoodkilo]

Buy it cheap

[@esteban1487]

cheaters who marry each other. 🤦‍♂️

[@Brianfailedgot2keepontruckin]

I know right! What's funny is they always seem so shocked when it doesn't work out lol. It's like, you are both willing to lie and cheat on your significant other. What are the odds neither of those things are going to happen THIS time.

[@Flamsterette]

Oh well.

[@GimmeAll-u8p]

You and i both know everything was relatively fine until SHE cheated.

[@ennuiincarnate]

​@@GimmeAll-u8p Tell the class, are you in favor of mandatory paternity testing of all children? Seems like a good idea to me, but it's always women adamantly against it. 🤔

[@GimmeAll-u8p]

@@ennuiincarnate Yes. The man should have the right to know if he’s the father.

[@jona_KardCiv1]

Stories like this only validate my single life.

[@dianadoraen7864]

It was kinda creepy from the start. Two cheaters found each other, one was more psychotic than the other... the rest is history

[@TeeHeejab]

I know that’s right.

[@holisticcatalyst]

Yup, peace quiet and freedom.

[@kruelunusual6242]

Hear hear

[@bryede]

We've devalued marriage to just a piece of paper and a society that doesn't believe in something bigger than themselves have little incentive to work through the hard times.

[@blingqueen2235]

Starting a relationship with both being cheaters will def affect the relationship along the way. If they will cheat with you, they will cheat on you!!! If you think they will stop cheating just because they are with you, you are kidding yourself.

[@rak7293]

Leave quietly. Don’t tell them ur leaving or divorcing them. When they’re out you make ur escape with help from several people. Do not think that it can’t happen to you because many women before you thought so too. Do never underestimate him.

[@peculiarstar4261]

I left with nobody's help. Everyone I knew believed him. It was awful

[@firstnamelastname6717]

Yes, true, but I also believe that this could happen to men as well, there are crazy women out there that will do the same thing or worse.

[@chynnhowe]

NEVER end a relationship alone. Do it in a public place or have someone else with you.

[@pennybyrd1058]

Or, better yet, do it over the phone, or have your attorney do it. You never know how a man will react and most of the time they are much stronger than you are, so it's best to be out of the house and away from him.

[@rrrobeltnest7295]

Yes, I did it through a lawyer thank God she didn’t kill me

[@kenwillis8487]

If you have someone there that ultimately means an extra body! Never leave any witnesses!

[@kenwillis8487]

I broke up with all my exes while camping! Setting the precedent you know!

[@bjkarana]

She did leave her prior husband for _this_ guy...

[@ivandimitrov4410]

can you analyze the case of Dr. Grande? Don't diagnose anybody, just speculate about what is happening in a situation like this.

[@drewmunny]

I like to imagine that if he ever got arrested or had some kind of scandal, he would make a video just like that 😂

[@bastadimasta]

That is called Grandiception. It is speculated that a Grandiception would fall into positive feedback loop that would destroy the fabric of the Universe.

[@smhollanshead]

While it’s just speculation, Dr. Grande is an ardent Democrat. Dr. Grande is so naive he believes Joe Biden is an honest and competent President. Now that Joe Biden has left the Presidential race, he will now vote for Kamala Harris. What will be the result of Dr. Grande’s nativity: the boarder crisis will get worse, we will have an economic recession, food prices will go up, gas prices will go up, inflation will exceed 10%, the Ukraine war will drag on, the Middle East conflict will aggravate, and we will inch closer to World War lll. Or we could go for the other guy!

[@Drainhair]

I say the line when he says it each new video it's my favorite

[@skycloud4802]

Dr Grande's would make me laugh too much if he used the "exceeding creepy" descriptor.

[@AuntieKim]

When a man can no longer stop his wife from leaving, and decides to unalive her as a solution, he always tells the same story. They always say that she left him for another man, and went to some other country. They are so unoriginal and predictable.

[@emmagatewood3898]

It's literally the same story every time! Chris Watts, Drew Peterson, this guy, and a million others. It's like they are all reading from the same script. Not only is the story played out, it's also just illogical. You want us to believe she left you without taking a penny, or even taking her own clothes and personal belongings? And there's no activity on her bank accounts ever again? And she didn't tell a soul that she was leaving? And she's not answering all the phone calls from worried family and friends because she's just too busy having fun on the beach with her new boyfriend? But there's no record of her taking a plane or a train anywhere and her car is still in the driveway? Ok, sounds totally believable, you're free to go sir.🙄😂

[@GTIFabric]

Keep telling yourselves that

[@kruelunusual6242]

It does make sense clearly she had no problem monkey branching in the past….its the physical evidence that doesn’t jive with the story that’s the tell!

[@billybigbollox]

It’s natural progression from the old masked man story. The killers have no control of their emotions and are reactive. Then clutch at straws to make the story seem plausible. Of course it’s only plausible in their minds.

[@DIRTDUMMY1]

Unalive.... 😂

[@fredjonestowns4213]

Guy cant even get away with welding his dead wife inside a tank anymore, times are changing.

[@raaaaaaarr]

😂

[@bradr2142]

Shitty weld job gave it away. Certified welder cost to much.

[@jenniferholden9397]

If you plan on leaving just go, don’t tell them you’re going because that’s the flash point, stay safe and stay away, telephone conversations are as near as you need to get to them. If children are involved, use an contact centre, you drop the kids off, ex can pick them up but if there is anything about them that gives you the heebie geebies he only access has to be supervised. Stay safe, keep the kids safe and be happy. Some people can be unbelievably vengeful, just keep your wits about you. Good luck.

[@carpathianken]

We're coerced by society & community standards into telling our significant other that it's not working out & we want to leave/get divorced to their face & if we don't we're labelled as cowardly, cold & weak. I'd rather be negatively judged as cowardly & weak & leave safely & clandestinely. Some people can't control the primitive side to their personality when they receive bad news, especially if they're the controlling & possessive type.

[@okanaganrider4332]

Like the Paul Simon song.

[@Whookieee]

My husband and I were looking for a lost item, and he asked if I'd checked a very obvious location. I said, "whaddya think I'm stupid?" And he goes, "I'm not diagnosing anybody, just speculating about what might be happening." We both cracked up.

[@JaimeMesChiens]

@Whookieee that’s hilarious!

[@jodygrulich8695]

Affairs sound exhausting as does marrying someone you cheated with. Just doesnt seem good and only gets worse.

[@stevehuggett2098]

If she'll cheat WITH you, you can expect she'll cheat ON you !

[@chairrider2462]

Same as when people keep choosing to vote for socialism, "This time it'll be different"! LOL. Never works out for them!

[@stevehuggett2098]

@@chairrider2462 You people keep beating that same old tired drum. There's more to life than politics, but in YOUR case, There's more to politics than life ! ...............SO SAD!

[@chairrider2462]

@@stevehuggett2098 Yet, you aren't telling me I'm wrong! I'm just saying we'll all get what we vote for. Both these folks were deeply disturbed. It ended in a tragedy.

[@coralpaxton113]

Dr Grande, your channel is my go to when I need to hear a voice of reason.

[@Ann.Hedonia]

Me too!

[@muttsnuts5849]

I loved his analysis of Biden and wors Salad Kamala

[@paulbonion]

It was hilarious. The way he quoted kamala. ​@@muttsnuts5849

[@XxMaddieMalicexX]

This is a local case. Many of my friends knew her family. The entire community knew he did it. Thank you for covering.

[@faithfulnate8227]

I thought they were never gonna charge him. This video was how I learned that Dee and her family are finally getting the justice she deserves.

[@real_talk8749]

If you are from the area you know the sheriff covered it up

[@carfo]

damn i hate when i trip and fall into Anhydrous Ammonia Tanks and it gets welded when i'm inside. happens all the time.

[@jackieann5494]

😂😅😅😂

[@Bobawob]

Sick humor

[@The_Kitbashers_Crypt]

Happen to me 3 times just last week 😢

[@loiscassels8966]

Just the thought of it makes my claustrophobia flare ❤️🇨🇦

[@Johnnycam1]

😂

[@matthewbyrd398]

It’s just not the same when any of the individuals is not described as “exceedingly creepy”. 😢

[@jkjives1786]

And no "tremendous sense of entitlement," either. I agree, very disappointing. 😊

[@ChrisBishop-o5o]

He certainly looked creepy IMO, but you can't over use phases or they lose impact 🙂

[@Cazador60140]

Did Dale and Dee watch 'Farmig for Love' ....

[@MarlinWilliams-ts5ul]

Welding is one of the many skills a farmer needs to thrive.

[@amber40494]

True

[@alex31245]

@@MarlinWilliams-ts5ul They're great at weddings though.

[@wizardofahhhs759]

Or they can pay their neighbor

[@richiesworld1]

☝🏾a newly single farmer

[@RepentAndBelieve43]

I never considered this. Interesting fact.

[@Lousybarber]

Interesting case. I grew up on a farm and we used anhydrous ammonia tanks. As far as I know all of the farmers in the area rented these things. Since they are a pressure vessel that contains a dangerous substance it is safer to have them owned and maintained by the ammonia provider. I never thought much about it until now but having an ammonia tank setting on a farm for years might be considered a bit unusual.

[@Mosely2007]

What did you use that stuff for? Just curious.😊

[@enjoystraveling]

@@Mosely2007 didn’t they say on the video that it was tokill weeds or fertilizer I forgot which

[@lonewolverinesurvivor6303]

@@Mosely2007 anhydrous ammonia tanks are used for nitrogen fertilizer to help grow crops most notably corn. To enhance growth and improve the amount of crop produced.

[@carylhalfwassen8555]

@@Mosely2007Fertilizer

[@kruelunusual6242]

The tweakers like it too.

[@user-kq4hf8se5b]

Someone spotted his crappy welding job. Got the ball rolling.

[@BalthazarMyrrh70]

Probably the new "Do not use" sign hung over the shiny weld...

[@lightfusegetaway]

Many people had unpleasant encounters with Dee, and after such encounters, some might even call her sanity into question with the refrain "Dee's nuts."

[@nhmooytis7058]

😂😂😂

[@Rebecca-hc5ju]

😅🤣😂🤭🤭🤭🤭 You win!! You win *everything*!!

[@lindawilson4625]

Based on stories like this I would NEVER advise anyone to tell someone they are divorcing them, leaving, etc. without someone (maybe more than one) scary by their side. If there are guns in the house I would suggest plice officers to be with me. Grab your stuff and get out! In addition, I would never ever be alone anywhere with them from that point on. You just never know how someone will react. Thanks again, Dr. Grande

[@keywestcatlady]

Way back when I still young & dumb, I told my abusive boyfriend that it was over & he promptly punched me in the face, I landed on the floor, he came after me, sitting on top of me, Cutting my long blond hair, told me if I wasn’t still, he would stab me in the eye. I convincingly said I would sit up for him, and as soon as he got off me, I was out the door in the snow without shoes, went to a neighbor’s house, got the hell away from him. I should have known, after he “ disappeared” my white German Shepherd. Always wanted to keep relationships at an arms length. No Regrets about that.

[@pennybyrd1058]

@@keywestcatlady OMG! How awful! So, he was so evil, he killed your dog? You know what they say about people who abuse animals, they are usually psychopaths.

[@carpathianken]

@@pennybyrd1058 They don't even necessarily have to be psychopaths for the un-evolved & primitive side of their mind to come to the forefront & kill your animals, children & or you. Especially when they have a tendency to be possessive & controlling because by you leaving it robs them of the power they have over you.

[@keywestcatlady]

@@pennybyrd1058 Actually, I found out he released my dog in the country. I was so stupid to take him back at that time. What the H was I thinking? Young & dumb. Time didn’t heal that, 50 years later.

[@margaretr5701]

@@keywestcatlady What a cruel and callous thing to do, to both you and your dog. I expect your beautiful white German Shepherd, was taken in and well cared for, hopefully this thought will bring you peace. I'm very glad you escaped that vile man, and life improved for you.

[@Supertech-86]

I worked in engineering that had blueprint machines that use Anhydrous Ammonia, anhydrous means without water, that's why it bad to breathe besides toxic ammonia part, it essentially gravitates toward moist membranes and lungs to burn as the moisture is drawn out. One could only speculate the process in full contact, if there was any whatsoever in this case, with human remains.

[@kruelunusual6242]

It preserves tissue better than mummification….it draws water out and kills the bacteria.

[@MooseGuy1]

It's always amazing that people who will lie and cheat against they're families, break their vows, and are generally amoral, will get together and expect fidelity from each other. It's like choosing your mate at the bar and then being surprised when you find they have a drinking problem. Slimy people in this case.

[@Scorpio200]

If they cheat with you, they will cheat on you.Such relationships are rarely successful.There will always be a measure of Not trusting 100%.

[@DM-kl4em]

Two people who are dissatisfied with their marriages begin a sexual relationship with each other. Then, they divorce their spouses and marry each other, only to end up dissatisfied with their new marriage. Who would have thought?

[@kathybuttsarnold3534]

I told my ex-husband about the divorce in front of a counselor and had his brother on hand to run interference. That wasn't the only time I was afraid of him 😢 No one told me to do that. It just seemed prudent.

[@purrple.shadows]

If only all women were as wise.

[@kathybuttsarnold3534]

@@purrple.shadows Thank you.

[@1959LP4U]

@kathybutt His brother must be your simp! What a guy (sarc)! I'll bet he is an ex-brother now! Oh well, one husband down and on to your next victim!!!

[@noone-dv1jo]

You sound like a cruel woman, you told him in front of his brother? WTF is wrong with you

[@XxMaddieMalicexX]

Wow you get gold star lol pick me ass comment.

[@briskettacos]

Theres a certain type of man that's just like, "But I might lose half in a divorce; I'll just commit murder and live my life in fear of being found out. I'll also risk breaking our children's hearts if they figure out that daddy killed mommy. But at least I still have my house." They also think that their wife isn't entitled to half of THEIR assets as a couple, which is its own thing.

[@JM-bg2ts]

Affair partners can't trust each other, wow how unexpected. 😂

[@evelynwaugh4053]

It may be a little different here. She was good with money, he wasn't. He didn't have a farm without her. Farmers are really serious about their farms. Old joke about the farmer who wins the lottery comes to mind. His friend asks him what he's going to do now that he's a millionaire. Farmer replies 'Well, I'll just farm 'til the money runs out.'

[@bobborlog1677]

Your entitled to exactly what we decide you are.

[@jakeviolet2195]

Yes, some men would rather kill, die or go to prison than be extorted. You could resolve that problem by reforming the biased family laws that favor women and punish men in divorce. However, this is not one of those cases. In this case, she was the responsible and successful one and he was the loser. But, due to the aforementioned laws, she had no fear of losing half of everything she owned. If her divorcing him represented the opportunity for a big financial payday for him (as it would for her if the roles were reversed) things might have gone differently.

[@lololnope34567]

Manosphere be like

[@kevinhullinger8743]

Never trust a cheater!

[@monacoofthebluepacific2571]

She was a cheater, too 🤔 Thought the grass was greener on the other side of the fence.

[@kangkhita]

Dr. Grande really delivers with some of the most unhinged cases. The title had me SHOOK!

[@TomTheOwl68]

That is the point and here you are.

[@Flamsterette]

*SHAKEN!

[@marijo1951]

If this huge tank was originally parked near the house, it's extraordinary that the police didn't think to check it. Dr Grande said they searched the whole of this big property, presumably including sheds and other outbuildings. A tank that could later be moved seems an obvious item to investigate.

[@yeesh9215]

You would think the first place to check, since Chris Watts put his family in tanks....

[@real_talk8749]

The sheriff was covering it up

[@BigZebraCom]

Just a reminder, I'm not diagnosing anybody in this video; only speculating about what might be happening when human bodies are found in tanks of anhyrdrous ammonia like this.

[@dyates6380]

LOL. Well played ......

[@BigZebraCom]

@@dyates6380 Thank you! I do what I can.

[@RheverendJ]

Dale looks exactly like kind of guy who gets arrested for possession of CP and when everyone hears the news they say, “oh that makes sense.”

[@shelpippg2202]

EXACTLY!

[@CC-xn5xi]

What's CP?

[@XxMaddieMalicexX]

He walked free in the community for 3 years and everyone knew he did it. She was found last week

[@RheverendJ]

@@CC-xn5xi umm bad pics of kids

[@gregbacon819]

Child pornography I’d guess

[@jochenheiden]

I want Dr. Grande to come out and openly admit he’s from New Jersey.

[@shelpippg2202]

“Hi friends, I’m from Hoboken, if you can’t tell by my accent.” 😂😂

[@home94595]

@@jochenheiden exactly! 🤣

[@adriel7229]

I think he's from Philadelphia close to NJ. Here in Ohio we rip on West Virginia and Michigan. (Although I prefer both those states to NJ and laugh every time he slams it)

[@miriamorwin7603]

yes

[@pattyoconnell1950s]

I was born in NJ… I think my life was normal. Long Branch-born Deal-10/20 yrs age Asbury Park -High School Point Pleasant-visitGrandparents

[@williamsherman1089]

They both had the look of people who would sale their mothers soul for a dollar if they thought they could

[@lanadelrey1215]

Hi Dr. Grande- I have a suggestion for a video topic! Would you be able to cover a recent case of Maria Ximena Duarte? She is a Miami psychologist (PsyD) who was recently arrested for alleged sexual crimes (trafficking of a minor) and the story is quite bizarre. I love your videos, they kept me going through grad school!!

[@TrustMe55]

I wish you would speculated how he got her body to the tank without it being caught on camera

[@Cucumberflavoredmustard]

If they cheat with you, they will cheat ON you. My money says that's what the argument was about.

[@mikecollins8241]

She was gonna leave him, for a variety of reasons including him being broke😮

[@MEL2theJ]

Woah! Considering Dr. Grande covers true crime this title has my eyes bugged out and I am shaking my head

[@Dan-oj4iq]

Ever wonder how many people that Dr. Grande featured in his videos watched his videos all the time before they themselves entered into his Hall of Fame?

[@justinsmith8021]

Extra time for impersonating a welder

[@bradr2142]

I agree I have a sec.9 license and a 1104 license. This pisses me off. Blame it on the welder

[@4ksixty84]

Is that the neatest farm on the planet?

[@grumpycricket]

As a career welder, I appreciate that you judged Dale's welds poorly. 😊

[@LúciaKitten]

Thank you, Dr. Grande! Dee was indeed sleeping with the enemy!

[@Snakesnarl]

It’s as if cops have never watched true crime shows where people hide bodies in tanks

[@GH-oi2jf]

This tank was hard to look in. Since it had to be cut open to put her in, it didn't seem to be a likely spot.

[@real_talk8749]

The sheriff actively covered it up

[@JCar85]

I wish my inner voice was as calm and relaxed as Dr. Grande's

[@shelpippg2202]

Mine screams like Patrick Starr.

[@nhmooytis7058]

Mine sounds like Christopher Walken, lots of cowbell.😊

[@brianjones7660]

You only have one?😮

[@nhmooytis7058]

@@brianjones7660 I have several. One sounds a lot like Daffy Duck.

[@SunsetGuitarist]

I've been having a lot of personal troubles lately. And doctor grande's videos always bring a bit of light into my life. ❤

[@alex31245]

It seems like Dr. Grande welded those troubles you were having away.

[@sparklemotion8377]

Murder brings light to your life?

[@SunsetGuitarist]

@@sparklemotion8377 Yeah true crime brings me schadenfreude

[@SunsetGuitarist]

@@sparklemotion8377 Schadenfreude is pronounced "shahd-n-froi-duh". It's a curious and expressive word that can't be translated into other languages. The concept is common across cultures, but some other languages have similar words. For example, in the workplace, schadenfreude is a positive reaction to others' misfortune, while freudenschade is a negative reaction to others' good fortune

[@kenmore01]

​@@SunsetGuitarist I like it when society in general loses financial value, but not me.

[@cplmpcocptcl6306]

Who tells police, the last time they saw their wife she was snoring on the couch? 🤦‍♀️

[@aworkerthatcared]

people who have been married way too long

[@sherrir2531]

Right. You would say asleep on the couch. That would be the more natural answer.

[@williamgarner6779]

It was to claim she was alive when he left. Dead people don't snore.

[@kls2020]

My wife always says this in a case like this "If she'll do it with you , she'll do it to you "

[@DonHendrickson-xd7jw]

I would like to ask Dale, "Are you glad you did it? Was it worth it? Given the chance, would you do it again?"

[@Vinlaell]

So that's what got him caught, his bad welding lol

[@bonnietoups2446]

In the aftermath of the Chris Watts case, always check the tanks. Horrible .

[@Hatbox948]

So true!

[@chesterfinecat7588]

At least he wasn't a tankless husband but the Dee lay in his life became his undoing. Weld done analysis.

[@thelastninja4825]

Moral of the story, never get married.

[@rickhammond2473]

You think? Tell someone who never got married now 60.

[@thelastninja4825]

@@rickhammond2473 so? might be 60 and happy he does not have a nagging machine or divorced and lives in a trailer.

[@nemeczek67]

Chris Watts' wife also left her wedding ring behind before moving to Mexico or Jamaica. The tank sounds familiar as well.

[@lenymitchell]

We all love Dr. Gande. Your book is really good too!!

[@nhmooytis7058]

All’s weld that ends weld. I’ll see myself out.

[@christine-ep4bx]

insulting 'smart' rejoinder

[@nhmooytis7058]

@@christine-ep4bx sod off.

[@daynasafranek7807]

It would have taken time to weld and paint it… nobody else noticed that on a busy farm. I grew up on a farm and I have a difficult time believing someone else wasn’t aware of it.

[@rickcowan4664]

Best line: "Dee was unable to weld herself into the tank."

[@Curlyblonde]

Statistically the most dangerous time in a woman's life is when she is telling her committed partner that she wants a divorce and is leaving him/her. All h*ll breaks lose. Never do it alone.

[@hal900x]

When you marry someone you were cheating with, ,the results are a foregone conclusion. You'll always be paranoid she's cheating (and you're probably correct), you will often cheat, and it will descend into fear and hatred. Murder is not recommended however.

[@allegory7638]

I can see the jury selection process now: "Do you watch Dr. Todd Grande videos?"

[@jezackr3500]

"they were involved on farming" as if farming was some shady undertaking xD

[@nhmooytis7058]

Depends if you’re farming the devil’s lettuce 🥬

[@user-wf2wp6re7l]

Impulsive and excitement seeking? Oh right, you mean immature. Yes indeed. Age has nothing to do with maturity. Nada.

[@waynetemplar2183]

Glad that her body has been found. Also glad that the individual who put the body in the tank wasn't smart enough to change its contents to something more corrosive that would have dissolved the body entirely

[@esteban1487]

you got to love the legal disclaimer at the opening

[@Brianfailedgot2keepontruckin]

Are we new to the Dr Grande channel? Lol

[@boonecountygenerators3052]

It's important to understand that an anhydrous ammonia tank is a pressure vessel, like a propane tank. It's welded together in the factory, by machines. The only way to get a human body inside is to cut it open (probably with an acetylene torch). Then you would need to replace the piece that was cut out and weld it shut. Even a professional welder would have difficulty doing this without leaving an obvious scar on the tank.

[@hellomsmckay]

Dear Abuse Victims, male and female. Back in the 80s I was a big Oprah fan. She had a segment about domestic abuse and she made a statement that I have kept front and center ever since. It's kept me out of abusive relationships my entire life. The first time, you're a victim. Every time after that, you're an accomplice. What that means is that when you continue to stay, making excuses and rationalizing, you are contributing to your own abuse when what you should've been doing is putting that energy into ending the relationship and leaving or making sure they have to leave and never get around you again. The sooner you break things off, the less volatile it will be because they haven't invested much into it yet. The longer you take making excuses and rationalizing and sticking around, the more emotionally invested you both will become and their sense of possessiveness regardless of boundaries and safety will increase. When people ask you why you do not walk away and the first thing out of your mouth is "because I love them" or "they didn't mean it", the next thing out of your mouth needs to be "and I am an accomplice in what they do to me next and I am okay with it"

[@ChiCityLady]

I would say the exception would be if the couple has kids and the victim is afraid for their safety. You might stay after the first time in order to get enough evidence to gain custody in a divorce.

[@retsaMinnavoiG]

Me and my partner have been together for 14 years (since we were teens). We have two kids now. We have gotten physical with each other a handful of times (not beating each other bloody or anything crazy) and both felt terrible afterwards and we love each other dearly. We haven't done anything like that for about 7 years. So, I think it is a bit of a stretch to say people cannot change or once means it will happen again or it is only one persons fault or it necessarily means they're bad people. Just putting that out there.

[@kathybuttsarnold3534]

Dr. Grande, please have a Q&A for reaching 1.5M! ❤

[@brokendown63]

Would be easy to prove, just have ol Dale lay a bead. It's as identifiable as reading the grooves in a Bullet.

[@alsmith9298]

You know you are having a bad day when you end up welded in an anhydrous tank.

[@SuperAngelic5]

Can't believe how long it took the police to find her body. No wonder her family was upset. The neighbors of the property where she was found saw him working on property. Did the police talk to anyone?

[@SueRosalie]

the investigators sound pretty hopeless. Farms are full of places and equipment that are great hiding places and all of them should have been searched.

[@real_talk8749]

The sheriff is dating a family member of dale, thats why it was covered up for three years

[@jad1079]

I was immediately suspicious of the husband upon hearing his theory that she "ran away to Mexico to start a new life."

[@robertrinehuls9099]

Tanks for da memories

[@DonnielSeymour]

Stop it Tanks but no tanks😅

[@nhmooytis7058]

Tank you both😂.

[@robertrinehuls9099]

Tank you very much!

[@nhmooytis7058]

@@robertrinehuls9099 we need to get control of this thread and turret around.

[@danielhowell1640]

A relationship built on a foundation of lies & cheating rarely ever works out for the best.

[@ColeTurner-sr8mc]

In the farmer's mind, since she was always talking shit he just thought that he'd "put her to use"...as fertilizer.

[@LenaMMcKee]

OK, I just moved to a farm town farm area in Central California and I swear I'm born and raised in San Francisco and nothing scares me more than what could be buried under all these farms in the middle of these acres where nobody can see or detective a thing !!

[@christinereinhart2111]

I'm from Toledo Ohio and have been following this case for 3 years.

[@real_talk8749]

Well im from the area and the sheriff is dating a family member of warners. The case should have been solved

[@graciel3725]

As in Chad Daybell's trial, possession is 9/10 of the law. This guy owned the tank, and the farm, had motive, and it isn't looking good for Dale.

[@applepie9576]

Ran off to start a new life in another country???? Gave her a massage after that argument??? She fell asleep on the floor and he got her onto the couch??? No, no, and he11 no.

[@barbedwire_lace2160]

Unfortunately, it's not as simple as having him served with papers. Their home, businesses, farm, trucking, and office were very rural. He was facing bankruptcy while hers was thriving. He was jealous of many things. Dee had bailed his business out for the last time. He forged papers the following day to save himself and back dated them. See how that works? 🤔 He needed her gone. She was strong willed and he couldn't control her.

[@eadweard.]

Psychic nonsense.