Fathers Wife Is Insisting I Hand Over My Share Of Inheritance To Her - AITA Reddit Stories

[@damien678]

"50% more chance to cheat on me since you're bisexual" LMAO.... that's not how anything works.

[@a.munroe]

My bi and pan friends are the pickiest people I know. They have a far bigger dating pool so have to be much more selective.

[@drewthistlethwaite8909]

M’y aint jokes she had twice the competition with her wife, but that’s as far as it ever goes. And is to brag about her wife vs her tbh

[@AndyyWithAY]

There's really no reason to give ex-step mom any money. She has a ton of money already. She sold her house for a million. That's more than the vast majority of people ever hope to have.

[@damien678]

1M compared to what OP got... it's just so infuriating. I know rich people will be rich people, but jfc I refuse to never be shocked and disgusted by this kinda greed

[@amelianekomimi1936]

@@damien678 aka why its a deadly sin

[@reallyisay]

@@amelianekomimi1936 deadly sin kills or manes spirit.. according to Christians. By the way they are Not in the Bible

[@raeishimura]

Second story, ugh. Jane is toxic as hell. As a Bi individual myself, bi erasure and Bi-phobia are both very real problems within the LGBTQ community. You might not think it, but this idea of "well, bi people will fuck anyone that even glances at them." seems to be a constant within the community. I've heard it far too often. The other one that really aggravates is "oh, you're just confused. You'll figure out that you're really gay in no time." The erasure part of it. This is another one I have heard a lot of. It's like the community had forgotten that the "B" in LGBTQ stands for "Bisexual"

[@pansprayers]

The 'confused' one pisses me off, too. Or worse, 'but you married your husband'. Yeah, ok? Put him in a female body and I'd still be just as attracted to him. Might make more sense, too, as he's WAY more into clothes, decorating, and all that fun sh!t.

[@sylvestercat1898]

It’s sad that the moment I heard that OP was bi and Jane was a lesbian that I knew it was going to turn out that way. Jane reminds me of the toxic Gold Star Lesbians who treat any woman who have had a relationship with a man in the past like they “betrayed their sexuality” and then preach about how women who’ve only been with women are the “good ones.” As someone who’s Bi, it makes me kinda nervous if I were to encounter someone like Jane at a pride rally or parade.

[@natytambasco]

Is sad that our character is questioned when people learn that you are bi

[@Z-Ack]

When a person says theyre bi it comes off different from a male or female saying it. When a female says it, it throws up cheating flags when typically women are the smart ones in a m/f relationship and tend to be the ones who cheat when their partner isnt getting them off everytime in bed. Instead of saying something they tend to go find someone who does get them off while staying with the other person taking in all the other aspects of the relationship they like which the person theyre cheating with could not. On the other side when a male says he’s bi in a m/f relationship it makes the male look like a bitch and wont hold his own in the deal. Those turn out to be more of a friendship than a relationship where they act like two girls all the time and the affection isn’t prominent.. as for m/m and f/f relationships when one is “bi” they all tend not to work out period because one is committed to being fully all about the same sex and the other being bisexual but then committing to a fully gay relationship changes the way they describe themselves unless the relationship is monogamous which isnt really a relationship at all (unless theyre swingers and always end up back with eachother living that life.. but relationships are hard enough to make work so having two people who are that tightly bonded is a rarity )…. But statistically saying here the shit usually wont work for a relationship just like a person who was not gay dating a man who changed thenselves into a woman. If the non gay person is aware of this, the fact the other was a man would eat at them and their masculinity as well as ego.. but like i said it would all really depend on their bond.. and that is sonething that would be felt mutually.. which again like i said is a rare thing to find mutually and sharing eachotgers feelings evenly.. most the time there youll have one thinking they are on the same mindset and both are happy when the other is hiding their sentiments until sonething isnt inline then draw the line when that line has already been breached killing any future.. i know im not wrong but cant be 100% because theres manipulative people, mean people, greedy, and then theres the opposite.. most being selfish and more on the side of being fuckers than there are good considerate caring people in this world. Buti base my thoughts on the facts i personally see.. im not bi or lgtbqlmnop either so will probably just be called a bigot or whatever so in that case go eat a dick or a pussy or both. Lol. Your choice.. see that statement doesnt work for bi people cuz they just be like, yea i plan on it.. ha!

[@strandedinseattle9931]

@@Z-Ack Some of your theories are quite a bit off, in my experience - 49 yo bisexual here, friend of many other bisexuals. Ultimately cheating has nothing to do with a person's sexual identity/persuasion, it can be performed by anyone of any gender or sexuality. Cheating is a selfish act of entitlement. Period. Bisexuality means we can be attracted to either side of the fence, but it doesn't mean we're trying to actively have sex with every single person who enters our visual range.That's absurd. I engage in monogamous, long term relationships, my current one is going on its 14th year now. Most bisexuals don't have problems committing to one partner of whatever gender and feeling fulfilled in their healthy relationships. I say most, because there are people who need to have poly relationships to feel fulfilled, and so long as it is consensual and everyone is open about it, not a crime and still not considered cheating.

[@Mewse1203]

Story 1: NTA OP's dad did exactly what he did on purpose. His wishes are pretty clear in who he wanted to have that money. There is a lawyer I watched called Steve Lehto and he likes to talk about how your actions can reveal your intentions when it comes to legal matters. Here, the attempt by Betty to hide the information is extremely telling of Betty's intentions. She was going to present this differently to OPso that it made it seem like she didn't have a choice. Now that's not possible, hopefully. OP should keep it. Edit: she wants them to have NOTHING. It's petty and realistic based on their history, true. I don't get why people stay married to people who hate their kids for no reason.

[@amethystanne4586]

I follow Steve Lehto on KZbin. He always has interesting things to talk about.

[@AndyyWithAY]

Alrighty... that update is terrifying. I'm glad that OP left Jane, she's completely insane. There's so many red flags in there. I'm speechless

[@natytambasco]

@@melodyharpole8272 Op is a woman, why you think she is messed up?? Because she have a Life?

[@thomasjoseph5876]

I don't believe it. The entire story that is. Why would anyone be in a relationship like that (before the update)? I think the OP got mad that she got "woken up" by some of the YTA comments and made up an update that totally turned the "love of her life" into a complete thieving psycho overnight. This is just another mostly fake Reddit story so someone can feel good about their life from internet strangers.

[@dash9641]

@@thomasjoseph5876 Well seems reasonable that OP would fall into a relationship her own parents fell into. She couldn't recognize the signs before it was up in her face. That's just the result that can happen when you live in a household with parents who are in a loveless marriage. You see them as a guide to how relationships work and if you have bad role models from the start you're bound to repeat their mistakes. Believe it or not but relationships like this can and do happen. Real or not I'm just glad OP got out of a bad relationship.

[@phoenix211245]

Just like the trans individuals that will call you transphobic if you don't fuck them, this woman is trying to use sexuality as a form of abuse. Wonder why the highest rates of rape and domestic violence come from the LGBT crowd huh?

[@jellysquid8077]

The way that first story is written, it makes it sound like the stepson punch OP's dad so hard he just straight up died 🤣

[@owl7072]

Story 2: "You do this two days a week" Oooh a whole two days away from Jane. I can feel the toxic radiation from here, how scary. /s On a serious note, how is it not fair for OP to go to a party without Jane but Jane goes everywhere without OP and that's fine. That's perfectly okay and healthy. "It's normal for partners to want to get to know your friends" not the way she's doing it 🤨 has _Op_ ever met _Jane's_ friends? Or has Jane insisted that she "needs alone time" whenever Op asks to join while pitching a fit when OP does the same? "It's weird that you and your friends have a 'no partners allowed' rule" it really isn't 🤨 it's perfectly normal for friends to have a night out together without their partners. Honestly, if you can't go at least a night or two without your partner, _that's_ an issue you should be focusing on. Edit: If you can't trust your partner to not cheat due to toxic biphobia as well as your own personal insecurities then get tf out of that relationship.

[@teetimedolls807]

bi-phobia from a lesbian... as someone who's queer, hearing that was so disappointing..... but I'm so glad OP knows her worth and got out of that toxic relationship

[@socialmoon]

I fucking knew that it would turn out that Jane is biphobic. Just because someone is bisexual, that doesn't mean that they'll sleep with anyone. We still have standards.

[@13thMaiden]

I know I don't get that 'stereotype' ppl throw on bisexuals. I'm a straight woman and I'd date a bisexual man, cause every bisexual I've ever know have been faithful and loving to their partners. Hell, I've seen more _lesbians_ cheat than I have of my bisexual friends. Bisexuals get roughed up so much by both sides, they're like the red-headed stepchild. That girl was just horny for her gf's friends, and that's a _her_ problem, not the OP. I hope OP has a better time with her next relationship.

[@natytambasco]

yep

[@technicaldifficulties368]

@@melodyharpole8272 "He" is a woman

[@technicaldifficulties368]

@Melody Ackerman I was the first to do so on this thread

[@technicaldifficulties368]

@Melody Ackerman This is the only thread I've commented on

[@natytambasco]

as a bi woman when the 2 op said she was Bi and her partner wasn't I already knew where this was goin.

[@beckyhartley9502]

I'm not shocked by story 2, I've first hand seen that bs from gay people against bi-sexual plenty of times along with the gold star lesbian/gay mentality.

[@wmdkitty]

The "gold-star" mentality is also super transphobic.

[@BloodInTheStrawberries]

@@wmdkitty Terfs go ham for this shit-

[@AndyyWithAY]

It is very healthy to have time apart. And this is very alarming that she goes out with friends alone, but you can't. Very hard to believe she honestly had fun when all of OP's friends hate her

[@laurenmentink7401]

That is probably why Jane had a good time. She just likes making people uncomfortable. She is also a possible sociopath.

[@alicewilloughby4318]

Story 2 - Update - "I can't trust that you won't go an fuck someone while you're out... " Accusing someone of being unfaithful or even just potentially unfaithful is a classic emotional abuse and control tactic. (Unless they really are unfaithful, which doesn't seem to be the case here.)

[@justozzy5559]

Story 2: I knew exactly where it was going when OP mentioned she was bi and her partner was leabian. From my experience living as a bi woman, I've been rejected numerous times by women because I was bi, so I would cheat. It's an awful thing that so many people think and I'm glad OP got out of that

[@natytambasco]

I have seen lesbians saying they are scared bi woman would cheat with a man, like if they cheat them with a woman would be better???

[@RebaMedia]

SAME and then when it got to the update and she said that was the reason I was just like "I KNEW IT I KNEW IT" hahaha Glad OP is outta that relationship

[@LilFeralGangrel]

i honestly hate how biphobic monosexual gays are.

[@videofan1010]

"Am I the Buttface" probably surfaced because some people didn't want to call themselves an "assh*le" 😂

[@fcold9402]

1. There is absolutely nothing not-ethical about keeping money left to you. DO NOT give the money you were left to your step mom.

[@victoriapyles7752]

For story 2.. it was mentioned they were shocked that their friends still invited them.. it’s because they see that this is an abusive relationship. They all are aware that they can’t just say “you’re girlfriend is abusive, leave,” because it just makes the abused feel isolated, recoil, and push people away. They continued to show OP they are there for them.. and when OP said enough, they took her in no questions asked.

[@victoriapyles7752]

@@melodyharpole8272 op is a girl, they’re all girls. Op said it was not normal for such a long time, that’s it’s a birthday party. No where did op say that that was a normal arrangement for them. Also they said girlfriend attends EVERY get together, whether the go out or stay in. “Going out” could mean anything from taking a stroll through to park to club hopping. Staying in implies everything from coffee to board games, to a potluck.. you’re allowed to have a life outside of your significant other. It’s okay to not be around them 24/7. And honestly, it’s much more telling that ops (now ex) gf is controlling when she won’t let op tag along when it’s her friends, she has to sit at home and do nothing while she goes out, and she isn’t allowed to go out without her 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

[@jenniesuecavaliere8935]

@@melodyharpole8272 why don't you try reading the post while listening to it. That way you will be able to make an informed comment based on facts.

[@victoriapyles7752]

@@melodyharpole8272 you’ve clearly made up your mind, despite contrary evidence. If you really can’t trust your SO to go out with friends, you should probably find someone else more suitable that you do trust 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

[@victoriapyles7752]

@@melodyharpole8272 you literally know nothing about me 😂😂😂 it was a singular overnight party, for someone’s birthday. This didn’t happen every single week. You seem to be projecting really hard about this, and I’m really sorry if this happened to you. You don’t deserve that. But I’m agreeing to disagree about this, and won’t be responding further. Hope you have a great day, and an even better partner 🥰

[@kerribottriell-baxter7345]

@@melodyharpole8272 Er... no... just no... seems like you have some deep seeded issues and this story just triggered you, maybe step away from the keyboard, take a breath and stop attacking the OP who just got out of an abusive relationship from Jane.

[@MsUnamusedNerd]

STORY 2: *NTA* Honestly is overbearing to be attached to your partner’s hip and constantly needing to be included in their friend’s activities….especially when you don’t like their friends and vice versa….

[@tegantalks9612]

Story 2: as someone who is bisexual I find it really offensive when someone thinks I’m more likely to cheat because I’m attracted to both men and women. I’ve been in a stable relationship for 4 years and never once thought of cheating on my boyfriend. I will admit that my bisexuality does cause me and my partner to have similar porn preferences lol

[@ToxicSunrise132]

This is why the "YoU CAn'T hAVe FrIenDs oF tHE oPpOSiTe GeNDeR" crap has always bothered me. I'm bi too, and what am I supposed to do? Become a hermit for the rest of my life? I think some people just can't comprehend adults having affection for each other without there being a sexual component to it

[@pansprayers]

@@ToxicSunrise132 indeed. I regularly question people and their logic on this one, lol.

[@natytambasco]

same, is infuriating

[@TsukiKageTora]

I had a bisexual female friend who dated this guy who got creepy attached to her. He would pull her closer to him every time a female passes by. We were eating lunch in the cafeteria of community college and he pulled her to him hard. His reasoning for her was “you must want to fuck her, can’t have that” She broke up with him saying “just because you want to fuck every girl that passes by you doesn’t mean I do.” Yet he was fine with me, a straight female, hanging out with her. Maybe he didn’t find me attractive and thought she wouldn’t either. Like his preferences must also be hers the second they dated?

[@lovelysakurapetalsyt]

I'm pan so I feel like I'd get the same rhetoric and yeah, it's gross. No bi or pan person is gonna cheat more likely than a straight person, and it's gross people think that's true

[@GeekyBibliophile]

Second story: this is exactly why I use queer more often than bisexual. I don’t have the patience or the inclination to deal with biphobic BS like that.

[@serenarobinson861]

After reading your comment, I realized that when people ask what I am, I respond 'queer' way more often than 'bi'. I didn't fully realize I was trying to avoid biphobic responses. This revelation makes me sad.

[@GeekyBibliophile]

@@serenarobinson861 I hate how people, especially people in the LGBTQ+ community, don't think bisexuality is really a thing. Like, what do they think the 'B' stands for? Because it sure as fuck isn't 'Bunnies'.

[@katraylor]

​@@serenarobinson861 I usually say "very not straight."

[@serenarobinson861]

@@katraylor I like it!! XD I'll use that~

[@RokoFireFox]

Story 2, what was that last commentor on? How is wrong to have a friends nights without partners? Also clearly ops friends DID try to get to know Jane and they didn't like her. If I'm trying to a friends night and my friend brought their S/o I would be pretty annoyed even if I liked the person's s/o.

[@TsukiKageTora]

That update of the second story. I hope to god those who said “YTA” felt horrible. It was clear from the start Jane was a manipulative possessive creep but they bypass that and got mad at OP for excluding her girlfriend when she excludes OP all the time. The double standards in this post and the YTA comments are absolutely appalling

[@madelynmoses2061]

It makes me wonder if those YTA posts were made by people in a relationship with such a person and normalized that behavior, possibly didn't read the full post (pegging OP as some inattentive partner), or worse. They are the same type of people as the GF in this story. 😨

[@Grace_x68]

​@@madelynmoses2061 I wanted yo say this. They relate with the manipulator

[@madelynmoses2061]

@@Grace_x68 It's unnerving to realize that's probably the case. But, I guess it gives you a heads-up on who to look out for/not trust in the future.

[@Grace_x68]

@@madelynmoses2061 what I've realised about reddit is that whenever there is a weird YTA verdict, those people behind the YTA is in general exact same as the abuser / manipulator / stalker / etc.

[@neil999ish]

Sometime's people don't "Read" a story or post before an update, but don't edit their post. (Hell have posted myself before i read an update occasionally).

[@michamocha]

What kind of toxic relationship dynamic do the commentator believe in that 2 days with friends is considered toxic or bad? There are seven days in a week. 2 days away from your partner is _not_ going to kill them and it's embarrassing to see someone thinks otherwise.

[@natytambasco]

This person don't have a life after they are in a relationship, I don't even like goin out but is really important to humans mental health to do it

[@rai1578]

It's sadly not uncommon for children raised by parents in toxic relationships, especially if the relationships are abusive and the child is traumatized, to grow up and end up falling into very similar relationships. I noticed this pattern in myself when I was young, and I've seen it in many others. Thankfully, once you recognize it, you're on your way to recovering. I'm glad OP in the last story got out and realized that they had a really toxic relationship as their model when growing up

[@hyperplaguerat]

Story 1 makes me so grateful my siblings and I didn't fight over the estate after my dad passed away.

[@mariegarside8830]

I agree - the loss of a parent is emotional fights over money bring more pain. Thank goodness there wasn't conflict with my sibling.

[@larry01902]

The stepmother in story 1 reminds me of my late brother's wife. He was in the hodpital; incoherent and on his way to hospice with ARC. She showed up with a lawer and a new will; cutting out his 3 adult children. She put a pen in his hand and made an X and had two hospital workers witness it.

[@amyrussell860]

@larry01902. It depends on the hospital workers' jobs. Witnessing legal documents is okay with appropriate staff, and usually specific employees are given privileges to do this. I'm curious as to who 'witnessed' it.

[@rayneingdown]

Ah yes, biphobia. Gotta love it. It really is a huge problem in the LGBTQ+ community and for many bisexuals interacting with people gay or straight. Those kinds of beliefs are so unfair and fucked up. Also I feel OP on the misunderstanding toxic behaviors as normal. That same kind of thought process had me stuck in an abusive relationship for three years, and I’m proud of OP for realizing what was going on and getting out of there.

[@TsukiKageTora]

To the “YTA” comment on story 2: I feel like the reason OP wasn’t happy was the fact her girlfriend excludes her from all her friends night out, but demands and is acting upset over OP doing the same to the point OP just let’s her tag along. The double standards are what makes it toxic, unless you forgot to read that part?

[@heyitsrae5407]

I hate the hate that bisexual/pansexual people get in their own community simply because they like both genders. "cant pick a side" and are "either gay passing or straight."

[@hannahwishon9958]

Hoo boy. Bisexual, pansexual, asexual, and transexual, people have one very special thing in common: they are harassed by straight and LGBTQ+ people. Bisexuals and pansexuals are seen as "not part of the LGBTQ+ community to biphobee/panphobes because they are "betraying" the LGBTQ+ community for liking outside of their sex. Homophobes don't like them either because they still like people in the same sex. There is no winning for bi and pan people. Asexuals have a very similar issue since they don't like anyone. Some believe that they shouldn't be included in the LGBTQ+ community because of their lack of sexual interest, but they also get ire from the straights because "you shouldn't be single." The reason asexuals are LGBTQ+ is because not having a sexual preference is a sexual preference. Finaly transsexuals. Do I really need to explain? There are TERFs who don't believe trans people deserve rights as women, no matter what they did/do identify as. Then there's the whole "are you REALLY gay?" When a trans man dates a cis man. Lots of transphobia too. Note: There are other sexualities that get hate in the LGBTQ community, but these are the 4 I personally see the most (especially as an asexual biromantic).

[@BloodInTheStrawberries]

Pansexuality is literally everyone regardless of gender, the fact some people say they of all people are "gay passing" is just stupid. Pansexual people like others regardless of their gender, that means people out of the binary which is nearly a 100+ more genders. By your own stupid definition, pansexuals are in fact "gayer" than cis lesbian/gay people, who only (usually) like one. Bi/pan eraser is awful, no one is more "gayer" than someone else because of their attraction. If you are not just solely heterosexual, then you are quéer, no tea, no shade, no pink lemonade. _Period._

[@Queenfloofles]

Or greedy, that's one Ive heard. 😕

[@diamcole]

Story 2: How in the world is OP an asshole? It's perfectly normal to go out with your friends, without your partner. It being an absolute must is too damn much and controlling as hell.

[@Mewse1203]

Story 2: NTA she's being really controlling. It isn't toxic to want time away from your SO. It is toxic to insist on going someplace you aren't invited while also forcing your partner to take you. The gf in this story is insecure and controlling and shows she is not ready for a real Relationship. Edit after comments: and she's a typical controlling hypocrite... Also that last Yta comment is an idiot. OP can do with her time what she wants. The girlfriend is showing a lot of toxic behavior and to blame OP is just victim blaming at best. A lot of people have "guys nights" or " girls nights" which are partner free and acting like it's weird in this situation just because it was framed ad "partner free" because not everyone's partner is the same Gender is disingenuous. Edit after update: yup.... insecure and mistrusting....and a hypocrite. "Your friends are attractive and I'D fuck them so therefore YOU can't be trusted"....like what? GTFO. I'm glad she broke up with her. I hope she gets arrested. What a psycho.

[@natytambasco]

She basically admitted she is attracted to op friends and op is the cheater? LMAO this girl

[@Davimez]

Basic cheater logic. She's projecting her issues on op hardcore. Glad op got away and hope she tells people about her so others can run away

[@wmdkitty]

@@Davimez Yep. Went through something similar with an ex. He would fork anything that moved, therefore I couldn't have any friends _or family_ over if he wasn't there to "supervise".

[@LittleCrimsonR]

GF story: OPs friends knew her relationship was super toxic and may have become abusive later on and stuck with her because that's what you're supposed to do! Fighting the abuser is likely to hurt the person you're trying to protect later on, and cutting ties with them is what the abuser wants. The GF probably kept showing up not just as a way to make sure that OP doesn't cheat, but also as a way to try and break those friendships so OP would be alone.

[@suzannah881]

The stepmonster doesn't care about the money; she just wants to win.

[@Tammohawk1]

1. The first thing I want to say is this. When you are receiving Social Security benefits you don't get to double dip. In other words, if you are already receiving benefits, you don't get survivor/widows benefits on top of it. It's either one or the other but never both. With the step mom, it's not the amount of money, but the fact that OP has it. That is what has set the step mom off. She doesn't want to share w/OP, she doesn't like OP. 2. So glad that OP saw the light and dumped Jane.

[@reallyisay]

Yes you do, who told you that!? Stop listening to idiots ..Social Security has websites and toll free phone number for any and all questions

[@Tammohawk1]

@@reallyisay Good luck getting in touch with anyone. I've been trying for months. There is only a security guard at our local office.

[@SerenaSilverMoon]

My mom works for SSI, and most of the people work from home only coming in when they're needed. But they DO pick up their phones. Maybe your office is under staffed but the website might help more. And you CAN get both benefits.

[@aaronmedley7606]

A healthy relationship both people have friends and spend time apart otherwise it is toxic and one or both of the members are over attached

[@itrasheditgood]

I’m surprised the father didn’t leave more money to his bio kids.

[@emcustard]

Story 2: GF straight up says OP shouldn’t go out without her? Controlling, manipulative, and entitled behavior. You’re supposed to have friends outside of your partner, and a "no partners" event is incredibly common and honestly a good thing. If your whole life revolves around your SO, you don’t have a life.

[@nolongeramused8135]

1) Betty gets about a $1M, which, if used properly in addition with survivor benefits should be more than enough to live out the rest of her days on. Frank needs to made to disappear if she wants it to last. 2) The IRA is YOURS. Betty can go pound sand. 3) Is the estate lawyer honest? Sort of sounds like he isn't if he's trying to set up a trust with Betty as part of it.

[@sammieg8641]

Why OP hasn’t gotten a lawyer to sue the estate is beyond me… bc stepmom is going to blow through it within the year

[@britnicox3929]

The stepmother is a witch and I’m glad OP was able to snag that IRA before the step mother could take it from her. I’m sure she’s pissed but she can pound sand 2: man I did not expect it to escalate to that point but I’m glad OP is out of there and safe with a friend!

[@rickraber1249]

The wicked stepmother in the 1st story has a mental defect called greed. She simply believes that everything her husband had should be hers, and of course, her darling son's. What always makes you shake your head is that these people are oblivious to how they look to the rest of us. Grasping and conniving, that's how. That woman could give Ebeneze Scrooge lessons.

[@sleepwalking3345]

As i was listening to story 2 i was like 'smells like biphobia' even BEFORE OP said she was bi. Im pretty sad i was right

[@rhythmictiger]

Story 1: exactly, if the Dad was worried, why leave everything to the gold digger? At least he left the one thing to her.

[@galadriel4101]

Did anyone else get the Pirates of The Caribbean movie line? "I am disinclined to acquiesce to your request"

[@broken_queer_but_fighting8589]

Whoever is reading this i send hugs and great vibes. Drink water, eat food, nap, take a break, take care of yourself gosh darn it. And if you don't I swear I will find you and keep you in a cottage and take care of you. 🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜

[@MarkNarrations]

Always a pleasure to see you in the comments Broken, hope you're well!

[@katiesmith2031]

Hugs and great vibes back 🤗🤗💙💙🤗🤗💙💙

[@broken_queer_but_fighting8589]

@@MarkNarrations hope you are well too💜💜🤗🤗

[@broken_queer_but_fighting8589]

@@katiesmith2031 💜💜🤗🤗

[@J_e_s_s]

I had a feeling when OP said they're bi that that would be the issue. So stupid that the gf would think that way but I've experienced a similar issue myself so it's a bit of a touchy subject for me lol. I have never cheated but I've been cheated on so I'd have to argue that it does not up the odds of cheating.

[@heraclito3114]

The father must have been a doormat. I'm disappointed, in my book an "old Italian" amounts to more than that. Otherwise I can't explain what he did with the will. It's a miracle that he left something to OP.

[@rylashadow18]

S1)She got her split as decreed in the will. Whatever is in the IRA's is for your use and for you to share with your brother. She only wants to strong arm you cause she's giving it over to her son who you, your brother and father had no real connection to. If she went through all of her money because she allowed him to leech off of her what's to say she won't turn around and try to come after anything that's left? It'd be gone possibly in a week if not a month and then you have nothing. If she's struggling due to her poor choices that falls under the too bad so sad take it and eat rocks options. I'd lawyer up as well as insist on a cease and desist order against her. S2) After the update I'm glad OP got herself out of that situation. Jane allowed her insecurities as well as doubt create a toxic stand point and someone like that would only escalate as soon as they were able to cut you off from your support group. Currently I'm trying to get some work done as I listen. I finished off a piece and sent if off last night. This morning it went over so amazingly well and I'm happy with that. Sometimes I listen as I do some important paperwork and will talk to someone about the plans I have for starting work if they don't mind helping. From there it's only moving up and forward. I hope it's the same for every last one of you

[@madisonl3401]

Yay for a new story! Love to listen to stories while I am working 🙂

[@MarkNarrations]

Hope you enjoy!

[@fakeaccount12345]

My dad did the same thing for me. He had a will but put his house in my name before he died so my greedy sister wouldn't cheat me out of everything.

[@lapsedgoth]

Final story. I figured the problem was biphobia. :/ I'm really lucky my husband is very comfortable in our relationship and trusts me because there are times my little pan heart just starts gushing over everyone. Instead of finding it threatening he finds it adorable. XD I won't say insecure people shouldn't date but they need to figure out how to cope with their insecurities and not sabotage their relationships by not trusting their partners...

[@TsukiKageTora]

If an adult man physically hurt one of my elderly family members for any reason, you’d know they will have no balls after the next time I see them.

[@thatwitchychick2717]

You got me through a nasty session of disinfecting my fish keeping equipment. Love the videos. Haha.

[@ariannawills854]

I usually knit hats. I am a 16F in America. I just knit and knit and knit and I love it as a connection to my grandma.

[@tiryaclearsong421]

Same. I'm 30 but my grandma taught me to knit and hand sew when I started school. I never stopped.

[@ckanon9887]

I usually only comment when I disagree with a judgement or felt like I should add something but I felt like I should comment at least once that these daily uploads are really nice to listen to while I draw lol

[@MarkNarrations]

Aww thanks so much C, they really help out :)

[@potatoempress5731]

Um... Story 2's GF seems so unlikeable. Double standards, possessive, jealous, won't take a NO, manipulative, etc........................ EDIT// Welp, the update confirms it. Good for OP for running from that mess.

[@nataliereeves3594]

My great grandmother had a joint will with her second husband. She had 4 kids with her first husband and one with her second. When she died he got everything. When he died everything went to HIS child and nothing to the other 4. So op should hold onto what she can get because she will get nothing when step mother dies as it will all go to strp brother.

[@katiesmith2031]

Mark thanks for the video hope you and poppy are having a wonderful day missed you yesterday hope everything is going good

[@MarkNarrations]

Thanks for your concern Katie, was feeling alright most of the day and 5pm it was like BAM, need to go to bed. Was absolutely wiped out, feeling great today though. Thank you, hope you're doing good my friend

[@katiesmith2031]

@@MarkNarrations I'm just glad you are feeling better I've had days like that to and they were random as. I'm doing good thank you

[@broken_queer_but_fighting8589]

@@katiesmith2031 💜💜🤗🤗

[@broken_queer_but_fighting8589]

@@MarkNarrations hope you feel better now m8💜💜🤗🤗

[@damien678]

bruh how tf does someone build the nerve to pop a 70 y.o. in the face

[@myeternalteardrop]

So did the YTA people just completely miss the part about Jane forbidding OP from tagging along on her nights out???

[@TheWolfsHowl666]

I'm asexual panromantic, my boyfriend is straight. Wanna know why he doesn't think I'll cheat with other people? Because he trusts me and has faith in me. I feel so bad for OP in story 2 and people telling her she's the AH. So glad she got out.

[@ceciliacalvin263]

Story 1: your guess about what IRA stood for was spot on.

[@broken_queer_but_fighting8589]

Hey you yes you remember to take care of yourself gosh darn it, you are always valid, and I love you and care about you so please take care of yourself 💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗

[@genericdragon7260]

What a great post! Thank you. God bless you 🙏 ❤

[@broken_queer_but_fighting8589]

@@genericdragon7260 💜💜🤗🤗

[@tegantalks9612]

Story 2- as a bisexual woman the idea that bisexual people are more likely to cheat really offends me. I’ve been with my husband for 7 years and haven’t cheated on him once.

[@bioshockbrat9171]

story 2: gotta have open communication between partners, being in a relationship doesn't mean you're attached at the hip, you're allowed alone time, and time out with your friends. You're still your own person. - Big ole yikes in the yard on that one.

[@aprilproctor1283]

Love the video as always. Unfortunately, some people can't help but be toxic 😪 I dated a guy alot like Jane. It ended badly. VERY badly. I hope OP has better luck.

[@cupcak3ninja209]

You can’t go with friends alone? But she can? She’s a cheater100

[@kageengel8340]

I'm a newbie to your channel and I love how you have your lists. I listen while cleaning schools at night because it makes me feel less alone

[@dustysimpson7864]

1- your father knew what HE was doing, don't give her anything.

[@ruddiko]

Those are some insane levels of greed you hear people killing for

[@Kinsfire]

The second story was "I'm thinking of cheating on you with another woman, so I have to accuse you first."

[@Psyko1323]

Story 2: When she said that her ex is a lesbian and she is bi, I had a very strong feeling that was the main reason for the behavior. I'm pan and most lesbians I've talked to have said they couldn't trust that I wouldn't cheat on them with a man. I'm not a cheater and IF I were, I'm PAN, it's not just men I could cheat on them with. Why are you so concerned about just that one?

[@fhuber7507]

1... NTA. Your inheritance is YOURS. Step-witch got what OP's dad wanted her to get. OP's dad should have divorced the witch and split the estate 50-50, to be rid of witch and her abusive spawn.

[@missmax2492]

The step mother sounds exactly like my cousin's stepmother and my uncle's wife. Envious, manipulative and mean

[@cesaravegah3787]

I would said "Leave me alone or I will sue your for harassment, as for the money, forget about it."

[@allandavis8201]

I totally agree with the comments that the girlfriend is trying to be controlling, lacks trust, and is jealous of the writer of the story, it’s also obvious that the relationship is going nowhere, it seems obvious to me, and most others, that she, the writer, should get out of the relationship now, leaving it until more time elapses will make it much harder and emotionally charged for both people.

[@hvymax]

OP should dump the agonizing Dingbat. She was ecstatic about ruining everyone's weekend.

[@Sienna6164]

Story I- Why do I suspect that the step mother changed the will in her favor before he husband’s death

[@AndyyWithAY]

In story 2 YTA. For bringing Jane. They have a no partners rule and you for some reason think you're exempt.

[@novabrilliant4510]

Listening while I make an orange marmalade birthday cake. Hope everyone is having a wonderful day. Wish I had cake for all of you 🎂

[@GrassJelly101]

Omg orange marmalade cake sounds delicious! 🍊🍰🎂

[@MarkNarrations]

Wow a orange marmalade cake sounds amazing!

[@TheArnaa]

Listening to this sitting out in my little back garden. I’m looking after my sister’s cat for awhile so she gets a morning constitutional out here. My garden isn’t cat secure, so I have to keep her on a lead. 🐈

[@meezerluvr]

You are correct on meaning of IRA. There are two kinds. Traditional IRAs allow you to invest before paying any taxes. Money is taxed as you take distributions out of. Roth IRAs are taxed BEFORE investing, but then you can later take distributions tax-free.

[@defuncttoad9552]

Hey Mark just dropping into say your videos help get me through my work day! I appreciate ya!

[@lily-zg6io]

Story 2's outcome is fairly common when a bi/omni/pan person dates someone with a single gender attraction, being straight gay or lesbian, and that's why so many bi/pan/omni people prefer to only date people with a multiple gender attraction

[@EllieC130]

I've listened to this story about 3 times and kept thinking I didn't hear it properly because I didn't understand how the hell she would be TA?

[@Ifrit86]

story 2 - /u/stolethemorning is probably that partner that all the friends don't like

[@ilbercgross4736]

Story 2 prior to the update. The commentor saying that OP is the arse for the situation. Wrong. Could you imagine taking your bride to be to your bachelor party? OP is not allowed to go to her gf friends when they have get togethers. So it is fair that OP leave the gf at home the way gf leaves OP at home. Of course the gf was boosting how she had fun. She knew she was not welcome and how others were down because of it. She had fun ruining other peoples fun. OP should just drop the gf. The gf sound to controlling and manipulating.

[@doctordetroit1217]

Story one of Dad was smart enough to put the IRA in OPs name he should have split everything down the middle, so step-mom and her "kid" get 50% and OP and her brother get 50%, because it sounds like there was plenty to go around for everyone!

[@kathymonahan8024]

I listen while crocheting a teddy bear for a friends new baby

[@succubitch1054]

That last comment on story 2 was bs

[@s53nu5]

Am i the buttface is just a more relaxed version of AITA. basically you can post things that aren't necessarily "judge-able" as well as fictional stories ect ect.

[@shenanigans8258]

Mark! You cheeky so and so you. Keep being awesome!!

[@MarkNarrations]

You're the cheeky so and so! :) Hope you're good my friend

[@semideadnat]

The YTA comment on story 2 is fucking bullshit. Not every friend group is comfortable with the idea of bring partners with them. Why? The friend group whenever they hang out want to be with friends. Sure introducing your partners to your friends is good and all but why at a friends get together? Not everyone is comfortable with that idea. OP made it clear that OP’s girlfriend didn’t like OP’s friend group and didn’t invite her to any of her hangouts while OP has to bring her girlfriend. I swear that commenter needs to reread the post.

[@laurenmentink7401]

Thank you, Mark. Jane just doesn't seem to trust anyone. Sounds like projecting to me. Hope you and Poppy are doing well.

[@danalynkew7088]

What am I doing while listening? Sweeping the ice chunks that many frozen cans of sparkling water spewed everywhere in the room between my house and garage. It's -20C and will be all week. I listen to you to stay sane while snow shovelling, ice salting, and trying to survive winter.

[@GrassJelly101]

Oh, no! Stay warm and hang in there!

[@danalynkew7088]

@@GrassJelly101

[@295Phoenix]

Story 1: NTA Former step-wife is disgusting...utterly disgusting.

[@AKASANJEEWA]

Story 01 : don't giver her money. WTF! Share it with your brother. If you want to. Also the father. Not sure about this but he could have ordered to sell his properties and share a proportion with each of them. I wonder how its fair for the daughter and the son to just share 55k and some stuff whereas the wife and the step son have access to 700k according to the OP

[@barbaraunderwood1762]

How can the stepmother afford all those houses. Also social security will not allow u to draw your deseased husband & your social security at the same time. I know that for a fact . I’m a 69 year old widow & drawing survivors benefits from mine because I can draw more off him. This woman’s father knew what he was doing leaving the ira to her. Goes to show he didn’t trust his wife where money was concerned & he knew she’d be shelfish

[@annamcnarin]

Why in the world didn't that man get a prenup? Or better yet, why marry a gold digger?

[@forgetaboutme5414]

I saw that coming soon as the info said she was bi and partner was lesbian