Feeling drained? Obsessively thinking about someone? Here’s why and what to do.

[@natascha.anastasia]

This happens to me in almost all my relationships from friend, lover to even work all due to my childhood, only fades after a long time without contact but the process itself is so frustrating

[@almazarchetypes]

@@natascha.anastasia I understand your frustration. It’s heartbreaking to know that so many people are going through this.

[@Kali5000]

I have just been woken up.... You just turned up on my feed for a reason.... I went to a concert yesterday and the lady, Artist Sinead Harnet mentioned her life.... She was broken , she wanted Love Her songs conveyed they She's worked on herself Self love Love yourself Heal the inner child.... Trauma bond relationships Same pattern because it's familiar... Boundaries, Sinead Harnet Listen to her songs, and it will hit home... We all need to wake up to this and parent our inner child because we are worthy and it is safe to receive healthy love. Big hugs ❤❤❤

[@gerryhardow4527]

Oh my god this is life-changing advice. Do you feel like diaspora stuck in tight-knit nuclear families --ones that unhealthily cling onto each other because those are the only ones they have --are more susceptible to unhealthy, almost Oedipal, attachments ? Thank you for helping me face the darkness, and thank you for granting me methodologies to bring myself towards the light.

[@almazarchetypes]

@@gerryhardow4527 You are so welcome. With regards to the diaspora or migrants in general, there is truth to what you are saying. Most migrants are driven by a sense of loyalty that has never been questioned and this is causing a lot of resentment and toxicity in them. This is a very dear topic to me so I am considering making a video on it.

[@sweetpea.k]

wow i got chills listen to you speak about this. thank you so very much🫀

[@sarahwide]

So insightful and practical advice to transition away from the obsessiveness! Highlighting that it's about seeking safety and understanding that part of yourself not shunning it. I really appreciate you sharing! ❤

[@almazarchetypes]

@@sarahwide Thank you.

[@FrancescaSVision]

OMG! 888 views as I am watching this. I never thought about the issue in this way. I always knew it's because of something else, not because I am addicted to being breadcrumbed. You are right, I am extremely hypervigillant due to my C-PTSD. Thank you so much!!❤️❤️

[@almazarchetypes]

@@FrancescaSVision You’re so welcome.

[@AmyK007]

I’ve been looking for the answer to this problem for months. Thank you so very much ❤️🙏🙏🙏

[@almazarchetypes]

@@AmyK007 I am so glad to hear that.

[@withexpectancy5818]

This video is so powerful, relatable and healing. Thank you so so much.😘🙏🏾😘. Bless you. Subbed.

[@AmourCarol]

Your channel needs more views and subscribers! You are sharing so many gems ✨

[@withexpectancy5818]

Yes!!!❤

[@mob.1409]

Thank you so much for posting. New subscriber here. Thank you for leading us towards wellness in the most authentic and relatable way I have seen thus far. This is so appreciated, I appreciate it so much.

[@almazarchetypes]

@@mob.1409 I am so glad.

[@KM-VioletLight]

I loves this so much. ❤

[@withexpectancy5818]

Me too!!😊

[@tauryn2483]

Very great advice thanks

[@almazarchetypes]

@@tauryn2483 You’re so welcome.

[@ekstasis31]

🙏hahaa needed this I’ve known it for awhile but I really needed to start actually acknowledging the truth of why I feel a certain way about them

[@almazarchetypes]

@@ekstasis31 Great.

[@ekstasis31]

@@almazarchetypes … I may have gone back…

[@TheHealingChord]

❤❤❤thank you! Very Healing ❤️‍🩹

[@almazarchetypes]

@@TheHealingChord Great.

[@ShalimarPicasso]

Brilliant video. I love it! Thank you

[@almazarchetypes]

@@ShalimarPicasso You’re welcome.

[@Rayray20-e4z]

Thank you so much this has greatly helped. I would like to tell you my story but its way to long. I wish i found this vidoe three years ago 😢.

[@almazarchetypes]

@@Rayray20-e4z You’re welcome and I hope to hear your story one day.

[@latishabennett702]

❤❤❤

[@tauryn2483]

Thankyou

[@almazarchetypes]

@@tauryn2483 You’re welcome.

[@Karmagetcha789]

Never think of anyone Just like tarot Ppl r not that important to think about 😂

[@Dalimanija]

Thank you so much, for talking about it.. From the depths of my heart 🤍💎🖤🦓🪽🪽

[@almazarchetypes]

@@Dalimanija You’re so welcome.