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Mae Martin steps out into online dating after a tricky break-up.
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[@Skwerll]

Hey BBC, just a suggestion: When a video consists entirely of one person standing on a stage delivering their act, throw their name up there in the title. They deserve it. Thanks

[@polipoqueen9334]

For real though!

[@takethembowling]

I thought it was an instructional video about tinder settings

[@greatwazzoo]

Yeah! who was that teenage boy?

[@liamduncanau]

Jaret Snyder read the description

[@hvacman2009]

DON'T WORRY 'BOUT POSTING THE NAME...HE BLOWS

[@Bobonnie108]

Her name should be in the title of the video

[@katsweeterly2039]

petition signed! It happens quite a lot these days... don't they know KZbin SEO?!

[@caileydavidson1792]

+

[@br41nb0x7]

Absolutely! wtf

[@DanXDelion]

I think it's something Bieber...

[@nintenjoe2702]

And you should put space worms in no man's sky

[@clarence.anderson]

Wait “how was everyone’s childhood” is a legitimate ice breaker question🤣🤣

[@biebc7167]

I guess all comedians had so sort of childhood trauma that makes them funny. My trauma I don’t mean in a bad way.

[@carag2567]

It literally is. I'm using it at my first post-COVID party.

[@racheltucker8054]

Loved it🤣

[@danielalt7054]

Lmao same question they used in their new show Feels Good as well

[@Megzchannel1]

🤣🤣🤣

[@kimthejunglist]

Her name is Mae Martin in case you missed her saying it.

[@alsmith1749]

Yes. She really needs to articulate that better... I had to look at the Info box to find out what her name actually was!

[@kimthejunglist]

Al Smith :: No she doesn’t. She’s needs better shows where her name is featured on the stage or the genius who put the video up needs to learn to include her name. Some comics don’t even say their name.

[@alsmith1749]

@@kimthejunglist We can agree to differ -- Although I will admit it would have been fairer if the video poster had include her name in the title, the idea of YT video titles is more about gaming the algorithm and getting clicks NOT promoting acts as far as the video poster is concerned... SO... when you are fairly new to the game (and your name is unknown enough not to cause any traction on YT yet!) it is an essential part of the process to make sure people hear your name well enough to remember it when they choose to view your act... Well established comics almost always do it (even though everyone knows who they are and paid to see them!... this is not an accident, they just know how the game is played)... Those comics who don't do this and need to rely on kindly folk to 'happen to mention it' in a comment stream on YT are missing an opportunity for self-promotion... and that is a big part of what becoming established is all about.

[@kimthejunglist]

Al Smith :: How should the other comics, who don’t happen to mention their name like they’re using a bull horn, go about having their diction and annunciation corrected? :: I have heard Ali Wong, Whoopie Goldberg announce theirs at the end, but never Eddie Murphy or Kevin Hart have said theirs at all in their larger staged shows. I would love to know why her name was excluded. I’ve even seen lower tiered comics have their name in title whilst never mentioning their names in the clips.

[@oftankoftan]

@@kimthejunglist hey, buddy. Read the description.

[@lindsayalisonstevens3592]

“You lied with your hair!” I can’t breathe 😂😂😂

[@jujuu_.]

This made me LAUGH so damn much 😭😂😂

[@somanayr]

Oof those words have not aged well

[@spookymia8135]

"No, but... your hair" As a short punk-haired bisexual, I feel this *so deeply*

[@djangoworldwide7925]

It's not punk, it's fassion

[@spookymia8135]

@Rafael Acosta they said, responding to a reply from a girl with short brightly colored hair? Like, did you forget your wheaties this morning or are you always this rude?

[@mymygonzalez45]

Yup got that a lot when i had my pixie and bob.

[@banu0245]

I love this style but I felt pressed to change it after a crash said "wait I thought you're gay or bisexual, but you aren't even a childfree!"

[@spookymia8135]

@@banu0245 that's such a sucky attitude! I'm so sorry gatekeepers ruined that for you. People should do whatever they want with their hair. Also in what universe are being gay/bi and having kids mutually exclusive? I'm bisexual and my husband and I are trying to have kids right now, colored hair and all.

[@landornan]

I think she could do a great Kristen Stewart impression

[@voyance4elle]

Yessss 💖

[@Sonja25997]

I was looking for this comment!!

[@junemartinez1533]

I had the same thought!

[@Simp44]

I like them both but I'm not really seeing it.

[@tanyamenghani7472]

they both panic in gay

[@goobz4446]

her name is Mae Martin and she was the main character in a Netflix show called "Feel Good"! I highly suggest it!

[@lydyuhhjade474]

I love love that show.. so excited there is gonna be a season 2! :)

[@rin8500]

Yeah I'm here from the show

[@ffzotjesdn]

Didn't she write it?

[@DevyaniMulik]

@@ffzotjesdn they use they/them pronouns now and yeah, Mae co wrote it

[@RoshniS]

YESS IT WAS SO GOOD!

[@Crow29803]

She’s funny in an depressing, anxiety and millennium way. BTW, I mean this in a loving way. But if you listen, most of her stories have sad part.

[@hawkeye7527]

I love it honestly. Finding humor in sadness is sometimes the only way to truly cope and move on. It'a really common in fire/ems, law enforcement, healthcare, and military. Dark and cold to some..stress relieving to others.

[@KnightofDuroch]

Comedy = tragedy + time

[@littleripper312]

I didn't find it sad

[@BNL07604]

I know what you mean. Sometimes her whole set isn't laugh per minute, but then again that's when I find her most relatable.

[@christopherparks2987]

Okay so she's human

[@elio451]

"you lied with your hair." best gay joke I've heard in a long time. i literally screamed.

[@MxAmericanPi]

As a bisexual with gay hair I am s c r e a m I n g

[@veronikablumenschein7464]

Better than a lesbian who looks straight 😂

[@pixelpiratepo]

Because of the way the text is formatted, the S in "screaming" got left behind. Still checks out.

[@milagrosguerreroorlando2730]

As a bisexual with hetero hair I am s c r e a m I n g

[@giselledsouza4073]

@@milagrosguerreroorlando2730 I'm not the only one now I'm s c r e a m i n g

[@littleripper312]

@@veronikablumenschein7464 Sigh, that is me sadly and yes, it is sad.

[@nittygritty7034]

Maybe eating a peach in grade 9

[@jacobodom8401]

it's a metaphor

[@yakuzzi35]

Some Call Me By Your Name type sh@!

[@C4H10N4O2]

They turn the freaking frogs gay

[@audreybertelson1972]

@@jacobodom8401 oh my

[@elijahrobinson2362]

Worst misquote ever. Best misquote ever.

[@hernansaez7500]

Anyone else watching this after binging feel good?

[@bronyewest2129]

hernan saez that show was my favorite and now i need more mae martin content

[@Simp44]

I just finished it & really liked it but now I need something that's just funny & not frigging heart wrenching.

[@mak8680]

hernan saez yes and now I’m so confused. I didn’t know her real name is really Mea Martin! What’s goin on?

[@cassiusfelix2805]

That's the name of the show

[@null-wj1sd]

Yup!

[@asdfsewer7708]

Finally found the blonde, female version of Otis Milburn from Sex Ed

[@DAEsaster]

God dammit why is that so accurate

[@TheDarxpixie]

Omg, yes!!! Can't unsee it...

[@MarcoAce13]

Hahahahah yes that’s what I thought too

[@hellosabrinachaney]

Well now she needs to guest star, it's the law

[@sybariticcupboardrat3763]

Damnit, now I can't unsee how similar she is to asa butterfield.

[@Danijadebabyblue]

Is it just me or was that a rough crowd? The last line had me rolling "we gave your brother the same peaches"

[@Sisterlisk]

They were probably silent laughing, like I was

[@litastardreams]

They appear to be laughing at every single punchline...

[@Joey-bx8uz]

nah i think is fair

[@Zett76]

As a youtube watcher, her awkwardness made it a little hard for me to open up... don't get me wrong, it was totally cute, and works out in the end, but my first impression was "hm... don't know if that gonna be good... get it going, girl! I don't care about your father's and mother's name!" I know. I‘m a monster. 😉

[@SuperNikitasha]

well that was the part where I laughed the loudest 😁😁

[@rushingly332]

The most iconic performance of the Ian Peach thing is when she asked someone in the audience if they knew him and they did and you could see her have an existential crisis in real time

[@dimadozen5199]

is there a video of this 😭

[@Esmio06]

Seriously, share that link if there is

[@acchaladka]

It's at Just Laughs Montréal, her first appearance in 2015 or so, if you do search. Now she's hosting the JFL gala (last night actually) and has a Netflix special, and her own show.

[@soniarana5061]

'They are just worried about me being alive on this earth in general' Same here sister, same here

[@TheKillahKyla]

why did they birth us in the first place thennnn

[@exxiethewriter3567]

Okay but the act won't compare to the time when she asked if anyone knew Ian Peach and someone in the audience went 'yeah'

[@beccam7286]

Yes! I've seen that one and she was soooo unprepared for that response 😂

[@nalanimaxineeicker5629]

@Miranda Lockyer kzbin.info/www/bejne/j2G4gWmbftWIlbc see for yourself, it's too funny xD

[@cadavher]

@@nalanimaxineeicker5629 what country are you in? It says its blocked in Canada, I tried a USA vpn and same response :(

[@nalanimaxineeicker5629]

@@cadavher Oh no :( I'm from Germany, so maybe you can try a German vpn?

[@elijahrobinson2362]

I think she asked the Canadian girl but it was cut from this bit. The one where she does has the same set/clothes.

[@loviisaa409]

"You lied with your hair" hahahaha

[@seriouslyobsessed947]

She’s a Canadian living in the UK wearing an American shirt

[@TheKillahKyla]

With a british-ized Canadian accent

[@pinkstrad]

That duvet thing is REAL

[@jv-lk7bc]

am I wrong for putting my duvet on alone ? am i mising something imortant?

[@cplcabs]

Only if you let it. Normal single people just get on with it.

[@cplcabs]

@@jv-lk7bc victimhood.

[@gdaymates431]

I met a girl off tinder last week, she lied with her hair and after it was too late (already in my house) told me she had a boyfriend of 10 years. The next day i told my friends and they all had the "she lied with her hair" response. So funny.

[@KarlaTheMichelle]

Gday mates Then WHY WAS SHE ON TINDER

[@gdaymates431]

@@KarlaTheMichelle Open relationship, but forgot to mention it on her profile because she is new to it all.

[@eliontheinternet3298]

Gday mates is that... BS that I smell?

[@littleripper312]

I can't stand girls who have boyfriends trying to hook up with girls like that. It's misleading and wastes your time. They should make it clear they have a boyfriend and are in a relationship.

[@gdaymates431]

Name Yeah, I told her she needs to change her profiles that it isn’t fair to mislead people. She has since changed it.

[@tianacoupe127]

I watched all of Feel Good in a day and am only just now realizing that she’s a real comedian

[@bennyton2560]

Is it a show?

[@itzmejuliamontes95]

she did this skit too on the first episode ❤️

[@est9949]

@@bennyton2560 It is. It's on Netflix! Look it up! I've just binged it before I came looking for her content here.

[@hanaeltantawy145]

yeah the show is actually semi-autobiographical

[@maureendoherty6090]

Yeah, they said once that it was loosely autobiographical

[@karlasilva5037]

She looks like the love child of Russell Howard and John Mulaney

[@harryscott2955]

Karla Silva she looks like the dude from That 70s Show

[@matsimoto3541]

More like Russell Howard and Ellen Degeneres.

[@annette0715]

She also looks so much like the actress Anna Faris.

[@flask223]

I definitely see the mulaney. It’s the eyes

[@marlenasien8793]

"Oh my God" That's my mother's baseline, too.

[@magusrefugeyoutubechannel3487]

"We gave your brother the same peaches!"🤣🤣 I'm dead!!

[@roberthedleyiii279]

"We gave your brother the same peaches" It never stops being hilarious!

[@stevec6002]

Clicked this with low expectations, came out having a possibly new fav comedian!

[@231swift]

haha totes

[@LizzyCurran]

She’s so underrated

[@magpie405]

"you lied with your hair" this is gold

[@MrQuantum1992]

So weird, she's really good and I loved her timing and jokes. But why is the audience dead?

[@shaes9345]

Brits. Enough said.

[@socialstoic2099]

Because she had no jokes

[@sophia.r1484]

I mean I thought it was fairly funny but it’s a very American-esque style of comedy which often doesn’t really resonate with brits

[@dancamp72]

Because she is not funny.

[@dianapevtsov]

@@socialstoic2099 Exactly. I won't say Mae Martin's not funny, because Mae got laughs, but those people who misquoted Mae did Mae a favor because the "eating a peach" misquote is Mae's only joke, meaning it's the only thing Mae says that's constructed in a way where it's explicitly clear the audience is invited to laugh. Everything else is an unjoked premise. Twice Mae marked an unrequited desire to have received a vocal expression of audience sympathy, which made me think, "Yeah, the audience expected jokes, so no one's getting their needs met and you both deserve each other." I Googled Mae Martin after watching this video to confirm they're a comedian.

[@ProfMannion]

There is a better version of this same bit where a girl in the audience knew Ian Peach and it’s beautifully awkward.

[@forforkssake30]

Dude what! xD do you by any chance think you could find the link?

[@Sinsearach]

Ahaaaahhh brilliant.

[@Raddiebaddie]

Put their name in the title please

[@alexandraclegg1268]

"maybe eating a peach" and that's on call me by your name smh

[@pavletapavlova904]

For all of my single peeps out there: turn the duvet cover inside out, grab the inside corners and hold them together with the corners of the duvet. After you make sure you're holding them tightly, sort of shake the cover on. It should flip over as it slides down. I hope my explanation makes sense. If not, I'm sure there would be plenty of videos demonstrating how it's done. That little bit of information changed my life 😁

[@RuRaynor]

It's still hard if it's a double duvet and you have tiny T-rex arms like me 😂

[@DeliberateConfusion]

Who are you, so wise in the ways of science?

[@gotem6891]

ayy i do use this method all the time :)

[@errorcrj110]

No no no, you're supposed to climb inside the cover, struggle to find the corners, struggle some more trying to get them in the right places, then break down and cry. whydidyouleaveme ;-;

[@car_go_vroom_vroom8602]

What's a duvet if you don't mind me asking?

[@darbystlawrence1509]

I love Mae! Her Netflix show “Feel Good” is also soooo damn good.

[@BrennaAOlson]

I’m not sure why but she reminds me of Eric Foreman

[@lunestiacrescent827]

Somewhere between Eric Foreman and Elvira Kurt.

[@dcllaw677]

That’s who she reminds me of

[@skyemitchell6445]

Omg

[@purplehaze5817]

I came to the comments looking for this

[@jordynnbrooks3472]

I literally can’t unsee it now!!😂😂😂

[@DAEsaster]

"You lied...with your hair" Me @ women I think are cute, all the time.

[@danielaf1487]

As a straight person I'm wondering what the problem is with so many straight and gay people not being able to over the fact that bisexuals exist. And I'm not even one myself! I just always thought it makes sense to be attracted to both genders. It's just not how I turned out.

[@pureheartbadass]

i love them sm, they're the first person i've heard talking about the intricacies of being bisexual and genderqueer/non-binary or more masculine and everyone assuming you're a lesbian in public and it's so !!!! (s/o to lesbians though ily)

[@georgedarwent651]

Maybe eating a peach in grade 9 😂

[@marlybzr1199]

She’s like a better version of Ellen.

[@potatoqueen338]

Oh yah. Definitely

[@NSachs-tx8xb]

And less violent

[@est9949]

Tbh, Ellen has been attacked unfairly. She has sacrificed so much and now Trump's conspiracy theorists have been trying to take her down, along with other liberal celebrities.

[@hartejassekhon8907]

this aged well lmao

[@sashavelour4762]

That’s because she’s ✨Canadian✨

[@jkauser4518]

THE SHOW "FEEL GOOD" IS AMAZING SHE PLAYS HER OWN Character!!!

[@amiewhitlock]

Love her, perfect delivery

[@shohitachoudhry2808]

Omg she looks so much like Anna Faris!!!!

[@bethanielaurenhawkins956]

shohita choudhry I was about to comment the same thing!

[@philiphall9078]

She looks like someone tried to make Russel Howard with Skyrim character creator

[@crystalm4324]

Lol 😂 Sending Canadian pride 🇨🇦! There was a bit of wobble to it with the audience reaction in the beginning, but I think that’s only because she looked so young at first glance. Excellent way to put everything together at the end though! Omg. Lol.

[@brookeschwartz8470]

All the bisexuals in the comments self-consciously mussing their pixie cuts

[@HilariouslyScary]

Just came from her netflix show. Absolutely wonderful! I can't wait to see more from her ^^

[@imstillsil]

Okay, just binge watched Feel good in one evening. It's amazing I can't get enough of it! Can't wait for season 2 it's soooo good! I'm ashamed I haven't heard of her before.. But I think that's gonna change 😂

[@tiahr1939]

Peaches make you bi, it’s official😭😭😭

[@elenapopovic2527]

Worked for me

[@alex_montoya]

So I got a new crush

[@mariiiioh]

I've not cry laughed in forever. She's amazing. Thank you youtube algorithm.

[@veronicavain3431]

I saw the feel good on Netflix and when I saw this video in my suggestion I was like...wait....mae..?

[@youngmosh]

She's awesome!!! Love to see more of her shows

[@Thehansello]

Very funny :-) I’ll be watching out for more of Mae in future.

[@TooneySA]

This was a good set. Well done!

[@annwatson2637]

Only just discovered Mae Martin after watching the new TV programme "Feel Good" with Charlotte Ritchie . Loved it , great comedy ! I'm now a fan . :)

[@FranksRedHotSauce505]

Wait omg this is the girl from the show 'feel good' on Netflix

[@ionacmitchell]

“You lied with your hair” killed me 😭

[@TheClosingDreams]

I think I just found my future wife

[@dodowhite951]

I saw her in Feel Good, which is great by the way, but I didn’t know she was a real comedian! She’s really good!

[@lisasimpson8895]

i'm straight but maybe not so much cause i think i have a crush on her hahah

[@rabbisnail]

Because she looks like a guy?

[@mrmccranky]

cris_ dsc remember, she is lying with her hair! 😏

[@MrSidney9]

Lots of boys in High school look just like her. She looks just like them I should say.

[@RickyMaveety]

I’m asexual and I am crushing on her too.

[@lorenahooper]

Thank you Tiny desk staff ❤ tiny desk helped me get through the Pandemic and it's my favorite KZbin channel hands down! ❤❤❤

[@OhitsONnow]

The interviewers said she could eat a peach fer HOURS

[@jefferyrowland5579]

OhitsONnow well played

[@o_lymbias4159]

Most comments are haters, I loved it, it was millennial funny

[@urgfswallows]

@Ben Fizz Not just an opposing opinion but an opinion that tends to be fact or backed w/ validation!

[@Pwwh0711]

"Millennial funny" - That's an oxymoronic insult, take it back!

[@cplcabs]

Millennial funny, so it wasn't

[@parulshanker1436]

We gave your brother same peaches 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Mae Martin awesome job ..keep it up !!!!!

[@DavidPuckArtist]

Love them! just watched Feel Good and loved it

[@AmritSinghisnotPERFECT]

LOVED IT. The way she plays he mother is so hilarious!!!

[@dec23]

I have long, luscious locks, and people think I'm straight. 😂

[@TheJadenDave]

As a guy with blonde hair I'm screaming and crying and crawling around the floor furiously

[@NicholasWhite]

She's hysterical! Love it!

[@RT-vw6yw]

Mad Peter Pan vibes, especially after hearing about Wendy and then seeing her name as Mary Martin at first.

[@yummysushipyjamas]

Also Peter was always traditionally played by a female

[@antonettprado412]

"You lied with your hair" 😂😂😂

[@yoc7785]

She's so cute! I love her hair.

[@Singapom888]

This is a really terrific set.

[@alihughes3728]

Omg she's actually so funny!!! Like I usually don't laugh that much at comedy but wow I was literally laughing most of the video

[@janelleyulo1557]

For those of you guys trying to find her name, she’s Mae Martin.

[@vandanalikhmania3731]

Call for an Ian Peach reaction video!

[@loub5499]

Saw her special in netflix, she‘s amazing ! Please put her name in the title :)

[@izzyperformingarts3855]

I simply adore that the bbc made a one off series just about her. In love.

[@aasjekins]

You can see your much more confident she is now

[@calliecollins2407]

this invoked genuine laughter oh my god

[@paigeb7214]

Loved this!!!

[@Esmio06]

You are hilarious. Thank you for the laughs.

[@AjukiX]

“You lied with your hair” :/ lmao I can’t

[@lilyrose3]

"Maybe eating a peach in grade 9" that killed me 🤣🤣

[@whitflores8160]

This is fr my favorite stand up bit ever

[@sayabaq]

binge watched feel good on netflix, didn’t know she was an actual comedian, cool!

[@jbkawaiiholic]

I have the biggest crush on her😅 something about her personality makes me want to be an anxious mess together 😂

[@margomartin1670]

She’s hilarious, we need more

[@DOSkywalkR]

When they talk about their mom I can't help but picturing Lisa Kudrow 😄

[@miguelsgoliveira]

She's so good! Loved!

[@jeremiahjohnson1513]

My first girlfriend broke up with my telling me to meet her after school to talk. I had to get ride from a friend because her school was about 10 miles away. When we got there right as school got out she came walking out with a group of her girlfriends walking hand in hand with her ex boyfriend. She didn't even look at me but her friends were all watching me and giggled at my expression. I would have preferred she had done it over the phone with her friends laughing in the background.

[@saltedsoymilk]

brutal!!!!!!! wtf!!!! i'm so sorry

[@MDev1997]

Oh my GOD I love her! 😂

[@veevee4033]

I love her enthusiasm

[@veena4976]

Mae Martin is SO BRILLIANT!! 😍😂

[@JP-gf3fs]

She's refreshingly good and hilarious! There should be more.

[@alicewhite_1818]

"You lied with your hair" best line 😂

[@chrissyoz2496]

I love her. She’s so funny and I loved her Netflix series

[@jv-lk7bc]

A finely crafted bit that wove all the threads into one wrap up..dead audience, she deserved better. was professional about it anyway. hats off. funny, smart and classy.