She almost made me cry too. I feel what she went through. It's sad that families will turn their backs on one another. She doesn't look like she's going to be 40 in March. Thanks for sharing. Peace and Blessings.
@ThatWomanJezebel10 ай бұрын
Please tell Janene I loved her experience! Thanks for sharing. I loved how she said about breaking the bond with the mother ship and then being able to find yourself. And the ‘world’ was her true best friends! I love it and agree!!!!! Hugs Janene (and you are super duper pretty girlfriend!)
@janeneshireese9 ай бұрын
Aww thanks so much! 🥰
@conniecornsilk295510 ай бұрын
Everything you say is true, I actually bought a Kings James version bible and googled the scriptures that were removed and words changed. Was an eye opener !! I became a born again Christian and go to non-denomination church. Very happy and blessed.
@rmh49010 ай бұрын
It's so refreshing Not to believe this doctrine. You feel so free and not afraid of disobeying the 9 old dudes in NY
@shamrox1210 ай бұрын
Perfectly explained.....I love this young lady!
@calcotw210 ай бұрын
Whatever your career field, Janene, it should require speaking. Your lovely personality shines through and your presentation skills are phenomenal. Congratulations on saving your own life.
@janeneshireese10 ай бұрын
Thanks so much! Ironically enough it does! I was a bedside nurse for 5 years which involved a whole lot of teaching and then was software trainer for a while. Even now i regularly do presentations to groups.
@zzyzx422810 ай бұрын
One of the best interviews I have seen with a former JW. Janene is very articulate and intelligent. It was a pleasure listening to her. I can totally relate to what she said about just wanting to be a normal person. That is exactly how I felt. When I first left it wasn't as much about doctrine as I just wanted to be myself. I was tired of being an odd ball over things I didn't really think were important anymore. I've never understood why some people say informing the witnesses in writing as to why you are leaving is playing by their rules. I guess Martin Luther nailing his 95 Theses to the Whittenberg church door was playing by the Catholic Churches rules. I've never understood why making your leaving the Watchtower Society formal by putting it is writing should be considered "playing by their rules". It's only playing by their rules if that is why you are doing it. Most people do it to make their position clear. It's simply the clearest way of say NO, I no longer wish to be a part if this. We can still be friends if you like but I'm not going to dance for you anymore. I also like what she said about being comfortable with not knowing. I think that is one of the hardest things for JWs to understand. That someone can be ok with saying "I don't know" Witnesses are used to being asked questions and given the answer by the same people asking the question. Anyway, she was great. I hope you get more interviews with people of her caliber on your channel.
@janeneshireese10 ай бұрын
Thanks so much for your kind words! I'm glad my story resonates with you 😊
@itsjustme631510 ай бұрын
This was such a great video! Thank you for sharing your story, and congratulations on your freedom and your engagement! I would love to speak to both of you! (Currently a PIMO) I DO NOT WANT TO REMAIN IN THIS CULT ANYMORE but you know why I'm still in? My kids mostly, I've distanced myself from the "friends" in preparation of me leaving!
@symone311310 ай бұрын
Do you have a plan? If not start making one so that it doesn’t come as a shock when you decide to make your move…. Good luck…
@itsjustme631510 ай бұрын
@symone3113 thank you, I really don't, I know i need to. I have health problems so it's not easy. I've been talking to family telling them i don't want to do this anymore and why I'm stuck, hoping someing will offer some help. They don't care for the JW's much.
@miriamdelaneyheard223410 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing your journey. Congratulations on your engagement!
@lawrencestoll628710 ай бұрын
So easy to listen to and follow
@janespitfire988410 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing info Janeen and Vevian! So glad Janeen is free now. Her story was traumatic. I could related as woman and being ignored in the KH congregation and by JW family. The CSA in JW is so sad and those people need counseling not hiding it. Plus many people hurt.
@johnnyruins902510 ай бұрын
Thank you both for a great interview glad you are out of the cult.
@fourthgirl502810 ай бұрын
Wow, this is such a heartfelt interview. You remind me so much of a young woman in our Kingdom Hall, who went to a foreign language congregation. Yes, I can relate to the words about gathering, bits and pieces and tying it all up and coming to an aha moment Where things started to fall into place. I’m so happy that you’ve moved on and creating a life that is yours. Thank you Vevian for another great interview.
@mcbrayerok10 ай бұрын
Really enjoyed hearing her story!
@alistairdeacon81557 ай бұрын
Such a lovely woman God Bless Her❤
@keithcampbell72010 ай бұрын
I really really enjoyed hearing her experience!!!!! We have a couple things in common especially the dysfunctional Foreign Language groups etc .. thank you so much for having her
@janeneshireese10 ай бұрын
It's an experience for sure! What language group were you in?
@edofwars857 ай бұрын
Thank you Janene. When you left a lot of friends in the French were sad. However, I am happy that you are free and happy. I honor you for your bravery. You were and continue to be a genuine person. You are pathing the way for others to breakaway. I included.
@janeneshireese7 ай бұрын
Really?!? I don't recognize your name. In the words of Peter Townsend whooo are you?
@edofwars857 ай бұрын
I wonder how can I let you know privately?
@Alisha-zq6vh7 ай бұрын
@@edofwars85So cryptic 😂
@edofwars857 ай бұрын
@@Alisha-zq6vh I’m just not ready for the public. But if there is away for me to privately let her know, please provide the information. 😀
@Alisha-zq6vh7 ай бұрын
@@edofwars85Try her Gram. migni_and_me
@symone311310 ай бұрын
‘Bringing reproach on Jehovahs name’ I hate hearing those words… it was used a lot when I was a JW🤬
@ceecrosa626210 ай бұрын
Just starting the video now- Rochester N.Y!! We went to the blue cross arena for conventions. We are about an hour south of Buffalo
@janeneshireese10 ай бұрын
I wonder if we ever crossed paths!
@RudisKetabs10 ай бұрын
Janene is such a sweetheart. I’m happy, she’s out.
@paula792109 ай бұрын
You are precious!
@FUNNYMANERICWHITE10 ай бұрын
Thanks
@rachelanthony17910 ай бұрын
The way JWs treat non family and family is like black and white. It was one of the things that always pissed me off
@Anudawn878710 ай бұрын
The being cornered in the Russian hall…. needs a lot more context.
@janeneshireese10 ай бұрын
There really isn't much more context to offer. One was studying with one of the elders that was laughing. They were both older men but one of them was ex Russian military and was still very strong despite his age. I was often a target of this elder and he would "counsel" me about my appearance even though I didn't dress outlandishly or immodestly even according to jw standards. Things like wearing colors other than earth tones or muted colors and wearing shoes with heels higher than 2 inches. Keep in mind there were other sisters including his wife that wore bright colors and higher heels than I ever could. This is just me speculating but I wonder if he thought he could use this as an excuse to dictate what I wore. It's classic high control religion/purity culture to tell women in particular what they can and can't wear and then blame them for mens actions towards them. Not sure if this is the context you're looking for but maybe it explains my relationship with the elders in the Russian hall a bit more. It's hard to include years of toxicity into less than an hour. Thanks for watching!
@allanu641610 ай бұрын
No sound
@CarolQuintyne10 ай бұрын
I think it is okay to leave the JWs and to talk to some individuals about your situation. But I believe it is wrong to put a video out there about the watchtower org. I have been there, and I know how people fall in line and suck up to the elders. Therefore, please leave the videos alone it is wrong.
@desertboot975510 ай бұрын
What do you mean?
@taylorangel770010 ай бұрын
No the Bible said whatever is in the dark shall come to the light. Anything that is hidden will be exposed. It's not up to us to determine what gets out and what doesn't. She was very respectful and truthful. She has the right to do this without anyone's permission
@firstname834810 ай бұрын
Who says it's wrong? It's her experience, she can share it if she wants.
@CarolQuintyne10 ай бұрын
I attended a few churches after leaving the org, and I can tell you that the orchestration, manipulation, lies, hypocrisy, and trickery I have witnessed are frightening. Modern day Christianity is in serious, serious trouble. Therefore, I have reached the conclusion that there are NO perfect religious organizations, hence they All err in doctrinal matters. I would go back to the org. tomorrow, why? I know how to handle things now. I don't have to believe everything coming from the GB., and NO ONE can make me believe anything I regard as rubbish. Moreover, no one in the org. will never know jack about my current personal business. I"LL go to meetings just before song and prayer, and leave immediately after. Also, since field service needs no reporting, I can take a few magazines to the mall every now and again, talk to a few individuals about current events, and return to my place of residence. I have ALWAYS been a loner, so I don't need anyone in the congregation. Case closed. A lot of our problems come as a result of trusting the elders, their wives, and pioneers. These people are held in high esteem which is ridiculous. Therefore, when they bite you, and make excuses by stating we are imperfect(that's JWs perfect excuse)that bite can last a lifetime.