16 Personalities After a Breakup

16 Myers Briggs Personalities getting DUMPED. 😭
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[@FrankJames]

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[@apocalypticexcavator5454]

Hi! I love your '16 personalities as...' vids. I have noticed that your ideas stand out among other youtubers attempting the same - they often use the generic formula based on the most obvious, outer layer of a personality, whereas you come up with all the quirks or surprising reactions which don't immediately come to mind when one thinks about a certain type. I have noticed, though, that there is one type you don't seem to be able to get right. Your ISTJ has been reduced to the "annoying guy in glasses making lists" stereotype lately, while in reality there is so much more to this type. I know that grasping the way they function may be tricky to a feeling type (and I'm in no position to tell you what to do), but I just wish that you could give your next ISTJ a bit of dimension. There's really much going on beneath these glasses.

[@lliennosrak]

Did you... just tell people to “Bing” something??? Do people do that??? Does Bing still exist? 😉

[@kevinatkinz2612]

MBTI seeing a therapist.

[@maruzkascloset9718]

INFJ 🤣😂 Hilarious and spot on!! Thanks so much.

[@kailyn7895]

Bing? 🤨

[@Burningtoasttt]

As an INFP this is how I feel all the time and I've never even dated anyone lol

[@auroranebulon]

Trash Panda TwT same lol, single life is priceless

[@andraz5377]

But have you ever missed him/her although you haven't met yet? o.O

[@lordbaphie]

@@andraz5377 As a fellow INFP, yes. As the hopeless romantic that I am, I even write letters to my future soulmate and I did in fact always say 'I miss you even though I haven't met you. When are you going to come to my life?' I'm so weird ahaha HAHAHAHAHA Haha ha.....

[@midnightfield]

Trash Panda TwT haha, same! I do love my alone time... except when I'm wondering if I'll ever be in a relationship. (I don't particularly wish to be in one right now though, and I guess time will tell!)

[@whoamireally6422]

Same lol

[@kathlynp.6697]

'I already have two friends, and that's draining enough' All INTJs please rise.

[@moonbootsally]

Kathlyn P. Present ✋🏼

[@mariobros7834]

yes, keep your friends far and your enemies farther

[@respectabletampodcast]

Yes!

[@WarriorJournals]

💪🏽

[@juweriakalim5423]

Yes! 💩💪💪💪💃

[@lillianalicejun]

INFJ’s really said “ctrl+alt+del”

[@Vanity06]

It’s true though 🤣

[@yashivuvbolshomdomenakholm8274]

Yes, we do that

[@rituparnachatterjee4965]

I did that yesterday once you are out your are out for good bye bye

[@yashivuvbolshomdomenakholm8274]

@@rituparnachatterjee4965 good job. And keep them out 😂

[@Missmagazinebura]

I delete and block them

[@g06caballerokarmelapaulab.38]

TIMESTAMPS 0:00 ENTP 0:07 ISTJ 0:19 ESFP 0:25 ISFJ 0:42 ESTP 0:49 ISFP 1:03 ESFJ 1:18 INTJ 1:31 ISTP 1:46 ENFJ 2:03 INTP 2:13 ENFP 2:31 INFJ 2:52 ESTJ 3:03 INFP 3:28 ENTJ

[@lisasbangs6658]

I like your pic huh

[@georgejoseph7519]

Can't believe there r actually people like u out there who just actually wanna make life simpler for other people 💓😅

[@g06caballerokarmelapaulab.38]

@@georgejoseph7519 thank you so much! It's because I found it hard to find my time stamp (ENTJ here)

[@vir9857]

The infp one hehehehehe it applies to me XD

[@ohisee1203]

i see do kyungsoo lol :((

[@LetsSaboogi]

"I'm breaking up with you." INFJ: How can you break up with me when you don't exist?

[@okplay9446]

INFJ: Yeah it's OK, I'm over it *proceeds to move to the other end of the world*

[@LearnGermanwithMarzipanfrau]

@@okplay9446 It's cool to shift reality to our own comfort. xD

[@aayatshah5041]

Big brain

[@bennyton2560]

infj: who dis??

[@theotherkangaroo]

100%😅

[@shalardi]

infj breakups have 3 phases: 1. overthinking everything that went on in the relationship and coming to the conclusion that the breakup was your fault 2. a long, harsh depression that controls you for weeks on end where you isolate yourself from the outside world wishing everything would just stop 3. in a moment of clarity you realize how much that person fucked you up throughout the entire relationship and they become dead to you in every aspect possible

[@lilliampumpernickle4655]

Hella accurate

[@guesswho5790]

Why is this so accurate though lol

[@jawcelyn8024]

Paola Ruiz this is so accurate it’s scary 😳

[@aryadiva6825]

DAMN TRUE !

[@robinder_]

LMAO SO TRUE

[@truthworm540]

infp(t): stays in relationship they're not happy in bc they're too afraid to confront the partner about their feelings and doubts also infp: WHAT HAVE I DONE WRONG

[@steelparadox]

Get out of my head

[@brigibodor6201]

I LITERALLY DID THIS (I wrote out what happened but I don't wanna bother you with it so just... Yeah, I did this. I still feel bad about the breakup)

[@TasteThaKayla]

infps be staying in toxic ass relationships just bc they dont want to hurt the other person so theyd rather just be miserable

[@hathsi]

okay but i did this with a uni mentor lmfao

[@jaypop_dance]

I'm also infp-t and i completely agree 😂😭

[@kiwi6207]

_"INTJ and INFP are one of the most rare personality types"_ Literally every comment section on every MBTI related video: *are u sure about that??* guys.please. this is ligth hearted

[@brownin329]

INTJ: it's true.

[@kohikappu]

INFP: "Let's show them." INFP is here lol.

[@kbushehri]

A) Most people dont watch these videos let alone know what mbti is B) they dont comment even if they saw the video

[@shubhammadane6150]

I am an INTJ and I don't think it's a rare type, 16 personality websites says that about 4-6 % results were INTJs. So, I guess it is not rare but not common either.

[@swagjose1817]

man this comment section is full of INTJs and INFPs wtf i always try to find people with my personality type here in the comments and i always see them lol btw, i'm ESFP 😎

[@pepperpotts6093]

when the INFP came up i was like “ok this is me, this one’s gotta be INFP”

[@direxioner]

Same

[@baylees9800]

Same exact thought- wording and everything!!

[@TheShanlou]

Ahaha me too. I knew my ex was the first one too 😂

[@dodo1862]

Yup

[@sink-napkin489]

I mean,yep

[@ShawnDavid91]

Infj: you're/they are dead to me.

[@tae-007]

Shawn David *PREACH*

[@izzzz_krissu]

So true

[@Sofia-yb4uw]

Totally

[@meiyangexe8118]

FACTS

[@breannareynolds5743]

Isnt that the truth

[@_DeadlyNightshade_]

This is so embarrassing.... I've blocked and unfriended everyone that annoyed me in the past. INFJ 🙈

[@alimushtaq2367]

I just deleted all my social media accounts. INFJ

[@danielaaron6012]

Why is it embarrassing?? I'm sure it was well deserved 😇

[@cosmicserpent2181]

You should see the size of my block list, lmao

[@trubadorphotography2541]

These last several months and suddenly so many people are taking off their masks... and I’m like, “So that’s who you really are? Hidden behind that facade all this time? That’s what you really think and feel? Okay... bye-bye.” 🧐🤔😒🤦🏻‍♂️ Slams the metaphorical door 🚪 breaks the key 🔑 in half and tosses it down the garbage disposal. ⚙️ Ahhhhh... 😊😆

[@_DeadlyNightshade_]

Ali Mushtaq I can't do that because I have friends from overseas on my fb, and my IG is like a private space for my creativity that only people I trust get to appreciate it.

[@sadlittletroll1738]

Me, an INTP: I don't need relationships because I'm busy focusing on my own success and happiness Friends: Oh that's neat, so what do you do to achieve success and happiness? Me: FU-

[@pestilence.and.plague]

This is almost too relatable, but a true INTP doesn't have any friends. Edit: This is my poor attempt for a joke. Sorry, I've just been saying a lot of shit lately.

[@sadlittletroll1738]

@@pestilence.and.plague Nah, a true INTP has a few friends through doing the bare minimum to keep a friendship alive o___o

[@kratze1738]

@@sadlittletroll1738 "Doing the bare minimum to keep a friendship alive"... OMG. I just had an epiphany. This is how ALL of my friendships I've handled throughout. Yikes. It's a good thing I'm good at my job so I can pretend I make a difference to the planet...

[@Jason32Bourne]

Too accurate.

[@fakename3440]

I have 2 friends whom I contact regularly and all my other "friends" are just there for gaming.

[@sincerely106]

0:00 ENTP 0:07 ISTJ 0:18 ESFP 0:23 ISFJ 0:41 ESTP 0:51 ISFP 1:02 ESFJ 1:18 INTJ 1:33 ISTP 1:48 ENFJ 2:02 INTP 2:12 ENFP 2:32 INFJ 2:52 ESTJ 3:02 INFP 3:28 ENTJ

[@shaymary5247]

TYVM! ☺️

[@lolapoente6216]

Thank you

[@haileylaine4584]

Omg I was hoping this would be here

[@user-et9kt3hm4m]

🙏💕

[@Rebricha5]

Bless

[@cassiaschaar6147]

INTP: *breaks up with boyfriend * Friend: Do you miss him? INTP: I miss having something to occupy myself with.

[@cam9913]

You described it perfectly.

[@necromelodia2432]

Me

[@ravenn2631]

You guys might want to look up intpexperience.com blog.

[@gyorgybaranka1184]

Am I the only INTP who was clingy? :/

[@evil_doritoz2085]

@@gyorgybaranka1184 No. Here i an

[@ellieryan5224]

i’m an INTJ and that’s literally how my break up just went, he wanted to sTaY cLosE fRieNds and i was like.... no

[@iamparkbogum6444]

well I'm an intj female and I can't even get a bf.they're scared of me even tho I try to act lovely and sweet sometimes...

[@iamparkbogum6444]

why did that someone who liked my comment unlike :/

[@iamparkbogum6444]

I'll just like for myself xD

[@_black_light_6053]

@@iamparkbogum6444 Glad I'm not the only INTJ who does that lol

[@midorimimo7881]

what do you think about mine (i'm an infj)? he's (intj) the one who broke up with me then eventually told me to stay bestfriends

[@seraphimstarlight]

The INFJ one is spot on! I heard the first line and went “Oh, that’s me. That’s definitely INFJ. When I cut someone out of my life everything having to do with them went out in the trash and I cut out everyone that had to do with the them as well. I pretty much went scorched earth on anything related to his existence. And there was this weird thing where I hated any name that was similar to his or any any car that looked like his too. I thought I was just angry. Turns out I was just being an INFJ.

[@alimushtaq2367]

A question for you. As an INFJ, do you think you would date an INFJ. I'm INFJ and am over thinking over this

[@pikatothechu4737]

@@alimushtaq2367 for me, totally would date.

[@LailasCookieshop]

@@alimushtaq2367 I am one too and now it is your fault i need to think about it the next days :C

[@alimushtaq2367]

@@LailasCookieshop I would have shared my conclusion but I don't remember it anymore

[@okplay9446]

@@alimushtaq2367 I'd be very happy to be in a relationship with someone who can love me as much as I can love them, but sometimes I feel like no one will ever love me as much as I love them

[@marizabarnes]

INFJ here and said: “So you’re done? Are you sure? Ok, bye.” And I was gone forEVER.

[@bewarethecat]

INFP, been there. Done that! 😭

[@leony578]

Yes, is like that when I broke up with my gf

[@alimushtaq2367]

I haven't dated with anyone yet, can't find someone suitable, but I do this with other people. Yes I'm INFJ. Just yesterday I deleted all my social media accounts

[@kritikagurung]

OMG I DID THE SAME

[@albertojosesayago8421]

I can't. Knowing someone could erase me off from their lives so easily scares the crap out of me!

[@Rinajustdoingherhobbies]

INFJs: the nicest and most considerate people ever who are able to look into your soul and fulfill your needs but also the meanest in wiping you out completely from their memory 🤣 (That’s me 🙋🏽‍♀️🙈)

[@destree6348]

Sabrina Begum 🙋🏻

[@reynasoraten5553]

the door slam protocol activated.

[@BunnyInTheSnow]

i did the test on various websites and i was always a mix of infj and infp.. shocking but i really do behave exactly like the above scenes of those two myers personalites. lol.

[@tsl7804]

@@TheChurchOfScientology Well, thanks for resuming my last relationship, without actually knowing about me haha.

[@tsl7804]

@@BunnyInTheSnow Hi mate, I was like you tested INFP 52% - INFJ 48% but as you can't be both, I've taken this test to confirm. www.idrlabs.com/test/infp-or-infj.php hope this can help you. I've finally got INFP at 77% in this test, but I can relate to INFJ's things as well, my door slam can broke finger as well lol.

[@sourplumsss8506]

Nobody: INFJ : yeah I do cut people from my life. You‘ll never see or hear from me agai . Just bye 👍🏻

[@cjuuljohnston]

👉💯👊😉

[@tamaraleon395]

Yeah I do that too.

[@VaniaAjah]

Sounds like me 👀

[@melody8369]

I'm an infp but i relate to that, i pretend they never exist and eventually forget about them

[@yourregularspontie8587]

True

[@tinkerbell716]

I’m an INFP & I gotta admit that after my recent breakup, I thought I’d be devastated but I was actually looking forward to all of the free time lmao. Like, yes I was still hurting and would randomly break down or even spiral into thoughts about the breakup but overall... even if we love love, I think us INFP’s love our freedom more than we realize.

[@zakiyahzakir8626]

lmaoo this is me as an infp recently after my breakup

[@mariaastin]

Me too hahaa now I feel less weird, knowing that there are people like me somewhere

[@TheOriginal_Unaleska]

I was actually relieved. Was in a toxic relationship, but one thing I missed more than anything was being alone and not being obligated to "act" like I was in a relationship. He wanted to "act" on what he thought a relationship was, or cater to his every whim. I was alone and free.

[@echutte7374]

Literally same lol. I thought I was just being weird or subconciously repressing a feeling that will break me one day but no I just want my freedom 😂

[@potatocutie1111]

SAMEEEEEEE It was my second break up (basically it was my second ever relationship and stuff) and honestly I took it well Probably cause the person was uhm Toxic- But yeah hooray to us 🥳

[@estherjeyah6421]

INFJ here and I just finished mourning him, as he is DEAD to me.

[@onlibertyjm]

LOL! XD

[@kiersten20013]

Hannah Raymond-Jones (I’m an INFJ) A lot of the time moving on really fast is kind of a facade in that I’ll cut them from my life and such, but I’ll still be constantly thinking about and being reminded of them. The best thing I’ve found is to remember as many things as you can about them and memories and thoughts and basically have a day to just break down and remember and after that don’t let yourself mourn them because you’ve already spent the time. I’m still great friends with two of my past people but one of them I completely cut off. Really just spend that one-two days and be done with them if they’re bad, and it’ll help so much I the long run! I wish you the best!

[@dpstkdqq403]

LMAOO🤣

[@Zim___]

@Hannah Raymond-Jones I'm an INFJ, and what I did after my ex dumped me I mourn first, rekindled all those memories. And when I am done with all that I reminded myself that she's no longer committed anymore thus she's dead to me.

[@kukareku708]

OH honey I'm sorry as an INFJ I know how much deeper your pain is than your neighbors or friends... he probably didn't even understand fully your depth to begin with, sometimes I think that if people who approach us for friendships or relationships knew what we're REALLY like would they still go on and stay in our lives, sending healing thoughts and prayers because you're putting on a REALLY tough INFJ front right now

[@dcrthjxdi8127]

‘I already have like 2 friends and that’s draining enough so.....’ As an INTJ, I approve, validate and confirm this.

[@zenangel32]

I feel like that's anyone with IN personalities. As an INFP personality type I definitely relate to that statement 😂

[@GutterWizard27]

Ikr

[@Balloushop13]

This is completely me

[@fiorev6274]

Same 😂😂

[@hypershadic2673]

Honestly this perfectly describes my friend ......... come to think of it I don’t know how they and I are surviving as friends they’re an INTJ and I’m an ENFP

[@JessyJessie288]

INFP- I am this person. This person is me. This triggered me so much. I feel so seen but so disrespected LOL

[@FiFiReadsBooks]

🤣😂🤣😂

[@RissOfRivia]

ENFP- meeeeee. Literally I have to have closure, I need to know what went wrong.

[@pravinatawde5135]

Soo relatable! Have to have closure! 😂

[@B2UTYINDO525]

The video : "... Deleted her number, unfriended her on everything.." Me, an INFJ : haha lol yeah I did that too- The video : "INFJ" Me : oh

[@Malindi_Nanayakkara]

My best friend

[@OctoganicAngel]

It’s how we roll. 🚪👋

[@murosama85]

same here. im an infj and this is accurate that i also did the same

[@annajurak6924]

Same xD

[@nowelleredmond482]

Exactly my reaction

[@kararfinley]

The delivery on INFP "Overall, it's... great." is so loaded and so spot on. It's beautiful.

[@lilianamartinez2464]

As an ISTP, i can say this is SO accurate

[@g.v.3493]

For an INTP a more accurate description would be “Before we part ways forever, would you complete a brief survey concerning the reasons and timing of events that led us to this juncture, specifically the events that led you to conclude that further pursuit of the relationship was contraindicated?

[@wesammaher6870]

exactlyyyy thats what i did last weak xd

[@darkstarfirestudios4500]

YES! Surveys ftw

[@zenithzinc]

Ah shit this is very me

[@auduauduauduauduaudu1803]

that right bro you intps can only imagine such things , first get a gf and then give advice ops sorry you guys cant have one

[@pizza8725]

​@@wesammaher6870week*

[@MrFlopian]

ENFP: asking too many questions. Being too honest and giving more reasons to break up with them. Accidentally flirting. Only one being honest with emotions.

[@samuelmoss9487]

That is so me😂

[@anaraquel7841]

This is sooooo accurate!

[@ninatheinkling5748]

Why am i like this 😂😂

[@wyattfullen5275]

When u realize that u can relate to the window kicking out

[@RayFisch]

My ENFP ex didn't ask any questions at all after the breakup. But maybe that's got to do with the fact that she was the one who broke up with ME instead of the other way around.. Hmmmm...

[@cyberstorm42x59]

INFJ breaking up after a doorslam "Her? I don't even know "her." *Who are we even talking about?"*

[@beestdragon]

Redheaded Stranger i can’t really judge anything, since i don’t know you, him or what kind of relationship you had, but 2 years seems like an awfully long time to just disappear without saying anything. I’m assuming it was justified though?

[@mejiolo]

@Redheaded Stranger INFJ here, I exactly did this too.

[@shaymary5247]

Dating someone for only 1mo but known for over 1yr. I was head over heels for him & even clingy (ew). But he actually dumped me. I behaved a cross between an ENFP & INFP for the 1st few days. About 2-3 wks later, it's as if I suddenly went INTJ & INFJ. When we ran into each other, I said he looked familiar & asked if I knew him from somewhere. When he replied that we used to date, I had this shit-shock facial expression of disgust saying, Um..... NO. Then I told him if I even knew him, I must be very forgetful or something. Drove him NUTS!!! #INFJ

[@neutral3570]

My reaction when I found out my boyfriend got a gf. Whilst still being with me.

[@cyberstorm42x59]

@Redheaded Stranger That's kinda how I broke up with my ex girlfriend. Our relationship was mainly online but I'd been with her in person multiple times (She lived about 3-4 hours away.) I found/figured out that she'd been emotionally blackmailing and manipulating me and lying to me about suicide attempts and self harm. (as part of her manipulation), so after she tried to make me feel bad for her and asked "do you still want to be with me?" (Expecting me to do the whole "of course I do" saga) I just replied "I don't think we should continue the relationship at this point" and then didn't message her again. She couldn't decide if she was the "you hurt me so much" type, the "so you lied about loving me?" type or the passive aggressive "I'm better off without you loser, you don't know what you're missing lol!" type. Glad I'm not involved with that anymore, but that's a year and a half of my time, energy and emotional expenditure that I'm not getting back.

[@namhi4489]

ENFP : beeing dramatic and blaming themselves for anything , yeh this is us .

[@user-bl1xx8wz9h]

for flirting with mom👀

[@catstrawford]

I mean it was an accident, it's happened to us all, right?

[@catstrawford]

...right? 😅😅😅 Oh God...

[@SuubUWU]

@@catstrawford We were just trying to leave a good first impression. Good God, where did it all go wrong

[@themaggattack]

INFP being dramatic and blaming myself... but imploding silently over it.

[@sandyyap5279]

As an ISTP, the portrayal is so accurate and hilarious at the same time.

[@chihiro668]

😂😂

[@davidhansen2155]

As a fellow ISTP, i almost died of laughter when I heard that part.

[@shiny_crystal]

YES SAME

[@HelerifiKtion]

Intp - when you have things going on in your life, like... laundry.

[@HelerifiKtion]

@Redheaded Stranger, piles, it's actually scary.

[@dagmarbelesova4284]

But I like laundry...

[@HelerifiKtion]

@@dagmarbelesova4284, I like it, too. That's why I keep it everywhere. 😂

[@mikehowe787]

It's not laundry, it's a load of dead jedi

[@mikehowe787]

@a normal everyday Spider it was such a great show wasn't it!?

[@rebekalanska2119]

The INFP was on point. I feel personally attacked.

[@LonesomeKrow]

Rebeka Beka same

[@PM-od9qm]

I know 😭!

[@kellydeak7781]

Every video I feel personally attacked by the truth

[@Iris-nu4wz]

hahaha

[@ineternitypast]

Of course you do, everything is a personal attack.

[@Kailova07]

Me, an INFP: tries to continue being supportive of ex while drowning in a sea of “oh, GOD! I’ll never fall in love again! I’m going to die alone because I’ll never find a love like this again!” We dated for a month and a half. 😂

[@XxIchLiebekaulitzxX]

HAHAHAHAH CALL ME OUT WILL YOU

[@ASlutty9SUnit]

There's no fuckin winnin it, is there? lol

[@farezhaiqal4767]

This is my relationship story except it last for 8 or 9 months

[@hypershadic2673]

Why is ENFP the most logically illogical Yes I’m an ENFP

[@lintran2206]

So true.

[@floofycat3486]

Hello fellow ENFP

[@dananabread6632]

@@floofycat3486 Hello too fellow ENFP #PrOuDtOBePiNoY

[@allkindofshorts4940]

Uy, Pinoy! - ENFP as well #pR4wdTuuBiiP3n0yyy

[@dananabread6632]

Enzo Zamora nice! :D

[@meagain4727]

"I already have...like...two friends" Me an INTJ: yup that's me!

[@letienne2874]

Yeah, INTJ for sure

[@dirtywhitellama]

@@cookiecola63 No closure. INTJ like closure. If she was ready and he wasn't, especially if it took him by surprise.... yeah. INTJ feelings exist, they are just hiding and immature. Heartbreak is hella hard if you like pretending your feelings don't exist at all and don't learn how to deal with them like a grown up. :( .... ask me how I know.....no wait I don't want to think about it 😭

[@jocelyneke6445]

Do INTJs ever hide from their exes?

[@TheLadyDelirium]

My best friend is INTJ the minute I saw that I knew it would be his. I'm an INFP. Anyone else friends with this pairing?

[@xero6396]

I have like two friends...but am INTP. But we seem to share the INTJ's struggle.

[@ld3354]

"And then at night, I get my 8, 9, 14 hours of sleep.." Me, an INFP: Ahhhh crap :(

[@eliza91d]

@Hamster Pile quarantine has made it worse 👁👄👁

[@wut8345]

@@eliza91d is it just me or is it like you feel sleepy all day and is high on sugar at 3 am?

[@dinaliaj1804]

@@wut8345 me rn 😂

[@lamefart]

I'm an insomniac INFP. Just added that on the list of being a walking contradiction.

[@kaori7472]

@Hamster Pile same lol

[@poopspaghetti7031]

The ISFP was real. Wrote a song about my breakup and sang it at School. Won the talent show.

[@snowsky9165]

we had to do public speaking at school, i chose the topic where someone broke my heart, and the person who actually broke my heart was in the audience. the teachers were like "Who was it?! Who did that to you?!"

[@tuala5495]

😂That’s the positive side😇👏🏻

[@chihiro668]

awesome

[@fidebagwell5697]

ISTP being accurate af. People need to be more chill around us. Not every damn thing we do has some hidden meaning or whatever.

[@davidhansen2155]

fax bro, im also an ISTP

[@shamiwoo1968]

“We live in a society.” -Generic ESFJ, 2019 Edit: How does this have over 600 likes? And how did this get a heart from the man of many personalities himself? I mean, I appreciate it, but this is bizarre to me. It really says a lot about our society. (It seems editing your comment removes the heart. That’s a weird thing.)

[@Pauliii2334]

- My father, every time when I dont participate with that huge amount of energy like him, in family meetings ; I

[@korezine3854]

@@Pauliii2334 same! This is my mother and she always gets mad when I don't socialize during family gatherings,especially with relatives that I hate

[@fayevinyl4596]

Here's a protip Comment: *a great one* Same Comment: *wow gee thanks for the likes* INFJ'S WHO LIKED: *UNLIKES* they no longer whole the same value (╯°□°）╯︵ ┻━┻

[@shamiwoo1968]

Avalanche X Fair enough. I guess thanking people for liking your comment does decrease its value slightly.

[@Alex-md5tb]

666

[@Quetzalcoatl-Dragon_97]

The most accurate part is that INFJ is at a Barnes & Noble

[@goofycawfee]

Alex Hernandez 😂😂😂

[@DESiSAUR]

OMG YASS!!!! LMAO

[@karalindstrom7729]

Oh yes. Book stores, thrift stores, and the library... but mostly my room

[@annmarieyoung8256]

I was just there yesterday 😂

[@PPNanaHime]

"We don't talk anymore, we don't talk anymore, like we used to do- ...and that's fine, we should keep doing it." ~ INTJ

[@sehnsuchts-trunken2423]

INTJ: "She wanted to stay friends, which annoyed me-" Me: "OHMYGOD THIS IS INTJ THIS IS ME! RIGHT? AM I RIGHT? I'M RIGHT!"

[@probablynotasith5355]

I don't know you, so I can't say for sure. But "Friends" a loose term. Made even more vague by applications and accounts that present you with the option to "Friend" people who are; at best loose acquittances. So yes, it's perfectly valid to be annoyed about a social tradition that holds little to no weight in a modernized society(This being said, in some cultures a "Friend" would be expected to die for you. So....).

[@eglelt219]

as soon as he mentioned crying i knew it was me -INFP

[@danieldancza6171]

I knew it was me when he said he's happy he got alone time with no human interaction -Also INFP

[@michaelaj5977]

Yessssss

[@hypercherryblossom]

the 14 hrs of sleep got me 😂

[@kohikappu]

"The intrusive thought about love is a lie." I feel personally attacked by this statement.

[@alittleinfppanda]

All of it. Every. Last. Part. 😭😭😭

[@johndalenino]

INFP: is flaky af, asks others to respect their alone time *breaks up INFP: *shocked pikachu*

[@levandulovy_vino]

exactly! :D :D :D

[@medievalknight9519]

Oof

[@c.shadou1897]

Well, no... but sure!

[@TokioTE]

hilarious use of the surprised pikachu meme!

[@TaunellE]

Lmao! Awesome! Really?! Omg we're all so messed up! ⚡🖤⚡

[@avanicole6700]

ENTP: “trust me I’m not sad. Here’s the reasons they were wrong for me” *internally screaming*

[@pgfontana97]

I'm not sad, I'm just... disappointed, not surprised tho, I actually thought about this outcome and how would be the best way to deal with this

[@ryandaddy1089]

So true

[@manasim.9936]

we love trying to rationalise our feelings away until they hit us full force one random night and leave us completely winded 🙃🙃🙃

[@ovencrabs9271]

god this is me

[@victoriae725]

ENTP: It's fine. I'm not upset. I was kinda expecting it tbh. Also ENTP 4 hours later: *Ugly sobbing and guilty about it because they really shouldn't be crying.*

[@stretchopotomus2385]

Ok, intj was too accurate.... my ex was practically begging me asking if we could still be friends, and I reflected on all the frustrating conversations that made it clear that we were not even close to being on the same page mentally, and the fact that we have literally no common interests, and the fact that this would, if I allowed it, be a very forced and awkward "friendship." I said simply, "Probably not." Considering his emotional instability, I was worried that he would keep pestering me, but to my relief, he blocked me.

[@samevans1289]

"but to my relief, he blocked me" WHY IS THIS SO RELATABLE😂😂

[@ForeverFashionGirl21]

Infp is so accurate even to people who haven’t dated

[@cooltae0613]

I totally agree with that😊

[@6maria94]

I think it's inaccurate exactly for that reason: How many of us have really dated? I'm 25 for goodness sake xD

[@knoxboyd5150]

For me isfp was also accurate

[@ALunarLight]

I don't date and run on 14 hours of sleep lol

[@sakura5sango6]

@@6maria94 Me too LOL! XDDD

[@dangermenatwork]

AUNT HILDA IS AN ICON

[@FrankJames]

🙌

[@TaunellE]

Awesome pic! 🖤

[@baezpiantini]

As an INTJ, I can relate to my own type, ENTP and INFJ all together: cutting all communication, erasing them from my life like they died, and a list of reasons explaining why I deleted them from my brain. 😆

[@wtfmayp]

I'm an ISFJ and when I broke up with my boyfriend I hugged him and said "don't cry, you'll be fine". HAHAHAHA

[@denisaene2308]

Oh my goodness, same! 😂😂😂

[@katarzynakonstancjadobrowo9072]

A few years back in an argument with my ISFJ now-fiancé I worded smth apparently very poorly and he though I was trying to break up with him, and he almost freaking fainted xD and then started apologising me for making it about himself while it was definitely me being far too fcking harsh xD y'all are rays of sunshine, never change :)

[@lilalila1376]

I'm so glad that I've found someone like me finally 😭😭 I was rolling in the comments hoping to find a ISFJ personality

[@_____._]

Eso es cruel

[@MC-ki2ky]

sounds like something i would do as well! also always feeling like i didnt explain myself clearly enough lol

[@canpiv09]

Why each MBTI type is in detention - this video needs to happen.

[@shelleyroper588]

Yesssssssss!!!!!! LoL 😂🤣😂🤣

[@axosrain4825]

Yeassssss

[@oliviarouse2361]

YESS I AGREE!!!!!

[@zvarrivelociraptor]

School detention or prison detention?

[@canpiv09]

@@zvarrivelociraptor School detention, I would say.

[@MidnightMeka]

YOURE BREAKING UP WITH ME?! WAIT... WE WERE DATING?! 😂😂😂😂😂

[@elnara1]

Feeling Better I love ESFP😆 -ISFJ

[@annsmith936]

Feeling Better it’s hilarious but if we’re really in a relationship and love someone, we’ll be hurt to the core, cry our eyes out for weeks and get really really angry too. Emotion explosion. We’ll also try to get him back. ESFP

[@IvyJin1]

@@elnara1 They say ESFP and ISFJ are best matches (both lovers and friends), so yeah :) from ESFP

[@IvyJin1]

@@annsmith936 So true, we have hard time of letting go

[@humayranasita7953]

As an ENFP, I can tell if a specific scenario is relatable to me and then boom, the ENFP tag appears on then screen 😂

[@definitelyaenfp3143]

Humayra Nasima, I totally agree with you! It's like a super power that's not a superpower but I still can consider it a superpower (btw I am also a enfp 😁🤪😆) P. S: I really like your profile picture of sasha from AOT eating a cup of ramen ☺️ . . . You also have the same name as a girl in my class, BUTS THERE'S NO WAY YOU CAN BE THE SAME PERSON HAHAHAH..... or can you 🤨🧐

[@abja101]

"I'm honestly not trying to make you jealous. I'm just happy."--ENFP.

[@yunivoes]

Oooooh. Thx for this one - „jealous“ could be very well replaced by „angry“ in my life.

[@AskForDoodles]

INTP: Bold to assume I was ever in a relationship

[@kuriousQing21]

Anne Katrine Kamper same.

[@Colinization18]

Yep. Intp forever alone. Just the way we like it.

[@Supershoutmon]

Now this is accurate!

[@chewsday5760]

Same. Too much trouble.

[@Oriibu_]

Now, this sounds like me

[@bakarenibsheut12]

Bloody hell, the INFP one is on point. The feigned emotional inertness (and oversleeping :P) is spot on.

[@icemarle]

My husband's an ESFJ and that was so on point! One of the conditions he gave me when we started going out was that I get along with his folks (they're wonderful people BTW). He's also very courteous and polite and takes social norms very seriously. Receive a present, send one back and immediately CALL to say thanks. I struggle with being forced to do courtesy calls as an INTJ, but I appreciate him for introducing me to society. (Just kidding, I generally dislike society, but he tends to do the diplomacy for me, so I'm grateful for that :D)

[@probablynotasith5355]

Compensating for each others weaknesses is a good thing, and you're a better human being then me for even trying to engage with society in the first place.

[@peaceforkira959]

I'm an INTP and after my breakup I layed on my floor, cried, questioned my entire existence and drank way too many energy drinks

[@jessicagomes4043]

INFJ 💯 it’s the only way I can cope with it.

[@JJZCandMe]

Truth!

[@aronwulf1580]

Yep

[@aanjafreedom7781]

Absolutely!

[@shorewall]

Yeah, iwhen they want to stay friends, it's like, do you want to hurt me?

[@destinyjohnson8947]

Same

[@callie200697]

INFP “Love is just a lie” 😂 More like...love doesn’t exist 😑 😭 I’m a hopeless romantic who doesn’t believe in love .... how am I even surviving?!

[@jigglygrandmama]

I sincerely hope this isn't true for all INFP, as my partner is INFP and he says he loves me and I know I love him, love never dies but relationships do.

[@renwannabe3237]

@@jigglygrandmama no need to worry. When we love someone, we really do love that someones. The "love is just a lie"line is because we are broken 😂.

[@tsl7804]

@@renwannabe3237 Yes it's to protect yourselves, and this often occurs then we are overhelmed/ end of a relationship. In theses times, just seeing a couple hugging or kissing even just haivng good time, will hurt you like an arrow in your heart.

[@youohoho3184]

@@cartoonlover9163 me too 😂 sometimes i think about it too then cry for no reason

[@chaosgamer7348]

I’ve found my people 😭😭😭🙌🏼

[@triciamaemacasu2808]

INTJ: "... i already have to friends and that's draining enough. I'm good." Feel you bro, feel yah

[@lydialarissa6418]

fun fact as ISTP.. when i breaking up with my bf.. i said litterallyyyy the same thing... this is so accurate. All he do is just tell me to open up and tell my feeling..like.. ???????

[@esme4048]

I am an entp and relate

[@mariya-vl6ic]

Me too ,it was what exactly happened with my ex

[@mirsaes]

Ya sound cold.

[@CaveyMoth]

Ooh, a female ISTP. That's pretty cool.

[@tuluppampam]

Never ask an ISTP to be honest: you won't like the answer

[@ayalalevi6470]

"You're gonna dump me, but I still have to talk to you?" that is so me 😂😂

[@dallascade5085]

This is perfect timing! My partner just broke up with me on Halloween and this really made me laugh after all those bad emotions. Thank you for all you do, Frank James! Stay you, my dude

[@tilinapple]

Awwww i also had a breakup with someone this Halloween too

[@I-Cant-Feel-You-There]

When us INTPs hyperfixate on our s/o so much that everything else fades away for us. Never been in a relationship or been in love, but I guess that’s something that can happen, given our nature to get overtly obsessive over the things that are important to us.

[@actxce9220]

As an ISTP and an INTP you portray these quite well

[@asmitharamesh1766]

An INFJ who was cheated or lied to: Day dreams about how to murder their ex

[@LadyIarConnacht]

I unfortunately second that. I also related strongly to the Netflix password. As to them not existing anymore, that takes a couple of years, for me.

[@audreyelizabeths]

also INFP. totally me

[@AlastorTheNPDemon]

Get in touch with an INTJ. They may have some technical solutions and insights of their own when it comes to carrying that out. Networking, manoeuvering, subterfuge... you name it, the job will be done.

[@zuneperry22]

Omg i thought i was the only crazy one

[@natofficial6722]

@@LadyIarConnacht I had to buy Netflix because I was using her account and she's the one who changed her password ! xD (She's an enfp but didn't try to dye my dog or flirt with my mom, wait, who are we even talking about?)

[@daniellesepede5994]

I was cackling hard at the ENFP before I knew it was ENFP. This is the absolute truth. The level of overthinking + attempting to better understand our own flaws is too truly represented here!

[@Khiarika1]

I mean maybe but also *SQUIRREL!* (Ex-boyfriend who?)

[@jessa.r.m.y5657]

omg!!!!!! I'm ENFP and this is so accurate, we're dramatic, full of feelings 😂

[@Esiaa]

As an ISTP: please reconsider and ask yourself first if you REALLY want us to be honest 😂

[@SpyLeb1]

INFJ.... I once tried to be friend after a breakup. Never again.

[@cametochangemyusername-can1295]

Same. Thought omg. I'm growing and maturing. This is going to take me to the next level. Ended up undoing about 6 months worth of healing post break up. Ended up going through a second phase of processing... Ah the joys of INFJ.

[@Missmagazinebura]

True

[@hi-sb7qn]

as an ISTP (f) im scared at how accurate this is

[@lilalila1376]

Your profile photo explain everything 😂😂😂

[@audreyhowler]

I've had that conversation multiple times, but took me many offended loved ones to realize that when I'm told they want honesty, they're lying. So now I ask "Do you mean actual honesty or is there a specific thing you're fishing for?" They still get offended. I still don't really understand why. I'm trying to give them what they want.

[@laurenh.6240]

There's never any ISTPs in the comments section so this was reassuring to see.

[@momokokochuchuchu]

lmfao im an infp in a happy relationship but i still get those intrusive love is a lie thoughts and burst into tears and also regularly oversleep

[@theone-zy9cv]

INTJs never break-up because if they knew it would end up in a break-up they would've never dated in the first place

[@ahatoppec621]

Correct. However, this is about someone breaking up with them.

[@miffin6107]

why are you so wise?

[@martinusv7433]

Yep, I'd say that every person who keeps lamenting about his or her "awful" ex is only showing oneself from a negative light. Because I don't want to sound too harsh, but who was that fool who started that relationship with that "loser" in the first place?? It takes two to tango.

[@anaminz5788]

The efficiency 👌

[@genevaeram]

As an INTJ, I can confirm that

[@ameliaiscri6203]

Everybody gangsta til Aunt Hilda asks where your girlfriend at

[@lmtroh87]

Fingers crossed for a future vid of “16 Timmys”

[@Moose0fNorway]

ENTJs are known for leaving relationships without looking back, so the entj version isn't correct at least.

[@hiotashin9814]

My dad is Entj Type 3. If he is drunk, he'll call his ex.

[@OdysseusAres5500]

I'm an ENTJ. This is scarily accurate. I always call my INFJ ex when I'm drunk. She is very much acting like in this video, too!

[@Lu-gn8eo]

ENTJ here and i completely agree with you. When end a relationship with someone i seriously dont look forward on having it back anymore and i get myself busy on work and other productive things

[@ledamethOP]

Tiffany Same. Once something is over, it is over for me. (The relationship part, not the friendship part) And i immediately try to change my focus to something productive.

[@sabrinakurosawa5516]

I'm an ENTJ I can be tempted to reach out if it was the other person who cut me off I'll need closure for awhile but if I'm the one who breaks it off no looking back But either way I will eventually pull myself back up and keep moving I could relate to a few of these I have often trashed pictures,blocked,changed passwords thrown away momentos much like the INFJ but it's a part of the moving on process

[@Chigger]

Emotional and overly critical of anything we might've done wrong. Yep, that's an ENFP.

[@laynhall3035]

INFJ is dead on😂

[@gabrielatirado4203]

As INTJ i can confirm, my ex told me to keep talking and i said yes, but when he talked to me i was like why why wHY and i told him i didn’t want to talk to him for a loooooong while

[@1oa1i1]

Me as an INFJ : treats them like a random normal person that i have no idea about but there names and just act chill af

[@unlockdaniel]

Overthinking everything after the end of the relationship and slipping ever so further into depression? You must be an INFP! (I know I am lol)

[@Chef_PC]

INTP should have just been: “Wait, who are you?”

[@zahwachairunisa4832]

Tru omg tru

[@YamNor6571]

😂 so true

[@madizen6312]

The INFJ one is so accurate LOL

[@callme_yellow3843]

Proud INFJ and this is so accurate. I always knew I was good at slamming the emotional (and some times actual) door on people but it was the discovery of this channel that helped me figure out what was really happening...deleting the # & tossing out anything that could ever trigger even the slightest memory of them. Dead to me 🙌🏻

[@WatchingYourNethers]

“WE LIVE IN A SOCIETY” I’m howling 😂😂😭

[@zachcunningham7607]

“ive got so much going on in my life! like...” shows INTP me: I KNEW IT

[@asmitaseetaramacharya3308]

Zach Cunningham what do you mean by this bro? Please elaborate so I can laugh more on myself 😂😂

[@iangonzalez4661]

As an intp I think you pin the type very well

[@jusij]

when infj came up, i was like “this has got to be mine. i literally did this two weeks ago.”

[@shindayo2460]

“I thank you to not mention that person” I was like “Yep, this is INFJ” -INFJ

[@alimushtaq2367]

Same lol

[@11908_]

ahh the infamous "INFJ Door Slam".

[@rylieleavitt686]

i am an ISTP and i can confirm that no one knows my true feelings

2 years ago I was a happy ENFP, now I got a INTJ result. The only thing that has changed was depression. I am not sure now if I was always a INTJ, or if a depressed ENFP looks a bit like a INTJ

[@12thDecember]

"I already have, like, two friends, and that's draining enough." I yelled out, "INTJ!" Nailed it.

[@daniellelittlepage985]

INFJ on point 😂 It takes A LOT to get there, but yes, that's kinda where I'm at now.

[@hourglassstory_9360]

Me too😂.. we are weird.. but it all about us😅

[@MONSTREK46]

Once, I was having a really good time with a friend in college. We had the same hobbies, habits, same attitude and, should I say, wavelength. He would even tell me all his frustrations and dreams. And even his crush on someone. Me, I was just there. Listening to everything and giving him advices. We both write poems and read them ourselves. We, oftentimes, don't have the same classes, but we're always together during breaks. One time, he came to find me and read me a poem he had just written. The poem was amazing from the very start. Then, along the lines, he mentioned his crush' name. I don't know what exactly happened. But a tear escaped from my eyes and I run and left him there. Going back to class, I was so sad and crying. Some asked what was wrong, I was just smiling saying 'it was nothing'. After that aching moment, I never went to see him anymore. I continued my life, without thinking of him. I still went to our favorite place, the library, but I make sure I don't run into him. Whenever I see him coming my way, I was quick to go the other way or I would talk and laugh with a friend like I don't know him. He was able to come and ask for a talk with me after 2 years. But I don't know what to say anymore. He became a complete stranger to me, that I can't bear saying my thoughts on him. In the end, I still left him there. After college, I found out he married his crush. Me, I was happy for him.

[@zachtbh]

Infp: Turning down every dating opportunity for 10 years after breaking up, while still crying love does not exist anymore