What I Would HATE About Being ALONE With Each of the 16 Personalities!

[@FrankJames]

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[@klutzytaz3551]

I wouldn't want to get locked up with an INFJ either because as an ISTP I would probably be too cold and insensitive to their thoughts and opinions without realizing

[@linrose15]

Ik you won't see this but I think your videos are really funny and actually really accurate too. 👏🤌

[@elisabethball2184]

Orange jumpsuit is a vibe ngl

[@JohnHenrysaysHi]

Listening to it right now and saw that it was a year old so listening how it compares to today's annual check up, Doctor Frank. Heyyy...you said ESFPs are awesome...huh. Oh yeah, in older video you said you wanted to be an ESFP instead of an INFJ when people were typing you as something other than INFJ which haha I see that you've been bringing up lately especially seeing the ol classic INFJ Frank James return....is it classic?..Wait a second...you had short hair in your video! I paused the video since I want to hear your thoughts because you're a likable guy and stand out amongst the internet so you don't require as much of a "why" behind your what reasonings if you just listed your likes for types kinda like with people close to us or people we like or think has good taste....then we don't need the why behind the what or kinda like how we think someone is good with tools, we can just ask them what tools to buy no questions asked or if someone has good taste in fashion just wear whatever they say...UNLESS...I don't like wearing pink, and yeah, I know in the past pink was considered a more masculine color while blue was more feminine and pink had that whole blood in the snow sorta deal but um violence is not masculine so...what I'm saying is....who knows? If you are an INFJ....waitasec, in this new video you called out Fe types other TRUE type- LIAR, in which case....waitasec...the fun hook of "What's Frank's type" is back, and oh, man, I still paused at your ESFP love...which wait now I gotta watch the ESFP segment of this video because I thought you backed ENFPs, ENTPs ISFJs ISFJs...but then...oh yeah you did say the LIAR thing so...wait what am I even whatever let me finish this and get back to...I forget...I think you're an INFJ: INFJ: 1. Ni 2. Ne- Being that Ni is an INFJ's dominant function conceptually, I think Ne would be ranked second among INFJs functions but if they don't get a chance to pull back or are just entertaining people like you, maybe that's why you might come across as an ENFP because we don't see what Ni goal you're ordering everything towards...I'm pretty sure it's to entertain people while helping people while making dough so you can cook the dough so you eat the dough because money don't grow on trees and if it did...the economy is brutal enough to even think about it...But this is why any INFJ can come across as an ENFP or INFP 3. Fe- Depending on how much they're interacting with people, they'll come across as an ENFJ and even in previous videos of yours where you suggested a pattern of judging doms always asking questions people could think that about your polls but have to take in consideration that we love the polls, and as you established in this being alone video in regards to ESTJs and ENTJs, you're an agreeable guy plus it helps your videos and....guys, check out the polls. They're fun! And if you're looking for someone to connect with, you'll probably find at least 5 people no matter what your personality is because there's so many cool people, and that's all thanks to you, Frank building up such a cool following with your fun friendly...uh oh I gotta go! You rock. ENFJs are considered the most likable type so maybe that's where it comes from. 4. Fi- This could be ranked higher depending on how much an INFJ spends alone trying to find things to connect people over and in my opinion...cuz everything else has been a fact so far haha...I think the Fi Si combo are the more intimate personable functions to help ground someone in having a personality, and the reason why we care so much what you like or dislike about types is because you have such a likable personality. Nothing to do with type. You said there could only be one INFJ, which, heh, is the INFJ thing THEY ARE THE ONE and also cue your Guy Fieri reference haha (hey, that might be a classic along with my favorite TANK JAMES haha. Before getting into your channel, I was thinking you might be an ENFP, not for a great reason but...in my experience ENFPs are the funniest type besides ESTPs and INTJs...although INFPs might be up there but I can think of famous funny ones at the moment besides Brian in Impractical Jokers...but Ne ways, Fi could also help you come across as an INTJ, which, conceptually I think should be one of the top types you could come across besides other NFs (yeah yeah yeah, I saw your charts in your previous lesson plan video...I get what you're saying but, hey, I'm writing this to try to defend your INFJ honor! haha But anyways, you did a fantastic video on INFJs and ISFJ not coming across so different but I think INFJs could also come across as all the NF types as well as an INTJ...and really could come across as any type if they're well developed because we all use all 8 functions every day, but it's like in your video about the grip, we'll see our type when the chips are down....and by type I mean if were the type of people who missed squat day if we have frog butt bending over picking up chips....hehe The point is...INTJ TANK JAMES 5. Ti 6. Te- This could be ranked lower depending on how much an INFJ is working with external logic 7. Se 8. Si- This could be ranked high depending on how much an INFJ spends alone and maybe could get higher due to something like depression where they reflect on the past a lot, or need it for work and taking care of health.... Oh, just unpaused the video and heard you love ESFPs and...ESTPs...so what happened this year? Frank man?!!! jk So, you can't stand ESFPs and ESTPs because you're too busy sitting down in awe of them. They are great. What's a famous ESFP....Lou Costello? I watched a documentary on him...funny guy...butt I still think from my experience ENFPs, ESTPs, and INTJs are the funniest. Haha just paused it again. This is a roast? You are agreeable man! haha I could learn from you...which is why I'm listening to these videos...whether or not I'm learning....unpausing the video again Uh oh. I finished your video, uh, never mind...even I'm too agreeable to say THAT! Woah! jk haha The point is that I was more convinced you were an INFJ more than anyone and one of the best MBTI people besides you is the ENTP ZombiesRuinEverything (my gauge for ENTP), wrote an article called "Type you Most Wanna..." And for INFJ, he wrote "Type You'd Most Wanna Restore Your Faith in People", and I think you...don't really know you...but I think you're one of the most decent creators ever so it's nice if you get to relax a bit and share yourself instead of always trying to gauge everybody's sensibilities to make so many happy all time and...let me read the comments for a second...hang on...scrolling down....yeah, everybody loves you being you. That's why you don't have to give the "why reasoning" behind what you like. You can just give the "what information" and people are happy to hear from you because you're so great Frank man.

[@linrose15]

@@JohnHenrysaysHi am I supposed to read all that

[@businessisboomin7252]

I'm a depressed INFJ so I'll most likely stay quiet the whole time, being trapped in my thoughts and being anxious that I might say something wrong to you, a stranger.

[@businessisboomin7252]

But after a while, I'll start talking about random deep things that ppl think about in the shower. It might be annoying, but another deep thinker might enjoy the chaos :)

[@adilbek.ermekov]

*Relatable*

[@end4567]

Tell me what are your deep subjects you talk about and I'll prove you wrong in mere seconds.

[@Kiwi-np3sy]

I’m an INFP but this is really relatable still, lol

[@GrasslandsG81]

Please break the silence! A bummed out INFJ can brood and sulk in the loudest way possible (without making a sound) and my inferior Fe cannot handle it! -INTP

[@Chigger]

It's slightly shocking for the ENXP types to be considered some of the _least_ annoying. It's nice to be tolerated.

[@josiahtaylor7967]

Lol, I didn't think of that. Yeah, Ne users are nearly always considered annoying irl so I'm happy to see you've got someone who doesn't think that

[@peatmaker1]

Then why did that idea exist in the first place? 😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀

[@ceilinh6004]

I don't think they're annoying, which is probably a good thing, since I gave birth to one (an ENFP.) Anyway, my little ENFP is a pretty awesome human, with a very cool way of seeing the world. There's no such thing as a boring conversation with an ENFP. -INTP

[@Raven_Black_252]

As an INTJ female, ENFPs are the least annoying type for me and all my close friends or crushes happen to be ENFPs. I guess it depends on the person and is not a general thing so I wouldn't worry about that if I were you.

[@Alhumdulila786]

As an entp I thought we'd be the most annoying

[@Sasuke83]

I (an INTJ) was talking with a friend (ENFJ) of a friend at a gathering, and out of nowhere, he asked “What do you think about being roommates with me?” I replied, “Okay, I guess?” His reply: “I would hate it because you never talk, so that would annoy the f*** out of me.” He kept on talking until I walked away.

[@firespawnie537]

Tell your friend to find an ENTP to talk all day, and you should find an ENFP to bring out a friendlier/more talkative side of you.

[@saymabagwan2999]

@@firespawnie537 Accurate, as an INFJ with an INFP mother making conversations just like Frank said took effort so I just stayed quite almost the entire time, not like we don't get along or talk at all just like we both prefer silence. When I met an ENTP though I started speaking more and my communication skills got even better.

[@xyznightwing]

This guy sounds kinda rude. But maybe he was trying to get you to talk more or something

[@MvsicAdd7ct]

My bestie / boyfriend is an INTJ and I'm an INFP and we're both very introverted but we love talking to each other all the time and I get so talkative that I feel I'm annoying but to him I'm not (either that, or he just lies to me lol). So I'm trying to say that it's not your fault that you don't talk, you just need someone you like and vibe with :)

[@cihiiii6447]

My father an ENFJ often complains that I don't talk to him often.And when my mother also don't talk to him very much he goes to our neighbors to talk which can last veryyy lonnng.Sometimes I wonder how can they talk so long and never get sick of it.

[@klutzytaz3551]

As an ISTP I can confirm I would not get into a conversation.

[@talaomaluko6749]

As another ISTP, I would simply and passively answer the questions asked

[@aaronburdon221]

@@talaomaluko6749 Same bro. Unless there were fun things to do in the room. Then I could explain how it was constructed poorly and tell Frank how the idiot who built it could have done a better job (this may or may not have happened in real life without Frank and you'll never know for sure because i'm pleading the fifth😁)

[@talaomaluko6749]

@@aaronburdon221 that's also very relatable dude, if there are any nice objects in the referred room, I mean.

[@Complaisent]

I would start a conversation but only if there wasn't anything more interesting to do

[@mojyoqueen350]

I have ISTP boyfriend and he wouldn't get into one eaither.

[@angstydoodles1101]

As an INTP, I wouldn't talk to you because I'd be too busy severely questioning how the hell I even managed to get in that situation when I only leave my house if necessary. Then I'd start overworking my brain to figure out how escape because trust me, I feel just as awkward as you do about silently sitting in the corner opposite you.

[@mariateresamondragon5850]

Also INTP and you are correct. However, if a conversation did ensue, I would certainly rip apart any illogical statements or conclusions presented to me. (That should be enough to get him to leave me alone so I can get back to my quiet corner.)

[@jenna2720]

Also, as an intp who has accidentally been really critical and harsh when having, what I thought were interesting conversations, I now have an intense fear of interacting with anyone I don’t know well. I’ve even tried to add positive statements like, “Hey, that’s an interesting point” and then gotten yelled at because it sounds insincere. Interaction is too much work and a cause of too much turmoil.

[@SugarandSarcasm]

Thankfully there are even less occasions to deem it necessary to leave the house with contactless delivery. Too many (dumb) people on the other side of that Twilight Zone door to the outside. … Is there a Twilight Zone doorbell by any chance?

[@angstydoodles1101]

@@jenna2720 Yes! Accidentally upsetting people seems to be my superpower or something. I hate talking to new (or new-ish) people because I've accidentally messed up horribly so many times in the past that it's become more trouble than it's worth for all parties involved. I don't understand the intricacies of "polite" conversation and social cues, and at this point, I'm not sure I ever will. Social interaction is unfortunately one of those things where no one tells you what you did wrong or how you messed up, and even if someone does, it's hard to break those habits because that's what feels right and natural (and logical, in my case) to you.

[@infernal..]

I feel so comfortable with intps. They're so weird.

[@audreyhogancamp1239]

“If the ENFP is amused by whatever ideas they’re throwing out there, that’s all that matters.” I’m an ENFP, this is so true. Today, I laughed uncontrollably because my cat sneezed, and when he looked at me after I laughed, his expression made me laugh so hard my chest hurt.

[@silvie4280]

As an ENFP myself, I can confidently say that I can and will laugh at my own jokes. One time I got butter on my thumb and laughed for a solid 30 minutes. I don’t even know why. It was so funny for no reason

[@Meg_intheclouds]

Haha same! I’ve often been told I talk regardless of if the other person is listening, talks back, or really cares that much. For me it’s externally processing I don’t need other people I just need to talk aloud the other person might as well be cardboard. I also don’t get linear conversation or social conversation boundaries (because Fe goes out the window when Ne joins the convo which is like immediately) so any topic or idea is on the table for me and then I talk, jump from idea to idea with little consistency (or logic, but there is logic somewhere in there), getting very excited about these random things and the other person normally gets taken aback, but becomes intrigued and if by the end I haven’t alienated them a friendship is formed (and by that I mean I find an introvert and kidnap/adopt them- all my friends nearly are introverts)

[@daniellac.7588]

😂😂😂 That story is so relatable! I have three niece under 5 and this kind of thing happens a lot. Only difference is they start crying or get mad when I can't stop laughing.

[@erikavaleries]

oh god, yes and that made me laugh 😹 too

[@erikavaleries]

We would all get along bc we would just talk to ourselves and laugh after a while and not worry who is listening 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@abbasturd]

I’m an INFP and it’s so awkward to talk to people, even my best friends. Like, it’s hard to come up with conversation topics that aren’t related to school, family problems, or work. I don’t know what to say or continue a conversation. It’s so difficult 😣

[@realtehen]

Ikr

[@Jaxan-dq2jy]

@@realtehen Dude some infps are so fucking dry like you. How can someone be so socially secluded yet adored and still be alive. I don't understand how we as a species survived because of our construction of language yet Inxp types are the antithesis of speaking sometimes I have a very very sweet infp friend but they are such a dry texter and speaker at times it is comical and almost worrying :> It's okay though I take a while to come up with things to talk about because I think quite slowly, especially with people I don't know. I don't know how people just have a seemingly random stream of things they like to talk about and can seemingly summon at will. (actually thats kinda meta and hypocritical since im all 🗣) I actually thought of making a system where i just remember a few important questions if I ever want to take a convo deeper but I probably won't, if anything as an ixxj I need to be less of a control freak :) Infps please continue to be awkward, it keeps things intriguing and honest, it kinda boosts my ego since I realize that not everyone is so open and extroverted and it makes me feel heard and safe in some inexplicable way Infps are the people you want to be around even though they don't do much and are very unassuming I should collect more infps I currently have 5 intps friends and 1 infps friends I was tired so I talked a lot Okay bye bye infps feel appreciated

[@carlee7903]

lol did i write this?

[@noorzuhair6858]

So relatable, I feel like it’s a complete waste of time talking abt things that happened to me or what I’m planning to other ppl because i my self wouldn’t rlly care about such stuff if i were them

[@tibisan3503]

Storms of Ne should be rather EZ and even endless with xNxPs, just talk about anything in general jumping from one topic to another because of "connections" in between, i mean, if it happens that your best friends got heavy Ne - INTP

[@bunny_0288]

I'm an INFP, and I pretend all the time to be interested in what other people are talking about even if I'm not. But I'm Southern. Good manners and being polite were drilled into me from an early age. 😂 It also helps that I find lots of things really interesting. I have very wide and eclectic interests, and I love learning about new things. And sometimes seeing how passionate and excited someone else is about a topic will make me happy to listen because it makes me happy to see them so happy and excited. I've also worked with children a lot. If I can pretend to be interested in talking about Spiderman for forty-five minutes straight, I can do anything 😂

[@helgaioannidis9365]

Agreed. Same here. I'm German and we're not really educated to be polite, but I don't want others to feel bad because of me,so I usually am happy if the people around me are happy. I'm also very good at looking at someone pretending to listen, just following their emotional vibe and turning my mind off not thinking of anything.

[@sarahrose0622]

Same. INFP small town farm girl raised with manners & a high tolerance for small talk. I once watched a livestream walking past a line of people & realized I was smiling and knodding at the people in line from my couch 🤣 Engaging with kids in their imaginary hypotheticals is a blast!

[@MLELELELEL]

🤣😆 That's so cute thanks for a giggle

[@mokshalani8414]

Also same. I think our Ne keeps us open to the possibility that what someone is saying might indeed be interesting, and our Fi makes us rather tolerant listeners, however it also takes our Fi a while to formulate an appropriate/somewhat genuine response while we digest what was said, so I can see why FJ thinks the way he does

[@IsaacPrinTheNerd]

Exact same. I'm an INFP from the South as well. Whenever the topic of conversation goes into something I'm interested in, I can talk someone's ear off, and they'll probably think I'm very social (usually with other college kids). However, family reunions are awful for me. They talk about things that don't interest me at all, so I just sit there, not talking to anybody the entire time I'm there. There's barely anyone my age, or in college, or been to college, or even remotely near my political stance. They talk about jobs, and starting a family, and car troubles, and it's hell. But plop me in a conversation about movies, TV shows, music, or games I've never experienced but watched a review of that one time, and I'm golden!

[@helgaioannidis9365]

As an INFP I'd most likely have a book with me and would read that. But if I'd notice from the other person attempts to have a conversation I'd be glad to have one. I've become very good at small talk during the last 30 years and it is true that I'm also very good at pretending to be more interested than I really am. I'm also good at making people talk about things that really matter to them very quickly, so usually things become more interesting for me quite soon in a conversation. I often end up listening to the problems of people I've never met before and prefer that over small talk. Don't expect though to ever hear about my problems. I try to hide them even from myself 😂

[@lanielynbitagun2476]

Yep...totally me...sometimes it's hard to pretend to be interested in the conversation cause I don't want to be rude and make the other person feel upset...

[@patriciarose2342]

Same same

[@warriorcatkitty]

Saaamee ahahaha

[@MinnnnLxol]

Omg that's so true

[@yunsing1508]

Yeah this is the exact situation I be in when I was looking at my phone or reading a book at the bus stop when an auntie or uncle came and started talking about history. Then the conversation drifted really fast to their families that they were actually telling me their family problems. And the thing is. I don't even know them 😂 Happen to me all the time 😂

[@ceilinh6004]

As an INTP married to another INTP, I'm going to go ahead and say that we're actually a pretty okay type to be stuck in a room with. 😁

[@darthlaurel]

INTJ married to an INTJ. He's slightly more extroverted than I am so that can be awkward at times.

[@WCKD.LY44]

Agreed !! I think though were quiet if we assume that the other person might be anywhere near our own personality or share similar interest we will try to connect and make conversation. I feel Intps are stapled as being quiet because were shy when really we just dont talk unless it intrest us.

[@nospecialmeaning2]

He should do: the personality type you are most _likely_ to be stuck in a room with :D just kidding, it's not a given INTPs are winning that one.

[@gtgrandom]

As an INFJ, ISFPs and INFPs are the only types I can tolerate for extended periods of time (and I never really get sick of them). ENFPs and ENTPs are great, but I need my space.

[@Recep007]

Thanks for validating us. We love you INFJs to bits and pieces aswell! So, so much! -INFP

[@avalontucker]

I'm an ISFP 😊 I haven't seen any comments other than yours even mentioning ISFP's, so thanks for being someone who did, it's tiring never seeing any about us 😂 Also yay, I feel appreciated 😁😂

[@Recep007]

@@avalontucker everyone knows already that Isfps are great, that’s why they don’t state the obvious. :P

[@avalontucker]

@@Recep007 Thank you 😊 I always thought we're pretty annoying 😂

[@Jaxan-dq2jy]

@@avalontucker ISFP BEST TYPE I think Idk just feels that way Fi is op Se is op Ni is op Te is op I should learn more about isfps I've mistaken isfps for infjs multiple times somehow It's just 3RD SLOT NI OP You deceive me into thinking you're intuitives and I'm not easily fooled, very impressive I find isfps charming and adaptable yet still authentic somehow I'm am going to learn about isfp very interesting

[@randomname1481]

Timestamps: 0:38 - ESTJ/ENTJ 1:22 - ESFJ/ENFJ 2:29 - ESFP/ESTP 3:16 - ENFP/ENTP 4:43 - ISFJ/ISTJ 5:56 - INFJ/INTJ 7:41 - IxxP Type Observations 8:41 - INTP/ISTP 9:58 - ISFP/INFP

[@trinaq]

Thanks so much for the time stamps, they're immensely helpful!

[@sofiereads]

Thank you Random Name

[@shriyapalsule4790]

Thank u :D

[@randrants1024]

There where in the description…

[@DemureDarlings]

A MODERN DAY HERO

[@annmowatt7547]

INFJ married for 42 years to an ESFP till he passed, we adapted to suit each other and actually had a wonderful marriage. He helped me out of my shell, a bit, and I calmed him down.

[@ibelieveinyou1696]

How sweet! ❤️

[@susysnakegirl]

I'm sorry for your loss. ♥️

[@justanerdyhobbitgirl]

[@kevamaru]

I'm an INFJ and I have a friend who's ENFP. The witty banter we have with each other is really entertaining and fun for me. But we can also flip the conversation and suddenly start talking about hypothetical situations and theories about any and everything. But I wouldn't mind being in a room with anyone if we can talk about stuff like this. Don't make me do things. I'll embarrass myself and it'll continue to haunt me 15 years later. It took me 25 minutes just to write this comment and can't tell if I've said too much or too little. Might delete later. 🙃

[@Harlenna]

As an ENFP my best friends are INFPs. We just get each other.

[@andreas_rr]

@@Harlenna INFP, and my best friend is an ENFP. those 2 types are literally made for each other 😋

[@ENFPGEMINI]

I love INFJs…most of my closest friends are INFJ…when I immediately click with someone they almost always end up being INFJ. I love being myself with them while giving them time and space to get comfortable so they can eventually open up and show what’s hiding under the surface…because it almost always matches what I openly show on the surface. I always get a kindred spirit kinda vibe with them and it makes me feel special knowing they are able to be themselves with me. Also…I always wanna post comments but it takes me forever because i have so much to say and am incapable of being succinct that I eventually give up because I get overwhelmed…or I post it but overthink it to death and then end up editing it a million times or eventually deleting the comment entirely. I feel you. ~ENFP 🙃

[@jessicathespy]

Infj, I love enfps they are so funny.

[@shireads2954]

I'm also an INFJ who tends to click with ENFPs, they're just the right kind and amount of wierd and random and deep. Edited because I was still on my post surgery painkillers and, therefore, could not spell.

[@liv5296]

I'm an INFP and I find the INFP/ISFP one super accurate. I will immediately sense if I'm going to be interested in a conversation as soon as it starts, and honestly I'm usually not. But because I have social anxiety and hate confrontation, I usually act interested even if I'm not...

[@yeahz_purple1786]

Same

[@YaGirlJem]

Yes an INFP hates BS conversation! Small talk really is just that, small and insignificant. Tell me how you handled your first pet's death, or a very traumatic event that occurred in your life. Or not talk and we can ignore each other I'm fine with my own self reflection's and distractions. Why are we in this room? How long are we here? Can we get naked?

[@altitudeiseverything3163]

INTJ here: I agree that small talk is a waste of time, painfully boring. But talk to me about your personal trauma? 😳 God, *…no!* Not unless you’re a close friend, then I will do my very best to comfort and support. I’m a very private person and prefer acquaintances to have similar boundaries. We can bond sharing interests until a certain level of trust is established (if it ever is). Instead of small talk, tell me how you think capitalism may need to change in light of the worsening effects of climate change; what you think of the inculcation of religious values into public policy; or the creeping authoritarianism across the globe; or even *why* you chose your particular career path. Even if your opinions differ from mine, it’ll be a deeper and more interesting conversation than, “Hey, how ‘bout those Cubs?” And we each may walk away having actually learned something.

[@melon1590]

As a fellow INFP we're really asking the real questions Lol

[@MelodicQuest]

I'm intrigued about the idea of being stuck with another INFP. If we could open up, I'd love to explore someone else's world views in an honest and open dialog. I can handle opposing views if you can be mature enough to have a discussion about those views.

[@neverendinchaos4800]

@@MelodicQuest There'd be this slight tinge of both of us feeling like we might be misunderstood, but if we showed each other that we can both be non-judgemental, then I'd say we'd start to slowly open up. It's a rarity to find someone in this world who truly understands us, but maybe that's just from my experience.

[@lilya8100]

so true

[@Masonio]

"A switch will flip and they'll just start giving you a monologue on whatever matters to them." I have never been so thoroughly called out in my life.

[@aaronburdon221]

I think my longest monologue was about 35 minutes until she quite literally told me to shut the F up. Who doesn't want a 35 minute monologue about ancient historical figures and how their actions made the world how it is today?

[@Masonio]

Don't ever get me started on Brandon Sanderson. I could go on a while talking about his writing speed and quantity only to go off on tangents about his magic systems which I've memorized the complexities of. I've done this to many friends. Luckily they're all nerds as well.

[@dekuMusic]

@@aaronburdon221 Bro I'd love that. I'm and ENFP tho so I love when people talk to me about their favorite things and I can ask them questions after questions and the conversation never ends and I love it more when I can connect one of my interest with that persons interest after lots of questions and we just vibe.

[@b.1162]

I'm an ISTP married to an INTP with very different interests and both of us only tolerate the other's monologues so we can keep giving our own. >_>

[@aaronburdon221]

@@b.1162 yeeea as ISTP's we have to remember that we aren't always the only smart person in the room, but God knows that it feels that way sometimes lol

[@cara토끼]

It never fails to interest and amaze me how well most INFJs and ENFPs go together, in whatever context. I didn't think I'd be so strongly convinced about MBTI compatibility until I found out almost everyone around me who are my good friends or people that gel well with me are all INFJs. And that Frank James gets along well with ENFPs too HAHA

[@rumy404]

I LOVE INFJS. - enfp

[@carolchen2320]

The INFJ chemistry is so real - another ENFP

[@wulf768]

All the INFJs I've met in real life are very cool. -yet another ENFP

[@Anonymous_Anon882]

It’s because INFJs and ENFPs are shadow-types. They’re exact-opposites and exactly the same simultaneously so there’s always going to be a natural synergy. Ditto for INFJs and ENFJs.

[@elisabethball2184]

Me: “I feel like I’m really developing as an INFJ. I’m really starting to integrate myself into the sensory world” Also me: trips and falls on my face in public twice in two days

[@shesings712]

You went out in public?😳 That's already a win in my book😂 Be proud of yourself. You're doing just fine🥰 (infp)

[@carissahill3414]

Just start doing a military march everywhere you go so you dont trip LOL .. actually in all seriousness, I have been re-taught how to walk a few times in my life and supposedly how you lift and plant your feet says something about your mental state. I cannot specify for you, but maybe the marching thing may be a good idea if you are tripping because you are not lifting your toes. We take walking for granted and that it is so easy. There is actually A LOT agoing on in order to walk.

[@saswatisasmal]

I think that's what INFJs are. I become so clumsy at times, makes me wonder what the hell am I !!

[@kacimarlene]

As an infj, girl, you just described us. I’m extremely clumsy, both left and right brained just both of everything I swear🤣

[@Jaxan-dq2jy]

@@kacimarlene Infjs might could have two brains and nothing would change because it is impossible to exaggerate how much they think

[@ArtsyAustin]

As an INTJ, I also wouldn't want to be stuck in a room with another INTJ. I like talking about different theories about the universe, time, reality, and if another person counters my thinking with theirs it would probably just end u with a never ending argument full of "what if's" lol.

[@grazynawolska8160]

I am an INTJ (female) who was often stuck in small room with another INTJ (im talking closet space, had to watch carefully we didnt touch on accident lol or invade eachothers space out of need for propriety and resect). Honestly I followed them around cause I liked them. They didn't like it at first but eventually we talked about anything for hours lol. I think they liked my boldness, bluntness and sense of humor. I think they secretly missed me when I stopped coming over to the tiny room and share all my cool ideas in that closet, but things end and I had to move on. Still good times. I honestly think they disliked me at first cause they were trying to push me away but once I made a joke about them and it made them laugh so much that they secretly liked my interaction, but they were so severely introverted and odd and terrible at expressing feelings that they kinda shoved me away and I'm an INTJ too lol (I think female intjs are more extrovert-like imo). So I guess if you're a male INTJ and a female one is seeking you out to trap you in a closet with cool conversation and awesome jokes, for the love of God take the hint. We hate everyone too so why am I here? With you? Ugh INTJ males are hopeless sometimes lol.

[@mojyoqueen350]

I once listen to other INTJ on the internet and her interpretations were... I would call them stupid, but let's just call them different than mine. So yeah, two INTJs are going change this simple room they're stuck in into hell.

[@ArtsyAustin]

@@grazynawolska8160 I don't think it's a gender thing but more based on the person's personality tbh. But i do relate. I tend to push people away thinking it's a waste of time talking to them but when I start enjoying someone's company, I'm really hard to get rid of lol.

[@avalontucker]

@@ArtsyAustin My boyfriend is an INTJ and he is exaaactly the same. He gets really enthusiastic about space and science-y stuff as well and says a bunch of "what if's". I'm an ISFP who's kinda like an ISTP (My enneagram is apparently 4w5), so I'm not into that stuff cuz it's kinda scary to me 😂😂 But I just listen and smile cuz it's kinda cute seeing how into the conversation he gets, even if it is very one sided 😂

[@dr.perruche1278]

Oh god now imagine you are stuck with another you.. except your views on things are swapped… what a nightmare

[@dondee458]

As Enfp .. I really enjoy getting the ideas from everyone when talking.

[@sethfrisbie3957]

What about ideas to brutally torture people for example taser them until you get the needed information when looking for information on a suspected terrorist? I ask this as an ISTJ.

[@dekuMusic]

Fr, that's one of my favorite part os socializing. Getting ideas from someone and then, on other social situation, sharing this ideas into another group. Is like I'm a plane and ideas are just travelling around :3. I wonder how far an idea that I shared have travelled.

[@melodyconte]

Me, an INFP alone with Frank: Brain: "He's not gonna want to talk about KZbin. Think of something else to say. Don't talk about KZbin. Don't talk about KZbin." Me: "So how's KZbin going?" Brain: "D'OH!"

[@Raindancer221]

Nice one :D On the other hand ENFP: oh hi Frank, my youtube man, the YT enigmaH! How it goi... oh wait! Let's make a video, like, right now. Wait here, I'll go find the camera.. ~ comes back with some random book he's found ~ Hey, have you read this book?

[@carissahill3414]

When your Brain is talking to you, tell your brain to ONLY talk in the positive sense...Your subconscious knows nothing of the word NO so THIS is what it heard you say... "He's gonna want to talk about KZbin. Think of something else to say. Talk about KZbin. Talk about KZbin." ..... No one would be able to resist.

[@melodyconte]

@@carissahill3414 actually your subconscious DOES understand the word "no" and by denying something you create resistance which in turn makes it more likely to happen. I find that changing my core beliefs and healing childhood wounds has been much more effective in creating positivity around me than policing my thoughts for negativity. I just let my thoughts exist and know that they are not who I am.

[@carissahill3414]

@@melodyconte I wasn't talking about policing your thoughts for negativity. The word NO is not inherently negative. For example, saying No has a positive effect when keeping to your boundaries. What I was referring to is this effect v=3H82aFBFvzQ

[@melodyconte]

@@carissahill3414 you literally told me to tell my brain to stop saying no. Under my original comment, which is a JOKE.

[@fancykirby7117]

its really interesting how you can see some of your traits in other personalities even if they aren't your type edit: as an entp talking about things is kind of like a game and would absolutely crush my boredom

[@fancykirby7117]

H*ck yeah hearted comment

[@andreas_rr]

as an ENTP you're literally trying to be all the 16 types at once 😁

[@micahroberts8383]

I'm an INTJ, who is extremely talkative and the intellectual sparring is why I tend to enjoy ENTPs at parties and things... that is, until I realize they're not actually interested in the specific topic so much as the idea of sparring. My interest in the mental game of talking to other humans is moreso about borrowing their brain for awhile to sharpen my own against (combative) or to aid in fleshing out a concept I care a lot about and am a bit stuck on (collaborative). ENTPs get this process started, but sometimes get bored with the subject when I feel we are just getting started. If I am feeling more relaxed, though, and can just "let the convo go where it goes," I can have a blast chatting away with an ENTP!

[@stephaniemertz2881]

100% on the ISTP. I am an ENFP, and my teen daughter is an ISTP. I have learned to just give her room to come to me when she wants to open up, because trying to pry anything out is...not fruitful. But we'll get in the car for a while and she turns into a total blabbermouth! 🙄😂 Also, yes. She equates me to a dumb puppy dog most of the time, because I am bubbly, conversational and enthusiastic.😂🤷‍♀️

[@SilverButterflies_33]

As an ISTP I can confirm that I would sit in the corner of the room trying to make as little eye contact as humanly possible. Once it gets to the 1 or 2 hour mark though I MIGHT try to make conversation….bUT it’ll probably be me “coughing” as a signal for the other person to start the conversation. If they don’t..um, well, we ain’t talking

[@ravengray3095]

My brother is INFJ and I’m INFP and when we found that out he said “Well that’s why we don’t always get along, I’m judging you and you’re perceiving me judging you” XD but actually we get along quite well lol. Anyways that is true for me that what I’m interested in is hit or miss, usually for me though if I can see that you’re interested in it then that will make me interested in it too. Nothing is more interesting to me than studying what makes a person tick, so if I can get a detailed description of your favorite thing from your pov that would be a gold mine to me XD

[@SG-ie3dm]

the theme for each video is always super interesting

[@FrankJames]

thanks!!

[@stduupie]

FJ, as an INTP I totally agree with you. I do think it is really hard for INTPs to engage in a convo with someone they don't know but, since it will be a one on one convo it is more likely for us to have a decent convo than me not speaking at all.

[@iLikeTrains0372]

Yesss. That's one thing with us. We suck greatly in social gatherings. But we function (close to) normal in one on one situations.

[@timothymelvin7450]

Especially on a mutual topic, it helps time to pass.

[@belavera994]

as a fellow infj I would also have a hard time starting a conversation with any of the other types, I'd hate to feel like I could be annoying somebody who just wants to be in their head, listen to music, text a friend or whatever else they'd rather be doing, but I rarely ever feel annoyed when someone's starting to talk to me and come to think of it, I've made just two good friends who're also introverts up to this point in my life, all my other friends are extroverts who broke the ice and started to talk to me, wish I could adopt other introverts that easily, I hope I'll get better at it with time🙈

[@Rosie-uf5ox]

Sometimes I’ll use my INFJ-ness to trick myself into being more outgoing. I start telling myself that everyone else feels awkward too and it’s always nice to have someone break the ice…so if I reach out and break the ice, it’s an act of service to the other person. I’ve met a lot of good friends this way.

[@ozuray4307]

“I gotta go with the INFJ cause there’s only room for one of us.” So basically we have to do the Josh fight but with INFJ’s. I know every INFJ is a little different but I feel like most of us would stand there and be like, I’m not competitive you guys can win meanwhile on the inside we might want to fight lol

[@SugarandSarcasm]

The Josh fight? No idea to what you are referring. I was thinking Highlander.

[@plasma2O6]

@@SugarandSarcasm it was an organised battle between a lot of josh to see which one can keep his name.

[@bubblyi-dle4621]

That's it.

[@mayo_nnais3]

Omg I thought I was the only one who actually remembered the Josh fight!

[@kaliah1494]

I think that's why INFJ/INTJs love ENFP/ENTPs.

[@grazynawolska8160]

ENTP always has my back so, yeah... :) -intj

[@duckbacon3117]

ENTP x INTJ is the best relationship.

[@drbrainbrews]

My INFJ boyfriend is the best person And so much like me. That whenever we have a difference of opinion (RARELY), we both are so blown off by this. So much so, that we almost drain ourselves to make the other one understand our bubble, but it is so rewading,mentally stimulating and so intimate. He is a Feeler and I am an INTJ. It is almost like he makes my thoughts feel. And I make his feelings think. Damn, he is the best thing ever happened to me. ✨

[@mr.popoballballl745]

I'm an INTJ, my GF is an INFJ. Sometimes it happens just like Frank says, sometimes MAGIC happens. :D

[@drbrainbrews]

@@mr.popoballballl745 I know right. INFJs are so damn nice. My brother, my boyfriend, my best friend and my closest colleague. All are INFJs. 🌸

[@wisteria1739]

I believe the beauty in your heart is reflected here too!! ~INFJ

[@drbrainbrews]

@@wisteria1739 Throughout my life, I have been misunderstood. I have been forced to choose between intimacy and respect. With him, I can have both. INFJs taught me that vulnerability is the birthplace of love. I have been working on my tertiary function since so long but he polished me. I have never had a single fruitful relationship/friendship/acquaintance because nobody quite understood me. And This INFJ, figured me out in 1 conversation. I think the best pair is INTJ INFJ when INTJs are in touch with emotion and INFJs are not mistreated and loved rightly. He is absolute magic. P.S. Thank you for the compliment.

[@cyrussteele9362]

Another INTJ here, my wife is INFJ, this is exactly it. She runs cover for me against all the feelings (eeeeeewwwww), and I force her to logically confront reality, and then conquer it with cunning and a lack of mercy. ... (insert "are we the baddies" meme)

[@PsychologyRefresh]

Which personality type would be dead first if it was a movie?

[@FrankJames]

oh this is such a good idea!

[@Wajiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii]

Yessss!! Please do this one. I love this idea.

[@PsychologyRefresh]

@@FrankJames We are very interested in your assessment of this idea ;)

[@Harlenna]

I think an ENFP would die quickly, especially if it was a who done it? mystery. ENFPs are so friendly they have often have no guile to speak of.

[@duckbacon3117]

The NTs and the SPs would survive. The SJs would survive only if they follow orders correctly by thr NTs. And the NFs would probably die.

[@bbjudyfit]

This cloud illustration is literally so hilarious, yet so accurate.

[@Anonymous_Anon882]

Yup. IxxP types are the personification of ‘head in the clouds.’ The clouds may be composed of scientific musings, somber theological and philosophical marvels, lilies, anime or moonwalk routines but unless they have a duty to perform or bring inventions/knowledge into the world it’s all for them and them-alone. You don’t intrude on an IxxP’s world.

[@Trasea]

INFP here - I wouldn't want to be trapped in a room with an ENFJ - after the initial fun and jokes, they can become bossy. But change one letter - to INFJ - and that's one I could live with forever. I love their quiet depth and mystery, paradoxical nature, complexity, and they'd probably be the muse for my next song.☺

[@charityheath1273]

As an ISFP it can be kind of hard to think of things to talk about. I want it to be interesting to other person but also something I know about and can comment on.🤷 It's also pretty funny when people ask me questions because I really try to think about the answer and if it true or not but I also feel like I have to have a reason for it. Like someone asked me what my favorite bird was the other day and I really didn't know what to say. I like robins, blue jays, and hummingbirds but in my head I was trying to figure out "why" one of them was my favorite. Which is kind of dumb because I feel like you don't necessarily need a reason for something to be your favorite, you just like it.🤷🙃🤗

[@denisiamoiseanu8784]

That’s the exact reason why I don’t have a favorite color...

[@sephwearsprada]

I feel like we ISFPs just like things without any deep reason? Like a song just sounds so good?? Like your heart and mind are just telling you to like it 😂 No other reson needed... Or that is just how i feel.

[@charityheath1273]

@@sephwearsprada exactly😁

[@avalontucker]

God damn it, you are me!! 😂 I don't know any other ISFP's and I swear to god I need to find some, so I can be friends with someone who doesn't look at me in confusion whenever I say something about me "just liking" something 🙄😂 Like if I say I like Autumn cuz it "feels" nice, then it's because of exactly that! It just resonates with me; I feel it in my bones 😂😂 Gotta have a logical reason for everything nowadays 🤦‍♀️😂

[@DaniellaTousson]

I would actually want to be stuck with an INFJ. Reason being is that as an INTJ, INFJ's are the only type that can meet me on my level. A close second is an ENTJ. We get along well but at after an hour or so it goes wrong.

[@Maryyonhe]

As an isfp my personality varies depending on the intimacy I have with the person, but I agree with my stereotype, I really dedicate myself a lot to feelings

[@xupper223]

Agreeing as an ISFP

[@andreas_rr]

same here (INFP)

[@avalontucker]

Omg I will literally shut off and not say a word if I know I won't get along with the person. And if i have to talk to someone who is different to me but capable of getting along with, I will restrict certain aspects of my personality if it will cause awkwardness with the other person, or change it only slightly to avoid conflict if I can see it working. If not, I will almost definitely not like them due to them questioning me about the stuff I like in a seemingly patronising/insulting manner, or them arguing with me because they got too vocal about their viewpoints on some particular thing that I would hold back from talking about personally, because I know we would clash about it 🙄😂 Also I find I can be myself the most with my ISTP friend (who's also a girl), and my INTJ boyfriend. My friend and I have the same dark sense of humour which is at the same time very silly and stupid, we'll go from joking about things we really shouldn't joke about to crying with laughter at some stupid snapchat filter that puts your face on a sloth 😂 My boyfriend and I though just click, and anything we disagree on we both avoid talking about because we know what eachother can get like haha Also sorry for this being an essay lol

[@susysnakegirl]

Wow! As an infj myself, you really nailed some of my interactions. I am married to an INTP, and you are absolutely right. Those monologues are so draining. Just not your head and say yes. When we get in a conversation about something we are both passionate about, it is amazing! It can last all night and I think about it for days. But often we just hang out with him playing video games and me reading webcomics or something, and it is totally chill and fun. Sometimes it is awkward being stuck in a room with him, especially when he's having one of the little explodey tantrums - but at least they don't last long. As for my infp son, it's always interesting when he emerges from his room, because he will have something hilarious to say, or interesting that he just learned about, or a story idea he just has to bounce off of us. But since we are all introverts we don't mind him having his alone time most of the time. However - our daughter is apparently esfp. Poor girl. She drives us crazy with the constant need for attention and background noise and cuddles and company, and we drive her crazy by needing a break from her. I really do feel for her however, and look for opportunities for her to hang out with other kids as much as possible.

[@zjengle6878]

This INFP would be okay locked with any of the types as long as they also wanted to talk about cute animals. And all of this scenarios sound really fun and wacky! Do we get to see a skit where Frank acts all of these out? Also I’m still really invested in the fate of Michael and Paige Trafficticket. I’d happily watch a whole skit about the ENFP’s wacky alters trying to escape Galaxathor’s spaceship or something.

[@iamandreasilva]

2:18 as an enfj SORRYJHSJS LMAO I THOUGHT EVERYONE WOULD APPRECIATE SOMEONE ASKING ABOUT THEM😭

[@beepbedits]

My mom is an INFJ, my brother is an ENFP and I’m an ENTP :D we get along pretty well…then there’s my ITSJ dad

[@dreamfyre11]

I’m ENTP too!

[@beepbedits]

@@dreamfyre11 Yayyy entp buddies :D

[@Dr._Bo]

my mom is XSFX, my dad is ENTJ, my sister is a very social INFP (sound weird, but belive me it is real).... and then me, an INTP...

[@beepbedits]

@@Dr._Bo dang that must suck I’m like half intp and half entp.. so I understand 😅

[@Dr._Bo]

@@beepbedits I kinda half entp too, but hooo boiii you dont know how the two sides of my families are *only* extroverts (exept two in my mother's side. the one is an INTJ end we are close to each other, and the other is INFX).

[@sneaku._s]

TIMESTAMPS!! (And I was your 999th like) Intro 0:00 ESTJ+ENTJ: very intense 0:37 ESFJ+ENFJ: alot of conversation 1:22 ESFP+ESTP: get bored very easily 2:29 ENFP+ENTP: talk about stuff you might not understand 3:16 ISFJ+ISTJ: you might not know what they are talking about 4:43 INFJ+INTJ: not really interacting with you 5:56 IxxP+Types Observations: cloud metaphors 7:41 INTP+ISTP: no talking at all 8:41 ISFP+INFP: also intensity 9:58

[@color4795]

just realized there was a pattern where the opposite type is opposite of the type, so if it begins with entj, it will end with isfp and so on (i know no one cares about this)

[@avalontucker]

@@color4795 I care about it, thank you for pointing it out. I find stuff like this really cool 😊 As an ISFP it also tells me who to avoid 😂😂

[@carolinewinters6165]

As an INFJ I would deem another INFJ as an adversary. I agree to not wanting to be stuck with anyone. There would be concern with amount of over sharing in conversations and that would haunt me forever. This would also include hearing every type’s life story and all their trauma. Just put me in a room by myself.

[@Angel-gb9gi]

Lol stuck in a room with someone that has nothing worth saying but they cant handle being alone with their itty bitty thoughts so they think they are doing you a favor by killing the silence with what their grandkids said and what their plans are...😖

[@grazynawolska8160]

Really? As an INTJ I love coming across one of my type!

[@JellyIsland]

The anxiety of having over shared something is real 😶😶 but am I the only infj who likes meeting other infjs? plus I love to hear people's stories and dreams 😂 I'm also basically immune to whining. 🤣 I just love digging and understanding other people because they help me understand the world in a sense 🤷🏼‍♀️ but I have to say I have a very low tolerance for boring small talk which is usually what people who likes to talk talk about 😬🙁 at least those I usually meet ^^

[@Angel-gb9gi]

@@JellyIsland im infj and running into another infj i have not done that i know of. I have met an isfj and she is a loyal friend whom i have so much in common with but i would love to get to know another infj just to see how annoying i am to others. Im rarely liked by others and its usually by those i dont care for much anyways. I would like to observe another infj and study it like national geographics filming a tiger from a distance.

[@Recep007]

People who are afraid of oversharing, are either afraid, that the person next to them will not be able to handle it or are afraid to look in to themselves more deeply and hence need help with it. It’s no weakness to share, it’s a weakness to feel weak about it. If the person doesn’t care, then don’t feel bad about it, it just means, it’s not the Right person for you. The less you feel judged by others, the easier you will be able to live with yourself and it makes finding the right people to connect with stress free.

[@dianatorralbo7690]

FJ as an ENFP I want to thank you for no saying we are insufferable, that's something we are not used to :(

[@end4567]

To balance things out, I feel obligated to call you insufferable.

[@SraRocknRoll]

@@end4567 🥲

[@Harlenna]

He's mellowing towards us as he gets to know more ENFPs in his life, which is nice!

[@Anthemmyy]

As an enfp tho, its understandable since i enjoy chatting so many topics at once (plus dont know how to stop unless the other person had to go) and its always so random. I used to do this as a kid with my fam (until now tbh, its just in my blood ig 😂)

[@aisic20]

Same, but I am INFP.

[@klo5126]

Same!!! ENFP here. My friends sometimes can’t catch up since I want to jump topics from one to another. Hahaha

[@iamsomanyppl666]

in 3:55 i heard "ENFP especially, they'll just keep going, and they dont really care if u LEFT" instead of LAUGHING and i was completely ok w that like yes they dont care if u leave they will literally keep going

[@oliviadilley1381]

My boyfriend is an ISTP and I am a ENFP. At the beginning of the relationship I told him we wouldn’t make it and probably start a nuclear war BUT I loved his mind and natural sense of taking nothing and making something out of it. My ideas get stuck in “spider webs” so strangely it works out. It’s relieving and validating when someone can help me put my ideas and creations to the best possible use… I swear I see way too many options to focus on one… When you said you feel comfortable with ENFP’s because they are easy to get along with and love abstract and witty thoughts. We are in a constant state of tug of war though, he gets stressed out and doesn’t let me express myself or is extremely harsh (It’s okay because usually I just let him be an ass and then use an analogy or metaphor to represent the same example but doesn’t make it sound so personal.) I wonder if we will make it… it’s been 10 months so far. I’ve thought about moving out but… he’s so busy with running 5 businesses that unless it’s early in the morning or late at night I would never get my cuddles. Sorry this probably is TMI but could you make a video to help me understand more about our relationship please?

[@Harlenna]

Awww, you're softening toward us ENFPs over time...

[@mehismaknae2769]

as an ENFP, i'm honoured(more like shocked) there's a person not calling me annoying......but you agree that i'm weird right? please do or it'll hurt my pride.... oh! and also, the prison outfit looks cool asf!!! would buy one like that if i wasn't broke haha

[@andreas_rr]

ENFPs are great best friends... and also pretty damn annoying (still love u guys 😋) -probably every INFP ever PS: considering ENFPs are probably the only type able to understand us, and they aren't too shy to talk to us, they're pretty much the only friend option we've got anyways lol

[@farrex0]

Nah, you are not weird.... *grins in ENTP*

[@andreavieira5681]

@@farrex0 I just suddenly became hurt. But then I remember that you are a Ne user too. So in your point of view.. we are the same as you. Welcome to the weird side

[@farrex0]

@@andreavieira5681 I mean true, if you are weird for being an Ne dom, then how would I know it because I am an Ne dom too? What is weird for others might be normal for me. But yeah, I am weird as well, or maybe the correct word would be, unusual. Although you should know by now, I never doubted ENFPs were weird. Just that I can't let go of an opportunity to troll.

[@Zari_ifa]

@@farrex0 when u said grins in entp I imagined that frog in your pfp grinning at me.....nvm

[@-_.---._.-_-.--._--]

9:10 my brother is an INTP and he gives endless monologues on whatever he is intrested in at that moment (he's become better at interacting with me during the monologue, but mostly it is just him talking and me listening), because of him, I've become quite skilled at listening to this kind of Ti monologues, so two other INTP's I know (both from school, but in different years) have found out that I'm able to listen to their whole monologue even if it's about a topic I know nothing about and thus I now have three INTP's that come to me when they want to share what they are intrested in.

[@medusagorgon9]

ENTP with a chance of INFP for the win. These are the types of my children (17&21), and though we have our 'moments', they are fairly rare. Many times are we hanging out in a room together quietly pursuing our own thing and enjoying each other's energy. Course in other cases we are ignoring the gaming monologue of my ENTP son who insist on verbalizing every outrage. "OMG how did I miss?!!! I shot at his head but he picked up a banana"

[@saintfighteraqua]

I'm an INFP. Depending on who I'm with I can talk your head off or seem like I'm not even there. Sometimes I feel more like an ENFP.

[@nikitacooper4536]

Im an infp and i relate to the infj about the fact of having a very personalized view of things that prevent me from understanding and validate other people point of view ... But at the Same time i would like to see things as they actually are and find a middle ground with others instead of living in a biased parallel world of mine

[@eccentrix5026]

As an ENFP, I was really interested in the cloud thing with IXXP types..and before FJ said it, I thought to myself "wow, he is really overusing the ☁️ cloud thing but, this is so awesome..😂" and then he said that he was overusing. It's like he sensed my thoughts via the internet before it even happened. 😜

[@Metchta]

My very good friend is an ENFP, we both enjoy each other company and learn a lot from each other. BUT, we agree that it would be difficult to live together haha. INFJ

[@ellabane3104]

Soy INTP y siempre he tenido un interés extraño por los ENFP y los ESFP (en serio, ni siquiera puedo explicar porque) pero me dificulta horrores no sentirme incomoda cerca de ellos. Me di cuenta que funciono mejor con otros Ti como el ENTP o el ISTP, incluso hasta con el INTJ.

[@jimenamondragon2076]

Los ExxP son divertidos pero los Ti son interesantes :)

[@Catralasarguido]

Como INTP me pasa EXACTAMENTE lo mismo

[@Sam-ix9me]

Sameeee

[@yuiger9310]

Encontrar puntos en común puede ser una carrera cuesta arriba pero es la única forma que conozco de mantener la atención de ESFP. También evita profundizar demasiado en un solo tema si ellos no lo hacen.

[@inblack585]

Since I was an INFP raised by an ESFJ mom, also mostly because I feel really bad when I'm trying to talk about something that matters to me but people don't really care, I try my best to sincerely listen to people even when I'm not in the mood or when I can't be interested in what they're saying. It's not simply about courtesy, but my Fi justifies it as the authenticity of what OTHER people are feeling and I appreciate that most of the time. Small talk is of course off the charts in this case. I won't even try to talk to someone who's trying to make small talk. I'll look at something and bring up an idea which they might be interested about delving into just to analyze. I might come off as too logical or analytical sometimes but I'll validate your ideas just fine!

[@inblack585]

@Introverted Alpha - Dating Support for Men thank you! And what type are you?

[@ArtisticSin]

Enfp here: yay he’d tolerate me that’s a win in my book

[@andreas_rr]

ENFP would probably be one of my top 2 choices (especailly because my bff is an ENFP) -INFP

[@ArcaneGinger]

I feel the saaame way.

[@travisstoll3582]

I disagree with labeling the INXJ as limited in perspective. Their whole world finds patterns and perpetually redefine boundaries as they are open to ideas different than their own. It's exciting discovering the why and you can't do that in a bubble.

[@dr.perruche1278]

Well worded

[@sarahberkner]

I would disagree and say they're naturally resistant to viewpoints that different from their own, although healthy INxJs can work on that of course. They have a big idea of what is true and how the world works and if something doesn't fit with that they might not say anything but they'll be resistant to accept it. I'm ESTJ so I'm the same with Te, I usually won't say anything but if people act in a way that I think is illogical it bothers me, even though to a lot of people it wouldn't really matter.

[@Hime.Gusano]

For some reason I started laughing non stop after Frank "abusing" the cloud metaphor. Literally everything after that made me laugh 🤣 so thank you, you've made an anxious and depressed infp happy :3

[@benjaminharmon6541]

Okay, but if that room is a workshop full of tools and materials, you will absolutely want to go with the ISTP. We will either completely leave you alone, ramble about ideas for making cool shit, or try to get you to build something together. I would let you do the more conceptual side of design if you prefer while I do the measuring and cutting, or I can do both and you can just watch awkwardly. It would be chill and fun and nice! I think I just want to have a workshop honestly.

[@yobiyobi8138]

as an intp I was laughing all the way through the IP rant XD cloud analogy is very accurate, for me at least. I like to observe and collect information, then process it and see how it fits into my understanding of everything else. I can interact like a "human being" sometimes, but I am most comfortable in my own head.

[@ellenh278]

Awwww ENFP's feel the love in this one!

[@neobongzzz]

"I am abusing this metaphore" It's actually the best way I've seen to explain this

[@mcmackj]

“Do I care about this at all?” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Yup. And if I do care, I really care. And if I don’t care, I really just don’t. This applies to all aspects of life. But, like FJ said, it’s genuine.

[@avalontucker]

Everyone takes it so personally as well, like it's not your fault you don't click with us, and it certainly ain't ours 😂😂😂

[@Duck-wc9de]

I'm an ENFJ, I once pulled off small talk with an introvert for 3h. I'm a well of conversation topics, I just throw the bucket and it's always full. Everything is so interesting.

[@kaity9480]

As an INFP I'd probably try to distract myself with literally anything so I don't have to think about how I'm awkwardly in a room with just 1 other person. Though that might be the social anxiety.

[@AdiSchwarz]

Gosh, this reminds me of washroom moments. When I refused to say "excuse me" but I needed to reach for the napkin. I washed my hand like 3-4x longer & waited for that person to leave. :( How much more if I'll be left alone with someone else in a room :(

[@kaity9480]

@@AdiSchwarz LITERALLY, I'll do anything I can to get out of the room or distract myself, being alone in a room with only 1 other person especially someone I don't know gives me goose-bumps.

[@AdiSchwarz]

@@kaity9480 By that time, it happened I was so focused on the person which was 2m away from me when normally, I have my playlist loudly playing in my head without my earbuds. :( After that, I told my friend, "I dont need to be asleep to experience nightmare."

[@kaity9480]

@@AdiSchwarz Yeah you start hyperfocusing on the fact that you're there with another person that it clogs your entire thinking system, probably anxiety (at least in my case)

[@AdiSchwarz]

@@kaity9480 That's alright, Venti hihi But not looking forward to another moment. 😂😭

[@janecenufer9097]

I am an INFJ and my sister is an INFP. We have been great roommates since childhood and have continued to be great roommates in college. My future (currently unknown) husband has some fierce competition for best roommate lol

[@janecenufer9097]

@Erza Scarlet I'm not really much to write home about, but she is the person who understands me the most in the whole world. That means everything to me! :)

[@megan-vz5io]

I was rewatching your old videos when I got the notification. it makes me so happy

[@lisa_gay]

I was, too!

[@cheesecakeandthediabetes]

ENFP here You smooth talker, you 😏 Thanks for the ego boost, FJ

[@angela_somanythings5670]

That's Exactly what happens when I, an ENFP, engages in daily random conversations with my husband, an INFJ... I had to learn how to let go sometimes!! 😅

[@Ennpey]

Really well put ♥ Well done! As an ENFP, I wouldn't want to be locked up with myself for too long either. I totally understand.

[@frecklesandwine]

Hahahaha right?? Same

[@ezridavis5827]

Yeah, as an ENFJ that really wouldn't happen. I definitely enjoy talking about my self, and I can't stand fakeness or strained conversation. I would definitely be interested in you, but I would be much more interested in going with the flow of conversation, and seeing where it takes us. Especially if we get to explore some interesting ideas.

[@beanieful204]

yasss me too - enfj

[@HaHaHaLMFAOtv]

Yep, I’m ENFJ and are usually very ashamed that I’ve talked about myself for way too long when I should be getting to know the other person better 😅

[@ezridavis5827]

@@HaHaHaLMFAOtv I know right!? Glad to see I'm not the only one lol

[@qhfmaekf]

scrolled way-way down and the fact that there are only a few comments about istp and half of those are someone else's observations speaks for itself

[@athirahari5365]

As an ISTP I can agree that I won't be starting conversation. But if u start conversation, if there are some things that logically feels wrong to me I would say it.

[@rionamatsuba238]

I'm INFP! I especially like discussing ideas with INFJs and doing fun stuff with ISTPs! We flirt to each others a lot too hahah

[@lishayost44]

Okay, yes, as an INTP it's extremely hard for me not to point out people's logical inconsistencies, BUT I work very hard at pulling myself back from doing that too much, and I try to allow the other person to express their ideas whether or not I think they're right. It's difficult, but not impossible. I think we'd be OK in a room together. However, neither of us would really want to be there, either way, haha! But we could talk about some interesting things probably if the conversation got going in the right direction :)

[@Casedilla73]

As an INFP, I really like what you said about us. I'm glad that my genuineness is appreciated sometimes.

[@tamytshu]

Ok so, I’m sorry, it has nothing to do with the topic of your video, but I love your hair Frank, you make me think of Eugene in Tangled

[@ashleymarie6682]

I’m an INFJ and married to INTJ. We are great. Healthy amount of competition and conversation. “Bubble”? 😂 it helps to let stuff roll off. My INTJ husband has definitely helped me learn to let things go easier

[@ChrystalFaith]

Body slammed ALL of us fellow INFJs, good job! "There can be only one!" JK... We all feel so special or just different enough to think we'd be the exception to the rule. So none of us feel insulted. Good rebel without a cause, FJ... I so feel you right now.

[@lanascribe]

B.A.L.A.N.C.E. balllllaaaanceee!

[@cryptosatoshiguy7168]

I'm an infj and I talked quite a bit to someone I think is an infp and spent awhile with friends I think were infp or infj, when we talked we sorta knew when our "world" was felt and where the boundaries were, but actually were surprisingly happy each time and we never really punched something we knew the other was "fixed on" so if there was a "fact" that for any reason isn't true anymore (there's a lot of potential reasons) we knew the other person wouldn't budge much we would just say a part that was close and we probibly knew but with a little that we probibly don't know, and it's sorta a "hey I disagree with that thing, but ur view is just as strong as mine, why don't you go reread that sector, I'll prob do same" and we arnt really expected to remember the question just what it was pointing lol

[@Clostridiumbotulinum37]

4:09 I am an entp, and those two words, "well actually" are so accurate. I have this one friend I love to talk with, because we'll be joking around and one of us will pull out the well actually, and next thing you know we're discussing hypothetical's or crafting conspiracy theories. I love talking very much, but my talking partner has to have good points or I'll get bored.

[@danika9411]

I'm beaming! I'm happy! I'm internally jumping around! Maybe I'm actually jumping a bit! I'm not totally annoying! Thank you! Thank you so much! 💖 ~ENFP PS: You're all amazing! I wish you a wonderful day! PPS: Thank you!

[@taniab5701]

Haha, I love your sense of humor , my fellow INFJ! But I must say, I am married to an INTJ and we are the only ones to understand each other and actually enjoy life when we are stuck together in a room for 2.5 years (COVID). But yes, we both challenge each other because I say, you want milk,”, and he says, the milk can be found on the counter, instead of yes/ no, answer. But we need to kind of constantly ask each other what do you mean. When it comes to being stuck with those who are the opposite of us, I’ve learned to simply say NO and not allow them to force their actionism on me. But I’m a sometimes extroverted (want to achieve things) person and need to pull myself back to not drive the others crazy because I become more emotion. I’m the INFJ type that in an is in between and ned to find ways to stay balanced between emotional and logical thinking. But I recognize your thoughts sooooo well!

[@aisyahmutia5732]

don't worry, as an ENFJ myself I won't force questions if the person I'm talking to doesn't like it, either from their expressions, or their gestures. And we will appreciate the moment of silence.😆

[@AmberArtNYC]

Ok, I will leave a comment to participate in boosting the video. 😅 I don't know the MBTI type, but it's that guy at the party that sees you as soon as you walk in. He corners you. Wants to debate about something that will kill your soul. SOS! Also I don't want to be locked in a room with an INFJ. I genuinely fear they will judge me harshly. (For instance, Lexi's play/cast roast in Euphoria). That's torture! But I like them from afar. They're cool! 😊

[@TheNewestDemigod]

What would happen if you were actually locked with ALL of them? That would be kind of interesting 🤨. Don’t you think?

[@ELIDElochan8]

Well… 😂😂😂

[@booktubereditor873]

It would be cool

[@trinaq]

Oh yes, every introvert's worst nightmare, being crowded with so much people!

[@businessisboomin7252]

@@trinaq not if all are introverts :) and if they don't have social anxiety.

[@elisapianoo]

There is actually a TV show on this!! A Korean show about all the MBTI personality types living together and seeing how they react. kzbin.info/www/bejne/mJ7Tno2hg76Fb7c

[@waterlilyandvine]

INFP here. The cloud metaphor! Lol! Absolutely true. I try to get people to join me on it though but so far no one's been able to stay afloat. ; )

[@Saturn.56]

When i (INTP) met my one really good friend (INFP) at my other good friends (ISTJ) birthday party we didnt talk to each other at all, i stuck by the ISTJ most of the time until she went swimming with her other friends she invited and i sat on a baby swing with the INFP on another swing, i think the INFP mentioned something or other and i asked about their MBTI type then proceeded to go off on a tangent about it, throughout the day and night we talked about random stuff and i was surprised with how much i talked Off topic but i love to debate random topics with my ISFP friend's ENTP friend, i often crave a good debate but i have no one to debate with and honestly dont wanna reach out to him cuz i love and hate him at the same time lol, plus that requires me to actually reach out so :/

[@EmyN]

ENFJ here, when I'm striking a conversation with someone I indeed tend to push the focus to the other person because nobody wants to hear someone just blab about themselves lol, I also don't want to do that either, I'm trying to create an interesting conversation for them, but problem is how do I know when they don't want to talk about themselves at all lol? Like if you want me to do the talking I can but I wish you would tell me lol

[@angiem577]

What happened to the thumb? (Sry, didn't see it in data saver mode.) Lol - very Highlander conclusion there, Frank. Am actually curious what interacting with an INFJ in the real world would be like; the last known type I interacted with was an INTJ, and we ended up giggling like loons.

[@josiahtaylor7967]

I'm an INFJ- most people I interact with irl think I'm boring because I barely have anything to say. Almost my entire self is stored within this abstract realm inside my head that it's almost impossible to communicate my thoughts and ideas with the outside world, thus, I mostly only participate in small-talk, and I'm not very good at even that.

[@fl3640]

@@josiahtaylor7967 until the right person that we deem as capable of understanding at least some parts of the contents of our brain appears. Believe me they are out there. It happened to me a couple of days ago and it was amazing (having someone actually listening to my thoughts and theories and even asking questions. He was an ENFJ). Plus no we're not boring at all once we let someone in and trust them to the extent of showing ourselves. But yeah if i don't trust a person i'd simply act like a wall.

[@angiem577]

Hm - am inclined to think that the key to an ideal - or at least tolerable lol - real-life interaction would be if both parties could find either one thing to laugh about or one thing to enthuse over. Otherwise, in my case I wouldn't want to impose myself where unwanted, so I'd withdraw into myself.

[@MyWits_End]

Love your work, as always, FJ. Hope you're not working *too* hard and that you're giving *yourself* enough recharge time between smashing yourself to put a smile on all of *our* faces. x

[@SarahJacksonLV]

8:39 lovin the whole "cloud" metaphors here, lol. Your descriptions of all the types seem more down-to-earth and more approachable for a novice...thank you for that. Maybe the way you are visualizing what you are presenting verbally has...slightly..shifted..? You are communicating with more of a ..relaxed curiosity than usual:)...maybe that's why...whatever the reasons... I find it much easier to understand you in this video...so-thanks:) post script: when I choose to "float off my cloud" to join the party...I become a full-on ENFP.. at my (socially) happiest...the energy I pick up in positively-energized areas...like the gym or the Vegas strip at night...it's intense and carefree ...yet it drains more than it gives, given time...and I must go back to my "cloud" before the stroke of midnight lol

[@mr.popoballballl745]

I'm an INTJ, my GF is an INFJ. Sometimes it happens just like Frank says, sometimes MAGIC happens. :D

[@amysmith257]

Whoopwoop! You're hilarious & I love your skits. We could just make up a couple skits & then try to find our way out. 🤣 I'm an ENFP

[@kylesavage4525]

I don't discriminate against any mbti types. I would hate being stuck in a room with ANYONE willing to strike a conversation with me.

[@Jenny-vm3yu]

ENFJ with and ESFJ best friend. The conversation literally never ends. Incredibly accurate! 😂 It is also really easy to bond with ISFP and INFP because once you get past the introversion, an EXFJ can get so much out of them. Seeing as we are focused on others and what they value and how they feel. So, I would rather be locked in a room with them, as with another EXFJ, we would always be trying to get stuff out of each other with no break.

[@cipherresonance1747]

the ad i got for the vid was your ad!!