FTM Detransition: I've put in my 2 week notice. I'm quitting the LGBTQIA+ Community

[@dragonslayer125]

What a powerful post. My orientation doesnt matter, i am sorry for your pain that has never lessened, and now to only be inflicted with more abuse. You have had an amazing journey - not many would travel down that road. You have my vote - and if i could stand next to you and just holld your hand i would - but the best i can do from Sunny South Africa is to offer you the best in your journey, you are going to become what you want to be, and stronger cause you took the dirt road and noy the highway. My best wishes and greatest respect for the decision you have made.big hug !!!!!!!

[@detransjoy]

Hello my South African friend ❤️. What a wonderful message to receive from you. Please keep speaking out. The world needs to hear your voice. Also, I may I ask you to please view today's video and share this message.❤️ Its very very important. kzbin.info/www/bejne/oZyvdqxmfNmKY7c

[@jamisonfawkes8537]

i’m bi and also a detrans woman. testosterone for 5.5 years and a double mastectomy. i regret my medical transition immensely. i was young and mentally ill, but got sucked into the ideology and thought transitioning would solve everything. there are no safeguards nowadays and i was given the green light with no therapy required. don’t get me wrong, i do support actual transsexuals and their right to medically transition, but what’s happening now is not that. what was once a community had become a cult. doctors have become mad scientists. i’m not surprised in the least that acceptance for LGBT has gone down with all of these so-called activists running the show.

[@detransjoy]

Hello my friend ❤️. I'm so sorry for all you have gone through. You are not alone. That's why I'm speaking up. Too much regret going on. Thank you for speaking out. Your voice matters to me! I find the Reddit support group. for /detrans very helpful. Lots of wisdom and support there. Hope to see you there. Sending 🤗

[@lindamayer4697]

Best to you in the future. No one should have gone through that.

[@azsunburns]

I'm curious as to why anyone has a right to "transition" when transitioning doesn't even truly exist nor is the medical world affordable, ethical or healthy.

[@laurafratoni7931]

Shape Shifter also a great voice of reason.

[@azsunburns]

@@laurafratoni7931 does he? He's still greatly feeding into sugar daddy disease laden casual sex culture as a realistic option for life

[@CathrynMcCoy]

You can love women without being a man. Just be yourself and don't put a label on it. You don't need to change your body, just love your body as beautiful as it is.

[@detransjoy]

❤️

[@aalliaandreadis5109]

The trans movement is deeply homophobic and it's about time we say it out loud. ​@@detransjoy

[@frankpeter6851]

Why not put a label on it? Why not articulate It. It is lesbianism.

[@gailrivas762]

Beautifully said. Both answers.

[@dukecity7688]

We are giving the message that it's wrong to identify as a Lesbian or Gay. It is sickening and sinister to tell Lesbians they are "phobic".

[@Busyhriehfjeje]

I left because I have been screamed at both online and in person by members of this community for asking questions, and not agreeing with everything being said. I hate it here. I have been so disgusted with the way lesbians and tomboys have been treated. And I’ve been even more disgusted with how detrans people have been treated as well. This isn’t right. I’m so sorry this happened and I’m proud of you for living your best life. My heart breaks for those who are also hurting.

[@detransjoy]

❤

[@Catherine.Dorian.]

The fact is, the trans community (as it is today) and the LG can’t coexist because you’re not a lesbian, you’re just a man instead. The two aren’t compatible, I don’t get why they’re linked

[@benfisher1376]

You're right. But, you know what I've discovered? A life not lived on social media is a healthier, happier life x

[@lindamayer4697]

That sucks. Sounds like there's no space for disagreement or dissension.

[@sylvianblue]

It sounds toxic

[@msandrie]

Im a proud lesbian. It took me many years of shame to realize i am not a "man trapped in a womans body" but rather, a normal lesbian/tomboy. This gender ideology is so dangerous for youths and even some older folks. You do not need to change and hide, your body and your attraction is natural, there is no shame in being homosexual or "cisgender" as they call it. I do not claim the TQIA+ whatever the hell else there is. I am here to support normal gay, lesbian and bisexual people, and all the allies that keep us safe along the way. Thank you for this video, and i wish you the best of luck in your life! ♡

[@detransjoy]

Hello my friend ❤. I’m so glad to hear you say that. And keep speaking up. The world needs to hear your voice!

[@carlapierle8623]

I'm a straight female Conservative and am so grateful for your braveness in speaking out about this. MOST Conservatives aren't homophobic or transphobic. We just don't support this trans ideology that is destroying females in general and indoctrinating children more specifically. Thank for your boldness and courage in speaking out!!!

[@detransjoy]

Hello my friend ❤. I'm hear to tell you the only groups of people that are sounding the alarm about the Transgenders "Rights" to have their gender affirming doctors perform experimental sex change operations on innocent children is the Christians and the Conservatives. Meanwhile, we have the left fighting them tooth and nail for these "Transgender Rights". I am doing my best to bring some awareness to these heinous practice being performed by gender affirming doctors in the United States. I'll leave the link below. And keep speaking up. The world needs to hear your voice. kzbin.info/www/bejne/eGTEn6CBqKyIedE

[@carlapierle8623]

@@detransjoy ❤ Thank you for the link! It's abhorrent what these "doctors" are doing to the children and I will continue speaking up about it. I had to make it clear to my brother, who came out over 40 years ago, where I stood on this. Fortunately, as an old school gay, he feels similarly. I can only imagine the pressure you have been under. The Left is relentless. Thank you again!

[@Lisa-li1jd]

Thank you for telling your story. Hugs for all the emotional pain you have been thru. Your future can be bright. ❤️

[@mdyercheck]

completely agree

[@steellio5526]

​@@detransjoy Just where are all these doctors performing experimental sex changes on innocent children? If you know where this is happening, you should have contacted the police by now and reported your concerns.

[@donnah.3779]

Thank you for sharing your story. As a nurse, I’ve been so afraid to see how many people are going to experience irreparable medical damage in the future. Transitioning medically will never change the fact that every cell in that persons body will always be a blueprint for their birth sex. Where is the science? Where is the support for the transition damage the medical field is causing…and where is the mental healthcare that people need?

[@detransjoy]

Hello my friend ❤️. I’m glad we have crossed paths. And I could not agree with you more. Keep speaking up. The world needs to hear your voice. Also regarding the science, you may find this video very interesting. kzbin.info/www/bejne/a2PGe5eql5t2opI

[@princessfunkytown6459]

Same, as an RN, it’s horrifying to me how medical “professionals” will completely go against their oath to “first do no harm.” We know they know this is harmful to children.

[@detransjoy]

@@princessfunkytown6459 Yes, they do either not read history or they don't care. There is no other possibility.

[@ME24689]

​@@detransjoyMoney 💷 talks..

[@HerMajesty1]

I have dozens of after photos of bottom surgeries both male and female. What these "doctors" are doing to people are things nightmares are made of. Dr. Mengela did this during WW2.

[@AFKBard]

I transitioned for 6 years ftm and stopped for the same reasons. I hate so many trans friends pushing me and my other trans friends to keep going when I had my doubts. They told me I could get "needle fatigue" since I always have to take shots and I could ask for help but it's more than just getting "tired" of injections for life but it was mentally exhausting. I realized I wasn't happy and I stopped cold turkey. I am so much happier now that I've accepted myself and stopped manipulating my body. Bless you

[@detransjoy]

Hello my friend ❤️ . My heart is with you. Thank you for speaking out. Your voice matters to me ❤️

[@Mike80528]

Mental health should be the FIRST effort. The Left and medicine have gone off the ledge due to an ideology. Going straight to drugs and surgery is direct violation of the Hippocratic oath of do no harm. Regardless, I do honestly wish yo the best in your *personal* journey of healing wherever it takes you.

[@dominicmedeiros4511]

If u regret it it’s because u are not trans

[@MissPrudence100]

Welcome back sister ❤ - you’re safe with us lesbians , you’re home ❤

[@detransjoy]

@@MissPrudence100 Thank you my sweet lesbian friend ❤. Aren't we the best? Keep speaking up. The world needs to hear your voice.

[@haileerose123]

We need to bring back our old system of requiring people to go through years of therapy before granting them affirmative care. I support the right to transition but we need to bring back the therapy requirements to limit the amount of detransitioners. I've been seeing dozens of detransitioners on my recommended page lately.

[@detransjoy]

❤

[@teeprince279]

exactly this

[@SBVixen]

100% this, it's crazy that the medical professionals endorsed healthy people fücking with their endocrine system, as if it were inconsequential, and arguably worse the sentiment that any part of it is "totally reversible". Absolute clown world. Meanwhile, actual women still have to have their husbands sign consent for tubal ligations, in parts of America. Make it make sense.

[@lindamayer4697]

💯

[@normanicole4714]

No we dont. Adults can choose their own medicine. This is not a choice im a vacume. Waiting causes harm and suffering and the vast majoriety of people who transition are happy with the choice. We dont require years of therapy for breast implants and they have a higher regret rate. The solution to make sure care does not go to the wrong people is better education for everyone involved. I did informed consent. You have no right to make people like me do years of thearapy. Your not my mother or my doctor or my God so dont act like it.

[@serendipity1237]

I’m seeing more and more people speaking out on the devastating effects wrought by how freely “gender-affirming healthcare” is being granted…and how much it’s being PUSHED on very young people. Thank you for speaking out, and I wish you the best in finding the self-identification that helps you feel confident and happy in your own skin.

[@detransjoy]

❤️

[@ME24689]

#GenderAffirmingHarm 😮

[@chinesekungfu2031]

It's cleverly crafted Marxism.

[@bobbymurphy4384]

I'm in the UK. I was horrified to find out just how easy it was for young women in the U.S. to have hormones and 'top surgery' at the get go. My heart breaks for these young women. I just think of all the women who have had cancer and mastectomies when it wasn't their choice. It's horrifying that women are mutilating their bodies because they feel there's something wrong. I'm so happy you didn't mutilate your body and that you have found some peace ❤

[@detransjoy]

Hello my friend ❤. Thank you for taking the time to listen to a bit of my story. We need support from people like you more than ever. You are right I don't think people are really aware of the permanency of medical transition. It is way to easy to get it. Many peoples bodies, hearts and minds are being ruined. We must all help them. Please consider sharing this channel and story to anyone you think might be interested. And keep speaking up. The world needs to hear your voice.

[@steellio5526]

It's as difficult in the US as it is in the UK to have hormones and "top surgery." God isn't as frequently involved in UK experiences, but I suggest you check out other available info to get a clearer picture.

[@rayray-xs6xu]

@@steellio5526 God is a myth! And all those crappy things are easily available in the US, and Canada.

[@lmjenn]

The first step to being comfortable in your own skin is becoming comfortable with WHO you are, not WHAT you are. Accepting yourself as you are inside is far more health affirming than butchering yourself on the outside. Take care, stay strong, and God bless you. ❤(sips tea)

[@c.2660]

I was a Trans kid who is a happy trans Adult who works as a church. How was my medica transitioning a butchery?

[@starrystaiirs]

I’m so sorry for everything you were put through. It takes a lot of courage to speak out. You made a lot of poignant points, my favorite being that you realized you would become trapped in the wrong body if you continued down the path of transitioning. I hadn’t heard that before. Thanks for sharing your story

[@detransjoy]

❤

[@erinbremer5490]

I’m not trans, nor a lesbian. But from what I’ve been noticing is that identifying as trans is like the newest fad. I’ve worked with a few younger girls who were in their early 20’s (I’m 56) and they did not seem trans at all. They were actually more like bi-sexual. I noticed on their social media pages they would get short haircuts and tell you what their pronouns were and there would be a slew of pics. But then, I started noticing their hair growing out and wearing makeup and no more mention of being trans. Now I see them dressing as women with boyfriends. These girls did have some mental health issues such as anxiety and such. But now no mention of being trans. It’s like they go through what’s fashionable at the time and then it starts to bore them and they forget about it. I’m thinking they may have been doing it also for attention and to have a purpose or to be a part of something bigger than themselves.

[@detransjoy]

Hello my friend ❤️. I'm glad we found each other. I agree, more and more young females are using testosterone as a "fashion accesory". What they don't realize likely is that this is "makeup" you can never ever take off again. Experimenting with one's looks using cross sex hormones is not ever a good idea. And keep speaking up. The world needs to hear your voice.

[@sparagmos4748]

I know a teen girl who knows SO MANY so called non binary girls at her school - it is clearly a fashion , but unfortunately if they go to any medicalisation there may be long term effects that they're just not thinking about when they're 18yo🫤

[@dominicmedeiros4511]

U can’t be serious? This is not a trend. Lol. Wow the ignorance. Why don’t u do some research on biology. Yes some lesbians and some gays get confused. But there are real trans people who are really trans. They get killed and mocked. U think they choose this? Wow.

[@markrussell3428]

@erinbremer5490 Come on Erin join the fight but please don't diminish this by calling it a fad is way, way too generous. Eating disorder is something young girl encounter - the reason these are not a huge problem is because socially we know "affirming" an eating disorder is wrong. The youth transgender movement is a devastating ideology and the indoctrination starts early and it has taken over institutions, education in particular. After being celebrated by a teacher, children come home with new names, pronouns and an eventual desire to pause puberty so they are not forced to go through the wrong one. What would happen if this was an eating disorder? A fad is a haircut - putting children on to a path to a sex change is life altering, far to often this is life ending. When you begin by telling small children that boys and girls are not really "a thing" and you "can be whatever you want to be" we have shifted well beyond being fashionable. When a child is celebrated for simply adopting a new name and pronoun the affirming effects of a teacher making them feel special - they are a chosen one. I dont think you appreciate what that type of affirmation does. How many names would you like of young adolescents that have realised the error of having their breast harvested or sadly have gone further as they grow older and realise how the desire to change has impacted their sexuality, sexual function and fertility. This is what happens as children grow older and learn what being an adult means. Look up Kayleigh Scott with United Airlines. This is a person that was celebrated by United - a social justice warrior as a youth fighting for trans-rights all through school. This fight came to an end at 23, permanently.

[@vidikat]

Powerful. Thank your for your candidness. 🙏 Don’t ever believe that you are not seen and heard. We’re with you.

[@gracestardancer8519]

And imagine it all started with we just want the right to marry.

[@detransjoy]

Thank you for taking the time to listen to a bit of my story. Also, thank you for speaking out. Your voice matters to me ❤️

[@JDHorn]

You might be interested in the LGB Alliance. They are based in the UK, but have begun an arm in the US. Many blessings to you.

[@Catherine.Dorian.]

That exists? That’s wonderful! I’ve been saying for a few years now that the LGB need to divorce from the rest, especially from the parts pushing this onto kids. Eventually there’s going to be a huge backlash and it’s better if the LGB aren’t standing with the insanity

[@amandachrome9310]

She doesn't need any of that, let her live her life as she is doing, no need to be in an organization for definition

[@JDHorn]

@@amandachrome9310 there’s a difference between definition and support

[@markrussell3428]

@@amandachrome9310 Organization brings strength and a voice - I really question your motives when you suggest different. A voice in the US is what is missing. In the UK "Sex Matters" and LGB Alliance are extinguishing the sick ideology focused on indoctrinating children. There are individuals (i.e., JK Rowling") but they comes with a platform. Are you really concerned with the "transification of children"?

[@teeprince279]

Im off of T for about a month and been lowering my dosis gradually before. Ive been living as male legally and socially for 4 years and been on hormones for 3 years. Ive recently finally learned and accepted, that its been caused by trauma. I will never regret my transition, as it did literally safe my life in a time where no therapy was available for me. It also for the first time in my life made me feel like i had a voice, I was seen and heart and not the invisible, scared, selective mute girl I once was. Im now slowly coming to turn with my past and why I transitioned. Idk how far ill be able to detransition but I dont want to run away anymore. I want to have a voice as a woman. Accept myself as a woman for the first time in my life. Im in no means against transitioning! But I have to strongly agree with said youtubers: Its a frightening trend, girls get influenced and talked into it, teenagers confuse normal puberty struggles with genderdisphoria or make it their personality trait. Its scary to see that it gets easier and easier to get hrt. I hope for the health of all the people out there, that hrt gets harder to get again. That u need therapy and so on again and be an adult who can carry this life changing decision. Too many transition because of the weong reasons - like i did. Best greetings and thank u for talking about this important topic and sharing your story!

[@detransjoy]

Thank you for taking the time to listen to a bit of my story. And thank you for speaking up! Your voice matters ❤️ . I do agree with you there is a social contagion going on with girls and women. I've seen it get progressively worse since the early 90's. That's when I first started seeing butch lesbians transition. It's only gotten worse. Now, increasingly rare are finding any young people that identify as lesbians. Instead, they think they are all under this umbrella trans identity. The problem is that they are easily obtaining cross sex hormones and surgeries. The outcome is a lot of regret. Lives are being ruined. Some detransitioners describe their existence as a prison sentence because they have to live in bodies that are not their own. Keep speaking up!

[@MultiParallelGirl]

I’m off T for 3 years and I relate so much. Wishing you all the best in your journey to accepting yourself 🙏

[@RainRin.]

How did you come to the conclusion that transitioning was not the right path for you?

[@ALT-vz3jn]

I completely agree with everything you said. I’m an older woman who left the lgbt community after the TRA’s took control of it. They are harmful to biological women for a slew of reasons. Women need protection and a space of their own to blossom. 🌸

[@detransjoy]

@ALT-vz3jn Hi friend ❤️. Thanks for stopping by. And thanks for speaking up. I think the world needs to hear more from you.

[@NaomiDollxoxo]

I was diagnosed with gender dysphoria in the 90s. I went through stabilization therapy (just keeping you mentally ok without social or chemical transition)and like they thought I grew out of it. It is terrifying to me seeing how fast people get the gender affirming care and had it been nowadays I would have chosen to transition. I fear that I would not be ok now if I had and I am so grateful that wasn’t really an option then. I hope you the very best and I grateful for you to have stopped it when you did. I hope you the very best. I do. I am a woman and grateful to be ❤

[@detransjoy]

Hello my friend ❤️. I'm glad our paths have crossed. And speaking out. The world needs to hear your voice.

[@markrussell3428]

Thanks for that - you need to speak out and share you personal story. What you are describing is the proper clinical practice.. The medical and surgical industry see $$ and flipped the script. Lets get the kid into to surgery as soon as possible, Even the Biden White House lobbied (and got) a change to the "Standards of Care" removing age restrictions.

[@ankavoskuilen1725]

Thank you for this post. I wish more people, in particular young women, could see this.

[@detransjoy]

Thank you for taking the time to listen to my story and speaking out. Your voice matters. to me ❤️ . I would encourage you to share these videos with young people considering this lifestyle.

[@katespellxx9529]

Thank you for sharing. I'm not allowed into my local lgbtqia+ 'community' in Ballarat, Australia. The gate keepers ensure that women like me are excluded on account of our belief in the material reality of biological sex and same sex attraction. I'm in my 50s and have like minded friends, for which I am so thankful. I worry about the young women getting caught up in trans ideology who miss out on hearing alternative views about what it is to be same sex attracted and see so few lesbian role models. Voices like yours are so important. Thanks again.

[@detransjoy]

Hello my friend from Australia. ❤️. We are the KZbin channel of reality that speaks up for women and children. Welcome aboard. And keep speaking up. The world needs to hear your voice.

[@streamscounselling9501]

Thank you for your bold stance. I am so sorry for the atrocity that you have endured and the lack of support from the community that should have protected you all along. I pray for your healing journey. I will continue to speak out. Much love to you xoxo

[@detransjoy]

@@streamscounselling9501 Hello my friend ❤️. I’m so glad our paths have crossed and what a nice thing for you to say. I’m glad you are speaking out. I’m positive the world needs to hear from you. Xo @detransjoy

[@yesterdayitrained]

This appeared in my feed today- this is a very important video- and a very important message. You composed your thoughts so well, were very clear, and addressed each issue with respect and empathy. I am so sorry the kindness you gave to so many people was not extended to you. I thank you and wish you well.

[@detransjoy]

@yesterdayitrained Hello friend ❤️. Thanks for stopping by and I'm glad you got a chance to see this video. I'll drop a link to one that I think is probably the next most important I have created. I'll leave a link below. And keep speaking up. The world needs to hear your voice. kzbin.info/www/bejne/i5ebfKKagMqMiaM

[@missdavid8976]

Very happy, and proud of you, and your words. Thank you for speaking out. The social contagion is real, and youth/people are being dramatically hurt.

[@detransjoy]

@missdavid8976 Hi friend ❤️. I think you are right. This has now become everybody's problem because the kids are getting indoctrinated in the schools and on social media. Also, I think the current influencers are "training" the next group. So, we must all work to protect our precious daughters and niece's so that they do not get caught up in this dangerous path of medical transition with its lifelong severe consequences that we, as detransitioners, must face for the rest of our lives. We all need to work together on this problem. Keep speaking out. The world needs to hear your voice.

[@missdavid8976]

@detransjoy Wise words. We all are together in addressing this issue. This becomes so concerning because the medical system/goverment has jumped on board with gender affirmation. Honestly, there are few people in my life that will listen. Self censorship is real. Thank you for the encouragement to do the right thing. I will keep holding the truth. Much love, and respect to you ❤️

[@christinesimmons8904]

Thank you. I appreciate you so much. Please keep speaking.❤

[@detransjoy]

Thank you for taking the time to listen to a bit of my story. Also thank you for speaking out. Your voice matters to me ❤️

[@jmpomerleau]

It certainly isn’t the same community. Not at all. 😢

[@detransjoy]

😢

[@vonnie0_0]

I was very tomboyish as a young girl, I collected bugs, worms, played sports, and played in the dirt with the other boys, my very best friend was a boy. I liked what boys did, and I loved pretty girls. When I hit puberty, I became uncomfortable in my own body, I started to think it would’ve been so much easier to be a boy, I told my mom what I felt, that I wanted to be a boy, and she laughed it off, she told me that I perfect the way I was. The confusion was still there, but then I learned what being gay was, I could like girls while being a girl, and that significantly helped me understand who and what I was. I learned to love my body and became comfortable in my skin. If my mom were more progressive, I’m afraid what would’ve happened, if she had instead took me to a gender affirming clinic, I probably wouldn’t be here now.

[@detransjoy]

@vonnie0_0 Hello my friend ❤. I think I can relate to how you feel. Our sweet little lesbians and young women are being "transed" by the transgenders. The lesbian population has been steadily declining with the rise in transgenderism. Please use your voice to let others know how you feel. The world needs to hear your voice

[@SSGLGamesVlogs]

Helped understand who and what you where/are? I never went thru that. Instead, I lived in a world where figuring things out while growing up, pertained to profession and how to serve my country. I was trying to figure out if I wanted to become a Astronaut, Video Game developer or Actor. But when I went to the military, I became a Vehicle Operator, and transitioned to a Truck Driver when I entered Civilian life. So, if there's something akin to learning to love my body and becoming comfortable in my own skin here, it came from the realization of being a good role model by becoming a productive member of society.

[@BadMonkey2x]

I’m so sorry-but you are brave as hell! You’ve come this far, and I know that you’re going to make it.

[@detransjoy]

Thank you my friend ! And thank you for listening and speaking out. Your voice matters to me❤️

[@vlw4165]

I think it's monstrous what we are doing to vulnerable young people in this society, railroading them into irreversible physical alteration before they're fully able to weigh the ramifications. Who is this really serving? Follow the money, and follow the clout.

[@detransjoy]

@vlw4165 Hi friend ❤ Exactly! People cannot appreciate the permanence of medical transition. You can never ever go back. Trust me, its a very horrible horrible lesson for anyway. And our precious girls, tomboys and young women are getting sucked into the transgender community which has normalized the use of very powerful cross sex hormones and surgeries. And it seem like the doctors cannot give them out fast enough. And people are getting hurt and they have been over the last 10 years at least. That's when I detransitioned. Anyway, I'd love to chat with you if like at [e-mail]

[@vlw4165]

@@detransjoy I've said this on other channels and I'll say it here, too. This "affirming" mutilation will go down in history in the same way the medical atrocity of the frontal lobotomy of the 1930s-.1950s has done.

[@detransjoy]

@@vlw4165 Hi friend ❤. Yes, to everything you are saying. And keep speaking up. The world needs to hear your voice

[@xronann]

thank you for being real. i am desisted, and came to the same conclusion, i needed to heal to see what the hell was actually going on in my brain and once i did, the need or urge to transition and the dysphoria went away. have you listened to Sam and his journey? really healing.

[@detransjoy]

Hello my friend ❤️. I am glad you were able to work it out. I think long therapy better than medical transition honestly. Keep speaking up! The world needs to hear your voice.

[@ExposedByJools]

So well said and I pray more young people listen to you and truly think before they jump into the surgeries etc :0) xxx

[@detransjoy]

Hi friend ❤️. Thanks for stopping by. And keep speaking up. The world needs to hear your voice

[@steellio5526]

No one "jumps into the surgeries." It's not as easy as changing your shoes. It is a lengthy process both physically and mentally which is tailored made to the individual. There are systems in place so that the individual is the one making decisions. No one is forced into transitioning against their will and no one is experimented on.

[@ExposedByJools]

@@steellio5526 I never said anyone was being experimented on

[@steellio5526]

@ExposedByJools That was in reply to @detransjoy, who did make the outlandish claim that innocent children are being experimented on by surgeons. Apologies for the crossed wires.

[@ExposedByJools]

@@steellio5526 no worries 😉

[@freedomspromise8519]

My heart breaks for every person in this position. I cannot even imagine the mental torture. Bless your hearts.

[@detransjoy]

Hi my friend ❤. Thank you for your compassion. It truly is horrible and remember this, gender affirming doctors did this to us. And please keep speaking up. The world needs to hear your voice.

[@ruthhorowitz7625]

I hope you find inner peace. I accept you for who you are ❤.

[@detransjoy]

❤❤❤

[@WoodlandT]

I basically checked out a few years ago after a trans woman on facebook sent her flying monkeys after me because I had the audacity to state that I felt that as a gay, white, straight passing man it was my responsibility to speak up in spaces I have access to that others may not. I made this statement on my own Facebook page and I still don’t understand why it triggered this person. But she went off on me and sent hundreds of her minions to attack me. I had already been feeling really uncomfortable with the direction the community was heading. It isn’t the unified community I remember back when we were fighting for marriage equality decades before it would come to be. It’s all about the most extreme version of trans rights now. Permanently altering the bodies of young people, allowing people who went through male puberty to compete against AFAB athletes and allowing any person who announces they are now female to utilize women’s bathrooms are not the “values” I signed up to fight for

[@detransjoy]

@WoodlandT Hello my friend ❤️. I too marched for marriage equality. We hear all this noise about transgender "rights" but when you really look at what is being requested, you will see something strange is going on. I'll leave a link to my thoughts on that. Keep speaking up. The world needs to hear your voice. kzbin.info/www/bejne/oZyvdqxmfNmKY7c

[@intellectualiconoclasm3264]

As a GenX queer, I'm appalled by what our community has become. This IS NOT the equal integration we fought for, now it's a tool too shield oneself in virtue while committing abuses. Huge hug, my friend.

[@detransjoy]

@intellectualiconoclasm3264 Hello my friend ❤️ I couldn't agree with you more. And thank your for speaking out. Keep it up. The world needs to hear your voice

[@intellectualiconoclasm3264]

@@detransjoy Thank you kindly. Huge respect for the courage it takes. In my eyes, speaking out today by and for detrans folks is being met with the same vitriol we were met with when advocating for trans people 20 years ago. And it rings of hyper-religiousity and defense of one's faith. Look at the arguments used against ExMuslims and their advocates and, Detransitioners and their advocates. To me, it looks JUST like the mindless and dogmatic hatred of Queers and Trans back in the days of DADT. You and I, we didn't risk our safety then to have it threatened again by those we ostensibly worked on behalf of, and not just ourselves. Thank you for your voice in this. Together, we are collectively having an impact in restoring our community to sanity. Or just going our own direction.

[@MatriartNet]

I’m now 60 but suffered dysphoria at 19. You are loved. Every voice is so important right now.

[@detransjoy]

@@MatriartNet ❤️❤️

[@dankelly7712]

Thank you for your statement. I wished you all the best in your new life. Very articulate and obviously genuine message.

[@detransjoy]

❤️

[@Sophiecjp]

I am not gay but always act more male than female. I am lucky I am 61 because back then no one was telling me I maybe a man trapped in a women’s body. I may have bought to that ideology. I am just a masculine female and I have no problem with that. I do not look like a male in any way. I have always had long hair, and wear make up but I will not wear a dress, high heals or jewelry. I am just not comfortable in those things. Most of my friends are male and I camps build a house or work on cars. I do all the “manly” things around the house. None of this makes me less as a woman it is just part of my personality and my natural abilities. Before taking such drastic steps to try to “fit in” maybe just try to be okay with who you are first.

[@detransjoy]

@Sophiecjp Hi friend ❤️. I'm glad our paths have crossed. And I could not agree with you more there is nothing wrong with being a masculine girl or woman. Tomboy does not equal transgender. Keep speaking up. I think the world needs to hear your voice.

[@Aochic]

When I was growing up, they called men that dressed like women "cross dressers"...how did it get so complicated. My professional mentor taught me my favorite quote in life "be yourself"

[@detransjoy]

@Aochic Hello there ❤. I think I do agree with you. It is best to be yourself. And also these very powerful cross sex hormones and surgeries should be reserved for a last resort for people who truly cannot live in their biological body. Unfortunately, for many, we are seeing there are being put on the conveyor belt of medical transition. It seems these gender affirming doctors are operating on folks just as fast as they can. Meanwhile. the victims are piling up. Keep speaking up. The world needs to hear from you.

[@Aochic]

@@detransjoy HI, Joy. Sadly, an agenda is being pushed and if you don't fit the agenda, you are discarded. That is why they are preying on young children that are far too mentally immature to make such an enormous choice. Many detrans are grown adults realizing they were pushed into something they regret. I mean, I have tattoos frommy 20s I regret! LoL. I think alot of good, nonbiased therapy and self introspection should be done first. In my work, i do something called the emotion code. Unrealized Emotions resurface from even being in the womb. We need to address from the inside, not the outer appearance

[@Aochic]

@@detransjoy also, I wish you all the best! Much love, joy, and mostly inner peace! ❤️

[@Kimmaline]

My daughter is a teen, and she identifies as a lesbian. She always has. She has four friends who identify as lesbians (plus others who ID bisexual or pan, etc), one of whom is pretty butch, but her parents won't allow her to wear her brother's clothes to school anymore (so she wears them here). Another one is firmly a 13yo futch, I LOVE her. One of her other closest friends is a trans girl, who has a hormone blocker and has lived as a girl for more than half her life. I cannot fathom this child as anything but a girl, but all these kids know that I am a safe space for them no matter what they are feeling, who they are dating, what pronoun they use, or what their parents feel about queerness. I will not judge or lecture, I am here to make sure everyone has someone who cares and makes certain they aren't being hurt by anyone in their lives. It is really healing for me to be the adult I needed when I was their age, vack when I thought I was a literal freak of nature. I have also sat and absorbed the pain of many people my age who have transitioned as adults and can never "pass" now because of going through puberty as their assigned sex. Friends who married heteronormatively and thus will never be parents. People who have to hide their wedding photos because looking at them is too painful. I don't discount your pain; I hurt for you. But I don't think the answer is that we remove the rights to care that help far, far more people than ever detransition. Your story may stop someone from transitioning who shouldn't, I am not saying you shouldn't tell it. I'm saying that the fight has shifted in the way you point out because at least for the moment we have marriage equality--but we also have states making whole ass laws against singular trans kids to prevent them from playing a sport at the elementary school level. That is a type of scrutiny even you and I didn't have, and I was the first person in my school to take a date of the same gender to a dance. I am writing this while sitting 2mi from where I was bashed by a dozen jocks a few weeks later. I do GET it, but none of what you and I have faced is the fault of trans people or trans activism. My heart genuinely does hurt for you, I'm sorry for all the pain and trauma you're experiencing. The answer is not removing trans rights.

[@detransjoy]

@Kimmaline It is my understanding that transgenders are fighting for their "rights" to allow their gender affirming doctors to perform experimental sex change operations on children. Moreover, it is my understanding that transgenders claim to have "special powers" to determine who these "trans kids" are who will receive these sex change operations. In case you did not know, entire countries are denouncing these human right violations on children. In the United States we have many many people sounding the alarm. Most of these people that are doing the right thing are Christians and Conservatives. They actively denounce these horrific operations being performed on innocent children. Meanwhile, people on the left are fighting tooth and nail for these "transgender rights" which should be more accurately named "transgender human rights violations on children" People who know right from wrong instantly denounce experimental sex change operations on children. These good people would not even perform experimental sex change operations on their family cat or dog let alone an innocent precious child of God. Lady, you are either very uninformed or very sick in the head. No other way to put it. Oh btw, if anyone is reading this, we have a prepared video that explain exactly what the transgenders are fighting for. kzbin.info/www/bejne/oZyvdqxmfNmKY7c

[@Kimmaline]

​@@detransjoy I do not know a single person, trans or otherwise, who believe that children should have gender reassignment surgery. I have never met a child who has had gender reassignment surgery. I know of zero orgs fighting to allow for gender reassignment on children. I will, here and now, ABSOLUTELY denounce what you say the left doesn't denounce. I don't even think routine infant circumcision should be legal--I do not think children can consent to a procedure so big. I mean no disrespect, but quite frankly it appears I am more tied into the trans community, their realities, and the laws around trans medical care than you. How many transfolk have you spoken to so far today without the intention to attack or argue? Because I've talked to multiple, simply because they are friends or collegues. I'm also a public school sex educator, so I have a pretty close view on this, the laws, and the proposed legislation in various states--though full disclosure, I am not actively in high schools right now except for consulting and when kids ask me to advise on projects. One of the trans people I spoke to this morning has a trans child, and is trans himself. He didn't want his kid to go through the same hurt, discrimination and bigotry he has experienced, but from an early age the child was insistent and immovable. So they have done a social transition, and that kid is in middle school now. That trans father is quite literally one of my closest friends in the world, and I know his feelings about surgery on minors. No. No. Simply no. This child has not budged since they were very young, a solid decade now. But there are zero surgeries or other permanent anythings on the horizon. A few years ago that entire family was sitting at dinner, and their oldest announced that they were thinking they were probably trans. Both dads rolled their eyes and said, "Oh, good grief, stop. You aren't trans..." and continued dinner. They knew their kid, knew she was at that 14yo, drama-attention-seeking phase, and didn't entertain it. I guess that is "magically knowing"? Frankly, that is how I would expect all of my friends who are parents to react--trans or not. I've never seen ANYONE suggest to their kid that they should be another gender or maybe their problem in life is actually that they're trans. I mean, ESPECIALLY queer parents know that this is awful to live with in our world as it is. The trans kid I spoke of above has been ruthlessly bullied--and last year sustained a brain injury from an attack at school in one of the most progressive and queer-friendly cities in the nation. The school suspended the attackers for a day and made them write an apology note, even though this was easily the 6th or 7th incident which got physical. Nothing more, since they didn't MEAN to hurt the kid. (Exact same thing my school said about the guys who bashed me.) As far as adults deciding that they have "magical powers" to decide if a child is trans--that kinda confused me? I mean, no one has that about anything in life ever, but we do try to prevent children from making permanent decisions while they are minors, especially without due diligence and careful consideration and thought. This is why we generally don't even let k8ds get hormones until 16, after showing years of rigorous social transition. Plus, I don't know who these parents pressuring their kids to be trans are, but damn I want their kids. Mine seem to go the opposite way from just about everything I want them to do. I can barely push them into a shower and clean clothes some days, let alone an entire gender? Multiple studies have proven that the "social contagion" theory of transness is without foundation--when you see a bunch of queer kids in one friendgroup....mayhaps it is because they understand one another? However, it just so happens that another close friend of mine is a therapist and professor, and three afternoons/evenings a week she works with queer youth. A very large part of what she does is talk to trans kids about *why* they want hormones, *why* social transition isn't enough for them, *how* are they so certain this is right? She has spent literally tens of thousands of hours talking to these kids. She is the one who writes the report validating them for hormones at 16, or not. She does not pass every kid. Oh, and her wife is a badass butch. Both of them consider themselves huge trans allies now (lesbians are thr most likely demographic group to be trans allies). Her wife is extremely comfortable as a butch, even if all this bathroom B.S. hasn't made her life even more of a living hell than it was. For as long as I've known them she has always taken their daughter to the bathroom with her in public because apparently a child verifying her gender adds authority. This is the problem with policing gender....we are actually policing feminine presentation or how perfectly straight of an esthetic we have. I'm hella high femme (I'd die in a world with no lesbians more butch than me! 😿) so I'm not a fan of everyone looking like it's Utah. Anything can be evil if you claim things which are patently untrue, and literally your entire response is on a foundation of bubblegum. If you have legitimate proof I'd love to see it, because no one has ever been able to actually show me evidence of kids having surgery in the U.S. (well, trans kids. Cis kids get surgery all the time. I grew up in Marin County...do you know how many of my classmates had cosmetic surgery before graduation? What can I say but yikes). We now have whole hospitals getting bomb threats--something which very much has a negative effect on cisgender patients--because of a RUMOR that they performed gender reassignment surgery which has never happened. Frankly it doesn't even make sense, because to perform gender reassignment surgery on an immature body....as a former med student and current sex educator, I think it would simply not work, and I have to believe that the surgery would end up needing to be re-done later on. That is true for many surgeries on children, including my daughter's heart. So the idea that people are operating on kids, or even want to, is just weird and wrong. Especially because we aren't essentialized to what our genitals are. How do you not see that this is EXACTLY how they used to talk about us? "The gays are everywhere--they're taking over--they want all the attention and power and the doctors who say they aren't demented are lying or on the take--it's entirely unnatural--the science and archaeology lies--the queers are indoctrinating the kids--yes, they are coming for your children----those queers are so sex obsessed that they are just waiting for any hookup they can get; even with kids--they're in alleys and even the locker room at the YMCA (okay, that last one is maybe a bad example to use. 😉). I had family members block me from seeing a niece and a cousin when I came out because they didn't want me alone with the baby or changing her diapers, and they were concerned about me "influencing" my cousin. It's a song as old as time, still playing on repeat. (Both of them ended up lesbians anyway, lol.) Those people were every BIT as convinced as you are...and sadly just as wrong. I know you're still going to hate me. I know you're still going to say nasty stuff. But I had to at least set the record straight. I'm about as tied into this as a non-trans can be, and surgeries are just not happening on kids. Hormones aren't happening on kids. This process is a lot harder than you make it sound. If the trans activists are doing such evils, why do you have to be dishonest?

[@Kimmaline]

@@detransjoy deleting my response? Okay. So you are just lying. Awesome.

[@Momattorney113]

I’m a fan of several of the individuals you mentioned by name. Thank you for speaking about your experience. The world needs more people brave enough to talk about the negative consequences of transitioning. Young people who are barely legal adults are making decisions where there is no turning back. I acknowledge the process of detransitioning. Still, it hasgot to be an incredibly difficult process too. How many parents would absolutely freak out if there 18 yo wanted to get married without A TON of counsel??? Even with counsel, never mind changing a perfectly healthy and strong body😢

[@detransjoy]

@Momattorney113 Hi my friend ❤️. I have to say I completely agree with you. These young people who are getting sucked into this transgender lifestyle are saying to us when they arrive as detransitioners, they got absolutely no push back from these very immoral Gender Affirming Doctors and Therapists. Also, it is the case that we never ever hear about someone who had so much counseling before transitioning and this really was a last resort. Keep speaking up. The world needs to hear your voice.

[@nancycole-auguste6614]

Very beautiful spearhead of helping people to just be themselves instead of forced to act like others or locked into a splinter group of labels and division

[@detransjoy]

@nancycole-auguste6614 Hello my friend ❤️. I'm glad our paths have crossed. And keep speaking out. The world needs to hear your voice.

[@dellminus6974]

As a trans man, i will say if theres not a specific sign that what youre struggling with is your gender, don't transition. I had the opposite problem where i tried so hard to be a girl, to be a woman, to love myself as a woman and love being a woman, and it just never clicked. There wasnt a day that went by that i wouldnt have rather been born a man. I might still have a whole host of other issues, but I've been able to focus on those because I've been able to resolve my gender dysphoria through HRT, not in spite of it. I wish there was a way to better prepare people for transition, or provide more concrete information about what being trans actually looks like, but unfortunately, theres no way to know what its like living as the opposite sex until you transition and pass.

[@danoyse8233]

May tomboys and lesbians always have a valued place in society. Thank you for your extremely welcomed communicated video. Not an easy think to do. Best wishes for a happy future from Devon UK

[@detransjoy]

Hello my friend from across the water ❤. It is so nice to have crossed path with you. Please keep speaking up. The world needs to hear your voice.

[@junkyard_dog18]

im so proud of you !! i am a trans man, and thankfully it was the right thing for me. i really apprecite voices like yours.

[@TheAvprobeauty]

thank YOU for saying this. there are a lot of women who feel this way. I thought I was nonbinary for awhile (before this craziness) and thought it “made sense” at the time. Then I realized it was a way to hate women, to hate myself. Being a strong independent woman with interests that are “traditionally male” does not make me a man or even non binary. Im not any less of a Woman and I dont love myself any less for being who I am. Thank you so much for sharing. I wish you so much peace and happiness ❤

[@detransjoy]

Hello my friend ❤️. Thanks for stopping by. Keep speaking up. The world needs to hear your voice. Also please share this video with anyone who might need it or would be interested. Thanks 😊

[@philomena3529]

Bravo. Your bravery taking a stand and speaking out will save more young people than you will possibly ever know.

[@detransjoy]

@philomena3529 Hello my friend ❤️. I'm so pleased our paths have crossed. And thank you for the nice complement. Oh and keep speaking up. The world needs to hear. your voice.

[@fweedom34]

How beautiful you are as you were created. Thank you for posting this. I am truly sorry for the pain caused by the transition and detransition. You are now a spokesperson. May Tom Boys and Lesbians always have a valued place in society.

[@detransjoy]

Hello friend ❤I'm so glad we found each other. I appreciate the support. And keep speaking up. The world needs to hear your voice.

[@mobrennanmcconnell7215]

Thanks for speaking out. I wish I could get my daughter to listen to this. She has been on this same path. It breaks my heart to see her turning herself into a lifelong patient. And I'm sure no one dishing out these hormones has fully explained the harmful changes she is making to her body. Of course, she doesn't want to hear it from me. I asked her, why can't you just be a normal lesbian? Honestly, I'm not even convinced she's homosexual - just swept up into the trend of being part of the "trans club."

[@Jayteaseepiirturi]

Good luck with your journey. They're gonna rip you apart if they can. At the very least they will abandon you entirely. Vote of support from Finland!

[@detransjoy]

@Jayteaseepiirturi Hello my friends in Finland ❤. Thank you for your support. And keep speaking up. The world needs to hear your voice.

[@detransjoy]

@Jayteaseepiirturi Hello my friends from Finland ❤️. Thank you for. your support. And keep speaking up. The world needs to hear your voice.

[@samisparkleheart]

Thank you for speaking out! I also left LGBTQIA+ a couple of years ago when the community started to go sideways and adopt some concerning focuses, namely huge emphasis on transitioning and "minor attracted persons." I am a bisexual woman and a mental health therapist here in the US, and agree with other commenters here that our citizens need therapy (ACTUAL therapy, not affirming every damn thing) to get under what is prompting a transition in the first place. This movement is disingenuous and predatory, closing in on neurodivergent and isolated people looking for a sense of community. The way LGBTQIA+ treats detransitioners while weaponinzing trans ideologies is abhorrent. Subscribed and looking forward to more of your posts! 😊👏

[@detransjoy]

@samisparkleheart Hi friend ❤️ . I'm glad our paths have crossed. You know, I find it ironic that this concept called "Gender Affirming Health Care" does not even include therapy as we are hearing from more and more detransitioners. They going to the doctor or therapist self-reporting "gender dysphoria" and they are getting absolutely no push back. This is resulting in many many females and children getting hurt. In a very bad way. You can trust me on that. Keep speaking up. The world needs to hear your voice.

[@samisparkleheart]

@detransjoy Thank you for providing a space to have dialogue like this - it is so important and actually life-saving! I absolutely agree with you. There is largely no push-back whatsoever. What else do we do that with physically or mentally as far as health is concerned? Nothing. As a therapist, I don't just blindly affirm every claim my client comes in with. I am meant to challenge their perception, ask questions, dig, think, and come back to them with more - not be their yes man to get what drugs, interventions, or feedback they always WANT but what I know based on my education, experience, research and study to be what is needed.

[@katie2412]

Thank you for your courage ✨🙏✨

[@detransjoy]

Thank you for listening and speaking out. Your voice matters ❤️

[@deepoole820]

You are spot on and brave for saying what you do. I hope your life moving forward is truly wonderful.

[@detransjoy]

@deepoole820 We do love you here at detransjoy ❤️. And keep speaking up. The world needs to hear your voice.

[@kathe992ilo6]

I’m so sorry for all the pain you went through. I wish you a happier life. God bless you.

[@jayhanson-hs5vg]

its all shaming and when they get these surgeries the self harm rates are the same or worse . crazy

[@detransjoy]

❤️. Keep speaking out. Your voice matters to me

[@barbarella1.301]

Thank you for speaking out. The sooner this madness is over, the better.

[@detransjoy]

@barbarella. I am so glad our paths have crossed ❤. I completely agree with you. Just because the train is heading dangerously down the tracks at 500 mph, does not mean we need to not apply the brakes before it goes over the mountain. Keep speaking up. The world needs to hear your voice.

[@saltlight5689]

Sorry for what you went through and thank you for having the courage to share your story ❤

[@detransjoy]

@saltlight5689 Hello friend ❤ Thanks for stopping by. And keep speaking up. I think the world nears to hear froim you

[@cheryleaston6820]

Thanks you for your honest story. Everyday another story comes out and all the damage, not only mentally but physically, to these people is sad. Now we need laws against the doctors and health professionals that continue to just affirm and not find out the root of just what is happening to each person both mentally and physically.

[@detransjoy]

@cheryleaston6820 We are seeing this more and more. You see, these young females are going to the doctor with some serious mental health concerns and walking out the door with a prescription for a sex change. Keep speaking up. The world needs to hear your voice ❤

[@christinecastro7212]

Thank you for your important message. As a straight woman I support my lesbian sisters. We must protect woman’s rights

[@detransjoy]

@christinecastro7212 Hello my friend ❤️. I couldn't agree with you more. The biggest casualties of this mess are the women and the children. We must stand up for them. I would encourage anyone wanting to get involved with protecting womens rights and sports consider getting involved with Riley Gaines. I'll drop a link about Riley below. kzbin.info/www/bejne/sJucfXiKoLCAkLM

[@lidahall5928]

It's very brave to speak out about this, as I'm sure you are well aware. Thank you for trying to help prevent the unnecessary medicalisation of those in our community. x

[@detransjoy]

@lidahall5928 Hi friend ❤️ . I'm glad our paths have crossed and thanks for watching my video. I'll keep speaking out. I hope you will too.

[@c.2660]

I am a former trans kid who is now a happy and transitioned Adult. Why is the care that made me happier and healthier considered unnecessary?

[@koolkatchick7272]

I feel terrible for what you have gone through. I wish you only the best and lots of happy days ahead of you !

[@detransjoy]

@koolkatchick7272 Hello my friend ❤️. I won't lie to you, I would not wish transition or detransition on my worst enemy. And its heartbreaking to know that this is happening to so many females and children. Please keep them in your heart. They need us now more than ever. And keep speaking up. The world needs to hear your voice.

[@onecompass7290]

Good for you, I am so sick of the same things.

[@detransjoy]

Hello my friend ❤️. Thank you for taking some time to read about my story. And speaking out. Your voice matters to me

[@CherryHotSauce]

I’m sorry you’ve had this experience. I hope you continue to heal. It’s incredibly brave to publicly detransition considering the vitriol that can be present in this community.

[@detransjoy]

@CherryHotSauce Hi friend ❤️. I think these problems have been brewing for quite some time. You know, just because the train is going dangerously down the railway tracks at 500 mph, does not mean that we should not apply the brakes before the train goes over the mountain. This had to be said. Many, many, many people feel similarly to how I am expressing my concerns. I think people's voices have been shut down by the transgenders over time. Anytime they are criticized or asked questions, they get very defensive and then play the victim. Its a classic move. I hope you will feel empowered here at detransjoy to speak your mind. You know why? The world need to hear from you.

[@katlux1]

You seem like a person that I would be honored to know. Thank you for being vulnerable and telling your story. I pray your journey will continue to unfold and to reveal your beautiful soul even more than here on this video.

[@detransjoy]

@katlux1 Hello my friend ❤️ What a nice thing to say and I'm glad we have crossed each others path. Please pray for the victims of Gender Affirming Health Care. We have children and adults who now have broken bodies and insides for rest of their lives. Many of them may not even live. They will take their lives because of the body they now have to live in. They are now literally trapped in the wrong body thanks to Gender Affirming Health Care being prescribed oh so irresponsibly and as fast as these doctors can do it. Its very sad. Please keep speaking up. The world needs to hear your voice.

[@soulsenses369]

❤ You're brave for talking about this. Bless you, you are beautiful!

[@detransjoy]

Hello my friend ❤️. I am so glad we have crossed paths. And keep speaking up. The world needs to hear your voice

[@wandarettinger5674]

I'm so sorry this happened to you. Please be gentle with yourself. Thousands and thousands of girls and boys are falling for the ideology pushed on them. Everyone is beautiful in God's eyes. Try to see the beautiful person you are.

[@detransjoy]

@wandarettinger5674 Hello my friend ❤️. I couldn't agree wit you more.I am certain in God's eyes there are no words for these gender affirming doctors who are performing experimental sex change operations on children. Keep speaking up. The world needs to hear your voice

[@nancismith7705]

I am so sorry you went through all of that! I was lucky that I was a tomboy in the ‘50’s and knew that I was a female who liked doing guy things but didn’t want to be a guy. My parents let me wear jeans except for school and church.

[@detransjoy]

@nancismith7705 ❤️

[@synesthesiagirl]

Thank you. Your message is so important. Please keep talking. More people need to hear what you have to say.❤

[@detransjoy]

Hello my friend ❤️. Thank you for taking the time to listen to a bit of my story. Please share this channel and message to anyone you think might need or want to hear it. Also keep speaking up. The world needs to hear your voice.

[@reneegosda6851]

Thank you for being so open and honest. I was quite the tomboy myself growing up. I am not homosexual in any way, though there were those times as a young teenager I wondered why I was born a girl since I enjoyed doing boy things. I was a Daddy's girl, following his foot steps doing what ever task he need to do (my father's son I often joked). By 26, I was a beautiful young lady married to a wonderful man until his death, that adored me just the way I was. Today I often worry about those children who are trying to find their place in the sexual world and think transition is the answer. Sometimes they just need support, not hormones or surgery. In most cases I believe they just need time to grow up a little. They need to understand it's OK to be homosexual, you don't need to change your physical appearance to chose a different sexual life style. Think long and hard before making drastic changes to your body.

[@detransjoy]

@reneegosda6851 Hello friend ❤️. I could not agree with you more. I think the problem with transgender community is they have normalized this idea that most members will use powerful cross sex hormones and surguries that are not appropriate for most people. We must all speak out about what we are thinking. And keep speaking up for them tomboys. The world needs to hear from you.

[@cycledance]

Good. Detransitioners are the only ones who can be proud in pride month, because they were smart enough to go all the way back to the entrance of the infinite horror labyrinth and left it.

[@detransjoy]

❤

[@JayCail]

You can burn the American flag and be protected by free speech. If you look at a pride flag the wrong way you are a hate crime committing terrorist.

[@lmholland3630]

Bless you and best of luck in your endeavors. I hope many others follow your example. Be the best you that you can be!

[@detransjoy]

@lmholland3630 Hello my friend, ❤️ I'm so glad our paths have crossed. Please continue to pray for all victims of Gender Affirming Healthcare. Being a survivor, I can tell you the detransitioners have a hard hard road to travel. They need our love and support more than ever right now. And keep speaking up. The world needs to hear your voice

[@redcarddino]

Sadly it is too late for my high-school best friend he was a mtf her mother was really bipolar and prevent his father to opposing such thing . He transitioned socially at age 10 and 16 hrt got grs at 18 and at 21 he realized he still feeling bad depresses and suicidal but now with a ton of health issues caused by hormones and surgeries nothing got any better it got worse and sadly he got his grandfather shootgun and shoot himself in the face while showering I was in the house that day and I can still hear the blast of the shootgun ... the lgbtq mob and the medical system killed him

[@detransjoy]

My heart bleeds for you and your high school best friend's family and friends. This is why we. must speak out. Too many young people are ruining their futures and lives. Some of them don't even make it. They are not dying because of prejudice in society. They are dying because of the devastating emotional and physical damage that can be caused by medical transition. I will continue to speak out in your best friends name ❤️

[@redcarddino]

@@detransjoy the welcoming community om discord told him that day he even wasn't a true trans at the firs place she was a fraud that transitioned just for the hek of detransition and spread transphobia . They level of cruelty of this criminal organization is real. .. they will groom you take care of you love you only if you agree 100% in everything otherwise you are the enemy that must be destroyed ... thank you for standing up you should talk with buck angel

[@metroduck123]

Why am I crying so hard 😭 I am sad for the whole situation

[@detransjoy]

@metroduck I'm crying too for all the women who will carry these scars for the rest of their lives. We must all speak out. Cry if you need too I'll understand. And keep speaking out. The world needs to hear your voice.

[@marilynbosma2352]

Thank you for sharing. My hope and prayer for you is that you love yourself and also know Gods powerful love that He has for you.❤️

[@detransjoy]

@marilynbosma2352 Hello my friend ❤️. I am so glad our paths have crossed. Please pray for the victims of Gender Affirming Health Care. Many of which are children. And keep speaking up. The world needs to hear your voice.

[@chelseawebb8461]

Great job, and thank you! Your message of bravery and wherewithal is inspiring, and I hope you find happiness and peace.

[@detransjoy]

Hello my friend ❤️. Thank you for taking the time to read a little bit of my story. I appreciate your voice. And keep speaking out. The world needs to hear from you

[@audrahartman4212]

God bless you and keep you… You are truly a brave and a strong messenger 💖🙏👍🤗💪 from the Oregon coast

[@detransjoy]

@audrahartman4212 ❤️ Hello my friend. I am so happy our paths have crossed. And please keep praying for all the victims of Gender Affirming Health Care that keep piling up. Especially for Prisha Mosley. She is a child detransitioner that was pushed into gender transition at the age of 16 when she was very. mentally ill. She is suing the doctors that did this to her. We all pray for justice for Prisha and all the other victims. Keep speaking up. The world needs to hear your voice kzbin.info/www/bejne/hYa9d6Cvfb6UgJI

[@jana25402410]

Well, the right welcomes you all! I am sorry for all you went through and hope you heal. God Bless

[@evage99]

Growing up in the 80s and 90s, there was a big push to let kids play with whichever toys they enjoyed, that playing "house" or with dolls didn't have to be a girls' activity, and playing in the mud with trucks wasn't a boys' activity. As a bonafide tomboy, I was more often out in the mud, climbing trees, getting lost in the woods, etc. than playing with my pile of Barbies. Fast-foward to around 2020, and suddenly...if your son liked dolls, he wasn't your son at all, but your daughter?? Why did the "gender-specific toys" crap come back so hard, and from the very people who repeatedly said "Don't label me!!"? None of it makes any sense. I reject "Pride" and all its associated stupidity, and it's good to see people within the LGBT umbrella doing the same. It's become a cult.

[@detransjoy]

@evage99 Hi my friend ❤. I'm glad our paths have crossed. And I could not agree with you more. They are taking our sweet tomboys, daughters and nieces away from us and turning them into transgenders. Turns out, this Gender Affirming Health Care has a huge regret rate. And we are starting to see the detransitioners rise up with their voices to tell everyone what happened to them. The big evil here is the transgender concept of self-identification of one's gender. This is a bad bad idea. Because people are believing that they can change their gender and end up medically transitioning only to realize nothing changed and you can't change one's gender. For these folks, there lives become ruined. In a big way. Keep speaking up. The world needs to hear your voice.

[@c.2660]

I'm really confused what you mean by that. Are there a lot of people forcing their kids to be trans? Most people today seem to force their kids to be binary, and I really want to know where you've seen this

[@jugendamthamburg-ggkonform381]

Thank you for speaking out to protect girls and young women. I am so grateful I grew up way back when when tomboys and so on were fine.

[@detransjoy]

@jugendamthamburg-ggkonform381 Hello my friend. I'm so glad our paths have crossed. ❤️Yes, we must all take action to protect our girls (especially our sweet little lesbians who are getting transed) and women who are not understanding the permanence of medical transition. It literally ruins peoples lives. Now, This problem is now spanning multiple generations. Keep speaking up. The world needs to hear your voice.

[@cryptameria666]

Thank you, we need to save the tomboys🫡 I would have been a perfect candidate for this. Keep being awesome 🤗

[@detransjoy]

Yes! I was always a tomboy too. Thanks for speaking out. Your voice matters! ❤️

[@abe2935]

Hello, thank you for being open about your journey. It sounds like you went through a lot with very little support on detransitioning. That must have been scary and very isolating. I’m a trans man. I went through my change 20 years ago, and I still think it’s the best thing I’ve ever done for myself. Detransitioning for me will never happen because I’m genuinely and honestly living my best life this way. I’m saying this because it’s possible to transition and be in a better place, but I also don’t think it’s for everyone. Yes, lesbians are out there and they exist even in the small place I live. It’s fine to just live as a masculine woman, and be happy with that. I think it’s important to respect each others choices and journeys in this crazy life and I think that’s what we need to come around to in the LBGT+ community. Love is love in all spectrums of life. Be well and at peace ✌️. Thank you for sharing your story.

[@detransjoy]

@abe2935 Hello my friend ❤️. You bring up good points For a rare some, this treatment works good for them. But, for a whole of people it does not. And for the people that it does not work out for, I am here to tell their stories that have not been told. This should not be threatening to anyone. We have all heard the "Cinderella" story about how great this treatment is for everyone but we never ever hear the one I am telling. Keep keeping on.

[@c.a.greene8395]

I am so sorry that you have been seriously harmed by what is being called affirming cate and doing so much harm. I sm a victim of lupron depot...same drugs given as hormone blockers to children...they destroyed my life...i have lived 30 years without a sex drive. I have had to have numerous corrective surgeries, and i am still dealing with lupron depot side effects... I will be praying for your health recovery, may God bless you...and keep you always ❤ ❤

[@detransjoy]

@c.a.greene8395 My sweet friend ❤. I am so sorry to hear that was done to you. I will always keep you in my prayers. And keep speaking up. The world needs to hear your voice.

[@marydposey]

You’re a very brave woman. Congratulations & have a wonderful rest of ur life.♥️

[@detransjoy]

❤️❤️

[@Linda-pg3so]

That was powerful. 👍🏻👏🏻🇦🇺. Wise words, let’s hope this gets through to those who need it.

[@detransjoy]

@Linda-pg3so Hello my friend ❤️. I'm so glad our paths have crossed. And keep speaking up. The world needs to hear your voice

[@Turqoiseee]

Oh hey, I just found you lurking in my recommendations. I respect your courage to speak up about the trans community and voice what you think about it. By the way, keep up the good work.

[@detransjoy]

Hi friend ❤️. Appreciate you. Keep speaking out. Your voice matters to me.

[@deblynn532]

This makes me want to cry for you and all the kids that are abusing their body. I was a tomboy, caught crawdads, climbed trees, road motorcycles, and bikes and had mostly boy friends. If this was around them, I'd have fell into this, rough homelife, felt like i didn't belong. But i have a beautiful daughter and 2 beautiful grandchildren. Ty for speaking out. My heart goes out to you. Keep your head up.

[@detransjoy]

@deblynn532 Hello my friend ❤️. I'm glad our paths have crossed. Yes, it is so sad to see all the gays and tomboys being caught up in being trans. We must all speak out for our sweet daughters, nieces and tomboys.

[@deblynn532]

@detransjoy you are very courageous. I'll keep you in my prayers and wish only the best for you in everything you do. I watched someone say that when they stepped away from lgbtqia, they received a lot of hate from that community. So, I want to send so much love your way you'll never feel the hate. Or at least not as much. . Keep your head up. I'm not sure if you have a partner or not, but I'll pray for them also. Keep ur light.

[@c.2660]

I was a trans kid that everybody tried to say I was a tomboy, and denied access to even question transitioning. If doctors are saying offering choices makes them happier, why should we give people less medical options?

[@deblynn532]

@c.2660 not people .. just kids.. do whatever you want after 18.. I don't care 2 craps what adults do, but if you can't get a tattoo or vote, don't change body. There's a reason kids can't get tattoos.. they'd all have Pikachu on their forehead.

[@deblynn532]

@c.2660 ask the detrans kids who's lives are ruined.. if they only could have had a few extra yrs, their lives will be ruined. To save all those lives.. waiting till 18 isn't such a big deal..

[@LeeHardingakaFirmament]

Genuinely brave and genuinely moving. I’m just so sorry that you had to go through all this trauma. Although I’m not a trans person (just a regular old gay guy here), I understand 100% about you leaving the “community” because I too no longer recognise it or feel a part of it. Wishing you the very best, from here in London, UK. 👍

[@detransjoy]

@LeeHardingakaFirmament Hello my friend ❤️ . Its exciting to know my message reached you all the way in London. How about that. Keep speaking up. The world needs to hear your voice.

[@LeeHardingakaFirmament]

@@detransjoy Oh wow - thanks so much for that lovely reply. Keep posting your excellent, intelligent and eye-opening videos and I’ll definitely keep speaking up. 👍😊

[@myjoy211]

Thank you for being so open and honest in this video. There are many people out there who need to hear this and need support. Keep it up and know you are making a difference ❤

[@detransjoy]

Hello my friend ❤️. Thank you for taking the time to listen to a bit of my story. And speaking up. The world needs to hear you voice. I have a very important message I am trying to get out to people. Please share the video below with all your associates. kzbin.info/www/bejne/oZyvdqxmfNmKY7c

[@MJ1919]

Bless you. You are completely right ❤

[@detransjoy]

@MJ1919 Hi friend ❤️. We here at detransjoy also send you blessings. And please pray for the children in the United States who have subjected to experimental sex change operations. These children who are speaking out are now traumatized and will live with their broken insides and outsides for the rest of their lives. And I know you can appreciate this. Keep speaking out too. The world needs to hear your voice.

[@ferrisbueller9991]

It is utterly unacceptable that kids who go through Gender Studies 101 never learn once in their semester about Dr. Money, Dr. Money and the first trans identical twins experience: Two males were born. When the first was to be circumcised it went tragically wrong. It all came off. Not the balls but the penis. It burnt off. Burnt? Yes, while cutting with a blade is more popular using a burning tool to cut is not rare... but damn that doc better have an especially steady hand. Gross negligence. Parents refused to let their other son be circumcised... makes sense. (WILD how the US is so pro circumcision yet is that way for NO Religious/Spiritual belief or anything ideological. Female circumcision/genital mutilation, was legal in the US up until 1996. That is wild. Wild still how we still hold on to genital mutilation out of sheer tradition... began by the Puritans... who valued circumcision because it would make males less likely to masturbate because in the old days Lotion wasn’t standard in every damn bathroom. Same people who invented Corn Flakes, Kellogg's Cornflakes, as a means to help stop male masturbation explicitly. No joke. Everyone I knew except more newly immigrated kids/hispanic were circumcised in Catholic school. I know this because when you have the same small class from pre k to 8th grade boys talk about farts and poops and crap long enough to get to genitals. It is wild how every white kid was cut considering the Catholic Church condemns the practice.... but not very well since like no one knows that. Go on a Catholic reddit board and receive shock. But it is true, Pope Benedict said it is "a grave sin" and "an abomination before the eyes of God." And yet... So christians should get their own shit sorted out about genital mutilation before they start talking about trans people. Yes, Jesus was cut, he was a Jew under the first covenant. He ushered in the 2nd covenant. The rules changed, He said change had come. Council of 50 AD confirmed it. THE "TRANS EXPERIMENT TWINS" didn't choose to be such. Far worse than losing his penis was what was to come for both brothers. Doctor was hands on. He believed gender was completely decided by nurture... nature having nothing to do with it.

[@Mudskippered]

eliminate gender studies and all other types of cult initiation ''courses''.

[@detransjoy]

Hi friend ❤️. Yes, to everything you are saying. I did a video on this very point about David Reimer yesterday. Its seems these very immoral Gender Doctors are doing the same thing that happened to David Reimer in the 1970s to women and children right now with "modern" Gender Affirming Surgery. I talk about this in the video link I'm leaving below. And keep speaking up. I like the way you think. kzbin.info/www/bejne/i5ebfKKagMqMiaM

[@detransjoy]

@Mudskippered Hi friend ❤️. I could not agree with you more. And did you hear they are canceling the student loan debt of many. And I would like to say, I do not want my tax dollars paying for anyone's gender studies or gender surgery degrees. Keep speaking out .The world needs to hear your voice

[@jamesbyrnes9670]

Thank you for your brave and heartfelt story. Young men are also being corralled into this ideology. I’m happy you were able to help yourself. I wish you a long, happy and healthy life.

[@detransjoy]

@jamesbyrnes9670 Hello my friend ❤️. Thank you for your kind words. Of course there many many males victims to talk about here too. I know one that just came into our support group for survivors of Gender Affirming Health Care. Unfortunately, for this poor man, he has found out the hard way, one cannot change one's gender. You see, for this man, he no longer has a penis or testicles. Rather, a open wound that is supposed to represent a vagina that only a woman could have. He is describes his life now as a prison sentence. He is literally now trapped in the wrong body by Gender Affirming HealthCare. Please keep this man in your thoughts. And keep speaking up. The world needs to hear your voice.

[@jamesbyrnes9670]

@@detransjoy When I was an adolescent boy, completely clueless about my sexuality, much less anyone else’s, I realize I might have been susceptible to trans ideology. That was close to sixty years ago and so, for better or for worse, I worked it out and lived life on my own terms. I’m gay and almost always have been except for a brief time when I dated women. But thank God I was able to find boys to kiss! And I really liked it! Take care. You are in my prayers.

[@detransjoy]

@@jamesbyrnes9670 I am so happy you are happy and have found boys to kiss 💋. Please keep the victims of Gender Affirming Health Care that are mounting everyday. Especially our children and young adults who never had a chance to say NO to this very barbric treatment. And keep speaking up. The world needs to hear your voice.

[@mcawesomest1]

Sometimes we are born with a sensitive heart and events are more heart breaking and soul scaring. The only way out is through. It can’t be fixed by changing your outside, with money, surgery, fame, or with an affiliation. It’s only repaired and healed by walking through the mess with a really good and loving therapist who can help you heal… and it takes years but your worth it

[@CharlotteGadson]

I saw this as a wakeup call. You are beautifully made with All the mechanisms as a woman. I praying for full recovery . 🙏.. I pray All your mental health be restored in Jesus Christ name 🙏. Tears in my heart............

[@detransjoy]

@CharlotteGadson I am so glad that our paths have crossed. And thank you for speaking up. Please pray for all the victims of Gender Affirming HealthCare. Trust me, they need all the help we have to give. And keep speaking up. The world needs to hear your voice.❤

[@hirokowoods4421]

Good for you!💖👍 I am sorry what you had to have gone through! You are a strong voice for many women now and you are saving lives from ruined, I'm sure! I am a mom and honor you! 💖💖💖

[@detransjoy]

@hirokowoods4421 Hi my friend ❤️. I am so glad or paths have crossed and what a sweet thing of. you to say. And keep speaking up. The world needs to hear your voice.

[@katecollins2982]

Thank you so much for doing this and supporting the detransitioning community.

[@detransjoy]

@katecollins2982 Hi my friend ❤️. Yes, I agree with you. We need to help and support these poor human beings that are going through so much. Please keep them in your prayers. And keep speaking up. The world needs to hear your voice.

[@305Alligator]

Thank you for posting this, you are very brave for telling the truth. You have a purpose and it could just save someone

[@detransjoy]

Hello my friend ❤. Thank you for taking the time to listen to a bit of my story. We need support from people like you more than ever. Please consider sharing this channel and story to anyone you think might be interested. And keep speaking up. The world needs to hear your voice.

[@TheMoonkitty]

Thank you for bravely making your voice heard. It is so very important ❤

[@detransjoy]

@TheMoonkitty ❤️. Hello friend. I am so glad our paths have crossed. I'll keep speaking up if you do. I think the world needs to hear your voice.

[@c.2660]

Where are the Trans People that are silencing this more than folks who omit all gender talk? I'm genuinely curious where the detrans talk of silencing keeps coming from

[@bethyrn6271]

This was brave and beautiful, thank you for sharing! It's going to make a difference in someone's life.

[@detransjoy]

Hello my friend ❤️. Thank you for taking the time to listen to this important video. And speaking up. Keep it up. The world needs to hear your voice. Also, please share this video with your assoiciates. kzbin.info/www/bejne/oZyvdqxmfNmKY7c

[@AmericanAmy]

Thank you for sharing your story. 🥰🙏

[@detransjoy]

Hello my friend ❤️ thank for stopping by to hear a bit of my story. Please share this video with anyone who may need it or be interested. Much appreciated. And keep speaking up. The world needs to hear your voice ❤️

[@scoobykitty]

Thank you for adding your voice to the others who are speaking out. Too many young girls are being told that because they are tomboys or attracted to other females,they must be men. I think the more voices there are,the harder they are to ignore.

[@detransjoy]

@scoobykitty Hello my friend ❤️. It so nice our paths have crossed. And I could not agree with you more. We must protect our little lesbians and other vunerable females that are getting sucked into the transgender community. This is a community that is trying to "normalize" the use of these very very powerful cross sex hormones. Little do people know that, this, tiny vial of clear liquid actually has the power to ruin your life. And not just for the moment but for the rest of their lives. Its beyond tragic. Daily, we receive tearful letters from parents whos children will no longer speak to them ever since they have joined the transgender community. Keep speaking up. The world needs to hear your voice.

[@focotaku]

I’m a human, but I’m leaving the humans community.