FULL Exclusive with Dr. John Gray | The Differences Between Men + Women (& how to be happy in love)

What do men really need in relationship?
Find out in this FULL HOUR LONG exclusive with Dr. John Gray, best selling author of the #1 Relationship Book - Men are from Mars, Women Are from Venus.
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[@openyreyes]

Allowing a man to make you smile is a gift to him, gosh, love it

[@dianer8881]

Sorry, I'm just not here to satisfy a man's big fat ego. He should do the work without needing my reward - just like I do...

[@eternallyviv]

​@dianer8881 then why did you click on this video? Write your own theories and books on why you are successful in relationships.

[@dianer8881]

@@eternallyviv Men are the down fall of women.

[@FPT84]

Let him be gentleman and chivalrous! Let him pay! Let him open doors for you & treat you like princess

[@manifestwithemyrald]

Agreed!

[@FPT84]

@@manifestwithemyrald and then the more masculine energy women wonder where they're going wrong when they see other 'feminine' women getting the royalty treatment from guys. Hmm...

[@wyleecoyotee4252]

​@@FPT84 You mean the men expect s3x for providing you with dinner

[@lifewithlulu1183]

AND Let yourself enjoy his gentlemanliness abd chilvalry, let yourself enjoy him paying, let yourself to enjoy him opening the door for you, and embrace being a queen. Don't feel sorry for him or feel angry because somehow you are not "equal" to him when he treats you nice. Don't try to balance the scales. Just appreciate appreciate appreciate and express your enjoyment.

[@wyleecoyotee4252]

@LifeWithLulu Better for her to be self-sufficient and open her own doors than forever live under his thumb and tolerate his being 'nice', because he will always be reminding her how 'nice' he is and how she should thank him for it

[@helenzielasek1812]

I also think that narcissist are definetely in their feminine Side. Great to hear that. Thank you

[@em77775]

Yes. It was the worst experience all around. He kept not pursuing me and withholding. It was as it he wanted me to make the move but I didn't want to pursue and it ended up just dying a slow and horrible death over and over.

[@liamargarethoxton8814]

Todays generation of men and women needs to hear this,,...

[@jeanettesuzannebrooks1963]

Man, he’s great. So are you, Ms. Sinclaire!

[@wilderheartland3920]

I love this. Thank you! And I would also add that if your first relationship is with yourself, as a feminine, then the expression of self is constantly renewing itself. This is where an exclusive relationship can experience ongoing newness. This "newness" is a continual increasing of estrogen. This inspires the masculine in his energy. 🙏

[@alyssamurphy2002]

Allowing a man to make you smile...

[@kjb0410]

Love how he breaks relational dynamics down to a cellular level. I finished Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. Now reading Beyond… 😊

[@manifestwithemyrald]

It’s a good one! Enjoy!!

[@cubiczirconiabeard5366]

John Gray's books have really helped me understand relationships. My understanding couldn't be any worse before reading his material.

[@joriwilkinson]

I need to create a book for men teaching them how to help women stay more on their feminine. I think a little work on each side would be beneficial 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@alihammadshah]

Just listening to this is raising my testosterone levels.

[@julieshaw1452]

I love this! Your concepts and even the Biology parts of this back up what the Bible says about relationships too. God is good! He wants us happy in relationships. Just read the Song of Songs. Although it’s also about our relationship with the Lord, it backs up what your saying as well. Blessings to you both!❤️ PS. It’s not evolution. It’s God’s design.

[@dianer8881]

I'm just waiting for their bad karma to kick in, because they're all toxic testosterone junkies. Get it?

[@jasminealexia]

Love this I totally agree! Thanks for the scripture reference. Let me check it out!

[@jazzymoo12able]

So many women judging the host in the comments. Missing the whole point of johns teachings.

[@manifestwithemyrald]

Thank you for saying so, love. I think sometimes people forget that there are people on the other side of the screen ... sending you love and i hope you got massive value out of the interview

[@carmenkamberos1156]

Dear, you looked gorgeous and feminine!! Love your dress too. Blessings

[@wyleecoyotee4252]

John needs to become current and stop living in the 1950's

[@annlaughren9060]

Love to hear her talk ,

[@ayushiverma3292]

Amazing. Learned a lot. Thankyou for this😍😍❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@manifestwithemyrald]

Glad you loved it!

[@kristinej.4182]

Loved this video!!!!! Thank you so much. Learned so much too!!!! 👍🏻

[@manifestwithemyrald]

So glad!

[@franci-uz]

I LOVE your video series with John!!!

[@manifestwithemyrald]

So glad you enjoyed!!!

[@annlaughren9060]

Love hearing both you all talk

[@manifestwithemyrald]

So glad you enjoyed. I loved chatting with John :)

[@KKLee-yt9ic]

Found your channel by chance. You asked good questions and you’re funny. I had to subscribe. 😊👍

[@manifestwithemyrald]

we manifested each other! Glad you resonate with my content - please join me on IG @manifestwithemyrald as well where I'm sharing even more daily content for you! :)

[@versiewlw]

Absolutely enjoy this convo thank you :))

[@billtuckjr2834]

Love that word CONVO!!! Will start using it! Did you invent it?

[@jasminealexia]

Gems were dropped! 💎 some parts of this video made me chuckle 🤭

[@margaritajohns7907]

This is being wonderful advice with so much that I leaned and I agree with and even experienced a lot of it !! My advice to woman is that they need to be more modest with their way of presenting them selfs Man don’t need to see everything almost at one time. Woman’s body is to cherished not lust for. My ex boyfriend used to say this also !!

[@adelinehorst7359]

Very simple we need to take care of ourselves

[@liesjebeverly]

Great program. Design tip - turn that picture upside down, it will look so much better!

[@wendiparker9831]

It's good learning about the hormones and how they influence the genders respectfully....It helps a lot....It helps me understand my partner more and appreciate him so much..Thank you both for this opportunity to learn..I enjoy being in my feminine side and he is the reason I can..✌️🌟...He's a good leader and still continues to step up..!!...I like letting him know how much he is to me...We don't have sex lots but when we do..!!!!!!...I agree John building the bonding is amazing...🤪🥳💖...

[@babila8949]

Aampmm

[@dianer8881]

I'd rather live alone without sex. I don't want anyone controlling my life. I don't want to pick up after a total slob. I want to retain my own bank account for ME. It's so much easier to just be alone. Try it! Relationships are very suppressive. Freedom!

[@lolivingston6827]

I'd recommend therapy #1.... You sat thru an hour of sound advice to still spew bitterness Lol... Yikes

[@dianer8881]

@@lolivingston6827 Been there, done that. Realistic! Not imaginary...

[@ragepig1059]

Yiure not bitter, yiure right. And that's a typical reaction from a male who loses power and a slave if women wake up

[@mina.t.]

Such a wonderful talk time; it gave me good feeling, insight, laughter and hope. Thanks so much!

[@user-yw9md9ws5h]

The greatest talk ever!!!! Thanks! ❤

[@manifestwithemyrald]

so glad you enjoyed!

[@silvermoon3486]

Great 👍🏼 show. Love ❤️ John Gray all his information is good 👍🏼 stuff. 😊❤❤❤👍🏼

[@manifestwithemyrald]

Glad you enjoyed it

[@luzvimindalayar5265]

Tnkz fr ur advice....sir...wish to meet a man that he will loves me...god blesss to all ..

[@cathyzhang2769]

Some men don't even want to pay a cup of coffee when they first asked you out.

[@manifestwithemyrald]

Those men I would NOT have a second date with - no way!

[@FPT84]

They're in thier feminine energy if that's what you're having. Are you in your masculine energy or feminine because if you're in your masculine energy, 1 attracts feminine guys but when in feminine energy, 1 attracts masculine guys

[@cubiczirconiabeard5366]

If that is the case about not paying, just think how attractive you are if you pay for his coffee??

[@FPT84]

@@cubiczirconiabeard5366 Where's the provider instinct in a man shining through? She becomes provider role which is masculine unless that's what a guy is looking for then...can't complain she's not feminine enough. Ps PAYING for coffee and MAKING a cup of coffee for a guy in home setting 2 different things

[@gigicharrier1367]

Then don't go out with them

[@laurathurlow3634]

Using a man to feel 20% better because my own sheer awesomeness takes care of 80%! But what if I'm 90-95% without him and he takes me to150%??

[@markberger5739]

Using....

[@dianer8881]

Doubt it! Dream on. Such an illusion of grandeur...

[@lincolnhtschick]

Why is the lady’s top half off? Good video, otherwise.

[@veronicaalessandrello1022]

I learned so much from this talk. 🙏✨ one question, how to Martians & Venusians at the work place. How to hang your planetary roots in a room where both species have to come up with solutions to problems. How can we communicate so no one feels belittled or shame because the hormones were dropped and causes frustration and low energy?

[@dianer8881]

I usually present the rough draft. If no one comes up with a better solution, I do as time goes by.

[@BeckyJB]

1:09:58 I’m the 7 year girl 😂❤❤❤❤ thank you!

[@glowwarrior444]

Learned so much from this talk! I appreciate the tantra sex point because as a woman I haven't enjoyed sex. I would love a massage, to be seen & heard, I'm so done with trying to please a man. 🙏🏼

[@dianer8881]

Me, too. I just need a man to do the yardwork.

[@kathymiller4385]

Deserts the best...

[@garlictyme2472]

Why are women considered masculine just because they have a job or can take care of themselves? No matter what we do we are always wrong.

[@wyleecoyotee4252]

I'm really perturbed by that. Frankly it's being an adult. This Dr. Gray belongs in the 1950's They want women to be dumb and dependant so they won't leave.

[@Mint-kj9kw]

Right? Read Proverbs 31 in the Bible

[@dianer8881]

I have always worked, because my ex-husband abandoned me with 2 children - for a fat, lazy slob with really big boobs. No child support for more than $25 years. I'm extremely feminine, trim and sexy. I can't go anywhere without being stalked, which I really dislike. Men are just selfish pigs!

[@jessica11381]

41:54 -15mins

[@franci-uz]

39:00 minutes in later... Did John answer finally, how to soften as a more masculine wife, on the end?!?

[@candacegiles4899]

Wooow I Loove this, but what if you do praise an let them do things for you then later they stop??

[@manifestwithemyrald]

bring back the praise and appreciation!

[@cubiczirconiabeard5366]

1:04:00 "THERE A BIOLOGICAL ENERGY FIELD THAT DRAWS PEOPLE TOGETHER" ? ? ? Then I must have one hell of an impenetrable force field, kinda like on Star Trek?

[@kellyolson602]

This is funny ~(so if you have a beard) - the beard is probably sexy - but can be intimidating for women ~ don't be afraid to approach the ladies - we love it - its flattering- even if we act like its not lol

[@cubiczirconiabeard5366]

Some like my beard, some hate it. For some reason, my biological energy field draws out the money hungry air heads whose idea of long term planning is where their next meal is coming from. An attractive person can get weary of constant approaches.

[@kellyolson602]

Seems like your just meeting the wrong ladies ~ We are not all like that - the right lady will wanna build along side you

[@sixtyninemangler]

Emerald, I don't have the context of the full situation but you were on a date with a guy and a couple of girlfriends. Were you expecting him to pay for you and your friends? If that's the case then it definitely feels like you were taking advantage of him.

[@8thousevirgin]

I was wondering about this too.

[@manifestwithemyrald]

Nope - It was he/I and then the gf's joined us - when the bill came it was just for OUR share - and to clarify - before we even went out to eat he said "lets go spend my money!' so when he asked me to split it, it was a HUGE SHOCK to me - and I never saw him again after that 'date'

[@cubiczirconiabeard5366]

55:50 turning the light out in the living room? It's more fun to feign innocence, and deny not turning the light out in the living room. Thow a few, "who? me?? "'s in there. And that's why I'm a single guy.

[@septemberrain9682]

How does me know if the estrogen or testosterone increases or decreases? Is he talking about actual clinical measurements…. Or is he using the hormone terms very loosely.

[@christineplaton3048]

Nice interview. Woman with apparel problem.

[@FarewellAphrodite]

Co-dependence no more

[@FPT84]

How to balance the masculine and feminine energies out during menstrual cycle because sometimes women in feminine mode more so and other times, more on masculine so how can you attract right guy?

[@manifestwithemyrald]

It just takes a bit of work and understanding of yourself. I highly recommend you read some of john grays work. :) I also have a course on stepping into your feminine energy if you’re interested to learn more

[@em77775]

Have you checked out Adrienne Everheart? She has a YT channel I think would complement this content very well. She talks in depth about feminine things to do and ways to communicate and attract from your feminine. ❤

[@manifestwithemyrald]

@@em77775 I’ve not. I’ll check her out too!

[@em77775]

@@manifestwithemyrald Awesome. This interview is great!

[@ewomick]

Great video! Speaking of Femininity- Emyrald white top is super sexy and feminine.

[@manifestwithemyrald]

Thank you love. It’s one of my faves ❤️

[@Sbannmarie]

Cracks me up 🔝 “And on the 6th day he ejaculated.”

[@dianer8881]

This guy really doesn't know what he's talking about...

[@renico123]

So we need to be happy Dodo's hahahahahaha!😀

[@manifestwithemyrald]

yesss - but authentically!

[@user-zr6hp8mv2b]

But how do I communicate what I need to him if not saying it or just say hey I would love if he doesn’t do it cannot approve and appreciate his behavior so he does it again so HOW do I start?😅

[@manifestwithemyrald]

you have to tell him what you want/desire... he cannot read your mind!

[@dianer8881]

​@@manifestwithemyraldI've told him plenty of times, but he doesn't respond. He only has his hand out with nothing in return.

[@dianer8881]

Why are your titles always about men? What about a woman's happiness?

[@dianer8881]

Men don't want needy women. Women don't want needy men. Reciprocal independence!

[@annlaughren9060]

Listening the very best information. We are in 70,

[@manifestwithemyrald]

So glad you enjoyed :)

[@annlaughren9060]

Yes, I reading lot of your books, I gotten a friend to listen to your talk shows. Excellent information, my husband is science minded, but loves the Lord too. he loves math,

[@dianneciresi7208]

Ok. You say men prefer women who are shorter than them but u didn't say how much shorter. I dated a 5'11" tall guy, I was a shorty 5'1". He ended up discarding me ( long story) then hooked up with a bleach blonde who was 2 " shorter than him who moved in & got engaged after a few wks of dating.. was she more convenient to his physical/ sexual anatomy cause they have to work harder to put a much shorter one in the most efficient sex position where as someone who's closer in range to their sexual/ physical parts is easier to get to. Tall men have to bend down more to fanegal u around to get u closer to sexual positions where as someone who's closer to their sexual anatomy size won't have to maneuver around as much. Their vajajas are closer in range than a shorty where he has to maneuver around to get in the easiest position for him.. What's do u have to say about that?

[@ultimatevtgb4489]

I am scared of her laughing

[@franci-uz]

41:25 scientists proofed 2022 that women were hunters as well. They weren't just sitting babies

[@CoolKidOx]

Girl I wish you would stop interrupting him

[@HybridParentSupport]

19:35 it’s possible to be a ethical narcissist?

[@olfasolomon2461]

Hi I wish you would let John do the talking and stop interjecting.

[@carakiziah239]

I'd love to listen to this same video, but with a different moderator

[@wyleecoyotee4252]

And a different guest

[@user-cs1xz]

omg the loud obnoxious host ruins these truth bombs john gray is trying to drop. so grating hearing her interject

[@laurabaldridge7686]

Should women chase men. Or be open to flirting.

[@manifestwithemyrald]

flirt and let him chase you :)

[@dianer8881]

Don't flirt. Some men are too mischievous. They may approach you inappropriately. In other words, you're just asking for it... Such as rape, etc.

[@wyleecoyotee4252]

Oh no...not Dr. John gray. He's still living in the 1950's

[@LiaMia]

Emyrald’s loud voice and laugh hurt my ears 😣

[@user-cs1xz]

same

[@V.Hansen.]

I think she’s beautiful and has a lovely voice a joyful laugh. Y’all are disgustingly critical for no reason.

[@antjetautkus5506]

E .choose a more respectful 👗 bugger :( 👘 Thx John👍 Repeat repeat repeat ...................toooo ?

[@manifestwithemyrald]

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[@minnaruini7004]

Oookooo ei voi oooooot mun puolesta voidaan myös poooo Eli mm oo oioi kiitos onnitteluista oo iiii oooooot mun oooooot on se oli Ollin sijaisope on se vaan ookko oooooot mun puolesta oiipoiO popparit ow on iopöippo

[@markberger5739]

John Grey encouraging gold diggers? Women should pay their way - they want equality - until it is not in their favor.

[@beac8238]

He is encouraging timeless principles for polarity in successful marriages.

[@markberger5739]

@@beac8238 nope he is clamouring to the woke me2 feminazi crowd

[@manifestwithemyrald]

agreed

[@markberger5739]

Women have the oldest business model in the world - pay to play!... No matter how they dress it up, the result is the same... Man gets the wrong end of the deal & she will dump him on a whim & steal everything he ever earns.

[@dianer8881]

​@@markberger5739I experienced just the opposite. Bullied. Beaten. Emptied my bank account. Abandoned his children.

[@williamfisher2427]

Your comments about women’s sexual side sounds just like my first wife and that’s why our marriage didn’t last. My second wife is more like me and we have been married for 46 wonderful years. That’s why I’ve never had the feeling to cheat. And just so you know my wife slept with me on the first date so your wrong on that statement.

[@beac8238]

Most men have concerns about a woman who sleeps with them too soon. What made you love her and decide to marry her?

[@Mint-kj9kw]

@@beac8238 No....only Redpill men have a problem with this. Look at John Legend and Chrissy Tiegan...they slept together the first day they met. I know many other couples who slept together their first date....and they've been happily married for several years.

[@dianer8881]

If you stayed together that long, the 2 of you must really like sex. I really don't like it and prefer to go without it, because I don't like being used and abused.

[@vidhudisney]

Jesus Christ

[@wyleecoyotee4252]

That's what I thought

[@appleid1]

I love John and what he has to say.. However Emyrald seems to be into herself with her half naked appearence. I dont appreciate her look.. and simplistic views...

[@wyleecoyotee4252]

What's this chatter about 'feminine energy ' and expecting the guy to pay. Are you aware what he will expect in return? Men these days don't want to pay for dinners anymore. I prefer coffee dates first. Always pay my own way. Wow you ladies are appalling.

[@dianer8881]

I have always paid for the meal. Men have never paid.

[@jovanapavlovic5283]

The question made during intervew about dog is so wrong, leading discussion in totally wrong way, such a digression and waste od time. Bad interviewer

[@lke4907]

The hostess is half naked.. 🙃🧐😳

[@transformativeexperiences]

U must be a man...

[@lke4907]

@@transformativeexperiences nope.. just stating the obvious!! :)

[@ronnajin5241]

Omg. She looks so trashy like she's trying to seduce John. Cover up :P

[@427life]

She’s ANNOYING!!!

[@yolandaclark7630]

Respectfully speaking, the dress the woman is wearing is unprofessional.

[@noreensumpter]

Really you think. What is she saying does that not count?

[@robynalvin2849]

What she is saying is important but the way she’s dressed is distracting.

[@dollikareworked]

Gorgeous dress ❤

[@juliacanavan8556]

Great talk. The woman in this clip needed to be quieter. Her voice is very annoying. My apologies for being so blunt.

[@V.Hansen.]

I have no idea what you’re talking about. She’s lovely and THIS IS HER SHOW!

[@manifestwithemyrald]

thanks ;)

[@latinaalma1947]

I am highly intellectual. I am a professor of clinical psychology. I get turned on by MINDS then a man's body comes later ....rarely. I can get really close to colleagues...excited about hypotheses...research ideas and the relationship is purely platonic...they are my spirit brothers and off the menu for sex period. On the super super RARE occasion with a man, there is a sizzling alive pulsing mind he has and a very strong chemical biological process gets triggered in me.Frankly, I dont care if it is my testosterone or my estrogen.. I am a second generation feminist and have been able to provide WELL for myself for many decades. I was SUPER competent in my field but at home I did NOT want to be the boss...I was in charge at work and all I wanted was NOT to have to decide every damn little thing. I kicked off my heels, got out of my suit , went to the kitchen and made supper... love to cook for a man...he picked the movie ... downloaded the films. I have zero clue how to do all that...I WANTED him in charge of that, he knew what I liked and he got it for me. We liked mostly the same films. And so yes his happiness was doing things for me. I MISS HIM! AND YES in menopause I began to have multiple orgasms as well as before when I was in my career I had one maybe two.