A Plan For Anger Without Getting Angry (With Tim Ross) | The Leader's Cut w/ Preston Morrison

[@njdougie]

I LITERALLY was talking to the Lord about my anger and triggered I am by a relative, about how I'm fine when I'm by myself but from the moment I see them I revert to the angry feelings and angry responses. The language of regulated vs dis-regulated really put it into perspective. And when u used the SPECIFIC scenario of Esther all I could do was laugh at look at the Holy Spirit. Thank you both for this. Def saving this and sharing it w my church community

[@krystylez]

Man I needed to hear this. As I prepare to a tough conversation, this has helped me in knowing what I should be seeking from the Lord prior to the conversation. Thank you!

[@joannekrayer]

"When dysregulation trumps theology, demons win." A liberating word. 🔐

[@Urmomsfavhairstylist95]

Oof. I read this comment before I even skipped the ads. This is gonna be good. (And probably painful) 😂

[@JeffShirrell]

1:36:48 to @all, where you are filled with anger in your heart, is where you are still allowing the enemy to control, and you have not shown Jesus that room to clean up and take over. Let Him in and let Him win.

[@PurposePoint-4Women]

“You know what’s waving… but what’s WINDY?” 🔥🔥🔥 Chains broken in 8K 🙌🏾🙌🏾 Thank you for this episode!!!!!

[@alwaysfacingtheSon]

Part 2 on this topic please!!! Love every word spoken on the importance of healthy regulation. So liberating! Peace & contentment - Thank You Jesus 🙏🏽🕊❤️‍🔥

[@davidbramlett8193]

The practice of regulating your emotions, stepping back to be curious about your emotions, deciphering if this emotion truly comes from the present situation or my past trauma, etc. can be exhausting!!! I've heard from family, friends, and counselors on how well I process things like this, but this work takes a lot out of me. The constant battle is discouraging. I don't know what to change in order to keep going.

[@myronlhr]

To rest. In taking the time, the absence of the ability to rest before doing the work (includes deciphering what is creating that emotion) is so key to helping it make sense. Be blessed :)

[@JeffShirrell]

Also, consider any spiritual aspects that maybe against you or your family line. During my 21 day fast with Pillar church, I took focus on this and found a spirit of jebusite (discouragement or doubt) to be against me and needing to be cast off.

[@mohauwamorena]

"Temporary peace is bought in the moment with the hope to receive it. True peace was paid for only to be given in any and every moment"🙌🙌

[@YetAnotherGeorgeth]

When the twins cook you’ve just gotta sit there and be flambéed!

[@mohauwamorena]

ALL THE TIME!!

[@joannekrayer]

"My Baseline is my Prince of Peace." ✝️ That's so freeing, because I don't have to find my baseline; my Baseline is Waiting for me to not only draw near to Him and get in step with Him, but to ultimately keep in step with Him. And when I'm in step with Him, my Baseline is Him. But when I'm out of step with Him, my baseline is the enemy (a truth that chills my bones). May my Baseline always be Him - not just in this, but in everything else. May I choose to every day keep in step with my Baseline. ✝️🔐

[@siullkallig9757]

Can you two do an episode and talk about how to regulate? After this, that's a very vital piece of the equation.

[@Workbnbpres]

12:45 He explained at around 12:45, Choose Curiosity over Ferocity. Ask yourself why you are feeling an emotion when you are getting angry. Look inward instead of acting out externally. You are the most regulated when you do this. Think of Jesus on the cross being so regulated that he was able to carry out the sacrifice and tell GOD to forgive them for they do not know what they are doing. They are all not regulated. So they are acting outside themselves. I have Been trying this for 1 day and it is Changing my life ALREADY! 12:45

[@0103mcmxciv]

This was the most fun I’ve had watching something that would calibrate perspective. I love when these two are together. Twins✨

[@jennifermorton1456]

Yooooo I don’t even know what to say there were so many gems, I gotta go back and take notes “you gotta know what to rebuke” SENT ME!!

[@tonjahall4612]

This is POWERFUL!! Thank you so much!!

[@sinalothanda5697]

Okay, so I have circling around this episode. And even now my mind is mentally putting off. Now I am going to finally watch it 🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@coco22211]

Watching this episode for the second time! So good!!!

[@12345hia]

Much much needed, been processing this lately by myself with my own triggers, but you both beautifully laid it out. Thank you, and thank the lord for leading this message.

[@alicia_nicole444]

Ohh ohhhh ohhhhh I ain’t know. I ain’t know I was getting a message from the Twins today. God is good yall. HE IS ALWAYS ON TIME

[@misstiavv]

59:48-1:02:59.. is for me. Thank you Tio ❤

[@jeremiahhamel20]

This episode was a spiritual banger! Ty from RI for a wonderful message. My wife and I have been watching you for a few months now. I had a good start to my day reading John chapters 14-17 oddly enough. I got triggered by an unfortunate health issue with my cat(she is ok) and it threw me off much of the day. This episode was a great way to regulate. Thanks brothers ❤️

[@LozBrown-j6l]

I laughed so many times! What a fab convo…Thankyou gentlemen. ❤

[@abby999]

58:16 preston i am quite literally living the exact situation you described. i mean…tears as i experienced an actual jolt of shock as you PERFECTLY ACCURATELY described my actual real life literal situation. i had to pause it twice just to catch my breath. idk how many more words i can use to describe how much that was for me. i’m so grateful the holy spirit gave you the exact picture of the season of life i am in. every word was on target. i feel SO seen

[@abby999]

living in her house right now, trauma going on in her life before i was even born, she doesn’t understand her own lava, i’m similar to esther in my nature and calling, i know i’m different, i’m angry and triggered on the regular, and have been asking God for a way to be angry and sin not. to put down my defenses and to be regulated for the good of my family around me. like bruh. 😂

[@michelleblessed8581]

❤

[@amymomo]

I'm similar to the woman Preston talked about with the mother and learning to regulate inside that relationship and myself. Its been a work the past several years that is getting better. I'm more aware now am of the dynamics and my response (less and less reactions) in interactions with her. So much truth in this convo. Y'all are a blessing!

[@karengrant6488]

Love the two of you together! I literally scream as you both teach/discuss!

[@susieqshields]

Thank you so much for this gentlemen! Best way to start Thanksgiving 🙏🏼

[@lynharris7181]

This was a break through message

[@Workbnbpres]

This has shifted my perspective so much I am excited for the growth. THANK YOU GOD❤ Love when you two are together

[@loriturnbull3356]

In the past year the Holy Spirit has been leading me to be more self-aware. Thanks for sharing this. So good! Some highlights: 1. The problem isn't with others. It's about me. I ❤ how Tim always talks about being curious, about ourselves and others. If we live in that place, we can become a dormant volcano not an active one. "Nobody wants to live near an active volcano."💯 My childhood had alot of that. A father who exploded regularly and a mother who shared things with me that should have been shared with a sibling or friend not a daughter. Knowing that to be true, I can choose to make different choices than she did. It's hard when I find the lies easier to believe than the truth. So thankful for the bible that doesn't give us a "Jesus glitter" version of peoples' lives. But the reality which many times was not so great. 2. That part about Esthers and their mothers. My relationship with my mother was complicated by certain behaviors that made me go into my own world more. I've always been more of an introvert.😊 Lately I've been seeing a counselor and it's helped to wonder on the habits that I have had since childhood. Like... I find it hard to trust people. Recently in counseling we explored that and I learned that I tend not to confront situations and that I tend to assess a room before speaking. This led to memories about my dad. Funny how you can be so blind to patterns you've had for more than twenty years. 3. The Holy Spirit knows me better than I know me. He knows the things I don't say out loud or even know I'm thinking. Thanks Tim for sharing your story about the house. It made me think of something that happened recently where God gave me an opportunity that was so far beyond anything I would have thought to pray for. He's good like that.❤ And it's not just that He gives me good things, He also gives me challenges. He's showing me that challenges aren't meant to hurt me, but help me grow.😮

[@MrsHicks-ms5my]

wow I could of wrote this myself. God is so real because I would of never thought that someone could experience the same things as me so intimately. I mean I had to pause this video a few times and check myself because the Lord is really speaking to me in this video and through this post.

[@loriturnbull3356]

@MrsHicks-ms5my 😍 it. Holy Spirit power.💪

[@powerofcare_]

This was amazing .

[@bricksandeffects]

THIS WAS SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO GOOD! And so fun!!! 🤩

[@gailkennedy5727]

So dang good🔥🔥🔥

[@amymomo]

Keep going!

[@JeffShirrell]

This topic is one of the highest aims! 🔥 what would be a good Bible app Bible plan to do with a group of people that are interested in growing in this area together?? 🤔

[@shelbyhice1039]

“Does she have to change in order for you to be okay?” OOOH that hurt🗡️

[@shelbyhice1039]

“We call numbing and running regulated” absolutely.

[@tristondot1]

I love you guys so much. Thank you.

[@vindadookie8741]

Yall setting people free! Super impactful

[@mark0bravo]

This is so good. Thank you

[@alicia_nicole444]

I love yalll!! Thank you

[@mohauwamorena]

WOW!! This was too good! Thank You Jesus❤

[@sophster201]

Wow wow wow! Thank you for this wisdom.

[@brookedanielle675]

I struggle with so much of this🙏

[@torane1122]

Thanks for 1Timothy 6:6 True godliness with contentment itself is great wealth!!!!!!

[@shelbyhice1039]

When Tim says “Das nasty!”🤣

[@stephaniedorelien89]

Thank you for this episode. Idk if I’m an Esther but I’m living through that same situation. Y’all are in my house today. Love you both! My virtual uncles!

[@david_jahn]

50:29 there’s a reason we’re called to be peacemakers.

[@kangruckus5939]

I cannot deal with someone who will continuously piss me off and act unbothered.

[@jennb1245]

start at @8:30

[@futureitshere]

This was a cheat code to life

[@aquilastephens5427]

Emotional regulation means being able to put things into context so that you are responding instead of reacting.

[@carrie.9833]

A competitive spirit is so very deadly to life around it

[@CorrineStAug080]

GRIEVING WITH REGULATION!!???? Now I understand the book of Job.

[@GG7GodsGrace]

Thank you, grieving my only son, setup by individuals we thought loved us, case is full of lies, no real support from anyone, I’m alone, waiting on God to move.💔🙏🏽❤️🕊️” the lord giveth”, I know but this reality is testing me sec by sec.

[@lovely7777Q]

Be encouraged my dear. Jehovah God is able

[@HolyWarriorPrincess]

Ya’lls revelations be rev-elat-ING!

[@carrie.9833]

“Sound mind” = self-control Legion was found dressed and in a sound MIND

[@christianfranklin396]

Thank you for this master class and the price you paid to share it 🩷🙌🏼

[@deliaperez1680]

Social media for your nervous system is like playing my that old computer game called “Minesweeper”! 😅🤦🏽‍♀️😮‍💨🥺

[@theLT56]

43:16.. okay, so what you’re saying is its the classic “it’s not you, it’s me” 🥴😫😂

[@TKMprof]

Fi' 🔥would rather you disappeared than look within me to deal with the root, #goinPharoah