Getting my ESTP Man to Commit to Me (INFP Female)? | CS Joseph

[@cacorn982]

Even if people disagree with me that is fine, don't have sex with a estp. Don't devalue yourself. If he doesn't want to commit nothing was lost. I wouldn't recommend chasing after a estp ever. You're not suppose to ever chase as a infp. Also estps may lie about things about their past , so just saying if you do want this estp make sure you are gonna fully commit yourself. (Seriously!) Edit: also I don't hate Estps, I just know what to expect. Infjs and Estps are my favorite se users along with a few others.

[@ImmortalGaming551]

Im ESTP and we can be some the most hardcore, monogamous, one-girl type of guys out there. Just look for the right ones if that’s what you desire out of a relationship.

[@qasimimtiaz9668]

@@ImmortalGaming551 bro your 17, it change after you go to clubs

[@rimasoosamir8167]

​@@ImmortalGaming551 at 18 you haven't seen shit😂

[@SS-bu8ez]

You are right. My ESTP brother in law ruined my ESFJ sister's life.

[@rimasoosamir8167]

@@SS-bu8ez how

[@pelc121]

I’m an INFP and I grew up with an ENTJ father and naturally learned the best way to ask him for stuff was asking for permission and playing up the damsel in distress 😆. Honestly so much easier and way more fun than trying to fix stuff on your own. I hate the way society forces women to be masculine, struggled with that balance ever since I started working

[@sylviaowega3839]

It was the opposite for me. I was always forced to be feminine

[@pelc121]

@@sylviaowega3839 did you have an entj dad? Yes they can be quite pushy at times

[@sylviaowega3839]

@@pelc121 I’m not certain what type my dad is, but he came from a very strict cultural background.

[@aczikere9949]

Just admit you're lazy. Most INFPs are. I don't judge. I'm a lazy type myself, just less lazy than most INFPs I've met

[@MariaM-qq6kv]

Being feminine doesnt mean lazy​@@aczikere9949

[@DASaChair]

as an estp guy i can completely agree with the point you made about desiring to know how a woman feels.. Especially as I've gotten older i value it a lot. When a woman wont say something / how they feel about a situation it gets me irritated. My Whole desire is to make a decision that BENEFITS BOTH OF US and if anything i'd put my own desires to the side to make it better for them.

[@dinaf.k5372]

What do you think of INFJ females? I dated an ESTP but sadly he was married. I do think we fill each other's holes

[@DASaChair]

@@dinaf.k5372 hmmm... well... i dated an infj and i think it was okay.... but it never went anywhere. she was just a bit to boring for me.. but she wouldve beena perfect mother.. to be honest I like all kinds of women.. But the ones that I see myself with forever would be those that are more spontanious and more adventurous. I really like banter and back n forth, its hard if i feel like its becoming stale. IDK how to explain it really.. i need to be constantly interested in anything.- edit sorry.. she was an infp.. nota j. i dont think i've dated an infj..

[@Beyou0120]

Do you like infp woman??? Please share please how you perceive infp'?

[@DASaChair]

@@Beyou0120 honestly I'm not very up on my knowledge of the types anymore.. I haven't had an interest in MB in a while now. But I think this information of my own feelings may be of some help.. I like everyone.. Very rarely are there people I dont like. Being liked by me isn't hard. But being relevant in my life is. If I'm bored I just fade away to something else thats grabbed my attention. If you cant capture my attention over and over again I'll lose interest. I value respect and loyalty very highly. And in my experience. The longer i know you/spend time with you, the deeper my feelings can go. I wouldn't jump into a committed relationship with someone if its been a short length of time. I believe a good ESTP is going to be hard for anyone to find if they(the estp) hasn't matured enough. Hopefully this helps.. You can ask more questions if you want. Maybe I can help.. Hopefully..

[@ishami5004]

@@Beyou0120 well im not him but theyre so cute and wholesome to me as an estp,they are smart in a different way than me i just hope they are not manipulative and irrational

[@zulasyrafismail791]

Infp here. Estps have hurt me way too many time eventhough they never meant to do it. We infps are too sensitive for them. It is best for estp and infp to stay away from each other.

[@FFakiha]

*Mission impossible*

[@ImmortalGaming551]

It’s possible lmfao

[@CuddleClaw.]

Haha. Of course it’s possible. Don’t be a selfish Biotch, and maybe the ESTP will value you. No offense.

[@AM-ut7dg]

As an infp female I really don’t see the appeal in dating an Estp male. And frankly I’m shocked there and infp women who have any interest in them.

[@sandradibiaso7316]

An ISTJ female has a better chance to get an ESTP male to commit. ESTP males don't really like people who are extremely out there with their views on life. If you talk to your stuffed animals and consider them your pets, an ESTP male will think you are too weird.

[@hnr9lt-pz7bn]

​@Moondust Chastity is their virtue.

[@ImmortalGaming551]

Lmfao. I’m a verified ESTP, and I find that cute in a girl. It’s wholesome. It wouldn’t make me not consider a relationship😂

[@ImmortalGaming551]

Also I used to do the same shit when I was younger

[@rimasoosamir8167]

AHAHHAHA. Who said we talk to stuffed animals? We have values and we read philosophy😊

[@samtula5946]

@@rimasoosamir8167 I def do lol. My studies hace names and personalities 🥴.. I’m afraid if that for romance.. people wouldn’t like me..

[@happysky7964]

Please do more infp woman/estp man videos. Thanks.

[@RachelRuhl-k6n]

I'd really love to see more infp women/espt men videos. Thank you:)

[@shanpurble]

I'm watching this and it just seems a bit too idealistic. It's fine for a woman to depend on her man but she should be financially stable beforehand as that same man could leave her at anytime regardless of how well he treated her. As an isfj, all I'm seeing is pick your poision when it comes to choosing your future spouse.

[@CSJoseph]

Seems that way, but it’s true

[@miapenttinen6406]

I think that is a good idea to have an education, because if you are a stay at home mother, and things go bad in the relationship, then you can get a jobb right away👍

[@dinaf.k5372]

Meh you are right, but lazy

[@noxiturn9245]

New video new piece of wisdom from you chase

[@maupeccin]

I needed this video.

[@hebaabozaid8321]

I'm an infp and My husband is an estp and guess what it's a horrible relationship

[@sylviaowega3839]

As an INTP woman I have had many difficulties submitting to a man, man because all the men in my life have been dismissive of my feelings; and also abuse their positions in the dominance hierarchy

[@CSJoseph]

Why are you judging your man based on all the other men?

[@sylviaowega3839]

@@CSJoseph In all honesty, I have either had very bad luck with men, or not confident enough choose the right one for me. Many guys didn’t like being with a socially awkward woman like myself. Hope that answers the question

[@33Jenesis]

I an intp single female over 60 of age. I used to have a hard time with masculinity because I didn’t see myself as less, more like equal. All my ex BFs ultimately decided that I wasn’t a wife mother material. I wasn’t. Later I made great effort to understand other types after I found MBTI. I also became conscious in valuing personality differences. It is a process of humanizing yourself and seeing others in better light (trying to). It can be impersonal but it is improvement.

[@ImmortalGaming551]

Spot on. -ESTP

[@forkymental5154]

red building + red vehicles + red people = WTF? lol

[@RoseyCreations]

Malachi 4:6 is CSJ's mission, and CSJ's mission is mine I am planning to co-parent with an INFP woman and her ESTP fiance. Primarily to emulate a tribal household, and hopefully, we will flourish with many children (and varied cognition.) This video is vital for that mission so neither one of us step on the toes of our ExTP men ❤

[@briiar-rose]

Only two caregivers are essential for the child. Having more caregivers may cause the child to develop disorganized attachment.

[@RoseyCreations]

@@briiar-rose Read The Red Tent and reevaluate

[@zephdo2971]

the best way an infp can show and recieve love is open communication

[@lilorphani]

Great video 💫

[@davidpapojr8531]

If they can connect the head and they are highly creative. Power of influence. If they meet their soulmate it will be a completely conflict-free relationship

[@SS-bu8ez]

Just avoid ESTPs. Let ISTJs handle them. All his examples are men taking their women out to eat instead of cooking for them 😂

[@stephen_101]

@5:15 That is some weird 💩...

[@FFakiha]

These videos are a fever dream.

[@kdelan7230]

is it wrong that i skip my class just to listen to this even though this particular video not directly aimed to me?

[@davidpapojr8531]

Conflict between love and hate

[@legendzfall]

brilliant. -ESTP

[@simpletomash]

What's the fence doing there?

[@davidpapojr8531]

Flawed logical systems because they're missing pieces of the puzzle

[@sylviaowega3839]

Not a good match! I know many INFP’s.

[@Beyou0120]

Are you estp? How you perceive infp's?

[@isabelledinneweth]

i realy like this video somehow

[@sylviaowega3839]

As an INTP, I choose not to be vulnerable and submit to a man, because every man have I dealt with exploited my kindness and tries to manipulate me somehow. How many men are out there that do not abuse their power and their place in their dominance hierarchy?

[@isabelledinneweth]

@@sylviaowega3839 so your plan is to stay single ?

[@sylviaowega3839]

@@isabelledinneweth No, and am married actually. The one I have now doesn’t understand, or respect my feelings

[@isabelledinneweth]

@@sylviaowega3839 just a question, if it realy does not work , why don´t you divorce ?

[@sylviaowega3839]

@@isabelledinneweth I know I probably should but have mainly stayed married for the kids and their happiness

[@rimasoosamir8167]

Why be with an ESTP, INFP? what's wrong with INTJs, INFJs, ISFPs?

[@samtula5946]

They. Don’t. Choose. Us

[@mina.t.]

I believe this same wisdom should be applied to ESTJ women towards an ESTP. Do I have this right?

[@hnr9lt-pz7bn]

​@Moondust leave them lonely? 🙄

[@klarayuzyuz]

​​@@hnr9lt-pz7bn we TE types are NEVER lonely , I have a well developed Fi , I value myself and that's enough , I'm never safe around Ti types anyway.

[@cacorn982]

@@klarayuzyuz never safe?

[@nickhyder9141]

what about an ESTP man and INFP man (same sex relationship)?

[@sylviaowega3839]

Same rules applies here! Lol

[@nickhyder9141]

@@sylviaowega3839 I guess, but ESTP gay men would like masculinity rather than femininity? What if the INFP man has expressions of dominance and masculinity? I'm guessing there's a difference overall.

[@sylviaowega3839]

@@nickhyder9141 That would depend on the role that the gay man takes, as the same is applies to guy women. I have observed that with many same sex couples, that one take the more feminine role and the other the more masculine role, depending on personality. Now my hero function is Ti, which is the most masculine of all types, so this my relationship with most straight men would go belly up as most prefer very feminine women.

[@nemesis27]

"Se" is the most masculine function not "Ti"​@@sylviaowega3839