Getting Older SUCKS... Or Does It??

[@ninjakris3004]

Absolutely hit the nail on the head. At 63,I realize I have a very limited amount of quality time left on my life clock. So I’m taking better care of myself inside and out to make sure the time I have left I can physically do what I want.

[@40OverFashion]

Good man!

[@meteor1237]

At 70 yo, still in great health and looking much younger thankfully, great marriage, all here you say John is correct. When I hit 70, I really did think I was "old". You do look back and think what little is ahead.

[@barnastil591]

I'm okay with it. I now have money to do all the stupid things I couldn't do when I was younger because I was told no or didn't have the resources.

[@beninformato9040]

John, my sincere condolences for your loss. But truthfully, getting older doesn't have to suck. Every year I feel like I get a year younger. I don't consider calendar years. Age is just the sum total of your physical condition, condition of your mind, and how you look and feel. So many people today are committing a slow death from destructive lifestyle habits - unhealthy nutrition, lack of physical exercise, vises like drinking, smoking, drugs, etc. Seriously a person can be reborn again, with vitality and vigor with with proper lifestyle choices.

[@DougHardy541]

As the expression goes, youth is wasted on the young. Constantly regretting risks not taken or reflecting on past failures will drive you to madness. Do what you can in the present to be your best-it’s a noble goal and is truly all you can possibly do.

[@40OverFashion]

Well said!

[@Rockin_Stroll]

When I turned 40, I said to myself "I'm just going to enjoy the process". I've been travelling and dating more in my 40s than my 20's and 30's combined. Great clip, thanx 40 Over Fashion!

[@40OverFashion]

Love that!

[@michaelleavitt3834]

Lots of people don’t get the opportunity to get older. Make the most of every day. Not promised tomorrow. Great point about those of us with more time behind us than in front of us. But in reality that is an assumption because unfortunately not everyone lives into their 70’s or 80’s. They guy who is 20 doesn’t realize a heart condition not diagnosed will kill him I’m a few years. One day at a time and make the most of each trip around the sun😁

[@aquicktake]

Well said brother.

[@Rockin_Stroll]

Good point, look at covid too, right. Gotta enjoy every day.

[@roiijamez33]

A cool movie about getting older "Middle Age Crazy".

[@musicmanMJS]

Great video! 👍🏻 I've lost both parents, almost lost my brother and almost lost me with Sepsis and a 20 day coma during an 8 week hospital stay in 2020. I'm back to working out and calling square dances all over the world, helping to heal every heart I encounter. I love your videos. Keep 'em coming!

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you! Glad you’re still here!

[@angusm9419]

I'm sure glad I found this channel. Great information from a likeable cat.

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you very much!

[@noName-kn1lx]

i never thought it possible but im pretty happy in my 50s. It seems all the dumb stuff faded away and i became the person i could be and wanted to be. Knowing im in the last third of my life, i appreciate things more, let things slide much easier and enjoy each day more instead of the constant worry when you are younger about a million different things

[@johnnyfreedom4117]

Well done, I appreciate your thoughts. I lost all 3 brothers. The oldest when I was 17 to suicide. The second oldest at 32 to brain cancer, and my younger twin at 46 to malpractice/heart attack (he was in a care home, he had cerebral palsy that got worse as he got older, long story). It can be overwhelming, but I think of them as well as my parents long passed as well, as 'My Posse'. I also volunteered in Oncology for a year at the Childrens Hospital, and I've always tried to look at is 'I could be a five year old Orphan in Haiti or somewhere'. Stay busy, try to be productive, not easy, but all we can do is try. Best wishes everyone, keep your heads up!

[@ronm6585]

Thanks John. Cheers!

[@40OverFashion]

Cheers!

[@dannycaruso9506]

Great video John I'm 61 and over the past week I've been talking to my older sister about this topic keep up the great work always took forward to your vidios

[@lazarocacereslc]

Good morning John, thank you I needed that. Keep up the good work.

[@40OverFashion]

Thanks, will do!

[@paul0wen65]

Good stuff, good sir. At 57 going on 58, and in this post pandemic situation, the losses were brutal. My best friend of 35 years passed away 3 years ago and then another dear friend 2 years ago this month with several in between. I learned early in life, 38-40's to do what you hit upon in this one. Yes, life changes us and how we embrace it matters. Thanks for the reminders John, you are doing us all a service.

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you very much!

[@Mr.A_LDN]

I lost my father in May and it's really given me a kick up the backside to start living and getting out of my comfort zone. I'm definitely guilty of getting stuck in the same old routine of get up early, gym, work, watch tv, bed and repeat. Since then though, I'm really trying to push myself to try new things. I've started going to the theatre, gigs and even hot yoga (in fact i'm even going on a yoga retreat-something that I never would have considered before-especially as someone who has social anxiety!) Oh, and a skydive! Making sure I book more travel to see more of the world too. It's an old cliche but, life really is too short and sometimes you need something horrible to happen to inspire something wonderful going forward. And yes, not all of things I try I'll like, in fact i'm sure somethings i'll probably hate but, at least i'll have tried and that's better than doing nothing at all. Thanks John for all the continued great content on your channel 🙏🏻

[@40OverFashion]

You’re very welcome! Thank you for sharing!

[@computerrefurbishment9748]

Theatre is a good place to network. Got talking to some interesting people sitting at my side.

[@paulschultz5873]

John! You know I love you man,, but I think that as a 51yo with grown up kids, I'm seeing more to life. I take on a lot of the joys and sadness that my 20 something y/o kids go through.. It adds another viewpoint that enhances my perception of what is important in life. Getting older ain't all that bad, it's just an attitude adjustment. I Always appreciate the commentary my friend. Everyone has their own journey, and I'm glad that you are a part of mine. Cheers Paul.

[@40OverFashion]

Cheers! Thanks for commenting!

[@spicykimchi1]

Thanks for making this video. I just hit the big 5-0 yesterday. It still feels weird, but at the same time, I felt more overwhelmed when I hit 30 and 40. Yesterday, I thought, "For being 50, I look young; my blood-sugar levels are low; my T-levels are good, and I'm getting into shape. Plus, I'm uprooting next week and am looking forward to new adventures. And if you're curious, I treated myself to a suede bomber jacket from Banana Republic, a pair of Johnston & Murphy leather sneakers, and some more Anson Belts (the later, I learned about through your channel.)

[@40OverFashion]

Happy Birthday!

[@Mike----]

Hi John. A few quick thoughts. Thanks for the insightful content. There's something about knowing I'm not alone in this phase of life that makes it something I look forward to. Also, great shirt and the new angle in the background adds depth and variety but isn't distracting at all. Well done, my friend.

[@christopherbarker976]

Hi John good to see you are expanding your repertoire because there are so many things you can help you followers with . Regards Christopher Barker

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you!

[@roberthillard6706]

Always enjoy your content John, you say it as it is, no pretention, no BS, just straight honest opinion. I think a lot of us get wrapped up in everyday stuff, supporting this, providing for that etc, and maybe forget who we are and the importance to consider our own needs along the way. Thanks for the reminders.

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you Robert!

[@KevinDSmith-wf6nn]

Once again, you share amazing content. Thank you for being so relevant

[@40OverFashion]

My pleasure!

[@gilbertgomes8428]

I love the way you impart how to value time and yourself. I always find your videos useful. Thanks

[@40OverFashion]

You are so welcome!

[@demongo2007]

Really great video, thank you. I’m an older guy and have been feeling very down about it the last couple months. We’re a product of our past but we have agency for our future and choice in how we want to live our best lives.

[@40OverFashion]

Absolutely!

[@DesertMav]

Very solid topic for today's video. Im only in my mid 30s, but I do feel like I'm aging. My parents both deal with health issues that really put perspective on how much time we really have left being active in our lives. I also recently found out that one of my cousins passed away and it makes me think about how my family overall is aging. At the end of the day all we can do is to do the best we can for as long as we can.

[@ninjakris3004]

Exactly! I’m S as Mercian born Japanese and own a gym, been active n fit all my life. You’d think my lifestyle and Japanese heritage would project me into a fit lifestyle well into my 80’s. Jan this year I had my right upper lobe removed for cancer. (30 minutes prior to my surgery, Jan 23rd I was watching and responding to one of John’s videos) then 3 months later, April 23rd I had a pacemaker installed! Both unrelated and absolutely no symptoms! I look good and feel good.. little would you think I have these issues lurking. Never smoked, but heart issues and cancer have taken my Dad, Mom and 2 brothers. I’ll do my part, at least until my crypto pays off! lol 😂

[@brunopaolucci6054]

Well said John👍

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you!

[@ronsubeh5084]

I love your style and I totally cop hints and tips from you! Could you please do a video on dark blue dress sneakers? I just got some from Thursday, and I need some inspiration. Thanks for what you do!

[@40OverFashion]

Great timing! Watch this Thursday!!

[@ericl7842]

I have all these conversations with myself while driving.... it can be depressing, very depressing... but then i try to think, "I'm glad i made it through those years... and hopefully a better person". Much love John, great video! #legend

[@40OverFashion]

Thanks for sharing! Cheers!

[@Sonny0276]

Great Video. Thank you for posting.

[@40OverFashion]

Glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for watching!

[@markchiz64]

There is no expiration date for your life. Each day is a blessing. Make the best of it, and experience and wisdom are awesome tools to use as we get older.

[@40OverFashion]

Love that!

[@garysandberg3259]

Something you would appreciate. Just completed my Introductory race driver training course - has always been a bucket list thing. So, now eligible for my Novice race driver's licence. Not bad for 65?

[@40OverFashion]

Love it! Keep the shiny side up!

[@garysandberg3259]

The other aspect (not to come across as an A$$hat), but drove my 1986 Ferrari 328 GTS. Yes, targa roof off. Yes, wore an Aloha shirt. Obviously the Chief Instructor suggested my driver's nickname be "Magnum". Only intending lap days or vintage racing. Still, did it!!!

[@moneyfornothing3264]

Good stuff John!! Legend!!

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you very much! Legend!

[@ronwren1]

Does getting older suck?Yes.

[@strangerdanger8462]

Would you rather die young?

[@ronwren1]

@@strangerdanger8462 No,but it still sucks.

[@paulconway384]

Especially after 50.

[@russellhobbs1356]

Hit the mail on the head, John. Thanks. My dad used to say ‘life is short, enjoy it’. Realise what he meant as I have got older. Certainly my mantra now. All the best.

[@40OverFashion]

Well said!

[@kawasakiwhiptwo5821]

57. Never Married,no kids (probably gave myself another ten years) LOL!!! My only goal from here on out is to be as happy as I can. I'm close to my family and I love that I have as much time to myself as I like. Happiness...that's the key.

[@40OverFashion]

Absolutely!

[@richardmalig42]

What you said.....is totally true.....esp when you lose a handful of close friends n relations......I just touch 70.....unbelievable but lucky still look young n health ok....dont smoke......guess you have to live each day n make the best of it......people change....only a few stick by you....also thankful for my life now......as they say....tomorrow is promised to no one....be kind to others n do good.....also do give thanks n pray to God.......

[@bsumm1473]

Great video John!

[@40OverFashion]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@thedevilsadvocate3710]

Getting older is a tradeoff. You should have gained enlightenment and learned to become more efficient with everything you do. When you're young, your body is in a state where it can survive your mistakes. When you're older, you can't afford to make the same mistakes as when you were younger.

[@40OverFashion]

Well said!

[@crestfinancehrconsulting6727]

Great, love this

[@40OverFashion]

Much appreciated!

[@jerrylavalley32]

Hi John, at age 72, life for me, is magnificent!! I do 20 minutes of yoga each day (yoga with Adrienne on youtube is great!), I am 6 feet tall and weigh 175 pounds, I started playing guitar 4 years ago to engage my brain and help my cognition and love it, I still work 3 1/2 days per week, and plan to continue, it keeps me on a schedule and engaged in life, and I take numerous vitamins and supplements that my girlfriend (she is a nutritionist, and dietition), has for me, in addition to eating only organic foods and wild caught fish and grass fed meat, and I feel great!! In fact, I have people tell me I look like I am 60 years old, a good thing for the ego. My key, in addition to staying active, is to stay positive, find a spiritual side that helps get over challenges, and eliminate drama and those people that cause stress. Anyone can do this, but it takes effort, and I find many friends of mine won't exert the effort to take care of themselves, and what a shame. Keep up with your videos, they are excellent and thank you for all you do for us guys.

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you very much Jerry!

[@brianrocks7277]

No it sucks🤣

[@markw4263]

Time only runs one way - you move forward (i.e., older) so you gotta do the best you can with that unavoidable fact. Keep learning, keep your eyes open, and do things that work. And don't just sit on your ass and complain.

[@40OverFashion]

Well put!

[@scottgibbs5903]

Try figuring this out when you’ve been married for 46 years!

[@michealdagostino6972]

im 60 years old and looks like im moving to italy as i have become romantically involved with a beautiful lady we met 5 years ago then lost contact .....i recently holidayed there and we reconnected ...something sparked and i thought i have to give this a shot otherwise i will regret it for the rest of my life....its daunting and exciting at the same time dont give up guys ...go for it pursue your dreams whatever they may be .....at any age

[@40OverFashion]

Love it! Best of luck!

[@michealdagostino6972]

Thank you john always enjoy your videos 🙏

[@zeroceiling]

It’s interesting, when you ask someone of an advanced age..perhaps mid 90’s…about life and being that age, almost all of them will say that what is perhaps most perplexing is that on the inside, they still feel like they might be 24 years old…while in a body that simply does not work as well, surrounded by pains and aches along with endless memories. So it is…I don’t think we ever see ourselves much beyond the point of being out there on your own as Bob Dylan might say…we just transition from scenes that have us portraying different characters while the inside remains the same. One day you are a father…then an empty nester…then perhaps a widower…but still looking out at the world through eyes of a someone that can’t quite believe that this soul is suddenly looking out at the world through the prism of age.

[@silversteel6312]

Why isn’t it ‘Family and Friends’ as opposed to the usual ‘Friends and Fanily’?

[@bretcampos9048]

Great content as always. I'm not sure about the afterlife but I do believe I make my own heaven or hell every single day here on earth. It's my choice which one it is. Married 30 years with grown kids. Wife is a sexy as ever and I feel like I am honeymooning every day. Love your channel - You have inspired me to get fit (Down 30 pounds), wear fitted clothes and clean up my appearance. You know what makes clothes look great? A fit body to wear them. Kee the content coming.

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you very much! Love to hear that!

[@albertbradfield1945]

Some men have a mid-life crisis, I had a toddler. enjoy what you have while you have it.

[@fuadtaghizade]

Oh man, this video is absolutely about me. I don't feel any satisfaction in my 46. It started long time ago when I was 38. And the worst thing is that I always look back and recall my past and opportunities I ignored. And you always feel like "I would have absolutely different life if I did or did not do.....something in the past. It's a little bit hard to get satisfaction over 40. It is true we all should start doing something new, getting new skills and work on yourself

[@gjd8849]

No one has a choice about getting older. Our only choice is to cherish every day, or squander those days on pointless activities and relationships. Looking back and wishing things were different then is one of those pointless activities.

[@40OverFashion]

Well said!

[@alpabopo]

Nah

[@Joey4420]

And as always, "You at a true Legend"

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you!

[@vladimirjakube8562]

Yet more shameless commercial advertising. How do you respond, 40OverFashion?

[@40OverFashion]

How do I respond? I’ve made it very clear that this is my full-time job and it’s how I pay the bills. Ad revenue alone doesn’t cut it, so brand deals are essential. I’m proud of what I do and I won’t apologize for taking brand deals.

[@ronaldpass8885]

Your picture in the initial introduction to this, KZbin was dramatic. I think you with a white beard and white hair made you look much older in my opinion so I see a need to put a little darkness in your hair and beard. What do you think?

[@noName-kn1lx]

Getting older does suck if.. you are obese/unhealthy or broke or friendless or refuse to try anything new

[@karmasutra4774]

Your videos are really resonating with me. I also lost my sister to suicide when I was 14. I am sure that trauma shaped my life in ways I didn't realize

[@40OverFashion]

Thanks for sharing!

[@chrisb3902]

Great video John!!

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you!

[@Joe-oo3gi]

Great stuff John 👍

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you!