GIRL CHAT: What Would Your Exes Say About You?

Real fam, if all of your exes got together, what would they say about you?

[@nishadh366]

If I was on that table I would answer truthfully "they would say I'm annoying, needy, and over dramatic" lmao

[@TheLnGirl]

I think my ex, probably just like Tamera's would just call me prude and say "She just wouldn't give it up"

[@anahywho3943]

This is more relatable than “I love too hard”. 😂

[@eagletmars]

Foreal. They were all lying their butts off

[@ladiired00]

Lol at least you're honest

[@rorosung1026]

if they actually asked their exes we'd be hearing whole a lot of different stories 😂😂

[@lovechocolatemuffins]

Yes

[@chileplease960]

100%

[@jadawashington1234]

i swear 😂😂😂

[@queenjoycole9710]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@tarawrr20]

My exes wouldn’t agree on anything about me. I was a very different person with each one cause I was always growing.

[@hwwh8145]

This is the most honest and mature comment I've seen here. God bless your growth

[@gloriachepkirui1317]

I can't agree more!

[@cindys2995]

GREAT point!

[@DeeRM.]

Exactly!

[@kurlzs]

WRONG ANSWER you aren’t your ex .. these are what you WANT them to say about you.

[@lovechocolatemuffins]

Ikr

[@jevonmcpherson8054]

Agreed. Its a crap topic of conversation to have without your exes present to be honest, you not gonna get anywhere or learn anything. They are not the correct source of the information.

[@dianwulandari5767]

Exactly ! It wasnt a real topic...

[@tashliketrash9350]

The better question would be “what do you think your exes would say about you)

[@cindys2995]

They are delusional - complimenting themselves. You are broken up for a REASON and it always takes TWO!

[@squidwardtentacles7144]

"Silence is the best comeback ever" - Adrienne Bailon 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@ashleysalcido2421]

Man but I be having things to say,guess that's fuel to fire

[@ojonkemdilim2227]

I love Tamera's playful nature , she is beautiful, she's everything, I love her.

[@mangosandtea]

“Can he talk? That’s the problem” 😂😂😂😂

[@substantianigra4789]

Everyone claiming they LOVE hard getting a sideeye from me. People aren't good judges of themselves anyway so this segment is dumb. They should have contacted the exes and gotten what they would say, now that would have been DRAMA

[@Shakeybaby58]

Love hard is code for clingy

[@gmedia-tv5069]

Omg 😮 tamera is so pretty

[@savvyc2182]

This is Tameras best look in my opinion. The hair, the outfit. She shined this episode.

[@itzy0763]

Tamera looks absolutely beautiful here! One of my favorite looks of her for sure

[@patriciamarie9802]

It's like all the girls are trying to prove theirselves to each other by making their self sounds so good and talking so great about themselves too funny LOL 😂🤣

[@scoobie8amg]

Lots of ego from these answers.

[@squidwardtentacles7144]

Yeah they didn't mentioned the flaws of their relationship

[@iiaresara]

LMAO 😂 I was thinking the same thing

[@sreejoyeeroychowdhury1743]

Tamera briefly did

[@slothyy6732]

Mine would say that my communication skills need work, that i need to be more confident in myself, and that i need to understand the “other side” of things. Just being real😁

[@aaliyahalldayy]

I don't usually comment but this is EXACTLY me

[@patiencemuhindakazi5832]

Oh my that's me

[@julovedit814]

They know they lying 🤥😂

[@MountaintravelerEddie]

Julovedit FUCKING A RIGHT THEY BE LYING THIER SLIMY TWATWAFFLES OFF

[@lovechocolatemuffins]

Ikr

[@xoxospam2708]

eddieg1979 calm down

[@MountaintravelerEddie]

soof nijl Hey, I’m calm....just the way I talk after being retired from the Marine Corps...

[@MajesticMyronn]

I love when Remy is on the show... she is just a breath of fresh air and has such genuine chemistry off and on camera ( a lot of friends of the dhow who have guest hosted do ) so for me it would be hard to choose who could be in the middle chair.... but whoever has guest hosted before would be a perfect fit no matter who it is !

[@ChanelDolls]

They’re being a bit big headed... you’re not with them anymore for a reason so clearly u weren’t as perfect as u thought u were otherwise your exes wouldn’t be exes🤦🏽‍♀️ it’s okay to admit u weren’t the best in a relationship

[@crankdattaytay]

Chanel Dolls that’s not always the case. Some relationships just drift apart. They don’t have to end because there was something wrong either someone.

[@amiraai.8627]

Exactly! They were too focused on their pros as a partner rather than keeping it real.

[@lovechocolatemuffins]

Ikr

[@RandySoWavvy]

Well Adrienne we know what one of her Exes thought about her 😂😂😂😂 Rob Kardashian was obsessed with her she’ll forever be the one that got away from him. He tried repeatedly for years to get her back and tried everything from publicly apologizing to showing up at her place to outright begging for her to give him another chance. Her leaving him was what kicked started his depression

[@JR_Cargile]

Jeanie has never had the last word on this show she had to fight cause she's always getting interrupted or can't finish a point she's making 😂

[@anoelsilliw5256]

"Vented" means negative things, y'all...mine would say "she kinda crazy, not trusting but naive at the same time, talks back, dramatic, prude, and thinks too far ahead" That's real, though.

[@fleurbloem5462]

the question was, what would they VENT about, not what they liked about you... 🙄

[@kiani.walker]

I bet all their ex’s think they’re lowkey crazy 😂

[@Bintyyyy]

Tbh low key jeanie is the freakiest

[@KO-OG-Passport-Bro-1997]

NOTHING low key about her. lol

[@IWill4everBeSamurai]

Jeannie loves hard but is pretty serious and sometimes too heavy to take in that's why i guess guys eventually leaves her..

[@ty31555]

And Tamera lol

[@stayroxy]

these people are delusional, if your exes were at a table they would be bashing all of us like no tomorrow! come on now

[@thetwiistedtee]

Exactly

[@FkcnVina]

I think mine would say that I was a selfish crazy biatch 🤷🏻‍♀️ but that’s cool

[@RandySoWavvy]

Bd from the 213 it depends what they’re labeling selfish. I got labeled selfish because I wasn’t making time for them but when I got with all of them they knew from the start I had a very hectic life and I was running a full time business they all said the same thing they didn’t care they respected my hustle and grind and was fine only seeing each other once or twice a week then somewhere they get clingy and want all my time that’s not a me problem #SorryNotSorry 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@Darknlovelyone85]

Lmao yep

[@jenniferwarmkessel6905]

I LOVE LONI SHE KEPT IT REALLY REAL LMFAOOOOO

[@EmileeBreeana19]

Lmao this was not “real” at all, this is what y’all want them to say.this reminded me of Michael Scott talking about how his strengths are actually his weaknesses “i work too hard, i care too much” etc🙄😂

[@Nashywiththevybz]

Tamera and Jeanie face 😂😂😂

[@Th3h3kka]

Their faces 8:03-8:07 dropped real quick hahahahaha

[@fuyoutube5708]

I wish I knew what it was

[@rachhnicole933]

I can’t with Adrian “I will sit on your stomach and we gone talk about this” lol 😂😭😂😂🙃

[@malekaatkinson2857]

Adrienne looks fabulous😍

[@josephinescere6086]

Oh come on😒 not one of y’all was crazy as hell?!!

[@lolamoon7296]

Nah they were/are, they just don’t have the guy and recognition to admit that portion of character.

[@ethiopianqueen5945]

You know it is an old video, when it is longer than 10min hahah.

[@WhatEver-mv6qi]

I dont have any exes SO YAAAY ME.

[@lx9414]

They’re faces when loni said that 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@benjohnson8963]

whatd she sayy

[@alessiajoy2906]

@@benjohnson8963 probably that she blew them all

[@nashelrt132]

LMAOOOO when tamera and jeannie reacted at the same time😂

[@angelxe1]

i hate when my husband does something unprovoked and makes me all mad or upset and then he goes and sleeps all soundly. i just want to wake him up and have him make me feel better so i can sleep too.

[@yankeeharp]

I’m that one who says “you can have the last word.. pick one, say it, and shut up”

[@h-shmoneyyy7677]

If Tamera mentions this “wifey” nickname again I’m gonna scream 😭😭 Girl that’s everybody nickname at some point lol

[@TT.3123]

No but shes “the prize”

[@alyssasilvabeauty]

Make remy part of the show permanently!!

[@kiimchichi]

if i hear adrienne boast about not ever being dumped one more time. srsly. that's common for a lot of females, like get off your high horse. smh. it has nothing to do with what your ex's would say about you, why even bring that up

[@emeralddaughters]

She gave herself away when she admitted that she let her boyfriends get away with more than they should have. She's mentioned how she was very insecure in her relationships, but her stories were prefaced with "it happened to a gf of hers". So likely she hung on to them as much as she could have.

[@hwwh8145]

Common with a lot of women* A female can be anything from a squirrel to a whole whale.

[@Samsam-vq4se]

why you so mad

[@kar3n35]

They would all say "we couldnt tamed her, we couldnt break her. She was, she is, and will be the best we ever had...we fucked up".

[@rockinprincess357]

I want to now what lip glass Adrian HAS!!!!! GIRLL TELL MEEE! I want it!

[@MajesticMyronn]

When it comes to having the last word.... I’m not petty like that... I feel like if things get too heated... I’d rather them have the last word because that way we can reach a happy medium later on ( once things are cooled down ) and solve the issue depending on whatever the hell it is we are arguing about!

[@marywrenn5262]

I've got better with age with not going back and forth in an argument. I can't be bothered with it at 44. My husband hates when I use the phrase we'll agree to disagree because he needs to be right and for me to agree with him. But if I don't, I just don't and I am not going to have a 2hr argument going in circles. I have always been fiery, but have also learned to just be done when it's a stupid disagreement.

[@roenaskates5485]

They would say she was so nice, but I was not ready!😤

[@neilacriss8840]

Omg am just in love with this show

[@Taylor112996]

My exes would say I'm stubborn but that I'm always well-intentioned, and I give every part of me when I'm with you. They would probably say I'm like overly-commital if that's a thing lmao

[@adriennemones6029]

Omgawd LONIS MAKEUP, HER MOOD, HER LAUGH WOW ONE WORD. FIRE!

[@Chaptersaudio]

Oh my exes would all say the exact same thing. Like Jeanne my exes would say *"Belinda is too controlling, pushed me to advance in my career and too much of a romantic."* I'm with Tam and Israel, I don't like conflict, so if it is with someone I love or close friend, I'll just it go. But....when online, especially if it relates to politics...I am like a dog chomping on a bone! I will not let go!🤭🤭🤭

[@phillipswatson3452]

😎SWEETIE ....I SENSE THAT YOU ARE CONTROLLING WHEN I COME ACROSS YOUR COMMENTS😜LOL😝MAY I ASK WHAT KIND OF CAREER DO YOU HAVE??

[@Chaptersaudio]

@@phillipswatson3452 Your point? I am controlling. I'm missing your point.

[@phillipswatson3452]

@@Chaptersaudio 😎 EXACTLY WHAT YOU SAID ADVANCE IN THERE CAREER! !

[@Chaptersaudio]

@@phillipswatson3452 I believe you meant "their" not there. Sounds like you need a woman to educate you. Stupid!

[@phillipswatson3452]

@@Chaptersaudio 😎 😜LOL😝SOUR PUSS YOU SWITCH GEARS FROM CAREER TO "THEIR"....THAT'S WHAT YOU CALL LACK OF EDUCATION/INTELLIGENCE SMDH LITTLE GIRL 💃BYE🏃

[@RTA6226]

I'm like Adrienne. I broke off all my relationships. A couple of them were amicable a couple of them were nasty! All of them would say that 1) I'm not easy to get to know at first, 2) I do NOT start relationships in the sack. If you need to go because of that, PLEASE do! 3) In public I'm reserved with our love ('coz I feel it ain't nobody's business), 4) I'm 360 in private, 5) I'm into cleanliness, neatness and professionalism 6) I'm the poster child of the career woman 7) Lots of energy, sense of humor, is compassionate, fun, fun with intellectual debating, 8) Am not into astrology though I have the so called Taurean butt and temper, (if you TRY me, as Tamar says). 9) Spirituality, family, veganism and music are the number 1's in my life! 10) I'm very different but a good person. DAMN! It's a wonder I even have a man or have ever dated at all! 😄😃😅 What about you guys?

[@danielaachury7095]

When I have the last word I think I win because the person didn't find anymore things to say that contradict my argument. But it's true, however that the other person might just get tired of you so they stop talking. 😭

[@taylorhendricks7249]

My exes would all have different things to say because I was different in each relationship but they would all agree I am crazy! 😂😂😂

[@rebeccanurse8021]

My exes would have to agree that I was hurting and I was too selfless for my own good. They all told me this when I ended things because it was too hard on both of us.

[@yanicelindsay913]

The dude at 8:31 turned purple 😂

[@y0urlillyness]

I think the consensus among my exes would be that I'm stubborn and overly emotional.... one would probably say I'm selfish too, but to that I say there's two sides to every story

[@miarabea401]

My ex would probably say that I was sweet, attractive, smart, understanding, empathetic, laid back and fun to be around but also dramatic, selfish, clingy, crying to much and passive aggressive. He broke up with me because he moved to another country and the last month of the relationship really fucked me up emotionally that’s why there are almost as many bad things as there are good things. At least I hope he remembers the good things, cause we had a really good relationship but he knew it couldn’t have lastet in a long distance relationship and I think he was right.

[@cindys2995]

I feel like they all, except Lonnie, were a little delusional.....lol! My exes would say, bossy, demanding, CHATTERBOX, greedy, super independent. LOL!

[@tiffdawn4428]

I feel like they’re telling their side. Cause I can definitely pin point where I messed up with some of my exes. You can love hard, be a good bf/gf and still make mistakes. I believe Tamera the most tho

[@amethystwolf24572]

I'm learning how to let the argument drop. We're both learning to argue civilly. But it sounds like I'm like Adam...I have a tendency to just keep going over it and over it. But I'm learning to be more solution driven. Arguments need to be productive.

[@marshajulessa2995]

same, truthfully, as remy ma, i like the video games, sports sundays, and like jeannie i had tunes for every situation, and helped with their career (i'm a planner by nature).I'm good friends with my exes (few i have) I don't believe that whole you need to hate your ex foolishness. life it too short to hold onto grudges...you need to try to forgive, and move on with your life..

[@jennytorres825]

Tamera and Jeannies faces were priceless haha

[@john4ever01]

I thought it was very ironic and funny how Jeannie said she grew out of it and wanted better etc when she actually said she knew after a year of marriage with Freddy she knew it wouldnt last like cmonnnnn girl dont lieee you wasted 9 more years with him for WHA

[@LucyLugano]

Tamera's look here is life!! 🔥

[@JuanMartinezYouTube]

Love you guys!

[@Urmomlovesyoutube]

I'm a tamara! I'm an avoider, I dont want to talk about it, I will let you have the last word. bye I'm at peace so you should be too...

[@PapaGilbert18]

I seriously don’t understand what “loving hard.” Wtf does that mean?

[@carolineg2024]

Instead of taking time slowly to fall in love and giving bits at a time they put in there all and everything, all emotions, time, money... Not logically understanding they could not be the one and hold back until they were sure ... I love hard, if Im dating them I give my everything rather then taking my time with them

[@leticiacordovamartinez8824]

Also that they may have ignored red flags that they shouldn’t have. They let their ex boyfriends get away with more than they should’ve. That they gave until they had nothing else to give- their time, effort, peace, sanity, money, respect, attention, patience.

[@vanessacopland]

Jeannie... a capricorn to your heart... 👍🏼

[@hadirtsasworld]

Yes Tam.. I can relate,😂 always wanted to get married😷 and dramatic too

[@victoriajohn6486]

This is the most excited I’ve seen the audience for a guest

[@RandySoWavvy]

Lol my exes would say I’m Bossy, Controlling, funny, charming, emotionless, selfish, self centered, loud, forgetful, condescending, and hurtful. My babe who I’ve been with for a year now would say I’m laid back, chill, easygoing, romantic, selfless, protective, caring, loving, kind, goofy, flashy, funny, charming, and cheesy. It really comes down to who you’re with when you’re with the right person your guard comes down and you can just be you. My woman gets the 100% genuine me while my exes got maybe 35-40% me I was closed off and wasn’t doing the emotional attachment or because I wouldn’t open up about my feelings that automatically in their minds meant cold hearted and emotionless 🤷🏾‍♀️ and at the end all they did was make me close down more. Lol I know this is what my exes thoughts on me are because they’ve told me and I still dgaf 😂😂😂😂

[@derice7375]

You know what ladies, relationship needs 3 things, sacrifice, mutual respect,affection, love.i agreed with tamera, arguments dont resolve problems, i would let my wife set the last word to give her more respect.how could you expect the relationship to last if the man is a breadwinner, works 12 hours a day, pays all the bills, and then you dont support him.and show him some affection and respect by cleaning his clothes and cooking.

[@TheLnGirl]

Didn't Jeannie say she was a side chick and that dude was her side boo in one of these throwback videos? I don't think the "main" boo would say she loved hard. 🤷‍♀️ Maybe she was talking about After Jesus Jeannie?

[@naezie0439]

I so know what Loni said coz I would say the same thing too daaahahahaha!! Frikken love her so much 🤣

[@karmaisacat9]

Aww Remy was so sweet in the beginning! Lovely words.

[@chrystaln1709]

I was a bit immature during my last relationship. He was too. But i was to young to understand how it works. Plus he didnt respect me and i didnt give it back

[@jaylixs2967]

The way the silence then the look omggg

[@ValentinoQ]

My ex made a video on KZbin calling me a “Mandingo bedwinch” 😂🤣😂 I guess he was mad I moved on 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@wambuimuturi7506]

Valentíno Quiñones oh my 😱 yes he was mad you moved on 😂

[@Michelle-ss8km]

What is a Mandingo bedwinch? I’m sorry don’t speak English and google traductor didn’t help 🤣

[@ValentinoQ]

@@Michelle-ss8km haha I spelled "wench" wrong to make sure the comment didnt get filtered out, but basically a "bed W3nch" was used for black women who married white men "for financial and societal gain." and then Mandingo is just a man with a large peepee haha

[@odalisneira2845]

they would all say different things because I was in a different place in my life in each relationship. the relationship isn’t the same with each person.

[@Shyyannek]

Reny Ma guests on The Real more times than Adrianne washes her hands 😂

[@Noemieorokia]

So... what about keeping it real?? Come on ladies !!!

[@mommabear2550]

My first cheated and left our child when he was two and tried to get back with me like 3 times. Everytime I said no and he left our child again. My second was manipulative and was a compulsive liar like....he tried to say he wrote this poem about two young men got up to fight or some blah blah but it's a known poem type of liar. My third is so calm and responsible so idk what they should agree on because they all brought different sides of me out.

[@samanthasullivan4335]

I love how A can count her exes. Girl not all of us can lmao

[@bleudiamondbleu]

That’s sad

[@unknownmangafreak]

People on that table are confident 😂🤣

[@henrybrown9711]

I seriously doubt that all their exes would said half the stuff that these ladies are saying. Even in good relationships, people annoy one another. For example: what you may consider pushing him to better himself and constructive criticism; he MAY see it as nagging and complaining. It's coming from the exes point of view, not yours.

[@megaman7007]

All I heard was lies, lies, lies coming out their mouths!!! You know damn well that all their ex's would say a lot more honest things about them and how they really are behind closed doors!!! They all act irrational, over emotional, dramatic and overbearing!!!

[@luzkairyromero8167]

ummm well we wouldn’t know unless the exes were saying it...

[@gloriaalorwoyie6317]

Well Remy was true

[@paprika7930]

Jesus, calm down...

[@533134]

My ex’s would say she’s stubborn, picky, quirky and smart.

[@dancinginthepurplereign4126]

At 22 I started doing innerwork. But before that I let them walk all over me. I was a doormat. I was bad at communicating my feelings. I was also a people pleaser. Now I am the girl who is quick to call you out on your bullshit. I am more graceful and I don't take things personally. But the concensus will be that I am loving and graceful. But with low standards

[@RTA6226]

Oh my!! WELL, we know what they bleeped out on Lonnie's remark. DAMN!!!

[@Aj-gk1tx]

Finally some longer clips

[@stanleyray]

I'm like Tamera, I apsolutely DO NOT like confrontation😭🙄but I'm like Loni too as far as it probably would also just depend on who it is and the situation

[@y0urlillyness]

I don't like confrontation either but if you push me into a corner you're gonna get a confrontation you weren't ready for. Lol. I can count the number of times that's happened cause I avoid it like the plague.

[@morganp5040]

I've been told by every ex that I was the best girlfriend and they couldn't handle that

[@olgakianda1933]

when is tam not saying loni in that voice 😭😂

[@riceg0bblr]

they're allllll lying lmao

[@maddymarie4075]

“Now I wanna hit you” *THANK YOU* 😂😂

[@Thewifelife40]

There was a topic about what you could do to keep your man from cheating on you, Adrienne had a lot of advice, she has been cheated on by most of her exes..and to say you are the best they ever had in the bedroom means sex isn't everything...

[@tiohannebarrett7342]

They would say my mouth is disrespectful 😂

[@kamoyaburke4097]

Remy's teeth look really white and she looka absolutely stunning .... All of them included

[@afrolatina6718]

I swear I have a lot in common with Adrienne

[@MNDfulMikala]

My exes would say, "man she's crazy right?" I dont care because I am a little crazy and strong headed but its the truth.

[@Bobbish420]

Me screaming around and clapping by myself haha